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The Cold Truth - 5 Signs He's Not Serious About You 

Ismael Gomez III
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5 Signs He's Not Serious About You - Relationship Advice for Women
Not every man is ready for a serious and genuine connection. Unmasking a man's true intentions can be challenging, as he may present himself in various ways. However, signs can help you understand whether a man is genuinely serious about you or is simply passing through your life without any meaningful intent.
In this video, I discuss 5 signs that indicate he's not serious about developing a wholesome relationship with you.
CHAPTERS
00:00 Introduction
00:17 What you'll Learn in this video
00:28 He's Not Serious About You Sign 01
01:57 He's Not Serious About You Sign 02
03:20 He's Not Serious About You Sign 03
05:12 He's Not Serious About You Sign 04
06:20 He's Not Serious About You Sign 05
08:41 Closing
1. Inconsistency in Communication
A man who is not serious about you may be inconsistent in his communication. He might go days without reaching out or seem disengaged in conversations.
2. He Only Gets Free Therapy from You and Your Support
If he only comes to you to vent about his problems and seeks emotional support without reciprocating, it could be a sign that he's not serious about the relationship.
3. The Relationship Feels Stuck with No Progressions
When a man is serious about a relationship, he will generally want it to evolve and grow over time. If you notice that the relationship remains stagnant with no signs of moving forward, such as discussing future plans or deepening emotional intimacy, it may indicate a lack of commitment on his part.
4. Unwillingness to Project into the Future with You
A man who is not serious about you may avoid discussing future or long term commitments. He might avoid making plans together, avoiding conversations about marriage, living together, or even future vacations.
5. When He Thinks You Are Only "Good Enough" and He Could Do Better
If a man makes you feel like he's settling for you or constantly compares you to other people, it's a significant red flag. A serious partner values and appreciates their significant other for who they are and doesn't entertain the idea of being with se else they consider "better."
Ismael Gomez III
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@SaveTheMessenger
@SaveTheMessenger 11 месяцев назад
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@bethzy335
@bethzy335 3 месяца назад
1. Do not pressure a man into commitment if he is not making the move himself 2. If a man insists on staying together but shows no effort to change or commit, it's a red flag 3. Pay attention to how he talks about the future and if he includes you in his plans 4. Look out for hesitance or aversion towards labeling the relationship 5. Compare his actions and intentions to how a loved one would treat you to gauge his sincerity 6. Use past experiences with people who genuinely cared for you as a standard for how you should be treated 7. Don't settle for someone who doesn't appreciate you, as this can lead to one-sided relationships.
@tazrinahmed5326
@tazrinahmed5326 11 месяцев назад
Problem is I never had a guy love me before so I don’t know what love from a man is like in reality. I have only faced this hot and cold guys till now in 25 years of my life
@SaveTheMessenger
@SaveTheMessenger 11 месяцев назад
Do you think is your fault? That you attract these type of men?
@thankyou1741
@thankyou1741 11 месяцев назад
Same story! We need to pray girl. That God will have mercy on us
@caterinadelgalles8783
@caterinadelgalles8783 11 месяцев назад
Im 42. Never been in love.
@Jillian15
@Jillian15 11 месяцев назад
At 62 it's the same, hot and cold. Not just men but children too. Get a dog they are eternally consistent when it comes to love. Find love in as many areas of your life and all of its forms. Romantic love is overrated and cannot be sustained.❤
@tazrinahmed5326
@tazrinahmed5326 11 месяцев назад
@@SaveTheMessenger I’m not good looking. I’m brown skin south asian girl and south asian muslim boys only love fair skin girls. Even the guys mothers reject me cause I’m brown skin and not fair white skin
@sehrinteressant
@sehrinteressant 4 месяца назад
This is so true! Never had a guy in my life who truly wanted me. Now I‘m finally ready to only open myself up to MEN who want something deep, long-lasting, committed and who love me in the same way I love them. No more onesided feelings and relationships where we only are with each other because he only likes the way it feels. I want real men ❤ Love your videos Ismail, they’re such a blessing!
@user-mv2tg8hc8c
@user-mv2tg8hc8c 11 месяцев назад
You’re advise sounds sincere, honest, well balanced, and reasonable! Thank you!
@thinkplays1878
@thinkplays1878 11 месяцев назад
Im feeling..days back I asked him but he couldn't give straight answer and he had been inconsistent. Then I quit. I do not deserve to be treated like that.
@Anastazka00
@Anastazka00 11 месяцев назад
Your videos are of incredible quality! I can’t believe you don’t have hundereds of thousands of views. I wish you luck and subscribe! Btw, the video on how to make man respect you would be perfect and I think it would attract large audience.
@enrikadaubaris
@enrikadaubaris 11 месяцев назад
good thoughts, loved that!
@nishatchougule4660
@nishatchougule4660 Месяц назад
Thankk you for sharing. Much needed 💯❤️❤️🥺
@dogloverboxer1426
@dogloverboxer1426 8 месяцев назад
Excellent video. Thanks so much!
@erinbailey7278
@erinbailey7278 29 дней назад
Thank You Ismael! You hit the nail on the head with each of these. Dadgumit I wish you weren't right, but you sure are. Please keep sending out helpful videos. Much Appreciated!
@kluski3644
@kluski3644 4 месяца назад
Thank you for sharing such geniuine thoughts. These just spot on and reflect reality.
@vicnanziri4617
@vicnanziri4617 11 месяцев назад
Have just started watching your videos and it's amazing how they're on point! You're videos are very insightful, thanks very much. Have got me to subscribe.
@ireneperalta245
@ireneperalta245 10 месяцев назад
Thank you Sir! good information.
@WashoeValleyCollies
@WashoeValleyCollies 6 месяцев назад
You have alot of wisdom for a Kid! Great mind and heart I see in you!
@AnnaLim-tb6gm
@AnnaLim-tb6gm 11 месяцев назад
Thanks Ismael😊
@angelicaschannel08
@angelicaschannel08 10 месяцев назад
Hei! Ismael. Thank you so much. Your videos were very helpful to me. Now,I can understand more about men, dating, and having a relationship.
@SaveTheMessenger
@SaveTheMessenger 10 месяцев назад
Glad to help dear.
@audreypistor4610
@audreypistor4610 22 дня назад
Beautiful quote and by the way I loved a man by the name of Bob, and he showed me that kind of love you spoke about. He passed away before we were able to get married. I will always love him and never forget him. He had all the qualities you are talking about. So, for my future reference I do say what you suggested.... would Bob treat me like this and that's when I know. Thank you... you are so right. Love your site.
@elizkimu3361
@elizkimu3361 10 месяцев назад
Waoh,very good lessons and insights.Keep up
@tachacastilho
@tachacastilho 2 месяца назад
Lots of love from Brazil TYSM ❤
@makelifematter1896
@makelifematter1896 17 дней назад
Thank you, my brother keeps saying something isn't right..just as you say one minute, he sends flity stuff songs, then boom nothing..😢you are so won derful
@akiwara
@akiwara Год назад
Jeeeeeezzzz My grasp of how men think has gotten better. You are now my best friend, my love guru. 😜😄 Thanks so much Ismael. All the best. ✨
@SaveTheMessenger
@SaveTheMessenger Год назад
Haha love guru. I like that title 👍
@jamieolivarez9083
@jamieolivarez9083 10 месяцев назад
Hi, I just ran across your videos! 😮 thank you so much for your insightful advice on a “man's perspective” You are on point. Thank you, thank you! I'm in my mid-40s, divorced, and have been single for 8 years now. Your information is way more insightful than what have experienced in my dating experience in the past.
@SaveTheMessenger
@SaveTheMessenger 10 месяцев назад
Thank you for your kind words Jamie. I'm glad to see my videos are helping you.
@mariepadilla7001
@mariepadilla7001 Год назад
you’re awesome thanks so much
@elliekudou8592
@elliekudou8592 11 месяцев назад
So amazing video thank u alot.
@SaveTheMessenger
@SaveTheMessenger 11 месяцев назад
Thank you for your kind words.
@elliekudou8592
@elliekudou8592 11 месяцев назад
@@SaveTheMessenger if I may ask..what does it mean when he was great and cool in the begging sharing everything w me and even sending me precious present then suddenly.....cutting everything says u control and u ruin it and it's interesting anymore ..... even tho he shared his darkest sides anger issues I took it but then he says "if u have a topic to talk about u can talk w me otherwise dont " .. he becoming total stranger . Can u give me advice ? Ps. Its distant friendship
@tericeytracyfifie
@tericeytracyfifie Год назад
Tired 😴😩.. wait love chase me lah..
@ialy9
@ialy9 11 месяцев назад
Omg so true! 😂❤❤
@priyabachhar4043
@priyabachhar4043 Месяц назад
Hey ismael ! Thankyou your vedios r so inspiring n helpful to know a guy on a deep way bt what if a guy is loyal to you n still hanging with his female frnds or crush wothout knowing you too much information
@sana.sshaikh5790
@sana.sshaikh5790 Год назад
Thnks dude.. i need motivation nd heal my self to move on in ma lyf
@SaveTheMessenger
@SaveTheMessenger Год назад
Be patient. A new journey awaits you.
@rimpasartofliving6987
@rimpasartofliving6987 11 месяцев назад
So nicely no one has explained...it has become so easy to take the next step
@SaveTheMessenger
@SaveTheMessenger 11 месяцев назад
I'm glad to hear the video helped you to take the next step.
@rimpasartofliving6987
@rimpasartofliving6987 11 месяцев назад
@@SaveTheMessenger Thanks for replying..From India
@farjanaakter3918
@farjanaakter3918 10 месяцев назад
Thank you.sir.good.information
@farjanaakter3918
@farjanaakter3918 10 месяцев назад
Forme.... Bangladesh
@Xianzara20
@Xianzara20 6 месяцев назад
Great 🎉
@jewelclark2512
@jewelclark2512 11 месяцев назад
If you’ve almost fell in love… it didn’t Really happen so now you don’t trust yourself anymore, what do you do? ( I just turned 44 and I’m a divorced woman who hasn’t ever been in love or a relationship since he divorced me in 2012. I don’t Date much and I was shocked to find myself reacting to a guy but I didn’t know what to do! My almost romance was in 2021 I’m super sorry for the long comment/question thank you for the video)
@lynnebucher6537
@lynnebucher6537 23 дня назад
A wise man once said women should not make a man their priority when he sees her as only an option.
@user-wu1in6yq8g
@user-wu1in6yq8g 11 дней назад
Thanks dear 😊now l know where l belong in his life 😢
@sssam844
@sssam844 11 месяцев назад
It always fails on the 4th point. All my exes moved away for a job😂 I don't know how to have something lasting in the late 20s, early 30s when everyone is a job hopper including myself. I also am not the good-looking one, so I'm becoming quite desperate
@annmariebudyn
@annmariebudyn 4 месяца назад
You will be beautiful to someone....be patient.
@jonipangda2927
@jonipangda2927 10 месяцев назад
Woow,very well said
@burntchickennuggets7067
@burntchickennuggets7067 11 месяцев назад
I'm so confused with this guy I like rn. So basically he learned that I had feelings for him, he blocked me because things won't be "the same". The thing is, the night before he discovered my feelings, he opened up to me about his mental health issues and I comforted him of course. But he ended up shutting down saying things like "forget this ever happened". So I sent him a long paragraph of comfort and all which was smth any other friend would do. Him being vulnerable to me demonstrates that he trusts me. So why did he cut me off? That's what I'm confused about.
@cr22294
@cr22294 11 месяцев назад
Girl what I’ve learned is if it’s confusing then he’s wasting your time. A man that is truly into you won’t have you anxious about how they feel about you. It will be known.
@smartyetfashionable2085
@smartyetfashionable2085 11 месяцев назад
Hi, I've married a man after a "love story" that lasted 6 years. We have a daughter who's 5. But we're seperated now and I really don't know how to deal with him. We used to live together with his family, but when I told him I wanted an independant life together as a couple he refused. Then I left. It's been 4 years now that we're apart. I've tried filing for divorce but I chickened out. He shows up into my life then vanishes as he pleases. I really could use some advice.
@sorayalolita8052
@sorayalolita8052 11 месяцев назад
Set boundaries: tell him what you need from him, and what you can’t accept. Draw the line in the sand. Then let him choose. He will give you what you need, or he won’t. Either way, you will be free.
@smartyetfashionable2085
@smartyetfashionable2085 11 месяцев назад
@@sorayalolita8052 Thx for your advice. I really appreaciate it. I should just confront him and see where this goes.
@jenshaw8085
@jenshaw8085 10 месяцев назад
You already know what to do. File for divorce, get what you’re entitled to, assets, alimony, child support… and move on with your life. Make sure your parenting plan is detailed about what he can and cannot do.
@lynnebucher6537
@lynnebucher6537 23 дня назад
He's toying with you, getting what he wants then detaching. Don't put up with a man who treats you like that.
@smartyetfashionable2085
@smartyetfashionable2085 23 дня назад
@@lynnebucher6537 Thanks
@CristinaRodriguez-wl2mm
@CristinaRodriguez-wl2mm 11 месяцев назад
Can we date u? heheheeh You seem like a great person
@deviram6061
@deviram6061 4 месяца назад
What about if a guy call u like twice an u didn't get to answer the call an up on the third time u still didn't get to answer him when he call again
@mrssun21
@mrssun21 10 месяцев назад
What if he does half of this ? But we are both moving away soon so there's probably an "expiration date"
@heidypichardo4603
@heidypichardo4603 11 месяцев назад
It can go both ways, interesting
@hadeermostafadesign2169
@hadeermostafadesign2169 Месяц назад
❤🎉
@mariaalina5870
@mariaalina5870 11 месяцев назад
I see most of your videos on yt and insta and I was wandering are you single? 😊. Thank you
@Vaxedia
@Vaxedia 5 месяцев назад
Does sending person a snap everyday counts as wanting to communicate everyday?
@SaveTheMessenger
@SaveTheMessenger 5 месяцев назад
I'd say yes, but that's a low-effort communication, so keep that in mind.
@Vaxedia
@Vaxedia 5 месяцев назад
@@SaveTheMessenger okay thank you
@arielvazquez2437
@arielvazquez2437 4 дня назад
😐👌
@lady00303
@lady00303 10 месяцев назад
I gotta say, good advice.. but one thing is that it's wrong to assume all women love watching horror, suspense or murder shows/films. That is certainly something I'm not into. Not all women enjoy the same thing...
@SaveTheMessenger
@SaveTheMessenger 10 месяцев назад
Agreed. I just used that as an example.
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