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@PhimbleG-d
@PhimbleG-d Год назад
This is actually a pretty good representation of what traumatic (PTSD) breakdowns can look like. It’s not all flash backs and hazy vision. Sometimes it’s outbursts like this.
@HaydnMillerUK
@HaydnMillerUK Год назад
One of my closest friends has PTSD, she went through times that I cannot say for understandable reasons. This led to outbursts and fights with other pupils probably because they offended her and how she felt towards people in moments such as this. Because of this we talk much more often when we need to and also when things get down and become really tough, and I’m really great full of our friendship.
@emilyryan892
@emilyryan892 Год назад
It has been confirmed the character has ADHD
@Alice12369
@Alice12369 Год назад
@@emilyryan892 yes the character has ADHD, but this sort of outbursts can happen when u have bad ptsd coming from someone with serious ptsd I have had outbursts just like this because I couldnt control what was going on around me and I couldn’t control what was going on inside my head and it also comes down to the people around u not understanding what’s going on and not understanding how to deal with someone with this sort of illness, in fact ptsd is 10x worse then ADHD, this is mild compare to what ptsd can do
@rawrdinosaur2008
@rawrdinosaur2008 Год назад
@@Alice12369 yeahh! i dont have ptsd that bad but when someone triggers you, you get soo mad. it affects you for the whole day
@bowie3503
@bowie3503 Год назад
Wow
@SaharaColeman
@SaharaColeman Год назад
The teacher was so ignorant when she said “I’m not gonna have you ruin it for everyone else” that right there could send an already emotional person over the edge. People have to watch what they say and how they say it. She just better be glad what Kelly sent flying through the window didn’t go through her.
@Yoobster
@Yoobster Год назад
obviously but if someone doesn't know that shes mentally ill its easy to assume shes is completely selfish and literally ruining it for others.
@markgrayson772
@markgrayson772 Год назад
That’s why she needs to be in a hospital instead of ruining everyone else’s good time
@curlyhairdudeify
@curlyhairdudeify Год назад
The teacher is ignorant? She would be out if I was in charge she is danger to everyone in that room.
@pragatisingh8467
@pragatisingh8467 Год назад
wow yeah we must all be grateful that we're not brutally assaulted by some lunatic
@donhectorsalamanca
@donhectorsalamanca Год назад
​@@pragatisingh8467 "some lunatic" thats right, be ignorant of mental health you pos
@04ahrenadhikary9g4
@04ahrenadhikary9g4 Год назад
Only when she broke a window (and potentially harm the others) did they start doing anything sensible, that's wonderful
@Jme_hde
@Jme_hde 7 месяцев назад
And scarily realistic
@Niamh_oliviasversion
@Niamh_oliviasversion 6 месяцев назад
@@Jme_hdeik
@toothfairy5352
@toothfairy5352 5 месяцев назад
Or it's only when someone's attempted suicide that they're taken seriously.
@Spaceless420
@Spaceless420 5 месяцев назад
That’s literally how it is. It’s so upsetting not to be heard until you do something over the top it feels like.
@Legoface660
@Legoface660 24 дня назад
She wasn't doing anything sensible either
@jessicas.6235
@jessicas.6235 Год назад
A coworker I had was easily emotionally overwhelmed. My other coworkers often complained about her behind her back for it, but she’s a great person, and just needed patience sometimes. At those times I simply offered to help her out or offered an ear so she didn’t feel alone. Our response to someone losing control shouldn’t be losing control of our patience. Sometimes you just need to feel a moment of support. ❤
@sophiecourt5006
@sophiecourt5006 Год назад
Youre an angel, from someone who can become very emotionally overwhelmed and have meltdowns, you make all the difference ❤
@shanayabuckery3618
@shanayabuckery3618 Год назад
Is she okay now Im glad she is fine now
@jerrysmith6842
@jerrysmith6842 Год назад
I understand and am empathetic but sometimes, especially when work gets busy, you either have to toughen up or expect people to get upset at you. I work in fast food and sometimes we’ll hire people like this and it’s more of a disturbance than anything. We are there to work, not to take care of other peoples trauma. Your trauma is yours only and you should never make your trauma someone else’s problem.
@egg-iu3fe
@egg-iu3fe Год назад
lol no
@haileegrantham4399
@haileegrantham4399 Год назад
I completely agree with what you said dear friend. Absolutaly true.
@spiceupyourafterlife
@spiceupyourafterlife Год назад
“I wonder what hole you’ll end up in.” Wow, that was unbelievably cruel!
@hassantumbo6616
@hassantumbo6616 Год назад
What does that mean when he say that to Kelly Jo ?
@charliemcadoo4746
@charliemcadoo4746 Год назад
@@hassantumbo6616 He was pretty much saying that she'll have no future
@ahsenkhan5386
@ahsenkhan5386 Год назад
@@charliemcadoo4746 what a d*ck should get punch the face for that.
@charliemcadoo4746
@charliemcadoo4746 Год назад
@@ahsenkhan5386 Yes, it's not very nice
@Thunder-Ghost
@Thunder-Ghost Год назад
Yeah I haven't seen this before who was that and why was she angry at him in the start when he only tried to help?
@spinach4616
@spinach4616 Год назад
students who struggle like this usually just get punished for their behaviour. Teachers aren’t trained to help kids at all specifically they aren’t trained on trauma or on the wellbeing of children.
@Dee-oj5zm
@Dee-oj5zm Год назад
education courses (in some countries) definitely include modules about disorders that may afflict students, recognising the same, how to help or deescalate + where to go for additional support, etc. but, unfortunately, more in-depth study is usually undertaken via electives
@Shalyn-ln9tu
@Shalyn-ln9tu Год назад
Depends on the country, and the situation. They are required to be trained, but they are so underpaid, I can understand being hesitant. And a lot of the time, it is just anger and disrespect. This is an obvious moment of PTSD and not blatant anger. Though, we watched both sides and the teacher wouldn't have that luxury
@pragatisingh8467
@pragatisingh8467 Год назад
teachers aren't paid enough to deal with this bullcrap.
@prophecybydefault4708
@prophecybydefault4708 Год назад
@@pragatisingh8467 then they shouldn't be teachers. These people are paid to teach children about the future and by acting like this they could destroy or even end lives.
@egg-iu3fe
@egg-iu3fe Год назад
they should be punished tbh
@idk_man3491
@idk_man3491 6 месяцев назад
something that makes me angry beyond belief, is that if you look at the man's face at 1:51, you'll see he's actually smiling. It's for a brief moment, but kelly is in a state of extreme distress, and he, along with another boy, find it funny. It urks me so much
@elyssaacosta5574
@elyssaacosta5574 2 месяца назад
My dad would do this. Just like that guy, when everyone was turned away he’d rile me up until I started freaking out like that girl so he could run to mommy and tell her how crazy and fucked up I am. And every single time his smile would slip out. Like it was so funny to put me in that mental state that he couldn’t contain his smile. Crazy.
@DivyaRaviraj
@DivyaRaviraj Год назад
I used to be like this at home sometimes in my darkest roughest times. It’s a real thing. It hurts.
@beautyqueenlove123
@beautyqueenlove123 Год назад
How u feeling now
@rachelburdick2078
@rachelburdick2078 Год назад
I have ptsd and expleted like this before
@shagunricakujur7102
@shagunricakujur7102 Год назад
Same
@hisfavworstnightmare
@hisfavworstnightmare 7 месяцев назад
me too :(
@mushharp9043
@mushharp9043 6 месяцев назад
same
@upscaleavenue
@upscaleavenue 5 месяцев назад
This is an example of provoking someone with a verbal attack and then attacking them for responding to your attack.
@rosiebeal3096
@rosiebeal3096 Год назад
Teachers should not be shouting at her if she's having a breakdown
@destinydarrling9276
@destinydarrling9276 Год назад
Yeah. Shouting has never worked. The best thing to do is to take them outside for a little walk in the fresh air and then if that doesn’t work then they should be taken to a quiet room and be allowed to calm down. I’m not a teacher but I am neurodivergent (autistic and dyspraxic) and that’s what the SEN did with me before and after they knew I was autistic (I was diagnosed aged 18)
@masterdrake43
@masterdrake43 6 месяцев назад
That teacher is stupid She should watch what she say to a girl like Kelly or the consequences could be fatal. It could risk the lives of her students, I mean what if Kelly grabbed a sharp tool from the box or something that would harm the others. Kelly could’ve possibly hurt the teacher or the students or the support teachers with a pair of scissors or a rock or a hammer.
@BakiHanma-tg9tk
@BakiHanma-tg9tk 5 месяцев назад
​@@destinydarrling9276ye and what's that gonna change huh
@rai.2876
@rai.2876 5 месяцев назад
​@@BakiHanma-tg9tk you mean to say having some time to cool off has never worked for you?
@amberrose3073
@amberrose3073 2 месяца назад
@@BakiHanma-tg9tka hell of lot more than shouting at them in a room of people and making them more overstimulated does
@lemondemon77
@lemondemon77 Год назад
love to see how people dont understand just how traumatic it can be
@animenome308
@animenome308 Год назад
For everyone involved... Imaging being the person who gets yelled at by the psychologically unstable pt and then getting stuff thrown at you The teacher is at fault but definitely not the other students - you can't be expected as a teenager to just sit there and let someone have a mental breakdown @ you and just take it.
@egg-iu3fe
@egg-iu3fe Год назад
lol there's people fighting in war zones yet people like this having mental breakdowns over nothing
@jpbdude4223
@jpbdude4223 Год назад
@@egg-iu3fe that… that causes PTSD… that is this
@kaysmith8992
@kaysmith8992 Год назад
@@animenome308 especially as some of those other students may have mental health issues too and may be traumatised by her behaviour.
@PowerOfAIandMotivation
@PowerOfAIandMotivation Год назад
If they hugged her from the very beginning when things started to go a bit strange and reassured her that no one is actually against her ~ things would not have escalated to all of that afterwards at all. Obviously she needs more assistance afterwards with a real genuine loving therapist or emotional healer but the least thing if they did take it seriously from the beginning and offered the hug and the reassurance things will take another path and not the extreme worst path that they portrayed which is because they didn't take it seriously from the beginning and chose the gentle way to deal with it. Emotions are everything and they need to be healed and dealt with the proper healthiest and gentlest way possible, humans are not robots never will be and emotions are genuine and they are what we live for and by so if they don't start teaching such stuff there will always be such problems forever unless they take it to heart and install it in education systems.
@leabeauty837
@leabeauty837 Год назад
That’s not how it works in schools. If you think teachers can go around hugging students.. you must be living on another planet.
@kaysmith8992
@kaysmith8992 Год назад
Teachers get sacked just for tapping a kid's arm let alone hugging them 😂
@Legacy-sw7bv
@Legacy-sw7bv Год назад
She absolutely needed understanding and compassion, but don't be too fast to rush into a hug. While they may take it as the act of protection and consoling that you intend it as, they can just as easily take it as a feeling of being trapped, a violation of personal limits, and a physical reminder of the trauma. Offer affection, but let them have a sense of control over what happens to them. Don't expect them to know what they want or need in that moment; but most often, they just need some reassurance of safety (words, a trusted person, solitude in a place they feel like they can protect themselves in, etc.)
@PowerOfAIandMotivation
@PowerOfAIandMotivation Год назад
@@Legacy-sw7bv That is true, thank you for your added valuable information to this comment section. 👍🏻
@itsdune079
@itsdune079 6 месяцев назад
Thank you *so much* for including the statement of “don't expect for them to know what they want or need”: I have complex trauma, and I rarely, if ever, know what I need during times where I need emotional/psychological assistance!! This is something that rarely gets talked about, even in trauma spaces - a person with a history of emotional/psychological trauma likely won’t know what they need/what would comfort them when upset, because they never had their needs met to help them figure that out.
@michellemarshall6708
@michellemarshall6708 Год назад
The actress who plays kelly jo is incredible👏👏👏 I'm glad waterloo road is back and raising awareness for teenage mental health
@matthewpattison8611
@matthewpattison8611 Год назад
Even though Kelly Jo reminds me of a friend of mine called Holly Wilde at Foxes Academy because Holly Wilde the same thing every day
@macsonchung2937
@macsonchung2937 Год назад
I cried as well😢😢😢😢. "Stop that silly cow" WTF was that 😡😡😡
@coolcucumber372
@coolcucumber372 Год назад
@@macsonchung2937 and he was supposed to be a teaching assistant!
@snucam78
@snucam78 5 месяцев назад
Did the previous version of this show end with a teacher jumping into a canal? or did it end later? I'm in the US and it was on BBC America at the time
@austincicero227
@austincicero227 Год назад
I got so emotional watching this because I understand the pain, PTSD and breakdowns manifest in many ways and this unfortunately is the way hers is showing. I don't wish this on anyone because I know it all to well for myself
@SoraAsahi
@SoraAsahi Год назад
And I was made to believe I was simply having temper tantrums before I actually knew about PTSD. Now I understand some of the other kids I knew weren't being stubborn or naughty back in the day.
@mrscocomelon5798
@mrscocomelon5798 Год назад
My mom is a special needs teacher I showed her this and she said some times her kids (she calls them her kids) act like this
@courtr1588
@courtr1588 Год назад
People with disabilities have high rates of being abused. Even in some of those classrooms. I'm not surprised.
@melonydivineq
@melonydivineq 2 месяца назад
She is an angel
@10bencook
@10bencook Год назад
As the saying goes, “You wouldn’t like me when I’m angry.”
@AmeliaRoman90
@AmeliaRoman90 3 месяца назад
I have Autism and that happened to me at school and the teachers knew exactly what to do! I wish that girl has a lot of teachers who are supportive as my teachers
@ErynSmith-bo9sm
@ErynSmith-bo9sm 4 месяца назад
"I can keep her under control" ... A few moments later... Window smashed
@Lilita971
@Lilita971 Год назад
I don't really understand what's going on in the video, but I feel sorry for whoever is having the breakdown
@Loveislandya
@Loveislandya Месяц назад
She probably has ptsd which is post traumatic stress disorder
@wanderingshadow1372
@wanderingshadow1372 6 месяцев назад
Hard to believe this is the same Donte who bullied a classmate for his bus pass back in 2006. The growth of his character is nothing short of incredible.
@ohwow9559
@ohwow9559 5 месяцев назад
huhhh
@Romy---
@Romy--- 5 месяцев назад
Because it's... fiction?
@wanderingshadow1372
@wanderingshadow1372 5 месяцев назад
@@Romy--- Well, that's on me I guess. I apologise for getting invested into characters' stories and arcs.
@sashaking1115
@sashaking1115 5 месяцев назад
Yeah Donte’s lovely!
@rai.2876
@rai.2876 5 месяцев назад
​@@Romy--- bro's a soulless person who's never appreciated art and stories before
@legendkiller2k
@legendkiller2k 8 месяцев назад
I went to school during the 80s/90s and i was just written off as a disruptive child and sent to boarding school, the education system failed me and many others back them. It was only in my 20s when i finally got diagnosed with ADHD, more shows need to follow Waterloo Road and highlight this.
@freddieweasel2533
@freddieweasel2533 16 дней назад
This resonates so much as someone who grew up with undiagnosed ADHD and ASD. Being needled and wound up until I blew, seemingly an over the top reaction with people not realising that it wasn't just the last thing that set me off and that it was a build up. The guilt of blowing like that and doing something stupid. The feeling of "Oh shit, what have I done, why did it do that." I'm almost embarrassed to admit how many times I've put my fist through a wall, thrown things, broken things. Once broke my hand punching a tree (trees hit harder than you can FYI). Substance abuse in my teens and early 20s If you can see yourself in anything I've said or you've seen in the video, please, please, please go to your doctor and ask for help. My diagnosis saved my life, no exaggeration. I'm not lazy, neither are you. I'm not stupid, neither are you. I deserve love, so do you. I'm finally beginning to understand myself, my brain, you can too, I promise. 💚💚💚💚💚
@facetwit99
@facetwit99 Год назад
and this is why teen mental health needs taking seriously
@user-vh6ts9uf6c
@user-vh6ts9uf6c Год назад
Who doesn't take it seriously?
@bombsite1847
@bombsite1847 Год назад
@@user-vh6ts9uf6c obviously not everybody but a lot of parents, caregivers, schools and health professionals don't take it as seriously as they should
@sallytheuselessbird
@sallytheuselessbird 6 месяцев назад
​@@user-vh6ts9uf6cAlready seen a lot of people in the comments who don't
@rosegoodman1126
@rosegoodman1126 4 месяца назад
Agreed
@graceallman1463
@graceallman1463 Месяц назад
preach
@laurenbrennan3720
@laurenbrennan3720 Год назад
I know it's acting and all. But it gets on my nerves when someone is teasing a person who is having an episode. Also, you shouldn't get upset with the person who is having a mental breakdown. When I was little I wish I had someone like the guy at the end to talk to me and hug me like he did.
@AWlpsSHOW36
@AWlpsSHOW36 Год назад
I have not seen this show and I'm really confused. What's wrong with Kelly and why did she freak out immediatly when the other teacher came to her? And why was the guy that stepped in and helped all of a sudden going against her and treating her like she's crazy?
@Issy4023
@Issy4023 Год назад
Me too I wanna know what this is about
@kaezuho
@kaezuho Год назад
i wanna too
@sweettea735
@sweettea735 Год назад
Same
@sofiandolga
@sofiandolga Год назад
same
@anxious_dog_lover67
@anxious_dog_lover67 Год назад
Right, from what I believe Kelly has some sort of PTSD and something triggered it
@sweetlyxofficialchannel
@sweetlyxofficialchannel Год назад
My friend has PTSD as well. One time, the fire alarm went off in my school for a practice. And the noise of the alarm was so loud, she got really panicked and scared.
@Ozzie-AGoatNamedOzzie
@Ozzie-AGoatNamedOzzie Месяц назад
I just want to say that, even though I don’t have PTSD, I experience this too. Whenever the fire alarm goes off I go into a state of distress, also known as a breakdown. I do have diagnosed ASD, which may be part of the problem. However the noise that the alarm makes is also just horrid and makes me dissociate.
@Duolingobirdy
@Duolingobirdy Год назад
Girl: * having a panic attack * Teacher: “ ENOUF”
@Amberxxbbunni
@Amberxxbbunni Год назад
This was literally my head of year when I was having a tic attack💀
@zayyyyy__y
@zayyyyy__y Год назад
​@@Amberxxbbunni oh my days that's fucked up
@dreamlessdemand
@dreamlessdemand Год назад
This reminds me of PTSD and ADHD, maybe a bit of Autism. I have all 3 of these things.
@eneedham789
@eneedham789 Год назад
I have autism and ADHD, but not PTSD. I have a friend who is exactly like this though.
@mrce420.7
@mrce420.7 Год назад
I have all three two with anger issues that have me with a currently broken foot and multiple trips to the hospital from hurting myself and destroying things in my path, it's awful, this video almost triggered me myself because this girl was doing and acting exactly like i was and i feel really bad for her, people really always do make you out to be the bad guy when you lash out but dont look at the pain
@helena-boateng
@helena-boateng Год назад
yeah she had undiagnosed ADHD at this point in the show
@bidi4907
@bidi4907 Месяц назад
Who was the guy in green who just spawned in the classroom? Did he know Kelly Jo?
@izzyrhodes3335
@izzyrhodes3335 Месяц назад
Hes a caretaker and he was fixing the door of the room it was happening in he has a son with ADHD so knew how to deal with it
@asyuruu
@asyuruu Год назад
as much i would like to say otherwise, i'd have no idea how to deal with someone that unstable
@HMMdiddum
@HMMdiddum 6 месяцев назад
Don't worry, it is a confusing and upsetting situation to be in. I would say that the best thing to do in this situation would have been to get her out of the class as soon as she started showing signs of distress, bring her to a safe and quiet space with accesses to sensory toys and then just be there with the student. Sit or talk quietly, roll a ball back and froth, even just be in silence, just let the student know that they are not alone and that they are safe. It's tricky but staying calm and collected when working with struggling kids is always the best move.
@tanishamuntslag6369
@tanishamuntslag6369 5 месяцев назад
Irl teachers think when someone acts like this they're just some teen acting out disrespectfully but that's not always the case and teachers yell at them when they have a breakdown instead of calming them down and asking what is wrong
@pearljosling2246
@pearljosling2246 Год назад
donte handled this like a pro
@QerimAAAAAAH
@QerimAAAAAAH 25 дней назад
As a pseron who Has PTSD from Verbal and physical abuse by teachers and mother, witnessed my entire family being taken away for drg use, this is normal for me to do things like this.
@redkyl3
@redkyl3 Год назад
pretty much this EXACT same situation happened to me 3 years ago when i was in year 10. in january 2023, i was officially diagnosed with adhd and the reason why they even investigated the possibility in the first place was because i told them about what happened in that drama class. i always see people saying they think the show misrepresented adhd, and that the symptoms line up more closely with autism and it bothers me because there is a LOT of crossover in the symptoms for both conditions. adhd can ABSOLUTELY look like this, and i'm glad the show put the effort into representing it further than just being hyper or talking too much.
@yusinu6642
@yusinu6642 Год назад
Yes I’ve seen so many posts about how people don’t realize how autism and adhd manifest in different ways. That’s why I’m so uncertain as to whether I have adhd, autism, or both
@redkyl3
@redkyl3 Год назад
​@@yusinu6642 there's actually a thing where if you have one neurodiversity, you're likely to have another! for example, if you have autism, you're more likely to also have adhd because of the sheer amount of overlap there can be. it can be really difficult to distinguish between those two specifically; my paediatrician went back and forth between pursuing an autism diagnosis or an adhd one for almost *7 years* before eventually deciding on both!
@yusinu6642
@yusinu6642 Год назад
@@redkyl3 😭😭😭thank you so much for telling me. This is going to be so hard but I’m going to try to do a bunch of research on the both of them so when I finally get tested, I don’t have them dismissing me because I don’t have “typical behaviors” even though there’s a range❤️
@redkyl3
@redkyl3 Год назад
​@@yusinu6642 research is key! also, i'm obviously not sure of your gender lol but i thought i'd mention anyways; an insane amount of females with adhd are misdiagnosed with bipolar disorder as professionals often overlook adhd symptoms or misinterpret them. i would seriously suggest also researching bipolar just as a precautionary measure in case anyone tries to convince you its that instead, and you have the words to tell them if they're wrong about anything.
@SeeGirlOnMoon
@SeeGirlOnMoon 3 месяца назад
It’s super subtle but at the 0:32 mark Kelly Jo actually starts to ask “Can I please go outside?” There’s a lot of criticism here at Kelly Jo but for someone with untreated ADHD (and likely Rejection Sensitivity Dysmorphia) to be forced to remain in such an environment when you have been publicly embarrassed and reprimanded, she was a ticking time bomb. (Also notice how no one else’s cruel comments about Kelly Jo are not publicly addressed.) If the staff had proper de-escalation training, allowing Kelly a break to leave and cool down could have helped tremendously. And her taking a break would not have “ruined the workshop for everyone.”
@shagunricakujur7102
@shagunricakujur7102 Год назад
It happens with me sometimes when I feel lonely , have a feeling of abandonment but it happens only in my home , I always burst out with a lot of mixed emotions , mental breakdown because of this .
@10bencook
@10bencook Год назад
I felt sorry for Kelly Jo. I don't know what was going through her mind.
@masterdrake43
@masterdrake43 6 месяцев назад
Watch the full episode and find out
@AyanaBolatagici
@AyanaBolatagici Месяц назад
Bro those teachers are so selfish and mean
@AmeliaKing-jp4dh
@AmeliaKing-jp4dh 3 месяца назад
Donte was the sweetest character
@mhhawali3148
@mhhawali3148 Год назад
this is exactly "you can't shoot me and then get shot" moment
@PirateOfTheNorth
@PirateOfTheNorth 5 месяцев назад
This gave me a flashback to when I was in secondary school. I was always told it was my fault and the teachers used to yell at me. I wouldn’t have a meltdown but I was just go quiet and withdrawn. I wouldn’t want to speak because I was scared if I did I would get yelled at again. Only when I was in my late 20’s did a get diagnosed with autism and adhd.
@eloisestannard_xo
@eloisestannard_xo Год назад
i do feel really bad as i have autism, spd and severe anxiety and this has happend to me multiple times in school it's really hard work tbf i feel bad for her.
@AmeliaKing-jp4dh
@AmeliaKing-jp4dh 3 месяца назад
Donte was the sweetest character ❤
@LovelyCuteBunnies123
@LovelyCuteBunnies123 6 месяцев назад
I don’t have ptsd but I remember going through the same exact thing multiple times as a child…. I am a victim of child abuse though with complex trauma 😮
@Creepie_DOLLIE
@Creepie_DOLLIE 5 месяцев назад
Oh, so you have CPTSD then?
@finlandguy427
@finlandguy427 Месяц назад
Can anyone explain what is going on? Some of you say that she has PTSD but what caused her PTSD?
@CareBear2480
@CareBear2480 Год назад
I have ADHD, PTSD, Depression, Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Reactive Attachment Disorder, and I’m looking into a BPD diagnosis. Growing up in elementary school, I was A LOT like this in classes. I had to have my whole class removed from the room, many times. I was always asked by teachers why I acted the way I did. Which made things worse, because I didn’t know, and I don’t wanna be asked that. I was told I had really bad anger issues. When I got older and went to other schools, it got worse. Got on many medications, I was out of control, kicked out of schools, etc. teachers never did much of anything UNTIL I got out of control. Like they wanted it to happen it felt like. All of what I stated, is actually why I never went to college like I wanted to. I felt it wouldn’t be a good fit for me.
@killerdrag692
@killerdrag692 Год назад
Travel and see the beautiful scenery. Try slow and long proper breathing techniques. Don't enclose yourself in the end it's only you who can help yourself. Don't try to get sympathy from others It will just make you weak it's harsh to say but toughened up yourself is the best way.
@alexaaa20000
@alexaaa20000 Год назад
I've got adhd and sometimes it really gets like this
@jameliakingstom1190
@jameliakingstom1190 Год назад
He shouldn’t have spoken to her like that tho that teacher
@sofiandolga
@sofiandolga Год назад
she said something offencive to him too, so it's partly her fault
@a.f.2330
@a.f.2330 Год назад
@@sofiandolga What she said was from a place of hurt and being unable to cope with whatever she was going through; that teacher said something way worse and unwarranted when he was perfectly alright (mentally, that is). As the adult, it's up to him to understand that kid was not herself, and people say/do things that they normally wouldn't do when they have a breakdown. Some compassion goes a long way in situations like this. He could have definitely handled it way better than he did, without escalating the situation, if he had been nicer
@nl-ho4wm
@nl-ho4wm Год назад
@@a.f.2330 you dont know that, that teacher maybe it's not 'alright' mentally just like her and what he said could have came from a place of hurt. Its a pretty hypocritical mindset to expect people to help her when she hurt them with her words especially when the reason why she had breakdown was because someone hurt her (by rejecting her). If she can have a breakdown and hurt others because she felt hurt then why other people couldnt do the same to her when she hurt them?? well sadly the majority of people have their own traumas to deal with. So in the middle of the breakdown you can trigger some trauma in other people by your actions and they will hurt you back, its a possible consecuence of your behaviour
@jameliakingstom1190
@jameliakingstom1190 Год назад
@@sofiandolga no he’s a teacher lmao
@jameliakingstom1190
@jameliakingstom1190 Год назад
@@nl-ho4wm it doesn’t matter he’s a teacher
@mizzurithemenace
@mizzurithemenace 3 месяца назад
I’ve had outbursts similar to this at home, wondering if I should get that checked out
@calliope12994
@calliope12994 Год назад
I have internal BPD but one or 2 of my eposides have been similar. I am angry and need to hurt myself or break things and as soon as I do I'm calm and start crying and apologising. Yeah this made me cry.
@maxwoodsevans
@maxwoodsevans 2 месяца назад
No one talking about how great Donte is?
@Theknight-y1d
@Theknight-y1d Месяц назад
Rea
@AmeliaKing-jp4dh
@AmeliaKing-jp4dh 3 месяца назад
Donte was the sweetest character on waterloo road...
@Matty12333
@Matty12333 10 месяцев назад
Rejection anxiety expiosde, common in adhd
@charlotteh2280
@charlotteh2280 Год назад
I find Kelly Jo's character really realistic 🙌🏻
@jamke6170
@jamke6170 Год назад
Yet this is the state of a lot of teachers. Teachers believing they have the power to shout at students. They do not understand the effects they have on us.
@bd06m0030
@bd06m0030 Год назад
Question. Why does a whole class have to be policed and arguably pushed to do things that are not comfortable with in order to make one person comfortable? Speaking from personal experience where do you draw the line? Would it be alright if they berate someone? How about physical violence? No judgment. Genuinely curious
@JustAlexeii
@JustAlexeii Год назад
What do you mean exactly by “pushed to do things they aren’t comfortable with”?
@egg-iu3fe
@egg-iu3fe Год назад
people like that should be told to exit the classroom if they can't control themselves.
@SCHfan-jb4zo
@SCHfan-jb4zo Год назад
The teacher was not handling the situation very well the first time, she shouldn’t have yelled at her because she was having a traumatic breakdown. Instead, it could’ve been handled like this De-escalate the situation Take the student away from the other students and have a talk Talk down the the feelings inside that waste of the student will feel better and want to go back to learning I myself am not a teacher, but this is not the way how things are handled I don’t care if it’s a TV, show this kind of thing happens every day
@xxrandomxx13
@xxrandomxx13 7 месяцев назад
I relate to Kelly jo so much
@Beabuzz123
@Beabuzz123 2 месяца назад
Green shirt guy shoulda done that the first time 😅
@geekyrobot__7316
@geekyrobot__7316 5 месяцев назад
people in these comments really don't understand what ptsd can look like.... sorry trauma is ugly i guess lmao
@rosiebeal3096
@rosiebeal3096 Год назад
Teachers should not have pushed her too far that's what's happened they could see it happening so why didn't they just be more understand rather than shout at her
@simonearendse6134
@simonearendse6134 Месяц назад
Cause they heard me say ma 😂😂😂😂
@10bencook
@10bencook Год назад
I’ve been in similar situations as Kelly Jo. I have outbursts and anger issues as well.
@StayVCA98
@StayVCA98 Год назад
Prolly just me but idk why but I always thought that schools in general is just awful really, you get terrible teachers who either instead of helping you instead they are the ones who pull you down by deliberately not letting you pass, classmates on their diff types of bullying with their alienating social circles, the schools themselves who takes advantage on some of their students and teachers with their low pays on them to choke hold on students and parents with school debts, not to mention school bad experiences will be diff per county such as Gun Violence, school shootings, teachers and even students with questionable backgrounds etc... A bit unnecessary take but yeah... 🙃
@SandDancerHellie
@SandDancerHellie Год назад
Prolly isn't a word
@StayVCA98
@StayVCA98 Год назад
@@SandDancerHellie Cearly you haven't searched it yet to confirm it, so it is an official word "GENIUS"...
@OliviaMelville-t2w
@OliviaMelville-t2w 3 месяца назад
yeah ptsd should be learned a lot of people need to know what it is if people will have a break down try to help them feel better.
@tutorialsforyou3981
@tutorialsforyou3981 3 месяца назад
it’s ADHD she feels like she ruins everything
@OliviaMelville-t2w
@OliviaMelville-t2w 3 месяца назад
@@tutorialsforyou3981 it's not her fault adhd is a challenge i have autism it's hard though but a group of friends have been helping me out
@Uandalvin
@Uandalvin 14 дней назад
I Have Autism And Kelly-Jo Is Funny In Something
@hassantumbo6616
@hassantumbo6616 Год назад
I know I'm a bit new at this but what does the teacher mean when he says "I wonder what hole you'll end up in" to Kelly Jo ? Just wondering what he meant
@sippinonsoju
@sippinonsoju Год назад
i think he’s trying to say that she’ll end up like a druggie or something
@sheeats4019
@sheeats4019 Год назад
Or mental institution
@XSHADOWTHELEGENDARYHEDGEHOGxX
like what mental hospital shell end up in
@dancingheart6224
@dancingheart6224 Год назад
It's a metaphorical phrase used as an insult to tell someone they end up having no job or no success in their future. It's like saying they will get stuck in a hole with no way out. Terribly abusive thing for a teacher to say.
@kgabisopoto5039
@kgabisopoto5039 Год назад
As in hell hole,druggie or mental hospital
@xxsnapes.daughterxx2287
@xxsnapes.daughterxx2287 5 месяцев назад
I used to act up like that from ptsd breakdowns and yk what those teachers should be glad she didn’t knock one of them out cuz I would’ve 😂
@LiberianPrettyChefandComedian
@LiberianPrettyChefandComedian 3 месяца назад
yeah i would have really
@Wurwa45
@Wurwa45 15 дней назад
Your mental illness doesn't give you the right to physically attack people ever.
@Mal1050E
@Mal1050E Год назад
I thought this whole new season was really good !
@PIGEONPANIC
@PIGEONPANIC 5 месяцев назад
I’m someone who has severe PTSD and Autism. I’ve only had violent breakdowns in the privacy of my own home because the fear of getting in trouble or potentially hurting someone is too strong for me
@ALEXSPL4NET
@ALEXSPL4NET 2 месяца назад
Me too. I've never gotten violent but I've gone under tables because I get so overwhelmed, it's frustrating because it's always seen as strange but Its like I'm autistic damn it! I am stressed and overwhelmed. Plus if I break down in class no one cares or they say things that truly don't help.
@molinagrn65
@molinagrn65 Год назад
“Don’t worry, I can keep her under control.” “I wonder what hole you’ll end up in..” Nice. 💀💀
@brettzforeman
@brettzforeman Год назад
He overestimated what he could handle. Practically the first thing she did was mock him and hurt his feelings in a surprisingly cutting way. What he said was wrong, but he returned just a small fraction of her energy.
@LiberianPrettyChefandComedian
@LiberianPrettyChefandComedian 3 месяца назад
@@brettzforeman yeah but i mean...its normal but the girl...she cant control it and bro really thought he is that sigma lol think again
@Ikajo
@Ikajo 2 месяца назад
​@@brettzforemanHe was the adult. He should know better than to act like a child in that situation.
@henryvaughan7283
@henryvaughan7283 5 месяцев назад
There’s a big problem with these teachers, they keep on saying. Think about what’s happening outside of school, even though they don’t spend like a good 30 minutes trying to figure out the problem and continue letting students give the “side eyes” and what not
@SussyBakaSenpai
@SussyBakaSenpai Год назад
So what actually happened to her why did she have PTSD? I really would like to know.
@denial4eternity
@denial4eternity 6 месяцев назад
Me if my instruive thoughts won:
@For3v3rY0urAng3ll
@For3v3rY0urAng3ll Год назад
THIS METHOD DOES NOT WORK WITH EVERYONE EXPERIENCING PTSD BREAKDOWN OR ASD MELTDOWN
@PrincessAcornHair
@PrincessAcornHair Год назад
*first time?* Edit : I have PTSD and this happens to me like A LOT except the kids in my school think it’s funny and keep yelling my trigger words. So I saw the thumbnail and my immediate reaction was : Lmao first time ?
@declangaming24
@declangaming24 Год назад
Its like josh from the earlier seasons I want them to bring trenemen and rimmer
@simonearendse6134
@simonearendse6134 24 дня назад
Did he break down... im so so sorry.
@tonof.c.1397
@tonof.c.1397 Год назад
Holy shit that girl in dangerous ._.
@gabrielleclennon6589
@gabrielleclennon6589 4 месяца назад
I may not have ADHD, but I am Autistic a little bit and I do have similar problems as well but everyday I am able to take it step by step. I feel so bad for Kelly Jo.
@ADANLOVESME
@ADANLOVESME 3 месяца назад
I'm a bit like Kelly 😊😊
@-kendoll-
@-kendoll- 2 месяца назад
Why the green shirt guy kinda…
@janemarlborough8038
@janemarlborough8038 Год назад
They should be supportive not nasty
@ChocoBabiChan
@ChocoBabiChan Год назад
I don't watch this show. What the hell is her problem?
@margaretmanchester543
@margaretmanchester543 Год назад
This is so sad😢
@SadNikolai
@SadNikolai Год назад
Isnt the helper Donte
@chewylittle7275
@chewylittle7275 4 месяца назад
What’s the series/movies called?
@auser2721
@auser2721 Год назад
This how middle school look like
@egg-iu3fe
@egg-iu3fe Год назад
i have no idea what this is, what is happening and why im watching this
@lifetimemovieedits
@lifetimemovieedits 5 месяцев назад
That one guy looks like Mac Miller
@aviesmith8883
@aviesmith8883 Год назад
I don’t get it? I know she needs help but it seems like ppl in the comments are excusing her actions. She was being a proper jerk from the start.
@fabplays6559
@fabplays6559 Год назад
Yeah, but when she was clearly in distress everyone just insulted her, blamed her and made her feel worse. Sometimes there’s a deeper reason someone is acting like a jerk.
@tzuyuwu786
@tzuyuwu786 Год назад
Bc she has PTSD
@nl-ho4wm
@nl-ho4wm Год назад
@@fabplays6559 the other people who insulted her could be also in distress so if she hurts people and acts like a jerk because she felt hurt then people can act the same way towards her when they felt hurt by her actions
@kaysmith8992
@kaysmith8992 Год назад
​@@nl-ho4wm THIS. Why does everyone think the other kids are any less troubled than she is. Some of the other kids could be autistic or introverts and react really badly to how she talks to them.
@JustAlexeii
@JustAlexeii Год назад
@@kaysmith8992 For sure. I don’t think anyone’s saying that she’s completely innocent, she still hurt people. But what we’re saying is that _everyone_ in this situation hurt each other. We’re seeing it mostly from her point of view because she’s the main character in the situation, so people are relating to her and her feelings. It doesn’t need to be said that what she did was wrong, but people are putting emphasis on how often other students can lead to someone already distressed having a breakdown. Maybe they have a reason for their actions too, but it doesn’t excuse them either. To be honest, most of the blame in this situation lies on the teachers, they’re the ones with the responsibility to deal with it. Best to just take a distressed student out of the lesson rather than force them to stay and have it lead to a breakdown.
@EditsforHP
@EditsforHP 4 месяца назад
What was her PTSD caused by? ❤
@tutorialsforyou3981
@tutorialsforyou3981 3 месяца назад
it’s ADHD she feels like she ruins everything
@ADANLOVESME
@ADANLOVESME 3 месяца назад
​@@tutorialsforyou3981 so do i
@nave712
@nave712 6 месяцев назад
What’s her PTSD about? What happened to her?
@bellarocks7179
@bellarocks7179 5 месяцев назад
Traumatic breakdowns in class can lead to the student being suspended from school for about 28 days if the breakdown is severe enough. What if the student breaks the window just like this one did? Y'all know that he/she could also get suspended for a few weeks.
@redlady-miemcdale7010
@redlady-miemcdale7010 18 дней назад
Kelly Jo Noooooo Yo Calm Down
@adamdennison80
@adamdennison80 Год назад
The same old "woah" from the old seasons 😂😂😂
@sakaiahreign3365
@sakaiahreign3365 9 месяцев назад
That comment was so unnecessary.
@JohnSanJuan-zp1ed
@JohnSanJuan-zp1ed 22 дня назад
Anger Management issue!
@xkirstinx8058
@xkirstinx8058 Год назад
This is a accurate representation of what adhd looks like
@NationalHooeyLeague
@NationalHooeyLeague Год назад
No it isn't. Emotional dysregulatio can happen with adhd but it's usually much milder. Please stop spreading misinformation
@xkirstinx8058
@xkirstinx8058 Год назад
@@NationalHooeyLeague um everyone is different adhd is a spectrum and believe it or not she’s got diagnosed with adhd in the other episodes. I even have adhd myself and everyone’s different
@Dmoll
@Dmoll Год назад
@@NationalHooeyLeague Actually, yes it is. It's an accurate representation of more severe ADHD. I have ADHD, and have seen kids with ADHD act like this. Some people have it mild, others have it severe to the point where it interrupts daily activities like this. She was diagnosed with ADHD in the other episodes too. Like Kirstin said, everyone is different- this isn't misinformation.
@xkirstinx8058
@xkirstinx8058 Год назад
@@Dmoll exactly facts
@redkyl3
@redkyl3 Год назад
​@@NationalHooeyLeague bit closed-minded eh? every case of adhd is different. the emotional dysregulation experienced can be VERY varied in severity; some people it is much milder for, as you suggested, but for others it can absolutely look like this. if anyone is spreading misinformation, it's you.
@rosiebeal3096
@rosiebeal3096 Год назад
She's got an issue and they don't understand so they'd rather shouted at her I think that's wrongn
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