The Challenging Reality Of Modern Dating | Brickell, Miami, Florida (TheDesirableTruth EP 60) 

Social media has ruined society

Gents I’m 52 and dated the whole spectrum, and trust me, you’re not missing anything. 1) Be on your purpose. 2) Put yourself first. 3) Only deal with women that serve you. That’s it, and life is easy.

An open relationship isn't a relationship. It's just two people having casual sex.

If a woman truly desires you and wants you, there’s no way, She can be in an open relationship with you.

Respect to the black guy that admitted the lack of fathers has affected society.

Imagine men going around saying he wouldn't want to be with a woman that weighs more than he does because he just doesn't feel like a man around her.

It's always the delusional women who have the highest expectations. That big girl has never had $250 spent on her on a first date in her life.

The land 🐋 in the white pants is delusional!

Rotten fruit does not know that it is rotten. It only sees the other fresh fruit in the produce aisle and assumes since it's in the same place that it has to be just as fresh as the fruit it sees getting picked. And since it never goes from the dumpster back to the produce aisle, it does not know that the dumpster is the end of the line. It can only sense that something is very wrong because it's never experienced that much darkness for such an extended period of time.

That big girl gonna have a long lonely life 😂😂

What does everybody worry about catching feelings and not diseases?🥴🤢

Its crazy how social media and accessibility to others has made people treat dating like a commodity and everything being “conditional”.. makes people chase perfectionism when noones perfect

Dude I have seen many guys interviewing people about these issues in dating but you my kind sir are doing it great! Hats off to you sir!

I would love to see some of these episodes done in cities that have girls that don't live on the streets 24/7. As a man in his 20's these videos give me little hope for finding a life time partner when so many of these women seemly find it okay to run the streets with no shame behind it.

4:35 this guy knows which question to ask a girl based on her looks and personality. Kudos to you bro! 😂🎉❤

I'm a therapist. That woman at 9:40 talking about how when in a relationship she wants to always be in a good/passionate phase and it's gonna feel like euphoria all the time is seriously in for a big let down. In adult relationships the passion in a relationship fades usually from 6 to 30 months but it almost every time fades and there's less passionate phases . The passion comes back periodically. There's ups and downs. There's moments where there is no euphoria in almost every adult relationship. People like that tend to just jump from relationships always wanting the passionate phase. As the relationship goes on it usually turns into a more companionship type love

If a man isn't taller than you when you wear a arbitrary height shoe, he just can't protect you. It's like.. Physics or something.

BROTHA BROTHA BROTHA! That last brotha said it better than it could have been written! SALUTE TO HIM!

Last dude is so on point, especially for many black Americans

5:36 - This interaction reminded me of a quote a friend told me many years ago. "Girlfriends are worse than prostitutes."

The 1st two girls felt the heat coming and bounce. 😅

Big bro at the end spittin facts 😎

That guy is so right! Everybody loves toxicity right now! I love how he insinuates that it is a momentary trend...so great!

7:08 it’s funny how the less attractive woman projects unrealistic expectations of 8 paid dates based on what looks to be perceived disrespect and not what is clear reality would serve her

I’m 5’-11”. I remember years ago back in my Atlanta days I met this hot chick online. She said she was 5’-9”. I had dated girls close to that before so no big deal. Met her at a restaurant in midtown. She showed up with 5 inch heels on. Looked very much like the girl in the video. First time in my entire life I felt short lol! Still knocked that fine tree down like a lumberjack😂😂😂. Fun fact. She was easily shorter without the heels.

I saw 3 young women almost identical in dress, style, looks, and personality. All had young, high school girl next door faces, were college graduates, employed, and were always the quiet one in a group, with a smiling face. I also noticed the biggest diamond rings on all 3 of them on their ring finger. Then I noticed many pretty women, who wore lots of make up, wore tight fitting, glittery clothes and high heels, while they were hitting the clubs and bars. NONE of them had a ring on their finger. NONE. Conclusion: Men don't like bar flies who try to dress to impress, while swinging their booties for all to see. Oh they will hit it for 1 night, then move on to the next one. But they will not commit until they find the girls mentioned above. They will buy a $40,000 diamond ring and proposed that night, begging her to marry him. That's the truth.

First date is always a interview so it's going to be coffee shop for the date .

That last guy was all facts

The last guy hit the nail on the head with communication

I feel so sorry for young people today. They have no idea how social media has skewed their perception of reality. How can any of them expect to find a soul mate in this day and age? I think they're going to be the loneliest generation in history.

Lol that big chick was tripping shed had to pay me df lol

Without heels she is smaller than man, but when she takes heels, and if man becomes equal at this moment - she is not interested anymore. By their logic, when women got same rights, equal salaries with men - this is the moment when they stopped respecting men.

I like the women who said she would lose more respect for the man even getting in the fight. That’s a classy point of view

The man talking about communication is brilliant

They all think they're rare ands special.

6:57 that quarter back had the most to say. Grenade

Big girl giving bad advise to other women to handicap em just like her chubbyness handicaps her. Very smart woman that one.

It’s always the big betties with the highest standards 😂

Why would a man offer all his time, effort, energy, resources and commitment to a women who acts like a man, has been round the block and is focused on anything and everything except being a loving respectful wife and caring mother. It doesn't work, no traditional man who has an ounce of sanity will engage with that because he knows it's a bad deal. We attract what we are.

Open relationships never work. Very few women would want to share a truly high value guy.

The toad is 34 the whale is 36 seriously are they not wondering why they’re still single and out in the street. The delusion is real thick in Miami.

I’m 5’7 and I’m dating 5’11 chick and we’re happy together. These 403s are wild

If the game is rigged … Don’t play.

The man in the black and red shirt didn’t tell a single lie!!! 🔥🔥

Good job bro, you evaluate your skills by just questioning and don’t telling your own opinion. 👌 hope to see more good content in future

Og was breaking it down and the old biichs was breaking it down too ❤😂

This channel is underrated

LOl, I'm a cardiologist... I used to model in my younger years I have 51ft Yacht, drive a F1 jag and have two homes ......I have women throwing themselves at me every day....the first girl in the video saying men just get what they can get...LOL

Parking/Uber both ways $40 2 basic cocktails: $25 Appetizer to share: $18 2 entrees: $45 Skip dessert Night cap at different restaurant: $30 …and that’s conservative, based on Tampa, not Miami. It’s EASY to spend $250 if you go all night, especially if you’re trying to impress someone

Also people are disingenuous about wanting to find love but then they move to Miami acting like we all don't know why they're there. Don't talk about the hook up culture that makes you move to participate in.

Everyone just wants love, it’s that simple.

"Everyone love toxicity... if you ain't got toxicity, you ain't got motion." My god... if people really think like this, that is insane. Good luck LOL

Social Media has ruin the dating scene.

The big girl said 200 on the first date and you might get a kiss 😂😂

the brother with the red and black shirt is speaking facts! I've could've said it better myself.

I love this channel

They’re all run throughs, that are desensitized to relationships

60 year old male here. Dated many girls in my life in my 20’s and 30’s. Dating life is a little less artificial in my northern city than in Miami. Got married in my early 40’s to a beautiful younger woman, I have been lucky. Wouldn’t want to date in this fucked up world nowadays. If I get single in the future, I wouldn’t care much for women anymore. I would hang out with good friends instead.

This guy at 7-8 is spittin facts after facts

This dudes vids get me clutching my passport more and more. 😌✈️

Let a woman talk and she will tell on herself. And the more a woman keeps talking,all she is doing is telling you about herself.

Dating in Miami is brutal asf. Idk how I managed to find a good woman on Hinge.

Chick wanting the open relationship is a classic 304.

'Pay for my first eight dates'? That one is frigging delusional.

Open relationship is just a way to get what you want from one man (treated like a wife) and other men (hook ups) at the same time.

That guy in the black and red shirt is really intelligent...

A woman who’s supportive and ambitious makes no sense. Those two things contradict each other

The guys were spot on especially the guy at the end in the black and red shirt. Also you had some good women in this one not all but most were realistic and honest with desirability.

These women aren’t serious! 😆

This girls bro :D I`m just sad for my son till he grow up would be even worse :X

The guy with the white under shirt speak facts

Remember, a man is supposed to love his wife in a gentle and sacrificial way, and the wife is supposed to respect her husband in loving submission. Any marriage or relationship without these standard will fail!!!

Wonder how the guys in Miami figure out who the street walkers are

The last guy was spot on.

"He has to be taller." So if he is taller and you (the woman) is bigger and wider then him, Do you still feel protected? Women always have dumb answers. "I want to feel protected." Protected from who? There is always going to be a man that is bigger or can fight better than your man.

So many key takeaways in this video. One of them really stands out at 4:56 - where she says she won't even create respect. Meanwhile, aren't men expected to give it up front? Interesting. And you're only on episode 60? I can't wait to see if there are additional insights, or it's just more of the same. Well done!🍻😅

5:04 STREEETS is where she stays with that outfit... How can she talk about loosing respect when she doesn't even respect herself enough to dress appropriate.

7:48 is definitely the product of a single mother. Fmnized beyond all recognition.

I hate the fashion right now. It’s crazy, no matter how sexy you are, super tight/short/low cut will make you look less than perfect (because the sites that sell them airbrush/filter). No one looks as great as they could… leaving a little to the imagination actually makes you hotter!

That girl with the open relationship crap...holy cow!!

4:38 (i lose respect for a man who doesn’t have a plan for a date) Says the girl who has never asked anyone out, planned a date, or paid for a date.

The dating scene is so cooked man lol

Woman into open relationships… a cheater in waiting.

What an rare episode some logical sense in this one😂

Men are looking for the same they're looking for!

Being younger it was a hunt trying to find women like these that seem to be everywhere and every age range.

That's enough Internet for today.

" Pay for my first 8 dates? ". Girl you weigh more than a rugby player, you shouldn't be going on dates period.

The land whale has me dying.

That is crazy at 5:30 for the big chick to say the guy pays for everything but the chick that looks better and fit said she would split the check with no issues. The fit chick sounds more realistic and I'm thinking she might be older. Big girl built like a snowman. Wow so the big girl is older and I though the fit chick was older.

It's only convenient how her answer says she wouldn't lose respect for her man getting ko but she would if he fought at all. long way of saying yes she would lose respect.b

I Spent $30 on first date, 5 years ago. been happy with her since. We aim for public parks, hiking trails, biking. food in usa is always overpriced, you pay for the environment. it is rare eat local farm fresh food in usa. certain places like las vegas...there is no fresh food, unless they overnight ship it. invest your money in yourself, not someone's else fancy restaurant. $200 date night is 2 twice a year at most. Flying first class on long trips are so much more worth it then a expensive meal that last 1 hour.

i’m 56 years old , trust me, no tattoos or smoking. If you are in your early 20s get a Sea Doo ( jet ski) and a trailer. Camp overnight at a lake. give her a mini shovel and camp toilet kit. Get married and leave dating behind for 30 years.

how soon is too soon to say "i love you" as a guy? if the girl hasn't said it then it's too soon. the guy should never say it first.

The only ☝️ ones that they get is the “Simps”! Great valued men kick 🦵 them to the curb 😂😂

The thing is first try to find a woman to be a friend concentrating too much on finding a relationship will sometimes depress the person it's not always going to happen

Brother God bless you

Most men make 20-30k a year. 100k dollars is a lot of money😊

It’s obvious by now miami 304s are done for. Need more perspective from different places

Wow 6-9 months to fall in love with somebody or rather to say it to them. That's crazy. I don't think the majority of women would stick with a man after that long without that reassurance. That redhead in the see through dress is a strange one.