The BEST First Date Ideas! | Courtney Ryan 

1. Construction Site 2. Swap Meet / Yard Sale 3. Your Cousin's Parole Hearing 4. Fine Young Cannibals Reunion Tour 5. Home Depot 6. CPR Class 7. County Clerk's Office 8. Blood Drive 9. Oil Change 10. Church

One thing in particular I love about Courtney's videos is that there's no annoyng intro montage or obnoxious intro music!

Cannot stress how great museums are for dates, If there is a break in the conversation, you can talk about literally what is right in front of you.

My sister hates coffee dates. She calls them "low effort." When I pointed out that more and more guys are opting for coffee dates because there are a lot of women who will use guys to get free dinner, she got personally offended. :/

“You are what you eat” No wonder I’m not enough

Outdoor festivals work too. It worked with my GF of 16 2/3 years. The botanical garden was the second date. Sadly, I lost my GF from prolonged illness, but I like to think she died happy and loved.

(Places to go out with date Courtney’s favorite 💓 ) 1. Coffee shop 2. Breakfast or brunch date 3. Outdoor walks 4. Minigolf 5. Picnic outdoors 6. farms market 7. Museums or botanical gardens 8. Brewery and wine tasting places

i went for early afternoon coffee for my first date with my wife. i was just going out with her to see what kind of disaster the date would be. that was 7 years ago. i do use your videos for ideas what to do with her and how to dress to impress her. thank you Courtney.

1st date with my wife started with Italian dinner (non-franchise), followed by mini-golf, finished with drinks at the Irish pub; all on same street within ~8 miles from her house so no fuss no muss in awkward travel time. Trifecta led to a date ending with the most intense make-out; and of course a promise of a 2nd date the next weekend. 10 years & 2 kids later it's still one of my favorite memories ;)

My boss gave me a great advice. She talked about why she purposefully got a roundtable for her office. It was because she could choose witch angle she could face people when sitting down. If it was an interview or any form of pressure testing conversations she would sit at her desk facing the person she talked to directly. But in most cases she would sit down at the round table at an angle to make it more relaxed. It's a great advice for first dates because sitting directly facing eachother at a restaurant like in the movies or shows can make it too awkward. It's better to either just go for a walk and talk or sit at a coffee bar where you naturally have to turn your heads to look at eachother.

Courtney is like a big sister that you have but without the bullying

I met a girl online and she suggested that we have lunch together at a nice place and we went to a museum nearby after lunch, it was a great first date!

Back to back you are posting fire videos on relevant topics i really need . Thanks alot courtney 💓 You are really saviour !

I'm in my 30s and I've never been in a relationship. I wish something as simple as the first date idea actually had an impact on whether or not a date wants to see you again.

I'm 31 years old and I've never went on a date before and not ashamed of it, even though I'm shy. I love watching these videos. It helps me get a better idea of what great dates are like and how to become a better person in general. Thank you for sharing. 🙂

Great job! That was a refreshing list of ideas. It makes me smile because they remind me of some pleasant memories when I first starting dating someone. There was no grand plan. It was just casual, spontaneous, and convenient. 1st date) We took our dogs with us to a dog park and then afterwards we grabbed take-out from a restaurant to have a picnic. 2nd date) We started off at a Farmer’s market and then continued the date in a public garden. Again both places allowed us to bring our puppies. Fast forward to today, my wife and I have been happily married for many years, and while they are no longer puppies, our dogs are also still in love.

Yasss Courtney! I freaking needed this in my life! I'm married - so not going on many first dates these days ;) But this is great for those who are in a relationship, and just want new date ideas!

Your information is so helpful and concise. Saves me from trawling for hours through Reddit and canvassing the varying opinions of friends. Thank you so much for what you're doing!

My wife and I first date was Mardi Gras parade then went and had sushi with Saki shots afterwards. Inseparable ever since. 20yrs.

Thank you for the ideas Courtney! Just asked out the girl of my dreams (she said yes!). This helps immensely.

i know this isn't related to the video content itself, but i'm so beyond glad you upped the video audio. i noticed with a lot of the older videos, the sound was down a lot and i had to spike the volume. great content as always and looking forward to more

A great place to take a first date is the Zoo. I took my wife there on our first date, then we went on a picnic for lunch and then she suggested a movie and then she wanted me to come up to her apartment afterward, I said no, didn't want to wear out my welcome too soon. All told that first date lasted half the day. I have been married to that women for 32 years!

I’ve been inviting women to coffee shops all the time. No pressure, easy going, laid back places, and if things don’t click, you haven’t spent a fortune. Not that I’m ** that** concerned about money, but it’s a thing to consider. 👍🏻 I love these videos Courtney. You (and your friends, when they’re in the videos) give lots of good tips, and when the rona goes away, I’ll try to put some into practice, so thank you. 👌🏻

For me, it was Olive Garden, Cold Stone Ice Cream, and Barnes and Noble in that order. We both love books. I bought her a hard back premium edition of, “Pride and Prejudice.” Later on, we got married and had two kids so hey, it worked! LOL

I tend to avoid dinner for first dates since it could get awkward. One of my favorite things to do is to walk around the monuments in DC at night or a bike ride. Breakfast dates are also fun!

your videos are getting a lot better. saved this one. thanks

Thanks for this one, Big Sis! You're right, keeping it lite and no pressure is the way to go!

Some great tips and reminders for the future when everyone is getting back out there. These can work great too if your just hanging with friends and want to try something new.

A great option for an active outdoor date is frisbee golf. The courses usually wind through scenic parks which gives you an opportunity to talk about nature. Throwing a frisbee is a great icebreaker and always an adventure! If the date is going well, you can pull the picnic basket out of the trunk to extend the date. So, you get a bunch of options to explore each other's personalities or cut it short if there is no interest. So glad I found your channel the other day. You and your guests have been so enlightening. Keep up the great work!

Courtney it would be interesting if you did a video on which boxes Ted ticked based on the tips you've been giving us.

Always with the best advice! Thank you Courtney!

This is great and really takes the pressure off.

A picnic imo is the most romantic thing anybody could do on a first date. It's an outdoor activity, which is very nice and makes the activity more exciting, it fills you up so you don't leave with an empty stomach, and it gives you more space to relax

My best first date from experience, a few weeks at work before you even realize you’re on a date. After about a month of working with my crush my coworker gave me a pep talk to ask her out and when we were on the date I realized, our first date was the entire month we were chit chatting and finding out basic info about her. When we actually went to dinner, it was date number 2. In that month of work we found out each other’s family situation, all about her college, interests, personality etc.

Thanks for the ideas! Will definitely keep these in mind for future dates

Love the great first date ideas. Now I need to find someone to go on a date.

Great ideas Courtney! Thank youuuu 😃

I always pick coffee or drinks at a bar for first dates. They are pretty inexpensive and have the advantage of being in a public setting. That can help if the girl is worried about meeting me for the first time (lots of people around, but all busy doing their own thing.) Even the ones that don't go any further have all been enjoyable experiences for me. The only tip I would add here is knowing the vibe of the place beforehand, and any events that might be taking place at the location. The last one I went to had a big members night with live prize giveaways, so my date and I could barely hear each other.

I've been looking forward for this

I love the background music. Sounds relaxing.

Love these ideas! The museum/botanical gardens and Brewery/wine tasting I would not think of on my own.

Damn almost 100 k Courtney 🔥

This video is fire! I have done just about all of these and have just about always enjoyed myself regardless if my date wasn't clicking with me. My 1st date with my current gf was at a Museum in the afternoon, dinner, then walk around the park. I'm fairly introverted and don't like noisy and rowdy places like bars so I never picked those types of places on any date. You should always do something that appeals to your interests, especially for guys since girls generally expect the guy to pay on the 1st date.

I went on a first date to a wax museum. It really gave us a chance to learn what we're into without excluding one person's interest.

this was really helpful thx Courtney love the video

They all sound fun! Definitely going to try it out! Thanks, Courtney!

Finally getting back into it after my last girl broke my heart, cannot wait

I really appreciate everything you do Courtney!! Can you do a video on great dates for people like myself who are in a relationship?

I love this channel. So different from most of the others ... She is so classy and calm! Very good taste and cassy suggestions for first date.

Your voice is so soft you could make me fall asleep with a bed time story

I love your videos, you have great energy and your videos aren't like pickup videos with "magic trick to make women hook up." Its like gentle reassurance and confidence building.

Mini golf is a great idea. I've had some great date's that way.

I’m glad that I found this video. Not an easy task to achieve.

100k soon Courtney!

There are also some places where there are a few different activities you can do. In my local area, there is a place where you can bowl, go to an arcade, laser tag, and/or VR, all in the same building.

Courtney, you have such an elegant and pretty look today & again brilliant & helpful content. Keep it up.

Of course i would be late to this lol but these first date tips are certainly worth the wait Courtney. I actually think coffee is a great first date because if you not feeling the person, you can easily just leave. However if the date is going well, you can suggest going for one of the outdoor options. It gets hot here in Louisiana so i would probably choose something that would keep me in my date cool yet engaged. Also i love that farmers market idea. We get those here in the spring/summer. Thanks for your help. Have a lovely day 😊🌼

😊 I appreciate this, it’s not always easy to come up with ideas for a first date or subsequent ones! I overthink it quite a bit, but simpler is often better I feel

Great 1st Date ideas! Courtney gives good advice.

My lady & I had an 8-hour lunch date at a "Lazy Dog" 11 years ago as our first date.

Dear Courtney, thank you for being our big sister.

Axe throwing was a riot! So much fun

I’ve been on plenty of first dates and I mean a lot, over the years and I’ve had some really good ones. But what’s surprising is that I’ve never been stood up. Every lady showed up and in time. It’s a great way to meet.

Awesome videos thanks for the advice, will try these out in the future

I love hearing from a woman's perspective. You're great at this. Your hair is so beautiful

Great ideas. Many of which I’ve done or considered. Thanks.

Sheeshh, almost to 100k followers on 25 april? You have grown exponentially then (19 may now)!!! Congratz :D :D

9) A martial arts tournament ring. Plot twist: You both are the contestants facing each other.

Hi Courtney! I know this is not something you'll hear for the first time but You look so beautiful.I really like the way you talk and I'm in love with the softness of your voice. You are like a big a sister to me. Huge respect from Pakistan.

Totally agree Courtney, I think the club idea is a horrible first date idea. I’ve found going to a local pub or a dive bar can be fun because some of them have pool or darts. They tend to be a more quiet spot.

I'm new here, saw your first video became hooked. Love your channel your personality, and energy. Your very beautiful by the way.

Thanks that was an great list and you giving your experience makes it personal. Plus the list was for people who are average. Thanks!

Hey Courtney that colou looks really nice on you! Could you make a video explaining how tot match colours with skin tone? I saw it once but dont really understand how to apply it on myself

Imma definitely try all of these

Great ideas... thanks courtney. I had a date and took her to con. She was a big comic book geek.. it was fun.. I've been on a lunch date and end up hanging all day doing errands with her.. anything that allows a chance to get to know each other is always helpful. These date ideas are very helpful

I recommend going somewhere you are very familiar with. You will feel more comfortable and it will be easier to show that person a good time. Even something as simple as being able to recommend menu items at a resturaunt or lounge is a huge bonus. Your comfortability will rub off on the other person and it will be much easier for you to be yourself.

I find getting outside for something simple like a walk around a park then a drink/ coffee. I love sports so I try to get them into it, like sailing, rock climbing, cycling. But if she’s not into it, something like swimming/ hiking are great options.

Thank you so much. You've been a big help 👍

Mannn much needed! Lol

Your videos are so convenient for people like me who are completely oblivious/Shy asf , Women have always intimidated me, I’ve failed in every attempt at relationships , You’re definitely not wrong about putting excess effort in can ruin everything 😂

I took a girl to grab some Starbucks and we went to look at the Xmas lights and decorations through different neighborhoods. Handed her my camera to take pictures. After the date I edited the photos and emailed them to her. She loved it and we captured some memories. You can do the same by going to the zoo or nature hike. A confident woman will let you take her picture and that's a green flag.

I love my crush and didn’t know where to take her on a date, videos always help!

You need to record positive affirmations accompanied with tranquil imagery. Your voice and delivery is very kind and soothing. Best wishes from Chicagoland!

Love your ideas ... and agree ❤️

Great suggestions!

For the first date from my last relationship we went to the park and took a long walk around and then went to Starbucks afterwards. Was a good time with her. Only downside was the long distance between us.

A first date is a nerve racking experience because it's pretty much that first impression another person gets about you. It can almost feel like make or break. But it should be all about getting to know each other and developing a connection. A nice way to start the week,though...another video from Courtney. :)

I like the walk in a park idea.

You are my coach!

WONDERFUL First Date ideas!!! Ia woman & I wish we could start a conversation about dating "rules" or "etiquette". So many misunderstandings & resentments based on "winging it".

Yes! Farmer's market...good call!

I took a date to a boat show - a good chance to walk around, lounge on some boats, and grab Dayak food. Was a silly abs playful time. Be safe everyone! Scott from Michigan

Lunch? You're not getting a kiss on a lunch date!

Love your advice Courtney keep it coming 😎👌🏻

Great vid! But I definitely wouldn’t do a first date during the day or brunch, the thing with this is you’ll give off a friendzone vibe. And these brunches can be extremely expensive. “Hang out, have fun, and hookup” - Corey Wayne

For the first date (or maybe more 2 or 3): Netflix or DVD Annie Hall 'n chill. Lots of openings for conversation along the way or afterward! And I still get a tear or two at the end, can't help it ... "because we need the eggs."

ice cream, park, beach, riverside walk, outdoor dining are my favorates. i have tried coffee, brunch, ice cream, park, beach, riverside walk, hike. museum, mini golf, picnic, farmers market, brewery tasting are interesting ideas to try! coffee can goes a little too intense because of the anxiety of silence break, same to brunch. hike is distracting for me as i can focus only on the hiking or conversation lol.

An outdoor walk is great! A hike with someone you don’t know well is in the same category as a long dinner... 🤷🏻‍♀️ Maybe not right away

Master of the late responses! One of my best first dates was at a set of locks that had a really nice park and trail as well as a little café. We did not go the distance but it was a great day, and the date ended late evening at the same location. She was a great girl, we were just not for each other. My next first date was at a city park, that was awesome because the date was hellacious and when the walk was done, the date ended.

As a student, you had me at 'without breaking the bank'