Sufi's Coming Out Story | Growing Up Muslim & Queer 

I’m sure she just did this for all the internet attention. If you are really supporting LGBTQ, why are you being so selfish?

@@IanSager23 You must be mad.

@@IanSager23 hey don't be a jerk

i know I'm kinda randomly asking but does anyone know of a good site to stream newly released series online ?

@Julio London flixportal xD

Omgg yaaass

Exactly omgg

Hello

Çem Sultan Why don’t you leave that for God to decide?

@Muhammed Dharani What do you want with that information?

@@jackwilliams5474 i think someone name starts with J is an asshole # no one cares 🤣🤣

@@jackwilliams5474 bruh no one cares about ur opinion too why are u telling them go get a life

go to hell

@@muslim_allah-is-the_greate1295 Hell or heaven don't exist.

@@pluviophile5996 you will see it trust me

Jeannine johnson you are an amazing mom 💖

@@sufiandanjali4670 thank you for that i believe in my kids making their own decisions and to make sure they love themselves cause i kno how the real world could be judgmental...

Wow amazing. My mom literally said she would disown me if I was homosexual on the day I was about to tell her when she was watching a movie and a same sex couple appeared in it. I live with my parents my stepdad is homophobic as well he says they just need to pray and thinks it’s a choice. I don’t want to be homeless so I never pursue anything with anyone I’m bisexual btw but i like girls more it’s like a 70/30% ratio I hope I can move out by the time I’m 23 (I’m 19 now and I’m in college but I have to pay for everything so I couldn’t stay in a dorm because it was too expensive and I don’t want debt) :( I’m honestly so depressed but I’m trying to remain optimistic I’ve heard that there are a couple of gay people in my family but they are not talked about and not accepted either I don’t even know who they are I just heard whispers from time to time it sucks. I don’t get how my mom says she’s okay with gay people as long as it’s not her children and I hate it.

it is not that. In Islam - we all believe everyone gets tests from God (Allah). Whether it's in a form of poverty in that are you still thankful and don't give up hope or being rich and how you manage that money and if you flaunt it or are you humble. In losing loved ones from death, or fall - out relationships, or like debt . It's tests from God to each individual and how they manage and how their relationship with God is. In Islam- being gay is test from God also. We understand that being gay is a struggle and that you may want to act on your feelings and you want to express the world you are and not have to hide. But in Islam that in itself is a form of a test. It is okay to have feelings for the same gender- but it's forbidden to act upon it. It's just as the same for Muslim girls who may have a crush on a guy - but you can't go up and tell them and be like hey let's date and I like you. It is a test from God on how you deal with it and whether you fall into this short term happiness compared to when you go to paradise and it's an eternity. Yes- it's kinda true with culture people tend to hate on Gays and we don't at all!! Just cause we disagree with your decision doesn't mean we hate you and you guys don't deserve anything, etc. I respect your decision and admire you if you struggle with your feelings being gay and how you choose to not come out and act on it. Because it's a test. Anyways- some parents do get blinded by that and it's wrong that you shouldn't kick them out/ and try to understand their struggle. Instead they should tell them that it's okay but that don't act on it because Inshallah, Allah will reward a better gift of eternal happiness in paradise. And some parent's turn back on their children because the children themselves have gone the wrong path. They refuse to listen and are blinded by short lived happiness. Hopefully you understand though that not all Muslim Parents do this to children if they are gay. We are told that we should help them get back to the correct path and that it's a test and that to not act upon them. - This is coming from a Muslim teen girl who has a bi bestfriend and Ik a Muslim guy who really struggles with his identity and being gay but he knows that it's a test and that it's wrong to come out and showcase it to the world. It would be like the people of Lut.

smileforever all you are doing is suppressing someone that is not a test because being gay doesn’t harm them. Your friends should live there truth. There is nothing wrong with falling in love with someone of the same gender. It is not the same as you said if a girl has a crush on a guy but she can’t act on it because he is taken because that right there is just normal but for being gay imagine you like someone of the same gender and they like you but you can’t act on it because of society. Imagine you love your family deeply but someone says that’s a sin and you can never bond with them. Also when you are a homosexual you will never be sexually attracted to the opposite gender unless you are bi but there are bi people who like one gender wayyy more than the other. it’s not always 50/50 so if a homosexual person suppressed their feelings and tried to live a “straight” path they would never find true happiness and feel miserable, I think it’s a terrible thing to act like something you are not. Life would already seem like hell. I get where you are coming from but you are not a homosexual yourself so you will never truly understand. I myself have suppressed my feelings for the same sex ever since I recognized that I liked them and I know that I will never be happy with a man and I’ve come to terms of with who I really am, For YEARS I desperately cried and prayed and tried to feel attracted to men so that I can live a traditional life but that’s just not what my heart wants. It is never good to suppress your own happiness except if you’re like a serial killer/ criminal lol but I understand where you come from but please do not say it’s wrong and let your friends be themselves if you love them. If judgement ever does come then homosexuals will face it, it won’t concern you but I know for a fact that god would never turn down a good person because of who they love :) if he did I rather just go to hell then because I rather spend my time on earth with someone I love then always be depressed based off of a “god” that no one knows for certain exists. I hope you just let it go and let gay people be free because that’s all we want. Do not tell anyone to suppress there feelings please I beg of you. I truly see what you are trying to do but trust me that doesn’t work it will only lead to them hating themselves and becoming extremely depressed and ashamed.

Brenda Kamga haha thanks! i get that a lot :)

True. ❤

I see it tooooo!

Exactly

so trueehh 💯 yaaasss

satan 's spawn what photos?

Visionary 707 they did a super cute photoshoot together showcasing their cultural clothing and culture in general and it went viral twitter.com/anj3llyfish/status/1156399884322238464?s=21

Sarah S tysm they were beautiful it’s sad she was outed but I understand how it went viral ahhh love is such a beautiful thing. I don’t know when I’ll be able to come out and find love :(

@@sarahs9404 her own girlfriend outed her??

@@xilfp7g813 no they were both "out" just not to specific people. it went viral and started to spread in their communities and then to their families

Awesome Aashmaa 🤘don’t be afraid dear

Just come out to ur parents if they don't accept that that s their matter. But if they see u how happy u r they will except udr

Sneha John My family hasn’t had even one LGBT member till now I’m 17 now I’ve known I was bisexual since I was 12 but I have been keeping it with myself

@@aashma600 my family too have no lgbtq member . Even I tried coming out expect some of my cousins and my aunts who have accepted my sexuality . But my parents they don't believe coz until this day I had no relationship

@@aashma600 I am Nepali too and I can totally understand u aashma.

I think Sufi is just her name she was not a sufi mystic.

Love from Pakistan

Thank you

i respect the lgbtq community as humans as persons but i don't support them remember if ur mom and dad my mom and dad all the moms and dads in the world were not straight u would'nt be here i would'nt be here those lgbtq ppl would'nt be here so why supporting such a thing their sex life also isn't healthy.....i'm like so tired of understanding with which logic u guys think and i don't see it ur blind u don't see the truth like ughh it's not logical we were born to be STRAIGHT and if anyone does not feel like straight please seek for help and try to overcome it please

Hayat Ch don’t support them if you don’t want to but that is not good reasoning. There are many infertile women who can’t have kids so not all straight people have kids anyways. Also, many straight people do not want to have kids. That would never happen logically. Also, for the lgbtq people who want to have kids but don’t want to have biological ones, it’s not a bad thing because there are many orphans who need to be adopted that won’t be taken in by some people who want biological children, but a preference for biological kids isn’t as big of a thing in lgbtq couples so we can get more kids off the street, not that lgbtq couples are obligated to have kids, but if they choose to, ive seen that they are more likely to adopt than straight couples so it would helps kids in the long run. Also, there’s something called being a surrogate, so even if all the moms and dads in the world were lgbtq, which would logically never happen, science would still be a thing so we would learn that reproduction works by a sperm fertilizing an egg so people would know that and have children through surrogates and reproduction would still be possible.

But we are muslims

@@amaltaher2717 exactly. I'm straight, and I don't want children.

❤

I hope your desires won't act out

@@Mikaeel10 well they do, but I control and myself as much as i can. As I said, I'm just learning to accept this.

@@Mikaeel10 your desire to write this stupid reply is way worse

Everybody needs a friend like you Sarowar

❤️❤️❤️

Iqra sending you so much love my friend :’)

Can we be that blatant? No matter how one may feel.. it is still Haram and will be.. how we can deny that..

@@iqrabilal2370 Only God will judge in afterlife- tell this to anyone who asks

@@ayeshanaseer4980 England, u?

@Pin Apple if we die and realise that there was truth to religion then that's it there is no going back. Your dead and can't undo all the wrong you did in life because you rejected faith.. so it's a big deal.

Esha Sood It wasn’t easy, thank you for acknowledging that 💞 - Sufi

You're never alone!

Hey Sapna. Did u come out yet to your family?

@@annshii6771 Hey! I am straight. This comment was not because I relate but just to show support 🙂

...gay is prohibited in Islam and quran...If anyone disagree with quran , then they are no muslim anymore..Desire is not haram in islam if u act upon it that is haram...then you are not muslim..U can have gay desire , If u act upon it ..then u are not muslim..It is a test from allah.allah destoried a city because they act upon their haram desire like gay both bible and quran

@@rushadmahmud1699 astaghfirullah you're not the One to declare such things about fellow humans.

@ggao001 I have had this issue with my evangelical family since they found out about me reverting to Islam 😅

Hi Maryam aftab

I love u u u i like u u really meet me 💏💑😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

Yeah well, SHE doesn't live in Pakistan be more careful over there.

One would wonder why EVERY GAY MUSLIM person wouldn't stand with Israel. Only Western Muslim gays don't understand how important it is!

...gay is prohibited in Islam and quran...If anyone disagree with quran , then they are no muslim anymore..Desire is not haram in islam if u act upon it that is haram...then you are not muslim..U can have gay desire , If u act upon it ..then u are not muslim..It is a test from allah.allah destoried a city because they act upon their haram desire like gay both bible and quran

Sending u love and i hope u will remain safe

Don't be a sinner you can't be gay and a Muslim

@@saniaarain5156 omg youre so right, i can just feel the gayness leaving my body WOW😮😮 thank you, you really saved my life😭😭

Allah (SWT) has made the perfect creation for worshipping Him. Humans, by nature are flawed, experience desires, and make mistakes. Being LGBT, and feeling an attraction to the same gender is a test that the person is being put through. To resist the humanly desires, and instead, choose the path of righteousness is a very noble deed. By the way, in Islam, one is allowed to feel attraction to the same gender. Desires are a natural human trait. But to act on these desires is haram. One must marry the opposite gender or remain single if it is not possible to do this. Allah (SWT) knows your struggle, and you are rewarded immensely for resilience. To follow the path to Allah (SWT) is the only way to make it to heaven in the afterlife.

@@first_day_of_samar4358 OK then leave Islam and go to hell or wherever u want

ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-GtyZWbpVToo.html.

Srijana Smith oh gosh 🥺 this comment made me cry

Yes narcissism

you can just say muslim

@@MuhammadImran-ln4fz ew creep

@@MuhammadImran-ln4fz dude stop

@@MuhammadImran-ln4fz what

@@MuhammadImran-ln4fz What's your insta

im in the same situation im a fifteen non-binary bisexual living in a homophobic household and country and i feel like ill never come out of fear of loosing my family and i want to tell you that i support you and accept you, you matter you will be happy you will live a free life don’t listen to the hateful comments you have my upmost respect and support !

@@maydayjanette226 do u know about gelman ??

How were you able to meet another LGBT Muslim?

@@anon20000 it's fairly easy with social media now. There's a lot of groups for LGBTQ Muslims and other things that help connect u with them.

I am really happy for you two! I am a Muslim as well and all I just feel scared what if I am not able to connect with Allah anymore

Wait sufi still prays namaz and is a practicing Muslim ?

Your partner may be advising you and reminding you to pray but the fact still remains that it is forbidden in islam.

I'm sorry that happened to u but at least she will still be connected to u. Don't worry u are amazing and people who don't accept u for who u are don't deserve u. Just live ur life and be happy ❤️

I'm 17, Indian, and this year I came out to my parents, I came out because I wanted to live my life the way I want, by being myself and I could not pretend to like men anymore, it was exhausting, so when I came out they were pretty chill about it, but I guess that would not be the cause for other people are in the lgbtqa+ community, so what I have to say is that, get a good education, follow your passion, invest your time doing what you find best for you, it might take a long while to figure it out but once you start earning money, you can then live in your own house, where you can live your life with your partner ❤️❤️❤️

Hey what do you do for your survival?

Samee😬😂

Hiii

Well then I'm a Nepali too and I didn't expect it as well😅😂 I love you too both😍❤️

Hit me up on my ig @ _vishaka_09 maybe I get a chance jk 😂

Hi sweetie, it sounds like narcissism. Would you like to speak on Instagram?

..gay is prohibited in Islam and quran...If anyone disagree with quran , then they are no muslim anymore..Desire is not haram in islam if u act upon it that is haram...then you are not muslim..U can have gay desire , If u act upon it ..then u are not muslim..It is a test from allah.allah destoried a city because they act upon their haram desire like gay both bible and quran..

You know you can marry a man being a bisexual.

U should be more worried about where you'll end up

Astaghfirullah

I hope that day will come for u bro. But idk when

your gonna be joining her in hell

Please recite surah qayamah

Friends?

@@nomisatti1650 ??

its very difficult to be a lesbian in pakistan & in muslim family i'm still figuring out what can i do 💔

Laanat

​@@dieticianAfrashame on you

@Mashiyattt ...gay is prohibited in Islam and quran...If anyone disagree with quran , then they are no muslim anymore..Desire is not haram in islam if u act upon it that is haram...then you are not muslim..U can have gay desire , If u act upon it ..then u are not muslim..It is a test from allah

Shame on you

Allah (SWT) has made the perfect creation for worshipping Him. Humans, by nature are flawed, experience desires, and make mistakes. Being LGBT, and feeling an attraction to the same gender is a test that the person is being put through. To resist the humanly desires, and instead, choose the path of righteousness is a very noble deed. By the way, in Islam, one is allowed to feel attraction to the same gender. Desires are a natural human trait. But to act on these desires is haram. One must marry the opposite gender or remain single if it is not possible to do this. Allah (SWT) knows your struggle, and you are rewarded immensely for resilience. To follow the path to Allah (SWT) is the only way to make it to heaven in the afterlife.

@@nazbuddeee8989 mashallah, may Allah bless you brother for inviting people to the truth...

@@nazbuddeee8989 🤢🤮

Side effct to waching porn

AriWilson It makes me so happy that I can do that for you 💖

@@sufiandanjali4670 you should be arrested Let’s see what we can do Wait and see

@@sufiandanjali4670 goffy ass alien figure. Father less figure haram Astagfirulla get some help. You aint following islam just following shaytan doing public sin without any shame. Revert back your mistake or you will be in hell fire leave this gay stuff or your religion

Daanggg.... It's nice seeing someone from my country being nice to the community :) much love 💕

honestly if my daughter turned out gay, i would be so disappointed and regret life choices

@@unixrel419 Why?

@@unixrel419 then dont have kids if you wont support and love them unconditionally. you will wonder why they wont talk to you once they move out!

Its just sad to see how many children are falling for this. May God protect the youth

@@mrnorthz9373 you mean simply realizing their sexuality?

Muhammad Imran Go away creep, learn how to talk/type😂

A F I swear he is all over the place SMH😂

good dear

sana all

❤️💜

i’ve read it!

​@@sufiandanjali4670shame on you nosane maro gi to kya jwab do gi qabar mai aik to kud burai mai lagi ho dosra logo ko b batati ho tum jo marzi karo apna name muslim wala na use karo qoom lot pair azab daik lo agar muslim oti tum to quran mujeed mai kya lilkha hai is k bary mai par laiti jaum k ag mai jalo tum yai dua hai hamri

i feel bad for laughing

@@sapphic7779 excuse me , thats so immature of u , coming out is very hard for some ppl , are straight? cause ur acting like one

@@onedirectionxot596 first off im not straight

@@onedirectionxot596 and second i felt very baddd for what the person typed the only reason why i laughed was because someone made a joke to make the person feel better but they deleted the comment

@@sapphic7779 well it alright , but delete the reply she might feel bad

Allah isn't real

Haider Munir sending you so much love Haider!

"color like us" what does that mean?

Im so so grateful for my girlfriend, but I don't want to trouble her with all of this,, you guys are a big inspiration for me and a ton of people too 💖

@@overlaur Great 👍🏻

there is no such thing as ‘lesbian muslim’ either ur muslim or not

Even satan is confused.

Lesbians Muslim? Congratulations you are part of tribe of prophet lut who was punished by Allah...

.gay is prohibited in Islam and quran...If anyone disagree with quran , then they are no muslim anymore..Desire is not haram in islam if u act upon it that is haram...then you are not muslim..U can have gay desire , If u act upon it ..then u are not muslim..It is a test from allah.allah destoried a city because they act upon their haram desire like gay both bible and quran

Why u not tell

​@@rockyesportsgaming586it is a sin

Same

I'm so sorry but times will definitely change k...everything will be fine with time

...gay is prohibited in Islam and quran...If anyone disagree with quran , then they are no muslim anymore..Desire is not haram in islam if u act upon it that is haram...then you are not muslim..U can have gay desire , If u act upon it ..then u are not muslim..It is a test from allah

I feel the same

Most of the lesbian and gay men have become ex muslim . There are groups that have meetings and get together so you could go to one of them !!. In Canada and USA they are open about being Muslim and gay . In the UK it is kept more hush hush because the majority of people are a bit backward in their thought.. But there are lesbian Muslim women in the UK who are now coming out !!! But you need to be prepared for the backlash which will not be very nice from the religion of peace !!!

Shame on you haram.khor why you use name of Allah ypu know qoom.lot insha Allah Allah give you saza like qoom.lot shame on you

Unspoken Dreams Good luck my friend ❤️

hope it goes wel!l!

How did it go?

Yess💯

Shame on you

Ys

Hey you got this!! Eventually you will move out and find your community. Im proud of you. And bts is proud of you. Purple you 💜💜

@@rubabraja9207 you don't know how much your words made my day better thank you so much💜💜

Do you know the story of prophet lut (as)?

@@clario371 do you know the story of my vagina?

​@@clario371 do you know nobody cares

@@mysticani1691 i have the right to give advice to muslims as a muslim, and that is what my religion commanded me, soo it's between me and my muslim sisters and none of your business honey

@@clario371 Damn you must be fun at parties.... (Also that's clearly a brother's comment not a sister so I guess you should be minding your own business then huh!)

You like girls?

Sadqa Khairat ? Dua ? Lol these things are for Good Deeds not for anti Islam activities like homosexuality

You are right

In India homosexuality and homosexual marriage is legally.

This why you guys should have stayed part of India since it's a pluralistic society.