Re-do: A lot of people are damaged and only use relationship’s to fill a void. Thats why so many people have these same stories. Weather they need the security, the food, the sex etc, they need something. It’s just attaching yourself to a person and draining them for what you lack which creates a cycle of broken people. It’s no longer about building and love, just what can you provide me for now.
@@jameshumphrey3425 It's 100% not possible unless you already grew up upper middle class or rich. Most people have to unfortunately take out student debt and your average 20 something yo has credit card & a car payments they have to pay off every month. Most people I know in their 20s are still broke, even years after college lol. Even the ones with roommates are broke. Just doing the math alone, lets say you have to take out $30k for college (average student debt) for a 4-5 year degree. So you're graduating around 22-23 yos. Already, you only have 4-5 years left to meet this magical age of 27. But you're in $30k debt and you likely have credit card debt + car payments, which may push your total debt to around $35k. Now you have to find a job. Most people rarely get hired directly after college so you should expect a grace period of 6 - 12 months to find your first job. So in that meantime you'll prob be working low paying jobs and struggling to stay afloat. Now you find your first job. Unless you've gone into tech, it's extremely unrealistic to expect to make anywhere near $90k from a bachelors degree. All the highest paying jobs require much more schooling (5+ years). But not everyone can go into tech because it would saturate the market and cause wages to go down. So what happens if you go into a field where the average person only makes $50k/year. It will be years until you're finally in the green (no debt), let alone being able to start saving money for a home. Let alone being able to advance in your career to make $90k/year. Realistically, for an average college graduate, I wouldn't expect it until their mid 30s. The only exception is tradeschool with blue collar workers but they are few compared to college students.
The comments about nursing is true, there’s a lot of freaks in the healthcare field, they stay horny. But anyway, a common theme is that a lot of these people are damaged. In nearly every interview these people are bitter due to past relationships and it sets a precedent for the future (of course). It’s like everybody is out to get each other. People just need to stop playing games with each other and be straightforward, also get off of social media.
@@morganyu812 its the female nurses women hold the Keys to Sex no Sex can apply without her saying Yes or else its Called Rape or Metoo Soo it the Women who create that enviroment Plus who hurt that thing
@@morganyu812 Worked in a lot of hospitals and healthcare settings and it’s both men and women indulging in hookups on the job. They flat out have sex in offices, on breaks, parking garages, the basement etc. There’s so many stories, it’s like high school.
Im 42 yrs old and been married 12 yrs (hoping for many more) and I swear these videos are so entertaining because I have a few homeboys who are single and out in this and all I can say is Holy crap you guys are screwed! 😂😂😂
16:00 This notion that Money is the Only determination of who is leader of a home is extremely short sighted. Being able to make lots of money and lead at work, is Not the same as leading at home and in a long term relationship. Money is important, however plenty of men who makes lots of money and aren't leaders of their homes. Sound mind and logic are most important. Knowing how to help someone become the best they can as a person is what leaders do. Taking Full ultimate responsibility of what happens is what leaders in a relationship do. Making money might be the easiest part of being the leader of a home. Which is suited for the man to be the leader.
Selection is the key to relationship success and money is essential to leadership. Frankly, I would not marry a career woman. Keep moving. While fewer women are traditional, they still want big, strong, accomplished, provider, protector men. Women won't stay with a brokie for long and certainly not for a lifetime. Sometimes they'll say they don't care about money, but instead wants a man who has goals, drive and ambition. Those words also mean money. Men and women are not the same. Women are not hardwired to be providers. When a woman begins to make more money than her man, that man is on a shot clock and has limited time before woman starts losing respect and is almost impossible to stay in the leadership position if you don't out earn her.
I learned everything I needed to know growing up in a single parent household seeing my Dad on the weekends. I just didnt realize what I've learned until I was older....
the only people buying houses in Cali right now are millionaires. you have to do 50k+ over asking to even get a call back. having a house over here in legit impossible for the average worker making 80k. with taxes taking a big chunk of that plus living expenses, these girls grew up rich and it shows thats all they know.
10:20 Absolutely not. This guy was unto something until he lost me here. Simping if we're using the right definition is going above and beyond for a women who is not giving you equal or slightly comparable reciprocation in return. Yes my drunk Tommy Hilfiger wearing friend. There is a problem is with simping.
He is talking about the people who say “dont simp for your wife” even if she may love and take care of you and has committed to you. The misconception is what he talks about and he specifies that in the video
I’m not a nurse, but I have female cousins that are. I’ve partied with them, etc. what that girls said about nurses(and Doctors) is 100 percent factual!
9:05 I know I might be grasping at straws because hes one example, but no one can convince me that men don't love harder and fall in love faster than women. I know plenty men who think this way.
8:35 Your "girl" is currently getting the lining knocked out of her at the exact time you're answering these questions about her. Move on and save yourself a bunch of time and heartache. 💯
My mom always said that her grandfather would say “ a marriage is like a yoke .. neither can be behind or in front … they need to work in unison “ And that looks different from couple to couple …
Advice for Young men to make life amazing: Focus on you/family, career and your physical/mental health at least till age 25, then worry about women later in life ®️
More than likely she switched because of the men SHE PICKED. she went after a specific type and didn’t get what she wanted from it…. Now she likes girls because she can’t get what she wants. Even though there are plenty of great good looking brothers that would break their back to be with her and take care of her.
Average men are dying single. An crazy delusional women too. We need Jesus. We can all be married happy with faith and morals with good family values. 😒 WTF
Men have entire sections of RU-vid crying about being single. It’s called redpill. Women in general are much more reasonable about it, they just accept it.
so he had a unique chance to ask a woman who is a lesbian about a different type of dating and even compare lesbian and straight relationship and he just proceeded with the same questions that were irrelevant to the person. why does it matter what she thinks about men when she dates women. ask her about that. what a missed opportunity...
Have a good friend who had everything the girl described @6:00 "what age should a man have his... together" By 22 i think🤔 Had a restaurant management position Had a new car(less than 2 years old, bought it brand new,no miles on it) And bought his first house by 22 (around that age). It's very doable. Requires a great amount of ambition and persistence. And very hard work. But i watched it.
This is filmed in Brickell Miami which is one of most expensive places to live and you have those people complaining about that people are just concerned about wealth well why are they living there in the first place doesn't make sense
5:19 she will be single with cats. "Make me want to be submissive " That's a choice you aging with a body clock men dont have to put up with masculine energy
I couldn’t afford go to college until I was 23 … I graduated at 27 …. Maybe I should’ve just taken out a home loan right after my student loans kicked in … so I can please a woman and her opinion on where I should be Lol
i think that there is something in the male brain that distinguishes our self from society. we eventually push (or are pushed) to make our own rules or 'beat the game' so to speak. women probably dont have this thing in their brains
Idk, if you say someone is attractive, that means you're attracted to them. I can see other men are good looking, but I have never said I found a man attractive, that sounds gay af.
The lesbian didn't give good lesbian answers. You know when you're 5 who you like. She might be like Sinead O'Connor and get aggressively heterosexual when she gets to her 40s.
I just think it is pathetic, to be the one with power to change things. But deciding to play along, because it makes things easiere. Women can change things, women can just never accept gifts, because that actually makes them a paid sex object, and never accept that men come up to them, because men asking women out lead to problems (in a world where women asks men out, men would have a lot of sex, women would have a little, over time the 9/10 men would not sleep with anything less than 8 etc all the way to men sleeping with the top 20% of women instead of the other way around. Which would be far safer for the weaker gender. And honestly also be super interesting, based on how would people act/react...would rape just be a by-gone thing, how would interactions look like when men have the sexual advantage etc?) Sht I can't even imagine a world like that. That is why I believe in red pill, not because we could not be equal. But women seem too selfish to create such a world, it is the whole "I litter, because everyone else does", but has already been proven, that 1 person makes a world of difference......Just #sad
