Also it’s so sad that we feel obligated to give people our number/information because we have to fear for our life when people can’t handle rejection!!!🙄🤮
i recommend getting a google number. if the weirdo calls the number, ur phone will ring but they’ll never have ur real number & u can block them after. CHANGE THE VOICEMAIL. ofc, u could block them from ur real number, but i dk how it works when u link ur number to ur social pages.
girl I wouldn't care at all if it was pride month or not to post this cause at the end of the day it doesn't matter what people thinks because you just got harassed and no matter who you are that is not ok, i hope your now doing well
Period. And she’s obviously not homophobic. As a gay, I would of been sitting here watching still. Idk who told her she would offend someone but they obviously must be sensitive 😂😂
@@japeljohnson4206 it’s easy to say this in hindsight , the story is not offensive to me or you or in general BUT the way the internet is these days i guarantee somebody would find a way to twist this be offended and say she’s dissing the whole community just because she speaking on a member being a weirdo just because it was pride month.
I feel your frustration and fear girl. That shit is not funny. The whole situation just got worse and worse. I’m glad you made it home safely. You definitely should go ahead with your plans to move warehouses. And i’m dead so annoyed with the pizza guy.
This is sooo scary, I'm so sorry you went through that Gabi 😭that was so traumatic, these people were so disgusting and what's worse the store owner didn't do shit about it:( and the place sounded dangerous, I think you're right to move out, also a taser or something to defend yourself would be good to make you feel safer, I hate that women have to go through that every day
There’s absolutely nothing funny about that terrifying experience at all, been there too many times to count so I understand your fear/reaction and it’s valid af! You’re just a naturally funny person and storyteller so I feel bad for laughing (only at the way you told the story not the actual situation). Sounds like it’s definitely time to do what you gotta do to feel safe even if that means taking a temporary loss from breaking your lease. Go with your gut and get tf on asap! ✌🏽💜💫
@@TeamJacobBitch. not really some of these states doesn’t let you carry self defense weapons and even so you’ll charged for defending yourself so the point still stands black women are the least protected.
@@theefineeeweirdgyal okay and, yall can protect yourselves. since when was it illegal to protect yourself? That’s basically what you said. Who cares if they’re the least protected. there’s homeless women who are unprotected. Stop trying to make this a “only black women problem” Yall want people to feel bad for yall so bad 😂
@@TeamJacobBitch. i’m not in that category, ik this world isn’t all rainbows and unicorns… i don’t have a problem defending myself because ik that everyone isn’t going to come my rescue. i’m just speaking for those who feel unappreciated by not being protected when an altercation occurs no one is checking the man but keep that energy for the women in your family that’s unprotected.
This storytime is relatable because whenever I get into a confrontation or anything where I stress my leg starts shaking and my hand does. So like whenever I see someone who does that I ask them what's wrong because usually when I do it I'm upset
Wow I can’t believe it just went from bad to WORSE!! I do not blame you for breaking lease I would’ve been scared too. So sorry this happened to you 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
It’s not just black women. There was a white woman on the subway in New York and a man was dragging her by her hair and she was quietly saying help to all the passengers. They just recorded. It’s affecting all women. We shouldn’t be making everything about race.
@@tianamiller9398 shut up. Obviously all women have been facing crime and assaults, the original comment never said it was only black women. The fact that thats the first thing your mind jumped to tells me alot about you. Crime and violence against black women and girls has skyrocketed as of lately and its allowed to be discussed and acknowledged. Tired of this deflecting and ignoring bs, do your own research and stay safe.
@@tianamiller9398 oh Lord not y'all. You do realize that she never said that it DIDN'T happen to nonblack women she just talked about black women because it's a BLACK woman who's telling this story about how she didn't receive protection. You need to stop assuming that people think stuff happens to only one race just cause they mention that race. I could say that black women experience racism but that doesn't mean ONLY black women experience racism. Y'all always ready to all lives matter some shit.
@@tianamiller9398 The MAJORITY is BW not white. Every 5.5 hrs a BW is killed due to domestic violence. You don’t have to make WW victims to be included. This is obviously a common problem in a particular community.
I used to be shaking badly all the time. I have diagnosed anxiety, three different types. I'm on meds for it. Hair cute sis. Imma have to get them earrings and the brown set next month. Shit too cute.
@@b_r_a_n that's love. I'm okay now. But that shit was no damn joke. I'm 26. It took them until I was 24 for me to convince them it was that bad and I had it since middle school. I'd wish that on no one.
@👑Karissa👑 Girl, I had to get the strong stuff. Luckily my psychiatrists were fine with benzos. I know that some aren't, but I pray you get through yours too. People don't know just how bad it is. Like I got Social, General and separation. It's not a joke and not fun at all.
@👑Karissa👑 same. I used to be so talkative my 8th grade years now I’m an 11th grader and have terrible social anxiety. I blame covid and myself cause I barely communicated while we were quarantined and I did online my 9th grade year. That really proved to me that being social and making friends is crucial in life
Gabby don't ever give them your real number. If you want to keep doing that, get on a texting app because they can look up your number and find out all of your information about you and your family just off your number. Please be careful.
Omg it just kept getting worse 🥲 the situation definitely isn’t funny but you’re a naturally funny storyteller. That person definitely had issues and the fact that the damn employee just stood there without intervening is horrible! I’ve been in similar situations getting harassed it’s so scary, especially when you’re alone. Im glad you made it home safely, I don’t blame you for trying to get out of that warehouse asap 🙏🏾
0:56 that’s definitely something a straight person said. As a lgbtq person that’s literally no where near homophobic AT ALL, that’s just a assumption someone made in their head which is weird asf
I can understand the hesitance of waiting till the end of pride month but also like this deadass abusive way of flirting is so problematic no matter WHO it's from!
“What in the goosebumps is going on here?” 😂💀 no but on a serious note, I feel you on the shaking. I was s.a.’d by a stranger when I was 16 years old & 14 years later I still struggle with ptsd & severe anxiety. Anytime I have an intense surge of emotion (mostly fear, anger or something uncomfortable) that’s unexpected, my legs & hands will start shaking uncontrollably, my vision will get blurry & my ears ring & feels like I’m under water hearing everything go on around me. It’s super weird. It’s almost like my body is over stimulated by the rush of emotion & isn’t able to process it fast enough, so it goes haywire. It’s not a good feeling, especially if you’re a person who likes to always feel in control.
Gabby I'm so sorry that happened to you I'm legit tearing up while watching you tell the story. No female or male have should go through that. That's why i carry a taser and a comb knife in my bag!!!!!
Please be careful being out that late solo it’s so dangerous nowadays. And a lot of human trafficking going on. Try to pack u something if you know your going to be at the warehouse late. Be safe
Nah, you should have been able to post this during pride month. This isn't slander, this is a seriously traumatic story that needs to be told. Good people would understand that and empathize with you regardless of their sexuality.
Giiirrrllllllll this damn story time was like a telemundo 🤧🤧😂😂. You got me DYING of laughter, mad at that damn aggressive weirdo , & disgusted by the battyman bystander who literallly did nothing !! Literally keep the story times coming girl and I can’t wait to buy the matching sets . Glad you safe !😂
I had an experience like this, I believe she was a stud also. I was walking to my class and she was maybe 4 ft away from me and was yelling “HI, HI!” I didn’t think she was talking to me because I was outside with a bunch of people nearby, I was wearing earbuds, and I didn’t recognize her voice. So when I finally realized she was talking to me, I waved. She looked offended by me not saying hi to her, a complete stranger (like the stank face). I was so scared, thankfully I was in an open area so I could walk in a different direction.
@@maya-uz4wc mhm, life’s a movie 🎬. I don’t like that attention/energy so I’m moving accordingly, if you like mean muggers in your face, so be it, foh 🤣
That burnt pizza would have been the last straw for me honestly, especially if you hungry. I'm glad you're okay after all that girl I would have became a hermit and stayed inside for the next few months if that happened to me
LuV, it’s all red flags to get out of that town. This entire story is eerie. 🧜🏾♀️ remember you are protected divinely 🦚 that pizza guy just didn’t care at all… I would’ve just left and screw the food.
i’m so sorry this happened to you gabs, try to look up they menu online, order over the phone and pay so next time you can just pick up the order fast if you can of course
I might regret saying this but it’s life and we are all human. When I get scared and I’m meaning scared to the point where I’m speechless, I have no control over my bladder and it’s so embarrassing. It has only happened twice but those two times I cried even more after it happens let alone the scary situation going on
I love how you’re able to laugh about it now but I hope your story helps people see this what we mean when we say protect blk women!!! The store owner def could have done something and he didn’t ,the men outside could have did something and they didn’t… this is what we be talking about and I’ve been through all this had a knife gun pulled out because I wouldn’t respond to a catcall this is so serious smh
I hope you're better now and I am so sorry that you went through a terrifying experience. I have been in a similar situation where my actions and thought processes mirrored yours. I gave the man my phone number because I was scared of him attacking me if I didn't and I knew that he would call the number to make sure it was mine and not fake. It's sad that we have to make decisions to prevent being further endangered by these types of people. It's unfair but I am glad you're safe ❤❤
Lmao Gaby when you were talking about shiestys made me laugh like girl come to the uk EVERYONE GOT THEM DAMN SHIESTYS ON ALL YEAR ROUNDDDDD love you sm girl 💗
Glad you’re okay! There are some very sketch gas stations by me and if you ignore the bums or addicts (at night usually) they will flip out on you! I had a similar food situation lol
love that you waited after pride month because you recorded this on my birthday (July 2nd) ayyyyyy🥺🥳 but i also understand the situation which is terrifying! glad you’re safe babes
I shake like that too! It’s like my heart drops to my stomach, my face gets kinda warm all the sudden and my kids start to shake when I’m mad, sad, when something crazy happens
Gabby and every female… get a google voice number just for situations like this. That way you are not giving out your real number and avoid them calling you on a different number if you block them. Be safe y’all
Oh my goodness you are so right! It's so scary and people really don't handle rejection well at all. Even if you try to politely decline some will still get pissed and try to do anything to you. That's so crazy; I swear I'm 'bout to get my conceal and carry license. I mean I'm not trying to take anyone's life but I am trying to live my life. That pizza guy was absolutely useless; It's not even about him being a man and physically getting involved but he could've threatened to call the cops on the psycho or something being as though you were being harassed in his establishment. Yes I hated this story time but I loved your story telling as usual! Please hurry up and move or stop going over to the warehouse alone.
This is so disguisting to hear I just want them all to suffer bye 😑🤢😭 I hope your doing better love 💕 and connecting with your anxiety to help you balance your mental health.
I’m laughing so hard that I almost choked on this apple! Cause at this point the store owner, is use to her doing that! The guy with the shiesty WOULDVE most definitely made me have anxiety! And at this point just cook your food sis 😂😂😂😂
I’m crying laughing at you naming things in your room and I’m really thinking those were her tattoo 😂😂😂 and then “RIGHT NOW” took me out like damn she was mad aggressive
It's sad the man in the restaurant didn't even help you I know what it's like to get harassed and nobody helps they just watch it's disgusting...Stay safe gurl🙏🏼
girl i use doordash. my order takin too long? cancel. something wrong?? no i don’t want half back for inconvenience , i gets all my bread back each time…..
Sign up for self defense classes asap live a fear no peasant approach stand tall regardless of your height or size you got this doll im rooting for ya🤗
I hate it when ppl do that. I'm canadian so we say hi alot. I was in america I said hi to some ppl. They looked at my funny n called me crazy lololol (New York state to be exact)
This is really scared and I’m so glad you’re safe and okay. But please be more careful when giving out your number. Get a second number app or something to give out instead. Your actual number is linked to your full name and address and maybe even more.
