The moment when you said "Yeh wahi insan h jiske wajh se main Kisi or se Pyaar nii kr payi or jiske wjh se main khud se pyaar nii kr payi " hit me so hard 💔
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
finally, mil gya mujhe jawab. My heart is on rest now, i'll carry all of the sweet memories & walk ahead with God and me, thankyou God, miraculous! 19/10/23 (10:19pm)
True man...I was in so much love with a boy in college..I used to wait for hours to just see him once...and I cried for 6 years...after he left me...because for him I was just a napkin and nothing more...and then today after approx 8 years I have found someone who loves me so much that I cry myself to sleep because of his love...And today I can see my Lord Hanuman smiling and looking at me..telling me this is why..he never deserved you...
Currently in ur previous 6 years wala phase, it's been 5.5 yrs crying for the guy who was my 1st love. Hope so one day I'll too find someone like ur current love ❤
sometimes even if you have made yourself a bolder version of yourself still while you recall a bitter past or sacrifices, your emotions comes in and we can't hide it!
"agar koi hai Jo tumko chahiye, pagalo ki tarah, shiddat se aur nahi Mila too.. it means God is saving you. aur vo nahi Mila to uss baat ka jawab bhi milega.. das din ya das saal baad" man i was so in love with this boy for one entire year and even ignored other boys who liked me..... just for him. I even confessed to him but never noticed that him not replying anything to my confession will mean " me" to be in a situationship. it was always one sided but he and his actions made me feel like that there's a slight possibility that this can be two sided. I was such a fool in believing him. like he would literally do everything that a girl would surely fall for and would think that the other side is in love too. A MAJOR RED FLAG...NO A COMPLETE RED RIVER. i happened to realise this too late. and one day when he ended things without even giving me the reason, I chose not to ask for it. Yes I would question god and ask him that why did he bring us together when we were meant to be seperated. I would ask God if my love wasn't enough and that why he can't be mine. and then.. just three weeks later, my friends found him roaming with another girl in the school campus. and I got the answer. I was never meant to be with him and God sent him to my life just to teach me some important life lessons. It was like God was giving me my 18 th birthday gift because I saw those two just a day after my birthday. A girl who never cried in front of anyone was crying that day quietly in front of her two friends in the school bus. yes I cried and let all the things that were crushing my heart out with those tears. I thought things like did he not see how genuine my love was or did he just thought me as some kind of joke or what did I not do and that girl did, etc. I changed after that incident. but this time for the better. I started to prioritise myself and i started loving myself. now I know who I am and what is right for me. life might have given be an important lesson in a young age but I'm really grateful for that. and also I thank that girl internally because without her I wouldn't have seen the truth about that guy. And yes when the school ended on the last board exam ...I never looked back to that emotionally unstable guy. "kabhi kabhi vo Jo hai na .. Thora sa dard dekar aapko bohot saare dard se bacha leta hai" thank you
Pyaar insaan ko pagal hi toh bna deta haii when she said : kuch log itna tut kar pyaar kr lete hai na ki khudhi tut jate haii ) and this lines hit ne hard ❤
Pain will still remain in ❤️. Moral of the story we all need closure for our own decision so that we don't regret anything future. In my current condition I have also been questioning and crying in front of God why did this happen to me? NOT able to connect to anyone. But your motivation and message gave me the ray of hope that if God is there he will show me the reason behind this pain.Thank you @poojasachdeva you are the best❤
I have a question, there is one boy jisse mai like krti bahht but wo like krta ya nhi I don't know, although he takes of me, disrespect nhi krta meri feelings ki kadar krta, loyal hai bolta ki sham me baat krege to jarur krta, but I love u kabhi nhi bolta,bss frnd bolta but kya koi frnd kisi frnd ke lie itni care krega, wo hurt bhi nhi krta bss bolta carriar bnayo padhai kro bAhut jaruri hai life me , lagta mano kitna pyar krta mere se but bolta sirf frnd ho, mai usse bahut jhagra krti, bahut jada but wo kabhi chor ke nhi jata mujhe, bahut preshan krte usko bss isi baat pe ki tum kyu nhi like krte kya kmi mere me but ek hi reply acchi ho meri frnd ho, tumhari feelings ki respect krta hu, really wo sirf mujhe frnd manta smjh nhi ata mujhe
Goosebumps..I feel k jo hota hai wo bhot acche k liye hota hai.. God always has better plans..I think ye video bhot logo ko move on krne me help krega. Really great... Itna bolne ke liye bhi courage chahiye really appreciate that 👏👏
I can't thank you enough i was crying everyday for a stupid guy who didn't love me back, gave anxieties and made me question my worth but now i got it why boys couldn't reciprocate my feelings i often asked why such guys used me like a napkin and disposed me off. Idk if they will get their karma or not but all i can say is that god's plan is always special❤
I have been there and my older sister told me: You don't love him, You love what he made you feel. You are chasing that feeling of connection and not a person, Not him.
Sis you got the best sister.In this situation of mine there is no one with whom I could share something. Well I got the answer to my question thank you for your comments
I've now literally understood god's plan and got the answer of my question which I was trying to find. Moreover, the answer lies in front of our eyes but we don't want to accept it, we want someone else to tell us.
Thank god this video came into my suggestions and I could watch it 😊 indeed the truth “Mann ka ho toh accha aur agar na ho toh rote mat baitho, aur bhi accha” Thank you so muchhhh I really needed to hear this ❤
2011 I felt the same way 2013 I Married someone else… someone good. 2014 experienced what it felt like to be loved by someone. 2018 had a baby 2020 another 2022 had a realization that, yes the feelings I felt before 2010 was indeed THE love. The crazy stupid one. 2023 wondering if I made the right decision… wondering if it’s a symptom of post-partum depression
While watching the entire video, I found myself smiling because it felt like someone was expressing my own experiences in such a beautiful way. However, in the end, it brought tears to my eyes not of regret or sadness, but of peaceful emotions. Nailed it!!❤
Thank you for making me realise that I am not at fault for loving someone who doesn't love me back....and now I believe that God has made a great plan for me and i will trust in him and myself ❤.....and last thing u have a magical voice ❤
This was all I needed to hear... helped me realize ki jis chahat ko itni shidaat se chaha, zaruri nhi woh puri hi ho....and I totally agree to this, that God do save us from someone who doesn't deserve us Loved it❤
If someone doesn't choose you, there is nothing wrong about you, everything is wrong with them.😬 God always saves you😇 God always knows whats the best for you🤗 God always does the best for you🥹 You would know why you didn't get what you desired for, some or the other day. And that reason will make all the difference.
Gosh!!!! How can someone be so fricking relatable!!!same story bhai when i was in class 10 ,i fell in love with a boy.. and i used to pray everyday ki wo mera ho jaye,i used to cry for him,main chikhati chillati thi krishna ji ke pass ki wo mera kyu nhi ho sakta,aur ab jab main 1st year mein hu long distance ho jaye then i understood why can't he!!! I'm thankful ki "wo mera kabhi nhi ho saka". And that line ki "kuch chizo ka logic nhi hota bas ho jata hai" goshhhhhhhh!! Bhale hi wo jhoota tha par kabhi mera pyar to nhi tha na!!! Dil badi hi ajib si chiz hai pyar ki umar nhi manta ,na hi insaan dekhta hai bas ho jata hai!!!
It's been a year for me .. And even merely a thought of some other man.. Feels so... uncomfortable. The heart wants what it wants... But I guess I'll just focus on myself abhi...
The almost teary eyes that she had while speaking of the first glance of him that she caught, years back....each and every line had so many deep emotions intertwined.
Here also same situation.. I'm 16 and suffering from one sided love story..He is the best bhai,IdK how to explain it..Same as didi saying.. I also confess my love to him..Let's see what's his reply..He gonna come to online after 3 days
I loved the last line “mann ka ho toh acha… aur nahi ho toh rote mat betho kyunki aur bhi acha”…. One of the best I have come across tape a tale…. “I love you ke badle mein thanks mile” yeh mere saath bhi hua hai, and that too with my ex-husband while we were married…. I ask god everyday that why are we separated, but today after watching your video I know for sure that god is saving me from something I am not completely aware about… thanks a lot for this❤more power to you💛
I cried for him ...we are having a video call at 1in night i begged him plzzz don't leave me but he just ended up ...let's move on me just movvvvveeeee
It is not only a poetry but also a real story in many other ways. Wait lemme explain what I wanna say. I'm preparing for government exam and i don't qualify my mains. So I'm waiting my good days like ye nhi toh kuchh achcha milega Bhagwaan ji ne kuchh achcha hi likha hoga. At the end, man ka ho toh achcha na ho toh or bhi achcha. So waiting for or bhi achcha😅🤞
Same yarrr I am also preparing for ssc with broken heart and with a hope that one day everything will be fine.. uski shadi ho gyi hai aur ab ek baby bhi ho gya hai aur mai yaha akele anjan shahar me uske yado ke sath lad rahi hu aur uske bina jina Sikh rahi hai..1.5 years ho gye uski shadi huye aur mai abhi tak usko bhul nhi payi hu?😢?@@shiva10singh
what a perfect day to watch this video. i broke up with a boy 9 months ago but i always felt guilty because i considered him to be too good to have got his hear broken by me. i texed him yeaterday saying sorry and accepting all my mistakes. a repy came from him 12 hours later which declared me psycho. the amout of bad things he said to me, i guess no body even told as much good about me ever. i thanked god for saving myself from him, so happy that the relationship ended early. made me realise how stupid i was in even falling for this person, he was completely opposite to me the only one thing that made me like him was his good nature, funny cause now i know the real one.
Yaar ye hum one sided waalo ko old school waalo ko kyo importance nhi diya jaata😅 ab hum baakiyo ke jaise nhi hai to isme humaari kya glti to be very honest koi 1 hi special hota hai🫰🏻uske baad to bas dil lgana hota hai🙂 lekin ab isme bhi humaari kya glti jb kisi se dil bhi nhi lagana bas uski memories le kr hi khush hona kbhi yaad kr ke chup chup ke rona logon ke saamne cool ban na but wo 1 person ke liye itna gir jana ki fir khud se nafrat hone lgta but us se nhi khud ki khushi se jyada uske baare me sochna yaar kya hai ye feelings kyo koi nhi smjhta hume kyo akele deal krna hota hai 🥲 or wo line ki jab I love you ka ans thank you me milta hai dude. Is se bura feeling kuch nhi hota💔
I'm literally crying with ur story......is duniya mai sachhe pyar ka answer koi insaan nhi de sakta sirf wo director sahaab hi de sakte h aur unke zabaab na jane kitne lambe intazaar ko pal mai gayab kar dete h😢
@@Aasan_life1 mtlb god usse kharab ladke se bacha Liya kunki wo person uske layak na tha cheater tha shaadi ke baad bi side se dusari ladki rakhta . Ye Anhoni hone se bhagwan bcha liye uske sath
@@Aasan_life1 Agar wo ladka iss ladki ko milta to lifetime rona prta . Wo person lifetime cheating krta . Or usse lifetime dhokhe me rakhta. Jiske Karan puri jindagii rone or depression me bith jata.
Allah’s |God/Lord/ creator plans are never late, they are always perfectly timed. His plan for you is more beautiful than you can imagine.” Leave your worries to lord , for He is the best planner.” In every difficulty, there is a hidden blessing orchestrated by Allah/God/creator.
Meine bhi class 9 ke maths tuition me hi piyar me pari thi... one sided 💔😊... aour Aaj 7 sal ho gaya.. aour Aaj bhi usike liye pagal hu... use akbar dekhne ke liye taras ti hun 💘 😊
I'll be having so many heated and hated comments for this but here it goes. When she described the moments while she was young, she described herself as well in the process of the story, but when she got older, her lifestyle, no braces and all those things which changed her in those 10 years of experience. So, my thoughts are if she can change in 10 years why can't that boy change in the process. Can he be the same for 10 years. I mean to say he may not be the same in the beginning and changed in the ending. If one person is changing then the other is changing as well with his/her experience. The boy she fell in love with was a good guy (maybe) and the boy she hated was not the same guy anymore. It's not gender specific. I just wanted to clear that. And understand that love comes in different shapes and sizes, it doesn't look, it just happens. So, someone who is loving you doesn't mean that you have to like them back or like them because you love them.
Man man man, it was really something. I cant tell you how much i do connect to this tale of love. And the way you recited it was just awesome and breathtaking.
Really, it was different feeling to listen this story it was much relatable...I think i got my answers now...i am adding today date that so can it'll be like i got the reply and my heart will heal...(31/10/23) (01.20)P.M
In this case the guy was bad but it's not mandatory that each time the person who rejected you will be a bad person. Learn to understand that it's ok if they don't feel the same. Don't take it on your ego. I know many girls who are much more beautiful than my crush but would say no to them because love has no logic. It's there or it isn't
Ah.. I just remember my first one side love.. That heart beat, that time! Now he is happily married.. Affection gone but memory stays... Now i just love those memories ❤
i am really attracted to a boy in my area...i wanted him badly we change glances but the last time i don't know why he ignored me i was shattered but after listening to this i am free i know it was just an attraction not love and its my stupid lovey age 18 which made me feel as if i am in love MY EYES ARE OPEN NOW
My story ❤, last 12 years ,My heart carry a burden, my first love,,Though I am married for 6+ years,sometimes I really do miss him. I always ask God ,Why he didnt give me his love, and Im very disturbed from his thought ,Finally This video came suddenly, And once again Thank God 🙏 ,Guiding me on the right path 💕 Thank Bholenath, Thank you Krishna 💓🙏🙏🙏
But still, dill to pagal hota he na, kabhi kabhi you know its bad but dill! Wo nahi manta na😕 You said two line, “mann ka hoto accha, na hoto aur accha” And the second one is “jo accha lgta he, wo bas accha lgta he” Dono ko ek sath nahi follow kr sakte na leken 😞
Hi di!! I can feel you cuz my story is exactly ditto same.. But he is your friends brother and mine is my classmate from kindergarden to 10th!! I aslo confessed him but he taken me for granted!! Now im doing my graduation and i moved on obviously... Till last year i had feelings for like pehla pyaar... Like you i didn't love anyone else because of him.. But this year he messaged me and asked me the question as you... I felt just like you now like how can i love this person.. How can a cute kind person can ask me this question.. I don't know why im writing this but just i wanted to... Now i moved on but i can't able to love someone else... Now my kanha ji is smiling and saying see this is your answer!!And I know that kanha ji will find someone special for me...You make me remember all that sweet things i used to do in my school..lots of love di❤
main unmey se hun jo toot ke pyar karta hai hosh o hawaas me nahy rehte khudki fikr nahy krte iss maashrey ki ifikr nahy krte usko gaye kam waqt hua hai abhi ghav narm hai naye hai deewar e dil par boht neechay tak gye hai hazaar sapnay waada karke usne jaane me hazaar lamhe bhe nahy gawaye aur yoohi doori ka bahana bana ke door hogya 600 meel se aasmaa hogya meri pohoch ke bahar meri soch ke parey mere adhoori khwahish bankr tod gya ye video pehle recommendation me aya tha jise maine ignore kiya aj na jaane kyun bina soche samjhe yoonhi click kiya mujhay mere jawab mil gye meri rooh ko rihaayi mil gyi iss azeeyat se akhir me yhi kahoongi lakeeron me nahi likhay ho tum shayd firbhi magar mil hee jaoge ek din kisi sadak pe yakeen sa hai firbhi magar baat shayd na ho raaz e guftagoo me bayan na karungi firbhi magar sochungi tum mil gye kisi aur jahan me firbhi magar bohtt boht shukriya
So yeah, I joined office on 7 july 2023. and on my very first day he came to my bench to give me some work. after that we worked for like 7 months together , Living in my fantasy world i used to think it's two sided. now that when he is going abroad. I can wait for him till my last breath. I confessed my feelings and asked him please give me some clarity? he replied with kis type ki clarity. i confessed again & he said I am really sorry but it's No. I blocked him immediately. It's been less than 8 hours. These 213 days of life are going to cost me my whole life. I so badly wanna know why he said no. I hope someday I get answer. 😭😭💔💔💔💔💔💔
Damn wtf he was married n about to become a dad...that is so fucked up 💀 Anyways, thank you so much for this. Your storytelling is amazing, I really like it. I liked this guy crazily as well, moved on now but ur moral of the story aligns really well with reality.
Thanks Pooja for narrating this story.I can't even explain my feelings after hearing this but you have solved one of the biggest puzzle of my life. God bless you!
God is saving me from whom ? an innocent traumatized soul who never in her life got to know what is love ? I am not someone who believes in god..... but even if for an instance he's there then i don't think he is giving all his time to make my life better or he's keeping an eye only on me right ? that poor girl who have never experienced love must have also asked for love right ? what bout her ? gpd doesn't love her or what ? and what answer will he give me if i don't get the same love from the girl i loved ? " for your own good maine yeh kiya balak " if you were doing something for me then do what i want ,don't do what only YOU want ...... God if he's there then i will say that he only likes to play games and nothing else , and we are the elements he plays with in whatever way possible .
I really love someone rn but he doesn't. And same I always ask God why he doesn't love me back..But I think today he gave me my answers by your video.... Thank you❤
I am going through something similar , I cried for months but now I’m over him , I do feel sad at times but I don’t want him back in my life,I’ve healed.
I can Really relate your story with mine... But wo mera classmate tha and haa wo sari ladkiyon se baat krta lekin meri taraf dekhta bhi nhi tha...lekin fr bhi chori chhupe usse niharti aur khus ho jati
Watching this clip of 11 minutes just after 11 days helped me from preventing my brand new heart from breaking and getting a tag of "Broken-heart". Thanks a lot didi!
You presented your life story very well . From your voice and facial expression it seemed as if this incident was happening right now . A very good lesson learned from this poem.
