Terminal Diagnosis and Dying

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This is often a controversial topic but It's an important one. In Chapter 9 of my book, I talk in depth about Death with Dignity.
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@martinfrederickgraafland3022 Месяц назад

We received the medication for my husband because he was expected not to live more then a month and he was afraid to end up in the emergency room again since the cancer continues to build up fluids behind the longs. This didn't happen and David died peacefully in the early morning of December 25 2023. I love Hospice and since David passed I have viewed many video's of Nurse Julie in order to understand . Thanks so much Julie!!!

@kareldebures7006 Месяц назад

I am so sorry!

@gwendolynfloccari4927 Месяц назад

Hope you find peace

@user-Danswife Месяц назад

Did he use the medication or just die peacefully on his own with hospice?

@jimwatts4901 Месяц назад

I am so sorry dear ♥️

@deeceee5347 Месяц назад

@@user-Danswife Above it read it didn't happen and david died peacefully Christmas morning 2023 so I don't think he used death with dignity.

@Dave-hc6pp Месяц назад

My ex wife died this morning. It was 12 days from diagnosis until she passed this morning. I had suggested your videos to my adult children. Thank you for the time you put into producing these.

@heatherconnor8093 Месяц назад

I am so sorry for your loss. 😢

@krisvanallen Месяц назад

Oh good heavens I am so sorry!

@hawaiipommom.1306 Месяц назад

Oh my, I’m so very sorry for your loss. May she Rest In Peace, Love and Aloha 🙏🏼

@gwendolynfloccari4927 Месяц назад

May God bless you and give you comfort

@lisam8044 Месяц назад

I will pray for healing and peace for your family, my good friends ex wife passed last year she was sick for a little longer, I'm glad you are supporting your children and it's still difficult for you too...

@karwask1 Месяц назад

Also, from my limited experience as a hospice volunteer. I understood that the majority of people who receive the medication don't end up using it. It's important to emphasize how much having that feeling of control and having a sense of having a choice is sometimes all people really need to feel comfortable. They don't always have to take the medication in the end. Something to think about.

@joecheffo5942 Месяц назад

Do you think guilt and fear stop them in your opinion? Or is the pain able to be so well controlled they don't need it?

@Grahamt978 Месяц назад

Maybe the dying process isn’t as bad as people think?

@karwask1 Месяц назад

@@joecheffo5942 I think it's probably complicated and vary depending on the person. However, as I stated, I think just simply having the feeling of control, that you have the medications and can take them if you need to, confers a major psychological sense of well-being that is substantial. Also, yes, good point, of course how well pain is managed is extremely important. And if pain was the issue and it was brought under control, it may no longer be an issue.

@lulumoon6942 Месяц назад

In a similar position, and THIS makes so much sense! Have already had medical trauma on top of a lifetime of other traumas, and IT'S ENOUGH. Just having the option would made all the difference. Thank you for this post! 🙏🕊️

@bethhelton3923 Месяц назад

This nurse must not believe in God. Nor judgement after this life ends. To me taking one's own life is murder.

@kareldebures7006 Месяц назад

This is my personal preference on how I wish to die on my terms, not the terms of this disease and physical condition that I have now. Julie, this is one subject that I am most grateful that you have addressed and I am so glad that you have seen this personally! ⚘

@Somedude20282 Месяц назад

Second this sentiment should I ever have a terminal disease

@UFOUNDSUE Месяц назад

I wish death with dignity was an option in my state. I have been researching this for years.

@Outsider4JC Месяц назад

Just want to remind you about the most most important decision we need to make before we die, and that is to receive Jesus as our Lord and Savior. I just wanted to let you know a little about what the bible says. It takes more than just believing in God. John 3:3 says, we must be Born Again to get to heaven before our time is up.. Everyone has sinned and fallen short of God's glorious standard, and all need to be made right with God by his grace, which is a free gift. We need to be made free from sin through Jesus Christ. Bible also says, its not by works should any one boast. So being a good person does not get you to heaven either. The only way to heaven is by repenting of your sins, which means a change of mind, and putting your faith and trust in Jesus. Romans 10:13 says, Whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved. So you see, there is a need for salvation to get to heaven. That is why Jesus died on the cross. He took all of our sins upon him, so that if you accept Him as your Lord and Savior, you can have eternal life in paradise. You do not get there being a good person, or doing good deeds. Many people believe that is all it takes. Jesus also says, that I am the way, the Truth, and the Life, no one comes unto the father, except through me. So please make that decision, so that you can have peace and comfort before your time is up. Its the most important decision of your life. You can then have that peace and assurance of salvation in your heart. All you have to do is humble your heart and pray with faith,... "I repent of my sins, and I turn to You. You said in Your word that if we confess with our mouth the Lord Jesus, and believe in our hearts that God raised Him from the dead, we shall be saved. I ask You Jesus to forgive me of all my sins, come into my heart, and take control of my life. From this day forward I want to live for you. ..... It's not about the words, it's about your heart. The Lord will then send His Holy Spirit to live on the inside of you. The Holy Spirit is Gods seal of salvation, and your evidence you have been Born Again. He will transform your heart and mind. He will bring you into a personal relationship with Jesus. You will become a new person inside. 2 Corinthians 5:17 says: “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new”. Its truly amazing! You will be filled with peace, love, and joy of the Lord inside you. All the fruits of the Holy Spirit. He will comfort you in your time of need, and give you the strength to endure. No matter what you are going through, Jesus wants to help you through it. You can lean on Him. Its the most important decision of anyone's life. God's Word says that we are saved by grace through faith in Christ Jesus and not by our own efforts or works (Ephesians 2:8-9). Grace Alone. Jesus is the only way to heaven. Please believe me, its all in the bible. Its the Word of God..I am not judging or condemning anyone, just letting you know there is much more if you put your trust in Him. Jesus cares for you, and does not wish for you to be separated from him. Please don't wait. Today is the day of salvation. He loves you, and does wish for anyone to be apart from Him, but to have eternal life in heaven. I'm praying for you. Please ask Jesus to come into your life today, my friend, You are special to Jesus. Romans 10:9-10. "If thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. Be blessed

@Emil333V Месяц назад

I'm passing on soon due to a few conditions which i will not share here. I worked in mortuary for a couple of years, and its nice to see channels talking so openly about death/end of life in a respectful manner. Channels like yours give me comfort.

@b.v.437 Месяц назад

You are not afraid?

@Emil333V Месяц назад

@@b.v.437 Not really. I've lived an ok life. I have no family, and all of my friends are spirits. I guess I'll find out what's on the other side. If anything, I won't be in the pain I've been in my entire life.

@Outsider4JC Месяц назад

Just want to remind you about the most most important decision we need to make before we die, and that is to receive Jesus as our Savior. I just wanted to let you know a little about what the bible says. It takes more than just believing in God. We must be Born Again to get to heaven when our time is up.. Everyone has sinned and fallen short of God's glorious standard, and all need to be made right with God by his grace, which is a free gift. They need to be made free from sin through Jesus Christ. Bible also says, its not by works should any one boast. So being a good person does not get you to heaven either. The only way to heaven is by repenting of your sins, and putting your faith and trust in Jesus. Bible says, Whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved. So you see, there is a need for salvation to get to heaven, that is why Jesus died on the cross. He took all of our sins upon him, so that if we receive Him, we can have eternal life. We must be Born Again to enter the kingdom of God. You do not get there being a good person, or doing good deeds. Jesus also says, that I am the way, the Truth, and the Life, no one comes unto the father, except through me. So please make that decision, so that you can have peace and comfort when your time is up. Its the most important decision of your life. you can then have that eternal peace and assurance before you die. All you have to do is humble your heart and say with faith, I repent of my sins, and I turn to You. You said in Your word that if we confess with our mouth the Lord Jesus, and believe in our hearts that God raised Him from the dead, we shall be saved. I ask You Father to forgive me of all my sins, and ask You to fill me with the Holy Spirit. Its not about the words, its about your heart. The Lord will send His Holy Spirit to live on the inside of you. The Holy Spirit is Gods seal of salvation, and your evidence you have been Born Again. He will transform your heart and mind. You will become a new creature. 2 Corinthians 5:17 says: “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new”. Its truly amazing! You will be filled with peace, love, joy, kindness, and patience. The Holy Spirit is the difference between religion and a relationship with Jesus. Its the most important decision of anyone's life. God's Word says that we are saved by grace through faith in Christ Jesus and not by our own efforts or works (Ephesians 2:8-9). Grace Alone. Jesus is the only way to heaven. Please believe me, and research for yourself. Once its over, there is no turning back. Jesus cares for you, and does not wish for you to be separated from him. So many people think that being a good person gets you there, and its simply not true, so please don't ignore. Today is the day of salvation. He loves you, and does wish for anyone to be apart from Him, but to have eternal life in heaven. Be blessed. I'm praying for you. Please ask Jesus to come into your life today, my friend, He truly loves you! Romans 10:9-10. "If thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. Be blessed

@OceanSwimmer Месяц назад

@@Emil333V, ❤️Godspeed❤️

@user-zp8ee8oy7m Месяц назад

MAY@@Emil333V GOD BLESS YOU & MAKE THIS PASSAGE OF YOUR LIFE GENTLE & EASY JOURNEY

@barbiec4312 Месяц назад

I fought and lobbied and called and showed up to Sacramento many times to get this passed in California. My wonderful, happy, terminally ill aunt shot herself in her backyard and died alone a few days before Britney Maynard (California woman who moved to Oregon to access this right) died peacefully in her own bed surrounded by family by taking the end of life medication. The juxtaposition was too much to bear. SO happy that this is the law here now.

@debbiebroom7037 Месяц назад

This should be available to everyone but it won't because some people are so against it. Well, they don't have to do it. I'm so sorry about your Aunt ❤

@jeffthomas4162 Месяц назад

If your aunt shot herself it was much more of a issue then being terminally ill. People don't shoot themselves because their dying its because of mental illness.

@lulumoon6942 Месяц назад

So sorry for the painful loss of your dear Aunt! Cannot thank you enough from someone in a state where this isn't available, likely won't be anytime soon, have watched my own Aunt pass from a protracted terminal illness, and now have my own similar debilitating condition with little recourse. It's enough. I've advocated for others in my life, and knowing there are people like you who speak due unknown others gives me hope. Peace to you. 🙏🕊️

@dancelover020 Месяц назад

My mum actually died 10 years ago to the day. On 25th of april 2013. And it was her own choice through euthanasia as the pain from 2 types of terminal cancer were making life impossible to enjoy and there was no pain medication that worked. And she wanted to end at her own terms. We had a fabulous morning with friends and plaing her favourite music. We even danced a bit. Then friends left and only me and my brother and one friend stayed. She took the poison, we even laughed a bit more and then she said "I just gotta lay down for a bit" she closed her eyes and a bit later she was gone. And still had a smile on her face....I love you mum!!!

@lulumoon6942 Месяц назад

Sorry for the loss of your dear Mum. What an intimate story, thank you for sharing. 🙏🕊️

@bethhelton3923 Месяц назад

May I respectfully ask if she was a believer in God? Myself I could not take my own life.

@dancelover020 Месяц назад

@@bethhelton3923 My mum was a believer in God but also believed that God wouldn't want her to suffer the way she did and both my mum and I believe in a loving God who let us make our own choices and doesn't judge. Wait until you have bone cancer and you are screaming it out because your pain is so bad and there is NOT ONE medication that helps taking away that pain.......I hope you never get to that stage.

@bethhelton3923 Месяц назад

@@dancelover020 , I pray she knew God, eternity is forever. The commandments say do not murder. In my belief taking one's life is murder. In the Bible it clearly says there will be a judgment. I live in chronic debilitating pain. And. Have a bad heart. My days are limited. Yet life is precious. I will die when God takes me. I would like to have people praying for me at my death , not dancing. Just my own thoughts. Shalom

@bethhelton3923 Месяц назад

@@dancelover020, if she was in such terrible pain. How could she " enjoy" her last day ? Did she not have moments without extreme pain? Just asking as if she was in such pain she had to take her life , how could she enjoy her last hours?

@reneklein6049 Месяц назад

I agree with you 100%, Julie. It's up to the individual person if they choose to die in this manner. If people object, fine, but don't take this away from someone who wants to die with dignity. We treat our beloved animals better. We choose not to let them suffer, so why should people not have the same right! I would never want to have my children watch me suffer if I had a terminal illness, nor put the burden on them. Thank you for all that you do to educate people. ❤❤

@Liberty_Tree Месяц назад

I lost my cat Ollie yesterday morning Apr 25, 2024. His health drastically declined once my other cat Shadow passed five months ago Dec 4, 2023. Your videos and knowledge helped me to recognize when Ollie was very close to passing. He had similar signals as Shadow, but slightly different. His refusal of water, his increased fussiness and his change in breathing allowed me to ensure I was present with him comforting him as best I could, and saying a prayer when he passed. Thank You, and God Bless

@robkimberlin959 Месяц назад

Your cat was very blessed to have you as his owner.

@leochen887 Месяц назад

I am a dog owner; have been for many years. So I've seen my beloved pets suffer as they became old and had terminal disease. And I remember that we asked our veterinarian to come to our house so that our dog could feel safe and at home surrounded by friends and family. And I've seen how quickly they passed when our veterinarian administered a sedative followed by a lethal dose.

@SailorGal7353 Месяц назад

People put their animals down because they don't want to see them suffer, yet they let their loved ones suffer on because of their beliefs. Makes no sense to me. They argue that animals either don't have a soul (not true), or a human is not the same (also not true). We are all animals, but humans have the capacity to think in long terms. All humans should be allowed the choice whether to die a slow, painful death, or to end their own lives on their own terms. When you have sat with your loved ones who are in terrible pain, and you can do nothing for them, you might have a different opinion on this matter. Thank you for your insight and your willingness to pass your knowledge on to people who may not understand. I hope the rest of the states come on board with this and end the needless suffering for so many that do not wish it.

@thomasfox4513 Месяц назад

Thank you so much for bringing this up. My wife just passed from pancreatic and was terrified of a protracted, painful death. By the time she was ready to consider the NJ MAID program, she did not have the capability of communicating her wishes with the doctors. Her passing was fast, and thanks to hospice, painless. Understanding that even suggesting the validity of these programs exposes you to negative comments, your willingness to be open about it proves how much you value people's understanding dying processes. NJ passed its MAID laws after my wife's initial diagnosis. It was incredibly hard to inform her of the availability, even when she was becoming more anxious about her departure. At first she vehemently opposed my bringing it up. My guess is her residual Christian childhood lessons caused the knee jerk reaction. Within 72 hours she asked me to instigate the process. While it has yet to endear me to anyone I speak to regarding this, I think arming people with this knowledge has a good chance of providing comfort in their future.

@Timeflyer2 Месяц назад

Thank you so much for tackling this difficult topic in such a loving manner. This is the way I will go if I am given a terminal diagnosis. I have seen friends and family members face prolonged pain and suffering. I see nothing redemptive in wringing out every second of life in those circumstances. What people don’t realize is that modern medicine can prolong life long past the time people had years ago. In the end, for me, it comes down to quality of life over quantity of life. Also, I don’t want to put my family through the physical, monetary, and emotional strain of caretaking. I don’t fear death, but I do fear what I see as pointless suffering. And, thank you for addressing the issue of people not forcing their religious beliefs on others. If you disagree with Death with Dignity, by all means do not pursue that path. However, do not rob others of their decision to have this choice. Also, there is little reason to fear that people will pressure their loved ones into taking their life. There are many, many safe guards in place. Peace be with you all.

@bunnyolson9484 Месяц назад

Bravo julie,i watched my s/o of 21 yrs.drink himself to death over a 2 yr.period of yrs of depression,her lost his best friend and etc.paying 4 his step fathers care of the tune of over 250,000.etc.he always said the only dr.he wanted was kavorkiton.i miss him,😢 put hes at rest at 56 yrs.old.i was a widow at 54.i luv your content.from the frozen praire of south dakota ,peace❤❤

@kathygillman5450 Месяц назад

South Dakota sending you prayers and comfort. My daughter is doing the same w alcohol. I've tried everything to get her help but to no avail. My best friend died from alcohol too. It's so hard to understand but I know my friends at peace now.50 plus years of friendship and I could do nothing either. So sorry for your loss.

@carolpiirto5613 Месяц назад

Beyond the thank yous, you cannot know what you are doing for the world. The knowledge coupled with love you impart is life-changing for us, even if we or someone we know is not close to death. You’ve probably been called an angel many times. You are one!

@melissab.3377 Месяц назад

Thank you so much for keeping the ones going through this with a family member. My significant other has a daughter in hospice. She herself was a home healthcare RN for years. She was diagnosed 2 years ago with stage 4 lung cancer. She had 2 tumors removed May, 2022. Was fine for a year. April, 2023 another to get more tumor and tissue. Then October, 2023 final surgery. She has lost most of her sight. Been on steroids whole time and now we are slowly decreasing the dosage. Her adrenal glands shut down. She has been in and out of Hospital, nursing home and our local hospital with PT. She is tired and done. She is telling everyone people can outlive hospice. On top of all that because of the steroids she has osteoporosis and had 6 back fractures fixed. Her brother and father are so upset that she is giving up, at least the dad. Brother also says she is in hospice to get better. She has yet to try to get up and out of that bed. I get it. She was with us for 2 weeks before they then found the last 4 fractures. My children's father passed away 14 years ago from lung cancer in hospice. I was so grateful for hospice. You nurses do such wonderful things in coping with family and caretakers. What would we do without you. I can only hope and pray that the brother comes around to reality soon. They never had any tumors show up anywhere on scans, MRI, or pet scan. So because she smoked they say lung cancer because those tumors were malignant and came from possibly (in my words) unknown origin. I hope to catch you live! Thanks again for all your great content!

@lezup Месяц назад

Having watched people suffer through end stage diseases, I think someone in that much suffering should be given the option. But, I also cherish the time I was given with family on hospice. It all depends on what the person going through the illness wants.

@barbiec4312 Месяц назад

Let’s keep this in mind for other things we want to do with our bodies that you may not like or believe in.

@jencrecelius3565 Месяц назад

Agree, was going to comment something of the same. You can not like something yourself or want to do it and that's totally fine. It's just insane to me that people think their personal beliefs should extend to someone else's life and body.

@annjames1837 Месяц назад

The Vax zealots were relentless trying to push that poison on everyone

@wrinklesandsprinkles Месяц назад

I have joined the petition to legalize this medication in Minnesota. It is being considered by our legislators!

@lizwidner1208 Месяц назад

Your channel is a gift… I initially found you because I’m currently in pre-nursing school. Now I’m finding out that my 68-year old father’s health isn’t as good as it used to be, he’s currently on oxygen. I’ve always had a strong fear of death and dying since I was a child, even though I personally believe in Heaven. All through my 20s I used to lie awake at night thinking about what it would be like when the time comes for my parents to need care or when they start to decline in their health…. Thank you for your channel, it has been helping me a lot these past few months since I found you. Sorry for the long comment, I write a lot! 😂 I cannot wait to read your book ❤

@michellewhyatt4438 Месяц назад

I totally agree with everything you have said. I have been watching your vids for quite some time & you are so lovely precious you care deeply & you explain everything perfectly thank you so much angel

@Rebelynn56 Месяц назад

How I wish this was available in 1970, when my Mom was dying from cancer. She had had breast cancer twice, (baby sister born between), before finally dying in the hospital from bone metastases. It was a long time for her to be in hospital.

@inesshani5123 Месяц назад

Hello Julie, my brother David chose the end of life medicine. I was very confused about how I felt about it he could not walk anymore. He was very weak and was dying of multiple myeloma. I went through the procedure with him and I’ve got to tell you nurse, Julie, that. it was the most beautiful thing I have ever witnessed my brother went out the way he wanted to go on his terms. I have changed my mind about dying. I’m not that scared anymore after he took the medicine it took him five hours to die that was hard on me, but he was sleeping peacefully until the end.

@gretchensmith5049 Месяц назад

Just went thru this with a family friend who was like an uncle. Kidney & liver failure. He passed away telling us the story of when he got his 1st motorcycle, a happy memory for him. He also went so quickly, he was definitely ready to go. I am grateful he had the opportunity to go peacefully and his way plus his timeframe.

@DarkXenith Месяц назад

I wish this was an option in my country. I have a relative with Cancer who we know will suffer as it progresses. No-one should be forced to suffer through an illness because mercy is deemed illegal. We treat our animals better than that.

@yukiefromoz2573 Месяц назад

Well, this is better than the method in Switzerland and Belgium where they set a date for you so it's then or never.

@mygreenfroggy Месяц назад

There are people who think their beliefs and rules are the only right ones and everybody has to do what they say, they also tend to be control freaks and fanatics. I personally don't believe some things, but I also believe in bodily autonomy and the right to choose. Especially if a patient is well informed about choices and what will happen. If you don't believe the same that's fine, their choices are between the person and whatever God or Notgod they believe in.

@capicolaspicy Месяц назад

Thank you Julie! Great video and very happy to hear that there are now 11 states allowing this. I honestly don't know if our Creator is happy about this, and not at all sure what choice I might make if I find myself towards the end stage of a terminal illness. I am currently stage III COPD so I may not have to wait a long time before I have to see what choice I make.

@donnaclark431 Месяц назад

Thank you for educating us about this and how it works and the process you go through. You made it not so scary. God Bless You

@layosmom1 Месяц назад

I was a Hospice Nurse for 5 years, until I was diagnosed with severe depression & bipolar, I knew of this option in my early 30's & tried many ways of going away. My hope & prayer is that people DO Not take the route of The young Belgium Women recently in the news who opted for this because she was Severely depressed & has autism, this is a slippery slope. Life has so much Hope! I'm 50 now, my children & husband have Hope because I Am Here, I still struggle. I love the words of Anne Frank- Where There's Life- There's Hope!

@b.v.437 Месяц назад

I think everyone should be allowe doesn't matter they have illness, mental health issue, disability or even if they are young or old and fit.

@bethhelton3923 Месяц назад

Totally agree, yes where there is life there is hope! Life is precious. I will die when God decides.

@b.v.437 Месяц назад

@@bethhelton3923 but what about people who don't believe in God or Christianity?

@bethhelton3923 Месяц назад

@@b.v.437, that is up to God to judge them. There is a God. All will be judged. If you don't believe in God/ not saying just the Christian faith, but the one true G-d. You will find out.

@b.v.437 Месяц назад

@@bethhelton3923 so Hinduism, Buddhism, Jainism, Judaism Zoroastrianism, Shintoism and Sikhism are bad and you don't consider religion and don't like people who follow all these religions? Who is your God to judge? Oh how she can judge when doesn't exist. 😂😂😂😂

@Az.TrailTrekker Месяц назад

Love hearing the story of the young man who took the medicine. It’s how I would like to do it if I was diagnosed with terminal illness.

@carolatchley3797 Месяц назад

Thank you Julie. I hope that in the future you will also address what patients can do who don't live in the states that have Death With Dignity laws.

@lisam8044 Месяц назад

I am hoping this will help someone, in Ontario, Canada it takes almost a month to be approved for this but we do have sedation in hospice (I'm sorry I don't know the full rules) but dad had a counseling 10 min bedside visit and within 8 hours he was sedated to the point where he would never wake up, he chose this because he didn't want to wait a month suffering....this was a beautiful choice too...the patient is sleeping peacefully and will never wake up again, this can be an alternative maybe to states that don't allow assisted suicide?

@user-tl3uf2fd5k Месяц назад

I think you can just go to one of the states that allows it and do it. I recently saw on the news in Connecticut there was a woman from Connecticut who went to Vermont to do it. Actually I think she was on RU-vid chronicling her journey through cancer and her end of life

@Grahamt978 Месяц назад

@@lisam8044I’m interested to know if this is offered here in the states, it’s not something I’ve ever heard about.

@AlerieHightower Месяц назад

@@user-tl3uf2fd5k At the moment, only Vermont and Oregon have stopped enforcing their residency laws. The other states still require residency for now. There is also an option in Switzerland, but it's fairly expensive. For that one, you don't even have to have a terminal diagnosis.

@susannystrom-marshall9437 Месяц назад

I so love your videos. This option should be available in all states, and you are so right, your own beliefs are entirely personal and should never be impressed on others. You don't have the choice as to whether you come into this world but you do have a choice to stay.

@b.v.437 Месяц назад

What about non medical reasons like people who don't want to turn 80 or want to go with spouse or bored for same routine family not visiting or any other reason?

@deeceee5347 Месяц назад

Julie you should do a video about the cost of death with dignity because many cant afford it and have no idea its not free. Its a big deal when you cant die because you cant afford it.

@robinbarrett5301 Месяц назад

I agree with you Julie, I just wish it was a option in all states.

@Wendy-bd9zu Месяц назад

Sounds like a great way to go, everyone should have that choice ❤

@juvi6787 Месяц назад

I hope Norway and Sweden will follow some day. Thank You for your videos!

@FreeBird1276 Месяц назад

I wish this was available to those of us who have suffered for years with autoimmune diseases and other health problems that are progressively getting worse.

@starletsatori8933 Месяц назад

Vermont has recently opened their compassion services to out of staters. Good to know, they also have an organization that will help you navigate.

@rachelfrees1268 Месяц назад

My husband was in Hospice Hospital in Texas. Nothing helped his suffering with Congestive Heart Failure. His daughter a health care worker asked if they would give him GEODONE. They said yes. This was late Friday night and he passed Sunday morning. He never suffered again. This is what I want when it’s my time for hospice. Thank you.

@OceanSwimmer Месяц назад

@rachelfrees1268, What is GEODONE?

@coolbreeze5683 Месяц назад

I live in Canada and wish MAiD was legal over a decade ago when my dad had terminal cancer. Doctors and the medical system already "play God" when they do their jobs in intervening with treatments to save and extend lives. Sometimes, against patient's wishes by extending lives of terminal patients who want to pass away on their own terms. I think putting the decision in the patient's hands, after all vetting and precautions have been thoroughly reviewed, is the most humane thing to do.

@MrsBrit1 Месяц назад

Any Dr going against patient wishes shouldn't be practicing medicine any longer! 🙅

@Grahamt978 Месяц назад

It’s against the law to treat a patient against their wishes, sorry your dad had that experience.

@srozaardnet5630 Месяц назад

During Covid, we heard of many old people being euthanized while in the hospital - without their permission. The hospitals made money doing this. The doctors made money. A book came out just a few weeks ago, titled "They Want To Kill Us: Here's how and why". by Dr Jack King. It contains some dirty truths about euthanasia. I don't think I would undergo death by doctor in a hospital. Only with a hospice nurse in my home.

@briarrose5208 Месяц назад

I totally agree with you. Thank you so much for this.

@SuzanneCrawford-xy1eg Месяц назад

I live in South Africa, and I don't think we have the legal recourse to be able to do this. I believe this is something that should be choice.

@RABPWarrior Месяц назад

I look forward to your first televised interview Julie 😊

@GSHPWI Месяц назад

100% support! My friend/co-worker has ALS.

@rufuscusack2962 Месяц назад

Nurse Julie you are amazing & touch my heart! Sending much LOVE n Support your way!!

@pearlsbeforeswine60 Месяц назад

I know someone who just did this, but she had to move her state of residence to Vermont and lots of hoops to jump through first. I'm a former cancer patient and there is just a bunch of treatment stuff I refuse to undergo again if it comes back. I've had the Hemlock Society's book"Final Exit" for decades (and it was the guide another friend used to end her life). Permission or not, legal or not, I have a plan, I know it works and I will use it, regardless of whether it's legal or not when the time comes. Thank you, Julie, for helping remove the stigma around assisted dying , your example was so beautiful.

@b.v.437 Месяц назад

What about non medical reasons like people who don't want to turn 80 or want to go with spouse or bored for same routine family not visiting?

@calicat1996 Месяц назад

MAID is legal where i live in canada, or perhaps throughout all of canada. I see signs while sriving around saying it is murder, but until you witness undo suffering, or are the one going through it, i dont think anyone could ever understand. MAID is in my opinion such an important medical option and im glad it is legal here, i hope one day it is everywhere.

@peekaboocockatiel6514 Месяц назад

Great information. Thank you.

@DennisTownsend-zo2uw Месяц назад

Unrelated, you have a beautiful smile. Hope no offense is taken?

@peterinburlington Месяц назад

In Vermont, even if you are not a resident you can make arrangements to come here for death with dignity. There was a woman from Connecticut who did this just a couple of months ago.

@b.v.437 Месяц назад

Can you give more detail please?

@carolemantha8958 Месяц назад

❤ thank you for sharing. 😊

@fluffykitten992 Месяц назад

I think anyone who’s suffering in unbearable pain everyday and no quality of life should have the option plus seeing family stressing about there illness and needs would make them feel worse experiencing this myself seeing family members looking after a dying family member was only for a fairly short time though in hospice week or 2 after short battle with cancer luckily had a lot of good days till the end can’t imagine someone going through something like this for months though.

@pattyk734 Месяц назад

Thanks!

@hospicenursejulie Месяц назад

THANK YOU!!!! 🥰🥰🥰

@kathrynsamuelson1983 Месяц назад

Vermont courts held that patients from out of state can come to Vermont from other states to use the process, It's my recollection that the legislature followed up with a law that followed this ruling,

@DriftyAlison0 Месяц назад

I am religious myself and I will more than likely not do this myself since its against my faith, however I feel that it should be up to the person. As long as they follow the rules and is not doing it just to please others then they should have the choice. I am for this. It should be legal everywhere and as long as they meet the criteria for this then they should be allowed.

@b.v.437 Месяц назад

Yes you are right I'm agree with you.

@igorfilin8342 Месяц назад

Useful!

@MtnMikey1 Месяц назад

HNJ I am 65 & in poor health. Your videos are VALUBLE to me & others who are contemplating the END. You sexual orientation is NOBODY,S business but I’d like to advise you that your persona is attractive to us quality hetero gentlemen. You…are a “catch” as they/we say. Please keep it up - it’s a great comfort to those of us who are “Short of breath & therefore closer to death” to quote Pink Floyd.

@Outsider4JC Месяц назад

@lindadepascale8290 Месяц назад

Can you address the case of someone who does not live in a state that permits doctor assisted suicide. What does one do if they don’t live in a permitted state?

@cavgrey8 Месяц назад

Is residence required if your state does not have MAID?

@barbiec4312 Месяц назад

Look up Britney Maynard, California woman who moved to Oregon to access this before either was law in California.

@user-tl3uf2fd5k Месяц назад

Recently there was a woman from Connecticut who went to Vermont to end her life. She still lived in Connecticut and she went to Vermont a day or so before hand. I can't remember her name but she was on RU-vid as she chronicled her cancer journey and then when she made the decision to end her life she made videos about that too

@meghancronin9156 Месяц назад

Vermont and OR lifted their residency requirements 🫶

@carolmartin4413 Месяц назад

Yes. Given reasonable criteria...people should be able to make their own end of life decisions.

@conniehall-ib3th Месяц назад

I have Stage IV Metastatic Breast Cancer. I’m not in the 6 month or less time frame yet. When I’ve felt like I’m too mentally & physically tired to carry on with any type of treatment, I’ll stop everything & go to the beach🌞if I’m still somewhat mentally capable of making my decisions, I’m not afraid to tell someone that it’s time for Hospice. I know my body will let me know when it’s time. My mother died of Dementia last year & her last days were her being basically comatose,in her hospital bed on laying on her back, with eyes closed & mouth wide open. I don’t understand why you don’t close their mouths, for the family. My mother wouldn’t want to die with her mouth open. It’s not like she would have any choice in the matter, but I feel like the family should, especially the members that are there at the death bed.

@Outsider4JC Месяц назад

@lindanelson8400 Месяц назад

Julie, I love what you do and all the information you provide. On this subject, speaking for myself only I would be against the taking of my own life, and the reasoning behind that is my religious beliefs. That being said I am not in the camp of trying to impose my beliefs on you, or anyone else. The Lord gives us freedom of will. Only he will judge us for our actions in this life. Lastly I don't think any of us knows exactly what we would choose until we find ourselves in a situation that we're going to die soon. There's a lot that factors into the decision to end your own life, quality of life, pain, in my county I think the county would be most interested in whether or not you have your personal property and real estate taxes paid up to date. 😊 thought I'd throw in a little levity there. I live in a state where assisted suicide is not legal. But for me only depending on my quality of life, the certainty i have an incurable disease, and talking openly with my family, I might change my mind. Dying is probably the most personal and private part of our lives. It's ultimately up to the individual. Being a retired nurse, I'd be on Hospice by that point and I could get the job done if I chose to do so. What's the county or state going to do? Lock me up after I'm gone? Not likely, I keep my taxes up-to-date. 😊

@judilacy2493 Месяц назад

I've been learning a lot from your videos ❤ I'm in the process of the 'long walk Home' with a disabled relative ❤ So, your work is a great help to me. Have you seen what has been happening with this issue in the Netherlands? TYTY for listening❣️

@brazen44 Месяц назад

Similar in Canada but the criteria is more relaxed

@AuntieVonn Месяц назад

Wow! Thank you so much for this information! ❤❤❤❤❤

@vampslayer04 Месяц назад

Definitely should be an option for adults that want it. I do have a lot of concern for the way I see the laws headed in Canada, for example.

@bundesautobahn7 Месяц назад

In the Netherlands, children under 12 can opt for assisted dying under certain circumstances.

@joecheffo5942 Месяц назад

Canada has it that way, for adults who want it. Where is it headed, increased individual freedom?

@Usercantwelve Месяц назад

I agree with you 💯.

@SouthObeauty Месяц назад

Thank you Julie ❤

@Meganmama Месяц назад

Beautiful. I agree with you. If I can have a living and peaceful death for my dog, why shouldn’t I be able to have it for myself?

@beths8998 Месяц назад

We should be able to have the right to die PEACEFULLY in situations in which there is severe suffering. I love animals so much, but it was always baffling to me how we would lovingly and willingly extend care and compassion to euthanize a suffering animal companion, but not a human. We should never be able to push our own personal will or agenda on another person. It should be allowed and it should be an individual choice. I am chronically ill and live with chronic pain and belong to many online communities where this topic is covered - there are people that become so desperate for pain relief that they end their life in violent ways. The person choice of right to die would ensure a much peaceful and compassionate passing.

@b.v.437 Месяц назад

What about non medical reasons like people who don't want to turn 80 or want to go with spouse or bored for same routine family not visiting?

@GirdsHerStrength Месяц назад

Those criteria get real slidey after a while. I live in BC and we’ve had a case where a young woman had depression, felt suicidal, and went to the ER for help NOT killing herself. She was offered MAID. 😑

@OceanSwimmer Месяц назад

@GirdsHerStrength, That is very sad news!

@borisbash Месяц назад

In Victoria Australia the requirements are too strict. I see myself with a bottle of expensive whiskey a cuban cigar and a syringe full of insulin after an evening with my family. They may not even know. Such are the stupid laws.

@dalehamon4295 Месяц назад

Thank you. ❤

@lizaloubosman-butler6513 Месяц назад

Thank you for your perspective!

@katiehemming2485 Месяц назад

I’m a new end of life doula and I find your videos to be extremely helpful! I’m hoping to get hired as one at a hospice in the near future and want to be prepared as much as possible going in. ❤

@b.v.437 Месяц назад

You have any RU-vid channel?

@b.v.437 Месяц назад

What about non medical reasons like people who don't want to turn 80 or want to go with spouse or bored for same routine family not visiting or any other reason?

@maryrichardson6029 Месяц назад

I agree with you ❤

@deeceee5347 Месяц назад

My mother is so against death with dignity but I have seen people suffer. I have also seen people suffer during death or before death. By the way this medication cost $980.00 and insurance doesn't cover it in many cases. Recently, we raised money for a man that was suffering in the hospital, and he wanted death with dignity. However, they wanted money for it... it should be free.

@lindamorassi4458 Месяц назад

Thank you for this information ❤

@Intern2345 Месяц назад

Love it, Nurse Julie.

@Solitarynana7870 Месяц назад

I have a rare cancer, Epitheliod Hemangioendothelioma. I went through 6 years of loneliness and miserable illness.

@Outsider4JC Месяц назад

@jim-annvolz8754 Месяц назад

Question My friend was dying with all systems failure. She was skin and bones not ambulatory and very tired. When I arrived we chatted about the past for 2 days She slept the 3rd day and was nonresponsive and snored. The 4th day early morning she had peed out and had no muscle response, none. We changed her and put her higher in the bed and her breathing was quieter. But dinner her breathing was very shallow and stopped within 2 hrs and she passed. My question did she actually pass in the morning when she peed out, was completely unresponsive, her eyes were hazy looking to the side, and her muscles were completely flaccid., not later that evening when she stopped breathing.

@OceanSwimmer Месяц назад

@jim, We consider death to occur when the heart stops beating. A person can stop breathing, and the heart will then stop shortly afterwards. The peeing was simply loss of muscle control. A body can be cool to the touch, with loss of voluntary movement & still have a heartbeat. 🌷🌞🌷

@garylovell6017 Месяц назад

It should be available all over the world.

@andrewjoyce9038 Месяц назад

Wish I could have given it to my mum 6 months ago when she died of mestasis cancer. She was in so much pain. Morphine didn't really help. I live in England so don't know the rules here. I'm pretty sure though she wanted to survive

@kristineguetschow9134 Месяц назад

Can a person who lives in a state that does not allow a death choice go to a state that allows it for the sole purpose of ending their aliveness?

@christylee9552 Месяц назад

I’m wondering too. I’d imagine you would have to reside in that state and be established with a physician? I just want nurse Julie

@user-tl3uf2fd5k Месяц назад

Recently I saw on the news there was a woman from Connecticut who went to Vermont to enter life. She had made the arrangements ahead and she still lived in Connecticut she didn't have to move there. I don't know how it works but you might want to check into it

@Desert_Dreamer24 Месяц назад

What medication is used with this??

@Monica-gj2yx Месяц назад

She is not allowed to say.

@Fadingroses19 Месяц назад

I was using the restroom last night, and I was thinking of my mom in home hospice. A week before she had passed away, she just slept (comatose in a way) our bodies naturally let us know when to urinate/excrement.Why in those who are actively dying does that response go away as if they are babies, and will need adult diapers?

@meghancronin9156 Месяц назад

I really hope to see the day MAID is federally legal ❤ thanks Julie

@b.v.437 Месяц назад

What about non medical reasons like people who don't want to turn 80 or want to go with spouse or bored for same routine family not visiting or any other reason?

@bltlil Месяц назад

I have been with my relative when she has asked two Dr’s assistants/PA’s and both had no idea this was ok in California!!! Unfortunately crippling pain does not qualify so I’m afraid she won’t get what she wants and now losing hope, her mental health /depression is getting worse so from what you said sounds like you said-she may not qualify because of that as well.

@user-tl3uf2fd5k Месяц назад

In Canada you don't have to have a terminal illness. You can just have a change in the quality of your life and you feel that you don't have good quality of life you can make the choice to do it. I don't know if they let people from other countries go there to do it but you could check into it

@wendyrwright Месяц назад

I so want this choice if needed in my life. My heart hurts that it is not yet allowed in my State!! How long would you have to live in a State before you can take advantage of the Death and Dignity Law?

@lisatingley8953 Месяц назад

Hi, I’ve watched your videos for sometime. Can you explain the death rattle? Thankfully my sister was an officer and helped many, also experienced the end of life at car accidents. She was able to walk me thru that process when my grandad passed on hospice. She said this would be his last day with us. It’s a scary sound but I was comfortable staying holding his hand and telling him how much I loved him and I would be ok. He would be with grandma again. He did pass that day but waited for me to grab something to eat and not be in the room. I was so mad at him!! My mom died alone in the hospital when I was almost 5. I didn’t want him to go thru that. I have faith in Jesus. He knows what’s best for me. That was in 2013. I’m not mad anymore. I never could be mad at him. He was my HERO. Love you granddaddy ❤️

@MrsBrit1 Месяц назад

Are there rules about travelling across state lines for this? I'm in the UK and it's currently illegal here, so much so that even if you simply travel with someone to a country where assisted dying is legal because they don't want to be alone or they're unable to travel without assistance, for example, you can be charged with manslaughter on return, which is pretty ridiculous, IMO. Just taking them there for an assisted death is illegal.

@Dianeayr Месяц назад

It is legal in switzerland and I'm pretty sure they take people from other countries. Look up dignitas, unsure if my spelling is correct.

@b.v.437 Месяц назад

Do Google and check Pegasos and exit international and many other organisationsI that operates in Switzerland.

@ananda_miaoyin 9 дней назад

I see Florida is not on the list but I can tell you 100% that these drugs are administered in that state. You have to ask the hospice doctor. If the patient is unresponsive, the family can order it. A quote from our hospice doctor: "The state of Florida allows us a lot of liberty with our medications but the family has to ask." As the doctor stared dead into my step fathers eyes, "YOU have to ask me."

@ginandtonic5888 Месяц назад

Wow. Amazing.

@tishgreene8906 Месяц назад

Hey Julie, my husband has been diagnosed as terminally ill for many months now. He has cirrhosis, nph, Parkinson’s, oesophageal varices and was treated for liver cancer the Christmas before last ( this may have come back but we are no longer taking him for scans.). We have had several weeks of him only taking small amounts of food but a little more fluid but yeastrrday he had nothing to eat or drink and didn’t want to be woken but could be roused. His mouth was full of white mucus which I cleared with a sponge. Does this sound like we have entered the last stage of his illness? He is in a nursing home where I visit him daily but he hates being there. I’d be grateful for your thoughts. Tish from Brisbane

@karwask1 Месяц назад

Thank you so much for covering this important topic. I wish at some point in time you would also talk about voluntarily stopping eating and drinking VSED and how your hospice works with that or not as well as hospice in general. Thanks

@folaraj6343 Месяц назад

Yes, I would also like to hear more about VSED. Such an important topic! The majority of people unfortunately don't have access to medical aid in dying.

@mark70s29 Месяц назад

I wish i had this available in my country. If you ever needed to spend time in an England hospital you would too.

@lindadepascale8290 Месяц назад

That was beautiful and should be an option for everyone.

@brucedillahunty9522 Месяц назад

Besides my beliefs which impacts me, my concern is about the ‘slippery slope’ where it moves from lots of checks to ‘well, let’s use this on our brain damaged loved one who we want to die’. Yes, it seems far fetched, but I read more and more about things in Canada happening to expand coverage and terminating the life of people who can’t agree themselves.

@bundesautobahn7 Месяц назад

I know the story of an elderly woman in Canada, who chose assisted dying just before the winter lockdown in 2020. She was a very social woman, and the first lockdown seemed to have completely broken her because of the strict isolation from everyone else in her retirement home, so she didn't want to experience this again and she chose to end her life in her terms, in the last days before the second lockdown started. Sad, really.

@barbiec4312 Месяц назад

You have to self administer. No one can administer it for you. You can’t get it if you are not mentally competent.

@Rosie-xm7ry Месяц назад

That shouldn’t mean we take away the choice from those who do want to end their life on their own terms

@joecheffo5942 Месяц назад

Can you give me one case where Canada euthanized someone who was not able to consent? That's murder. To accuse Canada of murdering people like Nazi Germany is quite a charge and should be retracted if you cannot back it up. By the way I studied philosphy and history and the slippery slope argument is nonsense. People just don't go "sliding down a slippery slope". Oregon has not "slipped" one bit in 20 years. Heroin is not legal anywhere even though Cannabis is. Canada is thinking about expanding this somewhat based on reason and compassion. They are not on a greased slide just slipping down. You can say allowing Black people to vote was a slippery slope. Then they allowed people without propery, then women. When will it end?

@carilariviere505 Месяц назад

We do better for our pets when it comes to suffering and dying. Here in Canada I believe it is legal nationwide ( maybe Quebec excluded?) but there are a lot of rules. It sounds like there, once you are approved and receive the meds, you can THEN decide when and how. Here, I think once you decide you have to do it right away rather than be able to wait until you are really ready to end suffering. But you have to start the paperwork so early, the meds might come before you're ready. I could be wrong, but I know when researching it I didn't like the whole timing of it. Still glad to have the option. Not afraid to die at all, but living and suffering has been my whole life (one way or the other) so suffering while dying does not float my boat!!

@b.v.437 Месяц назад

What about non medical reasons like people who don't want to turn 80 or want to go with spouse or bored for same routine family not visiting?

@carilariviere505 Месяц назад

@@b.v.437 If you are asking if that is included in MAID in Canada, the answer is no. We were about to approve MAID for mental health (very specific) reasons; but that got put on the back burner. Basically you need to have a life ending illness or chronic illness so that you have zero quality of life. It's not for just being fed up with your earth life.

@nancynewlin Месяц назад

Ever since I saw my first dog euthanized in the 80’s, I’ve been ANGRY! Angry that my dog could go peacefully, but I wouldn’t be able to. Now that I live in SC, when the time comes, I’ll need to plan way in advance and move to a state that provides MAiD. This should be a NATIONAL law.