@@dawnstanley7410 i remember watching Tiny and Toya miss Diane pretty much was it was so sad watching her taking care of Tiny Dad going through Alzheimer’s
Children mimic their parents. Tiny aint no saint, but I can see her mom's attitude about people has rubbed off on her. Just like Kandi is combative and stubborn like her mother. We really are our parent's children.
I hate that you’re going through that but as a former people pleaser, I know the strength it takes to finally stand up for yourself. I’m so proud of you!
The saddest part about the betrayal between these sisters is that LaTocha doesn’t see the loyalty and unconditional love Tamika has always had for her and the ungodly way their mother has used God to pit them against each other in the name of the Christianity and to support her lifestyle. Her foolishness is not of God and I wish that she would stop using Him to guilt her children. Tamika should love them from afar. No-one can speak for God but I believe he would be better honored in her stepping out of this religious foolishness. He ain’t in this mess.
That's right Tamika, fight back! Don't let anyone scare you into not telling THE truth! Deal with them accordingly, spiritually, mentally, legally, & physically if you see fit! Ase! 💯
Yes I can feel it in her spirit…. 5 minutes in that she’s over it, and for the nerve of Tosha to asked for her to apologize … 😢 Wow The ultimate betrayal,
Your right sweetie, YOUR NOT THE ONE THATS WRONG!!!! GOD SAID, WHAT YOU DO UNTO UNTO THE LEAST OF THESE YOU DO ALSO UNTO ME, HE'S TALKING ABOUT HIS CHILDREN AND HE'S A JEALOUS GOD WHEN IT COMES TO HIS KIDS.......KINGDOM BLESSINGS TAMIKA SCOTT❤🙏🏾
@therealTamikaScott Sis if that tape gets leaked, LOCK them BOTH up. Put Warrants on both they asses. Poor Latocha is so brainwashed by her scamming ass husband. Rocky Pimps Latocha and her bank account. If Latocha don't make another dime they will fall on their asses and back living with your momma. Rocky don't know what work is. Fukn BUM.
What I love about Tamika and Kandi is that they don't mind admitting what they did while telling the truth about others. I knew she was telling the truth on the show when I saw the family dynamic. I live through that with my mom before I put up boundaries.
May God continue to bless you Tamika for your pure heart! I know first hand how family will drag you and dog you out when all you did was have their back. The truth always comes to the light!!
I'm so sorry you're going through all of this, Tameka. The whole thing is truly heartbreaking, but I'm so glad you spoke up and set the record straight. You absolutely deserve to be heard especially after the lies that have been put out into the world by family...who should actually be in jail right now. You showed them grace and decided not to prosecute, which is the ultimate show of love and loyalty. But, now they're trying to extort you???? Listen, I know you love your sister and clearly you've been more loyal to her than she has to you. You may think this is some BS and you're wasting people's time with this...but I assure you, you're not. You are showing people the power that is in their own voice, the power of telling THE TRUTH, the power they have within them not to allow people to victimize them. Your courage is palpable and I know you are helping a lot of people by speaking up. You have my respect for doing the right thing even when others hurt you to your core. God's watching...so, don't you worry. Stay up, Tamika!
Tiny’s mom has me teary eyed, she’s so sweet. Tamika, I’m so sorry that you have to go through this. It’s a shame that family would do this, especially your sister and your mom who is protecting her
Tamika, Kandi, and Tiny needs to continue as a group. Rebrand the Xscape brand and keep touring with the three of you. The chemistry amongst the three of you guys is true sisterhood and love and we need that! Prayers for Tiny, Kandi, and Tamika’s peace, sanity and energy. Keep winning! ❤
From the news that dropped today Todd and Kandi is suing and it said that they officially dropped her from the group. I hope that when her and Tameka make up that she won’t allow Lotocha to manipulate her into convincing Tiny and Kandi to allowing her to rejoin the group. I’m sure that the sisters will be back on good terms. But I personally do not want Lotocha back in the group this group has been in the media since the 90s with having problems and it seems like they are at peace and they all truly love and enjoy each other as three. I’m sick of hearing about Lotocha . So I’m happy to hear about them casting her out. Now she’s about to look dumb do Wendy’s gospel promotions. And I hope that the label drop her due to these legal allegations. Plus if that music suffer they are going to drop her anyway because they would see that she is no good for business
Tamika, I'm so proud of you for speaking your truth. I can truly relate and understand how you feel I with through the same thing with my family. Man tried to destroy me but God sustained me. Keep looking to the Hills from whence your help will cometh from the Lord. Sis apologize not needed I Love my family but from a distance. Continue to walk in your Trust and keep your Hands in God's exchanging Hands. Love always Lynda and Family.
I’m 39 so I was really young when they came out and as a child I always got bad vibes from latocha I had to wait 30 years but now I know why so I’m at peace with just the 3. Kandi was always my favorite voice, I love Tiny’s solo project and she was instrumental in the success of the Omg girlz and I’m glad Tamika has this opportunity and may God give her what she lost 10 fold Amen
You better say that! =She is telling the truth and they don't know what to do with this Tameka. She finally standing up for herself. She also needs to know that her mother nor her sister do not care about her the way they should. I keep seeing that mother whisper to Latocha that Tameka was just jealouse of her. Shame on you so called mother.
You have become my favorite member of xscape. Your accountability is REFRESHING. It’s only up from here Tamika. You are an inspiration in letting people know that it is ok to not hold back in speaking on what you go through with your family. So many of us suffer from depression and mental issues from thinking we have to harbor things and how family can treat us. Thank you for speaking out
Them receipts sure hit different than chosen words!! Receipts or not, your whole character (along w/Kandi & Tiny) will always have me rockin with y’all. And yes it’s a shame that all of this between you & your sister has to be put out in these streets, but you needed to defend yourself…. I know it hurts but God’s Got You!! And in my head, you are my sister & I’m proud of you & will pray for you to have peace & blessings❤🙏🏽♥️
This is awful. Tocha is destroying her life over a man that doesn't love or respect her. She will regret what she has done to her sister. Tamika, you are going to have to press charges on your sister.and her good for nothing husband. It hurts but they brought this on themselves. Hopefully your mother will come to her senses and realize that what she has been doing to you is weong.... Praying for you Tamike. Stay strong!
@@Redd91ful After this hot tea that Tamika spilled, she will be needing a job, and she better not say she wants to be back in xscape, she should keep running to her solo album and awful husband
Tamika this hurts but look around you! In the comments, the blogs, etc..YOU ARE LOVED AND SUPPORTED! You have literally found your voice, you are taking the lead, in charge and standing up for yourself.
Without receipts we believed you. It's a challenge when people try throwing things from your past in your face when you've worked hard to grow. Especially when they lack accountability for their thieving ways. God bless you!
I’m so proud of you because I am you and you’re a inspiration to me you’re helping me to stand up and not be a people pleaser for no one thank you Tamika Scott ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Ma'am you need to know that you aren't wasting your time. You are empowering people like myself, who have also been mistreated by their family for decades. You are showing us all what it looks like to take your power back. Thank you 🙏🏾
Girl go to your sister your family and talk stop going on RU-vid Facebook with this mess this been 10 years ago you won't to be on tv this bad you on the show talking about how mean people Kandi and tiny have following them on RU-vid and Facebook you worry about house wife and that lil show tiny was on you just need help girl
To Chalay: You say you have been mistreated by your family for decades ??. Sorry to hear that. But have you tried changing your phone number??. Remove access for them to you. I'm speaking from experience.
What is done in the dark will always come to light! Tamika, keep being the light and speaking your truth. It's time for your voice and your talents to shine, unapologetically ❤️❤️
Blessings to you. I've been there with my own sister. Different situations but with the same intensity. I had to learn to love her from a distance. What you did was brave. Because of our love we never want to hurt them even though they continuously hurt us. I truly commend you I know how hard this was.
Honey we believed you without the receipts. Proud of you. And hell YES we gone rock with ya'll!! You all may be the best female R&B group ever with albums you can listen to from start to finish! Yeah we gone rock, until the wheels fall off girl.
Tamika 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 so proud of you that you will no longer tolerate mental Abuse what your sister has done is wrong I know you’re hurt I’ve been there you do for them even if they are wrong because we want to be apart of that family but it’s not worth it your sanity and health is more important I can’t believe that you’re mom said you were jealous of your sister on the show I was like WOW but you are empowered by this keep it moving and never expected anything from anyone just because you’re family You got this ❤️❤️❤️
When they hugged on the show and had that hard cry in eachothers arms Latocha cry was saying I'm sorry and Tamika's was saying I know but I can't forgive you until you make things right. Smh my heartbreaks for Tamika.. 💔
TAMIKA, YOU BETTER STAND UP FOR YOURSELF!!! I'm glad to see that we are witnessing you level up in this chapter of your life. It's been really beautiful to see.
You are the people’s champ out of this situation and I feel a huge blessing coming your way. I got chills watching this because God is all over you. I’m in tears because I know this isn’t what you wanted to do but needed to do. We are all behind you, Tamika‼️👊🏽💞🫶🏽💞🙌🏾
Never apologize for standing in and speaking your truth! I'm so sorry that this is going on and has happened. It's a darn shame! That coward looks shady AF, and you have receipts proving just how shady he is, and actually, how shady they are 😢. No more words needed, facts have spoken!
Tamika you have become the hero out of this whole series. You came on the show and shared your truth and you also have a great personality. I am rooting for you and I know going against your family is hard but I’m glad you are standing up for yourself and I see a bright future ahead for you ❤
Now this a GROWN WOMAN RIGHT HERE!!! You Go Girl!!! I am so proud of you and you setting examples out here for this younger generation. Continue to stay prayed up.
Omg, I just watched the episodes, and I literally have PTSD from your interaction with your mom. You can love your family from afar. If you don't set boundaries and remove yourself from that toxicity, you are going to end up with all kinds of illnesses. No sister would allow their husband to have videos of their naked sister, let alone have it released. Cut them off respectfully. I've been watching your sister and she is burying her own self. Mighty God! I cry for you. At almost 50 you're still backing up from your mama while you're in tears. Even when you're trying to explain yourself, she's basically cutting you off and telling you how you hurt your sister. We all see what is happening just by their interaction with you. Release yourself girl! Release yourself and break the curse of that toxicity. I still love and take care of my mom, but she is not allowed in my space or around my kidd. Nooooo! I've been sick for years because of that control and belittling. Only you can set yourself free. Bullys gets scared and yell when you finally put your foot down and remove their chain from around your neck. They'll either come around or remove themselves permanently from your life. But you'll be ok. You have a family now. Build with your husband and your children. May God bless you and give you strength.
So happy you're standing up for yourself, stay humble, God has something bigger and better for you. Your voice is unique, very strong. Every time I hear you sing, you take me to church. Keep being you, keep moving forward even if you have to do it alone.
The hardest lesson I learned in life and it still stands true.... Just because it's blood don't make it family. Relatives and family two different sets of people. Proud of you Tamika wear your Crown like the Queen you are 👑
@@TheChinadll Facts! No contact with toxic narcissistic family members is sometimes the only solution. Gaslighting is damaging, psychological abuse is not okay.
We all knew you weren't lying! It's just sad that it had to come to this, but I'm glad you're finally finding your voice. You are such an amazing woman, and God is truly starting to open all those doors for you, now that you have removed yourself from under your sister's control. Your voice is truly anointed, and I would love for you to do a gospel album!
Omgggg Im so proud of you. “The Reveal” was a must or it would continue. As I watched the 3 of you do sound check on the last episode… If I tell you I stood up with my fist in the air as you song 🎶 your part I got chills and screamed out SING 🎤 Girl. You are awesome, you are the Star ⭐️ that was behind someone else. Tiny said it best as you completed your part she stated “Do play with chu” 😁she took it out my mouth lol. Let her Xscape like Kandi said…
Sis.... we didn't even need these receipts. We believe you! We are so proud of you for standing up and speaking up for yourself. You can't keep protecting people while you are hurting. Put yourself FIRST!
*I love Ms. Diane (Tiny’s mom) so much.* *I could tell she loves every girl in the group for real on an episode of The Family Hustle that she begged Tiny to get the group together.*
Yasss she been looking out for those girls for decades…she is sooo genuine and even tiny dad was a genuine take my hats off for them..she is the truth and also making sure they gotten their money is everything
Oh to investigate where those checks were is epic…miss diane didn’t have to do that but she did because she love every one of them and signing them up without them knowing she signed up with sound exchanged is everything…I’m sure she knows all their social to…she gon make sure those girls are taken care of love it…i need miss diane in my life
Yes I congratulate you for standing up being strong and doing the right thing I'm so tired of these scam artists and these horrible people family friends that are against us and always have been it is time for the enemy to be exposed I'm so happy for you
Girl I’m so happy you’re speaking up for yourself because your sister is so used to walking all over you that she is actually pissed that you won’t allow her to continue to do so bravo Tomika
I too was raised with a narcissistic mother and older sister combo and it is one of the most painful, confusing, heartbreaking family dynamics. About 5 or 6 years ago, I broke free and haven't felt such peace since. I don't know Tamika but watching the show and her sis and mother's energy, I felt like I knew her like family. I am so proud of you Tamika for finally standing up for yourself. I hope you have a great therapist. All the love and support in the world. 💙
definitely narcissism happening and Tamaika is the empath and black sheep of the family. The other one has no conscience, unfortunately, and she's married to a demon.
@@jadaroundhouse2.043 So bad, but even worse is adulthood when you finally start seeing things for what they are. It's so heartbreaking. I hope you're healing sis. Hugs
If she puts it out, that'll be revenge p0rn and Tamika can sue her evil sister. Tocha should be ashamed of herself, but she'll find out and see the light when that gospel deal, album fail.
Rocky was going to sell that tape with or without Toscha knowledge. This ninja HERE?!?! IMO If Rocky could get away with it, he'd unalive all of them for profit Toscha, Tameka, and their Mom.
My stomach started hurting so badly when you said only the sister and her husband had the code to the safe. But Toscha says "SOMEONE" stole it. My God.
He’s an absolute creep! I believe he fantasizes over Tamika actually watches the tape himself. And Tocha is so stupid not to see that! She know he took it
If she said she was young when she did that tape and did wrongful things to Kandi. Then ya'll wonder why God gots Kandi back yes I am preaching I have always believed in Kandi no mater what those Hate sayers say. Amen Amen. Tameka you have your own family to think about your husband,daughters and grandchildren. That's your family do you hear me. Love you Stay Bless
I've been tuning in for the entertainment but blackmail/extortion is serious and I can only imagine how hard this has been🥺 Thank you for letting us in 🙏🏾💕
Tamika I hope you can see, just from the comments left here on this video, that you are loved. I glanced through the majority of the comments and not one negative thing said towards you. That 1st episode of the show was needed, so that you could see the truth of what “family” is. My hope is that you grow stronger from this and become even bigger than you are now. There’s so much more blessings and positivity in store for you. Love from South Carolina ❤️🙏🏾❤️
Sad...she likely has never received this type of love and support from her mom and sister. The two people she would've needed it from the most while growing up.
I believe you Tamika! I respect how you've owned up to your mistakes and apologized to people you hurt. Dealing with toxic family is hard. She's your sister but she's not your friend. Sometimes that's the hardest thing to accept. I will be supporting Xscape this year. Can't wait to see you perform.
Family betrayal hits different!!! I’ve been on both ends you can apologize for your mistakes and your part of whatever went wrong BUT you CAN’T make anybody own their part. We hear you girl. We are praying for you!!!
I believed you the first time you said it Ma. I know tv editing tends to get the dramatic effect for ratings, but I also knew you were speaking the truth.
I admire the fact that you still held back on really airing the situation out. That says a lot about your character in a positive way. I know it’s tough going against your family but in this case, you gotta do what you gotta do.
So proud of you refusing to be bullied and intimidated by your own family, who's already stolen from you! You are A-1 for how you've handled this. My heart goes out to you, because this doesn't end at Tocha. You will still have fall out with your mom and that's incredibly sad. Stay strong.
Amen to that 🙏🏽😇 and yes it’s very heartbreaking 💔 to know that she will still have to deal with the blowback and defend herself from her sisters nonsense to her mother.
Still you should take her to court like I had to do with my grand daughter especially when you pull it with an out Sider your man or boy friend like my granddaughter did that why I Sue her in order to get him the migistrat told me I had to Sue her in order to get him to do that's what I did
I hope you get what's owed to you. We believe you. She and her husband have to answer to God for what they have done and are continuing to do. God will have the last say. You are victorious Tamika!!
Tamika, I believed before you showed the receipts. I rock with you, Tiny, & Kandi. I love you to life. You did the necessary, and sometimes we got to show ppl, even if it's our siblings not to play with us. My heart goes out to you and your sister. I completely understand the sibling rivalry and wanting acceptance from my mother. I've been going through it for years with my own mother and sister. All we can do is forgive them for ourselves and love them from a distance. I love you, sis, and keep pressing on and stepping on these haters necks. My best friend and I will see Xscape in June. 🎉❤
Tamika, THANK GOD YOU HAVE YOUR WONDERFUL HUSBAND, YOUR CHILDREN, YOUR DAD, YOUR GROUP MATES, AND FRIENDS/FANS WHO UNDERSTAND, LOVE, AND SUPPORT YOU!!! We got you, Girl!!!!!
"THE TRUTH WILL SET YOU FREE". Tamika ur composure along w/ur receipts is evidence of the truth, so proud of you and thank you for sharing and giving a great life lesson, keep walking in light God bless💜
I applaud you and the way you have taken charge of your life. ❤❤❤So much love to you. Your in my prayers and don't stop the videos. Allow us to grow with you 🎉
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