(03:32) - Brittany Renner admits to 35 bodies (29:33) - We have created an era of narcissistic women (54:53) - Princella The Queen Maker says men are incapable of love (01:28:58) - How do you guys deal with the pressures of being a black man in a relationship? (01:36:32) - How can I keep this child I’m mentoring on track to positivity?
Good morning Kings happy Friday SO what up ? The question for u 3 with all the advice you give do u 3 apply this to your life or you just Share your thoughts for view or help King & Queen help each other?
The way people look at body counts nowadays is crazy. 1 in 4 people has herpes. Gonorrhea and syphilis infections rates are increasing by the year. Also lets not talk about hpv. It will continue to increase as long as we keep making sex more casual and not sacred.
Married 32 years - til death…💔 now a widow and had all of that from a husband that understood his assignment. Sacrificed, hustled all day, everyday for his family. His goal was to make sure I could retire/not work whenever I wanted to. “I got you.” Blessed.
Wow. This why I kept my nose in the books and my legs closed, difficult as it was- cause I wasn’t lacking in Looks nor desire, -til after I graduated College!😂 💃🏽
The shocker wasn’t behind Brittany Renner’s body count. The internet made it bout that. The thing that made Sharpe take that shot was how transparent she is to the public about her sex life and think this perfect man that’s for you isn’t going to look at that transparency as a negative.
I’m sorry to put this post here, but I just saw your video called the number one problem in the black community and I didn’t know if you would see the comment from a video that long ago so I put it here. You kind of touched on a problem that I have been saying for years which needs to be taken care of, and that is the music and what we see of ourselves on the television nowadays. As you may have noticed- as the music message and images/message on tv changes… so does our black communities. When the message was positive, the behavior was more positive. It for some reason does not affect other cultures as bad as it affects us. We (my husband and I tell our children to be leaders and not followers- especially of wrong things.) Because, as you know a lot of the white people and other cultures buy more of our obscene and cussed word filled, disrespectful music than even we do, and they are not changed to the ideals of the music, but we emulate what’s messaged over through the music. Unfortunately, life is imitating the art instead of the art imitating life. Yes, social media plays a big part as well but I honestly believe the music and the television the messages coming from them are getting into our psyche and our mindset is keeping us crippled. We need to take a page from the white man’s book and that is getting to the kids while they are young. Yes the adults need to be talking, but we need great leaders and leadership as you mentioned like the Martin Luther King‘s etc and the great leaders of the past, we need new leaders now and we need to build black schools again that are directly training and loving on our black male children as well as the young black, female students and we need to teach them that what they are learning from some of their homes and the music and TV that they take in that message is not correct- we need to ingrain in them respect of self, respect and love (care of and looking out for) for each other, community, financial discipline, and being leaders, and a sense of unity and family. Some people still go to church now, but only a few… but back in the day, growing up, it seems like every one, even if it was a different type of religion, but everyone was in some type of worship service and me being Christian most of the people I knew, of course, were at church. But being in community at church brought respect for our creator, the Lord God, and a sense of community, and a good, positive message. It seems that more people nowadays do not have a God to be accountable to for this life or the life that comes after death, and since they do not feel they have to be accountable to anyone, they are reckless, dangerous, and do not have respect for themselves or others. I love that platforms like you guys and Hardly Initiated are leading in great ways, Kingdom work and the love of black families, relationships and the community. God bless you and keep being great . Our race needs good men such as yourselves. Much love and respect. 🙏🏽
I’m a woman, and y’all spoke truth! Nothing but facts! I’m a woman that’s hold other woman accountable and everything y’all spoke on is accurate especially women being narcissistic, any woman in denial is a narcissist cause this is a hard truth to sit in, accept it and move pass it. Im sending to everybody. 😂
Nursing home isn't a good measurement. Women live longer so therefore they're going to be a lot more of them in there. Also that's not taking an account that some kids are just selfish. I work with the geriatric population. Quite a few selfish kids put their parents in nursing homes because they're more consumed with their life, and it's not necessarily a reflection on how they were raised.
Also, some of the needs of the elderly are beyond their kids capabilities. If they need 24 nursing care, you can't do that at home unless you're rich and I mean costs of hundreds of thousands per year for 24 hour care. They can also be a danger to others. While you're sleep. Starting fires or floods. It's no joke especially Dementia patients
I am just STUNNED ... if that's anywhere close to true ... how are people not terrified to be out here fu***** all these people. Sighhhh. The world is a scary place.
I will honestly say so many women have terrible attitudes and don’t realize how harsh they can be with their words. Outer beauty is one thing but so many lack inner beauty! Ugly hearts🫤 I love yall podcast. ❣️
Women will never understand how is that you don't have a choice that can impact your life 18+ years unwilling. Never feel, unless they're just trifling, to be force to pay for something you didn't sign up for. How many women in this world would sacrifice their life for a man they just met. Women have no idea what men have to endure.
understood that these are your experiences & beliefs…. when i visit here, i always hear about how hard it is for males/men to be in relationships with US. what do women get credit for? what do we do right? to what level do we sacrifice, daily? what don’t we get credit for? do we consider that women are responsible for the majority of the emotional labor in relationships? love y’all… and… sometimes these discourses feel exhausting 🖤
Love, I understand your plights but it’s like a 4:1 ratio to Podcast you’re looking for, it’s ironic that you put it that way where can men talk about the experience of a man in today’s world without women feeling attacked? They’ve done appearances on women led podcast & I wish they brought bacc battle of sexes so you all can have an honest representation & we can have civil discourse
@og2103 it's no more defensive than when they say "not all bm". The reality is bm gotta keep bw in a constant state of chaos. Once they really realize they don't have to put up with its gonna be a cold winter for a lot of bm
This podcast is for MEN - i like the fact they are being vulnerable and roundtable about subjects I typically don't hear men discuss We as women have to give them their space to BE
Are y'all doing most of the emotional labor? How often do y'all hold space for the men in your lives? Do you truly know all the stress he's dealing with? I think women underestimate how much emotional labor men do because men don't show emotion like they do.
Saying that men are incapable of love is very disrespectful to so many men that love and care for their family. She is a hurt woman and shouldn't be allowed near a microphone till she heals before she influences some gullible ladies.
To me listening to your partners opinions and honor and respect, talking things through because we all have to have that need of understanding and most of all love passion and romance.
When you make shorts or give advice saying "when men care about you theyll do this", "men think like this" are those NOT generalizations? No one likes to feel attacked but if it don't apply let it fly. Be more upset with the state of most bm instead of the facts of the situation. Yet women are emotional smh
Women in million dollar clubs who seek wrong in those industry with wrong females reasons why too many dont have those different thinkings to be apart of those industries...its in those terms!
I was good with the topics until they got on Postpartum. They made it seem like it's just a woman who's sad and tired. Postpartum is a chemical imbalance caused by a rapid change in hormones. It's PMS X 100. Yes, the baby is a huge change for both parents but to compare that to Postpartum is wild!!!
I’m listening open heartedly, and I feel that women aren’t so much as narcissistic, they haven’t been taught and haven’t had the real conversations from their fathers and mothers about the treatment of a woman. Good and bad.
It is more men’s and the nursing home, who’s not married and have children. Most ladies, who have children when they get all the kids will take care of them.😮
This world that is such a awful place anymore, and it upsets me if men are criticized for doing and not even taking care of his family it makes me so sick of some of these women.
There are a lot of good men and women out there. However, the more I listen to men podcast platforms, some men are picking the wrong women and blaming those women for why the relationship fails. Women do not initiate any relationship she may have with a man. The woman may choose to entertain that man. Men do not have to continue any type of relationship with every woman he picks. It takes a couple of phone calls to know if she is right for you. Cut it off immediately if she doesn’t fit your program. If she’s the woman is for you, there must be a spiritual CONNECTION. Without that, your relationship is bound to fail. There’s no need to tolerate that which does not fit your life.
Let me explain my patience...years ago and many many years ago ...a brother who just walked up to me sating a few words and took thise words serious for reasons to how he explained something...never kbew why And my learning of near year and half to those words a brorher said to me out of nowhere...that Texas man would something And eventhou had been given a job in texas and a condo as a career...was there for days in the area with the flying bugs...had a new career in first adult years new company condo and got out of the steam that day and returned because never knew near fourty bugs were eveywhere ...its was a nightmare and never went to the great Hawaii fir sane reason ...evey year for yoo many years declining offers by freinds that are residential their and goid friends of mine but that many bugs in a space...there went that career studies and if all texas is wane those are some issues !
My homegirl was a madam to thousands of women and the females in anykind of entertainment to those narrisist are being told somekind of lie for reasons they dont know ...asking madams questions to make women who could be newer madams as the wrong guys request because they obow their money is never gonna to be the same for beyraying females who needed bothing from any of them but chose to nightmare a female who providied more than a player club of thinking ...assure Urban people had something they know have to do with a person they bever knew was doing more for them than they ever knew of her And the crimbal guys that knew of her for whatever reasons dont make their request to who they want to mirror simliar behavior for madam for those females in the billion dollar entertaiment industry who have females that brwak their contracts they know ...no female in that industry are allowed to have anykind of relationship at all for reasons not explain No different as modeling no person of too many millions are to ever look at anybod them without makeup and no kind of personal conversation is to wvery take place anywhere at anyrime And the femakes who broke those rules the other allowed it and it was money no to speak for those in those industries...its wrong the lies about urban guys who do not provide wealth and the fuys who made to many of them rich and dont deserve to learn their tuitions or whatever moet richies accure were lied about...its so wrong Those are four thousand dollar nights and not enough people know not to ever have a guy as if vody guard experience and expenses did not account for a third of that day salary ... Trying to have a relationship in that industry is impossible and rhose contract explain it is an indistry of imagination ... no urban guy is able to teach that of its not the body guard never communicating nothing at no time because they dont have a salary for such ...too many in that industry are wrong and dont need assistance females if not correct with assuring the look is so polish for what kind of income desire to whichever part of industry...assuring those female adult Industry assistants to never repeat of those imaginary wears either What purose if the money is not explaining the richies those environment person who know its imaginary thinking about society and nothing else in adult industries or not ever anything...there is no such money for tgat kinds of thinking either The film pretty women was for those bot wanting to different thinkings avout society and money...not everything thing is for eveyone ...all females meet different meanings to money and not , or what they thino of as urban communities aa females thinking of guys who do whatever they do as literary books or not Again something like that
I wonder how the relationships with their spouses are after they spend hours voicing grievances against women and modern relationships 🤔 Energy is transferable and they can’t possibly feel good about that first conversation with their spouses after taping…it seems like episodes like these are contributing to the male v. female wars nowadays.
I mean if you internalize it as against women, and not particular women and the culture at large then I could maybe see your point. But it’s no different then women in perfectly good and happy relationships who are also aware that the dating world and the culture is trash. Both exist…all the time.
I don't agree with Princella's take. I'm assuming shes been around many men in her lifetime though. If you think she only feels the way she does because she hasn't experienced love-even from her dad-doesn't that validate her argument? If men loving women was so common why does she or anyone need to find a woman that's been married for 30yrs+ when there aren't even that many out there anymore? Even you bringing up the hoards of scorned women would suggest it's not uncommon for women to get dogwalked by men, men that I'm sure have said they love them.
I love this show, but In my I honest opinion it’s starting to seem like the Internet is being scoured to find the worst representation of women to be discussed on these podcast shows. This content is being used to make blanket statements, as if ALL women engage in this negative behavior and lack accountability….To be honest , as a woman who honors and respects her man, give Grace to others, not running the streets, and is trying to do the right thing, it’s quite exhausting. Constantly being told what you’re doing wrong as a gender…. Where is the content on things women are doing right? Maybe time to change the algorithm…
Go to women podcasts and spaces made for women. 💁🏽♂️ also don’t ignore all the times they make caveats about good women when talking about negative things women do. Because they do, everytime.
As if all the womens podcast aren't doing the same thing. Plus, y'all had a 50 year head start talking ish about us , but now y'all can't take it?? STOP IT!!!
Case in point: KeKe Palmer. Absolutely NO accountability. And all the thousands of women that cheered her on & defended her behavior. All y'all know good & we'll she AND y'all are wrong. And Usher was wrong, too. ➕️Collaborating w/Keke to mock her man in a post-video was even worse. We, as women, would flip out if the roles were reverse. Fast-Fwd: Usher aims for Gabrielle Union, but sees Dwayne Wayde in his concert audience, but he immediately backs the F up, & says, "He don't want no smoke!" The hypocrisy towards KP (& his) accountability was egregious. Huge narcs.
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What if a female who separated pf what were physicos and never acceptable for not knowing society like most others ... stalking is wrong and its not normal behavior either and the trauma to such mental Not trying to know society issues about what physicians say the trauma for persons no none sense about behavior for human beings Jumped out windows, no self fire , no walikng backwards in the woods , no camping at doors , no explaing nothingbbut lies to the guy to keep stalking issues if not knowing... survivor sessions of years of not knowing such mental of wrong Beaking into homes , cars , leaving doors open at mid of nights and things the mind dont want to think either No war nothings either because the minds war too many years of actial combats ...beong rescued with nets and things the mind dont lije to think out of physilogy rhat kbows those are jot healthy days of thinking only combat and not combating for reasons not trying to explain either because those kinds of mental characteristics not personality ...why so many learning questions
I was never passed down the game. My mother never taught me how to take care of a man. I had to learn on my own and by my own mistakes. Still learning…..🧩
I tune a leo i dont wait been over let him stay with her i said it send this message to him. To H. DONT COME MY WAY. Dont look my way. Kingtimmalo yaru karun. A leo sharon
