Surviving Narcissism & Codependency: Richard Grannon's Life-Changing Advice - AEM #73 | Piers Cross

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Join us as Richard Grannon delves into the complexities of narcissism and codependency, reflecting on his unique upbringing in Portugal and challenging times in boarding school. Visit my website for more: www.piers-cross...
Discover how martial arts shaped his perspective on resilience and self-awareness. Grannon also explores the deep psychological themes of "1984", offering invaluable insights into coping with complex PTSD. A compelling narrative that's both enlightening and deeply personal.
Richard Grannon is a leading author and one of the internet's leading teachers about narcissism and codependency with over 70 million views on RU-vid and 500,000 subscribers.
He is passionate about helping others defend themselves, get back on their feet, and finally free themselves from narcissistic abuse.
Drawing on numerous forms of psychotherapy, including NLP, cognitive behavioral therapy, zen meditation, psychodynamics, and more, Grannon’s unique methodology offers a direct, practical solution to help narcissistic abuse victims reclaim their self-worth.
He is the author of the book, A Cult of One.
Some areas to explore:
1. I would love for you to share how you got into the work that you now do?
2. Could you please introduce narcissism and codependency? What are they and how do they show up in people and relationships? (P.14)
3. What are some of the symptoms of narcissism? (P.78)
4. Other areas for exploration:
1. Your boarding school experiences and how it impacted you.
2. Boarding schools and narcissism
3. Narcissism and our leaders
4. Consumer capitalism and how it teaches us greed and immaturity (P.82)
5. The psychology of combatives and martial arts - what did martial arts teach you
6. People pleasers and the 15 traits (P. 63)
7. The Golden Child (can do no wrong) / Black Sheep (“who cannot do anything right” (P.66)
8. The difference between PTSD and Complex PTSD
9. NPD “It was seen as excessive self-admiration rooted in a failure to develop feelings of love outwards in childhood.”) P.66)
10. Narcissistic abuse
5. How do people find out more about your work?
The video is about "Surviving Narcissism & Codependency: Richard Grannon's Life-Changing Advice - AEM Ep 73" but also tries to cover the following subjects:
Healing from Narcissism
Breaking Free from Codependency
Martial Arts as Therapy
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@LoveStar333 Год назад

An incredible interview! Very well done - well organized, educational and informative. The mention of Iron Sights brought me back to a memory of Camp Pendleton as a teenager. The description of how the different types of bullets penetrate & wound the body was a perfect analogy of how our emotional and spiritual bodies get auric fissures with PTSD and CPTSD.

@Wingedmagician Год назад

Great interviewer brought out the best in Richard thx

@qiversity1 6 месяцев назад

iI was in the boarding school for 9 years, have now three years of narcissistic abuse behind me and teach Qigong. I'm nodding all the time while listening to this, thank you for your work, I'm glad to have found your channel today, Piers 🙏🏼 greetings from Germany

@altheeaself76 Год назад

Liked and shared to all my limited social access

@VReyesMusic Год назад

Amazing conversation. Piers Cross has such a sweet spirit and exudes peace. I learned so much watching this. “Angering” mirrors a spiritual method that western Christian religions teach. It’s where a person speaks the truth of the word of God over the lie of the inner critic. For instance if the lie is “you’re a worthless piece of crap”, one would speak the truth of the Bible that God speaks over us such as 2 Peter 2:9: you are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, called out of darkness, into His marvelous light. Speaking the scriptures over myself has been amazing for my own healing of the inner critic.

@vanessasworder Год назад

Fascinating he has not experienced any narcissistic abuse or if he has he does not want to talk about it ….regardless Great interview thank you piers you are a sweet soul

@altheeaself76 Год назад

An incredible interview; thank you.

@CaesarBest Год назад

Liked and shared, thanks Piers!

@collie8 Год назад

you look like top pro about the boarding school topic :) good job guys

@pickle9753 Год назад

Thank you for this conversation. ❤️☯️💪🔥 It triggered a beating I took at 7 years old from my step dad, that I had not really looked at the severity of, overly seriously before. I just registered it, and let it sit there all my life. The reality that I was almost literally beaten to death, but I still refused to comply and admit to some thing I didn’t do, at such a young age, helps me understand a lot about my self as an adult. The reality, and flash back of me being such a tiny little girl, and I just gave in to it and had accepted my fate of death because I was beaten for so long with a belt, that I was exhausted and couldn’t cry any more in that moment, hit me hard while listening to this today, for some reason. I believe I have cried and grieved for that little girl before, thanks to you Richard. But for some reason the cry was extra hard today. That poor little girl. I’m angry as an adult, for her, I think. Looking back now I can’t believe any one would do that to some one, but I realize that I was beaten that severely because the beating prior, when mom wasn’t home, I was told to pull my pants down and bend over the bed for my lickin with the belt, but I said no. Twice. He made me look at him and say no, a second time. I was 7, and my bedroom was moved to the basement with the boys right after that. The next time I got a beating, I was beaten to the point of exhaustion and not even having the energy to cry any more. I remember I was soaked in sweat, and begging him to stop, and he still didn’t. I have no idea where my mom was when he did that. I remember him continuing to beat me even after I couldn’t cry any more, and was just laying there in exhaustion. He seriously just kept wiping me with that belt. I wonder now, what happened to him when he was a kid, that he would do that to such a tiny little girl. I know as an adult, he almost killed me. Thank you for helping trigger all this gross childhood shit, so I can finally just get it all out and register it for what it actually was, so it registers properly, so I can grieve, and let it go….Instead of trying to just ignore it and leave it in the past, like I have for a large part of my adult life. The time I was almost beaten to death when I was 7, by a father figure that wanted to see my bare bum, and I told no……I keep forgetting how tough, and bad ass I used to be 😉💪🔥 I adore you for reminding me constantly 🥰 thank you so much darling ❤️☯️🖖☮️🦋 You described my life now…I live and sit with it all, in silence. My home, my retreat, is the only safe silent place left on the planet..I think lol

@melissaxenawarriorprincess Год назад

I'm so sorry you went through this. My "father" used to beat me with a belt too regularly.

@pickle9753 Год назад

@@melissaxenawarriorprincess thank you. I’m sorry too, that you went through that. No child should ever be a scape goat for their parents. 😢 Sending hugs and love from Alberta. Best wishes on your healing journey moving forward. ❤️💪🔥☯️🖖☮️🦋

@xyxy5978 Год назад

Thank you so much! You might want to listen to some really nice music while sitting on your bench... So here is one beautiful song by the Avett Brothers: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-bS40Q2IOp8Q.html What I like most about Richard Grannon is that he always tells people that you need a philosophy of life. Please keep up the good work (if you're so inclined).

@pickle9753 Год назад

Thanks for sharing. That’s a nice song 👍👍

@sanctuaryplace Год назад

The yong yang is similar to Christianity in that you cast out thoughts from the devil and reaffirm the Fathers love ❤

@wonderfulwenna2710 Год назад

What’s wrong with some co-dependence?

@VReyesMusic Год назад

In my experience, co-dependence implies needing to support others to our own detriment and therefore any measure of that is not healthy. We should always have boundaries and support others in a way that doesn’t limit or minimize ourselves. Grannon’s book “A Cult of One” makes this point beautifully. Co-dependency is too often disguised as “selflessness” and “being a good or giving person”. Just like narcissists can disguise their selfishness as “ambition” or “assertiveness”. We must all search our hearts and ask ourselves what delusions we are living to cover trauma.

@moisesmera7913 Год назад

What on earth did that interviewer go through. His introject sounds horrible

@liaevans9776 Год назад

Come on guys, have more planned interviews please! Have your questions ready, good questions, not just jumping from one place to another chat! Sorry 18 minutes wasted so far

@pickle9753 Год назад

I loved every second of it, and thought it was fantastic, and much needed. I hope you stayed till the end…if not you missed a really interesting conversation, regarding many topics that need to be talked about more because of the way the world and our species is headed. Listening to Richard Grannon, and his friends…is literally the most important conversations I’ve ever invested my time into….. ever 😳🤷🏻‍♀️ There is nothing him or his friends have EVER said, that is a waist of my time, and that I wasn’t able to learn or grow from. He’s literally my favourite person on the planet rn (yes I know that’s sad 😂🤷🏻‍♀️) It’s unfortunate you don’t feel the same. Perhaps try listening on another day…it may resonate differently 🤷🏻‍♀️ Good luck, and well wishes to you on your healing journey moving forward 🖖