(04:09) - Do F-Boys get treated better than standup guys? (43:42)- Brick Lady caught trying to finesse (46:50) - Dr. Umar speaks on why men/women cheat (01:10:24) - Advice on how to fix the community
You shouldn’t judge the lady for divorcing her “boring husband”. What men equate as a “good man” isn’t what women equate as a good. You kinda know him, she lives with him 24/7. That’s a difference experience 😅
i keep coming back here hoping for evolved discourses & POVs but realize *i’ve* just evolved beyond these topics & conversations. i hope ya’ll will eventually integrate readings & substantiated research/data into your shows to add depth & credibility to the information/opinions you share here. i also have to remember that ya’ll are only in your 30’s which informs your situatedness & ideologies. thankful for my time here. wish ya’ll the bestest 🖤🍁
Judge Lynn Toler only became the person we know and love because, Big E ( may he RIP) poured into her when television came knocking. She checked with him, he said let's go! She gives him ALL PRAISE for that!!!
To that last question, I hear what Trill is saying. I heard him say this numerous times before...about being scared of the next bm and looking at them as opps. Idk if thats true with most black ppl or not. Im not gonna disagree...but I definitely dont relate. As far as me...since I was a teen in this entertainment industry, I was Always trying to help my people. I Always was trying to pull my people up with me Every time I get an opportunity...a multimillion dollar deal...a connection...whatever. And guess what?? Now in my 30s...I learned that those same people that youre trying to help pull up with you...they gonna pull you down with them. Facts! So thats the biggest lesson Ive learned. My natural thing was being very selfless. But then i looked at most very successful people...and the most successful are super selfish. FR. So nowadays, Im only thinking about me and my family. Your so called "friends" who not really your friends dont support you in the least bit. So its best to be selfish and solo and stay on your path. If you need assistance, hire professionals in that field...and thats it. Cause you know you cant do Everything by yourself...even if you do most. So you focus on yourself and your goals F trying to hold somebody up or support them or help them. These same people cant even help themselves half the time. FR And as far as helping out my community...im still naturally a selfless guy...a generous guy. And I want to seem my people empowered and doing better than me when i was younger....the youth dem. So I do have my plans to help the youth in the community soon. I do have a 5G giveaway to 3 of my supporters this summer/fall as well. So yeah, those are just 2 ways I will try to help out my community. But as far as being there to help other ppl and overly support other ppl I know that wouldnt scratch my back if it was itching...F dat shit. FR. IJS Edit: Ok. Others confirmed that they do look at other black ppl funnystyle too. Im black and I didnt even know. Lol. I guess im different. Lol. No wonder my ppl didnt want to work with me to build together. Mann. Whatever though.
I understand that a lot of women don't take accountability for how badly they hurt men. However I disagree with placing the actions of the man after being hurt on the woman. He is responsible for his healing so he doesn't become the very thing that hurt him in the first place. I know that's not the reality for most people. I just think if we all make the effort to heal after heart break we can better our chances of finding loving relationships instead of hurting people because we're hurt.
