The Golden Bachelor: Gerry on Picking Theresa, Their Live-TV Wedding and Life in the Public Eye 

...dont have a high opinion about him

I used to love watching the golden bachelor but after seeing the finale they both made me feel sick😢

For her to get up and leave her grand children she sees daily is absolutely sickening. Shows what kind of person she is.

No longer needs to keep a secret,darn right your dirty Secrets came out for sure now lol. Gold digger. Using women to pay your rent.

Actually, Teresa said that she would not leave her family. It was Leslie that was willing to do so.

but he said to many other ladies "I love you"....bla bla.... too easy with words

Well he is not

I like your post Sally! It makes alot of sense!

Agreed - from what I read he is an old hustler.

@@GLeon-ov9yu i honestly haven’t read anything about him or didn’t watch the show but picked up on snippets in the news. Interesting how some pick up on that immediately and others don’t. She seems like a very sincere and empathetic person and I hope he doesn’t play on her emotions, good will, and bank account.

HE is a total narcissist. Even in the interviews, he rarely initiates an answer or thought. He looks at her for cues for mirroring whatever she is saying--- a total narc, player move. Leslie and the other ladies deserve so much more. He is a liar, a busted player who picked the female who will be easiest to control. Leslie and Faith are KIND, GORGEOUS and emotionally mature. Unfortunately, most males are allergic to women like them because they require reciprocity and wont be controlled or manipulated. His games is so typical, it is almost funny. A broken down old hustler knows where his game wont work, so he wont even go there-- too scared. Lol!

@@pkp6791 narcissists rarely if ever change and you are right. They know where to find their supply. Let this one play out it will be lesson for some golden bachelorettes too out there. But yeh immediate impression was charming, handsome. Then i listened and was like 🤔 that was an interesting non-answer. Love bombing, blame shifting, minimizing, all the other classic red flag signs. Her family better help her and watch out for her.

​@@dn5582she's a manipulator too, so I wonder when she'll see through him and get out. She's best off NOT marrying him, as he'll be after her money tbe moment that happens and it's probably going to get messy and unpleasant.

mhm

What about SC? Did I miss something? Haven't watched this video. I'm from SC, so curious....

​@@sherriec5258 They said that they plan to move to the Charleston area after they get married. I'm also in SC.

@@frdjr2527 Oh wow. I figured they would end up at Gerry's home, which I don't recall what state he's from. But that's nice. Thank you for replying.

​@@sherriec5258Gerry's from Indiana, Theresa's from NJ

And I wish the best to you in return ❤

@@therockbottom5256 ❤️🤗

Same to you! What a beautiful thing to say.

Same to you dear 🙏🏽

@@andreajones6840 🙏🙌😊👍

Finally, somebody says what i was thinking.... don't trust that man...

really? Why are you saying that? Playing for TV is easy, but this guy is fake

That 'switch' shows an emotional unavailability and lack of concern for anyone but self. He will LIE LIE LIE in the moment to get what he thinks he wants, then avoid any reasonable discussion of depth about it. He is a busted old player who can't help himself. Theresa looks like the joker. He picked the least attractive of the top three because he knows he will be able to manipulate her in a way he wont be able to with the others. I wish them the best.

I completely agree with you, i didn't like his behavior at all, to play with a matured woman's feeling is not the way you do it. And so many "I love you" was a bit a putting off for me. My husband, 91 and myself 75, telling each other every day: I love you, but we mean it. In my opinion, he is a calculating man and with his soap story about his wife, and now he chose a copy of his wife. Well, good luck to the woman, she wanted it so badly, she got it.

​@@pkp6791she's changed her lipstick thankfully. She's a manipulator too, so she'll hopefully get out from under his nastiness without suffering a lot. If I was her, I wouldn't be marrryong him - he's after her money.

....Theresa? She was manipulative from the very beginning. And Gary is a total liar.

@@elipotter369 not only she changed her lipstick, she had injection, unfortunately one side is uneven.. she may get her money back.

😂😂😂😂

He chose her for the ready made family and financial stability. They deserve each other.

...I dont know how will she manage to be just fine. She is old and fell in love with that fake guy. Now she will suffer for a very long time.

​@dianem7677 old? I'm 63, a newlywed, physically fit, sing semi professionally, am in process of building a new home...My mom is 88, walks several miles a day, drives wherever she needs to go.... Don't label people because of a #, please.

Leslie should be the Golden Bachelorette with younger guys.

@@dianem7677getting older is a blessing I hope to get to their ages.

@@Maryaliece ...I agree with you, I apologize for being so harsh. But that is the truth. You cannot make up your own scale. For me above 65 is old. Sorry. What you can bless is only, only ...your HEALTH....if you are healthy you can feel like young person in your 80 ties. I only referred to Leslie state of mind and feelings. I can imagine how does she feel every day when she gets up and when she goes to bed at night....No fun,. Why? Because that guy lied to her. We cannot excuse Leslie from her responsibility to remember that it was a TV show....but this guy told her that he loved her!

I think she's a manipulator too, she played to win. So hopefully she'll get out soon when she sees how damaging and grasping he can be.

@@elipotter369 from the start I sensed that he is fake...She is also not better.

Me I'm starting to go salt and pepper

It takes a lot of time and effort to keep up with coloring one’s roots every six weeks. For those willing to put the time in it looks fantastic!!! I’ve been coloring my roots for 20 years and I’m 54. I will never stop because I can’t stand grey on me.

​@@GLeon-ov9yuI coloured for a while when the silver first showed up and it looked dowdy and I still hoped to get a new job and partner. But then I read the dye instructions again and realised it said keep off your skin and it goes all over your scalp, I'm done. After, I felt I'd missed out on my beautiful natural colour changing. It's ended up looking a paler shade of blonde when I gave up coffee (health issues) the pigment came back in a band around my face. It's the nicest hair I've had on decades, if ever, I'm in my 60s. My mother had dark brunette and her salt and pepper into steely grey was gorgeous. My father had golden blonde mixed with silver. It was lovely.

...no, pls, you will look old

@@GLeon-ov9yu ...I have gray showing, but I use my way coloring and I am not gray

Yep.

If Leslie could buy a $60, 000.00 dress she must have some money also.

He went for the money and someone who agrees with everything

BINGO. Men always look for a ready made family and money to join.

YEP, I AGREE!

..that was fair game, all ladies knew that they are not the one until the end. However, that guy was dishonest when telling two or more ladies that he loved him. He wanted to keep at least one , when smarter will discover his game.

he was playing the game, but i didn't enjoy how he played Leslie..... it will get back to him one day

@TheSwisscanada I agree, I truly liked Leslie and just knew he was gonna pick her. Wow, shocked. He said a lot to all of them, but he really hurt Leslie and the girl before. I couldn't think of her name.

Yep. Theresa is a fool if she goes along with all that. Unless they pay her heaps and she has an iron clad pre nuptial.

Right but part of this one felt real as one of the last standing women broke down when she was voted off

Feels like they steered Theresa and Leslie towards him instead of the other women.

❤

Omg what did they say

@@dae4553 Sorry, it was on another video. Like this one. But I did find them. I said something not nice about Theresa. I decided it wasn't a nice thing to do so I was hunting the comments to delete them, which is what I did.

@@sherriec5258 aww I get you props to you for doing the thing you felt was necessary I on the other hand probably should delete mine too but something about that woman seems off I didn’t like the whole issue w her and Kathy which ik she wasn’t very nice but she was playing victim and basically bragging about stuff w Gerry but that’s just me. But still props to you :3

@@dae4553 I agree on what you were saying there about Theresa. She rubbed me the wrong way trying to make out to the other girls that he was in to her the most. Probably so. But her rubbing it in the other girls faces tells us so much about her under that fake smile. But thank you for the compliment. I've been trying to make better decisions and that was just one of them that haunted me. 🌺🌿

@@sherriec5258 100% and of course :3 I get you on choices haunting you etc as I’m going thru it rn but I’m glad to make u feel a bit better about it you’re doing great bby

What was truly awful about the previous relationship is he didn't tell her before she gave up her job and relocated that she would have to pay expenses. The hiding she was paying her own restaurant meals from staff was low. Kicking her out while limping was very very bad - and accusing her of deliberately hurting herself! Even if she had (which is extremely unlikely) kicking someone out and to a motel with an injury is truly horrible.

agree with you about the man Gerry

And that's the old school way of getting a guy........Soo glad it's changing. They are old school so I get it.

I agree! He also seems a bit shady

It will work-- until it doesn't. They deserve each other though. He is a narcissist who will control and manipulate her ( which wont be hard to do) and she is manipulative and cagey. This may be the 'way of catching a guy', but a real woman wont play these kinds of games because it more often than not ends up in heartbreak ( or an unhappy , dysfunctional arrangement that people choose to stay in out of codependency) when reality hits. Younger . more self assured women are refusing to play such games and are choosing to remain single unless an emotionally mature, decent man avails himself.

She manipulated him to win, she's a great talker. They both are. Both manipulated each other. He lied, he's not a restauranteur, only owned and sold a burger joint in 1985, then worked as a handyman. He also had short & long term relationships. Did you read how he sent Carolyn to a hotel because he wanted her out of the house a week early? She had leg injury but he did not care! What kind of gentleman is that? So many lies! And the women were attracted to his integrity?

@@jeanyu.1632 Low vibrational females will always be more invested in competing for a louse male and winning out over other women rather than seeing the guy for what and who he is. In comparison to the other women who were top competitors, she is rather unattractive ( in physical looks and attitude). She would be a top pick for most males because they typically prefer women they can totally control and manipulate ( although they refer to it as being accommodating and feminine). It is DISGUSTING but true. Leslie and the others are better off without this bottom dweller. Im also happy that younger women who have a sense of self worth and healthy self esteem are wise to this game and are simply opting out of dealing with bottom dwellers-- which is leaving males lonely, crying and bitter. They STILL refuse to be willing to do the BASICS of what it takes to have an actual fulfilling relationship with a REAL person.

Agree!!!!

I can’t wait for her interview after they get divorced.

You do wonder if he kicked out the ex girlfriend knowing he was going to apply for the show.

He never said he didn’t date. 🤷‍♀️

@@francinesanchez5402 He also didn't say he had a serious relationship.Someone living with you is more serious than just dating.

We dont know what producers said to do/say.

I agree with you - he’s sleazy