The Allegations of Sienna Mae | A TikTok Nightmare 

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Jack: she assaulted me Sienna’s legal team: people just hate to see a girlboss win😩✊✨

Jack tearing up and saying "I don't know if she'll ever be sorry. I don't know if she'll ever learn from what she did, or ever admit what she did." just killed me inside. That's the worst place to be in. Someone changing your life forever in such a scarring way and wondering if they even care. If it'll even matter.

Imagine Jeff Dahmer apologizing to the relatives of his 17 victims by breakdancing in the courtroom

Partner rape is not easy to talk about, and men being raped by women is not easy to talk about. I can't imagine how hard it was for him to come out about this, especially in front of millions of people. My heart goes out to the kid, he's so young and having to put such a personal thing out to everyone. I hope he's able to heal

I can't believe people born in 2004 are old enough to have scandals Edit: please can all the 2004 babies stop freaking out in the replies. This was a joke about me feeling old not about y'all being children. I'm fully aware someone born in 2004 is now an adult 💀

the fact that she made a dance video in response to her allegations is baffling. Edit: OMG COLLEEN BALLINGER

imagine looking back on all this and thinking "wow this is the second worst apology video i ever saw" because that's the hellscape we exist in now.

“Worst response to any controversy I’ve ever seen” Colleen Ballinger: *takes out ukulele*

I absolutely hate that her actions are referred to as "crossing boundries." No, she committed assault, point blank. I hate she basically got away with it.

The fact that she pretty much got away with it is crazy. She did NO reflecting and learned nothing, and you can tell she has no concept of how much damage she caused, or that she just doesn’t care. Probably the latter.

I think the takeaway here is this girl VERY narcissistic, immature, and selfish. It's wild to me that she thought she was going to marry this guy when they HAVEN'T EVEN DATED. Also, that lawyer is wild. Just wild. I can't imagine what she was thinking participating in this video.

Man. Hearing Jack's birth date really hit me. He's barely a month older than my little brother. Idk why but that just stunned me for a bit. I hope he's receiving the support he deserves right now.

Just an FYI for those who aren't familiar with SoCal, Laguna Niguel is one of the wealthiest neighborhoods in the nation. This girl without question comes from lots and lots of money. I think that explains a lot of her behavior, as she fits the stereotypical OC brat we all know in the area.

the thing that bothered me most about her ‘debunking jack wright’ video thingy, was her “why didn’t you report me immediately?” because there’s a lot of factors that SA victims go through these things such as some fearing that they wouldn’t be believed, some feared being hurt again, some were ashamed and some wondered if it was truly their fault that it happened. - sometimes, the age, gender or race comes into play, especially male survivors; they’re not usually believed so that’s why most kept to themselves. anyways, that “why didn’t you report me?” point was weak

Sienna Mae comes off like one of those pretty, popular "perfect" girls in high school who are so used to everyone obsessing over them that once they get rejected or they find someone who won't worship the ground they walk on, they lose their minds 😂

I am absolutely not a victim of sexual assault; however, the way she gaslights, manipulates, and attacks people while trying just barely to maintain her image and "take it offline" so that she can hurt her victim more in private... Reminds me almost word for word, vibe for vibe of my ex. This is a hard watch. I feel so bad for Jack. Nobody deserves to be hurt like that, and I know firsthand that the emotional abuse immediately after the boundary-setting can make closure so incredibly hard to find. Jesus

I feel so bad with jack having his SA become a public discussion. I'm glad his friends stand behind him, but God this must've been a stressful situation for him

To be clear: You don't need to have sex to sexually assault someone. That's NOT a requirement. No is no. And if someone's out cold, that's a no from the jump...in case anyone had any doubts...even if they're your partner. You can't touch someone sexually when they're out cold. Hell, even kissing him like she was, constitutes assault.

Can't believe he essentially got stalked and she just got away with it, even with all the evidence. I feel terrible for him, I hope he gets the help he needs

This story is just so heartbreaking. I can't even imagine being in Jack's shoes. Having to tell my own story in this way is so terrifying. The fact people keep calling it "crossing boundaries" is infuriating. A lot of people called him out for the cuts, it hurt my heart when I saw the cuts because to me it meant he had to collect himself or it was getting to be too much. I hope Jack is able to find some healing and peace. I hope she gets some help, if she doesn't I have a feeling she'll just leave a trail of people just like Jack in her wake.

Something that really bothers me about Sienna is how she throws around the fact she's a latina as a way to defend herself Using the fact latino/hispanic women tend to be sexualized to her favor As a latina myself this behavior is disgusting, she's using the struggles a lot of us deal with as a way to defend her literally committing SA, unacceptable smh

I earnestly hope Jack has a therapist and a strong support system. As someone who was stalked by an ex-boyfriend who was emotionally and sexually abusive, these events are DEEPLY traumatic and it took me years to even get a modicum of inner peace. I wish people understood that your crushes and romantic interests are WHOLE people with desires and boundaries. You aren’t entitled to anyone’s space unless you are given permission.

As a victim of SA (I was 11 when my experience happened) I feel horrible for Jack. It’s horrible this happened to him REGULARLY.

Wow. I had such a similar experience with a guy who was supposed to be my ”best friend.” He kept crossing my boundaries just like this, but since he had been my best friend for years, I kept forgiving him. And every time I’d bring it up, he’d act like it was an accident or deny it or play dumb. Sometimes he’d own up to it, apologize (still have the texts🙃) and then do it again the next day. It’s been almost 2 years since I cut him off completely but the whole thing has really fucked me up. This shit is infuriating.

I’m glad you’ve been covering female predators, it’s been disgusting hearing defenders try and say they’d love this kind of stuff happening to them “if they were in the abused’s position”. Predators need to be called out and this social perception HAS to change

My heart fucking broke for Jack when he said she did things like this so regularly that he thought it was "normal" and he even blamed himself sometimes. No one deserves to go through this, I hope he's doing alright now.

She wanted him, he didn't want her, and she wasn't okay with that. The little brat took every opportunity to "claim" what she thought was her's, even though she knew he hated it. She probably thought she could wear him down till he gave in. I'm so glad he didn't. Sad thing is, she probably won't lose enough followers to really make a dent in her bank account, so she'll continue to be a terrible person until serious consequences happen to her. My question is about her intentions to be with him. Were they genuine feelings she had (though very obsessive and possessive) or did she wanna get with him because the shipping her fans did of them brought her the most views? If they'd made it official, her ratings would've probably skyrocketed. It might be a bit of both. I get a lot of "I didn't get what I wanted, so I'm pissed" vibes from her. I hope Jake is doing okay. He seems like a genuinely nice kid. I'm glad his friends and brother are sticking by him.

Hearing Jack talk about his experience is heartbreaking, you can tell he puts a lot responsibility on himself for what happened. I hope he's doing alright, I know it's very hard to work through things like this especially when the person hurting you gets away with little to no consequences

I get secondhand embarrassment when I see people as painfully un-self aware as sienna mae.

Big kudos to the victim’s friends. This easily could have been a toxic “guys can’t be sexually assaulted” mentality. Some cases where female teachers prey on their male students had male classmates applaud the victim as if this was a stereotype frat boy conquest and not a crime or moral black hole.

Hearing the pain in his voice, knowing that the only way that he could have some sort of relief, was to speak on something he probably wasn't ready to say, I can sadly relate.

remembering how this used to be the most insane/worst "apology" ever... oooh colleen came for the crown with the ukulele the internet is NOT REAL

I think the fact that I've never heard of any of these social media "influencers" until this channel covers them is a sign that I'm doing something right in life.

This is ugh, disgusting. I was raped by my ex boyfriend, and yes I had sex with him before, kissed him, touched him, but when he raped me I said no, several times and he did not care, and just because we kissed before that doesn't mean it was consensual. There's no excuse, I hope he gets better from this terrible relationship, narcicist people are everywhere, and I am so glad he spoke about it after all, cause I can't imagine how difficult it was.

Lmao there is literally no difference between "upper thigh" and "crotch" in this context, can't believe she said that dead-ass

Narcissists can't handle rejection of any level.

“God gave me this platform for a reason” no honey, it’s just an excess of privilege and resulting arrogance

The entire podcast with her "lawyer" made me just feel so gross, none of them have any regard for Jack's feelings and how damaging this has been to him it's absolutely disgusting

I’ve known girls who had a bad habit of getting too handsy with guys or other girls they were into and when they’d get told to stop would be like “but that’s my way of showing love! I have too much love to give!” Just like Sienna. Too many young women think they can get away with it. And sadly, many do.

Someone should put her dance to Toxic Gossip Train.

That legal document was disturbing to hear read, using her race and gender to invalidate jacks claims is unbelievable

I worked as a sexual assault victim advocate for several years and male victims of sexual assault, particularly if the perpetrators are women, are so often shamed and ignored (when I say often, I mean ALMOST ALWAYS). I am glad people are talking about this, but I wish there were more real world consequences for her. She got away with sexual assault ON CAMERA. It is absurd.

I have an ex that sexually assaulted and raped me regularly. He thought that because he could guilt me into letting him do it and because I consented the first time it was okay every time. It’s disgusting that anyone thinks that just because behavior is consented to and okay in one situation that it’s okay in other situations. I don’t care what the relationship is, you have to get consent every single time or it’s assault.

Jack you are a brave young man as so many males don’t come forward (As a fellow survivor I applaud you, well done)

Wtf, I almost fell out of my chair when you said she was born in 2004! She is literally a year younger than me and has a had a whole ass internet scandal, and I'm here still trying not to fail university

"We didn't have sex." Is that the qualifier she thinks makes sexual assault legit? That's completely wrong, and it seems like she thinks that way.

I was SA'd by my then boyfriend on my 21st birthday when I was passed out. He was from a very affluent family and a part of a fraternity so to make any claims against him was beyond intimidating. It took me years to even wrap my head around what it was that happened even when it happened another time after followed by an attempt on a separate occasion. I am sure she thinks she did nothing wrong - they have kissed before and touched, maybe not in a sexual way, but they have been skin to skin. Just like my ex. But that doesn't mean that performing actions on someone - even if they have consented to those things before- when they cannot consent is not ok. It doesn't matter what age you are or what gender. This is exactly why the "me too"movement started. To give support to those who have been abused and are silenced by those with a great amount of power, money or influence. And for the lawyer to have the audacity to dismiss and diminish his claims because he did not file a report etc etc. is ridiculous. Not only is it blatant victim shaming/blaming but it's called the dark figure and even a freshman level criminology class will tell you that over half of SA and R go unreported for numerous reasons. And I feel for this young man. I was not believed that I was assaulted because I was told it wasn't " violent" or "typical R" and that it was by a boyfriend so I do "qualify" to be a "victim" or to be as upset as I am and just a bunch of other really crass things. I cannot even imagine for a young man to be SA'd because even the "typical victims," females, often have uphill battles to climb in order to be believed. I'm sure he has and is facing a lot of shit for coming out and saying what he did. It's not "flattering" or "cool" that this young women kept violating his boundaries.

the editing in this is superb! Your narration is some of the best I've heard in the commentary community as well.

I love her legal team’s reasoning behind Jack doing this. “Oh it’s just a bunch of 20 year old male white devils that hate to see a Latina girlboss win and nothing more.” I feel bad for him because there is probably nothing that will come out of this. But at least the internet knows that she seems like a gaslighting, disingenuous, and frankly awful person.

I hate it when influencers in these situations always act like the victims are to blame for not "keeping things a private matter" or not dealing with it personally - it is absolutely perfectly reasonable to want the influencer in these situations to have their fanbase understand what is going on, and the victims have no obligation to have to go face-to-face with their abusers in the process

This is the 3rd video of your's I've watched tonight and I have literally never heard of any of these people. You do a really good job of making all of the information digestible and entertaining. Thank you for making content!

At risk of putting myself in some hot water, I'm going to express how absolutely infuriated the defense of "well there's no legal proceedings or investigations so obviously Sienna never did any of these things" makes me If you fucking stub your toe home alone and no one sees it, you still stubbed your fucking toe. Here's the part that may make my life a little difficult: My last boyfriend (last both because he was the last person I dated and because I've since realized I'm a lesbian and won't ever date men again) SAd me. Multiple times. Over a period of at least a year. There will never be legal proceedings, I have no proof but my own word. Hell, I'm pretty sure I wouldn't even be able to use my own testimony at this point because of how long I waited to tell anyone But it still *happened.* He still assaulted me, even if he would argue we were consenting adults (note that these events were sometimes directly violent, sometimes the line of consent was too blurry to ever be called safe and healthy), but he still did those things to me and the fact I have these memories The idea that anyone could ever think "well the police aren't involved so clearly nothing happened" is a good response to any of this makes me so genuinely ill because this shit is what kept me from telling anyone what was happening to me until I had already dumped the f***er and kicked him out of my house.

I see a lot of people defending her with stuff like “men can’t be raped” (which isn’t even true for man on man, there’s a reason altar boys and priests are such a punchline) and “women can’t rape” (again, nuns and altar boys). It’s just a bummer that in an age where it’s getting easier and easier to not only call out someone on this sort of behaviour, old messages and hipocrisy still run so damn deep.

As weird as it sounds, I’ve been really glad to see female abusers getting more coverage. I hope the “women are always innocent” and “men always ask for it/want it” beliefs will start being phased out and people will start questioning these biases more. I know I personally have this unconscious bias and I’ve been unlearning it in the past year. Jack is amazingly brave for speaking out, as a survivor myself having spoken out about someone in my community, I cannot even IMAGINE that level of attention times 1000! I hope he gets what he needs in therapy and can heal from this.

Jack seemed so genuine, heartbroken, and vulnerable in his response video while Sienna's videos are incredibly defensive and aggressive. Unfortunately, male sexual assault victims are often disregarded. I'm not surprised it took him so long to say something.

“I was so used to it…….it was normal for me.” That broke my heart!I hope the poor kid learns to not blame himself.I know it’s hard,but it’s not your fault.(I know from my own experiences that it’s hard not to blame yourself.)

I absolutely hate when rapists or sex offenders try and justify their actions by bringing in their age like the whole “you don’t wanna ruin a young mans life” or “she’s young she’ll make mistakes” is so sinister to me and it’s disgusting assault is assault of you are 17 you definitely know better

It's bothersome how Sienna uses Jack consenting to acts they performed on camera(no different from actors) to excuse her kissing and touching him when he wasn't awake to consent and when he previously said he didn't want anything more than a friendship. Imo it's a dangerous mindset to believe you have control over someone and their body just because of past actions with them. I feel for Jack, he seemily was continuously disregard by someone he saw as a friend who seems to think little of the sexual harassment/assault she did to him. Hearing him speak on his experience, you give friends benefit of the doubt because their your friend and I dont believe its your fault if your friend uses your kindness against you.

It makes me so furious that she gets to live her life unaffected and happy while the things she did and said to jack will be permanently stuck in his brain and that’s not fair. The fact that she lied makes me even madder. I just feel like she should of went to jail because if it happened the other way around jack would have some serious consequences. It’s just not fair

It’s a real toss up which makes a worse apology, this or the Toxic Gossip train song.

I was a teenager when I was sexually assaulted by two female classmates. They cornered me, groped me, humiliated and mocked me. It took me until my twenties to realize that what happened to me was wrong because I was raised to believe women can't be perpetrators. I hope Sienna will eventually suffer consequences. Not just for Jack's sake. But for everyone who had been attacked and was never taken seriously.

Literally every victim blaming tactic in the book is in those first response videos alone. "Why were you touchy with me a week later then" "remember when I comforted you and brought you food" "why did you wait so long to say something then" etc. She seems so manipulative that she believes her own manipulation and has become delusional. Stand with SA survivors no matter their gender.

This was put together and edited beautifully

Bro your intros go HARD wtf, I love the bass-y music and editing

The worst part is she obviously doesn't think she did anything wrong. And this happens more often to men and boys than people realize. My 15yo son experienced something a couple weeks ago with a girl who repeatedly wasn't respecting his boundaries after he clearly told her he just wanted to be friends. She kept trying to forcefully kiss him every time they spent time together. And I could tell he was really shaken up by it. He cares about her as a friend but doesn't want to be put in that situation again. I told him the best thing to do is stop being friends with her. Its a really difficult situation, and not something he'd want to go to the police or the school over. But I do hope she doesn't continue this behavior with other people

Jack saying “i don’t know if i’ll ever be the person i was before i met sienna” broke my heart. i get the feeling.

Your intros and general editing style. Scrap that, your videos in general are so great in so many ways, there the perfect fit in between TRO and Sunnyv2. Different enough to stand out but not two much as to be one of those drama channels. Also those intros really do feel like a super intense Netflix preveiw

That lawyer was quite possibly the worst I've ever seen at lawyer speak. She couldn't talk her way around any of those questions well, she stammered over her words instead of speaking confidently, she was far too flippant sounding for the subject matter. There's a line you walk when defending someone against accusations (especially when, according to Sienna, this was misplaced from someone else assaulting him so he is a victim and you still need to be sensitive that he needs help) that you have to be respectful and well-spoken but firm in the denials. She failed every part of that. Whoever hired her did a terrible job vetting her - or they sent her with Sienna on purpose because they just didn't like Sienna that much.

the fact that Jack cuts out many parts in the video were he was crying (which are obvious bc there's a cut and afterwards his voice is shaky, eyey red, etc.) says much about him and his sincerity compared to people who dramatically cry on camera in order to get sympathy and pity

I can’t get over how disgusting her “apology” interpretive dance video was. Truly embarrassing.

Can’t believe she still has a platform or brand deals, she walked away with no repercussions

I've dealt with people like her in high school. Those people like to push others around to feel powerful, but also need to be loved by everyone, and when you call them out on it they'll do whatever they need to do to stay in the spotlight.

She comes off as a person who’s so used to getting what she wants and thinks so highly of herself that when he basically said no her brain couldn’t comprehend it. So she forced herself on him because it’s what SHE wanted and didn’t really care if he wanted it or not cause “why wouldn’t he I’m perfect”. The girl needs a reality check, therapy and maybe some jail time

Unfortunately, men actually getting justice for sexual assaults like this is the *massive exception, not the rule.* We can only hope this case starts to change things for the better!

The dance was the worst part. Imagine being a victim of SA and then seeing this circus show as a response to your allegations 💀

Your videos are frickin’ brilliant, man, keep up the amazing work!

She keeps emphasizing they didn’t have sex and I’m like “yeah, I know, he didn’t want to have sex with you. you assaulted him”

i legitimately almost started crying when jack talked about how it became normal for the assault to happen. no one should ever have to go through that. my heart breaks for him :(

As someone with trauma of my own, while watching Jack's video it's hard not to notice his hands. I do the exact same thing when I'm talking about my trauma (granted I've got PTSD so it happens when I'm experiencing my flashbacks sometimes too): messing with fingers, grasping onto my finger and pulling, clenching fists, cracking knuckles, etc. And, as the topics get more and more upsetting, Jack's hands ramp up, moving faster, grasping harder. It's clear he's telling the truth and I can only hope that he's been going to therapy to help learn how to cope

"I'm young and I'm still learning" is the most annoying non-apology. It's sisters,"I'm new to this and going to make some mistakes." and ,"I don't mean to hurt anyone and apologize to anyone who feels that I've hurt them" are close seconds.

Oh, THIS chick😳 Abuse is abuse, no matter your age. She doesn’t get a “pass” for being a young adult. I’m so glad Wright stood up, not just for himself by taking his story public, but also for all men who are victims and survivors of abuse. It’s real and it’s devastating.

As a man who was assaulted for years by a woman, Jack's seated position and the way he cries is interesting - it's very similar to my own body language when discussing it with a therapist. I feel for him... hope he gets the help he needs to overcome the feelings I know he must have

Watching this a year later and it is insane how she still has such a huge following and all of this has been swept under the rug.

them trying to say hes just slandering her is so dumb to me cause if he was benefitting off their fake relationship so much then he has no reason to burn that bridge unless what he was saying was true

whatever narrative she tried to build pre apology Dance Audition Video was shattered the moment she made that. not only did she essentially admit to all of the accusations thrown at her, she showcased a really strong unapologetic personality which made people more annoyed with her.

I love how your example of a sincere and tactful apology is Jenna marbles. A true queen

YEA RIGHT. IT MUST BE SO HARD FOR HER THAT SHE SA’D HER “FRIEND”. It broke my heart when he said that “ he will never be the same” “that there is a part of him that wants to blame himself, because he was nice to her” , cause I can relate so much.

"did you eat today" seems like a genuine ana recovery promotion. i don't get the back lash

sienna: “post your proof, or send it to me and i’ll post it.” also sienna: “i tried multiple times to keep this offline”

glad you’re not afraid to talk about female sexual assaults. “men can’t be r*ped” i feel is one of the most harmful things that can be said. best wishes to jack

i'm pretty sure i've watched this sometime before, but as a victim myself of falling into a cycle of problematic behavior, the way jack spoke about sienna's consistent behavior becoming normalized to him made me jolt a little. it reflected how i feel about my own situation, and ultimately, i feel so awful for him. SA is something that anyone can do no matter gender, and anyone can be a victim. wonderful video.

As someone with a restrictive ED, while I appreciate my fiance and parents reminding me to eat (I forget all the time) I would never wanna see it on a shirt like that in person, it seems harmless but I think what most people forget is how hard it is to actually get yourself to start eating again when youre used to not eating, in fact seeing reminders like that can actually make the problem worse and make people feel shamed for not having healthy eating habits My ED (ARFID), while not tied to body image as a driving factor, is immensely psychologically damaging to me, I can do an entire day eating nothing but I've been eating like this since I was little, the problem only getting worse as I've gotten older and have more space to think about it, I constantly beat myself up over not consuming enough for my body to physically survive and it makes it hard for me to even look at or think about food most of the time, it makes me feel physically ill, even being in the kitchen can be too much A shirt saying "did you eat today" is honestly insulting, like oh yeah sure, as if I hadn't thought about it all day and the mental turmoil and stress from the thought of consuming more than a handful of craisins makes me actively want to vomit Thanks for the reminder that we arent normal Sienna

Why does she think a lawyer will somehow give her more credibility? A lawyer's job is to defend their client, not to be a beacon of truth. Her lawyer is there to defend her, regardless of whether she's guilty or innocent. Both the lawyer and "forensics expert" are both being paid by Sienna to make her look good. And all the "forensics expert" was able to claim was that the video was technically not long enough to be used in court, NOT that the video is fake or that Jack's claims about what happened were wrong. Sienna is such a manipulative, conceited, and self centered person. It makes me laugh that she claims she wanted to keep all of this private as to not minimize sexually assault. It's obvious to anyone with a brain that she wanted to keep it private for herself. She doesn't give a shit about Jack, she just doesn't want the internet to find out what a truly scummy person she is. I hope one day she learns from her mistakes and takes accountability for her actions. I pray that she won't hurt anyone else.

i chuckled with irony when the statements from her legal team said (paraphrased) "this is unfortunately the usual tactics used to undermine successful women of colour" because as i listened to the whole thing, it sounded like the usual tactics used to undermine victims who had the _audacity_ to come forward with their abuse.

This breaks my heart hearing jack speak about his SA, you can see he’s hurting and trying to stay strong

@jaubrey Thank you so much for covering this, its always tough to watch videos about her Glad I found this even though its been a while since you posted it -Jacks older brother

i will never be able to understand how fame 'makes' people SA others. they always blame their 'difficult lifestyle that no one prepared them for' and is..someone needs to prepare you to not SA someone??? these kinds of people are messed up in the head

and people wonder why men don't speak up about their emotions, vulnerabilities, or trauma. the amount of stretching she had to do to the narrative to make herself even resemble a victim is disgusting and the fact that people still defend her is even more disgusting

She says she loved him but what she really loved was the control she had over him