she was telling her story about how she found her true self and he was like, quit the bs, do you want to see my chestpiece? he couldn't read the room AT ALL, so strange
Yeah he wasn't a bad looking kid. I think the way she worded it was bad, but I do think everyone has their preferences and she shouldn't have been opposed to at least trying it if she was attracted. She seemed a little crazy though in general lol...but also kinda cute haha.
@@aids2132 literally I noticed that. He was super normal and laid back, as well as handsome too. What the hell was up with this group of people lol. We could only find one normal person.
@@lunchbox3124Joaquin is not a common name and its not a name that is spelled the way it sounds, not knowing how to spell it doesnt make her stupid. And doesnt justify the condescending comment he said about her, especially since he himseIf is lind if an ldiot if he is mind blown that people in the middle east dont shake hands and literally called himseIf illiterate
We aren’t gonna talk about when Joaquin asked jenita how to spell his name and when she started he said she was “so beautiful” that his way of calling her stupid, even though he failed to spell her name
Dude that and the comment from white boy “ive casually been with every THING under the sun. Black, white, Asian, middle Eastern” 🤮🤮🤮 low key love when a guy exposes himself so clearly like that, thanks I’m not wasting any more of my time 😂💜
LITERALLY i was so taken aback it was so rude. and it was the same vibe when i think the next guy said he pressed the button bc of her lips and then asked if she was unnatural in other areas, those men just totally disrespected her and hardly viewed her as an equal just because of her looks.
I mean it was kinda a technicality, wouldn’t really see that as a bad thing considering he was a sperm donor. Although for the first like 10 seconds before he said he was a sperm donor I was like wtf is wrong with this guy 💀
@sophiao43 I agree, but she was like that with all of the guys? Like she was so excited and happy to be able to reject all of them but got so fucking mad when they did the same and then insulted them and shit?
@@28dldjeni noticed that too it was weird because she’s said oh yeah you aren’t my type but when someone tells her the same thing she takes offense and says something worse😭
He couldn't help but say something negative about each girl's appearance. Even if you think that's normal to do, you would think someone would be extra mindful that they are being filmed. You know all the girls back home are staying 40 yards away from him now.
Unfortunately in those situations you have to hold your composure or else that's how they get you. They want you to get angry and throw a fit so they can make you seem like the crazy one.
@@dannihollingsworth7243she’s probably an antinatalist (the people who insulted Pewdiepie cause he had a kid). They’re mentally disturbed, they have no sensibility AND they have a complete lack of understanding.
i don't think cody realized how weird the conversation between jenita and joaquin was. the "to another planet" bit was a little odd but could've just been him saying he's gonna be in a totally different place had he not immediately dug in his heels with every following comment -- "i'm holding back from saying some wacky stuff" and "you can't even shake a woman's hand in that part of the planet, did you know that?" he clearly didn't pick up her background right from the start and she had that awkward experience of being the Other the person is describing in Othering terms right to your face. and then when she did say she's from an islamic family, he immediately goes in on "so OUR realm is a bit different from other realms." that's classic us/them dichotomy and i don't blame her at all for being weirded out or upset by it. especially when he tries to follow it up by saying he's only dated "international, foreign women" -- lowkey fetishizing given the stuff he's just said. gross.
just saw her second encounter with the other guy who asked if she was "natural in other places" and. man. she got the full dehumanizing experience today, i feel bad
@@marsssss_ i get it's subtext and someone might not pick up on it if they haven't experienced it themselves in the past, but it's so insidious. the way joaquin went back to the guys' room and made it sound like she was just being snotty about him being american - spreading misinformation in real time
@@echoceaselessly totally. feels very tone-deaf to not notice though - the man all but said “they’re backwards.” he literally said “I’m holding myself back from saying some wacky stuff rn” so he was prepared to be xenophobic
this has to be one of the most insane episodes of all time. usually im thinking "yeah there are definitely white claws in that break room" but today im thinking "there is a gas leak in the studio"
the fact that her first thought about donating sperm is "overpopulation" instead of giving someone the ability to become parents who can't on their own really says a lot
Exactly. She was completely judgemental, with the judgement based on untruths. She had 2 choices to go with: Creator of Life vs Destroyer of Planets. Where her personal judgement landed on those 2 narratives was crystal clear. And, with no middle ground or inquiry behind the reasoning of his choice. Then, she slandered him to the other women based upon her own beliefs. Seems a bit narcissistic. Not only was she judgemental and slanderous, she didn’t seem well educated on her final judgement; seeing that one of the greatest threats facing the future of humanity is actually de-population and population collapse; in combination with the aging population, worker shortages, mass abortions, and the decelerating birth rates. This guy wasn’t aborting 50 babies, he was giving life to 50! Maybe one (or some) of them will actually help save the planet. She was judgemental by nature, self righteous, slanderous, not the brightest bulb in the lighting department, and (at best) a 2 out of 10 in the looks department on a really, really good day. She talks about overpopulation, but clearly has the diet and carbon footprint of at least 2 people; and if she isn’t careful, will be a burden on the system herself, as she ages. In some regards, her judgement comes across as rather hypocritical. Perhaps one day she will need to rely on one of those 50 babies to take care of her in the hospice or nursing home, when she can no longer walk or do things for herself. Plus, she tried to sabotage him with the other contestants based on her own prejudices. She’s awful; the type who acts sweet to your face, and then destroys you in private behind your back. He clearly dodged a bullet in just about every category, by beating her to the button.
@@demarkahlil2124 Exactly. And, she likely never will. Her judgmental nature is textbook ‘emotions over facts’. And, emotions will continue to further cloud her judgement without the voices of reason and logic.
@@demarkahlil2124 She immediately went into the green room and gaslighted him to everyone. I don’t need the unedited video to see exactly how she showed up to be.
@@joesandstrom4111it’s clear by your second comment that you already knew you had no leg to stand on and I’m not gonna explain it to you since it seems like you already know you’re wrong 😂 I wouldn’t be suprised if you’re that dingobat hiding behind this random account ☠️
It’s because he’s a Luciferian (not satanist) luciferians believe in what he said he believes in the beginning. The worlds most evil and powerful cults have the same beliefs.
OMG YAAAAASSS! He was low key calling her dumb because she didn't know how to spell his name... kind of a dick, especially since he couldn't spell hers either
This is exactly how I describe such behavior. Literally texted a guy and said I wasn't interested in hanging out and he responded with three long-winded texts about how he wasn't going to pursue me anymore anyway.. but let him know if I became interested again. 🙄
At first, i could kind of see where Joaquin was coming from, in that maybe he used the wrong words, but paired with how he refused to leave after being hit by the button and still try to defend himself, and afterwards ranting about it with the other guys... no, Jen had it right. He is a walking red flag.
The subtext of the conversation between Joaquin and Jenita blew over Cody’s head, unfortunately. From the condescending “you’re so beautiful” to calling the middle east “another planet” to listing all the different “foreign women” he’s dated. Ick after ick after ick. Jenita handled him and the other gross guy amazingly though. ❤
she handled that better than i could've imagine like holy shit. to see someone get treated and talked to like that and still maintain their composure is wild to me
It does feel like visiting another planet when you fly to somewhere in the world where the culture, the architecture, the people and the climate are totally different. Nothing wrong with that statement imo. His other comments suggest he’s a massive asshole, though.
@@alexd4566 Although I agree with this, I was put off by his comment because he claims to be a journalist and to have recently learned that "men and women can't even shake hands there". Yeah that's not a thing in 99% of the Middle East. It's a fair claim to say it's a "different world", especially since western media is very picky when it comes to world news, but yeah it was a very pejoratively-American moment.
@@alexd4566 I appreciate you trying to word what he said in a more positive light. But the “another planet” comment with the “I’m holding back from saying some wacky stuff” with “did you know you can’t even shake a woman’s hand over there?!” with “OUR realm and their realm” makes it seem like he views people from the Middle East as if they are backwards aliens. Very much us vs them dichotomy. Ofc we’ve only been shown a short clip of him but every time he doubled down, he just made it worse. Imma trust Jenita’s judgment on this one.
Yeah, exactly, before Cody started reacting these I couldn’t watch the button because I felt so anxious and uncomfortable lol! Thanks for making this show palatable Cody!
Jen is gorgeous and was a lot more patient than she needed to be. I also understand her frustration with the whole Middle-East comment. Being from there myself, I get my fair share of passive aggressiveness and willful ignorance. Joaquin could have definitely worded his sentences better if he meant to speak with good intentions, however, that was clearly not the case.
Hard disagree, im not saying she isnt but i dont think she showcased that in her interaction. The other guy definitely seemed like a tool im not mad at her giving him pushback, but I don’t think she understands the phrase “its like another planet/world”. Like im Mexican and going from Guanajuato to the midwest really did feel like that the first time I went. That doesn’t mean either place is inferior or anything, just different. After that though, he totally seemed off to me as well.
@@fyoutube2294she was in later episodes and she’s definitely not “educated”. Anti feminist, hates “woke” shit, all that. Which makes the comments suggesting she was being progressive pretty funny, in retrospect 😭
The fucking audacity of Joaquin to patronizingly say "Aww, you're so beautiful" to Jenita after she misspelled his name even though she TOLD him Jen was spelled J-e-n and he STILL tried to spell Jenita with J-i-n
His name could have been something as relatively common and easy to spell as Tim...still wouldn't have made it okay for him to belittle her for misspelling it.
I was also clenching my teeth at what insufferable people they brought on. Joaquin was cocky but holy shit Jen's a megabitch. How do you react like that to saying a foreign country is "a different planet".
that condescending "you're beautiful" made me wanna rip my hair out, The woman was bosnian and as someone from serbia I completely get her confusion, the writing system in our languages is phonetic so we spell out words the way we hear them, just bc she didn't know how to spell his name doesn't mean she's dumb
Joaquin is a very common name here in america and I still had to google it to spell it correctly for this comment LOL it’s a hard name to spell. Hers is so much easier.
@@sofiatorres9719 true, which is why the guy's an asshole for being so condescending. It's not really a name she should be expected to be familiar with.
8:09 “it’s just everything, babe” Jupiter is my hero 13:11 “none of your f*ckin business” JEN COMING THROUGH FOR ME AS WELL this episode is full of bitches and I love them
I do not blame Jenita for being completely put off by those men. They were weird, condescending, and fetishized her. She was totally right in shutting them down.
I mean she's beautiful but ruined her real beauty by doing those god awful lips.. You can tell she's insecure about it too considering her reaction to him mentioning it
Jen is so much more patient than I would've been. the moment Joaquin said "you're beautiful" when he asked her to spell her name, it would've been done for me. and listing the foreign women he dated.. don't like that either.
@@pigbitch5300Microaggressions are real. If you don’t experience them, that is your own experience and it does not trump the lives of marginalized folks.
Jenita perfectly felt the vibe of that journalist guy. “Did you know you cant even shake a womens hand over there?!”, like it definitely felt like he was calling their culture alien and weird. It wasn’t like a “i wanna learn more” vibe
Also, she was right to tell him to educate himself more. He said he’s going to the Middle East but the Middle East is a big region with many countries. He never said which country he was traveling to and he lumped the whole Middle East into one bubble. Not every country in the Middle East is the same and there are so many different cultures and religions there too. He sounded so ignorant.
The first guy Jen spoke to was totally speaking out of his ass while saying ''you can't even shake a women's hand in the middle east'' That's the most stereotypical shit I've ever heard. Jen had every right to take offense to that especially since she grew up in an Islamic family.
no literally and as someone whose family has lived in the middle east, and as a central and south asian muslim myself you definitely can shake a woman’s hand… like…
@@zie8238 well he could have easily said the name of the country then. He specifically said "the middle east" multiple times and it's also obvious that he has a very steriotypical mind by the way he talks about it and how he treats jen
@@chloebeall4011 It shows difference between where in the middle east you are and what the women you're trying to shake the hand of believes/sees fit :)
I don’t wanna be an armchair psychiatrist but my first impression is that the guy on the first date of the episode may have a social disorder, that can cause someone to come off very strong n talk over another person but it’s not trying to be intentionally self absorbed. That’s the vibe I got
@@heartroll8719 I have ADHD, so I totalllyyy empathize with you. I overshare way too much:( I am way better now about interrupting, but when I was younger I would interrupt so much because I’d get so excited about the conversation I’m having with someone. I am deff not everyone’s cup of tea. That’s ok tho:)
Oof, my dude seriously found a way to make calling a woman beautiful an actual insult. She struggles to spell a genuinely difficult name and he made it so weird. 😅
@@choosehappy9224 Right? That was the epitome of condescension right there. I feel like in his head he was thinking "god-serpent, please for once let a beautiful woman spell my name right, it's the only way I'll know she's the one!". 😂
Fr, Cody not seeing the problem is kinda disappointing but not surprising. He slept with a barely legal 18-year-old at the time, so him not seeing misogyny is on brand.
@@hyunjinhasallmyuwu3448 They slept together back when they did a collab video on each other's channel. She was still underage when they became friends. Also, Kelsey was dating him at that time too, so he cheated on Kelsey.
And Cody the little fool actually agreed with him even after he said he’s holding back from saying whacky stuff about the Middle East and his comment about shaking hands. Cody needs a slap the little inconsiderate fool
Glasses and borderline fedora homie called Jen “you’re beautiful” when she couldn’t spell his name (Joaquin), insinuating in that snarky “you’re dumb” way, but he couldn’t spell her name and said he was illiterate. What a strange move from him lmao. They picked genuinely the worst lot of people besides a few girls who got buzzed quickly.
pretty sure the first guy was just on the spectrum and got super overwhelmed by the whole situation. don’t know why he’s copping so much shit he didn’t really do anything super wrong
what was proven by Jens interactions are that SOME men are so insecure around beautiful, confident women and they find these women to be a threat. I think it's obvious to everyone and to her that she's not going to find her equivalent on a show like this 🤣
Or she just has a bitter and bitchy attitude who’s has multiple botched surgeries 30 and out of her prime years and now want to settle down on a speed dating game ?
Joaquin genuinely had the most rancid vibes, the fact that he continued to defend his weird ass comments after the button had already been pressed and it was time to leave and keeping her there to listen to him was genuinely worrying, I’m glad those people weren’t alone on the set
jen did not owe joaquin ANYTHING. he was condescending and showed signs of sexism right away. then he treated another culture as something to be gawked at bc it isn’t normal to him. and when jen tried to bring it up he was an ass and didn’t try to have a meaningful discussion. sorry cody, joaquin was in the wrong here.
I think it was totally fair for Jenita to be completely put off by these men and their astounding condescension. The "You're so beautiful" comment from the journalist guy, and the "Are you natural in other places" from the 2nd dude made me want to hurl. I thought the way she handled both conversations was completely appropriate, and if I were her I would be LIVID after those brain-meltingly bad conversations. Jfc.
Cody completely missed A LOT of subtext in that conversation that made the dude creepy af. "I'm awake, not woke" is literally a dogwhistle for Qanon. And all those "radical beliefs" that he's "holding back." Jfc
I thought the journalists “you’re so beautiful comment” was intentionally a jab at her intellect because she tried to spell Joaquin with a W. Who in the world spells Joaquin with a W? That’s like a super common name and for someone acting like they are so woke and worldly not being able to spell it is genuinely sad. Plus they obviously didn’t like each other from the get go considering the slightest miscommunication led to an argument.
cody, jen had every right to dismiss that first guy, he was a total weirdo and super condescending. 2nd guy was also super rude. i LOVED how jen shut both of those men down! hopefully jen returns and gets better guys.
Havent watched codys videos in a couple years, had a lot of time to kill this last week and found some of his button videos funny... HOLY SHIT THERE IS NO END TO THE AMMOUNT OF VIDEOS THIS MAN HAS MADE ON THIS THING. keep em coming
I know we've seen worse, but Jin had it rough. The first dude basically called her stupid right from the start and then the next guy insulted her lips and started asking about what parts of her body were fake. wtf...
Totally agree. Apologies for my English, not my first language 🙂 I feel like it’s fine that’s his opinion, but he shouldn’t had said that to her or trying to be little bit nicer about it. ( I don’t think he was trying to insulted her) Yeah the fake body part was really weird. He should had thinking before saying. But I don’t think his a bad dude. ( I’m not trying to defend him cause I didn’t like he said it either and not trying to come at you) There is just some people that doesn’t think before saying. ( my dad does it and he is not a bad person but he do be having weird opinions)
i fucking LOVE how Joaquin asked why Jen rejected him and she told him exactly why and he said “i think that’s your fault for feeling that way” like just say alright and move on with your day you freak.
@@lunchbox3124I think he rejected her bc he was there when Joaquin was telling them what she said even though he was exaggerating it so he went out thinking she was a bitch
Jen really got a rough deal here, both guys were total dicks and she was more respectful than she needed to be. Hope we see her back with some more respectful pairings
I get what Cody is saying it wasn't that wild of a statement to say its a different world cause it truly is as in bad parts of the middle east its like the complete opposite from the US in terms of culture and people treat each other
@@J_Lynnbro, chill. It’s a RU-vid game show, plus that first dude asked both times. He was weird but you don’t have to try to make him seem worse than he was.
The men are insane on this one, the one normal seeming guy got shot down for being asian. Im so confused. Jenita handled all of this like a champ. The are you natural in other places, is insanely entitled and rude to ask after already rejecting her.
Yeah the guys except dylan sucked but how do you guys not think Jenita was rude and aggro throughout? She was extremely unlikable. You can make people look like fools without being a dickhead.
@@princesurein7275hate how women can’t stick up for themselves or be tired of taking shit from asshole men without being called rude. She doesn’t take shit from them but because she isn’t a quiet submissive women she’s getting a bunch of hate from men in these comments I hate yall fr yall are disgusting
I actually think Jen who called him out on the other planet comment is valid. He was pretentious as hell and gave major white savior vibes, so I think that’s what the “woke” comment was about. And in terms of calling it a different planet, that’s literally othering middle eastern people as aliens in a way. I dunnow I got nothing but respect for her I love a woman who bluntly and precisely states boundaries. Like her “none of your fucking business” comment about the natural comment was badass. This episode was a mess though haha
The middle east contains the majority of true theocratic nations in the world. If you look into the practices from oil-backed princes to local villages, they truly are a world apart from what goes on in the US. A certain religion has a stranglehold on NE Africa and the Middle East.
No. As someone who has ancestry from outside the US, it is indeed a very different world in some parts. The real 'white savior' mentality is denying issues that exist in other places just cause you don't want to 'hurt' them.
I don’t like the guy but you definitely took it the wrong way! ☠️ living in the states all your life and all of a sudden moving to the Middle East for a whole year is a whole new world to you. Which is what he meant, he never called them Aliens only saying that it was a new experience for him so I think you need to educate yourself more on that x
"Are you unnatural in other places?" Wtf?? You just rejected her. You don't get to ask that. And there's way better ways to bring that up. Time and place
