9 SIGNS Men Give Before They CHEAT (& Most Women Miss)

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9 REAL Signs Men Give Before They CHEAT (& Most Women Miss)... Men may exhibit certain behaviors and signs before they cheat, such as emotional distance or a decrease in intimacy within the relationship. I want you to understand men better so you can recognize the signs they may give before they cheat to help you navigate relationships with trust and awareness. Take heed to this relationship advice for women to learn the signs men give before cheating and ensure you watch the entire video.
Understanding the signs men give before cheating will empower you to recognize potential relationship issues and address them proactively. It would help if you understood the signs men give before cheating so that you can be vigilant in addressing any relationship issues and take the necessary steps to maintain trust and strengthen your relationship. Embrace this dating advice for women to understand men better and the signs men give before they cheat to be more enlightened on maintaining a healthy relationship.
Cheating is the betrayal of trust that can have devastating consequences when you’re either dating or in a relationship. However, by being aware of the signs a man is cheating, you will be more prepared to deal with cheating in relationships. It's crucial to have an open and honest conversation to address your concerns and seek clarity on the situation if you think your man is cheating because this candid communication can be the first step toward resolving the issue.
As a certified life coach, relationship coach, and dating coach, I want to make dating and relationships easier for you. I pray you find this video helpful, and that you will receive the man who is truly best for you.
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@MeetStephanSpeaks 7 месяцев назад

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@ShereeMiller-cq7cp 6 месяцев назад

Thank u

@raznabegum5847 4 месяца назад

How can we just talk? I need some guidance with a cheating spouse, how can I pay for just your call services

@hortenciagarcia6979 Месяц назад

No im fine I rather be alone all men are crazy and like to lie 😂😂😂😂

@B-Ray.lyfestyle 7 месяцев назад

Cheating isn’t a mistake It’s a choice 😒

@MeetStephanSpeaks 7 месяцев назад

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

@erikasmith8894 7 месяцев назад

That's what I'm saying... if a person cheats, it's because they choose to step out regardless if it hurts the person they claim to love.

@sisis_eyes_wide_open 7 месяцев назад

Definitely a choice

@UnaBellissima 7 месяцев назад

Yup. And, I am choosing to become extremely friendly with that block button going forward in my life. 😂😂😂

@B-Ray.lyfestyle 7 месяцев назад

@@UnaBellissima 😂😂😂

@GloriaAllanah 7 месяцев назад

When a man wants to cheat in a relationship he starts saying weird things. HE BECOMES WEIRD

@MeetStephanSpeaks 7 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

@Kari_Michele 7 месяцев назад

YEP!!! 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯💯💯💯💯💯

@andriavinithalobo5813 7 месяцев назад

Yes

@judithfloyd262 7 месяцев назад

Yesssssss!!!

@irinaivanovic9792 7 месяцев назад

Yes. ;-(

@chulo3909 7 месяцев назад

Love is so exhausting. So many weirdos; so many different motives behind people; so many head games; so many broken, damaged people; so many people with their heads in their phones 🤦🏽‍♀️ being single is not bad at all

@MeetStephanSpeaks 7 месяцев назад

It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

@prettyeyes453 7 месяцев назад

I thought it was just me feeling this way 😩🥴🥴 it's very exhausting, Jesus.

@chulo3909 7 месяцев назад

It’s crazy that spending nights alone is way healthier than spending your days with the typical person nowadays 🥺🥺 but if that’s what it has to be , I guess that’s just what I have to do

@_espresso_654 7 месяцев назад

Yup . I m single now dnt have energy for dating . I wana money to support myself n that is it

@haitiqueen0119 7 месяцев назад

@@_espresso_654Words of the wise👌

@angelbabeasmr 7 месяцев назад

I think if you’re with a gaslighter, and you’re pretty certain something is up, snooping would be the better option than asking directly if he’s cheating. Because he’s just going to make you feel crazy even if he is cheating.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 7 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

@jqf284 7 месяцев назад

Currently trying to file for divorce because I finally decided to quit ignoring the red flags and snoop 😢😢 I had feelings I kept ignoring but I flat out asked and he denied so I tried to let it go but once he shaved his pubic area for the first time in 11 years and told me he did it for me and he knew I was on my cycle so I wouldn't be able to do anything until it ended that's when I knew he was cheating. Picked up his phone one night and he's talking to 14 women including several exes and 2 baby mamas and majority of them don't know he's married with kids. And there's a few who knows he's with me but still meeting up with him 😤😤 SMH 🙄 I can't wait to be done, putting my health at risk for nothing but constantly making sure I'm not cheating though 😂

@Keela-dw5qe Месяц назад

Ahaha...say that shit LOUDER!!

@Missybella92227 7 месяцев назад

At 41 years old I’m “tapping out.” Recently dumped by ex fiancé for his “side.” I’m super loyal, modest, classy, no vices, independent and domesticated. It’s never enough for men. There’s so many beautiful, exceptional women that are being mistreated! It’s so disheartening.

@irinaivanovic9792 7 месяцев назад

I am also 41 and was dumped by my long term boyfriend who became my husband. Long story but the pain is traumatizing. When I heard him say "I just don't feel the same anymore".... my heart shattered because I NEVER would have expected our bond to be broken. I'm tired of this happening to me 3 times in a row by 3 different men that I loved with all my heart who came in - and then out - of my life. I'm tapping out too. Men are never satisfied. There is NO good reason for so many beautiful, kind hearted, exceptional women to keep on being mistreated and abused over and over again. I'm sick of hearing "noT aLL mEn!"... the VAST MAJORITY of men do this SO the majority rules. It's too many women with the same heartbreaking stories. We deserve better, but we will never get to experience it. That means we are just better off staying single and celibate. I'm choosing that. I don't want to be discarded like this by a man with whom we shared such a deep emotional bond, deep love with and for many years only to have it come to and end all over again. I just can't do it anymore.

@kombatcamera 7 месяцев назад

looks are very important to a man and as women age many struggle to transition from the dynamic of them having the final say to the man having the final say as the SMP value has transferred from the women to the man over the decades and too often the women can't humble themselves to adjust the arrangement

@irinaivanovic9792 4 месяца назад

@@kombatcamera Looks are important to a degree because I can look like a Victoria’s Secret model and I still got dumped. I’ve been a model and professional dancer for most of my life. I’m telling you, you men don’t care that much about looks as much as you think. You are wired for infidelity and variety. That’s why we as women don’t want to deal with you anymore. Looks aren’t ever going to keep a man. Besides, it’s the MAN who should be trying to keep that lady.

@kombatcamera 4 месяца назад

@@irinaivanovic9792 id change your mind irl bebe 🤭

@zolabison2744 4 месяца назад

@@irinaivanovic9792AMEN AND AMEN AND AMEN!!!

@nicolem.3844 2 месяца назад

Not worth to be in a relationship nowdays anymore. Thx to social media..

@Khernandez27 7 месяцев назад

When you said, “some of us needed to be cheated on, or we would have never left” mmm I felt that! It’s true, I would have never walked away. After healing and self evaluating I know now, he wasn’t the one for me.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 7 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

@UnaBellissima 7 месяцев назад

Nah. “You needed to get cheated on” theory isn’t it. Cause you can literally apply that theory to every single horrible thing out there to justify some shitty ass behavior [from pedos to the DV to sexual assault or worse]. No one deserves to go through shit or eat shit to learn from shit. So… I am not taking on that mindset anymore. As a grown ass female, it’s not my responsibility to keep an eye on a grown ass man. To teach him shit that his elders failed or to figure out if what’s coming outta his mouth is true or not. I don’t want to nor do I have time for it. So, if I end up dating anyone in the future [single life is peaceful]… if he can’t keep it a 💯, he don’t need to be around me [or vice versa]. Simple really. Nothing more. Nothing less. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Be blessed everyone. 🙏🏼

@irinaivanovic9792 7 месяцев назад

This is the correct mindset. I feel the same as you! It also makes me baffled as to how they always complain that we women are the complicated ones. SMH, sorry but NO fucking way. Men are the most complicated creatures on planet earth.@@UnaBellissima

@Nikkiole84 6 месяцев назад

Mee too

@eigthhousefallen 4 месяца назад

The answers are not deep and complicated. They are actually surface level highly

@lukas4016 7 месяцев назад

I really hate when someone says "all men cheat" because it is simply unfair 😢My ex kept saying that and it was so hurtfull... Yes, I had some female friends and I had an opportunity but I never did that. I take my honour and dignity from living according to my values. I remain faithfull for myself and for my pride as a man. In some case I had to end the relationship but I never cheated. Unfortunately most women don't even want to hear such statement 😢

@MeetStephanSpeaks 7 месяцев назад

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

@ScarletteRose164 7 месяцев назад

You have to realize men have traumatized women to the point women have zero faith in your gender. Blame other men for women's distrust of you. It is still happening and more than ever. The only difference is women are doing it as well and are no longer being brutalized for it while having to watch men get away with the same behavior. That's where it starts. When we think a guy is faithful, he pulls the rug from under us. We eventually learn to stop hoping for a faithful man by watching our mothers, aunts and sisters and daughters be wronged by men. How long do you want women to hold out when we are constantly reminded of how fickle men can be when they have a functioning penis? Are you saying there is zero reason for women of today to be skeptical of men being faithful when history is a strong predictor of future bahavior? Men just want women to conveniently forget how women of the past were treated. I'm sure if some men who don't want to do the work of establishing trust had their way, they'd just wipe the memories clean of newer generations of women like a robot as we become datable just to have an advantage. But that's impossible. It's ingrained in human dna to learn from situations that happen to others and avoid dangers. You're asking women to go against basic human nature because it makes it easier for you to keep a woman.

@lashawnshipp8271 7 месяцев назад

I'm a woman and hate when women say " all men cheat". They don't know all men in the world. Maybe the ones they met cheated. I've never cheated in any of my relationships, but got cheated on several times. I don't understand why some men and women don't appreciate the person that's good to them. Smh. A lot men and women seem to treat the good person like shit. They don't realize what they had until it's gone. Why is that? I have exes from years ago reaching out to me. Now, I'm in a new relationship but we have our ups and downs. We don't get a chance to spend a lot of time with each other, because of our financial circumstances. He's an hour away from me. I got laid off from my job, and he got hit my a flat bed truck while he was working delivering packaging. He had surgery on his knee and going through physical therapy. Therefore, he have been out of work for a while until doctor release him to go back to work. Sometimes he be in pain and don't want to be bothered. I have traveled to go see him but lately we haven't been seeings very challenging for the both of us. Sometimes I feel like giving up on this relationship, but he always tell me and show me he really care for me. If it's meant to be it will be. If not, then I'm good. It will hurt me because my heart is with him. But, life goes on.

@Chris777. 6 месяцев назад

Only trashy men cheat

@soupergiffy 4 месяца назад

Respect to values. I hear the same thing from the guys "all women are money grabbing cheats". That's not true either thank goodness.

@Pheonix1111 7 месяцев назад

If my future husband ever cheated, I would divorce him immediately and never give him a second chance. Stephan, I respectfully disagree with you when you say a man will cheat on his wife although he loves her. In my mind, cheaters do not love their spouse. When someone truly loves their spouse, they work out the issue(s) with their spouse, but they never cheat. True love means intentionally avoiding hurting your spouse.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 7 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

@carlel121 7 месяцев назад

I completely agree with you! LOVE IS RESPECT! he had the choice not to cheat but he decided to do it anyways! if their impulse are greater than his love and respect for you, than he does not love you enough!

@marciawade9101 7 месяцев назад

@@carlel121 Well said! 👏👏👏

@ScarletteRose164 7 месяцев назад

You'll never hear a man say the same. They immediately won't believe you love them if you cheat. Women need to have the same mindset, we are too forgiving. You'll hear very few men advocate for staying with a cheating woman. Not unless he can gain financially, but his resentment will surface in his actions. He will still plan on leaving once the benefit is over. He will be hurt and leave. Women need to have the same standards men have. They often leave at the first sign of discomfort, distrust or resistance.

@marciawade9101 7 месяцев назад

@@ScarletteRose164 Well said and SO VERY TRUE! 👏👏👏

@user-wk3tv8wd3i 7 месяцев назад

omg, the phone behavior definitely lets you know they are cheating when you are trying to call them too, when your call is answered all the time and it suddenly stops getting answered or returned, and you reside with one another thats a serious red flag. Especially if they send a text instead of calling you lol.

@Quianna 7 месяцев назад

I find it so funny that women are really asking the question "Can a man cheat on me and still love me?" Like, what? What difference does it make either way? He still cheated on you. Take your self respect and walk away.

@sheisfabian390 4 месяца назад

Cheating is a decision not an accident. I’m an older woman married to a young guy. I have for quite some time mentally existed out of the marriage. Meaning I have stop talking, I have stop being intimate. Basically just stop trying to help him learn how to be the person for me. He and I aren’t on the same maturity level. I have watched and studied his actions. That’s enough for my final decision! I know my worth and deserve better. May God send what he has for me later in the future. Amen!

@tinamoore2979 6 месяцев назад

I don’t cheat no matter how bad the relationship. No excuses!!!!

@ivankaavdibasic5774 7 месяцев назад

Thanks, I went through it. All signs were there, I ignored, he gaslighted. However now I'm so thankful for it. I am out of a long abusive relationship, but probably will stay if he didn't cheat. I'm now at peace and joy, closer to God. Love and light for everyone that is in this situation.

@chiqui0816 7 месяцев назад

Exactly! We overlook the signs, somehow in denial of how someone can hurt us in such a way when we truly love. When we finally value our worth and what we bring to the table, that's when you get the ugly truth and have to forgive ourselves for what we tried to push under the rug. Thank you Stephan for you knowledge🙏🏻

@monicawitherspoon6627 7 месяцев назад

Cheating is a choice. You can give a person everything they say they want and need and do all the things you found in his search history and they will still cheat if they want to.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 7 месяцев назад

It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

@aprilsochic 7 месяцев назад

The intuition is so REAL!!!

@nolwethumnikina1487 4 месяца назад

People meet one another as deep as they meet themselves

@Loverofartsandmusic 7 месяцев назад

I've been cheated many times. I remember, it was not a good feeling to be in NEVER. The hardest is when you start thinking "What Im gonna do now", and the pressure against yourself you will start feeling but it feels good to walk away though it hurts. At some point, I began to have trust issues but I worked on myself. Because of my experience, I learned to discern how men can manipulate you just to get you. They know their words so well but you know when it's just words. Don't fall for sweet words.

@kimclarkson9083 7 месяцев назад

You are an individual who can explain these things so clearly. You have a gift.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 7 месяцев назад

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

@carlel121 7 месяцев назад

All men do not cheat, my husband is an example of it, I trust him a lot, all begin with his behavior, he does not hide anything, he is at home most of the time, he wants to go out with me always, he ask me to answer his phone, he has all his device sync, i am a believer that there are more men that do not cheat than we think! Because I have seen it!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 7 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

@peopleas1healingtrauma 7 месяцев назад

👏🏼 good for u mamas ❤

@peopleas1healingtrauma 7 месяцев назад

Rare men still exist there just hard too find

@passiiionuniiique 2 месяца назад

A MAN CAN BE MARRIED FOR 22 YEARS AND CHEAT FOR 24 LOL MAYBE HE JUST DOES NOT LET YOU FEEL IT OR YOU TRAINED HIM THAT WAY OR YOU FRONTIN ON HERE💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

@carlel121 2 месяца назад

@@passiiionuniiique 😂😂😂 of course!

@anyaitsally-yc4qg Месяц назад

I'm on my marks getting set for this program..I need to help many of my fellow women who have toxic relationships .I will always spice it with the Good News of our Lord Yeshua .

@belindapadron7175 7 месяцев назад

Thank you for speaking about sharing your world together! This is something I always felt in my ❤ that was important to me & I felt as though it's concerning when someone doesn't want to share, even to gain understanding of who the person is.

@lenaluaces4232 7 месяцев назад

I think you‘re right with the stuff your saying. It makes me so emotional because I‘ve known with my ex that something was up. He did almost all of the things you described. But I was really naive and never thought he‘d cheat. I was only 19 at the time. He gaslighted me so badly whenever I questioned him and I felt so bad to end it in case I was wrong and that I really was just confused and insecure. I didn‘t even think about him cheating I just thought that we were disconnected. But I tried reall hard to get him to open up to me but he wouldn‘t. Everytime I tried to leave him he wouldn‘t let me go and wouldn‘t give up or he‘d cry so much that I thought he must really love me. This experience has broken my trust deeply. I still don‘t get how we could be bestfriends and he‘d still betray me like that. His values otherwise aren‘t even in alignment with cheating so his behaviour really didn‘t make any sense to me still. I don‘t know how to feel. I feel confused and overwhelmed when I think about it even though we have broken up over a year ago. We were together for 5 years and I‘m 24 now. Even after we have reached rock bottom and there was nothing to hide anymore he‘d still tell me that he thought I‘d be his future wife. It hurt me deeply because I felt that he was my husband too but cheating goes against my values and my trust in him is not repairable. I‘m honestly happy single at the moment and feel a lot of peace. I love myself again. I was really angry with myself for being so weak and dumb and confused in the past. But I have forgiven myself. I just don‘t know if I‘m able to ever trust as deeply again. But after such a deep connection I long for a deep trust and friendship sometime in the future again, but I can‘t help but worrying that I‘ll put myself in a weak position if I choose to have a family with someone that‘ll cheat on me.

@norrishastewart9062 4 месяца назад

Yes, full transparency on both sides is honourable in this day and age.

@latanyashannon582 7 месяцев назад

I agree with you on the phone. My ex fiance showed all those signs. It was very apparent that he was hiding or doing something that he knew was inappropriate.

@jordyn.24 7 месяцев назад

I never considered that there were signs prior to the actual cheating. I’ve never been cheated on but this is an interesting topic

@MeetStephanSpeaks 7 месяцев назад

Glad I could help 🙏

@ms.vallattimore4230 7 месяцев назад

Good Topic ! Stephan 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤️ I have been through this! That’s why I’m still single! Period ! 💯

@brandistokes3213 6 месяцев назад

Great perspective!! Honestly a lot of the things you said I’ve never thought of in that light. Kinda see some stuff a little different

@jennyleeisme19 7 месяцев назад

@MeetStephanSpeaks So many of your talks have my eyes welling up. I'm learning lessons from you and when you talk, I am matching your lesson with my real-life experiences. These lessons are the ones I've failed to learn over and over...thank you, I appreciate you! 💗

@MeetStephanSpeaks 7 месяцев назад

I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

@AlyssaMonetMason 7 месяцев назад

Thank you for the information.

@GloriaAllanah 7 месяцев назад

Do not have a relationship with anybody addicted to PORNOGRAPHY

@MeetStephanSpeaks 7 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

@user-fh1tr9zp3l 7 месяцев назад

Then why is he addicted to porn when he is in a relationship?? Try been a freak in the sheets gal and see what happens🤣🤣🤣

@Kirra713 7 месяцев назад

@@user-fh1tr9zp3lThose freak in the sheets type of women get cheated on too

@rahmohd5747 2 месяца назад

@@user-fh1tr9zp3lif they’re addicted they need short gratification you can never keep up with or satisfy

@elettramia6380 2 месяца назад

@@user-fh1tr9zp3l😂😂😂😂that’s is Not how it works and you are fully aware of that, if a man is watching porn even though you have made him aware BEFORE initially dating that it’s a boundary for you, or if a man has a peon addiction that you were unaware of and still made him aware that it is a boundary issue for you then there is absolutely NOTHING you can Do to change that character defect in your partner. It is their choice to continue to violate your boundaries and manipulate you while doing so. What you are trying to do is gaslight and blame women for a man’s psychological character defect. However unfortunately for those like you, us intelligent women see through your bullshit and we are fully aware that your psychological failures are solely because of *YOU*

@trulyblessed6817 Месяц назад

I thank God I have all of these. I've truly found my person when I was just minding my business being happy, healed and single. Now I'm happy, healed and coupled!

@raghedmusleh1356 Месяц назад

Best video, Stephan. Thank u 👍🏽

@oliviahall8032 3 месяца назад

You are a fantastic speaker. I really appreciate and find interest in your advice even on the little sub points in each piece. Thank you for putting together such intelligent, wise and insightful information to help bring awareness to others. I respect how clear you make the point that you are not validating certain things and that just because particular signs are present, doesn’t always equal cheating. Some creators go so deep into their own opinions and beliefs, they do not share the other sides to things. They make it as though it is fact that one is unfaithful if they show particular signs for things as opposed to looking at multiple perspectives, right down to possible mental health struggles.

@miamia556 Месяц назад

Oh my goodness, the last one was a whole wake up call! I never looked at our problems in a different way, but you just helped me to understand, and look at things from a whole different angle. THANK YOU! 🙏🏽 I love your books, and I love you. I love the way you explain “in detail” each topic. You give it to us cold, and that’s what us woman need! For real for real. I know I can be very hard to deal with, my poor husband, I’m not even sure how he’s stuck around for 25 years. Lord help me! 🙏🏽🫠

@caromuinde1927 4 месяца назад

Thank you for your awesome videos ❤

@HelloThere12341 7 месяцев назад

I remember I was 24 and my bf at the time said if I hooked up with my previous ex before him he would forgive me because he knew that my ex treated me excellent and that I may still harbor feelings for him. I left the very next day this was in spring of that year. Come to find out HIS ex was coming home for summer and he wanted to hook up with her. He was so furious with me with tears in his eyes saying oh what did he do wrong. Ninja you ain’t did anything wrong but you were certainly plotting. His ex and I were colleagues as we were in the same band for carnival and his name came up when she was speaking about who her summer fling was and it clicked in my head ohhhhh this is why he said what he said. I never went back to him and never addressed it with her I just silently said I knew it! They were speaking since Valentine’s Day planning to hook up once she touch down for summer. So there was an overlap.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 7 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

@GloriaAllanah 7 месяцев назад

LEARN TO WALK AWAY either that or you go MENTAL

@MeetStephanSpeaks 7 месяцев назад

🙏

@Nikkiole84 6 месяцев назад

I found evidence where my ex told this lady he missed and loved her after I told him to leave and he still lied saying he never cheated for the record. Still toxic ASL. After the break up he lacks accountability and has issues I never paid attention to. I'm ready to move on and heal

@mattanderson6672 7 месяцев назад

Thanks Stephan

@enfj24 7 месяцев назад

I agree to the "some of us needed to be cheated on". I have a best friend who stayed in toxic relationships for too long even though she knew her ex bf was cheating with other girl. This girl was taunting my friend by sending pics and texts, but my friend would still be communicating and helping her loser ex. In the end the guy decided to marry the other girl 🤦‍♀️

@bnb0510 7 месяцев назад

I feel like in this stage that our current society is in people should just expect to be cheated on and hope for the best. Sad but true! Social media, phones, dating apps, etc have ruined the way relationships are viewed. There is no value in it anymore…

@MeetStephanSpeaks 7 месяцев назад

I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

@peopleas1healingtrauma 7 месяцев назад

👏🏼

@Kirra713 7 месяцев назад

Exactly

@EBexotic1 7 месяцев назад

You spoke it the best social media is relationships demise 😢and it’s so sad 😞

@amymariekeyes1 7 месяцев назад

SO accurate.

@thirdlynephilim 7 месяцев назад

So, I had to stay until I knew he was cheating because we were married and I could not be remarried until it was confirmed. However, it is true. I needed to be cheated on and for him to be caught to let go and stop trying.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 7 месяцев назад

I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

@RR35592 7 месяцев назад

I understand. Been there.

@sacampbr1 7 месяцев назад

Interesting video! 🙏🏾

@MeetStephanSpeaks 7 месяцев назад

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

@madonnabeston2708 7 месяцев назад

Right it’s true 😢

@isa1894 3 месяца назад

Everything uve said is on point. If his not one, gather strength and walk away.

@subiesims 7 месяцев назад

Does anyone know if Stephan has a video on Gaslighting? I am just learning in Therapy that I've been dealing with gaslighting for a couple years now with my ex partner and I am so tired of being confused and like I am not remembering things correctly. I finally started writing things down, called my ex out, and he said "we just see things differently". I have to co-parent with this man and I am so scared for this new journey and how to protect my mind.

@LiveWellWithElle_ 5 месяцев назад

Yes nail on the head! Wanting to PROVE the cheating. But the behavior IS enough!

@nursenatalie2.081 7 месяцев назад

Thank u for this video. Making sure I will take notes on this ❤❤❤❤

@MeetStephanSpeaks 7 месяцев назад

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

@CatHarlem 7 месяцев назад

A man I’m currently speaking with stated he pulled away from his wife (physically & emotionally) because she (for 6 yrs) made him the bad guy to HER kids. He said they would agree on rules for her teenage son & daughter. Then they would sit the kids down to communicate. He would set the rules but the wife NEVER spoke up or agreed with him in front of the kids. Therefore, their behavior never changed. He said he disconnected/pulled away from her, she eventually cheated and they divorced.

@Kitssumi 7 месяцев назад

All of these pointS are absolutely true . I was just cheated by my boyfriend. I should've listened to my intuition However i didn't instead i was questioning myself like am i being insecure or don't trust him! But All this time my intuition was true. He was cheating on me. 😔 Im so hurt its been a month yet i still cant forget him. I have forgiven him but not forgotten. I still do miss him.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 7 месяцев назад

I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

@DontTakeItLiteral 7 месяцев назад

So sorry to hear that love. Yea it sucks NOW but I promise you one day soon you will come back to this comment with literally no more feelings this guy. I promise you will get over it. This is apart of the process 💪🏽🙏🏽 Don’t hit him up, no matter how much you miss him. You will regret it later. Crying actually helps too so cry if you have to …

@thenutrientwhisperer3700 7 месяцев назад

He wasn’t right for you cuz if a “ boyfriend “ will cheat on you… he didn’t love you. F him woman. Forget him. Love your self. ❤️💗

@anissaholmes4495 4 месяца назад

If my husband did that to me it would break my heart in a thousand pieces and I could never accept him again, no matter if he still love me. To me, his love would not matter anymore.

@missjazz6266 7 месяцев назад

Spot on 💯

@MeetStephanSpeaks 7 месяцев назад

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

@missjazz6266 7 месяцев назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks you're welcome 🤍

@amuaraleah06 2 месяца назад

My ex was cheating because it lied about small things and always made excuses why he couldn’t be on the phone with me also I remember one night he lied to me saying he going to the airport to pick up my auntie but he was at home the whole time on the phone with another women . He always had an attitude with me and he stopped sharing his location then he used to gaslight me too .

@Annabee399 24 дня назад

Get it up!

@ayishaablake4397 7 месяцев назад

Loved the episode so on point. For the ladies, another few ways to tell if your man has been cheating on you is if your PH level of your 👛 changes, if his sexual behavior changes, change in cologne like he way always using Hugo Sport and decide to start buying Versace when you know he can't even spell Versace, and if you dress up to go out and he starts to question you about where are you going dressed up yeah he cheating.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 7 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

@kendraraffington4947 7 месяцев назад

Ph level is a big indicator. Couldn’t figure out why ish was always going on down there. Thankfully nothing SERIOUS. Just yeast or BV. But still. So not only was my ex husband cheating, he wasn’t even wearing a condom. Thank God I found the strength to leave. Been fresh as a daisy ever since!!

@tammiebellon1877 7 месяцев назад

Kendraraffington what did you use to get rid of BV?

@kendraraffington4947 7 месяцев назад

@@tammiebellon1877 You have to go to the doctor. There is nothing over the counter. And I am not sure any of those homeopathic remedies would work. They might mask things, but not cure. The doctor will prescribe Flagyl. Or something similar, if you are allergic to Flagyl. It kills the bacteria, as it's an anti-bacterial medication. It's like a 7 day treatment of taking pills. Something like that. Maybe 5. By day 2, you are straight, but you must take the whole course of treatment. Hope that helps!! Us girls must stick together and share all kinds of information.

@03yingying 7 месяцев назад

Lmao #1 yuppppp. Duhhh! If he trying to pick a fight so he can do his own shit, bye he leaving you to cheat. That’s obvious!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 7 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

@user-fh1tr9zp3l 7 месяцев назад

Entering into a relationship in today's world it's like Persueing a MASTERS DEGREE ? EYES EARS All five senses have to be top notch It's to much brain taxing for me Steph u made me laugh , cry , and breath a sigh of relief altogether One thing am SURE of We met cheating in this world And we will die and leave it here also Remedying this is left up to God Almighty

@MeetStephanSpeaks 7 месяцев назад

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

@simplypositiveme 7 месяцев назад

THANK YOU, I'm waiting patiently for my future husband! 😊

@MeetStephanSpeaks 7 месяцев назад

I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏

@evelisisdavis7242 6 месяцев назад

Agreed 100

@alitez960 7 месяцев назад

Over look,exactly,its the fear of unknown,been there and its horrendous,im now happy with the right man, im finally happy

@GloriaAllanah 7 месяцев назад

Can a man steal love me when he cheats on me- I’ll tell you what it really is, he’s simply going back to a place where he thinks he got SECURITY!!!!!!!SECURITY!!!!!!! Not that he doesn’t want to CHEAT AGAIN

@peopleas1healingtrauma 7 месяцев назад

Dat part 👏🏼 I kinda agree

@peopleas1healingtrauma 7 месяцев назад

Because alota Times when it comes to Those types of men It's not always that they wants u they jus don't won't nobody to have you

@peopleas1healingtrauma 7 месяцев назад

Which is selfish

@GloriaAllanah 7 месяцев назад

@@peopleas1healingtrauma in an abusive relationship that happens

@anissaholmes4495 4 месяца назад

Yes!!!!! 🙌🏻

@franciscaexposito1627 7 месяцев назад

Thats awesome 100% ❤

@loreynsantana4979 25 дней назад

That's so true even if it's hard.I needed him to cheat in order to feel free

@dmt7674 5 месяцев назад

He was asleep, and his phone fell off the nightstand and I picked it up to put it on the charger because I was getting out of bed to go to work, he woke up and reached for it immediately and I said,” what are you doing?” And he said “what?” Couldn’t that be a clear sign?

@GloriaAllanah 7 месяцев назад

He doesn’t talk about when he’s away from you cause you not interesting anymore to have a conversation with

@MeetStephanSpeaks 7 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

@ilonaadizdarevic4743 4 месяца назад

Stephan can I have one on one conversation with you ? I just need that ..this thing when you said,, you do not need to know if he is cheating other things are enough to leave..that gives me some kind of relief..but I have some questions ..I met my husband on education about carma, we are both spiritual..ayahuasca also ..everything books ..I am not sure but something is bothering me..Everything is ok now,we are 7 yrs together we have son,we have grown so much together and we are better people now,but I have some kind of feeling..How much one on one will cost me and where we can talk about details ? Sorry if I have mistakes English ,it is not my first language..

@ShereeMiller-cq7cp 6 месяцев назад

Yes 🙌

@anquinetteharri 7 месяцев назад

I've had a few tell me they were going to cheat, and they did, and I left, but I did appreciate their honesty😮

@MeetStephanSpeaks 7 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

@lataviaprice2380 7 месяцев назад

You're so handsome. Great advice God bless you

@charmainetk 7 месяцев назад

This information is all true.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 7 месяцев назад

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

@jomomma1512 7 месяцев назад

Dang! You done got on TY and told my entire store for the last 20 plus years… the kids are grown now. Love has been a battlefield, and the kids were caught in the crossfire. I rose my white flag. Uncle, uncle! I tap out!!!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 7 месяцев назад

I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

@towandaallen314 7 месяцев назад

So true, I know I come from a whole different school, if I can't love, respect you, we need to part ways with, ease, grace, wish one another well, and keep it moving! Who does that, checking someone phone, that is how you know you are not mature enough to be in a relationship, who does that, many and sad! 😵😵😵😵😵😵People get the signs, don't be pay attention, I don't even deal with people that are not present, if they like the phone so much, go be with your phone and have a nice day! Get it 😜😜😜😜😜

@MeetStephanSpeaks 7 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

@marciawade9101 7 месяцев назад

ALL OF THIS! 👏👏👏 Besides, phones are personal to each one of us, so, checking someone's phone, in my opinion, is a violation of someone's privacy. I'd NEVER do it.

@deserietorrez5523 7 месяцев назад

What is wrong with someone….when you know there is cheating but can’t leave? How does a person get help for this? If already done many counseling sessions for the years and years of the relationship. 😢

@eigthhousefallen 4 месяца назад

They just get two phones and hide the other one in the car

@angryanglervsacrobat577 5 месяцев назад

Vice versa

@zaramosesmakeup 7 месяцев назад

Stephan. I’ve been following you and you’re super dope and real. I love listening to you. But hey, I am still yet to see a video on a man spending his dough on you. What’s the deal? Is there a timeframe? Is there a specific kind of man that does? How do we connect on this? Bestest, Z

@teebookwriter 7 месяцев назад

I am dating a man who gets text messages from his ex. He says its nothing and she sends positive messages and she lives with her boyfriend. I think he is still emotionally attached to her and her boyfriend probably has no idea she is texting him..I'm thinking about moving on. We don't check each other's phone and I don't text men or have men friends..

@beefaye6861 7 месяцев назад

Omg....I went thru that....plez believe its something still there.....cuz they are an EX for a reason.....I don't keep exes as friends.....thats dangerous.

@RickJamesBitch108 7 месяцев назад

If it’s a dealbreaker for you, leave. I’ve been there before, it’s disrespectful.

@windysmith7367 6 месяцев назад

Been there. Boyfriend wouldn’t put a stop to it. He knew it was disrespectful and bothered me. He was getting a lot out of it…very selfish behavior.

@jamieolivarez9083 7 месяцев назад

When a man says “all men cheat” definitely going to do it! 😮 this happened to me. Phone games too, my ex was acting weird when I discovered he was cheating. He took into the bathroom all the sudden! All the time when he would be on the phone all that much. Then all the he was having an affair.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 7 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

@eleverett77 3 месяца назад

A professional cheater knows what to do, how to do it and when as well as where. They are slick and they are able to deceive easily, especially if he's disrespectful and able to lie so easily, then want affection or to be sexual but not give in many other areas, in which feeds into a woman in honestly loving her and feeding into her. It's not going to happen. They want you to give to them while they take from you and will you use you and keep you because you're good to them, while they'll be awful to you! Drain you off all you have within and leave you in that state unless you see your worth!!! Give to yourself ladies!!! Love yourself more! It's a sad deal when you fall into this trap! 7 years of the same repetition. Almost killed me on every level. Until i woke up and pulled back and stopped being sexual because of the abuse. I can't give myself to someone who doesn't see my value! Let alone not able to trust when they've proved who they are!!!

@ashh651 7 месяцев назад

I really don’t have any reasons to suspect my man cheating on me but I can’t stop stressing all day everyday that he is :( idk what’s wrong with me

@bnb0510 7 месяцев назад

Your intuition is a valuable tool. Don’t ignore it!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 7 месяцев назад

Always important to listen to your intuition

@ScarletteRose164 7 месяцев назад

Trust yourself and investigate. Or are you around other women who are being cheated on that triggers this feeling? If there are no external factors making you think this, then something isn't right with the relationship internally. Women have a stronger connection to our intuition for a reason. We are weaker and cannot risk getting into a situation we can't get out of physically. It's ingrained in our DNA for us to survive based on intuition while men have physical strength, they can remove themselves from dangerous situations once it starts, we cannot so easily. Just watch him and observe, men always reveal themselves. If he isn't, then he has no reason to worry.

@Kirra713 7 месяцев назад

That’s your intuition

@ashh651 7 месяцев назад

@@Kirra713 intuition or paranoia cause it’s happened to me before? Never really know.

@user-wk3tv8wd3i 7 месяцев назад

omggggg the gaslighting is soooo true i was called crazy when i bring up how he was moving as if he was cheating or it was another woman, and i was always called crazy, i need to chill out this and that, you assuming stuff this and that, but you not coming home so which is it dude. thats whats gonna make a woman crazy, when the signs are in her face but being told otherwise lol

@SarahBecheker 13 дней назад

It’s so exhausting my husband said that I am a potential cheater?! When I love him and cherish him the most!!! I don’t understand he said he’s thinking of divorce and left me he said I will get back to you in 14 days don’t message me until then? What does all this means?

@dmix2263 7 месяцев назад

If he is in a toxic relationship and he knows it, all I can do is lead him to God. His abuser is dying sadly.

@db7756 7 месяцев назад

The most painful 💔 experience . I discovered stephan speaks after my experience , I would have never made it😅, gaaaaad its terrible. As crazy as it may sound, I am glad he cheated it was necessary! I needed a push to leave his dysfunctional (love) for goooooood 😅 There's no honor no honor at all! Thank you Stephan

@MeetStephanSpeaks 7 месяцев назад

I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

@db7756 7 месяцев назад

Thank you, ❤❤

@Jillian15 25 дней назад

Also when grown-ass men are too close to their mother. They will cheat because Mamma will support their actions. They can move back in with her. Fact!!!

@zeal4god402 7 месяцев назад

A man or woman isn't expressing love in its purest form at that time of cheating

@theresaaguiar4549 7 месяцев назад

You said, he picks fights to leave, how can you say you need to find out why you argue. If he's always picking a fight, how is that her fault?

@agnesramaditse4647 4 месяца назад

I'm currently pregnant, just found out my boyfriend has been cheating on me with multiple ladies, I broke up with him and to cut all ties, but now we have a baby on the way and must plan everything together, Doctors appointments, baby clothes etc. How do I go about with this??

@elettramia6380 2 месяца назад

You don’t have to plan anything together physically. He doesn’t have to be at the doctor appointments nor does he have to pick out baby clothes with you. What he does need to do is help you with the baby and anything the baby needs but you need to cut off physically being around him. Yes it is important to co parent but you are Not in a relationship any more and you need to fully comprehend that and start making boundaries

@cynthiaziegler6558 3 месяца назад

My ex cheated on me over and over again.

@francesbernard2445 7 месяцев назад

Those same kind of men often show signs in their behavior that they are not marriage material early on in our interactions with them. When we start taking time away from T.V. and Hollywood movies that is constant glamorizing that sort of thing then the average woman starts noticing those signs better. Like during the Hollywood writers guild strike too.