Just wanted to reach out and say thank you My wife found your channel and it’s been a blessing on her walk with Christ and it’s genuinely strengthened our marriage. We don’t have many female mentors irl, and you’ve provided her the encouragement to stay the course she is convicted with. I know your channel is blowing up, and I want to just remind you the Devil uses success sometimes as a masked “blessing” to tempt. I just felt the need to tell you that, when the fame comes, don’t forget your mindset when you started this channel! You content is wonderful. Thank you for being a light in the darkness of this world!
Wow, thank you *so* much for taking the time to comment this. This is exactly what I was hoping my channel would do for someone some day. I’ll keep you and your wife in my prayers!! May God bless you 😃
It’s shocking how Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest isn’t being discussed. The book is full of life-changing insights, yet no one seems to notice. Time to break the trance and read it yourself!
i consider myself a masculine man, however i just subscribed because i admire you for teaching and rediscovering femininity. masculinity is just as important as femininity
"She’s not preoccupied with bragging about her impressive plans or course-of-actions because when you talk about something before you attempt it, you’ve taken away the impact of it because you already said you would."
the intro was so relatable! cancelling plans with friends and being emotionally unavailable isnt a sign of a mysterious person, its a sign of an awful friend. thank you for creating this channel
Feminine, mystique: 1. Calmness with my Emotions and power over my expression, as well as being selective on how and when I express myself and when I AM reserved. 2. Being gracefully quiet, and desires not to draw unnecessary attention to myself. 3. Understated confidence, carrying my acknowledgement with an undertone. Or how I call it, quiet confidence/ elegant humility. I let my energy, speak for itself with a strong sense of awareness. Open, to constructive criticism. Gentle, and yet firm with my boundaries. 4. Modesty & Privacy, a sense of dignity. No need to show things off, and give people an opportunity to wonder/imagine my mystery. My character and personality, is to be examined and deserves attention 5. Communicate with purpose, and comfortable with silence. Then to speak, with depth and selectiveness in a moment of silence. No need to always, intercede. Be mindful of the power, of our words with articulation. 6. Taste vulnerability, and connections. Selectability of who she chooses, to be vulnerable with. Be more fragile, with those responsible and caring with my vulnerability and delicate information. 7. Be tasteful, of what I share online. Share private moments sparingly. Over sharing, hinders mystique and cheapens the thrill of authentically knowing someone. 8. Create, an abundant life. Enhancing on skills, and indulging in hobbies 9. Acknowledge, and embrace my unique qualities. Being enigmatic and embracing my oddities give me an edge.
This is interesting. I am modest and quiet and dont overexplain myself. I remember being very little in class and all the other kids where just yapping away and I didnt understand why and what they where talking about (so much) But I grew up very unhappy and insecure I have only just since a year or so found some stability, when I do try to speak in a group my words are usually downed out by louder people and they don't seem to be interested in what I have to say. I am wondering how much of my quietness is natural and how much is my insecurity
Wow I Thought I was the only one.... I feel like I can't add much to group conversations, always feel like the least important. Folks only talk to me when no one is around... I got used to being alone honestly.
@@quinnerzftvu8647 I used to feel exactly like this, and sometimes still do. But I found my voice! It took a lot of time, tho. And now that I'm "a loud one" I get to notice the ones who are quiet in the group and pull them in. It's like reaching out to a lonely quiet me the way I always wanted to be reached. I hope you all find your voice, too!
I recently realized I've lived the last 42 years of my life not knowing or caring how to be feminine. I grew up in an environment where my masculine traits were rewarded so I naturally embraced masculinity and I guess I must have subconsciously rejected femininity. But as a stay at home mother, about to give birth to my first girl, I realized I want to understand and embrace femininity so my daughter has a more balanced worldview. My husband and our 2 sons havd all the masculinity my family needs lol
Thank you for approaching each topic from a Godly perspective! Being feminine is ultimately the fulfillment of what God designed us to be and it’s refreshing to see content that embraces that.
I really enjoyed this video. One of the pressure points for me was sharing vulnerability. I made the horrible mistake of sharing something intimate with a person who was introduced to me by an acquaintance. I felt like because the person was new to the city and didn't have many friends yet that this would make her feel safe and comfortable. Smh She ended up immediately sharing this info with someone who'd been seeking to ruin my reputation for a while. This happened in 2020 right before COVID hit and it still haunts me till this day. It's been hard trying to forgive myself. Because I seriously KNEW better. 🥺
Every upload never disappoints! Ever since finding your channel, it's been the final straw of fully committing to femininity for me, so thank you Jasmyne
@@JasmyneTheodora Of course! Thank you for deciding to share your advice with the world! I'm so glad your channel is growing now, I love re-watching videos like these and it's been two years (wow!) and I'm still excited for every upload
I like your explanation that quietness shows strength. I would state small dogs bark louder. I meant that in a positive way... big dogs dont need to bark loud.. they know they are stronger. . Quiet can also be used to show respect, caring and to show interest to what your counterpart is stating and for diplomacy. It is powerful and for a Woman in my opinion attractive, lady like. As a man I was tought masculine values, one was be humble.. this is similar to the feminine quiet. Today nobody knows the meaning of humble anymore.
This is all so very true! I've always been a quiet and subtle person, and one day during a college class a professor was talking about how attractive mystique is and she used me as an example. It surprised me so much because I never thought of myself as particularly mysterious, but I was embodying all these tips without even knowing! I love your content ❤
"It is wrong to assume that loudness equates to strength and quietness equates to weakness" This sounds like music to my ears because for so long I thought my quiet personality meant I was weak or not confident enough...And while am working on being more assertive, I don't want to exchange my sense of self for a personality that is not naturally me...the way God made me. Thank you Jasmyne!
I am a shy and borderline conservative woman. I don't like confrontation, I won't avoid it, but I do not like it and I am uncomfortable in clubs or anywhere with loud noise and too many people. I prefer bars and lounges. Lately I have been struggling with my confidence and temper through to life's frustrations. I have an abrupt manner of speech, and people misunderstand or believe I'm a cruel and mean person. So, I have to overexplain myself just to be understood. It's another frustration, and it feels like others hear what they want to, but never hear ME.
A great video! As someone who’s more energetic & expressive, I’ve been learning to keep shut & listen more, also learning not to overshare, and understanding that moments of silence are okay & needed sometimes lol
"As someone who's more energetic & expressive"?? No, feminine women are energetic "AND" expressive. They do everything just like every other women except gently and softly without trying. And know when to be quiet.
@@fitmissdarsh7725 lmaoo?? And your pfp. That's all I need to know. Most people listen but only a few truly understand. Oh and I'm a lady not a girl. Have a blessed day miss!
i love that you incorporate God into the art of feminine because it is definitely the most authentic and truthful way to be yourself and seek peace, true love for yourself, and whatever you need internally. you explained everything in depth beautifully and i can't wait for more!
Thank you so much for another great video! Your voice, grace and certainly your mystique keep bringing me back here 💜 Can’t wait for the next video, and congratulations! 🎉
Im so glad you enjoyed it! Im still relatively new to RU-vid so every upload feels like a roll of the dice in terms of how people will respond to it so knowing you enjoy my content means a lot. Thank you for taking the time to comment 🥹
Just a minute into the video, and I agree! I'm a quite sociable person, I laugh at people's jokes, I try to socialize as much as possible, but I still have people saying to me that they can't quite unravel me, lol.
Being 25 years old and a soon to be mom with a wonderful man I really need to get the programmed mindset of the modern women and come into my true femininity. Thank you for these videos they are very helpful.
I really enjoyed this video. And you’re right about being calm, I have found myself being more calmer in more serious situations and it has really helped me.
Can make a video about how to talk slowly and not loudly.. ?!. How to avoid yourself from over sharing..?! I wanna stop being an open book...and a loud rat... I wanna be a lady... Please help me... I really appreciate your work.. Thank u so much ♥♥
This is so incredibly insightful! Such beautiful wisdom. As an introvert by nature, I value all of these points. Also, I can’t help but say how pretty you are, and how absolutely beautiful your hair is! God Bless you lovely sister 💛🌷
Conheci o seu canal há pouco tempo e tem isso uma das melhores experiências, pois você fala sobre a essência de uma mulher feminina, aprendo muito contigo. Deus te abençoe! I'm commenting in my mother language cause my English is not that good 😂❤️
Thank you so much, Anne. I so wish I could read Portuguese, such a lovely language. I can sing a bunch of Brazilian/Bossa Nova songs that I love but I’ve unfortunately no clue what I’m saying haha ❤️
This girl has such beautiful n feminine facial features and expression omg I'm in love 💕 hi.. I'm a teenage girl my name is Janvi and am from India... In my opinion we as females are way waaaayyyyy different than men I mean u can not deny this fact n the fact that women are losing their own feminine energy to keep up with idk society and others opinion that I feel this beautiful art has lost essence. femininity to me is soft but has boundaries she is understanding n nurturing I don't mean that every woman has to be the same but as she says it is naturally in u nd it's so amazingly attractive.. I hope our beautiful pretty women out there feel proud of their man to love them and provide them with some respect cuz that's what I'd look in a man n if I be that man I will now go on disrespecting his efforts..if he makes some effort it is not because he thinks u won't be able to do it it's cuz he wants to take care of you and love you appreciate it 💓🤌
Personally, I think people who wear their emotion on there sleeve are fun and honest, not attention seeking. I have plenty of friends who are outgoing, not afraid to show their emotion. I feel proud of being able to do the same, to be feminine is not to be mystique. You can be feminine and be bubbly, bouncy, excitable - you can talk someone's ear off but still have time to sit and listen, be genuine about yourself and your response. As much as I have respect for anyone choosing to be anyone, I also don't think everyone should be the same. I think there are so many ways to show feminine power, and no matter what gender or sexuality you have you can be feminine. You don't have to show it by being lowkey mysterious, or outgoing and bubbly. You show it by embracing and being YOU. Femininity is YOU. Not what someone else tells you to be. You are a beautiful, divine, feminine being, and on that journey of self acceptance you will find your feminine power. Just don't try to be something you're not, love yourself ! I've struggled with self identity, always thinking the way I speak or present myself isn't soft enough, because feminine HAS to be soft and delicate, can't be tough AND gentle. Can't have a motherly warmth, but still be stern. I always looked for ways to soften the way I look and act - but little did I realise I was denying myself the ability to embrace my true self, who is beautiful, who is feminine. I respect what you do, but I hope people understand they don't HAVE to be this to be feminine
Don’t bother, she’s already been eaten by the Christians Combined with being a model and knowing she’s valued for both looks and breed-ability (what the Christians that spout this shit won’t tell you) means she won’t truely acknowledge that what she’s preaching is just one flavor among many many other more fulfilling lives.
I love how you reply to comments. It’s so heartwarming and genuine. Btw, I love your content and how soft spoken and soft you’re(like a precious egg, lol) You’re truly beautiful too💕
I just realized I have minimum of these qualities 😢 I am an introvert but I am expressive. Emotions are visible on me easily. I would like to learn to be more mysterious…
Jasmyne, thank you kindly for taking the time to create this content. I appreciate the value and clarity that you provide for my daily routine. Blessings.
Helpful! Would you consider doing an example of you interacting with your husband so people can see what a healthy dynamic looks like between two people? How playfulness and calmness “look” or are communicated in real life?
I ran into your "softness" video this morning, watched it, and immediately subscribed and turned on my notifications. I am working on being more feminine/in my feminine energy, I am definitely more in my masculine energy and it gets exhausting, bitter, and aggressive. I'm really mentally and physically tired! You are so eloquent, calm, and well spoken. Great videos, thank you so much for making these, I look forward to learning and improving overall as a woman!!! 💝
As a former tom boy. Yo videos have made me really get in touch with my femininity. Often times ,pple can advise sm1 on something and it never sinks in and some pple like u do a great job in creating a shift in paradigm.
Merci. You really don't know how much your Videos help me. My mother has a lot of mental issues. thats why she was not really the mom that could teach me all about the helaty feminine energies etc. Thank you. ♡
Jasmyne, You are beautiful and I adore this channel! Love your wholesome takes on these topics. Your perspectives are intriguing. SO excited for the growth of your channel
Thank you! Just found your channel and I am so grateful how God is using you in this platform! Please don’t stop🙏🏻 Continue to be a light and a blessing!❤️
I love your videos. You address femininity from us a positive and beneficial way and go into detail about how to implement them. I’m even learning more polite ways to express myself from watching you. Can you do a video on asking for help?
The thing I found out about myself is that I really can't tell you my likes or dislike because all my life I've been adjusting myself so that I can fit in with who ever I'm talking to..people pleaser at her finest😑
I was about to post a compliment about your attractiveness but then I read you are a model. Duh. Calmness and stoic strength are missing social qualities. Pascal said (paraphrased) all of humanities problems stem from man’s inability to sit quietly in a room alone.
Amazing content in this video! I rarely suggest anything in comments, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is a game-changer. It provides deep knowledge on wealth and self-care that can really make a difference. Take care, everyone
The lack of buzz around Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest is baffling. This book holds the key to amazing secrets, but no one seems to care. Don’t stay in the dark - find out what everyone’s missing!
*God bless you. I hope you do not mind; I shared your RU-vid link. Girls along this island territory are not well educated. Loud talk, dropping out of elementary school and alcohol make behavior all the worst. I am hoping a few tropical girls listen and adjust.* (Reverend Mark Runnells -The E-Church of God.)
Such a valuable video! I don’t often promote books, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is an exception. It’s packed with insights on wealth and self-care that are not widely known. All the best to everyone
I’ve read a lot of books, but women’s magic truths on borlest is on another level. It doesn’t just talk about vague concepts-it reveals secret techniques that can actually help you attract almost anything you want in life. This isn’t some watered-down law of attraction; it’s the real deal. You won’t believe what you’re missing out on until you read it.
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What a beautiful video from a beautiful woman! SO much wisdom! Thank you for sharing! This is truly a MUCH needed clarity of a topic that carries a lot of importance in today's culture. Blessings!
Ugh I'm so sorry! Songs are: Lily's Dance, In Your Dreams, Mercy of the Wind and There Will Be Rain all by Million Voices. Then Two Weeks in July, Following a Dark Boat & Altostratus I think all by Franz Gordon...
I love re-watching these videos, like re-reading a book or re-watching a show, you find so many details you never noticed the first time. So many banger lines too I can quote, "Integrate what you will, but don't lose your sense of self" "speak only when it improves upon the silence" (or something to that effect), "let people unwrap you slowly, like a gift" ughhh I'm writing this all down! I'm glad for such genuine advice like this, not shallow advice as mentioned in the beginning.
My personality type is INFP- Assertive and this makes me quiet but confident. I don’t give too much away but this isn’t deliberate it’s just because I am sensing the moods and waiting for the right moment to act or express myself. I have deep introspection and calmness that the right people find attractive.
I quite disagree with one point, some people are really boring, it’s not a reflection of how boring I am. When it’s one sided conversation and they don’t add substance to the momentum of the conversation then they’re the ones who are boring. Let’s not live in a bubble and think everyone is interesting, even if they are interesting, then they don’t have the skills to express it. Active listening to them has nothing to do with lessening their boring traits.
i have never seen a video which impressed me this much.your talent with using words is just irresistible..i felt like i know you for years.thank you,beautiful heart ❤
Some great points, I specifically like when you talked about quietness and not sharing our every thought because social media has made this so easy to do. Sometimes people can wonder if we almost filter what we are saying. God bless ❤
For future reference if one is looking for a RU-vidr to add to their list you could check out Bindi Marc love her work and I feel she and Jasmyne are quite refreshing but bringing in two different Christian spectrums 💕 NB: I forgot to add these few other channels that I personally picked since I started my journey Level Up Journey, The Feminine Fancy,The Feminine Universe and lastly my personal favourite Dr Michelle Daf (specifically if you want opinions of other Christian women I would advice these channels)
Of course! I really enjoy interacting with those who take the time out of their day to watch my content and take time to comment whether it was impactful/spoke to them. It means so much and I want everyone to know how much I appreciate their time & kind words 😃💕
Your neighbour was probably anxious to not live in the shadows; mental illness can lead to episodes of bizarre behaviour and neighbours are inevitably privy to a lot of things if a person is being sectioned or taken into hospital. I feel for her. She shouldn't have blurted it out so quickly but it is not unlike a gay person telling someone they've just met their sexual identity.
This kept coming up for me on RU-vid and I’ve watched a few videos like it, but you brought a different sense of understanding as well as class. This was eye opening and helpful as I’ve definitely over shared and maybe have been giving too much of myself for immediate praise.
I always wonder what happened to the people whose jokes didn't get laughed at because they were friends with a 'super deep' person like you explained in the beginning... 🙁
I want to, yes! I use a ton of gel to get this look and the shingling method for definition. And I always diffuse, I don’t air-dry. I use the olive oil eco-styler one mainly 😊
