The Gravedigger’s Wife l 20/20 l PART 1 

I kept waiting for her to throw that in at the end lol.

@@mandaleemilly6367 same

And son

not to mention sun screen.

Lori's mother seems to be off herself.

That is because a normal person could not even conceive the horrible things she did.

Thats probably because theyre made from the same dna...monsters

Thats because you can't believe that someone who you THINK you know could do something so horrible. Chopping up and burning your kid's probably never crossed their mind's 😨

You don’t actually know someone, you know what they put out there. I can genuinely believe that her family thought she was normal by what she put out. Almost no one who knew her in the past can say anything negative about her and that’s telling. Who knows, she may have been faking all along or she fell down the rabbit hole into an ideology that lead her to do inconceivable things. Think of it like those people who believe in conspiracies

@@CaptainCaterpillars That is true..... but hindsight is always 20/20. I'm sure if truth be told that people in her life always felt that something was wrong by some of her actions. Just her history with men for example. Its like cancer patients. They get diagnosed and are in shock but will say later that they did know something wasn't right for awhile but didn't really pay attention to it and would have never thought it could be cancer. And as we know cancer kills.

You're so right about that! My friend's cousin married a woman who was married 4 other times previous to him.. the problem is, nobody ever told him! She told him she had been married before but did not tell him how many times and he assumed just once. She did not have any children and she was in her 40s - he found out after their wedding that she had been married 4 other times and let's just say, she was far from normal, even though her family tried to act as though she was. He ended up having 2 children with her before he realized how insane she was (actually it was their neighbors who went and told him that she leaves their children alone when he goes to work!!) thankfully he left her and has full custody of the kids and she is off somewhere being crazy.. put it this way.. the last time I heard anything about her was one day, I happened to be home from work and was watching daytime television and couldn't believe my eyes.. some Court show was on TV and she was the Plaintiff taking some homeless people to court!!

@@merncat3384 thank God

When crazy is the norm, yes she’s normal.

@@greenspark101 ikr

i dont think the marriage is the issue. many people get married several times without murdering their children, for many many reasons. the issue is that she's an actual psychopath.

true

I can't believe they still have no answers 😔

@@tasbar7743 They may have some revelations but keeping it under wraps until the trial begins. Especially after finding the bodies.

That would be THREE things.

It's actually most likely that her brother killed them, but at her behest.

*Lori

You nailed it my dear!!

Baby Jane

Sure, how's your mom doing??

@@pamelamorris3148 my mom always lived by a moral code and never made excuses for our bad behavior. We had to live with circumstances. To kill your own children; to be so self absorbed and egocentric to the place of killing your own children so you could honeymoon in Hawaii? Crazed, sick and definitely needs to stay locked up. We deserve answers because Kylie and her brother deserve justice.

The mom’s brain is fried

@@imalwaysright ikr

Exactly

Amanda Leigh Wasn't that interesting that she said that?!? Makes it sound as if she felt crazy then?! Couldn't handle much stress or she was too easily stressed.

Reminds you of Chris Watts' mother, Cindy.

@@VintageRose75 I don’t think Chris Watts’ parents did anything wrong. I find it disgusting that people think it’s ok to treat them badly. They suffered and lost too.

@@menosbbgirl Chris Watts mother treated Shanann pretty poorly. She also created the insane son that ended up killing his wife, 2 daughters and unborn baby. Watt's mother comes across as trying to be the victim when she is cold and callous like Lori Vallow's mom. Just my opinion.

I almost feel like she’s just here to get in tv, the rest didn’t matter 😕

@@menosbbgirl you might want to watch the special on Netflix or at least do more research because you make no sense at all. Chris parents were horrible to his wife and even with all the evidence and his full confession they still made excuses. If anything they’re worst

I agree...these tv specials make murderers look like they were such great people. These are the most terrible murders of children.

I totally agree makes me sick🤮

They're not animals. They're monsters.

Please don’t insult animals.

Half way through your comment I thought Chris Watts...... then you mention him as well. Have you ever watched the case of Cecil Dotson Jr? Thata was one scary case...... he broke into the house and called the family to threaten them after he killed...... I won't spoil it.

I thought no one would point that out. They didn’t like any of her husbands but she’s the one that was married FIVE times

I couldn’t agree more 👌

Oh huh oh well Exactly!! Mother disapproving of all of them!! Narcissistic trait - always put the blame on someone else.

Mom looks like a melting candle

Plundering and pillaging everything around you seems very American to me...

She is beautiful...pretty hot

@@johnnyflannigan136 ur delusional

Blue eyes and blonde is pretty though.

I thought Lori was attractive. If she'd been a more authentic person, she would have even been beautiful. However, her conceited personality let her down. I know many people think she was just bad ( i.e. and not mad), but I do think she was delusional. I can see it in her eyes. Her brother too was unstable. A terrible shame for the blameless kids and also for the other adults whose deaths she appears to be partly responsible for.

Omg you are absolutely correct on everything that you said! I don’t think she has a beautiful face either btw.

👍

Your right

Her family are completely detached from reality, probably because they don’t WANT to confront what really happened. SHE killed her kids, and had her brother dispose of them.

😅🤣 no... for real though!

Lol my last name is Romero... aka rosemary translated.

It drives me crazy how people think that your typical "good looking" people cant be murderers. Seems like the complete opposite to me.

@@mollyjackson4514 agree, she seems like a serial killer. If not caught, goodness knows how many more would have lost there lives.

@@myunknownland9272 her crazy ass ran a literal cult. That's the scariest part I think. I'll tell you who would of been her next victim, Chad Daybell.

@@mollyjackson4514 do you know if she's in prison and for how long?

@@myunknownland9272 she is currently behind bars, I don't think she's been sentenced yet

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@Beth McPoland so true.

Those wrinkles are for every lie she tells.

@@theblackwitch88 😭😭😂

@@theblackwitch88 or outstretched mouth - 'kegel' won't tighten what's showing Momma

this comment underrated fr

Lol that is darkly funny

Father God 😲

Bahahahaha for sure!

Right ! So Lori was a cheerleader and a hairdresser? BFD!

This type a personality can be on DNA of the family, some "mom" just take kids of the reality when they convince than they are better than others, do everything you want because you are "sooooo pretty, the best of the best, invincible..." Is all about "pretty" even when you are so old or wrinkled, using the men to do nothing in life, never had a job, just have princess life.

BINGO!

Lmao 👏🏾

It sounds rehearsed lmao

Cheerleader and child killer what a dichotomy

They've probably done similar things in their past. 🤷🏾‍♂️

Blood is thicker than water, remember? You don't just stop loving someone because they killed. If my child killed, I wouldn't condone it but, yea, he's still my baby and I'd defend him. My love wouldn't die. That's called being a mother.

and Momma likes her sippy cup filled with chocolate milk! LD cult Mom doesn't look to have fallen far from the tree ...

They don't now.

Not anymore, since they heard all the evidence against her. I heard she was alone in court with only her attorneys during sentencing.

And Lori's 2 husbands

Yes, nothing says protect than burned and dismembered and suffocated and duct taped

@@francescawilliams8177 exactly

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I was looking for this comment! I just said the EXACT thing as a reply to someone else's post lol! Yea she was "helping" alright...😒... What a bunch of Looney tunes.

I disagree. I think the mom is explaining how things seemed as they happened. If she was delusional she probably wouldn't have talked about Lori at all. She talked favourably about one of the husbands. She's a mom - of course she has love for her daughter. But she is also a grandmother who lost grand children.

Lori mother is delusional.. She may have participated in the murderers of Lori husband's!! She hated them,as if she was sleeping with them too!!

@@minnae.1747 If you disagree why you didn't make your own post?? Clearly we strongly believe that this mother is beyond DELUSIONAL!!!!….

@@TheDetroitblack I didn't make my own post because I saw this one and replied to it. I am not as invested in this story as I was, say in the Watts case. So, I don't know all the details. My initial reaction to the mother was that she didn't seem guilty of anything. I could be wrong. Mother daughter relationship tends to be strong. If she was delusional I wouldn't necessarily blame her. But I will look into it.

I wonder what the mom and her sister are saying now since the poor children’s remains were discovered on Lori’s latest husband’s property!

Very very Thanks mam ia India man

@@jada116 - that’s for your kind words, from a Polish -American ☺️

They say she was a "good" member of her Church, but all those civil marriages (not in the Temple) are not conducive with members in good standing. Her family seems to be trying to save face instead of facing the reality of Lori's true personality and mental issues.

That's right but why aren't they charged with their murder?! I'm not a lawyer but that seems so strange to me!!!

They're blaming it on dead brother.

@@cindychristian1700 because they want to have all the evidence before convicting someone. Think about if it ends up like oj case. Prosecutors make sure they can prove 100 percent before convicting.

@@cindychristian1700 and atleast they have other minor charges that will hold them in jail while they gather evidence. If no evidence can be found which i doubt, they will then charge them but offer a plea deal which will give the couple lighter sentence for murder. I gaurentee you that lori lawyers want her to blame all on Chad.

@@thapoppyman I understand that but finding the two dead bodies of her children on her husband's property is beyond increminating but like you said I'm sure they're continually gathering more evidence! I hope they find what they need to convict both of them for life!!

Exactly. She did not attend the many weddings of her daughter yet she thinks she knows her daughter

Denial

Truth!!

Probably narcisstic too..

It was sick but she later went on to say she was wrong about everything:

we can see were Lori gets it from her mom !

P00 p01 90ⁿ

Right?! Her lipstick really gave me anxiety 😂

@@linamya8692 and her brown cheek lines..🙈

For some reason, older women don't understand the concept about makeup that "less is more" on aged skin.

Zulema alex's widow knows something too Imo that's why she has immunity. Can't wait for trial.. Justice for all

Totally agree they know things but no say no go to jail .

Melanie the niece moved and left her kids and fled to Rexburg I believe because it’s what Lori and Chad call the special holy land

Janice you and your damn kids are crazy af...

Melanie’s husband was shot at and nearly killed by Alex Cox and Melanie stood to collect on his (Brandon’s ) life insurance. See a pattern here , anybody?

I get your meaning of life, however Joan Crawford didn't and wasn't arrested for the murder of her Children!! PHYSICAL ABUSE AND THE KILLINGS OF TWO CHILDREN JUST DOESN'T QUIT ADD UP FOR ME!!,🤔🤬😡😠😖👺👺🥵😵

@@TheDetroitblack Jesus Christ, go take a xanex or something!

@@TheDetroitblack I don't think you understood my point.

And those lips, yikes!

And the makeup piled on! Yikes!

@@lmarteen2778 ya wtf lets highlight that 'worn out' mouth damn

She’s not getting away with it.

4 failed marriages, BSC kinda a given ...

YES.THAT"MOTHER" KNEW TYLEE would FIGHT HER TO PROTECT JJ, so she had STUPID & GULLIBLE HELP.

Tylee doesnt need to "watch over" Jj. LOL Spirit is timeless, all love, all pure, all happier. Regardless of age, race, gender or religion! Note time stamp 1:50 as Dumbell and Lori are walking in to their church that started the human error of narcissism, lust, greed, control and delusion!

Thank you! Yes, please- bllllleeeeennnd that lip liner, for the love of all that is good! So distracting!

Probably faked being a decent mom 😔

@@Ink_Panther both of em would of been dead within a year. I'd bet my life on it.

Me too! #suspish

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I think she's a chameleon! She changes her personality to fit the man she's with at the time! I think they fall in love with the person they think she is then later the real Lori comes out and then the relationship ends!! I think she's had mental health issues for years and all her husbands discovered that after the marriage!! Just because she's charismatic, charming and beautiful doesn't mean she would make a good spouse! Psychopathic and sociopathic behavior can be hidden, at least for a time, by someone like her! I'm glad she's finally locked up!!

Exactly! It shows she's always been about putting on a fake persona. She felt the need to let the world know that she's got money.

I feel the same way, a wonderful husband Ryan two beautiful children and we play games on our three acres .That was a weird thing to say . What happened Lori? RIP Tylee and JJ

😂😂😂😂

Yes, I agree, I also think Joe Ryan didn't do it (and I usually tend to believe the victim as well). But I also think - like you said - that Colby thinks he did. It's the result of brainwashing and gaslightning. From all that we've learned about Lori it's exactly her MO! She's always been a manipulative person and had no problems to use and even destroy all of her kids (including Colby, just in a different way) to reach her goals.

Anything you want to know about this couple is all over RU-vid and has been for the past year! She is still n jail awaiting trial in March as well as chad daybell. She is called the DOOMSDAY CULTMOM on RU-vid. This 20/20 special is not even getting you 10% of the info on the disgustingness of the case.

I cover the case on my channel. ❤️

Full episode is on Hulu

If you go to A murderous heart, on RU-vid, Annie is Joseph Ryans sister and Tylees Aunt, she has done an amazing amount of research, no speculation just facts.

Remember there was a list of dark and light people,I don't think his family were on it,just hers, yes they got rid of his wife tho.

@@Dee-z6l Ik some of the deaths they have started to look Into. Like his wife and the one they claimed was “self defense” of her ex. It’s ridiculous they were all within like days apart too & no 1 thought it was suspicious. Hopefully they’re charged w the other 4 deaths too but as far as Ik they haven’t yet.

@@Dee-z6l it was all her family all except his wife, you’re right.

@@thewrightsisters9205 Just hope they go to trial soon then, Thanks for your reply,I appreciate your time.

The hair for sure.

The face also

Honestly, someone should of made sure what she looked like. In my eyes lip liner looks so sad, mascara is all smeared and in general she looks like a day old make-up. Sorry.

Meh, more like blonde with a nice smile and a decent ass will take ppl places ...

She was very charismatic seeing her on the old tv show footage, it is clear..