The Difference Between Male And Female Depression 

That's actually a really interesting thought.

Just gave me a few ideas.

They still exist.

​@@helgaioannidis9365 where ?

@@jordonschwedas4621 do you ask me for a list of all monasteries of all religious groups world wide? I'm not able to provide that, that's a lot of stuff to type and research to do. But if you really consider living in a monastery, I'd recommend searching for a monastery in your area through Google and contacting them.

i got chills when he said that

And when I repeat that quote it becomes mine. yeah baby

He who has a why to live can bear almost any how.-Friedrich Nietzsche Nietzsche said it better.

@@AmeliaBodilia Agreed. Smith's version is a bit verbose but still lands on the same sentiment.

Brilliant quote, but I would add: "...with a smile on his face.". Just sounds like it rounds it out easier.

Yes,Victor Frankel man's search for meaning.Nietzsche said to live is to suffer,to survive is to find meaning in the suffering,which is a great quote as well

Victor Frankl!!

Excellent!

A feeling of love will have it's ups and downs, you can't feel in love with someone all of the time. The second respect goes however, you're screwed.

Bruh that wasn’t the point

Yeah both men and women need both. A man respected but not loved is basically trapping a women in a relationship she's too scared to get out of.

Not the point of the clip

exactly man, i thought one comes with the other lol

IF you had to chose between one of them, the answer is respect, I don't care how others will respond that my take, that's what I want more then love because love is just chemicals, respect is power Can you love a man(no homo) and have no respect for him? Can a woman love a man without respect for him? Yes....his mother. Nowone else. Same for woman if you love her but don't respect her, you probably just want to fuck her Woman love men, don't respect them That's called "Guy best friend"

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@@beianimeyah24 Is there a problem?🤔

Woman NEED love. Men NEED respect. Love and pity can go together. Is pity respect? Love and respect are not a single package.

@@valiancesteadfast9550 No. Women NEED respect and Men NEED love as well. It’s not an or situation and I don’t know why people try to push that narrative. That’s how successful relationship work, when the partners in question has and is satisfied with BOTH. The two aspects are supposed to coexist. Then we wonder why people’s relationships are failing, because of these false beliefs.

@@valiancesteadfast9550 This is some shit guys say to justify beating their wives, I swear to god. “She wasn’t respecting me the way I need, your honour.” You’re JUST and ONLY men - not gods, not heroes, not masters of the universe. Just soft, pink little mortals. You’re born screaming, shitting yourself and terrified like every other person on the planet. And the only thing that gets you to survive to adulthood is love - certainly not respect. Go to therapy and work out the differences between your needs and wants. Clearly y’all don’t know.

That man then needs to earn the respect he wants

@@wyleecoyotee4252 If you don't respect the man why are you in a relationship with him lmao

@Duke McDaniels There was nothing mentioned about me. This has nothing to do with me. I was stating a point but you went and made it personal. Lol

@@wyleecoyotee4252 The generic "you" is a thing

@Duke McDaniels Generically statistically fewer women are marrying and pairing up. They choose career instead.

You make a great point to be fair but I do thing from experience men still want respect and women crave love and attention

This 100%. I loved my ex with my life but her idea of "stability" was like a house of cards. She broke up with me because I was going for something durable, stable, based in trust. She just wanted a quick Disney drama

@@acetrap That is what Sarah said, that it is true that men want respect and women want love, but that _the driving force_ underlying those wants, is that men seek purpose and women seek stability.

This is so true I’ve never thought about it like this

Absolutely! My husband has said that, while he still has occasional anxiety about work and such, he knows he can overcome anything because he has to. And he has to overcome anything because he wants to give us a good life. He says I give him purpose, which is the highest esteem I think I've ever been given, personally. Meanwhile, he gives me so much assurance and stability, which has really solved a lot of mental as well as trust issues I've had for a long time with no aid in sight, until I met him. We help each other with the things we do for each other.

I love plenty of adults without respecting them

Well said. They can never be mutually exclusive.

I completely agree. Respect comes from love as love also has to have respect, both for men, women or any living thing.

Thank you for including guinea pigs :)

I like that

I love this!

Facts

Wow

I think the main way a woman shows love to her husband is via respect. Love isn't just being mushy gushy over someone.

Truth.

I’ve been saying this - the Bible doesn’t tell women to love their men. It tells hm them to submit and respect him. Timeless wisdom.

No that's just cos they didn't dry the can opener properly

Beating up women has nothing to do with having no respect, that is just a lack of true care and love. What you likely mean when you say respect is that you just don't want to be treated badly, which is a perfectly healthy thing to want. Respect is tied to fear and admiration, men don't fear or admire women but they do love them and if he truly loves you he'd never beat you up, that's the truth. A man that beats up women for no reason is a man that never learned to love anyone, because he hates himself.

@@LionXV1 please check the dictionary meaning of respect. It has nothing to do with fear. It is rather admiration, honor and deep regard. I don’t think a man who honor, admires and has a deep regard for his wife would ever touch her harmfully or a woman for her husband would ever speak to him in a contemptuous manner.

@@nmesomambakwe1076 I was referring to the root of where respect actually comes from, not what respect means. It usually comes from the feeling of fear or admiration towards something. Obviously a man who "respects" a woman wouldn't hurt her but that's not the point, it's that instinctively men don't respect women because women are smaller and weaker, so asking men to respect women isn't going to work. Instead men need to be encouraged to love and care for women, so that they will have no desire to hurt or mistreat them.

​​@@LionXV1 So you think you can abuse your wife with respect? You can't love someone you don't respect...

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Certainly not for women. They MUST respect a man in order to love him. Men, not so sure, we’re built different. I think we could easily love a woman we don’t respect. Just like how we can be madly attracted to a woman we don’t respect. Whereas if a woman doesn’t respect a man there’s zero chance of her being attracted to him.

​@@murphsviews sure, but it's not about the man's view, it's about what a woman wants. A woman doesn't want a man that doesn't respect her either. What you speak of is what YOU allow, and it's reflective of your own value system if you're willing to "love" someone u don't respect, just goes to show you don't really know what love is.

Woman NEED love. Men NEED respect. Love and pity can go together. Is pity respect? Love and respect are not a single package.

​@@murphsviewsYou have an overactive imagination.

@@marygard4608 in your opinion

Plan and propose? You just picked something?

@@misskia5810 Why not?

"Greater love hath no man than this, to give his life for his friends." - Jesus A woman needs a man who loves her and willing to die for her. Even if her doesn't "respect" her a fucks a side-bitch (who he doesn't live). A man doesn't care if his woman is willing to die for him so much, because he understands that he is suppose to be the sacrificial lamb; he wants her to respect him and his boundaries by not embarrassing him in public, and not fucking other men and putting his bloodline into question.

@@dab0331disgusting.

I agree. However we live in a society that has lost that healthy balance. Most women now a days lack any respect for men even when they deserve it.

Same

Which actions are those?

@@jakester5272 nail on the head

​@@jakester5272can you give an example?

Neither partner can be healthy without both love and respect. Duh, manosphere m0r0ns.

​@@sarahrobertson634 "duh" "morons". so respectful of you...🙄 This is the problem. you, right here right now. If your saying rude things online, how much more hostile are you to the people who you engage with daily. your man? your father? your sons or nephews? i wonder what they would say about your level of respect for them? common courtesy is dead. courtship is dead because women expect the world and nothing ever meets your standards...

@@falleneldor I don't respect red pill males. It's not rocket science. The men in my real life, in real time, are not red pill. They're actual alphas. The quiet kind who are stoic and don't complain. Shhhh.

@@sarahrobertson634 Red pill, blue pill, one pill two pill, no matter. I am Just making observation is all. There was no disrepect intended. I was just making a point is all. You think perhaps they just avoiding the drama in your daily life? You only know what they share with you. Might be easier to avoid battles and tell you what you want to hear? (That detroyed a friend's marrage because no matter what his wife was never content.) They gonna talk to the boys about "how women be" thats life... same as women talk bout thier men. No relationship, of any kind (husband wife, farher daughter, friendships etc) are devoid of strife. One of the things you said i agree with whole heartily. Respect is a two way street. I think open communication is indeed key, but also letting the small stuff slide so long as the major problems are assesed and dealt with.

@@falleneldor What I want to hear is silence.

Same for me

They’re talking generally

So you want the drink and desert too . Women need to be pampered men don’t. Men needed to be respected for their decisions. Women GENERALLY are not making decisions in a relationship let alone ordering for food in a restaurant.

You can’t be loved of you’re not respected

​@@SHIZZLE71 they are talking crap.

So who's job is it to give him purpose?

The society@@OneTwo-yw4ij

I think you're absolutely correct. I was thinking about this and it does boil down to purpose. But women and men look at purpose differently. Meaning it translates differently when applied practically what purpose means to them. I think the gentlemen on the video are also right, because what they're saying is basically unpacking purpose from a males perspective, it would sound differently for the woman.

How do men earn respect? People have different standards to respect.

@@TheShredtube Assessing him through his actions and words.

​@@TheShredtube what kind of respect do you want? For your accomplishments? Be competent and have something to show for it. For your intellect? Be intelligent, articulate, but try to avoid arrogance. For being a good person? Be kind, empathetic, and charitable. For your leadership? Take initiative, follow through, and guide others toward mutual success. For your personality? Have charisma and a good sense of humor. There are so many ways to earn respect.

Nah huh, that is misogyny. Women should get respect without have to earn it🤡 (yes I'm trolling don't @ me 🤭)

Alright, time to look at how women must earn love.

Yeah, these are generalizations, but in reality it's a spectrum. Both men and women crave love, acceptance, respect, and purpose. Women generally want love and acceptance a little bit more than they want respect and purpose, and men vice versa. They go together, too - if you love someone, you'll give them respect.

"Greater love hath no man than this, to give his life for his friends." - Jesus A woman needs a man who loves her and willing to die for her. Even if he doesn't "respect" her and fucks a side-bitch (who he doesn't love). A man doesn't care if his woman is willing to die for him so much, because he understands that he is suppose to be the sacrificial lamb; he wants her to respect him and his boundaries by not embarrassing him in public, and not fucking other men and putting his bloodline into question. A woman would rather have a cheater who is willing to give her his seat on the lifeboat of a sinking Titanic vs. a sexually faithful man who's a coward and unwilling to die for her

@@dab0331 A cheater is not going to die for his woman LOL. What a bizarre hypothetical.

​@@dab0331 - wow your morals are really messed up. Who would respect an unfaithful man? There is nothing to respect there!

Same. This is bullshit. Plenty of people who supposedly "love" me have disrespected and even abused me. If I feel disrespected in my vocation I lose motivation. If I'm disrespected in relationships I start losing interest and affection. And EVERYONE needs purpose.

@@aliceandfriendsvideos hear hear!

They don't know shit about women they always wanna tell us what we want in relation to what they want out of us...

​​@@aliceandfriendsvideos "Greater love hath no man than this, to give his life for his friends." - Jesus A woman needs a man who loves her and willing to die for her. Even if he doesn't "respect" her and fucks a side-bitch (who he doesn't love). A man doesn't care if his woman is willing to die for him so much, because he understands that he is suppose to be the sacrificial lamb; he wants her to respect him and his boundaries by not embarrassing him in public, and not fucking other men and putting his bloodline into question.

THIS! men will still try and tell us we’re wrong though 🗿

That's is when you pass on your wisdom my friend

That is brilliant. Wow, man. Very deep. I appreciate that comment. You are completely correct. 😁

'Being useful is a blessing that doesn't last forever' That's gonna be very motivating when I'm feeling lazy - thanks! 👍👍👍

You sound like a lovely guy.

Poor you

@@wyleecoyotee4252 Not sure what you mean by your comment but while marriage is hard it’s also an amazing blessing.

​@@shellymcgrew4412 👍🏻👍🏻

​@@shellymcgrew4412 dont worry about hatefull immature trolls. You are doing fine shelly. God bless you and your 44 year marriage. Youre doing better than 99% of americans. I wosh i had a marriage that went atleast 4 years.

@@PolishBehemoth 🙂

"Greater love hath no man than this, to give his life for his friends." - Jesus A woman needs a man who loves her and willing to die for her. Even if he doesn't "respect" her and fucks a side-bitch (who he doesn't love). A man doesn't care if his woman is willing to die for him so much, because he understands that he is suppose to be the sacrificial lamb; he wants her to respect him and his boundaries by not embarrassing him in public, and not fucking other men and putting his bloodline into question.

@@dab0331 Ok...lol

by respect we are not talking about the inherent respect that a human being has, but the respect for the potential and the achievements of men

Are modern women wives. Are you a good wife. Do you respect your husband. Because sexually we are completely different so don't bring cheating in this discussion. Men want respect women want love. Deal with it. Its biological

​​@Alice and Friends "Greater love hath no man than this, to give his life for his friends." - Jesus A woman needs a man who loves her and willing to die for her. Even if he doesn't "respect" her and fucks a side-bitch (who he doesn't love). A man doesn't care if his woman is willing to die for him so much, because he understands that he is suppose to be the sacrificial lamb; he wants her to respect him and his boundaries by not embarrassing him in public, and not fucking other men and putting his bloodline into question. A woman's bloodline is never put into question by her man cheating. We're NOT the same. Just like female cowardice isn't looked down upon like male cowardice

@@KD400_ 😂😂😂this didn't just happen to MODERN WOMEN!😂 You men do this for a thousand years. Having a concubine was fashionable for the rich, while the lower class didn't have a word for it. Traditional 1950's women have been treated this way! So don't make it out like you men have no other choice🙄

@@katharina1439 ur feminist mindset will never allow u to accept truth. So I will leave u to ur own devices. All I can say is that u will lose if u have this mindset

This betrayal goes both ways. Some women will not get told "youre beautiful" 50000 times a day and goes to cheat or hes busy at work PROVIDING for the family and she cheats smh thats a common thing and it's a stupid reason for women to cheat make that make sense and put some respect on that. 🙄

Cool. Generally i would say women want to be respected too.

women can get pregnant to get a purpose, they are biologically given a purpose, men not so much

THANK YOU!

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I agree with you, Zig. I can't love a man unless I respect him first.

@@TranscendentalMindX If we talking about romantic love for a man who doesn’t respect himself that love comes from a place of pity instead of a place of reciprocated respect.

True. It's part of their hypergamous nature. Likewise when a woman stops respecting you she will also stop loving you. Because women love conditionally, only men loves unconditionally.

Good to see that there are some wise women in here who don’t just think they know it all and are open to learning. Your husband is a lucky guy. 👍

But, you're not capable. You've tried being in the work force and your minds are crumbling. More than half of liberal women under 30 are on head meds.

That's the difference between men and women. Men know they have to earn respect, women demand it, and do nothing to earn it. You believe you are entitled to it.

@@theinfinitevoidiscringe2819 Women earn respect every day. Don't be daft. It's often men who want to be respected just because they're male, you your projection is showing. You also have to account for women's inherent breeding value, as assigned by nature, and men's lack thereof. Even considering this value, most of us are still willing to earn the respect we want. Every day.

@Joshua H. I didn't qualify my statement at all. You're just putting words in my mouth based on your own ideas. Of course capability must be proven. Are you coo coo? Do you know how many intelligent, capable women are not given the respect they deserve, even though they've proven themselves? Proof of capability is always a given. I think your common sense has suffered because of an excess of delicate male ego.

@@mary-cate5994 Thank you for using common sense, girl. I appreciate your comment. What is wrong with these other commentors, I can only speculate.

Again, that's female treatment. You need to make them feel employed, activated, utilised, capable. Engage them into physical activities or skill based activities. They will feel encouraged themselves

@@sztypettto Exactly. I do exactly that. That is what I call "to encourage"

The root of all things you say

From my experience its not exactly true. Most women can’t love men they respect , that’s why they date up. That’s why you see so many women leave relationships where everything is going well, love in the air , completely synchronised but destroy it because the guy isn’t higher status or hasn’t got their financials together etc… For men we respect after love, we do not care about a woman’s job, social status or finances.

People can respect each other without love. It happens all the time

@@BurriedTruth If a woman leaves a relationship, it was probably not a loving relationship to begin with.

@@BurriedTruth If you didn't care about a woman's job, social status, or finances, then you wouldn't be crying about women being hypergamous. You're ret@rded.

You can improve yourself without being brutal. Desperation and self loathe are not healthy states of being no matter how true you think it is.

But what do you do when there is nothing to do about that weakness in the body, right? Plus therapist won't heal you I guess. The can maybe just provide a platform for you to do the job.

@@djVania08 If you don't have some sort of debilitating condition making better food choices and consistently strength training is obviously what you do. Self hate doesn't produce muscles, food and exercise does.

As a counselor I'm really sorry you had such bad treatment. During my training I was explicitly told to pay attention to the way men express their suffering, because it's often downplayed or patients can even try to hide symptoms. So if a male patient of mine talks about his pain and difficulties, for me it's really important to tell them how much I appreciate that they trust me enough to share that with me. Next step is trying to se what resources are available in my patient's life to help with the situation and alleviate the pain. I hope you are better now!!! ☀️

​@@helgaioannidis9365 A therapist telling you not to be too hard on yourself is not that far out in left field. My male therapist tells me not to tear myself down all the time. WTF is wrong with you, lady. Are you just going to smile and nod like an empty-headed robot when some guy tells you he wants to off himself? "Duh...Thanks for sharing, John. I'm so happy that you trust me". Friggin useless.

One and a half braincells floating around in your head

Every feminist video: Women are special, men should be slaves.

@@sebsebski2829 Two peas in a pod. It's all so fucking sad that we're doing this. Your "well they started it" rhetoric represents accurately the level of maturity of the back and forth between these two online groups.

@@johnlondon5516 What's sadder to me is your rhetoric of 'they do this but you can't because I said so, and if you do I will call you immature' lol

@@sebsebski2829 Can you pinpoint where I said you can't say what you've said? I'm not about policing speech, just calling it what it is.

Thank you! This is so dumb. Why the hell would I want love without respect?! We should need both. Lol!

You ladies are living in a make-believe fantasy world. Masculine and feminine are OPPOSITES. Yin and Yang. As such, they have very very different needs. Men need respect, women need love. Note that I’m talking about NEEDS here. Not wants. I’m sure you WANT respect, just like how men WANT love, but both can do without those wants. The needs on the other hand, are needs. The only reason you’re all banging on about respect so much is because that’s what society is shoving down your throats all day long. It’s just political correctness. That’s all. There’s no actual truth to it. Also a news flash. Respect only has value because it’s something that has to be EARNED. If everyone just got handed it automatically like you ladies all seem to want, it would CEASE TO HAVE ANY VALUE. The only reason it has any value or had any value was because it was something that WASN’T just handed out to everyone just for showing up and being born. It had value because you had to first show up, and THEN you had to earn it.

@@murphsviews Political correctness lol. I am not American and can ask tribal women and they would say they need respect as well. You men need to stop shoving down our throats YOUR idea of what we want after we clearly stated. We are not delusional for y'all to come and TEACH us the difference between want and need. Misogynistic thinking at its finest!!

Woman NEED love. Men NEED respect. Love and pity can go together. Is pity respect? Love and respect are not a single package.

@@murphsviews THANK YOU. Very well said.

Is he a fellow adult or a glorified child?

And you do it because you love him and he sees you building him up as an act of both love and respect, I don’t understand the need to separate these things . Both men and women want to be loved and respected

@RatPfink66 lmao, we wouldn't have a society if that was the case, that would include you as well. Thank God your not God.

Yeah it's more so a spectrum. It's not that men want only 100% respect, they just would prefer more respect than love if they had to choose. Some men more than others of course.

Stupidity is not understanding generalities. There are humans with 6 fingers on one hand we don't say humans have 6 fingers though do we.

Men need a "why".

The point was that if you had to choose ONE. most men would choose respect whereas most women would choose love.

@@theinfinitevoidiscringe2819 😂😂 why do you claim to know what women want. A woman cannot love you, if she does not first of all respect you. And healed woman cannot feel love without respect. In a healthy relationship, Respect and love go hand in hand. You cannot choose one over the other

@@nmesomambakwe1076 Shut up.

Hahaha I think if you’re more passionate and nurturing as a man or more dispassionate and ambitious as a woman, you might not fit into the generalizations in this clip. Find you a woman who lavishes you with both, and problem solved!

​@@nmesomambakwe1076 because biology is biology

Therapists should only help you discover some insight about yourself your ignoring. They try to elongate the meetings forever because that's how they make money. Men should be done after like 5 sessions. Women go for years because they just want someone to listen to them with undivided attention. I dont think women get any results from therapy... but they think just because of the fact they are going that they are getting results. Truth is that they are getting played by the therapist.

​@@SmartestDumbGuy no. Therapists have schedules of clients so they often can't prolong the sessions. That would cut into someone else's time & throw everything off, INCLUDING the therapists schedule. Most bill by the hour, not by the minute anyways. Putting a limit on number of sessions is ridiculous because everyone's problems & journeys are unique. There is no one size fits all or some magical playbook. No matter how badly guys want the easy way, there isn't one, especially when it comes to self-improvement. Much of therapy is about learning how to connect the dots... how past experiences or familial relationships relate to how one responds to the world in their current state, issues around self-image, accountability, boundaries & I could go on.

@Just a cog in the fkery I've been many times and gone to 3 different ones. My wife has also gone for years. I've received no benefit. I've learned so much by simply watching RU-vid videos... especially on attachment styles. My wife also finally admitted that she realizes she was mainly going because it felt good to have someone to talk to... hoelwever there wasn't growth happening. Once again all her growth started happening when she learned about her attachment style as well. The therapists was helpful for her in a few sessions by looking into her family history. Everything after that was just meeting and talking about the week. I finally stopped when I challenged the therapists on what we were doing every week because it just seemed pointless. He got mad and ended the sessions when I needed answers. He is highly regarded and invented a system that is taught to other therapists. I've studied this stuff heavily for 8 years now everyday since I retired at age 30. The last therapists I met with I even started teaching him more about attachment styles since he was aware but not very well versed in the subject. He was very interested in my thoughts... but I also realized how sad it is they are charging $150 for a 50 minute discussion when they aren't even up on the latest research.

@@SmartestDumbGuy therapy truly only works if you put in effort, have patience, have goals for improvement & of course, find the right fit for individual needs. I began studying psychology myself as a teen to manage ptsd. I got a taste of therapy, couldn't continue for reasons outside of my control & studying that plus the neurological aspect became a personal hobby. I've still gone through therapy including couples with my ex (he received no benefit because he didn't want to deal with personal accountability though). So self-learning is fantastic, but often times requires a catalyst to get a person to want to dive deeper. If therapy was your catalyst, you still got something out of it in the long-run. Regarding your wife having someone to talk to, that alone highlighted an unmet need for her because she still continued to go for a while. She would have stopped on her own if it wasn't meeting that that need which wasn't being filled in her day-to-day life for some reason. Sounding boards & having a judgement-free zone to vent are an emotional & social necessity for a lot of ppl... Men talk about having that unmet need themselves all the freaking time. Same goes for women. Hopefully she still has access to fill that need outside of therapy whether it be with you, family or friends. Regarding the cost, you absolutely could have found cheaper options. I've never paid more than $75/ hr session myself & definitely got my money's worth. If we did have to go a few minutes over, I was never charged more than the base cost. I'm glad to hear that you did learn about attachment styles. Figuring those out can be incredibly helpful towards recognizing childhood baggage, the subsequent relationship cycles/ patterns in adulthood & most of all, how to improve, address & navigare certain behaviors. They've only become more understood in the last couple decades though, but, of course, learning requires ppl to be willing to learn more.

So what you are saying is you didn't feel like doing the work of getting to know yourself and you chose to make yourself more attractive instead and fill your inner void with external validation? I hate to break it to you but women do that every day too. Lol

Woke nonsense.

I mean Deuteronomy and Leviticus also had an awful lot if bad shit in it too

@@warbler1984 yes because people are messed up.

I was just thinking this!!

​@@aqqibabs What books or verses are you referencing?

@@petermozuraitis5219 Ephesians 5:33 However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband. and Colossians 3 says this: 18Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. 19 Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them.

It's exactly the same for women. There are certainly gender differences, but a desire for respect is not one of them.

That's masculinity and testosterone. We need something or someone to support us to conquer

@@KD400_ What a terrible idea. Men are ruining everything.

​​@@sarahrobertson634 Thank you... This constant and needless separation of the sexes has become mind-bogglingly frustrating. Having a purpose and having respect from your peers and loved ones in your capabilities is universally crucial to all human beings' happiness. Not only that but, depression is depression and there are many nuances from person to person; not just simply "men's depression" and "women's depression." Wish more of our brothers and sisters would realize we are not so incredibly different from one another as they like to believe.

​@@gswm747 Great response! I also don't agree with this separation based on gender. It's called generalization. All human beings need respect and it's actually the basis of love. To me love is made up of respect, kindness and patience. Respect is one of the components of love.