Great video yet again. My biggest insecurity is/was my shyness in front of strangers, but I have learned that even the most loudest person hasn’t got it all together either. Over recent years I tend to consider my vibe as a positive rather than be too concerned about how (sometimes) I struggle to open up, because I do know that people who enjoy my company feel at ease. Having said that, if I get a good vibe from someone I’ve never met before, I can be very chatty.
Thank you for having the strength to share your insecurities! I am so glad you feel safe to do it as well 🫶 I think it's super valid to be shy and I even think that being reserved is a protective technique to keep you safe from people or environments that are not for you (and has probably saved you from a lot of unnecessary headaches). I do the same. I think we overvalue being super social and extroverted. I always say: In a room full of people, look for the ones that are the quietest because those are the ones that have the most to say. Thank you again for sharing part of your story, it really makes me feel seen! 🤍
@@Laurindalandia Thank you. One reason I used to drink alcohol was to numb out the emotions I felt about people I didn’t particularly like or get on with. I also used to wish I was extroverted but now I know that was a bad idea, as I’m happy as I am.
@@welshboy4840 I can relate to you a lot! I also used alcohol and substances to numb myself. A big part of my healing journey was just to accept myself as I am. I feel so grateful that you feel safe to share your story, thank you! 🫶
