None of my characters have engaged in romances with any of these four NPCs. I wonder when the original romances will get a date night. Probably not a priority since there's no same sex option for those.
Need access to content that takes place after Shadow of Revan if you want to get date missions for these characters specifically. More Date Night missions will be added for other companions over time but for now it's just the main companions you can romance during KOTFE & KOTET.
Kind of cringe, man. How does someone romancing a male character as a male character in their video game affect you? It's not like you're forced to be gay with him or anything. RPGs are all about choices so being able to choose romances without gender locking like base game is fantastic.