Hi Stephen my name is Robert I subscribe to your channel while ago but I haven't been watching your videos as much and I seen you had a text community so I wanted to sign up for it I am 35 single and really trying to find a wife to marry or even a girl just to date I haven't been out there in a long time have no kids just you know was busy getting off my drug addiction I've been cleaned for 6 years now and now I'm at a job or I could really grow with this job and you know buy a house in a couple years and I really you know I'm getting my feet where we're starting to get the ball rolling so anything that can you can help me any tips about finding that woman for me about me finding that woman I would really appreciate it brother God bless you and I will continue to watch your videos!
Heheheh Stephan is God’s gift to women! Lord only knows that it takes an army and set of skills to deal with men nowadays. I get it though we are living in a broken culture/ society where we both men/women need sound advice
@@jennfolmer7011 darling this is a man of God waiting for the Goddess God had for him or he’s probably already met her lol I’m not sure but nonetheless is none of my business
My dad always taught me, love is not a game because a game means someone is always winning and someone is losing, love is more like a dance, because both people know their steps and move in rhythm together! ❤️
@@MeetStephanSpeaks I totally agree. God forced me to focus on him and nothing else in this moment. He’s doing some things in my life that I don’t understand but I have fully surrendered myself. My oldest daughter dad died last week, and my boyfriend of 14 years left us the day after. I can’t do anything but focus on him. I hold myself accountable for the things I allowed and let go of what I can’t control. I realized I didn’t ask for his advice in the beginning. But that will never happen again. I am waiting on God. By the way, can you do your take and opinion on narcissism? Or dating a narcissist.
Being an only girl with three brothers, I got to see how they spoke about women (with their friends), and their interactions with them. It was terrifying, and these tests do happen, and they will talk about you later. I was thankful for the early education. I do believe everyone deserves a clean slate until they prove otherwise. Being authentic is always the best way of showing up. Great video! ❣
That first test is kinda true and I think it is ridiculous. Imagine a woman got on a date at a nice restaurant with no makeup on, her hair not done, sweat pants and crocs on, and said "I want to see if he will like me for me and not my looks." Women aren't doing that. And women have the right to factor in financial stability when it comes to the men we date. I'm glad you touched on this. Thanks for this video Stephan 💕
But driving an older car is a sign of great financial stability in many cases! The way to save up riches is by living a thrifty lifestyle. I mostly deal with millionaires & multiionaires- close friends & family. Very few of them drive nice, newer expensive cars. Some of them don't even own a cell phone, including my wealthiest friend. I have known him since I was 1 year old.
I've experienced some of these tests .....but when you're being who you are....your authentic self...... the tests will not bother you too much.....you will always be tested in LIFE ! 👍
First off let me say that I will never judge someone based on what he drives, or how he’s dressed. I was raised to always observe the character of that person. If I feel that you are a good person, and I’m getting good vibes, then I’ll see where it goes. I agree that it is best too not counteract any tests or games that some men play. Stay true yourself always. Thanks for the tips, I’ll definitely keep them in mind!
I hear ya - Renee! I agree with Stephan. Just like some women like to test men to see if they’re congruent to who they are - there are guys who will try to do the same thing. But that story about the guy with a beat-up car, is ridiculous - especially when he has a good car that he could’ve used to take her out in. It sounds like the Gold Digger video, I see on RU-vid sometimes! I always feel bad for the woman when the guy hands her the golden shovel at the end, it’s just not right! Lol Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
@@carlosverde-datingtips7001 I agree that was a little too extreme but I guess he wanted to be sure she was really down for him and not what he had to offer!
This honestly needs to be a high school course!!! (Health/Life/Love/Relationship 2023.01)📚This is great knowledge that I acquired through discernment, some through trials, and some through my father. I honestly acquired it way too late though. We need this Especially for girls who don’t have their fathers, brothers, or uncles active in their lives! When you say some of these points to your homegirl as “friends” from the outside looking in… or when your discernment is keen… homegirls tend to get defensive or think that you are jealous. Nah Boo! 💕You are worth so much more than paying a man to be with you but do you Boo! Ima shut up now! 😶 🥰💕
Yes! You are so right! I've had girlfriends mad because I tried to warn them about guys they were dating smh. It was very hurtful, but I guess they had to learn the hard way. I'm still glad I spoke up though.
Yes, I agree 💯 We know that family should be the FOUNDATION for Life, yet there is nothing in the education system that teaches the fundamentals of LOVE which creates stability, harmony, nurturing, and unity in all things. Love begins with self-love, self-worth and self-respect. Without that, you cannot build a strong partnership and then later a strong family and thus a strong foundation for yourself, the next generations and society. My personal belief is that until we each learn self-love, our relationships and every area of our life will suffer. I think we all can see that we are an extremely dysfunctional and deeply troubled society 😥 May God help us 🙏🤍🕊
@@kevabela6307 This is part of an entire K12 curriculum of courses... called "Family and Consumer Sciences"/ "Home Economics". AKA the courses that no one (students... even parents) takes seriously, unfortunately.
Sometimes what we think they’re going to judge us on or hold against us are the very things they are attracted to, ‘wild’/‘conservative’ whatever it is. In my opinion when someone is in to you, they will embrace all of who you are ❤️
I’m not the type of person to really test a man but I do observe them. And a key indicator of a mans character to me is how he treats his friends, animals or innocent things, and the company he keeps or the lack there of. You can learn a lot by just listening and watching. God gave us 2 ears & eyes so testing a person can backfire so it’s no judgment for those that do but it can definitely be a slippery slope.
I appreciate that you have non-biased/judgmental perspective and advice. I can tell that you genuinely care about people having healthy relationship and I think that's very important and helpful...especially nowadays.
Please do a video on attachment styles! It would really help a lot of people understand each other and themselves. Once I found out about the four attachment styles, it clicked!
I agree with you but let me make sure that I'm agreeing with the right thing that you're making you found out about the four attachment styles give me your point of view on on those styles?
My ex did it alot and I passed every one he tried to throw at me but at the end he lost a good woman trying to test me. And he ain't been in a better situation since.
@@Cryboutet Like I said, who said she wasn’t already healed at the time of her writing the comment ….you don’t know her personally so don’t assume she isn’t healed…. And THAT’S NOT ROCKET SCIENCE! 🙄
Oh, thank God, I do not do social media beyond my comments here...it's time consuming and pointless for the most part. I also don't hang out with or click up with others, I enjoy my privacy and peace ☺️ Thanks again, Stephan!
I wish I had seen this year ago. You were spot on explaining how men figure if they can use you for money. It happened to me with constant promises of repayment and intermittent gifts. When I finally got tired of it, I was told I was "crazy." What a mess!
He just got home. Walked in the door and gave me the biggest hug and asked how I was doing. He brushed my hair aside and kissed me, and said he loved me. Sorry to have waisted your time. I guess I’m just preparing for the worst and the best things just keep walking in my path. Thank God! He really does work miracles!
Men do test woman. Ive been through it and learned when to walk away. When a guy asks for your past, im like we all have a past just be happy thats where I left it. Ive been in the situation where the friend hits on me and I cut that off quick! After a while guys need to learn testing gets annoying and thats why some woman chooses to be alone. Ppl are tired of games!
The best test a man should learn is how to determine the genuineness of a woman. If a woman is genuine in her feelings for the man, she will be loyal, faithful, and love him for the person he presents. That would eliminate a lot of other test men put women through. The next test, is to determine her true character, as that also speaks volume about everything. Lastly, check to see if her words & actions align, if she has one image in person and projects a different image online, that is a contradiction. Yes, your online image does matter, as it can attract the wrong type of people who may not have the same mindset as you. The best advice you did give which was just be yourself, be authentic. After all, the mask will come off at some point, so just walk confidently in who you are. Instead of test men may want to explore having more deep intimate conversations, as eventually you discover the true nature of the woman, and can easily determine if her standards & values will align with your life. Excellent video as always. Blessings & abundance to you. "When you walk in your purpose, you walk in your power".
This is 2022! Women all over til tok social media with their bodies on show, showing men that they will literally get naked for money on RU-vid... No man will trust women these day 😂 and same for men you see them all over social media acting like the prize meanwhile they look stupid so women should also have their own secret tests too. Meanwhile both should have genuine intentions behind the tests
I think the main problem with this is like he said at 8:30 a person would have to put out effort to see if your efforts are genuine which may take a lot of effort on my end
Stephen I just want to genuinely Thankyou for sharing your gift of wisdom with us. I had been in a relationship with a narcissist about 3 yrs ago. It left me extremely wounded and feeling worthless. I spent 1 yr and a half healing and getting closer to God. I mean I did the work! Thought out the healing process I watched your videos and applied your knowledge to my life. Well, I am newly engaged to a truly awesome man who loves me dearly. How I know is because he shows me. He wants the best for me and wants to see me Win! It took a while for him to win me over. I wasn't looking for a Relationship with anyone when we got together. I was taking good care of myself and trusting God COMPLETELY. I just want to say THANKYOU for your guidance throughout my healing process because everything you have been saying is True true true. There is no secret formula for attracting the perfect mate I don't think but I do know that God will provide our every desire if we just TRUST HIM. Trust in God's timing and don't try to understand His timing just know that it is perfect and always on time. May God continue to use you and grant you favor in your personal endeavors as well as everyone in the comments. Bless you bro❤️💕❤️🙏
Your advice is such a major blessing to me. Stephan, I really thank God for blessings you to share such vital information with us. At almost 50 years old, your information is helping to guide me down a liberated path. I have severed my previous situationship and am now focusing on my healing. I will take all the time needed to heal, and for the first time in my life, I'm putting me first - after God, and am seeking Him FIRST on all things going forward. Thank you for being amazing, Man of God 🙌🏾🙌🏾
He tested me since day 1… on the first date he took me to his place and pushed for sex…!!! I was dumb enough to give him what he wanted! Since that day, he figured that’s all I wanted since I never asked him what he wanted from me!
@@natange4252 All that matters at this point is your eyes are wide open now and you are learning new information for the way forward. If he pushed his way in, push him back out and go forward with your head high, careful not to repeat it with the next one. You're not alone friend, hang in there!
Pouring into eachother is an essential part of a relationship (when you're in a relationship) if we're not exclusive or in a relationship don't be expecting me to do that kinda stuff... if you wanna pick somebody else that's fine go pick someone else. But I know what I have to offer in a relationship and I will happily wait to meet someone who deserves what I have to give and he's equally as giving as I am.
There was a time i had a huge uni debt that I was concentrating on paying off so that meant no spending on nobody else period. I was single while in uni and aced my degree so when I finished I hot back into dating but would tell any interested guy that hey ... don't expect me to b spending on you at all or much for the next year or so coz of this and that. I was honest and most had no problem. They spoilt me regardless. The ones with the problem were the ones who called themselves nice guys 😒🤣🤣🤣 crying about oh you never buy me anything lol yet I've bought you 2 bottles of wine... and am thinking why don't you help with the debt instead of buying me things I don't need...plus I can buy him 20 bottles 😒🤣 I think my point was pour into eachother as the situation arises in different ways for sure.
Why would I even think of dressing in a provocative way, ( if I have a man) his friends comes over to visit. Me dressing respectfully when friends are visiting, should come naturally to me. There is a time for everything.
Many of us are too independent even competing with their men. I have seen young women grab that case of water, while their man was reaching for it. He is watching her shaking his head in disappointment. I told her put that water down and let him help you. So many want to be in relationships but don’t know how or maybe not willing to let go of old behaviors. I am listening and learning although some things come naturally for me. I believe in being a lady and feminine energy. I like being a woman.☀️
Needs a balance of both feminine and masculine. I know men have a hero complex but I don’t need a saviour. I need a companion, ally, someone I can lean on and hold my hand as we walk life together. Not someone who’s going to “test” me, if we vibe and hold the same values then we do. The men in this generation are too dumb to test women.. :)
@@charlotte-leannegiles5356 the men of this generation are confused and don’t know how to have a healthy relationship with a woman so they turn to EO coach for advice on how to continue using and degrading women to satisfy their alpha masculinity. Smh 🤦♀️
That's something I do when Im dating a dude. When I see he isn't use to it. I talk to him about it so he understand its my way of showing I care. I don't expect nothing in return it's just who I am. If Im not feeling you I want put in the effort. Great message!
Wow !!! simply on point. The topics you chose to address, are most important to wemen of all ages. Thank you for investing time to put presentations of this high caliber at our fingertips. God bless you. Shalom
I'm a pretty smart honest person. I ask questions and try and respectfully let people know where I stand. I can usually pick up early on most tests now. I don't like games, and I usually ask about them if I think I'm being presented with one.
I do not discuss how many people were before me, but the question that I will ask, is “how long was his last, or two last relationship(s) and also the duration of his current job or precious one. Stability is important to me
Humble Request Stephan: Can you do a video for men and woman about HEALING OUR WOUNDS for better relationships? All of us have been wounded as adults but our deepest (and often unconscious) wounds are from childhood. We know that relationships REFLECT our WOUNDS and that 'hurt people hurt people.' Until each of us first acknowledges then heals our wounds, we will continue to hurt others (often not intentionally, but with dysfunctional and self-sabotaging behaviors, etc.). I once asked a man why I don't see many men (compared to women) working on healing their wounds. He said that to a man that would be acknowledging weakness and men don't/won't acknowledge weakness. I never thought about that. Maybe you can expand on that from your very balanced masculine perspective. Thank you 🙏 ❤
@@meganlangdale8699 Thanks Megan for your support. Yes, I believe all people need to look at themselves and their behaviors (created by their wounds) in order to be the best partner possible. You can't really change your behaviors unless you dive deep to heal your wounds 😊
This was a great video and men really do spend a lot of time testing women! I have a cousin who admits to testing his now wife, to the point he almost lost her! Because, the testing continued after they were in a relationship! He was married twice before and cheated on both times and that scared the crap out of him! He freely admits to being out there when he was single, but he is no cheater and he especially has a problem with married people who cheat…he was faithful! But, he was on one, when it came to testing her!
Thanks for the video, you bring so much awareness I so appreciate it. 💙 I personally think you be yourself, speak up for what you do/don't like. We shall have boundaries and respect others boundaries, and if someone doesn't like it well, it's not a fit. We should have not be tested, too many games, it's really a waste of time which is precious. Be blessed.
This man made me a better communicater with men..now I am not afraid to ask the questions don't care if it's date 2..we as woman have to ask questions, if it scares him let him go. I dont listen to any other dating coaches and damn I didn't know men test you like this but I am always myself. Huge love stephan you are so good and I understand men more :)
My favorite notification from my favorite Channel. Since I discovered your contents ( since you had 600k subs) my love life is much better. I LEARNT TO BE A GOOD WOMAN TO ATTRACT THE GOOD MAN TO MY LIFE. Much love from your African viewer. ♡😍
Thank you for always being 💯 🙌🏿 . There are some REASONS that people want to test/trial by 🔥/try some one to see if s/he is THE one...then there's Spiritual discernment 💪🏾🙏🏿
StephanSpeaks you are always hitting on key with these things/situations in relationships. I really appreciate your teaching & mentoring is so helpful for me Thanks again for another Good one💖🙏🤗😘💗
I met a guy a couple of weeks ago... And we had a really nice vibe... We talked every day for two weeks... Sometimes at night for hours and hours... So it was a Thursday that he decided to ask me out to dinner. I'm a successful professional and I live an hour away from him. So he suggested we meet for dinner after he got off of work on Saturday... I agreed. We continue to vibe... We are vibbin... Friday afternoon I stopped hearing from him... Saturday comes and he goes ghost... I texted him once... no response. I texted him on Sunday... I said, "I guess no answer is the answer." He texts me Sunday night.... Talkin Bout... Oh I just wanted the weekend to myself to be quiet and think... I'm like... I don't have a problem with that but you could have communicated that with me. So this fool... Decides to start gaslighting me...He goes... See... I wasn't testing you but I need to test you and now I see the kind of woman you are...If you're gonna make a big deal over this what else are you going to make a big deal over...I asked you what are your expectations... So Im baffled bc I wasn't making a big deal... But I said what I said... You could have communicated to me that you couldn't make it... Simple... So I said to him... What I expect is respectful and responsible communication... I expect not to be gaslighted... I expect to be treated with dignity and respect... What you did was rude and disrespectful and now I see you for who you really are. Block aaaaaaaaaaaaand Delete! This dude was absolutely testing me! He was testing me to see if I was going to take his abuse and disrespect... He got the wrong one to play games with... In the words of Lizzo... Ima hit you back in a minute.. I don't play tag, bitch I been it... We don't fuck with lies... We don't do good byes... We just keep it pushin like Iy Iy Yiiiiiiiiii! Sigh... Why men great until they gotta be great ??????????
It's going to save you a lot of wasted time and energy if you just wait for the right one. Never settle for a relationship because you don't want to be alone or because you don't believe that you can find better. What is meant for you, will find its way to you. 💙RU-vidr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
As always Stephan well said. I just believe games are for playing “Basketball 🏀” “Baseball ⚾️” “Volleyball 🎾” “Football 🏈” “Racquetball 🏸” “Soccer ⚽️” “Tennis 🎾” “Hockey 🏒” “Pool 🎱” Or Even Plain Old Kick Ball “Kick 🦵🏽 ball 🏐” Alright , Adults let’s be men & women. It takes too much energy for game playing.
I know someone who stopped pursuing a lady for marriage because she posted something online that he deemed was sexy but should only be done for him not for the whole world to view. And therefore her class in his mind went from 100-20.
I love all your videos you making me understand my husband, he been testing me for 24 years still doing it👀🤦🏾♀🤷🏾♀ just told him the other day IM ON TOO YOU👀😊 he didn't say anything
One day when i have more money and time i’ll join your coaching program. I appreciate you so much. Cause you tell the truth and i learned a lot of english too haha Thank you and see ya! 🌼
And yes, LOTS of conservative and judgmental men out there. Had a man "cancel me" when he found out I was divorced. Really ?!?! Thankfully REJECTION is God's protection 🙏❤ Blessed by God to have self-knowledge, self-love and self-worth as a Divine Feminine creation 💗 No one can reject you if you do not reject yourself 💖 Thank you Stephan 🙏
Why is it just "conservatives?" ALL people are judgmental in some form or another. I happened to come across this one video in my feed of porn stars and dating. Even THOSE men won't date a woman that has had multiple men. EVERYONE has their standards whether we like them or not.
This man is a wealth of knowledge. Always on point with content. It funny but I seemed to be ahead of the game because I could always tell when a man was testing me lol passed with flying colors
The problem with tests (and why I would never test, I simply observe...The Truth always come to light in time) is that you often "see/find" what you expect to see and find. The example of the girl who "failed the loyalty/fidelity test" may all have been a matter of perception. If she felt she needed to befriend his friends in order for him to see that she "fits in" with his crew, she may have overzealously accepted an offer of "hey, maybe we can hang out some time" with "Yeah, I'd love to hang out/get to know you." Only the woman knows her INTENTION which may have been completely innocent and platonic. And who's to say the dude didn't fabricate the response to his friend to mess things up between the two out of jealousy? Games are infantile and are just that GAMES. All you have to do is simply spend time with an individual and observe their true, authentic behavior and then you'll know all you need to know. No tests needed and I believe testing an individual says more about the Examiner than the Student. Its all deception and trickery and only measures a tiny piece of information without knowing any context.
I went on a date once and he spoke about how some women go on dates just for a meal or after a couple of dates he feel he wasted time and money when it didn’t work out. At the end of the night, I grabbed the bill, paid it in full with the tip and didn’t see him again. Primarily because he brought this up on the first date so to me he now feels alit of woman do this grab and go dating! When he called, I told him I wish him the best but for me we are not compatible!
You've a very high ego, you need to work on it. This shouldn't be encouraged. That man was telling his experience, and you took that on different level
The wild thing is these are the SAME men who will drag you to their friends/ on social media for not "giving them a chance" if you turn down their offer to date. If it still turns out they weren't gonna work out, then yes, it was a free meal!
I just went out with an amazing man. He came to my location, he made the reservation in one of the fanciest restaurant. I didn't have to do a thing. He opened the doors, payed for the dinner and drinks. Made me feel beautiful. Then when he asked me to go to his house, and when I refused he was ok with that. Next day he was texted me. And he keep texting and contact with me. I am totally in love Ladies men like this exist.
Thank you, thank you!! Im in a start up relationship that I know I want to go further but he is not sending the same message. I’m trying to sit still yet and be encouraging….. thank you for your insight!!!
About the first test: 1) If a woman is truly a gold digger, she'll want a man who's at least a millionaire. Most men aren't millionaires, so chill out with that lol 2) Just because a person makes a "high income" doesn't mean they are financially literate. Financial literacy is something YOU have to intentionally seek to learn because it's not taught in schools and most families aren't financially literate either. On average, pro athletes go BANKRUPT within 5 years of retirement (many of them make millions in their short career). There's also, countless other rappers, actors (like Johnny Depp for example) and musicians who go bankrupt or have horrendous financial problems - and again many of those ppl make multiple millions in their career. So, making a lot of money doesn't mean you're good with money at all. 3) Often times ppl in general, especially men, once they get a lot of money they buy fancy shit to SHOW OFF and let everyone know via their purchases that they've "made it". Suddenly new "friends" appear, new "family members", etc. That's how most ppl are. So, if you don't want ppl to like you for your fancy shit.....don't buy any. Use common sense. Especially if you're a person of color, those European brands you sprint to buy never gave a fuck about you and your ethnic group - and they never will. But they'll absolutely accept your money lol. Food for thought 🌱 Overall, thanks for covering the topic of this video, Stephan. It's very insightful and you confirmed some tests I already knew.
Right Regina 💯 I'm all about the Power of Love (which is our God-given power), not the Love of Power (which includes money, greed, status, notoriety, Ego-driven pursuits, etc)
I think that men who use the kind of tests explained in tip #1 will exclude themselves from a great relationship with a woman who has higher standards for herself. In the end, they're likely not a match anyway because he has that mindset. All things work together for the good.
Thanks for this video. Actually, the guy who tested his woman's faithfulness had failed his own test first. Pastor Blakes says in one of his videos that if a man is serious about you, he'll protect your purity. I'd personally be quite upset if my date 'threw' me in front of his mates, or left me alone with other men in an ambiguous situation. I'd never talk to him again. Ladies, watch out for the details and don't get fooled.
Mann..out of complete honesty..though I do appreciate this video for all the information within it, this sounds really exhausting. I hate that we as human beings feel that we have to do so many tasks in order to find the right one.
We are expected to attire ourselves appropriately for job interviews, business meetings, church, PTA meetings, etc.; all of which are considered important areas of life. If a man asked me out and showed up to a first date with little to no care about his attire or car (possessions) then I would automatically assume dating was something he placed no value in. First impressions are important. Deception in whatever capacity isn't tolerable to me. The next assumption I'll have is he's probably a liar by nature.
Reason 6 - Quite a few women feel the need to 'teach' the men how to do everything in life. They feel a man will be inadequate if they do not constantly teach them. It's very difficult to live in a relationship like that.
LOL @ 4:00 min mark. If that was a test, then I failed! LOL! Once on a first date, he said he left his wallet, and I had left my purse at home. We ended up walking to the car together, after speaking with the waiter, for him to use his checkbook for payment. Both times, I followed him to the car. I can't remember if we went on a second date or not. LOL! Thanks for the reminder.
I have always been conservative for myself as a business-oriented individual. Since I was going to work and attending school. I think ladies can still be sexy without being provocative.
Sorry complaining too you but a girl so immature got on my nerves yesterday, learn how to pay that no mind and thank you for your inspiration but that was yesterday today is a new day so I'm not going to let nothing bother me thank you once again for your inspiration
The car is not really a good test; at a certain stage of life, a man should have reliable transportation. The "I left my wallet test" is also contrived; if you invited me out, why would you do that? I would probably pay for my meal, leave and not accept any more dates
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I was going out with a guy and he gave me his debit card when I was traveling. He gave me a limited, he told me afterward ‘i was testing you’...we both laugh it off. I knew he was testing me...my brothers taught me well.
True, there's a guy here near my workplace, his car brings out smoke that is not only pungent in smell but also itching in the eyes.. When I first experienced the scenario of him starting the car and the effects of that smoke, I remarked that, this guy can not convince me to be in a relationship with him. I highly doubt he can even take care of his wife. If he can not service the car which makes him money and takes care of him,.there's nothing he can tell me.
I love how you said don't get upset because he is single and he can date as many women as he wants. You know why I like that comment? I like that comment because as a women, I feel like I should be able to do the same then. So, I'm telling men now that I'm single, that I'm also dating several men, so they know it goes both ways. Thank you for this video bc it's full of great information. That just stuck out to me and bc I say the same thing, it caught my attention.
Hey Stephan another great video as always. I must say I really don't like the idea of game playing especially in adulthood But it does exist and Thank God you opened up the discussion! I'm all in so let me begin. I believe acts of kindness should be given always especially in dating, But wife duties are for Husband's period! I don't believe in a woman cooking and feeding a man all the time, or he should expect to buy groceries and pay bills cause food cost and turning on the stove does too, and even then he wouldn't get it all the time. I believe balance in how we carry ourselves is key as I'm conservative and provocative cause believe there's a time and place for both. Loyalty and respect everyone should be tried on! I have a female friend who watches you also and she said her man was going under different profiles just to test her, but she knew for a fact it was him. I asked her what was the outcome. Her response was"reverse psychology " cause she played along and then asked him if he was testing her or her intuition? Lol I also feel testing is ok and sometimes necessary but should be conducted under more natural circumstances that it isn't coming off as deception and game playing cause if that was to be reciprocated as in the scenario I mentioned with my friend, it could backfire lead to confusion and even an end of the relationship. So people let's keep this in mind when we're testing the waters (patners) so to speak! Great content Stephan keep bringing us nugget filled videos❤💃
That's what happened I keep being tested so I just said good bye see you in court for the kids I'm done dating to many games and it was only my second relationship and last until God send me the man for me
