@Chirag damn. Feeling sad for u bruh. It never happened to anyone in my school. You guys maybe took things too personally. We used to bunk 90% classes after class 10.
So it indirectly is a message for all that choose career option wisely which gives happiness as well as money . With this , you wont end up confused in life .
Now We can't change the system But fight within this swamp Iron gets extracted from iron ore from hardwork Similarly we also shall extract "that" education
This is true my teacher compared me with my friend that she got good marks and I got average and that made me hopeless I came home crying and then my parents encouraged me talked to my teacher to not compare since we both are different and she got her marks according her hard work and I got mine according to my hard work.... Btw, many students becomes hopeless just like this...
I Know My Many Friends Good In Studies. But, Can't Solve Real Life Problems. BTW I am Interested Music and Maths. Bro, In Which Field Are You Interested ?🤞
Exactly. (I don't like or comment on youtube, just scroll through them but if I didn't do it for this comment then I would be cheating myself in some way. )
@@harshitakulasri7755 Also they care about society, what will they say, comment, think, etc. Even in the way of marriage too. We indians are more spiritualistic rather than being materialistic.......
More than half of us don't know what we want to become because everything happens so fast in our education system.We don't have time to stop , take a break and think about what we want to become.
Bhai ab rulaye ga kya....😔 Kam se kam Augusthya ko pata toh tha ki woh painting me accha hai hmko toh aaj tak nhi pta ki mai kis chiz me accha hun. Bas PCM le kr chal rahe hai🤦♂️
bhai mai sochta tha k mai akela aisa hu jisko ghanta nahi maalum k mujhe life me banna kya hai or abhi tak confuse hu k mai choose kya karu aakhir life me
I'm also from middle class family but all parents aren't the same... Like my parents respect my talent and never force to study, but study IS important...
When you get bad marks parent will always compare you to other kids and when you tell them there are other students who got bad marks they'll say why are you comparing yourself to others 😀😀😀
Even if we score good marks from them our parents compare us with parents will simply say why u didn't scored full marks and even after scoring full marks they will say your writting is bad or score these marks in final exams (till then they will make another condition 😓
@@taijasvyas1235 why do you all treat yr parents as if they are illiterate and stupid. Even after scoring full marks..... Really!!! This is the problem. You don't understand yr parents( or you don't want to understand) and you want them to understand!!! Please instead of revolting against yr parents try and create a bond and it is possible only if you don't cheat yourself....
@@sunakshijindal6325 bond will not help my dad and have very good bonds but he is too strict he criticises me always and want me to score very good marks and if I score he says improve your hand writing and I have tried all methods of hand writing nothing works just I found new one that keep the words in line that improved by a ton society is like this they will always judge you
This video has been recommended to future parents Please don't do this to your child and we teenagers and youngsters promise ourselves to stop this bullshit please help me stop this
Haha i can show this to my mother. She doesn't know English. So, i should need to explain. So me explains briefly also explains my dream. My mother : hmm ok do what you want to My mother after few weeks while this topic comes : just study engineering and i know what you should do Me : frustrated and angry inside
@@8AKI47 Exactly ,I like Maths But For studying Maths I have to learn High level Physics and chemistry too . Also I want to Pursue CSE ,But I didn't opt. CS instead I opted for PE primarily Bcz PCM already have vast syllabus n CS will become Burden and PE is Easy.
There are millions & millions of agastya get ruined in Indian education & parental force system . I’m one of them , I always wanted to be creative or music artist but sadly my parents never understood me .
Bro Mee too wanted to become a tennis player but bcz of my father I can't bcz he had a heart surgery and we had no money for my life spending bcz it's a expensive game to play.
Teachers:"YOU ARE STUDYING TO MAKE INDIA BETTER" everyone who is studying to leave this country :"I'm gonna pretend I didn't see that" EDIT: *MOM IM FAMOUS*
@@gooner6t7 dyu think is college and school imp. for success? Personally, I believe that's it's a waste of time. Even if you disagree with me, I'll respect your opinion
As an Indian, I think my future is going to be like agastya's... because I already started losing my interest in hobbies, scored average mark in 10th board exam, and the same two choices, engineering or medical... I'm addicted to sleeping, so that I could live a life I wished at least in my dreams...
@VasiL i would say mine, i liked animation, i used flash cs6 and animated lot of stuffs, but then exams and parents pressure made me to quit it and during holidays i didnt have the interest to go back on
This is exactly the story of all students. This needs to be shared to every parent and teacher. Exactly like me i am almost halfway agasthya's story.😔😔
@@wildyato3737 When you do something you don't love....you can never achieve success...coz you won't put ur heart into it..u won't go the extra mile bcoz it is not something u want...and that's why there will always be a shortage of money..... and our generation understands this pressure really well .. and that's why I am saying that... at least my generation ... coz I am 18 right now...
@@aadi4real If you are confident enough that by doing what you love you are going to get success then go right for it...push through all the naysayers and go for what you love... but if u r not sure if u will be successful by doing what you love...then maybe u should wait and sharpen those skills...but never give up...
Yes, this is right, Nowadays Parents do not perticularly force thier children to go in med or engeneering, they say that the students should go in the stream they like but the students themselves are forced into these streams with the flow. That is, when most of your freinds and Relatives are going to these fields and some of them achive thier dream, then your mind just says:- "Chal yaar, yahi kr ke dekh lete hai.."
100%. My parents were "okay" with me wanting to pursue humanities but I'm from a middle class family and also the eldest, I had to go for science. Ab le to liya but confidence nahi he.💀
Chid: *Plays guitar all day with dreams of becoming an artist* Neighbour's dad: Haha look at that poor boy not studying and playing guitar all day. *to his son* , make sure you study and become an engineer and doctor Child: *soon releases his own album and becomes a hit* Neighbour's dad: Look at how dedicated he is, meanwhile all you did was try for something you were never passionate about
Yes this bad thing happens in India. No matter what people say, you should follow your own passion. The people who interfare in someone's life and keep criticizing are the crazy ones.
This is exactly what happened to me but i was not a an average 🥲 I've scored 96% in my boards but my skils my art and my passion is dead now i used to be the most creative in my school but here I'm preparing for NEET and studying like hell i even don't remember when I've painted something last time 🙃
"He would attend his school, attend his coaching and walk back home, feeling depressed and wish he would never exist" This is how I feel everyday even worse sometimes
They dislike the video, because it suggests that they should actually TEACH and EARN their salary. The ones at my college are decent at teaching. A new generation of teachers who managed to escape becoming Agastya in the education system
If Indian parents are shown this video, they would've replied " that's why you should study well or else you'll end up like Agastya" and tell us to study harder in the course we didn't want to.
True,it happens with me a lot of time, when they r comparing me with other children due to my less marks,it hurts me the most and they say we r not comparing u,feels like I would have not existed in this world,due to this education system I don't even know in what I am good at! For the future generations,I would like to say,only follow ur dreams and no look back
Yeah .. I just study because of my parents .. I want to sing, dance .. I want to become an k-pop idol.. I just study to go Korea .. My parents force me
parents: a single piece of paper can't decide your future. don't stress yourself. also them: where did u loose your 5 marks? who scored the first rank? what work do u have other than studying?
My dad always comes to my school for all parents teacher meeting but he never asked these question I feel proud and happy that he is understanding my knowledge
Truth to the core...!!! I am 25 year old guy. My request to all parents out there is " Don't judge the beauty of a rose by comparing it to a daffodil." Each and every child is unique and "beautifully talented" in their own way. Make use of their God given talent bcoz thats when your parenting becomes meaningful. Thank you.
@Hootch Turner Why it is like that? Jobs are in computer science because everyone is generating jobs for computer science. I'm itself an computer nerd, knows how to program and more. But still I believe india wont grow if every job hasnt given its respect. Let me give you example. One person does mechanical work and does repairing bikes, cycles etc and even build them from scratch. And other guy who is Bank Manager who only do is that he sits in front of computer and manage databases. So tell me who is more talented? I'm sure If i tell these bank managers to do there work beside road, under sun, then everyone will think that bank managing is bullshit and has no value. If Mechanical guy does his work under full facilites like proper clothing, AC, Full Sanitation. then everyone will think that mechincal work is best. No one thinks this way. We judge every work by its look, we dont judge them by its importance. Go to europeon countries, There every person earns almost same. there is nothing like lower or higher level work. So do what you like and generate jobs in those fields and Ignore others who tags you always for shit.
"all children deserve parents but not all parents deserve children" This day parents forgot that they are raising their children to help them experience life and be happy instead of forcing them to do their dream job, they really think that they own our lives and wants the "best"....
@@Cactimaniac Next generation youths would show their income by their passion and the parents get to know about their passion stuff and know they are able to earn
I get very depressed thinking about how this stupid system made me suffer and wasted my time. The 13 yrs of wasted time can't come back now, but all that can be done is to make the best of whatever time we collectively have and ensure that the future generation doesn't go through the same hellish process.
Litreally killed our creativity and our ability to take risk or be innovative. Man its just depressing that these days everybody is running for good marks but none is thinking out of the box.
@@hxrmn6539 bro India is a country where maximum no. of the people will try to pull u down when they know that u are rising. Even if u think out of the box you will just be excluded and laughed at. It's enough to break any hard rock. Mediocrity is deeply ingrained in the minds of our people and I don't know when the fk it's gonna change
@Arpita2049 😔 What's happened has happened. Can't do anything for ourselves. But we can do a whole lot of things to the upcoming generation. We should change this low backward mindset
This...this is exactly my story...at this point of life, I don't even know what I want to become, I lost my interest in every little thing while trying to be my parents' good child and give NEET as they asked me to do! Why do I had to born in such a country where the educational system is rotten like this? I would've been successful if I had the opportunities like other country students!
Indian parents bro, anything less than 95 percent you are gone, i got 89% in class 10th and i wasn't even praised for and my father asked me what was the reason i lacked so much
@@soubhagyasoren7327 It's not even funny how accurate this is bro😭😭 I got 78/80 in maths last year and maths is my least favorite subject. And all I was asked was why did you lose 2 marks. Considering I am a very average student, I thought they would be happy but of course, how could I expect that from them
I have failed 2 times in my life , once in 10th and once in 12th . Not because I failed in subject but because of my parents , they thought I'll not score good marks they expected above ninty precent from me . I ended up following a forceful decesion of my fater to not attain 10th board exams . I took all of their anger and kept inside I thought I wasn't giving enough I am a bad child . I studied for 1 more year got 91 percent but my father didn't even bothered to say a single good word . Got admitted in science College , score good 83 % in 11th but expectations were so high parents wanted to see their son in IITs , I ended up giving JEE 2 times and still not qualify for iit. My father listened to his brother and admitted me in direct second year Diploma where I was able to get admission in good engineering college with JEE marks . He simply said we have wasted soo much money and we can't afford more . Now I am 27 years old , I have a good job but the things happened to me I'll never forget sometimes I still cry even I have money in pocket . Guys world is ruthless and cruel to those who are average u have to be strong to tolerate it or else you will endup hanging yourself or see yourself drowning in bad addiction .
Dude don't worry, stay strong apart from the bad education system we also have to learn to do our own thing and not give 2 fucks about people. I faced a similar problem too in school.
@@Userinvalid4217 now I am happy . I blessed with a lovely wife. I have a good life now but I have faced some bad things . I comment this because I wanted to share my life experience and education experience with the guys who think it ends when you fail in something . Never give up . I have earned a lot from my hard life .
"Everybody is a genius . But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree , it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid." ~ INDIAN EDUCATIONAL SYSTEM
@@allansherin9565 or if our generation teaches the next generation that marks don't matter as much as learning I think we can make some changes, like I would never force my kids to do something that they don't want to.
This 5 minute high quality, reality showing animation is way more relevant than the entire Indian education system and animation industry will ever be.
Reasons why we we go to school 😍 To learn: 🚫🚫🚫 To eductae ourself: 🚫🚫🚫 Too get a dEgREe: 🚫🚫🚫 To get a job: 🚫🚫🚫 To make our delusional stupid clueless elders "happy": ✅✅✅✅
@@ninjapirate123 that's no excuse, China has much better system despite having more than Indian population. Density wise lot of countries have more than Indias still much better system Honk Kong and Singapore
I just hate one thing about parents. They want their children's to become engineers, doctors, pilot but they will never ask their children what they want to become. I wanted to do mba. But my parents are forcing me to do engineering
@Yash Hengne if he will do so then he will be called stupid by parents and society, "MBA he krma tha to engineering kyu kri" , this type , hope u heard this dialog in 3 idiots
@@fearlessviper6407 We can't. India have to supply human resources to foreign countries as engineers, managers and doctors. Also they have to supply cheap labour by outsourcing of less skilled people ilke Agastya. And foreign countries easily don't allow the artistic talent of other countries as they have to give the opportunity to their own. And also our political parties need human resources to to run their "blame game". For these reasons Indian government will never change the education system at least before our per capita income becomes 10k-15k $.(which is likely to happen by 2045). And we can't change the system because in "Parliamentary Democratic System" biased to capitalism always empowers Politicians and Billionaires over Citizens. Only thing we can change is "our thinking".And I think it will be very helpful for us in 2045,as this process will take time. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Life of an average student is nothing but hell. People compare, people criticize, people judge. I just can't express howit feels to be stuck in between. 💔
That's just how reality works. From the moment you were born you were cursed to live in this reality. You can't even blame your parents or teachers for that they too are the victims of this reality
Facts bro😭 I will always pray for the countless average students like me... I hope we are understood better, but I also think that this backward country won't progress much
If you think you are an average student just go for or target for something you are actually good and in which you can give the best out of you.... It's your life you can't just see it ruin... I really don't know if you have interest in studying but for me if I can feel and imagine what is being taught to me and how it can be useful in real life then study doesn't bores me
Get good marks, You’re just considered intelligent Get low You barely get treated good Just get bit little marks, You’re losing your talent which you never had Etc. I started to study by understanding rather than just focusing on my exam -From Nepal
I thought education system in india was better than in my country.but now i can understand its similar to our education system. Dont worry,,,,, this system is a problem of whole south Asia .if we want to lose this way, we have to be born in America. from SL
The sad reality when a teacher dont even know how to draw a circle and takes your drawing subject , a teacher dont even know about music and teaches you music ,and yeh same thing was in my school too , every school has good math science english teacher , but no teacher for art ,music , dance , creativity . I totally regret that I wasted my school life in just following other students
@@retrogamer3775 i can feel you dude😭😭when you draw better than your teacher , you feel outcasted from your own class for whole year , teacher will never give attention to you afterwards😭
I literally had tears watching this...This is exactly what the situation is for millions of young budding dreamers, but sad reality, after all its India..wish there were sensible enough parents and teachers to nurture the talent in each and every kid instead of just calling them average just on the basis of marks scored in an exam
I got 86% but they made it in that day as great marks and on another day don't think u did something great by just getting 86% even an average child could get that who hasn't study much Me- -_-
because of high competition, 80-90% is average school for our educational system. a European friend of mine have a dope job in a company and he just scored 68% in his exams. competition is the huge problem in our educational system which can never be changed or demolished.
@@leviathan6168 Bruh i scored 55 percent in 10th and in 12th 50[PCMB] Bruh just dont watch these depressing videos life is more than 10th and 12th im making money by doing youtube,3d artist common bro we are MEN WE HAVE TO FACE ADVERSITY if life is not hard then its not fun
The societal pressure, lack of awareness , fear of being unemployed and fear of failure has made us mediocre, narrowed our thinking. Slowly we are seeing the change.
@@hardikmishra6174 Banta h bhai career in chizon m bhi. But kitne log in chizon ko pursue karne ki koshish karte hn? Bht km. That is lack of awareness , but ab change aa raha hai. Soch m badlav aa raha h ab. Protsahit kr rahe hn parents and society. Otherwise everyone says go for govt job, student ke interest ki bat hi ni krta koi.
Ha society complaint karte hai ki aaj kal me unemployment jyaada ho raha hai. Agar vah students ko start ups shuru karne me aur self employment ncourage kart tho kyu unemployment hote hai. Yah hame ek acchi employee banne ko sikhata hai aur kuch bhi nahi.
@@stobit2519 Haan lekin India bohat capitalistic bhi ho chuka Hai aaj ke din mein, connections aur paisa ke bina startups kitne saare achhe startups doob jaathe aur baaki logg yahi ko dekh ke chhodh dethe hain
I got 87% in board exam and my family and relatives say it was a weak mark and I was like wtf? Edit: in my family my brother got 95% in board exam and got a lot of fame in school and I got 87% that's why my family said it was a weak mark
We get to listen so much from our parents when we score less marks but when we score really good mark which is unexpected, then we don't get appreciation. 🙄
I scored a decent 91% . My parents wanted me to DO NEET and become a doctor. I wasn't that interested in medical tbh. I wanted to take up Forensic Psychology. I told my parents about it. First few days it was shit treatment from them but slowly they have accepted and mom has even started supporting me. They just wanted to have that "so called pride" among the relatives and say my daughter did MBBS. Thank god, I had the guts to speak up and not force myself to do something I never wanted to. If I could, everyone can I think. 🙏🏻Speak up. Don't get burdened by the "EXPECTATIONS THAT ARE NOT YOURS TO CARRY" .
Exactly, parents want kids to study engineering and medical so they can brag about their kids hardwork as if they became doctors and engineers themselves
Great job... But my case sadly has no proper solution due to the current reality. Ive always wanted to do computer science, and become a programmer. Spent a lot of time on RU-vid studying coding... But in the end, i wont Get a seat cuz all the toppers are taking cs as they have no aim and this seems to them as a. Method to earn. Money.. Thinking they will be the next. Sunder pichai and everything.... And me sitting here.. Just an average student, who hasnt even passed for jee
But one good thing is that when we become parents we will ( 100 %) definitely let our kids to do what they want and so this thing eventually change in future. Mark my words !!!
The worst part is when you didnt even realize what ur purpose is and the education system gives you two options. you choose one just because you liked the option and later when the time comes you feel guilty for choosing the option. Some people requires time to realize the greatness inside them and work hard for it. But the education system never gives them the chance. Students literally stuck completing assignments and projects rather than finding themselves and their purpose.
I m now 23...and when i passed my board exam.i m not matured enough.. and i choose arts stream just beacuse my friends were taking the stream..now i regrate what i did.. this system needs to be changed..
@@TheLovygill all the best never give upon ur talent there will be times where ur parents are even forced to tell u to give upon ur dreams becoz of the society, no matter what just follow ur dream
So true. They won't let their children go into creative, but not always risky career paths because of some outmoded ideas about careers and prestige but are hoping to get high returns on average low risk investments through medical and engineering. I blame it entirely on Nehru's central planning born out of Fabianism.
"then if he gets good we will pressure him more to be even better, but if he fails our expectations we will force him to take the worse decisions of his life". this sentence was missing from the original comment.
Those dislikers are that kind of people who want to make even there children's dead body a engineer or doctor by hook or by crook. Feels very depressing to be in such a society 😔
I am 24, have no dream in life, my parents never pressurised me for anything, buy since I didn't know what I wanted, I just went with the flow. Now I am depressed and suffocating and still wondering how will I survive!
Exactly but teachers to parents to your friends all says that marks are important more than your knowledge and skills Also our system acknowledges them who got higher marks and judge them by their marks as they are gonna be succesfull in life
Same here. I value learning, but not exams. I hate the ratrace of these competitive exams. I just want to learn freely. I decided that I will do online courses after completing graduation.
I already feel this coming. Useless education system. Fees. Memory test. Pass.Fail.I feel like it's not how it works. People who fail are even ending their lives without knowing that they can be successful
@@ryuk2957 if i gave jee aspirant a real life problem will he be able to solve that without practise? At the end of the day jee aspirants are only memorising the way of doing questions which feels like a practical thing to do while in reality its not... They cannot think out of their syllabus to tackle any problem
This video made me cry. Because I am Agastya, I am an average student stuck in my place. Clueless & wasted product of my education system. Unable to understand what I am good at...
The sadder part of this society is that he would have been more of a failure if he pursued his dream unless he moved abroad. This system has no space for talent and creativity.
why do you think you need a job and that was your only purpose to be born? you were born out of sex, something fun, enjoyable but living a miserable dull life. doesn't match up.
Like foreal 💔 that shit hurts alot when there is nobody who could guide you nor anybody offers you any kind of help but you still gotta shine thru nd make it out the mud, keep the spirit up nd never forget to cherish the present. ✨✨ Sending energyyy from this side to the other ⚡⚡ Lessgooo 🏆💯 Make it big famm !!
try and try, still remain average? That is false af. That means you haven't given your best! It all lies in ones interest, if you aren't interested or dedicated in becoming the best, you would remain average. There is always a way out, think of that rather than complaining on what happened.
Do smartwork instead of hardwork. Lazy people always do smartwork that's why they are so sucessful in their life. But also do hardwork. But you should priority to smartwork instead of hardwork. And be inspire from others.
This is soo relatable for everyone of us I don't know why people don't understand what we really wanna do,why there r just some option i.e. job,business etc.
The worst part is when one of your parent is a successful engineer / medical professional and others from your family expect you to do follow the same footsteps.
Yess,my father is an engineer,my grandfather was an postmaster,my father's only brother ia an engineer,my father's sister's son(20 years old) is going to be an engineer,my father's brother's son is expected to be an engineer as well. In the last,I'm a 12 year old girl and I'm inspired by Kylie Jenner and want to be an entrepreneur. But,the grave thing is that my whole family,including my grandfather wants me to be a doctor. And whenever I say to my mother that do not want to be a doctor,she just scolds me and says that you have to be a doctor. Somebody,please tell me what should I do......
@@aadya_patel do what you want to ...after all the life is yours to be ..and the regret after everything you do will be yours .it is not easy but have the courage to pursue what you want .
@@borahaeo1897 thank you mam🙂🙏🏻but still, whenever my mom asks me what is your aim and whenever I say that I wanna pursue my dream,entrepreneurship she just scolds me very severely and just says,you're from an ordinary family,and it is must that you have to pursue an ordinary job, she is verryyyy much against my dream of entrepreneurship
@@aadya_patel You know Aadya, many in middle class families like ours are forced to give up our dreams just because our parents and their parents were conditioned to think that way. Lot of people don't get that world doesn't not end with 4 sides of India. I wouldn't blame entirely on your parents though. But please never give up on your dreams and start working on them now. It's ok if your aim changes in midway since you are pretty young.
