Take My Daughter Out Of The Will Since She's Cut Me Out Of Her Life? 

Yes! Good to see other people who can relate to that here (although I’m sorry that this happened to your wife!) because some of these comments are so judgmental. 🙄

@@RianneMision thanks for saying so. We tried for many years to no avail. They are always in our prayers and we hope they are happy. In many ways my wife thinks she did them the favor. We could never live up to their standards, so we stopped trying.

I don’t like hand outs I rather put in the work and earn my own money 💰

@user-ki7mf7iz2f, I agree with you that there are good reasons for distancing yourself from family, such as the example you gave, but what many people don't realize is....that there are children who have given up on their families for reasons that aren't good reasons. They just decided to abandon their families, and yes that DOES happen. I've heard story after story of it happening to even good parents in the past few years. If the parents were so bad, for one thing, why would all their other children not abandon them too, and yet they don't. It's usually just that one child who decides to behave that way.

@@elchapojr6219 its not a hand-out, nor is a Trust-fund, its a financial gift given with love to take some of the stress and worries out of life. Who on earth wants to stand by and watch their children struggle. NOT ME, with every fibre in my being.

1000% correct. I could care less about the money. I want a mother who isn't an abusive narcissist.

Another example of people losing their sanity during the hysteria

@@SerErryk 💯💯💯

@@SerErryk And, for adult children too. They abuse parents, and grandparents financially. It goes both ways. But, this is about not agreeing about the political consequences of cv! THAT'S why they are not communicating.

My sister said she didn’t want anything from my dad when she disowned him. She said she did not care that she was no longer in his will. When he died, a year later, my sister was very regretful. She said she thought she’d eventually talk to him again. She has never forgiven herself. My sister would have inherited a farm, but now she rents an apartment in a ghetto.

Exactly 💯

Agreed

Agree 100%

Hundred per cent.

Absolutely I agree

Yes yes yes!

Nope the pandemic really pushed so many people over the edge

Still doesn't affect the will. If she wants to cut her out for whatever reason it is her right to do so. Seems like more than anything she is just asking for permission so she doesn't feel bad about doing so.

This is well said

Agreed.

I pray that never happens.

@@Rosemary-up1ql you cannot make people do the right thing. Things like this happen all the time. I think he gave her wonderful advice. Change the will.. like yesterday.. ok OK?

There was more going on, than whether or not mom should be kissing and cuddling family during a pandemic. Note: she shouldn't. But I know a lot of families did. The problems came, when the families didn't agree on their behaviour. Or when one ended up spreading covid inadvertently, killing the person they gave it to and became racked by guilt.

1. I agree with you. 2. If you are somehow implying that she had no choice because it was “required” for her job, then don’t kid yourself. Life is filled with choices, m’friend. We chose for my wife to be a housewife, and we gave up the option to buy a boat and to vacation every year, etc. Another commenter above said, “You can’t put a price on your mental health and self-esteem, and I couldn’t agree more. My body and my health (i.e. NOT getting the jab) is WAY more important than keeping some dumb job. What good is that job if she dies from clotting a year later?????

Even more what is needed is an understanding of the around-the-world panic that was created by this originally unknown serious killer virus of millions of people, elderly or not, predisposed or not, immunologically compromised or not, obese or not or even young and healthy - they all, literally died before their time was due! Couple that with an already present and growing paranoia of modern science and distrust of vaccines already prevalent in society, mostly in the United States of America, you have the ingredients of tremendous conflict within the nation let alone families. This is PTSD on a national level and the uneven response caused by the already divisive politics in the US exacerbated the crisis and delayed the recovery of the public’s health and the economy. Everyone, everywhere needs to look at the broader future potential consequences of the next global pandemic and then, perhaps , we could get on the same page in terms of a plan to prevent catastrophe. IMO, don’t write your daughter off yet. She is your flesh and blood. Thoughts and analysis of this major event in all of our lives have not settled yet. It’s too soon and emotions are still superseding rationality.

@@WildnUnrulyglad

Isn't it interesting how all you people expect everyone to respect your choices but you fail utterly to respect anyone else's? How utterly 'not charming'. You weren't advocating for anyone except your own fears.@@WildnUnruly

The biggest criminal scam in history

Wow

How convenient….

Thank you for sharing Elizabeth. We all desire the reconciliation to happen this side of heaven. But, it has to start with us and admitting to oneself the truth of our part in it... Is a good place to start.

@@soonermagic24 what was convenient?

@@kbanghart how she felt to meet him after 30 years when she realized he was at the end.. somehow he mentioned she had an inheritance.. how convenient

It had a giant issue, they chose to send their daughter to a university in a left-wing state. Always a bad decision

Or was an excuse that was convient for Dd to say good bye for a relationship that didn’t serve her.

Doesn't make it ok.

Uh, she's not speaking to her sister either.......it's the daughter in CO. The place is a sesspool in Denver.

I guarantee the mother is not innocent. She’s the narc calling.

That’s sort of what I have done, left my daughter out of my will, left both my sons in and included my wonderful bonus daughter in my will ( because they may not be my daughter, they treat me like a bonus mom. Even if it is sad to lose a child, I am Blessed to have 2 bonus daughters.

the trouble with that is that sometimes the inheriting sibling feels huge guilt. It happened to my friends Mother. Her Grannie died and left a lot of money to my friends daughter as the other daughter and her were estranged. The estranged daughter has said a lot of things and refused to assist her mother. she was the one who lived near her. Fine. so the other daughter was left it all. However, she is a soft and nice lady and felt this wasn't fair.. so she gave her sister half of the money. Six months later, the other daughter was diagnosed as seriously ill. with Mad Cow Disease.. I cannot recall the medical term now. her sons, my friends cousins, go the inheritance which the family were ok with as their Mother sadly died in hospital after a terrible time.

same thing happened to my parents. I cannot understand why my sister did that to our parents who are in their 80s.

Well maybe the daughter wad abused in some way. I cut my parents off because my mother is a narcissist and abused all of us for 6 decades.

Same, its not always the family’s fault…

Nobody claimed the daughter wanted anything. That’s your assumption.

@@NicE-jq3wv well if she doesn’t want it then she shouldn’t have anything to say if she doesn’t get it. I’m just saying if she does want it, she can’t expect to get it while hating the people who are supposed to give it

This “take no prisoners” attitude to relationships is so terrible.

Nice Christian perspective.

@@annaolson6386 ya wouldn’t you know the estranged DIL was brought up with the bible, bible school, bible college, youth bible school, and she’s the cause…is that a Christian?

Sounds like you have one or more narc parents? In the beginning I got that vibe from the mom but it changed a bit toward the end. I guarantee there is more to this story as well.

Yeah, that is kind of what I was thinking as I listened to this woman speak. I was pretty sure there was more to the story.

@@dustyrhodes2717 If Dr. John was on the call, that's what he would have said.

Way more to this story than we were told. Nobody cuts off their parents and sister over a masking disagreement

Yes there might be more to the story but it is still Mom’s money to do with as she pleases.

Money going to someone who actually deserves it, that's what's achieved. Instead of the money going to an entitled brat who was brainwashed by the media and chose wokeness over their own parents.

Only when they're using it as a tool for control.

Exactly, I doubt the daughter wants any money from her parents

Well said. Thank you. It's very similar to a divorce in some ways. 😔

@@kristenmarie9248 Worse than divorce. One is a spouse and not blood related and did not come out of ones womb. The children come from our bodies and have an intrinsic bond. Most times. But I will not deny divorce is bad, because that is usually a catalyst for estrangement of one or more children.

Yes! Worst feeling ever

Agree 100%

Agreed. Such a continually painful experience.

But the son came back. The lady's daughter hasn't come back and might never will. Mom is willing to take her back.

Thank you. This one billion million percent.

​@@standingonmountain3975but the son got the inheritance BEFORE he left. The father willingly gave the son his portion knowing he would be leaving and likely never to return, even upon the father's death. I.e., collecting in advance. Like hello?

Or maybe some parents need to do some introspection. There are many parents who scapegoat a child and then wonder why that child wants no contact.

@@SunnyDays70s Of course. We all need to examine ourselves. But no one is obligated to leave anything to to anyone they don't want to.

@@jeannet7443 There is nothing my children could do for me to cut them out of my Will. It’s called unconditional love. Christian’s like to preach it but can’t seem to do it.

@@SunnyDays70s That is your opinion. Love is not proven by wills and money. The best thing you can do for an errant child is to pray for them.

@@jeannet7443 Then a will doesn’t need to be taken away because the daughter’s love isn’t proven by boundaries with her mother or not.

We aren't responsible for our parents financially in reality, and if we're in a position to help them that's a huge blessing. Especially if we are responsible for families of our own. The thought of that alone is enough to plunge someone into a deep depression. Life is not an exact thing and maybe all of this is too much for her to deal with. I know that I'm far more fiscally responsible than my older sister, but that's just how it is. It's just not how she's wired, and I had to realize and accept that. It's best to keep an open mind and heart because you never know what the future will bring.

I thought the same thing. I would still see my daughter and her family even if I couldn't hug them. The mom was my way or the highway. More to the story, definitely.

I see it the same way. There is more to this story. "if I can't hug you I'm not seeing you" if frankly stupid. Respect others feelings and concerns. I'm not so sure the Mom isn't the problem here.

Thought the same thing

Reminds me of when my mom cries victim cuz I won't talk to her. She was severely emotionally abusive. But when she's talking to other people you would think I was the demon. (Or unreasonable) You don't cut off somebody so firmly over one event. If it's a small thing it's usually the straw that broke the camel's back.

Right. I need to hear the daughter’s side. This issue was probably the last straw. 😮

Perhaps, but it was an extreme overreaction for mom choosing not to visit on daughter's terms. They could have simple agreed to wait to meet in person, but daughter slammed the door on the relationship and deadbolted it.

She wasn't refusing to visit, she wasn't going to fly to Colorado from TX to be snubbed as "unclean". Canceling a trip isn't the same as the daughter cutting off the mother and not continuing to communicate.

Yes, also note we heard nothing about what was said in that conversation. That is one of the issues. They were talking until they had the "heated conversation".

The "hug" set me off too. Right there I said there was more than masking and social distancing in the fight, or mom (caller) is a bully that told daughter how to manage daughter's house

This Mom probably did exactly what my narcissist Mother does which is bulldoze boundaries her children try to hold when they are adults. Some parents don’t know how to let go of control. It’s sad for everyone involved.

More fool them, no point chasing somebody and begging for a relationship. If they want to leave they are adults and can do what they want.

Sounds like the daughter doesn't want a face to face meeting from the start lol

1000000%!

Same

The daughter wouldn't accept the lawyers letter indicating she received an inheritance, thus preventing your estate from being settled.

Sounds like the daughter's belief was that a vaccine was more important than their relationship with their mother. Pathetic.

And the daughter wasn't willing to respect her mother's beliefs. Daughter is keeping control over access to her kids. Grandma is keeping control over her money. Seems pretty even. Regardless of if her daughter was an angel, an inheritance is a gift, not a right.

Exactly. That’s what I said in my original comment!

There's so many. There's some people who refuse to remain kind and loving regardless. I could tell you stories.

I'm sorry that happened and that so many people fell for the stupidity. Bless you.

I’ll will records

I made an absolute rule for myself to never discuss religion or politics with family because family relations are immutable. Nature doesn't care about our political opinions when it creates these unconditional ties.

People cause these rifts. The media brings the topic then people choose to do what they want with them and unfortunately that choice is breaking up families. Don't blame the media for everything. They could have choosen what you did.

Good for him. Its obvious he made right choice.

@@usa2121 Don't be mad you are not in the will and life insurance policy.

Not questioning your decision, but I am wondering if that could be contested in court once you're gone as a judge might see it as unfair to that child as they don't seem to care about the why. I've heard of wills being contested all the time and someone getting money they don't deserve.

As it should be!

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

💯

Some kids don’t care about their parents wealth.

@@charleslavoie5402 Another win for the parents obviously.

@@charleslavoie5402 I certainly didn't care. There's not enough money in the world that could've made me bow down and be controlled. Keep your money and anything else. I wanted NOTHING.

No, it's not simple. Not if you have a "normal" parent/child relationship.

I totally agree with you. For her to disowned her daughter is beyond disgusting. There's definitely more she's not saying... Don't agree with that

I mean... My sister-in-law stopped talking to my husband and I because we got pregnant during the pandemic and she thought it was irresponsible!

@@Sunflower_lwI mean a lot of ppl felt that way! I even had second thoughts while my gf was pregnant during the pandemic! Hoping I wasn’t putting the baby and mother at risk

@@reese85 That doesn't make it right to take it out on a innocent child.

@@celpaz4584 the daughter disowned her The daughter is whack

Right? Lots of holes in the story.

I'm from the UK and 1000 miles is way too far. I would have sent the invitation though.

Yep

Go play your video game.

Mom and sister refused to send other sister an invite to the wedding. I’d say mom and sister crossed a line big time. The daughter had her heart broken. Then still opens the door to mom for a visit. Mom insists on coming and hugging and kissing her. Uh, what?? Mom wants to force hugs and kisses or no visit. Mom refuses to come. Daughter has her heart broken again. Cuts off all contact. Mom cuts daughter out of her will. Talk about TOXIC.

@@CO2isfakeyou’re making a lot of assumptions

We have one that has been a problem forever. The other 3 are fine. You never know

@@CO2isfake35 year old daughter had cut off her 34 year old sister months before 35 year old cut off the mom. All their mail was returned unopened. Why send a wedding invitation to someone who’s not going to open it, much less respond? Of course, this is all mom’s story in the video, so who knows what the whole story really is? Am I the only one wondering if this 35 year old is in a relationship with a controlling partner who’s trying to keep her from her family?

Nope, it's mom's money

The mother is fine. The covidiqn daughter is the problem.

I always say money is everything.

@@blackworldtraveler3711 Are you saying money is more important than family?

@@thefcleary I said money is everything.

That’s not the same.

I too wouldn't cut my estranged child out.....

That’s true parental love that this mom does not possess.

Situation is different, if the parent has been good, but the adult child is just a disingenuous prick, well - "I done raised you, the rest is up to you, you can make your own goddamn money, like I did" is pretty much the defacto answer. Adult children who EXPECT an inheritance absolutely do not deserve one.

Much better to mention the daughter and state what she gets (the cookie jar in the kitchen, for example). That would head off lawsuits about forgetting her in the will.

Sometimes people do not want the obligations that comes with being inside of a family.

Or what did the older daughter do to fracture their relationship.

No way is it right to blame the mother. It could be a political divide.

The Mom is omitting the "long story" of the mom being a right-wing parrot and owning the libtards.

I'm sure there was wrong done on both sides.

The daughter sounds mental.

Completely agree.

100%. If you scroll thru comments a ton of ppl just accept this as 100% what happened and that mom was innocent. This is a big problem! There's been no open discussion regarding these topics, only debates ugh

Not permanent advice; he said if the daughter comes back, they can always change the will back.

@@elizabethblane201 The damage and broken trust will already have been done, and what if it doesn't get reversed. Let a family Counceller, experienced in these issues, work it out with them, not a financial guy on the radio.

@@HamiltonRb That would be great if they can work it out in counseling, but in the meantime, don't reward the daughter's hostility with an inheritance.

Why quotes around "pandemic"? You really think it didn't happen?

I believe this was the tipping point. I have known other families deeply divided. One side is called murderers or ignorant for not taking a new therapy, the other side was called cold or gullible for missing milestone events like weddings and funerals. Underlying issues may have been there, but it is hard to get past being called a murderer or having your desire to stay safe considered uncaring.

Not really. Come to Melbourne and speak to anyone who didn’t take the 🥕or didn’t adhere to the “rules”… many of us lost family, friends and our jobs. And yes, literally over something like that because they believed we were dangerous and going to “off” them

There really doesn't have to be more to this. If one person thinks you're a murderer for not adhering and the other person thinks you're not going to control what they inject into their bodies, both vehement in their beliefs, this is a potential outcome.

@@ellencox8415 except we can see one side is clearly wrong. All data shows this. Maybe they are too embarrassed to be humble and apologize for being so brazenly hateful.

Well said!

I find these boundaries responses fascinating. The expectation is that Mom and Dad should bend to every desire of their daughter but she has the duty to set boundaries. Perhaps being treated as infected was a boundary the parents did value crossing. Why are their boundaries not respected? Best we can tell, Mom and Dad had their invitation rescinded or chose not to go. Daughter flew off the handle choosing to end the relationship over Mom and Dad's boundaries rather than agreeing to simply wait on a meeting until everyone could come to acceptable boundaries.

You're absolutely right..I totally agree with you.

Super agree. ❤

This is what I've done with my estranged daughter since she still has some contact with her siblings. No matter how much she tries to erase me from her life, she will always be my daughter, and I will always love her. However, should she refuse her portion of inheritance as she does done with anything else from me, her portion will be divided among my grandchildren. All of her siblings know of this inclusion. My son, who is executor, with my permission has already appraised his sister of this provision concerning her inheritance, and she was surprised by it.

YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT YOU WOULD DO UNLESS YOU ARE IN THE SITUATION. I CAN SURELY ATTEST TO THIS!

Why would leaving her an inheritance a measure of the mother's love...? You cant buy love.

EXACTLY. In my comment above other people pointed this out and I’m glad more and more people are starting to recognize this behavior has a label.

Or the daughter is the narcissist. 🤷‍♀️ can’t really tell from this.

@@kathykoeven you can tell based on who’s the one having the issue with a boundary (respecting someone’s boundaries), in this case, the child’s mother and hugs/safety for get kid (even how “crazy” it may seem), grandma should respect that even if it’s “crazy”.

100%. The mom is using the will as a power trip and manipulation tactics while trying to looking like the victim and get pity from others. The bond to a parent is VERY strong. You have to be a REALLY bad parent to have your kid completely cut you off

@@kathykoeven narcs don't cut people off. They try to get people to stay around by being toxic. Narcs love attention. Literally will never push someone out of their lives if they can help it.

Sounds like they all just shut down. Sad.

Dr. Delony should’ve handled this one. He would’ve gotten to the bottom of where the estrangement really came from.

She could have done like billions of others during the pandemic, and restricted contact to telephone calls, face time, mails and social media. It isn't like 100 years back, when you could only contact someone by making a house call, or writing a letter.

You'd get the other 50 cents then lol.

I had made the same decision as Dave recommended. I needed to stop thinking I had to take care of my child, my child made their decisions. I am now in a place that I need to take care of myself. Dave is right, there needs to be adjustments to reflect the reality.

Yup, I call my son The Walking Dead. He’s alive, living with his abusive, narcissist father, but because I left my abusive ex, I AM THE ONE TO BLAME!

For us as well, we did change our will some 2 years later, she gets a little something, but not what it was

Sounds like my crazy ex and his mother brainwashing my daughter since she was small. I let go and I feel better. If she wants to talk to me she will have to contact me. Plus the nerve she has since she didnt care for her own daughter​@@ebriggs3498

I call my two oldest people I gave birth to.

Yeah, but people are coo coo for coco puffs over this deal. If the vaccine works, she shouldn't have been pushing her family away anymore. It's a psychological disorder brought on my media consumption

@@melanieb2132 there’s also more to story. We are only hearing one side.

Plus the daughter has little kids who she doesn't want to get sick !

​@@Elizabeth-yg2mgdo you still believe the 'rona non-sense?

@smittyvidz25fire84 - this aged well. 🙄

That's right. Just because you had kids doesn't mean you're right or a good person.

Exactly!! They could have gotten a hotel room and met at a public park. Would they also cut the daughter out if she had mental health issues like agoraphobia, hypochondria, or paranoia? What would Jesus do? Sometimes people are irrational, but there's always a way to compromise if you're flexible!!

I agree. In any relationship that you truly care about , leave the door open for communication. Do whatever you can to keep the peace.

​@@josiemaromi6981you still wear a mask, don't you?

​@@josiemaromi6981The daughter cut her off not the parents

@@jeepstergal4043 Never did, Jesus says forgiveness is the way. Act like an adult.

100% spot on

💯!!! If you listen carefully you can hear hints that this is a controlling person who doesn't respect boundaries and won't be told no. The part about the hug especially.

Bingo.

Old story now, but the daughter seemed like an unhinged-covid-nazi.

This must be the vaccinated section. Don’t forget your boosters ❤️

Sounds like conditional love.

​@@SunnyDays70sas love should be.

Disagree, people that love you will be there in your time of need. They also had a chance to be supportive, they didn't want the relationship so I don't think they,ll miss the money.

Stirring up the drama with the other left out siblings LOL. Sad, but some of these loser siblings and kids have no clue why nothing was left to them. They lack that ability to rationalize.

Wills must be probated.

@@aolvaar8792 I'm sure our attorneys thought of that when they drew up the wills.

@@michaelwoods4495 My wife and I have "Transfer upon death", Homes. cars, financial accounts, pensions. 10-20% lost to probate cost, no thanks

Good luck to you

Especially since the daughter had cut off her sister just before this. She and the parents must have taken strong positions about Covid that defied general protocols. They brought this on themselves. But stuff has been building for a while, I’d guess.

Ah but neither did the daughter respect her parents boundaries. It goes both ways.

Unless she is lying, she has kept trying. She has the right to place her time and assets going forward into those who are in her life.

Why? She cut the mom out, moms not, its the choice the daughter made. Why doesn't the self absorbed,self righteous, hollies than thou daughter meet in the middle? The mom tries to reach out and she ignores her, changes her number and leaves mail unopened? What if in those letters its announced her immediate family member is dead or something her daughter sounds like a POS

@@Slytherin_Crow5972 The mom literally said that she didn't bother visiting if they couldn't hug. You think this is a one time thing? Or is it just the mom again and again never being able to compromise or make a few small sacrifices to be with her daughter.

Get cut out of a will disagreeing over masks and social distancing. My sister is a nurse 18 months didn't visit her due to covid. She is still my sister

Yes, and I favor acknowledgement in leaving them some small trivial item. Bequest an old tennis racket or something to itemize the absurdity of it all.

Your parents are very sweet. Your parents love for your sister and you are beyond measure

@@cutehumor They are retired and don't have it. They didn't want to help her they felt compelled. She didn't ask once how they were doing it was all about her. She 30 she should pay her own way.

So what does that have to do with you? Why cut her off cuz your parents wanna be parents?

@@djpuplex That is no reason to cut off your sister. It sounds like both you and your sister need to improve as humans. 🙈 She sounds like a horrible person and you sound like a controlling person who cuts people off when you can't get your way.

We had a similar situation. 59-year-old aunt and her two grown sons, a young doctor and lawyer, take-take-taking from 95-year-old Grandma.

Because you are a sane, rational, loving mother. Nothing will ever change the fact that he's your son, not even him not talking to you. Not even you taking him out of your will.

That’s very commendable of you and shows your a good hearted person. You wouldn’t be faulted if you did change your will though. I’m sure your son will be shocked to find out he’s in the will when you pass and that will make him feel a certain way about his decision to treat his father like that.

In the end, you have to do what you can live (or die) with. Your life, your money.

Trust me it is happening more then you know. If you don't believe the way they do, they will have nothing to do with you, family or not.

@@jimhandler1129 👍

Have you not seen the split of the country it’s starts at the family level

@@xterra4hire 👍

Tbh it’s very common my sister did this to our family. I asked her a simple question and she went off and said she was done with me so…it happens

That's a good idea

Toby you dirty dog! …I like how you think. Can I hire you as executor of my estate?

@@aytcs , Follow her life, I can guarantee there will be no blessing.

@@aytcs , The only blessing for a child is to honor your parents so that all may go well with you.

@@snatchinitback4635 , Can't choose your parents but if your parents are what u described, pray for them and if u are an adult, leave separately.

The daughter is the one who cut her off, not the other way around.

Would you give your money to an organization who values are antithetical to yours? If your child grew up to hate you, your husband, and her sister, do you think she is the type to do "good" with your money? I might consider a gift to the grandchildren to be distributed upon their legal adulthood.

This gives hope

Yes, that does give us hope. Glad for everyone. I have quite a few friends who children have cut them out of their lives. Often it’s political or religious or they just feel like the victims. It’s going to be an epidemic.

It's also petty to return mail and change your number.

It’s not „getting back“… it’s moving on.

I have a suspicion that the other daughter is manipulating as well, as it would suit her just fine to get her sister's share of the money.

Love is unconditional and she is the parent!

I was waiting for this comment. She has had (apparently) 35 years of a loving relationship with her firstborn, and after (apparently) 12 months of an argument can't wait to cut her off from the will?? And not because the daughter is mismanaging money, but because the daughter set boundaries. The mother said 'we won't come and visit you if we can't hug you' which is incredibly manipulative putting conditions on her visits, and the daughter probably told her not to bother. Sending mail back isn't something you do after one argument. Sounds like this daughter has been living with years of emotional manipulation.

You are sweet--this is how people should be.

@@minorcadence1 NORMAL families HUG.

@@CM-sy3to normal families don’t cut you off because of a hug…

sounds great! please I will appreciate your assistance on how to go about it, who's your investor and how good is your investor..

I am going to look her up, I have about $81k i want to start with....

Yes, stay away from anyone recommended in utube comments.

Why?

I'm an atheist but agree with what you say otherwise. You sound like a good person.

I think it's ironic that he kept referencing the prodigal son story, when in the prodigal son story, the father gave the son his inheritance.

@@bradycone exactly

@@bradyconethe son came back and asked for forgiveness first. If the daughter comes back and ask for forgiveness than change it back. I’m not sure mentally it helps heal if the daughter just rejects and expects money in the end - maybe she doesn’t but we will never know. But for the parents to heal it’s better to cut ties and not force something that isn’t there

I might leave the inheritance to the estranged daughter's children (in a trust) but I wont leave her a penny myself. Please..... be sensible & logical. This giving the other cheek is baloney, regardless of your religion.

My sister did this to my parents with no explanation and after my parents paid for her daughters' weddings, school help etc. It's horrible.

@@kekkic my sister has done this to our whole family. We supported her her whole life through mental illness etc and she has now cut us all off. As far as Im concerned its as selfish as you can get

All I know is I cut off my parents after nearly a decade of fighting, narcissism, enmeshment, guilt, and triangulation.

Yes 🙌

Whoa lol you got a lot to get off your chest.

Yes, the reason is narcissism and unresolved anger paired with imagined slights.

Yes, she could be mentally ill or under the influence of a narcissistic partner - they often make their partners cut off family.

and she, the daughter, doesn't have to visit them in the nursing home or go to their funeral.