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Thank you this was very enlighting im am 58 year old male my name is mark ive been sufforing for 30 years with a covert narcissist and currently am in divorce proceeding. We own a business for 23 years and I have never been paid I am literly stuck I am the sales and website guy have made a lot of money but haven't seen any. I am finding account I thought were closed the house that we built was foreclosed on and her father purchased it he now lives with us and has dementia her son is co signer so the house was literly taken from me the business is a sole proprietor her. So bottom line no house no job no money no history of working. No history of paying bills. This is really tough I have to stay here at the house got no place to go super depressed I actually spend majority of my time in the garage bathroom 5X7 I feel like I'm doing time. The lieing stealing cheating has left completely deflated. I was trying to figure out out to fill put paper work to submit for a divorce when I came across another video ding ding door bell went off my wife is a covert narcissist to a tee I have learned a lot I no long sit in bathroom a cry for hours at a time. So now how do I go about getting 23 years of back pay half the house my name I don't exist. On anything. California is a no fault state thank God but still I am the instructor sales inside and out shipping janitor I have put my heart and soul in this relasonship and business and now nothing I fear she will kick my ass out I am already having an affair doing drugs nice thing for a instructor she is and has destroyed me. Any help is most appreciated referrals HELP. BEWARE FOLKS ITS REAL 30 YEARS.

Christopher Lucas so true!! You wish you knew while it was happening.........

My God yes!

Absolutely true

😒👍 Agree 100%

Amen...100 you divorce Lucifer and feel nothing for an abuser

Exactly...100 14 months no contact...3 months divorced....yayyy GOD is with me did it all by myself

@@Dtella55 I'm married to a narcissist for 25years..it has been a nightmare!!!.. I'm divorcing him this year...I really need emotional support. These people are monsters!... I will not date for a while...I'm trying so hard to keep my sanity. Who knew these types of personalities really existed.

Love this video! I am currently going through a divorce from a 32-year marriage to a narcissist. Your video pinpoints what I have been going through and gives me a general idea of what to expect, my soon-to-be ex would love to have me be fearful of him, he is full of pride and is on an ego trip boosted by his married girlfriend and mother which all show narcissist behavior.

Be G ditto.

Colleen Crystal ..OMG you’ve said everything I have on my mind...I just now am able to put a label on the patterns of abuse...This pattern will go on if I stay...I’m losing myself more and more as the years go by...I’m feeling the effects of the stress and need out ASAP...Thank you for the validation of knowing I’m not alone...

@Colleen Crystal you just spoke my life... my family cannot understand what happened to me. Thank God he discarded me and now I'm filing for the divorce and this information is spot on and timely.....

Hi Colleen. This sounds almost exactly like my situation, though unfortunately I fell into a very severe depression that lasted several years because I didn't realize that I was married to an emotionally/verbally abusive narcissist. I thought I was strong, but just too "sensitive" about his "jokingly," very hurtful comments and behaviors toward me (of course there were also lavish gifts and vacations at various times, but most importantly, the ability to be a stay at home mom to 4 kids- which vastly contributed to my tolerance of his manipulative/abusive ways for so many years). Through this journey though, I've also recently discovered that I've had (life long- as is typical) ADD, which I now realize is why I took his horrible words (stupid, lazy, crazy, dumb and much worse- which can't be mentioned here) so personally- I had experienced feeling these things my whole childhood (NOT by my family luckily!) because I didn't ever know that my brain worked very differently than most other people's brains! I didn't understand why everything in life was SO MUCH MORE DIFFICULT for me (I thought I WAS stupid etc.), which I (now) know also contributed to lower self esteem and self worth (AND... I'm an "introverted" Empath!!), which is probably why during college, I fell for his love bombing, hoovering, severe isolation tactics etc. etc. without even realizing it was ALL manipulation- not love. Anyway, sorry for the "novel," but I was just so compelled to respond, considering that like me, you said you are just learning about all of this after 20 years of marriage!! I've now found an on-line "ADD Tribe," and I'm hoping to find a "surviving through divorce (with kids!) of a narcissist" tribe too!! Maybe?!!

Y'all are going to get through this. In no time you will find your old self and quickly surpass that person as you continue to get better. You'll be forced to accept how awesome you are because it's so clear when you aren't in a fog of emotional abuse every day. Your confidence will continue to grow. Great things are coming. Trust me.

Girl SAME!!! my husband is a narcissist and I've never been treated so bad in my entire life.

Yay!!! You should be so proud of yourself!!

Life with Axe wow your amazing !!

I know exactly how you feel I lost it all

Dear Lord, please bless Katie and her son!! Please comfort them and bless them with any needs they may need. In your name I pray- Amen

Hope you're doing well!

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@@eadad4371 look her up on the internet and leave her a message she's quite popular for her services as she was recently featured on cnn. She can work with anyone irrespective of where their located

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Jenn W hey cowgirl

You are correct!

This video is ALL about feelings and emotions..it's almost funny to observe it. It's amazing how women always focus their minds and take action based on feelings and impulse, ignoring any attempts on being rational, or even realistic about a difficult situation in their lives.

Agreed. They love to engage in circular conversations with no intention of resolving solving any issue. It's just another way to keep u tied up with them

Mediation is definitely a waste but when the judge does a court order for it. You can't get around it!

You got this Adam!

I am going through this now. I hope I am able to overcome this.

Sindy Herrera I was with one for 23 years and only found out he was a covert narc about 15 years after he died! Maybe in the past not much was known also things were so different when I got married in the 1970s. It was still a man's world despite the emergence of the new 'women's lib' and nowhere for abused wives etc. Also he was 14yrs older than I and my mother, also a narc, was infatuated with him. It was a horrible life. I haven't properly recovered because bits of the past echo back through my (adult) children of the marriage who didn't know how cruel he was and sometimes are very cruel too.

I am 28 y and the last two years I’ve learned about

Same...I can do relate! It’s insane!

AMAzing video!!! I was married to a covert narcissist for 23 years and filed for divorce it will be a long process but so worth it!! Thank you for the great advice excellent video!! 💗

Tell me about it...it is so scary!!

Great for you wish I did some research would have saved myself abuse in every form/financial loss

He broke off the engagement bc of a talk I had with his parents which made me realize how shitty of a person he was, that gave me the courage to confront him on how he was treating me. It still took me 3 months after the breakup for me to finally be done with him, but I thank God he left me before we got married.

I wish I saw these videos. Unfortunately I got married and have wasted 7 years of my life.

You are truly BLESSED!👍🏾

I got very lucky too. Unfortunately we married in court, but thank God not in church. At the end, she really was pushing for a child & house to buy, OUT OF NOWHERE. Discovered she couldnt have kids, & settled on divorcing me immediately! In divorce, she didn't take alimony from me. I only walked away with a battered bruised heart. I'm in repair. Lost 10 years of the best years of my life, yet, YOU CANT BREAK ME NARCISSISTIC BITCH!

Me too it was a real eye opener. Been angry tho that I allowed myself to be so hurt & betrayed and I justified it as TRUE LOVE. I just want to move forward & identify what love really is and that I deserve it.

Maria Arquello,So sad to hear your story 😭,you deserve better

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@@carmensandiego9843 yeah

@@carmensandiego9843 how are you doing

Wow. This is my story to a T

😭

Wow very similar to my situation

Get a good attorney

oh hon! you're not alone!

“They want to hurt you they want to make you suffer because they’re suffering so much inside”

I've been planning this divorce for a year, we've been married 39 years so I thought I'll just change how I respond. That was 4 years ago and I don't want to spend the rest of my life like this. My 2 daughters are his empaths, I have no support system so other than some part time work I sleep 12 or more hours a day. He's feeding off that?? Thanks for sharing that. Thinking what I'm in for at my age scares the h---l out of me

Cindy Hoelting It's extremely difficult and terrifying. I left my ex last spring after 13 years together and a 9 year old child together. I've spent thousands in lawyer fees. The absolute best advice I can give you is to plan this out well and carefully. I unfortunately had to leave quickly, and had no choice, but if I'd been able to plan it out better, I would have. Document everything you can. Record things, write things down. Save emails and texts, etc. I was isolated from everyone. He had my family convinced it was all me. My daughter is still so manipulated by him. I had no support. If your city or town has a domestic violence shelter, you can go there and talk to an advocate for free. You don't have to stay there, they will help you and become a support system for you. It doesn't have to be physical violence for them to help you. Make sure you find an attorney who is very familiar with these types. He will probably use the sleeping against you. Seek out a therapist who will back you up waaaaaayyy before you make the move. I'm still scared and hurting, but it was essential I leave. This is a good video. She's absolutely right. He will use anything and everything against you. You have to prepare yourself like you're going into battle. It's unreal.

@@carrie2518 This all sounds so terrible- you are amazing. A true survivor. Thank You for the added information, and especially the inspiration....

Oh yes, that's so right!!!

How are you doing, please can will talk in private

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Amazing. I just stumbled across this as well and going through this process after bring married 21 years and it is so accurate. I agree with what you just said.

I'm going through this right now trying to get a divorce from him is like going through hell all over again he told me that I have to drag his memory the rest of my life well should I say he said my short life I don't know what to do and yes it's very draining I just want a divorce that's all it also makes me feel like I have been raped in a sense if you can understand that I feel like I want to rip my skin off I am so trying to get this divorce and I don't know what else to do I really hate this I really need help and I don't know who to turn to

michele parker - Stay strong 💪 you’re better off alone, then you’ll have freedom and can start you’re new and better life!

@@micheleparker2761 Not to be presumptuous, but please look into finding a therapist (or mental health care provider). I know from experience with severe anxiety and depression that this type of abuse can also cause the symptoms (and brain damage seen) of PTSD, and needs to be addressed IMMEDIATELY!!

Kelz Larca good luck my friend just remember you are not along! 👍

Same 😩

Totally right, I am getting divorce with my wife, even though she accepted the things she done wrong she would deny all of them 5 minutes later and try to point fingers at me and play the victim role, no one is perfect we all make mistakes and without accepting them we just can't work on them.

Same here. Am seeing a side I initially didn't see, later didn't want to see. Like most of us.

These people are robots. They’re all the same, behave the same way. Operate as clones.

Thats the sad part if you have kids with one the old emotions of them shell you once thought was just confused but strategically sabatoged, hated you, hurt you, stabbed you in the back every time you tryed to believe in the piece of shit, tryed to destroy me, ignore them, be stoic, & little to no time being around them, their pathetic

I got devorced a month ago. I have child and i don't work yet... i am going through a undetermined path but i know that this is the best way... i blame myself why i even chose him... but thank my parents and everyone who suppors me to deal with that awful narcissist...

Don’t fall got it. Please

With a narc, don’t let him know you’re leaving until after you’ve left.

Oh my god, exactly. They literally say it in one breath. How are these narcissist so dailed in to exactly a type of person? Doing precisely exactly the same thing like they learned it in a book?????!!!!!

My advice and I hope you follow it. Don’t try to have a meeting with him avoid to all causes. Never ever , the last meeting where he just wanted to be friends with you it’s actually the last meeting! Get an attorney and let the attorney communicate with his attorney. Don’t even take calls or messages. Your life depends on it. Stay safe !!!

Tina Messec,You are absolutely gorgeous 🌹🌷,You don’t need a narcissist in your life!

You too? Awesome

@@Amartin1736 oh absolutely. It's like the last 6 years make complete and total sense now. Her other videos about what narcissists do after are accurate as well. And the method of cutting them out is correct as well. Its nuts

I'm in the same boat. I'm struggling with all this. She makes it seem like I'm the crazy one. I feel bad for our kids tho. I know that if I don't end it, I'll become I'll from the stress and anxiety. Oh, and recently found out she was unfaithful.

@@roryrichards9340 Man. I am in the same boat too. She had atleast 1 affair that I know of and as I go through the divorce, she is out for blood. I wanted to do a dissolution just to get it over with and I was willing to work with her on everything but, she refuses!

@@christopherdeason5933 It's not easy. I realize that this person isn't my friend and I don't know her anymore. I hoping this all gets worked out quickly. It's difficult being in the same house knowing that she's still seeing people. It's not that I'm not able to, it's just not where my head is right now. All I can think about house the family will be broken and it kills me. I also know that I will become a better person in the long run. The stress is weighing on my health.

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Hope you made it home safe & didn’t drive into a ditch 🙂 but in all seriousness I’m glad you got away from your narcissistic ex!

How are you doing a year lately? Hopefully you made it home safely😊

💖💖💖

In the same boat. I moved everything into my son's old room and changed out the door knobs for 1 that had a lock and needs a key, so when I'm either in my room and don't want him just barging in or at work I can lock it. Now my husband is extremely tech savvy and super paranoid, so I had to get creative with all new accounts, locked down my phone tight, got my own banking account so he can't access my money, he has had his own for a while and we have a joint, but just now was able to get my own. I had to tell him I had an appt I had to get to and went to the bank. Also bought some small cheap security camera so I can put in my room to make sure he isn't going through and taking my stuff, because I know if he wants to get in my room bad enough he will. He would just go get a key made or something. Mine has so much stuff he has hid from or locked up so I can't have easy access and have to ask permission in order to use whatever. He hid a video camera in our bedroom a while back thinking he would catch me having an affair or something, idk and of course he never did, but since then I have to make sure I go through everything and check for mics and cameras. Also had to get pretty creative hiding stuff that I didn't want him to access to or know about. Safety deposit box would be good idea or storage unit, but some stuff I may need access to immediately. It's hard to keep them out of your head and heart by seeing them everyday. I think it's harder on us emotionally to have to live this way instead of just being able to leave. But I completely understand. Just remember the bad times when he starts being nice and trying to get things back to the way they used to be. You are strong. You can do this. Stand your ground. You deserve happiness, love, and peace.

Oh lord, I feel for you. Tried to let my husband stay here because he had no where to go. Continued to get worse until I needed a restraining order. He's out of the house now and I'm healing. They have no boundaries, respect for us, and only know pain and hate. It's insanity. Try to get out somehow... God bless you on your journey. D

Sounds like a few of us are in the same boat! Moved into our Master Bedroom. We live in a 4 bedroom house. My friends laugh when I call it my “2bedroom/1ba house. Purging and packing while waiting for God to deliver me from the 23year jail sentence! 🤦🏿‍♀️ He thinks I’m organizing for the new year! My finances are all screwed up because of his choices, but you can best believe I’m getting 1/2 of his freakin retirement for all this Financial & Emotional Hell!! #KeepStrivingAndPraying #YourBreakthroughisComing

@Vivienne Cooper that is my present situation...God is fair, He will ensure you get what is due to you... pray, pray, pray

Michelle Witter thank you! On my knees daily!

Same!!!! 15 years married and he was so good that i believed i was the problem too. My eyes are open now. Its been exactly a week since me and my children moved out. Good luck to you.

Same here

Same! 10 years of my life and I didn’t realize it. Never knew the thorough definition of narcissism. He asked me if I thought he was one after telling me he doesn’t want to be married anymore. This sucks but I will get through this.

She always made it my fault to the point where I wondered

I'm about to go thru it. I didn't know this condition was so common. I'm so messed up right now. Mixed emotions, turning stomach, but feelings, anger, etc. I wish I could stay for the sake of the kids but if I don't end this, I'll become sick from the stress. I can see now that she will NEVER changed. I can't wait til this pain is over.

Do not let the love of your life go away and sleep next to somebody else. You can win back their love and make it too deep that the oceans are jealous. Do not let anyone get between you and your relationship goals, cast a real love spell on your partner and protect them from getting attracted to anyone else who is not you.

Rory Richards I’m in the same spot. Planning my exit now.

@Special Made You seem to be rather unwell

@SpecialMade, why would you want to make a special effort to feed the " monster" who has already fed you with so much" unwanted, pain ,trauma n heartache" ?You need healing😢😢😢 n therapy 🔥🔥🔥

I ended up marriying a narcissist that came from the identical and i mean identical situation you described. They were married 25 years. Our marriage lasted 4 years. Still married but in process of dissolution . I don't know if he left for someone else. I have never stopped beating myself up for believing his lies. I know i hurt this woman. I wanted to contact her many times but i didn't want him to find out. The consequences if that would have been my worst nightmare. As if what I'm going through now is not its version of hell. Suffice it to say i think ive coone along way in paying my dues for hurting this woman. I will always carry the guilt and shame of hurting this woman. Im bankrupt, isolated, everyone believes him. I feel i deserve that for what i did to Patty. I just wanted to take the opportunity to share this for all the people who were dumped by their narcissists. Maybe for some closure. Satisfaction. You deserve it. Don't forget they recycle!! My soon to be ex is now living with his exwifes son. His ex stepson. Im terrified for them. I had access to his google account for a while. I saw every conversation, every search, his location. Who he was with. My former friend is his hew supply. His former wife and family have allowed him back into their lives. They believe him. I have proof of all his lies. About everything!! Including pages and pages of grahic videos he watched of torturing women.. prostitutes. Drugs.,bank accounts. I hope that they can see the truth and aren't further victimized. My friend (haha). I'm sure next time I see her she will have aged 20 years. She knew about him. I just let that one go. Anyway I just want to be able to help someone who may be going through this situation. The Other Woman does not win. The one he left does. There's no soul in these things. They are not people. I have seen what's behind the mask. Terrified is not a strong enough word. It will haunt me for the rest of my days. Evil incarnate. I wish peace and prosperity to all who are dealing with this. nightmare. Thanks for the oppurtunity to share. It was a way of healing and moving on for me. ✌

Great advice for long termers

Candy Barrows, you deserve a better man not a narc 🙄!

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how's everything now?

@Chinedu Bethrand Okafor fill me in

Yes. Prepare because like it or not they are your mortal enemy.

@@elliemathews6884 how can someone you love so much be so destructive to you. It makes my heart drop. I have so much love for my husband yet he treats me like I do not even deserve an adult conversation its only on his terms and when he wants to speak

Eclectic Alu 6

mosparr just made a video titled this exactly!

Going through the same thing myself. He won't leave my house (tenancy agreement in my name). Not sure if I should give up my home for this person to live comfortably.

Your attorney won't take the job if you don't allow them clean the mans clock.

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I saw that train coming at me too. Didn't make things any better when it happened unfortunately(I hope that is not the case for you and your prep helps soften the blows). I advise you get your hands on as much documentation(bank statements, life insurance policies, etc.) as you can before you get locked out of accounts and what have you. They will lie and proof refuting their lies is very powerful. I'm probably not even halfway through. The saga started with her evading the service processor for 3 weeks at the beginning of the summer. Every mediation or pre-trial court appearance is a non-stop festival of subtle(occasionally its overt, but she is very conscious of the facade) jabs at my tender areas in her efforts to draw supply and get me to react in front of others. I did a good job last time and managed to ignore every single attempt. On the way out she tried to corner me in the courtroom foyer and I side stepped her like she was an inanimate object. She finally started to boil over and her attorney had to physically drag her away. Not giving the N the fuel they feel so entitled to is a great strategy by the way. This was the first time I managed to do this successfully and I can see the power in it. I hope I can stay motivated to keep it up. Hopefully you do better than me and get it right from the beginning :). Good luck!

interview your Lawyer and ask them if they're educated about the pathological lying narcisist. it'll save you because he will make you out to be the monster

Doreen Davenport,you are too precious 🌹🌹🌷 to be with a narc 🙄!

@@oscarwilliamson1264 awhhh...ty 😊

@@trustinme123 you are welcome my dearest 🌹🌹🌺🌺🌹🌹.I'm Oscar Williamson from the States ❤️.You?

You've summed up my life right there

Wow. 😟

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Hii baby hw r u, I'm single and you

Evelyn Wilson,hope you are not with a narc 🙄 cause you are too precious 🌹🌹🌺!

I can't believe you had no feedback so far. I hope you are OK now, and I must say your baby is so sweet. God bless you

Please seek help. Call a local domestic abuse shelter. Ask in the library at your local court house librarian. Document everything. In court you have to show evidence that you are primary caregiver and he is an unstable person/parent.

I'm hoping you got away already, but if you haven't... Apply for public assistance for your meds. Then run to a shelter. In my experience, when you resist or stand up for yourself, they become more aggressive and/or begin setting up your discard. The discard will be done in the most cruel & vindictive way possible. It could even get physical. It's better to just flee to avoid experiencing that process all together.

@Be Ye HOLY as a believer myself, I agree with the Scriptures and ALSO believe what it says about the woman being fragile and that when a man doesn’t treat his wife right, his prayers are hindered. God by no means calls for women to stay subjected to someone who doesn’t exemplify the love Christ had for the Church. Abuse is NEVER okay! Period! I’ve been to married to my husband for 16 years and have endured lots of verbal and emotional abuse, and neglect unnecessarily because I was told by leaders at church to “get it right with him, fix it and keep praying for him”. Truth is, a narcissist is incapable of seeing his/her need for God or to change. Using Scripture to bombard people with staying in unhealthy, ungodly, EVIL, toxic marriages is NOT God’s desire nor His design for what family is supposed to look like. He desires to see emotionally and spiritually healthy individuals, families that are whole and can impact this world with good example, and that’s impossible when living with a narcissist. Narcissistic abuse is shameful, and usually makes the victim live a life of pretending to the world to be okay. Narcs isolate their victims so they can drain the life out of you one offense at a time. I’ve been there and it’s a dark, low place to be in. Had it not been for God’s Grace reaching for me, I don’t know where I’d be now. Instead of bombarding people, please pray. Blessings!

Susan Collison,hope you are not with a narc 🙄 cause you are too precious 🌹🌹🥀!

Susan Collision, you deserve better

God put us here on earth,To love, to live, and to learn,To obey His Golden Rules And for Him we should be firm. He wants us to be an example Of all that He stands for, To love everyone on Earth And to have Faith and Trust and more. We are in a way His disciples For the years we live on earth, He wants us to spread His word With compassion and much might.how are you doing,please can will talk in private

Audrey Puente,your pretty smile ☺️ can make the news

I went thru mediation also and she had a proposal that I went thru and took a red pen and lined out everything she wanted. Mediator took it to her and I heard her screaming from across the hall. Mediator came back and said she won’t accept and I packed up to leave and told mediator that I will see her and supply in court. I said remind her that she is an openly admitted adulterer, abandoned her kids, refused custody, AND I have copies of text messages supply sent to my ( at the time 13 yr old daughter) from her mothers phone harassing her. When I told wife that he should knock that shit off she laughed!!! That’s where the moral clause came from I mentioned previously as my attorney had my daughter file an affidavit with the court describing what happened, how her mother refused to stop it, and daughter felt supply was a pedafile. When u deal with these people u do all u can to protect ur self and children!

I have mediation in April, it will be one yr to the day that papers were filed. He does not have a lawyer now, they dropped him because he lied and defied court order. I have every imaginable doc, pic, everything I think he will try to lie about and even his exs documents in case he tries to recycle the lies! I've only spoken with him once in 9 months. Oh and my lawyer, she just divorced a N herself, so she is aware of all the games! Any other advice for mediation!?

Yes, very dangerous indeed finally got my divorce almost 3 months GOD is good!

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