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They always talk about success changing you but they never talk about how it changes everyone around you too. The envy, jealousy and contempt it triggers in friends and family
My fellow alux'er.....if you are getting such reactions from those in your circle you need to make new circles to inhabit. Because continuing to surround yourself with mutineers you are just asking to be fed to the sharks. And I am not talking about the ones on TV with Mr. Kevin O'Leary!!!
00:00 - Intro 00:23 - Too much success without the right mindset is a curse 02:25 - Take great care of your relationships 04:37 - Tryharding will bring unbearable stress 06:00 - Too much success can make you forget who you are 08:07 - Envy, resentment and isolation
I agree with most of, if not all of these beliefs, especially the ones that talk about successful people who turn arrogant, selfish and entitled. Something my daddy always said is "Money usually doesn't change someone. More often than not, it shows who they are." And I agree with this as well. I think the most dangerous thing that can happen to someone once they become wealthy and successful is losing your self and the people who love you the most, because as you pointed out Alux, no amount of wealth or success will be more important than the people you love and it's always important to stay true to your roots. ❤️ #StayTrueToYourself
Some people have no roots, they are born poor and all they wished for is to get money, i remember when i was younger i hated the story of my mom not having cash, it pushed me to lack balance thank God covid slowed me down abit to realize it.
I suppose if you know that what you're doing is for yourself and your love ones, those you love... I guess it's easy to get stuck to just the yourself part if you have no one tho. Like an orphan who you can't help to not become too close with their foster families
I think the most dangerous thing that can happen to someone who obtained a great amount of wealth is to not be present with their blessings. People get caught up in imagery and forget what is important.
I believe one of the most dangerous things someone may do once the become wealthy and successful is to forget the humble beginning and the community that shaped that person to become the diamond they became. Then go against that community and purposely sabotage there progress.
Human civilization started to make fire by rubbing stones. Do you still appreciate and follow that lifestyle. Success is earned by hardwork, why abandon all that and return to humble lifestyle. Thomas Alva Edison invented light bulb. Please be humble and go back to petrol max.
I'm only a 16 year old grade11 but I can relate to this video I worked hard last year in my academia Some of the motivation came from this very channel But since then I've been working harder to maintain the top achiever status at school It's only been 40 days since we've re opened this year and I have also felt like I'm going to be embarrassed if I lose the status as many learners at my school have been clearly jealous of it . I thought I should do even more this year but it has decreased efficiency and it consumes me right now because every mark I lose in a test feels like my future dream is fading But I'm still ready to change♥️
Relax! It’s ok to not be perfect. Nobody likes somebody that is always trying to be better than them. Support your friends too and let them win sometimes
As you mention dealing with people's jealousy is difficult although understandable in many cases. Jealous people see the results of success but not the process that went into achieving such success and they want the result. In addition, it is important to continue growing: emotionally, economically and to keep learning. The process of growth should never stop no matter the level of success achieved.
The most dangerous thing that can happen to someone who is wealthy is not having genuine loving relationships in their life and a sense of greater meaning in their lives. Falling on the hedonistic treadmill is a common trap for some or quite the opposite being on the hamster wheel of working hard every day With no inner or spiritual fulfillment And instead a lot of strikes mental language and physical suffering via illness. Or lack of physical fitness.
Alux you always inspire and give the gems around being successful. While at the same time giving us a head start in our journey and understanding of what road block or opportunities that may be in our future. I will always support this platform !!💯💯💯
I think the WORST THING that can happen to anyone that BECOMES successful is to LOSE THEIR HUMILITY AND HUMBLENESS; NEVER forgetting where you came from and started...
Human Civilization started very humbly that they ate raw meat and uncooked food. After many thousands of years they invented fire by rubbing stones. Are you humble to go back to this lifestyle from where we all started?
Oftentimes, the people who love you the most don't want you to succeed because they're afraid of losing you, which is a valid concern. Since they see you headed where they can't (or afraid to) go, they're scared you'll leave them behind. They make fun of, or discourage your efforts to move ahead. Sad thing is, it's often true. To move forward means to go to a different place, and the "best ones" often leave their small town, poor neighbourhoods, or tight religious groups to progress to bigger, better places, which can be a real loss for those who stay behind. It's not so much that they resent you - rather, it's that they like having you around.
It wasn’t ever about the money. Not the first time something’s been gotten good at. Treating things correctly and with balance while staying true to the core maintains the straight line straight. Y’all are dead on. If the people whom surround the person doesn’t force transparency, maybe it’s time to think about a few things. Weponized transparency has saved my butt more times than I care to admit when I had no clue what was going on culturally. I got it dead wrong for a whole year straight. I followed her guidance to the t and made it through nearly unscathed, and learned a great deal that can unequivocally be immediately applied to a lot of other areas quite effectively. To top it off my wife learned this straight off RU-vid itself. Good challenge alux
Money doesn't change people, it amplifies them. If you were a jerk before, you'll be a major jerk if you get rich. The thing that actually changes people is Fame. There's something about getting accolades from large numbers of strangers that just gets in your head and breaks things.
That's why dear Alux lady and team, I respect your content!!!! Several times you covered the other side of the stories. Wealth definition need to be much broadened. In Indian context, ashtaishvarya siddhi rastu is methodical construct.
“The days are long, but the years are short” - kids grow sooo fast and from what I hear, celebrities kids grow faster. He must’ve felt like he stepped into the film ‘old’ whenever he got home 😅
But his kids and his generation if they manage the wealth he is creating in a good way they may not know poverty in their life time.... Every family needs one generation sacrifice to create generational wealth.
Everything said here is true! One of my family members became wealthy. Also became self-centered, arrogant, and began treating people he saw as “beneath” him as garbage. Now, he’s broke because he couldn’t manage the money and blames everyone else for his failure. Should refer him to your vid “traits of a low-value man.” He exhibits all of those characteristics as well.
Hahaha sorry for him there is always a different perspective to look at any one. Check out the traits of a high value man on this other channel to compare
I have had my downfalls, I also have my accomplishments. I am not wealthy, I come from a poor immigrant family. My sister went to college, I joined the Army then went to college. I went through R.O.T.C. and got commissioned as a 2nd Lieutenant. And my sister became a lawyer. A friend became jealous that I was commissioned as an Army Officer. WOW ! He couldn't be happy for me, but had to make a snide remark. I thought it was just him, during the course of life people are jealous of my few accomplishments. When I become successful with my financial ambitions, that I will keep quiet. I will buy a new car, but a common model. I always had this motto, 'I don't want to be a millionaire, I just want to live like one.' Meaning... I will live modestly, dress normally, not to bring attention to myself. But I will have the millions to live a fantastic life. Contribute to the arts, charities, save families their homes by paying off their foreclosure mortgage. Those are my ambitions, and keep my charity work quiet 🤫.
The most dangerous thing I think that could ever happen to someone who became successful is to forget where they came from or think they better than everybody!
Envy and Recentment is true. In 2020 a group of women orchitstrated a big lie about me to ruin my reputation. And on top of that tried to extort money from me. Its crazy, but you have to be on my shoes to understand. Lots of my friends couldnt believe it was happening.
I think the most dangerous thing to having wealth and success is you or a family member can become a target of scrupulous acts. Robbery / theft / Kidnap especially if you came from a world where those types of people knew you.
Growing up my dad always said the worst thing that can happen is being the only successful person in a community. He said always empower as many as you can and if they dont like it move to like minded people
Two things. 1) Money amplifies who you are. If your a low key asshole. Money turns you into a raging asshole. If your calm and collected, money just makes you more zen. 2) More money you make. The less people you can relate to. Reason why country clubs are a thing.
The most dangerous thing that happens when someone becomes wealthy is justifying the exploitation of workers because they just aren't working hard enough.
How much is enough ? I would rather earn enough to be comfortable & happy, without financial worries. Instead of ultra rich that starts owning all your time. Happiness & success is a balance of multiple things - no money worries, health, lovable family, love what you do in or outside work & time. Having time to rest, enjoy, reflect & help those you love. To much of anything is bad after a while, so work out the perfect balance.
If a person becomes wealthy the scariest thing that can happen is that family will ask him for favours and if he doesn't favour them they will simply cutoff and say that wealth has made him ignorant.
What we have learnt to do is teach them my family ignored me said i went against family norms of being an academic when i did not graduate from uni. Then told off other cousins not to follow my foot steps, now they all call me for help. My business grow so fast i am always getting new numbers and the others are left to be office numbers then they said i boast. Later call me for advice. My dad stood by me he is all i needed. Now he is so proud. We keep pushing the ones talking behind our backs are behind for a reason.
The most dangerous thing for someone young with success is toys I have permanently handicapped myself from being stupid not just on one occupation but multiple I love to racecars .. My advice let the money stack and enjoy your peoples ..
I think the most dangerous thing that can happen to a person once they become wealthy is to forget the one who allowed them to achieve that level of wealth and success. In lack of better words, only by the will of Allah one becomes wealthy or successful 🤲🏽 so thank him
I have a friend with money, he says if you have a problem and can throw money at it and it goes away, you don't have a problem. People with things such as incurable diseases have a problem. He also says when you have money you don't have less problems, you just have different problems.
I don't give a fuck bout the feelings it might create in people around me. Instead i rather seen them peep the same vision, and help me somehow. It's not easy getting rich. ( Real Rich) Out of hard work and smart thinking. REQUIRES A LOT FISICALLY AND MENTALITY ENERGY AND TIME. AND YOU REALLY GOT LOVE DOING IT. Other than that, Only get my job done, get the money and run. Rich people don't like money haters and suckers. If anyone trying, be real to yourself.
Wealthy mindset is the vehicle on the road to abundances. Most people don’t have the fiscal discipline to pursue real rich over looking rich. Getting “real rich” is hard and most people are not willing to put themselves through hard times to achieve it.
ALUX has taught this 77 years young serial entrepreneur that wealth and success is when you obtain financial FREEDOM and leave a LEGACY that I can be proud of and most importantly improves the lives of others and the Planet. It is ALL that matters to me as I strive to become a TIME BILLIONAIRE 😂
Alux post the best vids about self improvement mental/spiritual health. And all around the guid to a more fulfilling life always going to support Alux 💯💯 😊
The most dangerous thing that can happen to a successful person is getting kidnapped or murdered due to jealousy or envy. You should be private about your success because you never know who is around you. Sadly, sometimes it's the person that your old friend brings around that endangers your life. You must be cautious about who you allow around you and who people bring around you. The most important decision you make in your life is who you choose to associate with. If they don't fit or cause you trouble, get them out of your life. 💯
The most dangerous thing to happen when you become wealthy and successful is to forget who your real friends are. Remember those you pass on the way up may also pass you on the way down.
Empathy is great but dont try to save those who have lived mediocre lives and efforts. Specially if the idea of helping them is just giving them money. No.
Thanks ALUX a gazillion for this video. It was such a truly a grounding, and refreshing reminder to stay focused on what matters. I got the most from the last half of this video. This was a very welcomed gear shift from your usual style of video content and messaging. Thank you again ALUX!
This is really important and true... When they were spending way more time bringing me down with physical, drug abuse I used to be like go spend that time towards your goals and god... Why do you come behind my back..? *we had it all and all eyes were upon us for the fall* #connormurphy , me, avicii, chester, many....
Truly successful people - in life as well as business/ finance - view money as nothing more than a score card: an indicator as to how well you are doing in what ever your chosen game is (business, athletics, entertainment, etc...) Lose sight of this and you will inevitably have life problems.
I think 🤔 it depends on the individual and the circle of people they surround themselves with. We are truly all alone on this journey called life. No one has to know anything about you at all. I want to study and live alone doing research. Many people find this boring. This is what I want.
You forget why you became successful in the first place. Most wealthy people did not become successful to save the world or cure poverty. There is a specific reason they became wealthy, and loosing touch of that is a real shame.
I've seen people with a lot of success, who's entire lifes revolve around wealth, how to perserve it and how to get rid of people,who might potentionally be a thread to their money.They are obsessed with the idea that they might be taken advantage of. Not the best people to be friends with.
This administration putting so many families into difficult situations, I can’t come up with one damn feasible thing that our government has done to help America! I appreciate your advices Zelinda Greg, Imagine investing $1000 and receiving $10,350 in 3days.
after a person become successful its common that person would be surrounded by people who are not interested in spending time with them in a genuine why but for a different reason that that person may not be aware of
What i think can be dangerous is ....when we have someone we care about weather be friends family any anyone we care they are targeted just to get to you from the kidnap for ransom , blackmail and from what wealthy relatives that advised against dont share too much it will be used against you and thoes you care about and close people
The quantitative and qualitative values of life +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ Quickly, he called to his disciples, "I tell you the truth, this poor widow has put more into the treasury than all the others. They all gave out of their wealth; but she, out of her poverty, put in everything-all she had to live on." In life what comes out of the heart through blood and sweat is qualitative.. What is generated superficially is known as quantitative... Although both must go hand in hand the qualitative stands taller than the quantitative according to Wisdom...
I never thought I was better than anyone else, I desire more then what I had, understanding where I came from was not going to by the end of all all, was willing to take a chance on ME to make that happen, willing to learn, make a great difference in the lives of others along the way, NEVER forgetting where I came from, staying in gratitude, like it or not, while enjoying the journey and let's go! 💪💪💪💪💪💪
The Saga is right about people. Some will turn on you and only befriend you for your wealth 🤑💰. I'm already alone. So all I want is to live a life of self for fillment. Just to try and chase my goals.
Very important to Not flaunt your wealth too much , envy can come from surprising places it it’s is a shock to most people that achieves succes probably something they didn’t think about too much while they were working hard to build their wealth and freedom
People can have success in life, but the wealthy & ultra-rich should pay their fair share in taxes, which means they should pay more than the average American.
The evolution of creation is to keep evolving till our time is up. Contentment is good but satisfied means yout time is up. Keep making the world a better place
This i agree with you. During covid my family got ill and we spent alot of money in hospital it was a very bad feeling spending without the ability to work
