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I've taken over 26 Online Classes(with notes... ofcourse) I cannot find words to express how informed I've become. I'm not afraid to put myself out there because of all I've learned from Mr.Speaks. He knows a higher power guides him. I hope to meet you one day Mr.Speaks. Elizabeth Jackson from Elkmont Al
Stephan do you think I can trust a man I’ve been seeing for 8-9months and I don’t know anyone in his circle. He tells me we should move in together but when I visit and am leaving he reminds me to check and make sure am not leaving anything behind.
One time I found a text conversation between my ex and another woman and she asked him who he lives with and he alone....mind you we were living in a home for a year at this point. When I confronted him he got defensive and said it wasn't anything to it and he was just being funny . After finding multiple inappropriate conversations I finally left so now he can be funny without me. The first time my gut instinct told me this wasn't for me but because he's a "good" guy I brushed it off initially. See the thing is it came to a point where I no longer trusted him and the relationship because a toxic mess. Ladies the first time you feel your gut telling you something believe it
You are so right. When a man is talking to women behind your back, they are looking to cheat. That's your clue to dump them . Dont put up with that crap Sorry you had to go through that but at least you found out the truth. I stayed with a liar for 5 years.
I had a man living with me for 4 years talking marriage . Even did the paperwork. He went off to deployment .. and a woman was messaging me saying they are in a relationship and have been doing .. things.. I’m like wtf. When he got out I felt like he may have lived w her but he never stopped messaging me the way we used to message . Men are wild Initials TW . In the navy. Resides in Houston lol run ladies
So true…a “good” man doesn’t mean that they’re the “right” man for you…I have seen red flags 🚩 before but because I thought the man was a “kind” person didn’t mean he was Mr Right n he turned out to be Mr Wrong….
@@weekendnomad5038 I had a female call me n tell me that she had a child with my then husband…the baby turned out to not be his but he had unprotected sex so there was a possibility…the first year we were buying diapers, medicine, n etc….until I pushed the issue of getting a dna test then she cut him off…
You are a living example of a man lead by Spirit, living in honesty and integrity. Great gratitude for sharing so clearly, the healthy roadmap to loving relationship.🙏✨
#YES HE #IS.🍫😌😌. @ #QUEENS #IDEAL #KING FROM A LITTLE GIRL. I PRAY IM BLESSED WITH ...LIKE HIM..HIS ENERGY IS UNDENIABLE MAY THE #MOSTHIGH👑🙏 BLESS HIM #ABUNDANTLY
I still love my husband but I had to move because he admitted in court to trying to get me to commit suicide and he said I was not safe in the home. He attacked me on numerous occasions unprovoked. I love him but I cannot trust him with my life.
You are spot on about a women’s intuition. Mine has never been wrong. All 10 are great things to pay attention too when in a relationship. Great video!
JUST SOME IDEAS. I agree with that-- what about my ex dumping me -- then finding some my stuff & said “ hope you are doing well “ . Should I text him back ?
@@virginiaomoniyi7594 Yesssssss ma'am. Countless years on an emotional rollercoaster. I had no self-love, couldn't see my own value, and negotiated with my own intuition. Ten years later and I'm still trying to heal. Stephan Labossiere has become my RU-vid-Instagram Life Coach because I got one good relationship left in me and I'm trying to get me all the way right first.
After my last encounter, I am done trusting anyone, let alone a man, but I love all of your advice, and I know with time, God heals all wounds. Thank you for all of your books, and wealth of information. It's time to really start paying attention; your advice is not just for female/male relationships, as there are so many other toxic relationships that fits the bill.
I'm going to try to say this with love & compassion. I've gone through position where I couldn't trust anyone after being burned SO badly. After 3 years of therapy it really came down to a lack of self trust. Trusting yourself to recognize toxic people and protect yourself going forward. I feel you, I was very bitter and broken for so long. In my thoughts, queen
That bonus is and will always be on point. I've been single for 3 1/2 years now. I took time out to heal my ❤️ I had to detached myself from him mentally, physically, and emotionally. And now I am in a better place. I recently met someone, and I am praying to the All Mighty to lead and guide me through it all. Because of him, I will not still be standing.
A lot of the times, trust issues within a relationship is more about ourselves then the other person. When a woman doesn't think she's good enough for the man and has low self esteem she will have difficulty in trusting the man. When I started dating in my teens, my intuition was so strong I could even tell where the guy was without him telling me know his location or if he's not home. Trust is very important for me. Nothing throws me off like a guy who receives everything I say with scepticism. When they have to insinuate things about who I really am and about more especially when I'm trying to be as honest as I can be. That's a turn off.
No disrespect but every time I didn't trust a person it was actually based on what they were doing ..The signs were in front of me plain as day 👀Not to mention the uneasiness I felt in my spirit.. Regardless if you're a little insecure or not your spirit will speak truth
I trust myself with myself period! I learned this matter may tears of therapy 20+. I paid for it and saw I needed it due to family dynamics at 19(blessed for the sight). When people aren’t trust worthy I look deeper than blaming him or me first! Then ima go in and see his faults and look at mine on the back end/ I’m not responsible for someone being slimy. I am responsible for what I allow and how I interact. The why’s matter more than blaming either willing party.
I agree. One thing that I knew I can trust my guy is that he created that environment that we can communicate without judging each other and when it comes to communication, my God!! that man is on top, even when the topic of discussion is hush, he ready to talk and get solutions of those issues... His spirit, his love and his energy just makes us connect naturally and we can talk all day long... He's not a talking person but when I became part of his life, he changed completely and now he's so comfortable talking because honestly am a talkative person and somehow he inherited my personality and that makes me happy!!....
Characteristics of a Faithful man exude all over you 😊 God Bless you Stephan for you being true to the cause in spite of your voice issues and pushing through. Your real blessing is on the way...🙏🏾❤️ Thanks for looking out for us
What if you trust the man, he's kind and humble and you figure he's a good man. Then he SHOCKS you find out he's a habitual cheater. He's a deceiver. So innocent and sweet but that's a cover for CHEAT!
Sorry to hear that. Some men are EXPERT Liars. My intuition always alerts me to the bad ones, no matter how nice they may seem. Hope that you will find a good man soon!
For the throat: Get that Ginger in. Warm 🍋water & Raw ginger slices 👌🏿 add 🍯. Healthy, trusting relationships have to be the goal. Neither person should try to seek anything else.
I agree with you. I dated a narcissist for 6 1/2 months but him and his friends turned everything around on me when I broke it off with him. I thank God that God knows the truth and I found out who my true friends were.
I really really love your advice. I’ve been in a long distance relationship and it hasn’t been a easy road at all 😂 but your advice honestly helped me think in a logical perspective instead of thinking emotionally 😂🤦🏽♀️ bc lord knows it can make u crazy so thank u for all your advice 🙏
this is amazing..i met someone recently and he is so great..I was afraid to open up before about feelings but I did a lot of healing and now I am not and I seriously can see how he appreciates that..it's amazing to hear all of this from a mans perspective..good job stephan big hug xx
Stephan dude, I'm so thankful to have found you. Your words of wisdom truly have the ability to open our eyes, change our thinking, and alow us to observe the opposite sex and their behavior more clearly. Your insights coupled with continued learning from mistakes from previous hurtful failed relationships, will only help to provide the foundation for the right relationship.
Good points. Trust is a must for a healthy relationship.... The scripture you referred to about God not being the author of confusion is found in 1 Corinthians 14:32.... And that is why we are to do all things decent and orderly(vs. 40)
I love the last point. I have been seeing a man and have fallen in love after an 11 year marriage to a narcississt. I have asked God many times about him to make sure he's right and I have always felt peace. I also have felt a check when I consider other opportunities. Even with that when I'm away from him like u said, I have struggled and looked for red flags when there aren't any and have considered calling it off several times. Thank God for His Holy Spirit because I simply ask Him again and I feel that same peace. That has kept me from making a big mistake.
First of all, I hope you feel better soon ❤️. Yes I agree and listening to your intuition is such key factor in determining whether you feel comfortable trusting any person in any situation, friends, family, colleagues and so on. It’s like for eg I’m careful on who or what I allow myself to listen to but when I first came across & watched one your videos, my spirit instantly trusted you. So yes trusting your intuition in everything will not fail you. 🙏
Great video. Trust God not man was my favorite part, as God will never fail or disappoint us. I agree with your other key points, such as looking at the history, pattern, and relationship they have with others. This speak volumes about their life. Also, if they are open,vulnerable and transparent that is a good sign you can trust them. It lets you know if they can love openly, and fully. Yes, if you feel safe with their presence and they exude the energy that comforts your being that is a great sign. Lastly, trust your intuition, if has never failed me,yet and that is our internal guide and compass. When two people build the relationship on the foundation of trust that is essential to success. Thank you for the video. Please rest your voice. Sending blessings and love, get well.
NAOMI -- my gut ALWAYS IN A KNOT ! When I was with him . Then he dumped me. Then a week later he text “ I hope you doing ok “ should I text him back ? I’ feel he playing games to keep contact ! But he text me 3 times. Since he said “ he wants to be ALONE “ what do you think?
@@nancybogart3899 Personally, if it were me I would not tolerate the stress & indecisiveness. He dumped you that's the first mistake in not recognizing your value. Leave him alone, you will find better. However. Stephan is the expert and he would say not to tolerate nonsense. Hope that helps 🙏
@@JamaicaLove876 oh I’m so glad you took kindly to my extreme hurt I’m going thru. Thank you. While I DID NOT “ respond to his “ text / note “ I find myself looking for one. Silly I know. I’m still wounded. I truly appreciate your help.
When you asked God, healed self, set healthy boundaries. I finally found my better half. We're balanced🧘♀️Working on self in areas YOU are flawed in. I trust him🥰Thank you so much
I want a healthy loving affectionate playful relationship willing to work together for communication. I want a man that's serious about us and tells me that.
Good Morning Stephan, Enjoyed this mornings' content. Very eye opening. Even though you want to follow what is right in front of you. Trust that "gut" intuition.. Enjoy your day and Be Blessed!
All Primo points 👌💎😎 #2 willing to communicate & have difficult discussions 💥🎯 Reluctance to communicate Dodging deep conversation He’s not trying to be open & transparent holding back, he might expose himself - untrustworthy behaviour intimacy issues 🚩 Honesty issues 🚩
thank you Stephan. I truly needed this video. I was even in tears at some point because you spoke like you knew the fears I had with my new relationship. you alleviated that and I'm so grateful. God bless you.
My family communication is toxic & affected ways I am in relationships. I am working on these things now but there are challenges to know what is healthy
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thank you. Doing what is best, takes self accountability and understanding what is best. Your videos help me learn qualities of healthy relationships that I was not taught or did not see in my environment. It starts with me reframing my self narrative which is also my confidence & level of love of myself. This includes healing, cleaning mind and renewing. Thank you for sharing with Us❣
Thank you for your message. My husband is one of those trust worthy men that you speak of and I trust him with my heart because not only does he love me but he loves my mom and my entire family. He was raised by their parents got rest both of their souls his parents his mom and his dad may they rest in peace
FOR YOUR THROAT/COLD: This works for me every time. Gargle with salt water as warm as you can handle it THREE TIMES A DAY without fail. Definitely do NOT miss the one just before bed. Each time, gargle far back and let a little of the water go down. Repeat this daily until it's gone.
THANX, AMEN!!! TRUST GOD ALWAYS!!!! I've kept myself from bad situations by trusting my intuition. I truly believe intuition is GOD'S way of telling you TRUTH. It's on YOU to trust and believe what HE speaks to you for your higher purpose. And you shall know TRUTH, and TRUTH shall make you free. -----John 8:32.
What a lightbulb moment !!! I feel safe with him but not when he’s not here! It is my fear and insecurities that are getting in the way. I have done a lot of work on healing from the past yet have been single for so long. The only way to know how much I have healed is to be aware of my own insecurities that get in the way. And at the moment my insecurities and fear are getting in the way.
You are a true man of GOD. I want to thank you so much for first of obeying God words by teaching us the right way. And taking time out of your busy life to do it THANK YOU AGAIN BROTHER IN CHRIST. We are grateful....😍
hey stephan i want you to know that ive recently stepped back into my walk in faith and this video landed perfectly at a time in my life when i needed it, i really believe that god speaks through your word and thank you for your help
I love this whole video, especially the bonus! My man used to say that… “Trust God not man.” We are all human and we all have the potential to mess up.
Thank you for the way you continue to bless us Stephan, may God continue to bless you in abundance🙏🏾❤ Just my contribution. Being a focused, purpose driven woman helps repel the bad ones. If he is not the type of person who brings you closer, to who you have be, to do what God created you to do, he will eliminate himself. Seek first the Kingdom🙌🏾... and all these things...😉❤
Good video. I make a cough medicine of honey onions and thyme, just sauteed it together. Warm tea w honey, and salt water gargle, or even just honey and lemon juice help. Hope you feel better n thanks for the knowledgeable perspective
I calmly asked the man I was seeing if he was seeing another woman because he wasn't consistent in his time. He said no and he doesn't appreciate being accussed, then asked me has he ever lied to me. I said yes you have. He said, you know what BYE!
Oh wow! You really hit the nail on the head when you described the difference of feeling safe when you’re *with* him rather than how you feel when you’re not with him. That’s exactly what I have been struggling with lately… it’s definitely a form of relationship anxiety, when you feel great with your man but then have this awful sense of dread or anxiety when you’re not physically with him and feeling uncertain you can trust him. It’s an awful feeling and it absolutely can be your mind (anxiety) playing tricks on you. (Relationship OCD is also a real and awful thing!) These are our own inner issues we need to heal from and It’s important to distinguish it and not force those false beliefs onto our partner. What a great video!
FOR THE LOVE o. AGREE 100. Here’s my question. My ex dumped me. Then a week later text & said “ I hope you ok “ should I text back ? I’m still wondering WHY he bothered to ask.
Hello, I Love 💖 Your Videos. You Are Very Knowledgeable, Smart, Informative & Passionate. I Love listening to you speak the 'common sense on love'. I Love Your Voice, It Calms & Sooths Me. I can listen to you talk all night long & many nights 🌙 I have. 💋💖💖🌹🌹
I can't help but wonder where is My ❤ from Stephen as I see all the others who made comments received hearts ❤. I didn't ask for all these other comments on my post!
Me ex told me if he does not lie to me who will!! Still won't sign the divorce papers, I just keep praying to God this is a true narasstic man, and I am done!!
Thank you! I needed to hear this. I pray your congestion be healed. Try ginger root, fresh turmeric, fresh thyme and lemon. Boil and make a tea out of ingredients let it cool some drink it warm or hot if you like. All ingredients are fresh and they will heal your throat.
WOW, Very Good Points !! And it's very important to watch for all these signs because it's so real , just had to let a person go ,there were several of these points that was on this list was the reason And my Spirit said. Let Go 😊 Yes Trust God
Well just brome things off with the guy i was dating for 5mths..he got upset just because i insisted on doing video calls with him...always made excuses tht he is busy and would get defensive we would end up fighting...tht made me not trust him so well i got tired and broke things up with him
That saying is scripture, dear Stephan. 1. Corinthians 14:33 For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace, as in all churches of the saints. God bless 🙏❤
I embrace these topics and your videos; they're helpful with sound guidance. Also have been having girls night in the home where we all together view your videos.
