The beauty of being 68 is that I don't give a hoot about what other people think of me....I let my hair go gray 15 years ago along with a super short pixie cut,. I can't be bothered with long hair, color, make up and the like. My concept of simplicity is to enjoy life, eat healthy, be out in the woods. My clothes are handmade or thrifted. I don't care about trends , I love my linen dresses, hand knit sweaters and socks. Don't voluntarily crawl into a box you don't want to be in, you are lovely and quirky and have taught even me a thing or two!
@@drendelous I told my daughter once that all the anxiety, ultimately, is for other's opinions and the only opinion that matters is hers.Enjoy your journey into crone hood but also enjoy the present. Make your life what you want it to be!
My gods woman. You have no idea how extraordinarily beautiful you are, both inside and out. One of the posters here, Gerrit said it succinctly, "Don't voluntarily crawl in other people's boxes". There is a certain type of face and eyes that pixie cuts enhance and you have them. There is literally billions of dollars made by making people feel like crap about themselves. And it's true, you reach a certain age or experience a crisis of some kind and realize that none of that external, cultural, social expectations and norms means a damn. Fly and be free beautiful soul.
Dear Ana, when I "met" you the first time here on RU-vid your hair was short and I loved it, then your hair grew longer and I loved it and now it is short again and I love it. It is always you and that is what matters to me. Big hug, if you like, from Munich ❤
What you're saying is that we can make a new decision without having to defend it. Going to a professional hairdresser does not lessen your commitment to intentional living. Thank you for expressing your thoughts here.
This haircut is great! and I also hate when people say: "if you do this...., you will look more feminine!" Feminity is not in clothes or hair cut or make up
It's always been amazing to me how entitled people feel to have opinions about a woman's short hair. When I had short hair like yours years ago, it actually made people angry. So wild! The fact that anyone would say something to you (or any woman with short hair) about a haircut that isn't a compliment hints at how some people's views about what is acceptable in a woman's appearance are still incredibly narrow. Femininity is so much broader than long, flowing hair, and we don't owe the world "femininity" anyway. Also, I agree with others here who believe that going to a professional for your hairstyle doesn't make you less intentional or minimalist (not that you need to identify that way) - your reasoning is very sensible. You put such care and consideration into your wardrobe - having a lovely haircut that fits with your personal style absolutely makes sense.
@@anagoldberg I agree with everything Robin said above, and would add: Although I have chosen to cut my own hair for over 35 years now, the main reason is that if I don't like how it turns out, I can blame no one but myself and can learn better for next time, and it's easier to just know how I want it to look than to communicate that to someone else who doesn't always understand my intention clearly. Also it saves money. And I'm willing to live with the results while it grows out if I don't like how my self-done haircut turns out. But just because I do it that way doesn't mean anyone else should; it's just my preference and habit. I even used electric clippers for several years to keep my hair super short, as I loved the practicality of it and the ease of keeping it clean on long camping road trips (wash my hair easily and quickly with just a washcloth!). I got called "sir" occasionally by mistake but just laughed it off with the person when that happened. At the moment it's on the longer side for me, shoulder length, but I'm enjoying putting it up on my head in different ways. I also go and pay for things some other people do for themselves, because it's simpler, less stress, and more enjoyable for me to just go and purchase the thing or the service. I don't think it makes you less of a minimalist at all if it enhances your life to purchase certain services or things. There isn't a minimalist rule book that we all have to follow! 😎
You had the short hair when I found your channel ❤. I am an old hairdresser from back in the day when “Twiggy” cut her style much like yours today. I believe that a person looks and feels better when they style their hair how they want it ❤ PS short hair is very easy to manage to me goes with minimal life style as don’t need lots of products or styling tools, so your not going against your minimal intention but embracing it your way ! Love the new hair do ❤🎉
Dear Ana! You are beautiful with short hair too! Just listen to your heart! I am silver fox,in late 40's but I love it,because I was cancer patient,totally bold. I am happy,because I survived and I have hair,eyebrows,eyelashes again! I wish you all the best and million thanks for the video! I send you a big hug! ❤❤❤
The new haircut suits you! As I’ve aged I’ve learned that my opinion about myself is the only one that counts. I’ve started to wear what I want and not care about norms and I feel the most authentic I’ve ever been. Clashing patterns… not a problem! I’ve noticed people respond better to me as my authentic self. Good for you and your journey!
I love the new haircut and the message in the video is something that we should all remember. We are the only ones living our lives. Period. I truly believe people that tend to criticize and give negative comments are both unhappy and unfulfilled.
Dear Ana. I remember back in Sibiria you wore your hair already short, which looks good. Throughout our life, we will change, our thoughts will change and what is good for us what once wasn't or vice versa. It's totally normal. I like your hair short or long (I wear a pixie cut for 2 decades, I have wavy/ curly hair, but can't manage it long) .You need to feel comfortable this is the most important thing and not what others think. Take care 🙏
We spend so much of our loves trying to fit in, only to realise we never did. And we love to label ourselves and try to fit into a box. I don't do that anymore. If you like certain concepts from different ways to live, adopt that into your life and reject the rest. You live your life the way you want to.
Анна, Вы выглядите замечательно с любой стрижкой. Я вижу только Вашу сияющую улыбку. Вы правы - главное внутрення свобода и любовь к себе. Удачи и спасибо за Ваши видео ❤
I always thought you looked lovely with longer hair, but wow! This haircut looks stunning on you. Let’s face it, you’re a beautiful human no matter what ❤
You look lovely both ways. It’s your gentle way and caring speech that adds to your natural beauty. I really agree with the thoughts you expressed here. Be ourselves and be kind to ourself and others.
I find you an inspiration a comfort and fun ! I couldn’t agree more I am 20 years older than you but am still telling myself the same points you mention. Be true to ourselves you are beautiful ☺️
The growth of the need to identify, label, box, and brand ourselves has really grown with social media. Introvert/extrovert, neurodivergent/neurotypical, minimalist/maximalist, gender identification… it can feel limiting when most of us are evolving on multifaceted spectrum. There is often overlap. I might be minimalist in areas of my life but maximalist in others. I might be frugal when purchasing items but generous in my choice of where I Iive. Why let our desire to be accepted into a self labeled group dictate how we express ourselves and live our life. Do what makes you feel confident and liberated. Allow yourself to change. Our circumstances change as do our bodies. I dont tell myself I only wear sandals and shorts when winter comes. I shift or I’ll be cold and uncomfortable. The same is true when a social situation changes. I adapt.
My concept of minimalism is to spend less on things, but well on services. When you buy services, you support skilled people in your community. Your stylist did a beautiful job and you look so free and happy with the short hair.
As far as hair, I think you have most beautiful hair, color AND health of hair. You do you in all regards. Ur hair remains beautiful w/color, health of hair, I've had mine that short, AND may again, who knows. I think u r a smart, bright, creative good person, w/character traits we can all use as examples.
We should always gift ourselves (and others!) with the option to change. Life is both very short, and very long. And how pointlessly limiting it would be if we never allowed ourselves (or others!) to think, or desire, or discover, or grow, or explore, or see, or feel, or just be in any other way. If something makes YOU happy and comfortable, and doesn't cause harm to others, that's really all that matters. Although, if you ask me, you also look absolutely stunning in the new short hairdo! And I hope you really enjoyed just letting someone else cut it for you 😊
Ana I know we can all probably relate to the struggles of feeling trapped in a box but I just want to let you know that seeing you explore and choose to push your own boundaries has helped me and most likely many others continue to rediscover themselves. Just wanted to say thanks is all.
Hi Ana, you should never, ever care about what other people think. But also, as you said, be careful not to force yourself in boxes, ultimately it all comes down to our det of mind. I do not confirm to anything or anyone. I don't like labels, I don't like groups. I just like individuals and I'm very selective ❤
For what it's worth, your hair is very cute! And it's true. Who cares? And if anyone DOES care, why? It isn't as if you are doing anything that endangers anyone. Yeah, I quit caring years ago. Love your style, Ana!
You have a beautiful facial structure and gorgeous skin - your hair looks wonderful! I have a double chin, and I thought this meant I couldn't possibly have short hair for years. But the reality is that one day, many years ago, I got entirely fed up of faffing about with my hair, went to a salon, and said "Cut it all off!" I think it's one of the most freeing things a woman can do for herself, to remove herself from the tyranny of longer hair which, let's be honest, is a pain in the butt most of the time. I can't imagine that I will ever go back to having longer hair, and even if it needs cutting every six weeks or so, it's my one indulgence. There's a reason women cut or change their hair when they're going through a breakup - they want that freedom and to clear their energy. I love it for them, and I love it for you. You look awesome!
A very good decision, I think ... your hair look absolutely fantastic and perfect for you in thi moment of your life!!! As my granny use to say: "everyone has to be paid for what is competent and trained to do. Your hairdresser did a good job: he/she obviously knows the job and how to do its.job at its best 👌👌👌
My husband is a filmmaker in LA and as his minimalist wife I've had to confront the fact that people are quite superficial in Hollywood. And I've had to ask what that means for me and how I chose to live my life. I love what you're sharing here because I learned long ago that we have to let go and not worship the idol of other people's superficial expectations - but it is much easier said than done! So we need others to encourage us and continue to speak truth over us so we can truly live free.
Ana, I’ve been watching your channel since you had short hair and i have to say I love it!! It looks amazing and the fact that you are doing what makes you happy and feel good is wonderful. Thank you for your inspiring words on freedom! Many blessings to you both!! ❤
You look very beautiful. A goddess . We are here to learn, grow and be happy and content with ourselves . Balance is a key to a joyful minimalist life . Thank you for the lesson 💗 only love 💗
Short hair looks so beautiful on you!!! ❤ it looks very sophisticated. I have also been gray since very early 20’s. I’m 47 now and finally ditching the dye because I’m just so tired of hiding who I am to make other people more comfortable with my appearance. It’s so hard not to care what people think though. I’m a year into my grow out and it’s a struggle
Dear Ana …. As soon as I saw your new haircut I thought WOW 😮 this looks amazing on you!!! I have never been a follower… I go to a different beat I guess… I feel that I will always be me and no one else as far as choosing to follow someone else’s path. Always be yourself !!! Have a great day 🥰🌻
you have the right to wear your hair however you want! my hair grows very fast, and i hate to go get my hair cut so i wear it longer because it's more forgiving, but i fantasize about having a buzz cut and never having to worry about doing my hair every day :)
Ana, self care is always worth it, however you can! You are brave and thoughtful and care-full! Thank you for the beautiful video and for your honesty. ❤
Thank you for this encouraging video! You are right: It is your decision and your life and it is not important what people judge. By the way, I like your new hairstyle 😃❤️! I wish you and Brian all the best as always and enjoy your life ❤️❤️❤️🙋🏼♀️
Nice to see some more outdoor footage of Tbilisi. Honestly you are so pretty, any hairstyle would suit you. Lucky you! Freedom to be you in all your glory. Wonderful!
I relate to this video so much- When starting to sew my own wardrobe, I almost felt a prisoner of the diy wardrobe. Like I had now to be sewing my entire clothing, and buying clothes was « cheating » . But I decided I was not going to be the prisoner of sewing, and would enjoy buying ready to wear clothes even when I technically could be sewing them. I sometimes enjoy a dress I didn’t make myself, and it’s ok
Thanks Ana, you look great !! This is a good talk and I appreciate your openness. Breaking boxes I think is important, as are your own values and being kind. I remember being told by a client shouldnt have pierced my nose when I was younger and is big. Really upset me stopped wearing and debate doing again. People often don't realize the effect of their words, opinions and hold onto rigid thinking. Your beauty, intentions and insights always shine And your an amazing woman /human being 😍💞
You're beautiful because you are YOU, because of your shining soul, no matter how you cut your hair!!! By the way, you're STUNNING with this brand new haircut ❤❤❤❤❤❤ Be free, be you, be whatever you want. Life is short, I love you!!!!!!!!!
Hi Ana, It has been quite some time since I have written. Just wanted to tell you that your willingness and ability to face the issues you bring up in this forum (not only today, but recently) highlights your strength and courage. For what it is worth, and I know it is non of my business, I think the decision to trust yourself and honor yourself and get your hair cut the way you like it, has freed up something in you. To me you look younger, happier, more at peace with yourself, and you radiate a vision of yourself that is very welcoming. Thank you. It isn't always easy to follow our own desires , sometimes we do not even know what those desires are, but when we dig deep and allow ourselves to discover our desires and preferences, it can make a significant difference in how we view ourselves, and how others view us. Congratulations. One other thing. I have enjoyed your video of Tbillsi. Sharing the city in which you are now residing, helps me get a sense for your environment. Thanks again. All the best to you and Brian. Peace.
Dear Willowbei, thank you for this heartwarming, thoughtful, and supportive message. I really appreciate it and enjoy your gentle presence here, always 🌷I hope to show more of Tbilisi here further on 😊
Oh my gosh!!! Ana you look beautiful! Hair or no hair, your beauty shines. I love it so much! I want to cut my hair like that, but I’m so scared to. My hair is all the way to my backside. I feel like I’m using it as a shield.
Dear Ana, you look wonderful with short hair too! I love it, it looks so cool. I also cut my hair this short from time to time and it's so liberating. It is considered as a bold statement in today's world but actually it's just hair I think. Always lovely to see you. Thank you for sharing here. 💙
I love your short hair. It frames your facial structure nicely. Earrings will be nicely on display without the longer hair. And I like the black although I am sure silver would also look great. Overall, I think that changing hair styles is such a simple and easy way to change one’s presentation. Scary to think that some people like the same hairstyle for their entire lives. They do not know what they are missing.
Fun! I love the idea of reclaiming your hair freedom. I was always in awe of your skills at cutting your hair! For me, getting some hair freedom was deciding that I wanted to cut my own! The worry about finding hairdressers, knowing what to ask for, reacting to the results, coping with it changing again, the money... Well, I've got a pair of scissors now and that was a huge relief, at least to begin with. We'll see where that particular journey goes 😄 I'm glad you've claimed some freedom!!
I'm actually very excited for you to try cutting your hair! I hope you will enjoy the process and it's a great experience to have regardless of the result 😊
Whatever Ana, I like you the way you are and want to be. Life should be fun, easy going…it doesn’t last forever and a lot of what one think is important at one point in one’s life turns out not to be after all. There’s a lot of unnecessary noise in our lives.
No worries my dear. At 61, I'm still a rebel... Going my own way and I've always done that, without fear of growing old alone. Think it's better to be called basic knowing I´m more original than all the other group copies. Love your way. You are so beautiful.
Oh yes! And I meant to say, when people try to use the word "basic" as an insult, it makes me laugh, because I read it this way: B = the archetypal mother, in esoteric wisdom. A = the archetypal father, likewise. S = the twisting path of seeking wisdom. With those ingredients (all being part of what I Am) then IC = "I see"! So "basic" could be the highest compliment and an excellent way of summing up the journey of life, if one is attuned.
Wow your haircut is lovely just as it was before. I have now reached the young age of 70. I got my first white hairs when I was about 17 I think! By the time I was 30 I had more white hairs than my dark brown ones and decided to put low lights in it. I've never liked going to the hairdressers but continued to go for quite a few years and have subtle colours put in. For the last over 10 years I have been pure white and not that I'm after complementary comments, I do get some about my hair colour. I love your weekly videos. xx
Getting older ( I am going to 62 next month) I feel such a freedom being myself.Looking back I really want to hug my younger self, thinking how much anxiety,how much shyness and unhappiness the opinion of others has caused me.Everyone has an opinion about everything and now with social media the cancellation culture is rampant.I want to thank you,Ana for always being true to yourself and remember things get better with age!😊😊
This video is showing up for me at the perfect time. I've made huge progress in being more 'myself' and not caring so much what others think, but I keep getting scared of the idea of cutting my hair short again the way I want to because I was worried about the same things you were. Thank you for making this and helping me find a bit of courage. ^-^
I like your new short haircut (at end of video). I think it's very pretty with your face. It looks smooth, practical, streamlined, neat, and comfortable. It's totally silly that anyone would comment to criticize--you be yourself and do what pleases you most. People trying to label each other (or even themselves) has always struck me as silly--can be fun or functional, like a "minimalist" label, but beyond that I see no point. Those are just mental categories, projected. Keep being you, whatever that looks like from moment to moment! 💖 From my own experience I would say that our essential nature is unchanging and beyond time, and at the same time it's fun to play here with endless expressions of the dimensions of What We Are. Enjoy it!
I love it! And good for you for doing something that pleases you. I think a short cut like that brightens your eyes and shows off your beautiful smile. You look very fashionable! Plus, it is always a treat to go to a salon. ✂️💇
You look gorgeous with your new hair cut. But most importantly you're a pretty woman because you're a great person. We truly shouldn't determine our identity by other people's opinions.
I love this video, maybe because I don't like labels. I have my ideas and I love sharing them with other people, but there are so many shades and we are all a little bit different (that's why we are so interesting?). When I saw you for the first time your hair were short, so in my mind you have always been as you are now, that's great!!!
