Being faithful to your partner should not be hard. So I disagree. Staying married for 10 years is harder. My parents couldn’t do it. And they were both faithful to each other
@@awaholswilder9271 Shouldn’t be no but, marrying someone doesn’t prevent them from making bad decisions. Also after you get married all you have to do is get along which is only hard if you picked wrong. So it’s fine if you disagree with my opinion but I also disagree with yours.
i wish they would post the full would you rather question on the screen because some of these are so vague at times. I love how most of them answered "i want love not money" when the money choice didn't say you love them just that you didnt like them as much. If you already love someone so much that your willing to TRY to lift them essentially out of poverty or plunge yourself into poverty along side them its gonna be hard to keep that level of love constant and not regret that choice constantly as you both work yourself to the bone day and night. i would rather have a partner i have to work towards falling for and caring who can can keep us both afloat while we try to do this, they say money doesnt buy happiness and that might be true but it certainly lessens the price of happiness at times
Never get married in 3 months. Being in a relationship for 10 years is no different than being married except for the fact that if something happens you can get out
I kind of find the marriage question silly but was surprised to hear their responses. Marriage is simply a forceful social construct and I personally wouldn't be able to get married to my partner in most places so it makes marriage seem like a privilege to me.
Hey, REACT! You guys should definitely have the Adults react to another Try to Keep Dancing Challenge. I have some suggestions they should dance to next. 1. Selena - Bidi Bidi Bom Bom 2. Andrew W.K. - Party Hard 3. 2NE1 - I Am the Best 4. Bruno Mars - Treasure 5. Debbie Deb - Lookout Weekend What do you think about my choices? I want to see the reactors their best dance moves in this challenge.
sugar baby, it's a different thing. a sugar baby is where you sign a contract and agree what you will and WILL NOT do with a person (usually a man) like say u agree "i'll spend time with you, i'll go to dinner...but i won't have sex." and if the man violates that contract he can get into serious trouble. sugar babies are actually not such a bad line of work...especially considering how outragies the prices of college or university is in America nowadays. everything is getting more and more expensive nowadays...it is understandable that people go to certain measures for money.
What is it with americans and needing to be married. I don't care if i've been with someone for 5 years or 10 years if the time ain't right or we've discussed marriage before than i popping it. I am in the uk though were most families don't have married partners to be in a happy successful marriage. Besides you seen the divorce rate in the us? Why would you want no better still why would you need to get married? Answer that without bringing the government or the state you live in into it. Because i've known people who have married out of convenience (which i nearly did so a friend could get a step up on the uk citizenship) I've known girls who married due to accidentally getting pregnant. Yet none of them ever thought about why they were marrying their partner but i can tell you now they ain't with their partners anymore. If you can't imagine a life with the person you love without getting married than i feel sorry for you as it seems the only reason for a relationship is to get married which it ain't the reason for a relationship is to be happy with your loved one and possibly start a family in the future and maybe get married but marriage should never be the goal happiness is the goal which you can get without marriage. Now trust me i have a dream wedding but i just don't require marriage to be happy.
SAAAAAME THOUGHTS. No one in my family is married, don't want to be either, they even sometimes sign a damn paper for their childs sake (my nephews, not my children). I'm european and I can assure that at least in the considered latin countries, marriage is not/just as important as it is a signature. Finding someone to spend the rest of your life with? That is the celebration,
@@KameraKiss We are not saying anything about a country, but a tradition wherever it comes from. I've lived in the US for years, have nothing against it personally. But you taking things as an insult to your country instead of the THING we were talking about, is worrying.
Sum it: If you actually want to find "The One" (assuming you believe in such a thing) the the key is to not set hard rules or gates and be open to it. That's hard for a lot of people but it is the truth. Someone said it: When you know you know....my wife and I met when I was 18 and she was 16, started dating when I was 20 and she was 18. We went out once and even though we did not make it a thing....never went out with someone else again. We have been together for 37 years.....married for 32. Never has been in doubt. Second part is commit (no, really) and understand good relationships that last take work and always remember that 1. This person loves you and probably means well. 2. Remember at the end of the day you would rather be with that person than anyone else. Helps get through times when it is the most work.
Genuinely surprised at how many people chose sex over time with your partner. If you are with your partner just for that, then that is not a good relationship
seriously. Actual relationship > sex Maybe it's just the demi in me but I could 100% have a relationship without sex. The emotional intimacy is so much more important and satisfying.
Apparently the makers of this video don't know what "generations" means. At most, you have 2 generations here, and middle aged seems to be left out entirely.
Near the end of the video, Izzy seem dozed away in her thoughts. I think some of these questions, kinda hit her soft spot. I hope I'm wrong. Anyway, chin up, girl! =)
I’m sorry but there is no way I’m getting married after three months with someone. You don’t even know them at that point. Ten years without marriage means you love each other enough for that long without needing the symbol.
Whoever's reading this, i pray that whatever you're going through gets better and whatever you're struggling with or worrying about is going to be fine and that everyone has a fantastic day! Amen
I have always dated older because I have dated younger and the guy lacked maturity. My current partner is 7 years older than me and we are so happy together and he acts like where the same age. As opposed to my ex and me where he was 4 years younger and was awful. So to say I prefer older
lol me automatically gave up time vs giving up sex so yes time but should I feel bad as they were all giving their reasons why time is better choice an I was like yup I give up time I'd rather jus have the sex lol 😆
Uh Martine. How old is she? Cause she said her parents have been married for 50 years. Married after 4 months. I'm assuming at least 18 when married. So parents are 70ish?
I have five kids and I would do it all over again than not have kids. Children are weird the second you become a parent they become the center of your universe and life without them becomes unimaginable.
i play this in my head all th time. Cara delvigne or emma watson, Evengaline lily (hope from antman) or jamie alexander (lady sif from thor), anne hathaway or liv tyler, nicole kidman or charlize theron?
Movie, all night,sex, neither they need to be hard working, i don’t want wait 10 years but a ring doesn’t mean shit, loving text , no kids easy,be cheated on,Their 1st,older but younger at the moment,both, cut , call it quits,
Lol 4 kids is what me and my girl wants btw she was my ex and we are happy together now lol and the 10 year thing my friend dated his girl for 15 years before they got happily married
I find it hilarious that people actually pick money not because it sounds materialistic but because of the scenario given. I'm not saying the alternative is better, but the given scenario establishes that *you don't like the person* which means you are either liking someone because of money or you are somewhat ''forcing'' or making yourself like someone because of money, either way - it's shallow as can be.
3 months 10 years is a funny one, my mom was 14 when she started going out with my dad and they got married when she was 24 sooooo.... also the sex or time is a non-issue for me since I'm Ace.
I thought the 3 mths 10 yrs is funny too . My brother dated his wife a month before they got married the day before his 21st birthday, they have been married now for almost 31 yrs. oh by the way his wife is 23 yrs older than him.
you need both, i feel it's not really possible ot give up sex or time together. i mean if i asked my GF do you want to give up sex she would be like "hell no" we are very close but i think we do need intamicy once in a while for that...we couldn't go cold turkey. "would you rather date someone older or younger than you" Me; well you know...my GF is younger than me so...speaks for itself.
Half your age + 7 is the generally accepted rule for avoiding problematic age gaps. It applies to up until the younger person is 25, i.e. a full adult.
1/2 + 7 is not the goal or ideal, It is the extreme allowable age gap limit. Thus, 50 year-old guy can AT MOST date as low as 32 so long as the lady is into it too. It's a pretty good rule of thumb. Don't tell Leonardo.
@@Randsurfer Bruh, once the younger party is a full adult, meaning over 25, there is no problematic age gap anymore. From that age on, the idea that that person could be groomed is psychotic.
5:41 That would be a weird situation for me because I was once the one being cheated on with. The guy in question was much older than I was at the time (I won't say how old exactly) but, anyway, I got my butt whipped because of it.
@@sheridanwolf wait, are Jayka and Julian suppose to be the kids generation? I mean she did start out in that group but she's no longer one. Can they really say "four generations" then?
@@sheridanwolf Jayka is in a relationship/ in bed with a 21 year old guy. If, she would be a kid that would be fucked up. Think she is 19 or something.
I have 3 kids and not in a relationship. I have 2 baby daddies. 1 I cut ties with and the other I co parent with. The baby daddy I cut ties with had signed over his rights to our son (my oldest) and took me to court without telling me ahead of time (not til 5 minutes before), ended up missing court because I didn't get any sort of notification so I lost custody and parental rights. I still have my 2 daughters though so co parenting with my current baby daddy.
What??? I know someone who's been dating his GF for 6 years and they absolutely love each other. I think its just a financial thing why they haven't gotten married yet
Agreed, I’ve been with my bf for 10 years and we only started living together 3 years ago, so I feel like we just have other goals to attain first like a house, paying off debt, etc.
