Teen Parents Get Custody Lesson from Judge Judy | Part 1 

Omg I’m so happy for the child. Honestly this girl is so horrible inside, she doesn’t deserve the kid

How can the kid be five if this was filmed less then a year ago? Was she 13 when she had this baby? Do some basic math before you BS people on RU-vid

@@janewoods6937 okay how about you realize that she had her baby in high school and I graduated four years ago. She had him in my junior year. This may have been posted a year ago but that court hearing was years ago girl😂😂 do your research about it if you don’t believe me.

Bull crap none of that is true melody is just upset haley wouldnt date her

@@jonpendragon2066 believe what you want🤷‍♀️ I’m telling the truth and no, I wouldn’t date her. I’m happily married to my husband and have an eight week old daughter. Y’all think I’m lying when I’m not😂😂 look up when this court case happened and then the math will add up lol Oliver is five years old now. By the way haley is 22 years old now. Do y’all really go off when something is posted on RU-vid? Jesus y’all need to think before you type🤣🤣

Right 😂 she sounds ridiculous like the child she is 😂

the deep-sigh she makes when JJ starts getting to the bottom of her lie. Priceless

I consider it a bad thing when a place like Burger King doesn't want her

For breakfast is a Mom who decides when the father should see his child

@@jenniferbangerter5128 ...WTF?

@@jenniferbangerter5128 weirdo

THE GIRL IS BEAUTIFUL, I hope she knows it.

Every time JJ has a beautiful young blonde she acts extra mean. I guess J.J.'s husband must glance twice at young blondes or redheads.

Also notice she brings up scenarios to prove he's either controlling or has anger issues when JJ brings up exceptions to fathers having limited access to their kids, like she makes them up on the spot so she'll change her tune and agree with her. None of the stories she tells changes that they don't have an official custody order so she can't dictate whether or not he sees their son

Right?

of course it is. if you can't deal with a drunken promiscuous partner just move on.

@Crazy Cat Lady you're right on so many levels but speaking as a statistic my experience leads me to believe two incompatible people should move on and let the child grow up with mother or father and a step parent in a nurturing home environment.

@Shelly Sayers it's easy for me to tell others how they should be doing things lol

@@robertschaaf7192 I neither one of them have a stable environment. She never works and he works at a minimum wage job and doesn’t really do his research on being a father

No surprise at all, Yago. JJ knows her business.

Interesting you mention that. Have you ever seen the Larry King interview of her? Great watch. See talks about her days on family court and says that she found it very frustrating and why she takes the time to educate litigants in her show in these types of cases. She says that at least 3/4 of the family court judges, lawyers and counselors are woefully ignorant or willfully biased when it comes to parental custody cases. That it irritated her when they started with the premise that mom is superior parent and dad is some type of flawed being. That in a society that claims equal rights and protections for all, a court system would actively seek to upend that premise and treat one parent at a disadvantage.

At least, they chose LIFE as opposed to abortion/murder

@@carey8498 oh no 🤦‍♂️

@@carey8498 yes they choose poverty, ignorance, and suffering. Life is more than just drawing a breath.

@@de4700 If they are incapable of caring for the child, adoption is then the best option - surrender the child to a better home.

@@carey8498 abortion is health care.

SMH oh please let's give him accalaids for putting in a suit.

The dressing appropriate for court is a waste of fucking time like people like me who work outside and get dirty and only have dirty work clothes. We don’t have nice things to wear to court just to show up for one fucking day to show our clean clothes for no reason the whole clothing thing about court is absolutely fucking benign to me

lol it's obviously the first suit he's ever tried to wear in his life. Also, combing your hair goes a long way guys, just saying.

Really you can’t afford one suit or a dress

​@@shroudsshadow9998 raging over clothes in court , your a 🤡

I wish they didn't have to fight so hard.

@@FJ-rh6io They don’t, courts usually favor the father.

@@igotjokesss205 literally the opposite is the case but ok

@@FJ-rh6io but in over 90% of custody cases the only reason women get sole custody is because both parents agreed on it without a family court intervention. So the claim that men need to fight so hard is invalid.

@@igotjokesss205 uh.. Source?

That's only if you were married. If not the father doesn't have rights until paternity is established. The law does not assume you are the father if you were not married.

Exactly. Men need to know their rights.

I’m a female & yes omg !! 🤞🏽🤞🏽

@@zariaeda007 that's not at all the case in my experience. Could be different state to state perhaps. I was given the paperwork designating that I'm the father right there at the hospital on the day that my kids were born. At that point you can deny parental rights temporarily until a paternity test is done. But if you know it's your kid then you sign. Done deal for the rest of their lives. We were not married.

@@zariaeda007 Well stated, but paternity be established... at the initial hearing.

Yeah, that's one very powerful town clerk. LOL

I know right ? She’s in contempt of a custody order

May as well have been the guy working at the gas station 😅

​@deadspacegrave2219 there is no custody order, which is JJ's point. No order means neither of them can dictate anything about who does what with the child and when, she just thinks because she's the mother she gets to decide everything which is BS

💯💯 and they are only hurting the CHILD

If you go check out judge Judy's titok there a lot of people who didn't understand the whole case and it was only a 15 sec clip. Please check it out bc oof there is a lot of them in those comments

@@deena7933 its an infant, it doesn't know a thing.

Two irresponsible sponges.

Why have kids at such young age and waste life away after that. Circle of life keeps repeating.

Um, they do if they’re ‘unwed’. Legal rights of a second party have to be established through courts and a dna test.

@@R.M.3.14 Not if the man signs the birth certificate.

@@JohnSmith-xp9gr Wrong. If he signs the birth certificate, paternity is established.End of story.

@@R.M.3.14 who gave you this advice? Your church?

@@JohnSmith-xp9gr who gave you this advice? Your church as well? As the other below stated, if his name is on the birth certificate as the father, you don't need to be wed. Marriage doesn't mean anything in these cases. Marriage is just a legal status, or actually, more on the religious (irrational) side of things.

I have no doubt whatsoever she wanted to still live like a teenager while he went to work to provide and would be annoyed when he came home to find she had just been out with friends and the baby all day getting nothing done and then wanted to go out in the evening when he was home to have their son, thats most likely what she means by 'controlling' - asking her to grow tf up.

@@gRinchY-op5vr sounds about right.

You have no idea how much it means to men to hear a woman say that.

He has sole custody now and has since remarried (or is at least with someone else) with a child of her own. They have a happy, blended family.

Kids need a dad and hopefully theirs is a good one. My husband and I divorced and he went from being a so-so dad to completely not interested. I raised her and loved her. She is hurt from his neglect. I curse him silently every day.

As a single mom who loves her son, women like this "mother" truly baffle me!

You made one of the greatest comments towards the end I've heard my mother say it as she abused me and my brothers I heard my sister say it as she destroyed her second son I watch my niece say it and she was screwing her kids up they're my kids I can do whatever I want in essence my property

@@snowwhite7704 I think they got a free trip to LA. The show is filmed on the west coast.

"It makes it hard to sympathize with them" in my eyes too.

And who is going to be watching her baby while she's at work? It's not like America has subsidised daycare like every other country. She also doesn't have any family from the sound of things.

@@Ilikefrogs.. Of course there's subsidized daycare in America. They're vouchers you receive if you qualify with your income. It's been around for literally decades. And available and used absolutely everywhere.

Smmfh very well said so True.😂

100 💯 no job. place to stay that is stable and still want to party. young people I know it may sound cool but children are a large responsibility. they need stability and love unconditionally. they need you. if you can't give that to them take steps to ensure you don't have them

And the overturning of roe vs wade is going to make all of this worse.

@@ShanaLawson oh maybe try being responsible with your sexuality and have safe sex? You know the sexual repression of the Victorian era was mostly about the epidemic spread of syphilis? Sex is great but too important and have great consequences to use it so casually like this generation

@@MASTER.SON. I’m not speaking of myself, I have two kids and my tubes tied. I am speaking of others. The sexual education in America is beyond ridiculous and people are raped too frequently. There are many reasons people get pregnant, not just from irresponsibility.

@@MASTER.SON. How about anyone be responsible and not HAVE sex until they're married??? God forbid.

Only if the mother stays away , vile creature

Well she is a victim.

I had an abortion at 18 and it was the happiest day of my life.

@@DD-d6d3 God said '' I knew you before you were knit together in your mothers womb.'' You have a child but he is in heaven.

@@marilynwillett804 Nobody cares, Marilyn. Let people have abortions and not become parents when they know they can't be parents. And stop forcing your religion on others.

@@marilynwillett804 you sound overweight are you?

God Bless you and your family

My two parents are kicking me out for not abandoning my 3yo dog ... I'm 20 still didn't graduate had to drop off college.. get paid 257$ a month and they do not care ..... Happy somebody disagrees with parents like this

Thank you! My husband and I have two little girls and we often discuss how we wouldn’t want our girls to get pregnant young, however if it happens, we won’t ever kick them out. We are their parents and will always have a home for them

Blame religion. Many of these faiths encourage kids straight out of high school to get married and start breeding like rabbits. It's a mess.

Right she looks as old as her mother

As usual on youtube the beautiful caucasian girl get insults, if she was black there would be compliments.

@@marilynwillett804 Oh please ! I can assure you , if she was black I’d say exactly the same , She looks years older than 18 , probably from having a child too young , I didn’t say she was ugly , I said she looked older than she is , which she does ,Get over your racist self and lose the fake victim mentality , you sound ridiculous

@@marilynwillett804 oh so you’re a racist too. Can’t say I’m surprised.

@@marilynwillett804 not you making it about race🤣🤣

Hear hear.

Sometimes even adults are petty though

Given that he worked and she didn't, I'm going to take a wild guess that maybe he paid for the items? And maybe he harbours an ambition that he may be allowed joint custody of HIS child in which those items may come in handy? Just a thought.

you're kidding me right????? you don't think he has the right to the baby items that he spent money on for his own child. if he gains custody of the child or when the child comes visit he's going to need those things. she's just being a narcissistic B and the child will suffer because of it

@@Matthew-bu7fg bingo!

what exactly are you attempting to say? or is this a guessing game.

Your comment gave me an Aneurysm 💀

@@marilynwillett804 yeah you’re overweight and bitter

This hurt to read

Patching things up with the baby’s father might start to look mighty good at that point.

Why? She never cared.

I don't think it's appropriate in any generation to be honest. Most times, it doesn't work out. I don't think that's what you're saying but that's just my take on it.

Young is fine, but until the last few decades those young people were married and there was at least one steady source of income in the home. It is a package deal.

@@paullambert8701 one income doesn't work anymore in our society. That's why women feel resentful because they have to go work outside, come back home to the second shift and then suffer raising the child and balancing everything whilst some men are still stuck on the former way of life and think that just working away from home is enough for them.

Life isn't the same. Young girls were being hometrained to become wives and mothers. They were used to working hard both boys and girls then get married. I think in that setting marrying young wasn't much of an issue as it is today.

@@peacheskong2245 Boys were taught to be men and handle household and car repairs. Now everyone is supposedly “equal.” Equally incapable of performing any useful, necessary task.

Exactly what I was thinking. She prob had a kid at 17 too. Horrible

She didn't 'gaslit" anything. You don't even know what the word means. Try getting a elementary education instead of living your life on the Internet and social media.

@@broeheemed32 whoa projecting much. I'm not going to argue with you since you obviously know better than me about everything m'lord

The teen mom shows backfired. Not everyone gets a mansion and a nice car. Here is the result..

Have you ever been a teenage girl? I'm just going to assume that statistically, based on your name and profile picture, you're a cis dude. The more likely scenario is that society lies about what love is, then also bars kids from sexual education, unhindered access to birth control and abortions, and then people are surprised when teenagers get pregnant and have babies. Teenage girls don't go around thinking that getting knocked up means their partner loves them. They're thinking their lives are now ruined because nobody taught them how to have safe sex, and now they can't get the abortion they need (or their parents force them to keep the baby, which is so much worse). Then they can't get themselves to put the baby into foster care when it's a broken system, where children are routinely abused, molested and neglected because fostering kids is a profitable business if you don't care about the children. The mother's prospects for an education? Severely diminished, especially if grandparents aren't able to provide childcare. Prospects of making an actual career versus working random jobs? Severely diminished. The other parent is extremely likely to go on and have a full education and make a career because they get to opt out of being a parent beyond a monetary contribution if they so choose. Teenage girls don't get pregnant on purpose unless they have been influenced by toxic people in their lives. The average teenager truly isn't looking forward to being pregnant and having a child for the rest of their lives before they're an adult themselves.

Actually it's most likely the lack of sex Ed. Even if they did have sex Ed, in the US its literally the minium. And honestly, I can understand that as a teen you think you're deeply in love. Oh, and if takes two to get knocked up

@NadrianATRS These girls have no good father example, many times. It's hard to not believe that that's all you are good for, when your own father makes no effort a Daddy.

Takes two to tango my guy

Having a baby ages you

On Christmas

Why should I take responsibility for their fuck up?

Amen