I simplified behaviors thanks for sharing P= pleading for them to stay U= unesasy crying: crying to be see or heard S= starting fights: selecting wrongs they did H=hovering, hunting for hidden motives.
We have individual differences.. if you always allow them to leave because they say they want some air or whatsoever excuses for me is not true.. especially when they are cheating.. I stop my husband leaving when when we fight i beg him for us to resolve the fight in a calm way.. You’ll never resolve problems if you always let them leave you.. it will continue over and over again.. every time you want to talk they will find excuse to leave again.. its easy to say.. but when youre in the situation its really far different from what you are saying..
Although you cannot control your spouse, there are things you can do to attract them back without manipulating or controlling them. We would recommend you watch this video: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-ggb8C1rHQQs.html Call in and speak with one of our Client Representatives by calling 1 (866) 903 0990!
Being too needy is gross. Your goobery, grabby, sticky behavior is gross and that is why they want to leave. Improve yourself, that is interesting. Do that! Leave your poor spouse alone and up your game!
i need help my fiance went out to lunch with a male friend shes female who has sent her innapropriate texts before and i asked her not to talk to him anymore years ago when we first got together she daid no cuz he was a longtime friend then she took our kids to see him while on vacation in cakifornia and i wasnt there she never tokd me i snooped thru her phone i called her out and we have been fighting for a month she acts like she did othing wrong and claims she didnt cheat but idk and now shes pregnsnt what do i do????
I could agree with you but I actually think they know the main problems that marriage is facing But some people spell the same problem with different letters so they are repeating it to reach those who spelled it differently I think and I think they need people to know that they have the help there so they dont release solutions only identify the problem and tell you where the solution can be found 🅰️💯
Last 25th December 2019,She said," i cannot .." and both the party (her side and mine side) decided to end it(our 6 years of togetherness)and decision letter was signed by both parties as meeting was made to discuss regarding our relationship. I am still in shock. Coz, there was no big enough reason for doing this. Even though she cheated on me . I did not really wanted to leave this relationship. Its causing me so much of pain alone and and i m in trauma ..:(...i dont know what to do now..!? Decision is already made..:(
We are so sorry to hear your pain. However, divorce does not neccesarily mean that the marriage cannot be saved anymore. We recommend you watch this video that Dr. Joe Beam created: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-oXbbqSzutHk.html I would also consider calling into our office to speak with one of our Client Representatives by calling 1 (866) 903 0990!
Great video as usual. What if I've committed some of these PUSH behaviors, and my wife has said that's it no chance anymore? I know she's struggling with the decision but my behaviors have definetly pushed her away, maybe for good. What would you recommend my next course of action be, especially if money is an issue. I'd love to invest in a product of yours just not sure if I can afford much.
Jason we are sorry to hear that. We would strongly encourage you to STOP the push behaviors immediately, begin working on your PIES, and work on becoming a safe place for your spouse! We would love to tell you more about some resources that we have that can help! Call in and speak with one of our Client Representatives by calling 1 (866) 903 0990!
I have a different type of separation. My wife moved out and moved in with a friend of ours. Sometimes I try to do no contact but due to kids and pets witch she abandoned and our hers I’m taking care of so I’m forced to contact her. When we talk she still says I love you acting say it first. Should I go back to absolute no contact? I’m very confused.
We do NOT recommend NO CONTACT. No Contact is a form of manipulation and it does not work in the long run. Please watch these videos about SMART Contact to gain a better understanding of how to communicate with your spouse while separated: Video 1: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-5Rb1CIgt37I.html Video 2: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-8cwDUMyvHU0.html Also, consider purchasing our SMART Contact Toolkit for only $27! marriagehelper.com/smart-contact-toolkit/
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