The 5 Stages of Divorce 

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I'm sorry your going through this. My husband of 32 years walked out once I became disabled, and after I raised our 2 kids primarily alone, paid off all his debts, cared for him after heart surgery, and two knee replacements. Now he continues to verbally abuse me and has become violent due to stopping all his meds. I'm now having to block his calls and Facebook for my own sanity. I honestly think those of us with longer marriages suffer even more extensively.

Hello. I am reading this 5 years late but I hope you are doing okay. I hope you filled your life with new colors and you are glad everything turned out the way it did. Sending you hugs.

I know this is such an old comment, but I have never related more to a comment than this one.

Exactly what I’m experiencing

This is me! Same feelings.

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Oscar Mora I know exactly where you are coming from Oscar! I had dated a woman for 5 years before getting married last year. Fast forward a year later she began having an affair with another person. I had walked in and seen someone else in our bed, but it was what I needed to see for closure. It ultimately damages a person to the core. But time heals wounds! And like you said ultimately you must accept that this person no longer loves you, thus work on moving on to find happiness with someone else who will appreciate you.

Stop Saying Literally this is exactly what I am experiencing now. It’s a dark and hopeless feeling. How are you now, two months later?

Wow I can’t believe it’s been two months since I wrote that. I’m better, but I had to put in the work. Every day is a struggle to get in the right mindset and you have to look only forward and never back. It’s true what everyone tells you, take care of yourself, be nice to yourself, visit family and friends (I know that’s difficult during Covid virus) and focus on YOU. Believe better things are coming and in your head at least realize if he left you in this much pain then he doesn’t love or care about you. Your heart will probably still miss him for a long while but it does get a little easier each day.

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Amina I'm right there with you...

Amina me too..so much pain in the last few years...the last time I was really happy when I met my husband.

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You are in my prayers. Be stron

I'm sorry man, I was there and all it did was cost me more!

Honest Jaye oh man, I’m going through this as I watch this video. I never want to feel like this again

If I hear one more person say they grieved the loss of their marriage DURING their marriage I think I’ll scream! My soon to be ex-wife says that yet...after 21 YEARS of marriage, 21 years of me being there and being faithful, she just couldn’t be bothered with actually talking to ME about it...I was just supposed to KNOW we were in peril. She just LEFT. No trying, no discussion, NOTHING. What a QUITTER! Now...my two kids and I are left to make sense out of all this...women out there...suck it up please and try like HELL to SAVE your marriages! They’re not supposed to just be conveniently ditched when tough times hit...FIGHT for it!

I agree. But you know how some women are.

Tomulator dude!!! Exact same thing happened to me!!! Women want guys to be troopers for what? So they can be the ones that bounce? It’s really devastating. As soon as she gets a baby out of me she leaves. Go finds another guy and like you said without warning. The next woman I find...I’m gonna date her for 3yrs before I even get engaged to her. My brothers girlfriend is a trooper!! His baby moms did him the same way. His girlfriend he has now took care of him for a year because he had no job because of his baby moms. It’s like they could have left a long time ago before this shit. They leave when it’s Convenient for them. When it’s inconvenient for the guy. I feel like it was all played out honestly. Narcissistic behavior

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Afton Titus have you recovered. I’m struggling!!!

Hope you are going better now. I'm just now going through it

It's hard to be a single mom..

Awe I’m so sorry. How are you doing now?

Currently going through this with my toddler. I’m so heartbroken. I hope you’re doing better

Hope your ok Becky.... Its hard, but be strong, things will be alright.. good luck 🙏

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I’m so sorry. I know how consuming that can feel too. :(

No family No home No job Massive anxiety

I feel the same way, it's the beginning for me and I dont know how I can overcome and live with this.

Melissa Mercado same here...it’s so hard and scary 😞

Yes

Brother I’m right there with you. I made the mistake and I can’t imagine my life without my wife but she’s set in stone that she wants divorce. I don’t know how I’m going to get through this

Brother anything is possible. My prayers get answered. Pray to God seek forgiveness CRY in front of him. Ask him to send your wife somehow in your life without others intervention. And from youtube play in your home at am/ afternoon SURAH YASIN or SURAH REHMAAN. Please dont be put off, these are in arabic normally recited by a man. And can be loud and at least 8- 16 mins long. Peace from England UK.

@@miguelsoria2174 Brother my prayers get answered I believe in God, the most Merciful. Fear not for this too shall pass. Read my answer to the other brother. Peace from England UK

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Stop always asking God for help. That is the problem. You and she are the problem. You sort it out, not God.

Its been three years. Wondering how you feel now?

I understand you. I feel the same way about my ex-wife. I was so attached to her that I just don't feel like I can love another woman ever again

I’m going through this right now and I hurt so bad when night comes

Sorry to hear you're going through it and all of the rest of you that commented. Its not fun, its not glamorous, its hurtful, life altering, and impactful. I understand what you said.

This is the side of relationships you don't see often in Hollywood or media (traditional or social). Protip: if you ladies watch Real Housewives just Google how many of those couples got divorced! My soon to be ex wife binged watched that Bravo stuff and made me sit through it also. Focus on your HEALTH (physical, emotional and mental), your income and your kids. That's it, those 3. Life is short. Don't jump into relationships, usually they don't end well!

Hi how are you doing now? I would love to hear it as I'm just starting this process and my heart so bad the whole day :( x

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Same situation 🥺😭

@@yusraabdallah7870 😭 same....

This sounds like I'm the one who typed it....story of my life 😢😢😢

Sending you my love girl. I know it's rough.

Stay strong

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@@suchkojano1 ha, well we have sold our large family home we have all been living for ten years. Soon to be ex wife (married almost 20 years!) has her own place and I am getting my own.. 3 kids we will share. Entire life I have lived.with family, first day I will be alone in 43 years begins tomorrow. The relationship was not working. I will miss the kids. Trying to be brave. But I have good new job and I am focusing on my health. Ready for the future! CALM future in my control. ;)

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Shanoela Zace how are you doing now? I feel so hopeless

Shanoela Zace time is your best friend. Your bible, journaling, inspirational books... spend as much time crying when you can and then a lot of time outdoors or with your friends and family. :)

@@lavendascloset i really need this. I am going thru a difficult stage. I think it is somewhere between denial and anger. Can anyone link me up to a support group? I feel awful

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You will take it from me.

How are you? I feel so broken yet hopeful

Hope your in a better place and that your heart has been healing, Sis.

You will make it u are strong and God's got u.

Hiya i dont know anything about you but Sometimes the evil eye, another woman and black magic are behind many breakups, fights and divorces. Taz trust your instincts who you let around your children , niece's, and who you let in your life. Take extra care when going on holidays and who to trust around your children Peace from England UK

Hahahah HAHAHAHAHAHA You never "get over" certain grief. A person who was in a long term abusive relationship and went through divorce will never be the same. So if anyone feels that way, make sure you don't date anyone with "baggage" or trauma or mental health issues. Goodluck with that

That is even more foolish to start q relstionship in dating a married person. Why not do things differently

I hope this happens to my soon to be ex

Pat Gray time really helps, but yes. All relationships takes work. The best chance we have at staying in one is to work on ourselves and then expect to have a lot of grace and experience a lot of compromise. :)

Bye Bye Belly that’s definitely a whole other level of difficulty. Which I’ve experienced. :(

+Aldora Muses Thanks so much girl! Hope you have a great weekend.

how are you doing nowadays brother? I am a few months in and hoping for better days.

How are you feeling now? I am very close to file for divorce... but I am afraid of being alone. I also wonder what I am going to feel if I see him with someone else... although I know we just cannot stay together. He cheated on me and I don't want to stay with him because I can never trust him again. :(

Muriel Gonzalez men always seem to move on so fast

oh girls am going through divorce after living together for 2months and marriage for 2 years my hasband. leave me very badly the country i don't know and he said he didn't want the marriage

Muriel Gonzalez may god heal you and send you a loving partner to love you out of sadness, i truly am so hurt for you! Im going through separation so hard 😭

Oh I'm so sorry to hear that. My heart goes out to your whole little family. It's so painful, but you will get through it. Pain is a part of our lives and luckily, with mamas who love their kids, we tend to have this super-human resource that you'll tap into to make it work- one day at a time. How are things now? I know you wrote this 3 months ago....?

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Well done! You talked your Headless friend to come out of her 17yr old marriage. Because of high level of pollution their are higher number of people with cognitive problems, misinterpretation and misrepresentation takes turn but not always the case, out of 17yrs old marriage has underline greediness as a reason. I have upper hand when it comes to the children attention and ears, I may as well have them alone for myself now we are about to start seeing the benefits of having a child or children.

Definitely talk to them love. I know how overwhelming it feels, but I PROMISE it gets better. :)

It will be okay. My parents divorced today too... my mom said “Me and dad need to talk to you two at dinner” (me and my sister) and they told us they are getting divorced. I’m scared and sad

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It is a bit selfish of them.

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I gave away a vacation home in Tahoe without even her asking. That is guilt.

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Good job listing the things you won't have to deal with. More than a little lacking on the list of things you'll be missing out on...

I'm so glad to hear that. How are you doing now....? I didn't see this last month when you wrote.

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Wow that's horrible. Honestly my husband wouldnt get the privilege of another child if he did that. I'd probably take the abortion pill

Same here.. its easing up now 5 months in our seperation. But its still hard.

Im sorry life is so hard

28 isn't that young to get married... 28 is around the age the human brain is supposed to be fully developed.

How are your daughters doing now? I have gone through divorce myself and my mum comforted me very much during the process.

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It isn't just the woman that financially rapes you. The judges and lawyers rape you also as you have NO RIGHTS including NO Constitutional Rights in Family Court. Figure in reality that she gets 60% (inc support payments, etc), you get 20%, and the 'system' keeps the other 20%. The whole common saying that she 'gets half' isn't really accurate. Many men have been left with NOTHING.

I didn’t get married. But lived together for 12 years. And had 2 kids. I don’t think it’s fully about being married or not that’s its a scam. Yes it has its legal issues. But I think it’s more about loosing yourself in a relationship and forcing yourself to stay for which ever reasons that has its effects for splitting up. And choosing what is called love but actually not knowing what actual love is. Once the person becomes totally explored do you get bored and loose interest? Then if so what is love to you. Is the question. Must ask yourself to whom it may concern.

sla cker yes that is one way to live. But to truly understand and grasp the difficulties and the positives of having a long term partner and having kids with them. It kinda helps make sense to a you why the way of Family exists. To be in a group of 2 people with off spring that you guys created. And those off spring have elements of both adults. It brings this special love feeling and understanding that I never knew existed. You get to see the goods and bads in the way things are in your own personalities of you and your loved one in the children. It’s very weird when you see your child acting a certain way and the other spouse steps in and says a certain thing because they are aware of that way of acting, which was not biologically your way., Having kids really teaches a person lot more about themselves and their childhood. I think being a parent for some A person can dip in and out of scenarios that they would never experience otherwise. It’s always easy to care for other people‘s kids because they’re only around for a little bit. But when you have your kids that are around forever it takes a different approach and understanding. I’m still learning myself and maybe I’ll learn for the rest of my life but I feel like at some point it will all make sense. To live with no’s spouse or children possibly could be a great miss for some of that life has to offer. To be old and never participated in that part of life would seem kind of single oriented. Almost like a person never dared to take on life to its fullest they may have played it safe by only having to look after themselves which is not too hard to do. Hope all that makes sense.

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Jennifer Takesha where are you in the grieving process since this post?