The #1 secret the narcissist DOESN’T want you to know 

Absolutely not. They have forgotten what gratitude means or it's not even in the dictionary

life teaches you the same lesson until you have learned

I was discarded. The moment she realized I didn't care and didn't want her back, all of a sudden she wanted to be best friends.

Man I hope you laugh in her face sorry I guess that sound cruel but it sound like “ you can still be my supply “

​@@mac8911They want you when your no longer interested in then, it becomes a challenge to them,🤔🚩🏃‍♀️

They always want to be friends afterwards.... yet if they wanted to be friends they should've been friends while you were in a relationship with them. That's the whole point of a relationship with a person. You'd be glad to be out of that crap. It's not worth the hassle. I was with a selfish boy for a decade that thinks money solves everything.

@@oneofthegoodonesok Just remember we all deserve better treatment than what they dish out, we deserve more ✨💜✨

Agree! And at work too.

The crazy part about this is there doing this too every one of there victims soon or later they will get hammered for there greed and gluttony

I believe in that karma too

@@robin2319 don’t know much about her now…she broke all contact and moved to another state, but the snippets of info say that karma has arrived big time…anyway they get their karma every single day because of what they are…the best thing for us is understanding and living a good life by making every day a great day…

Oh they always keep you on back burner if u allow

@@lovewhitey4462 I would never allow!

Don't beat yourself up too bad... When I first kicked her out , I came to realize my wife of ten years was a covert narcissist. I went to a world-renowned therapist. I had been to many in my life. I have CPTSD. The therapist was able to get me to quit focusing on my narcissist wife and discover just how profoundly narcissistic I am and always have been. CPTSD suffers often can be extremely narcissistic because we learned it from childhood. But the chances that you or I are an actual narcissist is highly unlikely. Because you wouldn't have posted about it, and I wouldn't be consoling you in this public forum while outting my ability to be extremely narcissistic. What your statement tells me is that you are an amazingly insightful person who has had some rough spots. Probably a lot of them. But, your stark discovery is enlightenment. It doesn't feel it at first, but it's a blessing in disguise. Now you can change and there's hope. Pure NPD disorders never will receive the gift you have received. Your realization has the ability to make you unstoppable in your now bright future... now you can do anything. Good luck, you just became a light bearer...

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because they are narcissists

My kid's father didn't like it when I asked him when he was going to see the kids....on fb.....in a public page.....also on his fb page. He blocked me after that. He has 2 older kids he did the same to. Some parents should be grateful that they have kids when many people find it hard to even conceive.

​@@oneofthegoodonesok It seems to be a common theme that they don't care about their kids.

He handles her not you. its a nightmare trust me my bff went down this horrible ride wasted years and yes was caught sleeping with her on so called drop off kids days. Get out while u can.

@@lovewhitey4462my ex had an ex-wife and grown up adult daughter. Used that as an excuse to be friends. She’d call & text. One night I found his car in her driveway at 2am. He had told me that he was going the 4hours away to visit adult daughter. Well, his car was in ex wife driveway at 2 am. Then when I finally was sick enough inside to bring it up, all the obnoxious lies. I want no part of that BS in my life. They can have at it and I hope it brings them joy.

Yeah, they swing back the most 💯

I know a few girls like that too 👎👎