I know right I love hearing theories like that. It's like something you've always known deep inside but never put it into words. It's almost Freudian. But then you hear about X theory and turns out that's exactly what you've been thinking all along but put into comprehensive speech with examples and you're like "Ahhhhh. Now I have a word for it."
Hahaha he's not wrong you say, but when you see the sequence of the story you find out that he made a horrible mistake that he got him literally to lose everything 😂 So he did a mistake to think that Jeannette could ever be the dobler
Trens Gemini 😀 i think that also follows this theory. A guy you like naked in your apartment- dobbler A guy you’re not into naked in your apartment- call the cops
@@tejasmohite2651 I think the Mermaid theory is real... Seen it in some friends.. Even the theory that hot women flock to some particular profession throughout history..
The line is if the woman finds the man attractive or not. If you take 2 men and have them preform the same actions in the same situation what will define one as creepy and the other as romantic is if the women finds one attractive and the other not attractive.
Whenever I watch this all I can think about is season 1 and Ted’s pursuit of Robin, specifically when he broke into her apartment with the blue band. Robin did not find it romantic but everyone kept telling her it was.
I think the difference is that she knows Ted isn’t a creepy guy (or would hurt her), it was too grand of a romantic gesture for not-so-romantic Robin. Totally see your point though!
@@mauia88 Well, we also have to take into account that romance fades, or it's perspective can be changed by events. For example, what if she didn't think that Ted was cute after he find out that she lied to her about breaking up with Victoria, or by the break-in with the blue instruments band itself (where the hell does he get the money for this stuff?).
except robin ted and barney hanging out all the time. I doubt they will b speaking to each other in real like. Ted and barney sure. But ted barney and robin.No way in hell.
It could also make it more complicated if someone is dating multiple people and sending mixed signals. The moral of the story is don't chase tail, chase the person not the sex.
Basically why girls like twilight and 50 shades, if those guys were ugly and poor they would be the biggest creeps around. I still think they are creeps though. But a lot of women are blind and love it.
Me too, but I finally found who will love me back. Sure I have to keep her chained up in my basement but that’s only to protect her from all the crazy people out there.
On point! Though I wouldn't say just big romantic gestures. Any gesture no matter how big or small can be interpreted as romantic or creepy by the receiver depending on their attraction towards the giver
This is totally true; made me realize that girls won't always perceive my actions/advances the same way. Which is why one person can't work with every single person
The Hot-Crazy scale is a scientifically proven method. The Dobler Dahmer theory is just that, a theory, which is itself disproven by Jeannette, a clear Dahmer seen as a Dobler by a poor, desperate, and likely horny man.
Possible answers for "I like you let's go out one day?" If she likes you:"oh cool let's like your confidence". now if he doesn't like you: "you are despicable with i think you would have a chance with me you have a chance with me or any woman"
Alguém mais já essa sensação de ter ouvido essa musiquinha do Marsh cantando, como se ela fosse uma música de verdade e talz...? Por que eu to procurando já faz um tempão
A lot of those friends parody videos with Ross sounding like a psychopath without the laugh track or the eternal monolog makes this clip a lot more true.
Um, no. Refusing to accept a gesture from somebody because you don't have "that" type of relationship is the opposite of being superficial. Imagine if a random guy you weren't attracted to snuck into _your_ room and began singing about how he might die if you didn't return his affections.
@@fruitygarlic3601 Now imagine a very attractive person, like a top model, sneaking into your house, serenading you and saying that you should go out on a date with him/her. You wouldn't say no, would you? That makes you superficial, and it's natural.
@@Incognit0777 I would tell them to leave, or call the fucking police lmao. It doesn't matter if someone is attractive or not - if they don't consider your legal and/or personal boundaries just because they wanted to get you alone, they're not the type of person you should even associate with. That's a _borderline_ red flag. Also, "attractive" =/= I am attracted to them. Their actions matter.
Incognito being attracted to someone doesnt mean that that person has to be commonly acknowledged as beautiful. There are most definitely people who would say No to that model because what if his or her personality is shitty? Or else you wouldn‘t see all these couples were one person would be considered less pretty / handsome.
Um, how do you get consent if you’re asking someone out? Are you saying stay in the “friend zone“ because all that means is that you’ll never talk to them again and aren’t interested in a relationship. There is no such as “friends,” in the platonic sense as that literally has one party constantly chasing the other in a lover and beloved relationship. Either that or one party is attracted to the opposite sex as their “friends.”
Pretty much. Save all the romantic shit for the relationship, dudes and dudettes. Until you are in that pre-couple-of-times-had-sex phase, just be charming, funny, interesting and attractive and build the rapport.
@@raniaaboussaboun context: i work in a pizzeria and she was 1k km away due to a seasonal job in apuglia (we both live in northern italy tho) she was once joking asking me to get her a cold pizza all the way down to her so when i got my holidays i actually did it. long story short i paid 400 euros to get my heart shattered in a million pieces :-)
I'm trying to teach my boyfriend that his perverted side towards me aint creepy cuz I find it charming since the things he does is with me in mind only and no one else 😂
Ah yes, but this does not consider the intentions of the person doing the 'big gesture'. It confirms that the person being gestured towards is down to have a relationship but a false assumption that you might make is that the 'gesturer' themselves is not crazy in the first place.
