The ALPHAS' Girlfriends Can't Stop Fighting... 

I already miss John and his giant manbaby tantrums.

John was simultaneously massive and emotionally unstable which meant the other guys couldn't be too wild, that is why he had to be ejected

Everything Charm said he loves about his girlfriend was ABOUT HIM!

Gotta say my favorite part still has been T Shaw telling his Asian GF Asians aren’t his type 😂

There was basically a “girl version of tool academy” called charm school with girls from other vh1 dating shows

Charm is a narcissist. Everything is just about him. Everything he likes about his girlfriend, is that she does this for him, does that for him, there is not a single thing about *her* that he likes that isn't her just doing things for him. I was surprised Gunnar didn't pick up on that, when they said for him to say what he liked about his girlfriend, and it was all about himself and nothing actually about her (and that's when Charm was really trying!). He's such a blatant narcissist. Which is why he doesn't get along with anybody. He doesn't care, it's just all about him and him alone.

The fact she stayed after the "you look beautiful" is absolutely insane

The fact they all waited for John to leave to start acting tough… Immediately shows how tough they aren’t 😂

dre p and leah leaving honestly kinda surprised me. they had issues moreso with everyone else than eachother they seemed pretty strong together this far lmao

Charm surviving this shit like Rambo each episode.

"Did I say something wrong? What did you want me to say?" No hope for this tool.

man the "you re just a tool" line hits so damn hard every time

Literally what is Charm bringing to the table? He's cocky, he's annoying, it's obvious that he only loves her for the things she does for him. He progressively gets worse as the show goes on. Ironic that his name is Charm yet he has none

26:45 she spins it whatever way she wants, I imagine her just as easily saying: "they're not taking this challenge seriously this might prove detrimental for their relationship"

Gunnar... therapy is not about "getting people to calm down" lmao Leah's being emotionally irresponsible by making it someone's fault for making her lose control. Dre P even said the same thing "she's gonna lose control if you keep yelling." Trina, as crazy as she may be, is redirecting the attention to a matter that Dre P and Leah have become experts in diverting attention from. Amanda (?) is going a little nuts but it's because she's been dealing with someone who's been talking over her nonstop and then makes it her problem when she finally can say something

Charm School is the girl version of Tool Academy. I think there's 2 seasons & Lacey is a mental monster

Leah: get out of my face Gets up to get into amandas face

"i love that youre al;ways thinking of me" sounds so weird, like he may be saying shes caring about him, but also like a cult leader like "yessss think only of me!" lmaoo

As much as it looks “wimpy” or whatever, I have some respect for how Amanda handled Leah coming at her. With their body language, Amanda made it obvious she didn’t want a physical altercation. She visibly cowered down, she’s clearly not a fighter😂 But she wasn’t going to let Leah just have the last word or easily bulldoze her with intimidation tactics either, so she’d cower down and then go right back to yapping😂 Kind of iconic honestly.

No fucking way Charm pulled the "you got no friends"

I am genuinely surprised the random nonsense Dan was spouting at the end actually managed to save his relationship

bruh charm literally had nothing that he truly liked about his girlfriend all he mentioned were thing that she does for him smh

Bruh the producers knew. Maybe katrina is actually some kind of therapy sociopath or something. They KNEW when the insurance losers made them kick off big John L they were immediately going to need to eject Charm and probably T Shaw on the next episode to get the show back on track. 😂😂

From a therapist-Trina was actually on point this episode. She elicited the reality of the relationships and was even able to get Leah to reveal herself as the real tool. If you flip it, Dre P was doing exactly what the girlfriends would do to prevent anger outbursts. Also, this challenge is the reason John had to be eliminated for the very reason you stated 😂

Jon was the embodiment of "almost lost my cool there"

15:37 oof. That's a really unhealthy dynamic. A child should not have to appease an adult so that they regulate their own emotions. That's how you end up with people pleasing adults

10:21 I have a feeling he actually did a perfect job communicating his thoughts in the moment, it's just that his thoughts were on the level of a child so they sound horrible and unhelpful when he says it out loud

I just wish John would come back Punch Charm And then leave without saying a word 💀💀

Imagine he turns to Tina one episode and says "sorry Tina your just a fool"

Leah for sure needed to work on her temper in her relationship but I wholeheartedly would be just as pissed if some strangers touched my stuff. #1: Why do you care? #2 Why did they decide to steal her things instead of approaching her first?

John L was still robbed. Edit: If Charm isn't one of the two eliminated after that "therapy" session...and of course Trina comes out to coddle him. Edit2: The lady in the blue who works for the show who kept ducking out of the room when Leah would start fighting is hilarious. I think Dre P might get eliminated because of Leah. Edit3: Trina was clearly impressed by Charm in his initial video and wants to keep him around because of his helicopter skills.

thank you for not being racist in the intro, Gunnar

I am so pissed. Leah has stayed yelling over and fighting with everyone all episode, yet the second Amanda shoots back she cowers with her boyfriend and takes the victim route. Disgusting.

Leah is an emotional wreck, but gunner doesn’t really understand that until she starts crying 😂😂😂

What do you love about your girlfriend? Charm: MEMEMEMEMEMEMEMEMEMEMEMEMEMEMEMEMEME

Charm is a straight up narcissist. He loves that his girlfriend is always doing things for him and thinking about him and making HIM the center of her life. That's it. Charm loves Charm.

I'm callin it, I think stu's gonna win. He's in the prime backburner spot that Josh was in season 1 where they just put their head down and do the work

I swear I've heard therapists advise individuals with anger issues to exit the room to cool off before returning to discuss a problem because at that level of anger communication is rarely constructive, especially if Leah has anger issues that lead to her throwing things which could be dangerous??? Idk I personally wouldn't want to keep trying to discuss something with someone that angry cause it's just talking to a brick wall atp

Gummy Mummy you need to see the British version of this. It's insane.

When Andrea said that I don't get along with anybody that really hurt me... bro it hurt you bc it's true LOL

Gunnar you can't feed into the way that Leah is acting. Honestly good on the other girls for trying to keep their mouths shut and not feed into the childishness

God. I'm 29 seconds in and I miss John. EDIT: I looked up John and found his Instagram. He's alive, owns his own businesses, and also sometimes cross dresses? Overall it's a kinda weird mixed bag.

All he said was I love that I'm important to you three different ways

10:09 the loud fountain the whole time ahhahahha

John was truly the glue of this show 😢

The couple that was butt hurt (I'm not learning names) sore loser... I think they WON the communication challenge.... they are so broken but they can communicate with each other just no one else.

“Know what I love about you? ME.”

The smirk with the little chad giggle gunner has 😂 Whenever I find myself with a case of the stressy-depressies, it makes me smile haha

im the alpha, im the leader, im the one to trust 🐺🐺

leah is so wildly emotionally immature good lord

gunnar we all know leah was building that furniture purely out of spite for the other girls

"I'm progressing too quickly for this show" "We're actually too good for Tool Academy" is crazy

Stream crashed, and we got to see the top half of Gunner shirtless, and I am not complaining

I think what charm is a really good representation of that sometimes people give you the answer and you need to accept it, instead of thinking that you didn’t get one because it wasn’t the answer you wanted. He proves every day that he will never actually care about anything but himself, and if she expected anything from him for her, that he won’t do it since all he cares about is what she can do for him . And he should feel like a loser because he is one.

Leah 110% seems like a bad girls club reject

Gunnar boops his mom to calm her down. Now it's cannon, can't be unseen

That fountain while Charm was talking was so freaking loud and distracting

I would have loved a version of this show but it's about the girlfriends and their dark secrets

33:58 this is the first time she had to listen to her BF and follow his instructions. That says a lot.

RIP big John and that great vibe he had... maybe they'll do a reunion lol imagine.

Wait, the women that are dating tools are also tools? SHOCKER! LMAO

man john was the reason this season was good

Leah is the one showing a complete lack of confidence, she is literally terrified of hearing a complete thought from Amanda, Amanda making a calm request to have an open discussion about the conflict between them, showed immense self confidence, that she is willing to treat Leah with respect, despite Leah earning 0, and a surprisingly high level of emotional intelligence, especially for someone who is on this, or any, reality show. Gunner, have you heard of “The Pacifier,” in psychology? I hope you have someone in your life that you are comfortable being completely honest and vulnerable with, whether they are a professional therapist, counselor, or just a very good friend, if you can’t say, to yourself, with complete honesty, you might consider looking into finding someone who can fill that role. Even the most well adjusted people, stand to benefit immensely, from therapy.

Dre P's album is a banger. He plays the skin flute and mouth organ.

Calling it now: charm is gonna stay in until the 2nd to last episode because the show needs an arrogant douchebag character for as long as possible since a significant portion of the viewing audience are hate-watchers.

"If you're trying to demasculate me I'm gonna lift some heavy shit up and throw it" 😂

At this point they are going to keep charm in the final 3 just to make de other ones crazy

The Alphas and pickme's they should make a 2024 version of this

I'm getting into these shows from 20 years ago because of Gunnar.

I wholeheartedly believe Stew is just a bit dim and needed to be shown how to treat his gf properly

Getting mad over a challenge shouldnt have you leaving the show because it’s got nothing to do with the relationship especially since they came in 2nd place, I’m competitive I get mad if I don’t win. Getting mad and leaving the room and not showing communication should have Charm leaving. Dre P was my favorite on the show and I thought it was gonna be him and Tyler in the final 2.

I have to join the other girls and chat on their reaction: Shannon, why? You're wayyy too good for this loser.

when i'm upset I don't wanna hear anything anyone else has to say... ah yes very healthy and mature. did Leah fall and hit her head in between episodes? wtf happeneed???

"Charm" is an ironic name, the only person that finds him charming is himself xD

Was the fountain the best place to have that conversation especially while she's sitting and he's standing cuz I was pretty sure one of them was peeing for just a minute

Dan's gotta be on pills. Probably got a script from an injury a while back and she doesn't know he never stopped taking them. I've seen it too many times with loser boyfriends. So sad.

Also guys welcome back Xtreme Therapy where we basically torture your emotions

It's your grandma speaking again.... Omg this show is hilarious!

As someone who has a mum that works as a Therapist, and myself works closely in the health system, this really is a fucking horrible 'therapist'. I really cannot believe she is one.

This is my fav RU-vid series, it’s been so long since I feel like I’ve been able to say that lmao

Leah & Charm are so insufferable that they should be a couple. Idk how Charm keeps dodging these eliminations this show has to be rigged

My eyes would light up if I had to do an IKEA challenge 😂😂

Not even five minutes in and charm is yapping victimizing himself lol. Where did that hot shot energy run off to charm??? God I wish he was eliminated and John was here 😢

God that girl was so dumb to stay with Dan…..luckily I’m sure it didn’t last.

Nicole is so cute! I love it when she said "I hate manual labor!" 😂

What's crazy is that charm was asked what he loves about his girlfriend and all he said was "I love that you love me" instead actually loving parts of her as a person. That's gotta sting

I feel like Dan wasn't even trying to formulate the perfect response in therapy. I think he's just too stupid to take in what someone is saying and have a somewhat coherent response without having to REALLY think it over.

14:23 is absolutely such a reason why I still watch Gunner! So smart! Low key I’m like this a little bit so glad he can understand and appreciate this perspective.

there is no way Trina has a license to practice therapy. shes the least qualified therapist on tv who isnt named dr phil

Thank you for uploading this Gunnar, can't wait for the next one. Great video

The cameramen during all this

John was a case study in steroid use - voice, mannerisms, quick flip/bipolar personality

So I feel like big John took the most away from this season and he’s gone 😂

My son is the same way as you Gunner... He doesn't really understand it or the cause of the problem but if he sees a look on my face that doesn't look happy He asks because I'm a good mommy I always say nothing is wrong but he can still tell And how come in and make silly faces and give me a hugs and just start telling me about random nonsense that he thinks will make me laugh that I actually came nothing about but he won't understand that until he's 30

For all the shade Gunnar threw at Trina, this episode showcased both her showing actual interest in Charm when he was in distress. But it also showed Charm weaponizing mental health language in a very unhealthy way. Ignoring the harm to other people, you can really see the likely long-term harm Charm is setting himself up for.

This is the greatest series on RU-vid btw thank you Gunnar

My life is a mess rn but IDC GUNNAR UPLOADED! AND IT'S TOOL ACADEMY 🎉

Dre P got robbed dude was chill and a good narrator it was just his gf

Yes!! I don’t know why but I look forward to this series way too much 😂

The therapist lady is kinda doing the opposite of therapy 😂😂😂😂😂she’s like hmmm how can I cause the most problems. Which is hilarious for the show