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The lady vanishes: Whatever happened to Heli Munroe? (2007) - The Fifth Estate 

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In November 2005, Sandy Munroe kissed his wife of more than 40 years goodbye. Heli Munroe, who had Alzheimer’s disease, was leaving their Nova Scotia home to have lunch with her brother who was visiting from England. Monroe would not see his wife, again for almost two years. Heli’s brother, Marek Pospieszalski, took her back to England with him without telling Munroe.
One year after her disappearance, Monroe launched a publicity campaign in a bid to convince many politicians that his wife was kidnapped by a vengeful family member, and that government inaction prevented him from bringing her back.
Hana Gartner and a Fifth Estate team tracked down Heli Monroe's family in England and spoke to them.
Originally aired: Nov. 7, 2007
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@mariazouaniaagustin9910
@mariazouaniaagustin9910 3 года назад
He is narcissistic, a liar and a manipulator. When his wife left he did not have anyone to bully or abuse. He feels powerless.
@crystsldorsey5580
@crystsldorsey5580 Год назад
Fact
@gayeinggs5179
@gayeinggs5179 Год назад
A big creep
@gayeinggs5179
@gayeinggs5179 Год назад
And how can he put this poor woman thru this disgusting. Movie when she is like this ! No one should have to be shown like this
@PaperMario64
@PaperMario64 Год назад
Exactly. He’s fuming because she escaped his control. I hope she’s being safe where she is. He’s dangerous and if he could, he’d drag her back by her collar. The neighbor knew what’s up.
@dannquan7696
@dannquan7696 Год назад
100% correct
@velocitygirl8551
@velocitygirl8551 4 года назад
“I’m fairly confident she wouldn’t win any international modeling contests...” WHAT??? And THEN he says she was at least as smart as him ...?? He SUCKS!!!
@paxsmile
@paxsmile 4 года назад
Jamie Tripp Utitus yep, right then and there I knew she was only money to him.
@denisewarner8287
@denisewarner8287 4 года назад
When I heard him say that about his wife, I called him a PIG!!!! Nasty man.
@antisocialbutterfly161
@antisocialbutterfly161 4 года назад
I had to play it back twice just to make sure I heard him correctly! Wtf🤬
@nosleeptonight
@nosleeptonight 4 года назад
Victim blaming is a common sign of guilt. Very telling behaviour. Poor lady. At least she got away!
@quickchris10comcast
@quickchris10comcast 4 года назад
I thought she was very beautiful. Be that as it may, Sandy can't seem to move his lips enough to express himself. (Squashing down his facial expressions a form of control?) He won't let interviewer finish her sentences before getting defensive when she starts to say police and VON had initiated investigations . . .
@preciousOne79
@preciousOne79 3 года назад
I'd be extremely scared & depressed if I shared a home with this man. He's a dangerous man. He's ok with her dying on her way back home. He puts her down several times in this interview. My heart breaks for the son.
@GloxGlox-nl4cd
@GloxGlox-nl4cd Год назад
The guy is a toad! So wonderful that her family has her back! Hope the son has a wonderful peaceful life,he deserves it.
@janepollard4141
@janepollard4141 Год назад
Keep her away from this freak.
@amandaican.1267
@amandaican.1267 6 месяцев назад
It's about him winning,so to speak
@zek7353
@zek7353 3 года назад
I'm eight minutes in and it's pretty obvious Heli's brother came over to save her from her ungrateful, psychotic, back handed complimenting toad of a husband. Sandy had such disdain for his wife he could barely even contain it in his interview answers.
@TJ-si7ug
@TJ-si7ug Год назад
Your very delusional, 8 minutes in and you don't know anything yet🤦🤦🤦
@sherrywebster1675
@sherrywebster1675 Год назад
Hahahahaha
@amd724
@amd724 Год назад
Right?! I was like, if my husband ever talked about me like this I'd have been so angry!
@clareshaughnessy2745
@clareshaughnessy2745 4 года назад
When he says she ‘decided’ to break with her family and friends and ‘isolate’ herself, that is a massive red flag.
@adisaavedra
@adisaavedra 4 года назад
Omg yes. The man can only tell lies.
@Slayerjane61
@Slayerjane61 4 года назад
@@adisaavedra He's not telling lies--he is genuinely so warped he thinks his perspective is sane and understandable. He's loony!
@jennacrawford8958
@jennacrawford8958 2 года назад
“Isolate herself” WITH HIM. CRINGE …
@Venus-gn5oi
@Venus-gn5oi 2 года назад
I thought the same. There was something really possessive in the way he said it too...
@cocoaxo
@cocoaxo 4 года назад
When they said the Husband kept his wife's passport locked up. That's all I needed to know about Mr. Sandy's crazy self.
@justjonni9330
@justjonni9330 4 года назад
Yesssss… he knew without her passport he had her locked down. And is own son spoke the real truth about him that's why Sandy said to steer clear of him. He knew he'd tell all lol 😆
@sundevilification
@sundevilification 4 года назад
yep, people i can live without.
@nothankyouthanksforasking
@nothankyouthanksforasking 3 года назад
IMO the passport situation was understandable as it came up first, assuming the wife instructed him to do so because of her grasp on Alzheimer's. Everything else the husband said was a lot more alarming, what a disturbed individual.
@mariazouaniaagustin9910
@mariazouaniaagustin9910 3 года назад
Me too
@solargoldfish
@solargoldfish 3 года назад
If your in-laws were talking about taking your husband and he was not of sound mind you would probably do the same. Correlation is not causation refers to the inability to legitimate a cause and effect relationship between two events. If you watch the end of the video you could see that the woman was in an assisted living home which wouldn’t be better than in your own home and she obviously knows nothing about where she is or who is around her.
@justafanmiller7486
@justafanmiller7486 Год назад
After viewing this segment this is my opinion: Sandy was diagnosed with a debilitating disease and understood its progressive physical affects. The disease would leave her total vulnerable to an abusive husband & at his "mercy"; a fate that alarmed her. Sensing time was running out SHE decided to flee. Good for her & those her helped her along the way.
@janephillips3627
@janephillips3627 6 месяцев назад
SANDY IS THE HUSBAND. HIS WIFE WAS THE ONE WITH A DEBILITATING DISEASE.
@aaronberg186
@aaronberg186 3 года назад
The fact that her friends and neighbors both said she wanted to leave tells us the truth I think.
@loretta_3843
@loretta_3843 4 года назад
He says his son is "mentally ill" so we should just ignore all he has to say... This guy is a bully, full stop!
@janesmith9024
@janesmith9024 4 года назад
I know. It is when people say the other is mad thay are often instead a bully. I am glad the programme spoke to the son because you can tell the father didn't like that because he knew his son would tell the truth.
@daveliebrock363
@daveliebrock363 4 года назад
He's a real piece of work. Self serving, control freak , and yes a bully. He figured he could run the narrative in this interview, but it just proved what a narcissist he really is, to bad other people fell for it. So sad for Heli ☹️
@reesedaniel5835
@reesedaniel5835 4 года назад
Malignant narcissists ALWAYS call truth tellers "mentally ill, crazy, etc"....they MUST control the narrative!
@zuzanaxyz8866
@zuzanaxyz8866 4 года назад
Trying to discredit all people who helped her out... He’s trying to manipulate the conversation and when his lies bump into a wall, he tries to get out of the conversation, because he feels cornered. Poor woman, who had to live with him for the better part of her life :/...
@letsnotbefriendly
@letsnotbefriendly 4 года назад
@@zuzanaxyz8866 it wasn't too long ago that if you showed any type of a mental Illness you would be locked up in horrible asylums ..to descredit is right because we are still not lifting the stigma regrading mental Illness ..there are many countries that still consider mental Illness as a crime or nusance that have zero rights
@gillianholmes258
@gillianholmes258 4 года назад
What a sociopath, from the first time he opened his mouth he made my flesh crawl, he ticked one box after another.
@SchlichteToven
@SchlichteToven 4 года назад
Yeah, he's got a creepy lack of expression in his eyes. Even when he's saying things that sound enraged, he's still deadpan.
@Indusxstan
@Indusxstan 4 года назад
SchlichteToven very true!
@gordonsmom3861
@gordonsmom3861 4 года назад
I agree completely!
@kathrynwitte3398
@kathrynwitte3398 4 года назад
Asperger’s?
@christinamueller5680
@christinamueller5680 4 года назад
kathryn witte Please don’t insult Asperger patients. He is a calculated manipulative Narcissist.
@jenniferhof9448
@jenniferhof9448 2 года назад
"It's not a big problem. Heli is going to die." The cold calm that this man had when faced with the question of what if Heli dies on the transport home is just frightening. This is a child wanting his plaything and is throwing a tantrum until he gets his way. You can clearly see Heli's fear come through when he was singing to her. Dementia or no, she recognized something and didn't like what she felt. I don't understand how the government of Nova Scotia could play into his games.
@despicabledavidshort3806
@despicabledavidshort3806 Год назад
I'm a geriatric nurse and I work with Alzheimer's patients and rehabilitation patients as well. If Heli left willingly her husband had no legal right to hold her, I'm sure this is why he didn't attempt to get her earlier. Obviously I don't know her baseline behavior but if I were documenting on what I see I would chart that the patient appears agitated and fearful. I see nothing that indicates to me that she is happy to see her husband.
@marshamarsha5204
@marshamarsha5204 День назад
I am not a medical person of any kind. I agree 💯 with you. She is even crawling on the floor to get away from him. She went to great lengths to escape him.... And poor lady still can't get peace from him.
@KRISTINA-oz9vc
@KRISTINA-oz9vc 4 года назад
“Marital bed, no beauty queen, not as intelligent as he is...” who would want to live with this sob?
@Annasea666
@Annasea666 4 года назад
Anne Hedonia it's a very back-handed compliment. It's passive/aggressive. And unkind
@krisquigley4497
@krisquigley4497 4 года назад
KRISTINA Right? What an unpleasant man. And pretty ballsy of him to comment on someone else's looks.
@krisquigley4497
@krisquigley4497 4 года назад
@Anne Hedonia Are you okay with the physical abuse as well?
@krisquigley4497
@krisquigley4497 4 года назад
@Anne Hedonia Whoa calm down. Looks like you have a crush on him, good for you.
@MaxinesCraftynStuff
@MaxinesCraftynStuff 4 года назад
From what I saw, she was nervous. As anyone would be when they are found by someone they tried to get away from. The way he spoke to her did not give me the impression he was loving or that he was happy he found her because he missed her, but happy he found her to show her he COULD find her. Abuse vibes is all I am getting. And before anyone says I don’t know or not an expert, I saw and was abused growing up.
@polychromy_romy
@polychromy_romy 4 года назад
the "crazy" son seems like the most reasonable person.
@Cat_herders
@Cat_herders 4 года назад
And any problems he may have are most likely as a result of what his father made him endure.
@em84c
@em84c 4 года назад
I really like the son. He's seems like a really intelligent (intellectually and emotionally) cool guy.
@oldonetwoable
@oldonetwoable 4 года назад
@@em84c I agree
@thebovineavenger
@thebovineavenger 4 года назад
He was very well spoken. Did not sound at all stupid or "UNWELL" what was that all about that the father kept saying. The son let reporters talk to his Therapist. That is private. The son sounded so SMART.
@pamelawherey4583
@pamelawherey4583 4 года назад
thebovineavenger The son seems to have taken completely after the Mum🌸💐🌸
@ros_limbo
@ros_limbo 3 года назад
Sandy's reaction to hearing that they talked to the son makes me believe everything the son said.
@mildredwebster2822
@mildredwebster2822 6 месяцев назад
He was definitely upset wasn't he. That defused his claim that his son is mentally ill.
@jk170
@jk170 3 года назад
"Could you live the rest of your life confident and comfortable with the result of Heli dying while being transported" his answer- "yeah, it´s not a big problem"- I have no words for that!
@razann8875
@razann8875 2 года назад
He actually said without any hesitance "yep" Heli will die! That was it for me and the singing! Major cringe!!! I am happy she never was given back to him..
@idemudiaodiagbe7879
@idemudiaodiagbe7879 2 года назад
Exactly. That there is more reason she should have to go back to him!!! What a psychopaths!!
@HappyIturnedyears
@HappyIturnedyears 2 года назад
I was shocked too when he as a husband replied that! In the end I believe her brother and her son did the right thing.
@CherylSimser
@CherylSimser 2 года назад
@@razann8875 His brother is just as creepy.
@thebovineavenger
@thebovineavenger 4 года назад
His wife was CLEARLY agitated when he was in her room. I know Alzheimer’s first hand. They may not remember "On the surface" But they do remember trigger smells feelings and emotions. Elie looked VERY out of sorts with him around her. NOT A GOOD SIGN.
@kummakummakummakummakummac8606
@kummakummakummakummakummac8606 4 года назад
She definately didn't look like she was happy to see him or whatever the words he used to describe it.
@TheHydred
@TheHydred 4 года назад
ptsd comes to mind
@thebovineavenger
@thebovineavenger 4 года назад
@@TheHydred yes. very much so. however with alzheimers. Thats what it looks like. She looks like she is reliving past abuse with the way she is rolling around.
@martiajackson9006
@martiajackson9006 4 года назад
thebovineavenger facts!!!
@ProspectiveCorpse
@ProspectiveCorpse 3 года назад
So true. I though the same thing. Been working in healthcare for a long time.
@amytih47
@amytih47 4 года назад
Watching that man was chilling. He’s a scary, scary person.
@linanicolia1363
@linanicolia1363 4 года назад
sickening is the word and I got angry, thinking he got away with spousal and child abuse, for decades. He still thinks he can fool people. The kind of guy, you would enjoy , to see in general population jail, after finding out, he beat his wife and kid.
@samellee7509
@samellee7509 4 года назад
@@linanicolia1363 so so true. Sad for Heli 😞
@alison2649
@alison2649 4 года назад
He’d definitely have no patience for her once he got her home in the state that she’s in. She’d die of neglect.
@heidivincent
@heidivincent 7 месяцев назад
So true. “I want to disarm the caregivers (in England)” omg He is a narcissistic psychopath.
@kenmarelove9176
@kenmarelove9176 3 года назад
Initially I sided with him but as the story unfolded I absolutely believe her family & friends. Everyone should have a brother that cares that much. 💚
@ModernWtchTrials
@ModernWtchTrials 2 года назад
The son is so articulate in his understanding of how his father functions mentally and emotionally
@Gabriel-gabriel
@Gabriel-gabriel 2 года назад
true
@truthlove1114
@truthlove1114 Год назад
God bless the son. May he recover from what must have been an incredibly difficult childhood.
@Kathy-kr1sv
@Kathy-kr1sv Год назад
Yeah. NOT crazy. No wonder father didn't want him being contacted Spilled the beans on him 🤔😊
@honey-feeney9800
@honey-feeney9800 Год назад
No one specified which type of “mental illness” their son had. It could’ve been a severe depressive episode .
@hwhy7753
@hwhy7753 Год назад
The son is not familiar with narcissism/psycopathy. He thinks his father was abussive but was "capable of love". He blames his mother for chosing to stay. He doesn't perceive that victims of narcissts r too scared to make a choice.
@Douglas_Hamilton
@Douglas_Hamilton 4 года назад
Her brother is a true hero. This man is uncapable of being a husband.
@Gabriel-gabriel
@Gabriel-gabriel 2 года назад
the brother is indeed a hero,a good good man. the other one is just a monster
@jayeautocorrectstohate206
@jayeautocorrectstohate206 4 года назад
I feel sorry that she didn’t escape this man earlier. And cheers to Rory for being the better man and father.
@joyceyagoda4207
@joyceyagoda4207 4 года назад
Jaye autocorrects to Hate dead eyes 👀
@linanicolia1363
@linanicolia1363 4 года назад
She is in a horrible state now. I am sure he was beating her and hitting her on the head....this diagnosis of dementia could come from constant head trauma and other forms of torture. This man is a monster.
@jayeautocorrectstohate206
@jayeautocorrectstohate206 4 года назад
lina nicolia Well...she’s died 2+ years ago.
@MegaTinni
@MegaTinni 4 года назад
Amen
@srk54989
@srk54989 4 года назад
@@linanicolia1363 oh my😣
@boylevalerie
@boylevalerie 3 года назад
I felt such empathy for Heli. She seemed agitated and frightened by Sandy’s presence. I saw a narcissist and gas lighter in Sandy. I pray Heli is not allowed back under this man’s control.
@ohdear2275
@ohdear2275 2 года назад
She died in 2009. Her ashes were sent to her husband.
@lesley7321
@lesley7321 Год назад
From the very first second he spoke it was obvious that he was a horrible man. By the time he said she decided to give up all her friends it was blatantly obvious he was a man that she needed to get away from.
@wyzasukitan
@wyzasukitan 7 месяцев назад
That was a MASSIVE red flag. From the moment he was waxing poetic about waking up with her on his left side - who talks like that?! An evil sociopath, that’s who
@mildredwebster2822
@mildredwebster2822 6 месяцев назад
I didn't like how he said that either
@annaw2909
@annaw2909 6 месяцев назад
omgosh, thought the same think and I came here to comment, but saw yr comment and I second that , what an a$$🤬
@Lucy-ym8ch
@Lucy-ym8ch 4 месяца назад
Exactly. So many unseen victims. So glad she got away
@Lucy-ym8ch
@Lucy-ym8ch 4 месяца назад
I loved her son. As soon as he insisted he was mentally ill and not to contact him, you know the son is completely reliable and will tell the truth. She's so lucky to be alive and have such a great family. That man should be locked up for life.
@katherinehubble389
@katherinehubble389 4 года назад
This dude loves himself way more than he ever loved that poor woman.
@jordanabeaulieu2530
@jordanabeaulieu2530 4 года назад
The whole kidnapping story seemed like a load of hogwash to me!
@besmajubran5244
@besmajubran5244 4 года назад
@@jordanabeaulieu2530 what about what her doctor said about her not wanting to go to England. The stories just don't add up. I'm not buying the kidnapping story either. He seems like a delusional liar.
@justjonni9330
@justjonni9330 4 года назад
Number one trait of a narcissist S-E-L-F
@susanberg5817
@susanberg5817 3 года назад
So right. He also loves the attention, he's getting.
@annas.8902
@annas.8902 2 года назад
The way he speaks is just unreal. He's doing such a terrible job of playing it up for the camera, saying lovey things to her that are just bizarre and using odd vocabulary all over the place as though he thinks he's smarter than everyone and pulling one over.
@gracenoah6316
@gracenoah6316 4 года назад
"It is not a big problem if she dies on her way back home," this man, this man is terribly.
@anntavedigul9258
@anntavedigul9258 4 года назад
No heart, no feelings, no care
@christinamueller5680
@christinamueller5680 4 года назад
Grace Noah Exactly the moment my blood froze in my veins.
@floridaislandgirl1039
@floridaislandgirl1039 4 года назад
@@anntavedigul9258 Yes! Yikes he is quite weird.
@DelphineCingal
@DelphineCingal 4 года назад
Grace Noah this sent shivers down my spine too... just this sentence should get the UK and Canada authorities think things over with a new perspective.
@maurabattersby3370
@maurabattersby3370 4 года назад
Grace Noah That statement right there sums it up
@EsKaYf4
@EsKaYf4 2 года назад
What a frightening story. I've also worked in aged care in the last 15 years of my nursing career and I would never have allowed Sandi to approach Heli from behind, and she definitely didn't seem happy to see him. I also think she recognised his voice and when those dreadful brothers were singing Heli didn't enjoy it at all. And he should NEVER have been allowed to sit on Heli's bed.
@stephanemami
@stephanemami 2 года назад
“She’s almost as smart as me” “I’m gonna cry and weep” I literally drool laughing, I didn’t know it was possible
@mildredwebster2822
@mildredwebster2822 6 месяцев назад
That was another give away
@sugarbabylove1000
@sugarbabylove1000 4 года назад
The poor woman escaped, she couldn't face spending her remaining years with that bully. I don't believe for one second the neighbour and her friends and the home care helpers are all lying about her husband.
@kellyprice1024
@kellyprice1024 4 года назад
Stella Elkhenizy you’d be surprised what they can do.
@lovelylibra6490
@lovelylibra6490 4 года назад
When the reporter told him they had found his son, & she begins to repeat what he had to say about him... wow! she was really getting under his skin. When he told her to “cool it” & walked toward her to stand over her with his finger pointed in her face! 👿 that’s just a snippet of his real abusive, narcissistic character coming out. I believe if she would have kept going he may have gotten physical with her. His son did say he broke a chair over his dads back to defend his mother🤦🏻‍♀️😔so sad. I hope her family members some how get her ashes.
@linda2468lou
@linda2468lou 4 года назад
@@lovelylibra6490 yes, you are right.
@momobaptiste5221
@momobaptiste5221 4 года назад
But even his son talk about that controlling freak of a father
@TheAtl198
@TheAtl198 4 года назад
@@kellyprice1024 what who can do? The neighbors and so forth? What do you mean?
@leonaleona1628
@leonaleona1628 4 года назад
I recognize a controlling man when I see one. The fact that they don't understand why they're alone at the end baffles me.
@justjonni9330
@justjonni9330 4 года назад
Thank goodness Heldi had the love if her brother & her friends to see she needed a way out. Dealing with a narcissist on a healthy brain is NOT… Healthy but leaving her in his care with having dementia would've been cruel
@donmoore7785
@donmoore7785 3 года назад
My mother's birth name was "Leona Leonita" [last name] so your user name jumped right out at me.
@leonaleona1628
@leonaleona1628 3 года назад
@@donmoore7785 ☺
@angelicad.2813
@angelicad.2813 3 года назад
Because they think others are always bad and conspiring against them, it's how he believes of his son, his brother in law and the neighbour.
@PaperMario64
@PaperMario64 3 года назад
Like all narcissistic people. Everyone else has mental problems.
@mothermayi9545
@mothermayi9545 3 года назад
The way he got in the journalist’s face and started wagging his finger at her... I legit thought he was going to hit her.
@monicdavis6150
@monicdavis6150 2 года назад
He wanted to. He really wanted to.
@ohdear2275
@ohdear2275 2 года назад
He was WAY too close to her. It appeared he's accustomed to acting in a menacing way towards women.
@faithcastillo9597
@faithcastillo9597 3 года назад
What perfectly horrible man he is. I knew that after his opening description of Heli. Controlling, manipulative, narcissistic. And it's not a silly question to ask why he didn't go after a wife he professed to be devoted to. I just read that Heli passed away in 2009, and her ashes were sent to Sandy. May she rest in sleep as she likey did not in life with this bullying and mean spirited little man.
@mamabear9646
@mamabear9646 4 года назад
He actually is a bully, listen to him degrade the interviewer
@laineyfabriccio5984
@laineyfabriccio5984 4 года назад
I totally agree with you, as I have written, I wouldn't trust him as far as I could throw him, he is a cold fish.
@desmondgood4246
@desmondgood4246 4 года назад
Yes but to be fair-this is the interviewer who allowed John Parker(admirer of Rob Ford)to describe cyclists who eat beansprouts as ELITES,being too lazy to challenge his infantile claims.
@justjonni9330
@justjonni9330 4 года назад
Did you see how he got right upon her, then pointed his finger in her face?!? If he acts like that with a women he's not familiar with… we can only imagine how his wife suffered
@marciam6224
@marciam6224 4 года назад
And when he put his finger in her face, she should've bit it or broke it.
@simonjohnston9488
@simonjohnston9488 3 года назад
@@desmondgood4246 That's entirely irrelevant. And a weird thing to bring up. Some people don't need challenging, as they make themselves look ridiculous all by themselves. But sure, she deserves it, and Sandy's behavior isn't so bad - because of another interview Gardner did that you didn't like. Cool!
@LaLaKnight
@LaLaKnight 4 года назад
"If I can't get her home in her lifetime, I'll get her home dead." WHAT IN THE IKE TURNER!!??
@LibbyLibbyBrooks
@LibbyLibbyBrooks 4 года назад
LaLa Knight “What Love got to do with it” Is the exact feel he gives off all he wants is this lady’s money and probably life insurance. He’s so arrogant! Doesn’t want his son involved because he’s “mentally ill” then was pissed off when they found his son that’s because he knows the truth would come out.
@cynthiasoroka1838
@cynthiasoroka1838 4 года назад
LaLa Knight ~~ THAT SENDS CHILLS OF TERROR ... DOWN MY SPINE ! HE IS THE ONE WHO HAS BEEN MENTALLY SICK and HAS DAMAGED HIS WIFE and SON !
@benglo5245
@benglo5245 4 года назад
@@cynthiasoroka1838 You Better Believe it!! I hate when they End a Story that way! I hope & Pray that her & her good son are protected now from this Evil man for the Rest of their Lives!! 💜🛐☦💫
@sirapos6550
@sirapos6550 4 года назад
@@benglo5245 As mentioned above,she's dead,sadly.
@craftycriminalistwithms.z3053
@craftycriminalistwithms.z3053 4 года назад
Right!?! Sick SOB! Control til death!
@PKS20
@PKS20 3 года назад
When he said I’m fairly certain she would never win an international beauty pageant.....wow
@Victoria-dh3wl
@Victoria-dh3wl 6 месяцев назад
Who would expressed themselves that way about their wives right at that moment, I knew this man is no good
@callumbyrne3692
@callumbyrne3692 2 года назад
There is something really off about Sandy. I feel so sorry for his wife. I hope she enjoyed the rest of her life in the comfort of her family ❤️
@ginatorres677
@ginatorres677 4 месяца назад
🎯💯
@celticeyesmorriganrising929
@celticeyesmorriganrising929 4 года назад
THIS MAN IS SO DEEP IN DENIAL, THAT WOMAN WAS SO AFRAID OF HIM, SHE DID NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO WITH HERSELF. THE POOR WOMAN WAS LITERALLY FRANTIC.
@melvin171994
@melvin171994 2 года назад
7
@tankthearc9875
@tankthearc9875 2 года назад
turn caps off geez shouting
@roberta6363
@roberta6363 4 года назад
A narcissistic shameful man that has damaged his family. Pathetic.
@armisam383
@armisam383 4 года назад
He reminds me of my father.
@kungfukid4124
@kungfukid4124 4 года назад
missy amin, sorry. You are not alone. It takes time and a good listener. Peace.
@Mommapunkin
@Mommapunkin 4 года назад
@@armisam383 ... I'm so sorry about your "father".. I know you deserve so much better then a tyrant for a father...
@armisam383
@armisam383 4 года назад
@@Mommapunkin
@samellee7509
@samellee7509 4 года назад
@@armisam383 I hear ya. I understand because mine was exactly the same to his family. My mother is still suffering with him.
@emiliekennedy2489
@emiliekennedy2489 3 года назад
My husban died of Alzeimer's , and that loud singing in her room would be very distrubing to a patient. What she was doing on the floor there shows me that in her mind she was trying to get away from these people but did not know how. She looked scared to me and yet the poor dear could not express it verbaly.
@rajs7876
@rajs7876 2 года назад
My grandmother had alzheimers and enjoyed music till the end but she grew up playing instruments and singing and even one of her neighbours who was a concert pianist played until her final.days. It is not the same for everyone and she has sps apparently.
@Leesaloves
@Leesaloves 2 месяца назад
Yes. She did seem agitated. 😢 it agitated me!
@AngelsHandPrint
@AngelsHandPrint 2 года назад
His son’s description of him was spot on. He’s a child, a ridiculous but malicious child.
@SusanaXpeace2u
@SusanaXpeace2u 4 года назад
Rory seems measured, articulate, self-aware and very insightful on the subject of his father's personality. I don't think the programme makers should have stated his location.
@mirriulahwaterdog
@mirriulahwaterdog 3 года назад
Yes but I dont think good ol Sandy will be looking for him anytime soon.
@bethbowman8450
@bethbowman8450 3 года назад
I Absolutly agree.
@SandraBrownEyes
@SandraBrownEyes 3 года назад
@@mirriulahwaterdog Too much travel-money, hehehehe
@annietapia2340
@annietapia2340 2 года назад
Agree
@aunrahaomi7340
@aunrahaomi7340 4 года назад
I went to searched what happened to this poor lady. Thank God, she spent her last days with her family in England. She died last 2009 and was cremated. It was not clear if the husband were able to get back her ashes, but he was not able to bring her back alive at least. I can live with that. She didn't have to suffer under his domineering hands anymore while spending her last 2 years of life.
@LoraHari81
@LoraHari81 8 месяцев назад
2 years? Didn't she disappeare in 2005?
@lukeholman3180
@lukeholman3180 8 месяцев назад
He did get her ashes back.
@LL-jt1xt
@LL-jt1xt 8 месяцев назад
He was willing to bring her back dead (a possibility of her dying en route). Controlling bully. Chilling.
@lynn8796
@lynn8796 7 месяцев назад
Maybe there was insurance money or a pension her thought he wouldn't get if she wasn't with him. He the only mental ill person in this situation.😢
@hildy208
@hildy208 3 года назад
I feel your pain, Rory. I know how it feels to cut your losses and completely disconnect from an abusive father and a mother who just cannot seem to break free. I wish you peace.
@waypay1
@waypay1 3 года назад
"I was the air beneath her wings. I really was." Sounds like he's taking credit for her success.
@ohdear2275
@ohdear2275 2 года назад
He's a windbag.
@ZaZa-ib6un
@ZaZa-ib6un 4 года назад
Listening to his "mentally ill" son I realized how humble and normal human being he is...he sounds intelligent and very reasonable!! All the best to you and your family Rory!!!
@esterherschkovich6499
@esterherschkovich6499 4 года назад
Agree,he is not mentally ill but affected by his childhood.He sounds a fab guy who has come out well.
@Chico69ers
@Chico69ers 4 года назад
Excellent comments.
@bellaggio1770
@bellaggio1770 4 года назад
High empathy and intelligence in his son
@alison2649
@alison2649 4 года назад
Za Za But could definitely use a shower eh? His kids too. 🤷🏻‍♀️
@lesleyupton7252
@lesleyupton7252 3 года назад
@@alison2649 what a horrible thing to say, how do you know he isn't clean, he and his kids look happily casual not dirty! 😠
@pauline_2373
@pauline_2373 4 года назад
You can tell by the way he keeps snapping at this journalist that something is very wrong with this guy.. control freak!
@SpenserRoger
@SpenserRoger 4 года назад
Narcissism
@RasPutintheGreat
@RasPutintheGreat 4 года назад
Result of being at home guy, ego was crushed.
@TheAtl198
@TheAtl198 4 года назад
Total, complete loser. Weak man. Ineffectual in every way.
@tinyGrim1
@tinyGrim1 4 года назад
Yeah, creeps like that think they're entitled, and important, he's a literal all about him guy. And only him. He's a bully who just wants to win. Good example of life's not fair for poor Heli. And for anyone who knows one if these types of people, man or woman.
@tinyGrim1
@tinyGrim1 4 года назад
@@RasPutintheGreat I doupt that. He's a king by his standards, there ego stay intact, and just get nasty. That's the problem. He has no shame at all.
@MaryAnn-cg1lh
@MaryAnn-cg1lh 3 года назад
"Rory is a person who doesn't want to be found" So we found him and told everyone in TV land exactly where he is and how to find him next time.
@khandiieamerson1039
@khandiieamerson1039 2 года назад
On the flip side.. A TV crew found his estranged son in possibly days or weeks, with sheer common sense. To simply ask him a few questions. And pappy over there like, 🤷🏼‍♂️ That's your child. No matter the bad blood between you, you need to know where they're at. Period. Non-negotiable.
@genevievehackett5017
@genevievehackett5017 2 года назад
That was pretty rotten of this show
@lisaroy551
@lisaroy551 6 месяцев назад
Rory did not want to be found....by his narcissistic controlling father.
@gljtiamo
@gljtiamo 3 года назад
This was almost nauseating & physically painful for me to watch... as Im sure it would be for anyone who has been in any sort of close relationship with a psychologically abusive, manipulative, malignant narcissist. The biggest gift I recieved from someone in my past who was similar in personality to Sandy? Now, being able to see "the Sandy" in someone, fast. Before they even get a chance to twist things, manipulate and gaslight. The look of fear/panic on her face when he visited her at the end.😭😭😭 She knew exactly who he was, dementia and all. Just didnt understand how he was back around her, again💔
@oldonetwoable
@oldonetwoable 4 года назад
He just wants to win, he can't stand the fact that he's not in control, has nothing to do with love.
@danielleanderson3926
@danielleanderson3926 4 года назад
absolutely
@ericamae7287
@ericamae7287 4 года назад
You are so right the only thing hurting here is his ego
@belleame1064
@belleame1064 4 года назад
Correct!
@zuzanaxyz8866
@zuzanaxyz8866 4 года назад
EXACTLY!
@somerking7040
@somerking7040 4 года назад
oldonetwoable EXACTLY!! Without control ,they lose control!
@ashiba4024
@ashiba4024 4 года назад
This man is an utter, wretched man and an awful father and husband. God bless the brother for getting his sister, away.
@millyday
@millyday 2 года назад
I wish my friends could get their mother away from a very similar man in character!!! He was the death of her! So sad!
@ashleyshiba8380
@ashleyshiba8380 2 года назад
@@millyday , I will pray for your friends' mother and her safety.
@moniquesmith3299
@moniquesmith3299 3 года назад
Whether he's abusive or not, he clearly can't care for her in the state she's in. If he really loved her he would let her stay where she is for her own safety.
@Tsumami__
@Tsumami__ 6 месяцев назад
100%
@marjayasmr
@marjayasmr 5 месяцев назад
He can’t care for her cos he doesn’t care about her. He’s an obnoxious control freak, the whole interview is shocking!
@jacquelinelewis2110
@jacquelinelewis2110 2 года назад
It’s pretty obvious from how he treated the interviewer how he likely treated his wife. Also…his son seems to be extremely well-adjusted and possibly the most articulate person that they interview!
@racoonsister
@racoonsister 4 года назад
notice when they found his son, he didn't ask how he was, he got upset and reiterated that Rory was crazy. No real parent would act that way, if I hadn't seen my child in 6 years, I would be emotional and want to know they are well.
@adisaavedra
@adisaavedra 4 года назад
My parents would behave exactly this way and in fact, say that exact thing about me to anyone who will listen. Of course, they're severely abusive.
@angelicad.2813
@angelicad.2813 3 года назад
Narcissist dads like mine do that. I haven't talked to him in also 6 years (for abuse for me and my mum) . He keeps saying how ungrateful I was because he used to take me to school when I was little, a favour I shouldn't have forgotten.
@curiousmac5715
@curiousmac5715 3 года назад
A classic narcissistic
@spitfirestake54
@spitfirestake54 2 года назад
Good observation
@elainebines6803
@elainebines6803 2 года назад
How he push his finger towards the ladies face
@cidb.212
@cidb.212 4 года назад
As soon as he referred to it as their "marital bed", the hair on the back of my neck shot up.
@MelRHerr
@MelRHerr 3 года назад
100%
@pinecrone8991
@pinecrone8991 3 года назад
ME TOO !! Cold blooded man??
@michaelsinclair3321
@michaelsinclair3321 3 года назад
I thought it was odd and i looked at him sideways too, then i thought, naaaaw! Maybe that's just how he talks, but then, a little further down the road i thought, i knew it i knew it!🤥
@cidb.212
@cidb.212 3 года назад
@Rod Evans He could have just said, "I got out of bed." The rest of his sentence provided context without the qualifier. It just sounded creepy to me, like foreshadowing.
@kathyh.w.3151
@kathyh.w.3151 3 года назад
Same here!
@martineeggeman2057
@martineeggeman2057 3 года назад
I feel for Rory and his family. I wish them the best. His father is a dangerous and scary manipulator. RIP Heli.
@giraffebecky
@giraffebecky 2 года назад
Their son Rory is an INCREDIBLY insightful, intelligent man and so aware of his family dynamic! Good for him! I really like him! I was not expecting that, because of what his father said about his mental well-being - and him (Sandy the father) being caught in the lie/exaggeration of his son's mentality totally affirms what Rory and others said about him charmingly twisting/manipulating things.
@robelder102
@robelder102 4 года назад
It is quite evident from his manner and what people are saying about him: he is a controlling, skilled narcissistic bully. That poor woman is definitely better off where she is. The son is still getting over his abusive childhood. Here's hoping he is still safe now after his thereabouts have been made known
@M.Campbell-Sherwood
@M.Campbell-Sherwood 4 года назад
"his *thereabouts* have been made known" I'm afraid I don't quite understand what you mean by this. *Thereabouts* ???
@teenieneenie630
@teenieneenie630 4 года назад
@@M.Campbell-Sherwood Your comment sounded as if out of the mouth of Mr. Sandy Munro himself!
@bethmeadows2828
@bethmeadows2828 4 года назад
@Picasaa P Where was she when she died?
@BellaLeoLicorice
@BellaLeoLicorice 4 года назад
@@teenieneenie630 Might be Sandi M's alias
@stephaniek1076
@stephaniek1076 4 года назад
I thought it was terrible that they included where the son was found. That could very well put him and his family in danger. Only people who understand the potentially dangerous dynamics of that situation could appreciate that.
@thinkmackay8954
@thinkmackay8954 4 года назад
This husband is an evil man, who treats his dying wife as a money bag!
@patriciabennett-siciliap802
@patriciabennett-siciliap802 4 года назад
He’s a cruel human being...
@viviensfilms3604
@viviensfilms3604 2 года назад
The minute Sandy started talking, he showed his bullying and manipulation nature. He does not seem to understand why his wife & son wanted to leave him. When Sandy saw Heli in the UK, she looked clearly distressed, yet he said she rejoiced seeing him. Btw, this man was a home maker & his wife had a PHD, and yet he thought that she was as intelligent as he was. I hope Heili get to stay in the UK with her family who loves and cares for her.
@bethbowman8450
@bethbowman8450 3 года назад
Look at the way he acted on camera when they said we found Rory. He freaked out because he knew Rory was an intellegent man capable of stating how life was for him and his Mom. Abused and controlled. He was standing over and finger pointing at the interviewer to intimidate her. Too bad he dosent have alzhimers he has a Rotten brain.
@kathleenhebert2278
@kathleenhebert2278 Год назад
I couldn’t believe my eyes when he pointed at the interviewer like he did. 😳 .
@mainemermaid6596
@mainemermaid6596 4 года назад
I wish the show didn't reveal the exact location of his son.
@eleayeproctor9490
@eleayeproctor9490 3 года назад
I find journalists stupid with this regard. They would say they are covering identity of someone but would show literally area they live in and folks connected to them. Happens all the time and never occurs to producers to think this could be dangerous.
@pulsereading
@pulsereading 3 года назад
Agreed. The media compromised privacy and dignity, even to a degree with the husband ''for a story'', regardless. The morally bankrupt liberals of the media.
@SandraBrownEyes
@SandraBrownEyes 3 года назад
That was PLAIN STUPID. I hope he's leaving him alone or maybe that pig(his "father") is also dead.
@rjh1675
@rjh1675 2 года назад
He has the freedom to get in the boat and relocate.
@joanbrennan2534
@joanbrennan2534 4 года назад
The neighbor with the miniature horses was great! He called a spade a spade! ♠ = ♠
@clpr2023
@clpr2023 4 года назад
I’d love to have him as neighbor! Sandy is a nut
@PaperMario64
@PaperMario64 Год назад
He sure did. Saw him for what he is.
@Dontstopbelievingman
@Dontstopbelievingman 10 месяцев назад
It should be illegal to show someone at this advanced stage of dementia without their consent. It's heartbreaking. It's wrong. I feel so much for her and her family (and I hope she remains out of her husband's clutches).
@peachwedding
@peachwedding 2 года назад
An abusers dream is to have his victim be totally dependent on him - Heli having dementia would have delighted him in the fact that he could control her every move and she would have no capacity to fight him off or resist him. How sickening and disturbing.
@katieharris5131
@katieharris5131 4 года назад
He is completely unlikeable. He doesn’t actually show emotion he just fakes it by describing emotion as intelligently as he can.
@comedienne_historian
@comedienne_historian 4 года назад
Katie Harris I came down here to make sure someone else didn’t like him. “I’m sure she wouldn’t win an international beauty competition” dude wtf??
@NatashaCreatesThings
@NatashaCreatesThings 4 года назад
Attagirls Kitchen i know!!!! Omg
@gracerangel7827
@gracerangel7827 2 года назад
The way he stood over the interviewer and pointed at her made me nervous. It was an intimidating move.
@SICresinwrks
@SICresinwrks 2 года назад
I was trying to describe him this whole time and you put it perfectly, he gave me bad vibes right from the start
@millyday
@millyday 2 года назад
Exactly!
@girlmettle
@girlmettle 4 года назад
" My marital bed" " Utterly retched" ? Wow, clearly he did not want his son interviewed because he son knows the deal. The family coming in to get her was nothing less than GANGSTA!
@debbietaylor2983
@debbietaylor2983 4 года назад
And everything else out of his mouth was all about him. Nothing about her well being. Creepy dude.
@cocoaxo
@cocoaxo 4 года назад
girlmettle, GANGSTA BY ANY MEANS NECESSARY. When it comes to your family.
@bobalot3639
@bobalot3639 4 года назад
@Ryan Smith ahyessss....we see you, you trolling narcissist, "Ryan Smith" 🤣
@MissNebulosity
@MissNebulosity 3 года назад
"She wanted to isolate herself with me from her friends" ..... "Im a victim. My wife was kidnapped." wow, sociopathic narcissist much?
@rubydawn1
@rubydawn1 4 года назад
Rory is an amazing son and seems to have turned out to be such a good person
@MiniM69
@MiniM69 3 года назад
You’re stupid to think he’d agree without planning his next move. Why do you think he lives on a boat?
@lottejohnson250
@lottejohnson250 3 года назад
@@MiniM69 Because its cool to live on a boat? Loads of people do it...
@charmainkilloran9476
@charmainkilloran9476 4 года назад
He was jealous of her because she was more intelligent. He was using her as the bread winner and obviously treated her like his inferior. It wasn't kidnapping it was an escape to freedom. Feel so sorry for this poor lady.
@kingayy9267
@kingayy9267 4 года назад
Saying she wouldn't win beauty pageants but he thought she was gorgeous - as though he's trying to make himself appear to be "better" than traditionally superficial men while, at the same time, insulting his wife shamelessly
@charmainkilloran9476
@charmainkilloran9476 4 года назад
@@kingayy9267 Absolutely right.
@amandawilliams2266
@amandawilliams2266 4 года назад
Exactly and he seems to be as intelligent as a potato . Wait I didn't mean to put the potato down 😂
@charmainkilloran9476
@charmainkilloran9476 4 года назад
@@amandawilliams2266 lol
@freespeechforall1069
@freespeechforall1069 4 года назад
The brother taking his sister home then placing her in a nursing home when you can receive great support to care for at home is heartbreaking. This lady was let down by those who said they cared.
@sheryelverton5372
@sheryelverton5372 2 года назад
Rory needs to understand that it's ok to let go of his dad. His father is a narcissist . He will never change. No contact of any kind with his father will make his life infinitely better. Been there ..done that.. wish the best for Rory. His smile lightened my day!
@Inprogress_of_newbeginings
@Inprogress_of_newbeginings Год назад
It's so interesting to me to see how people like Sandy are able to gather support for themselves.
@peterrobertson8033
@peterrobertson8033 4 года назад
I think he is the most controlling person ,he scares me& I’m a guy aged 70.
@personalpc7439
@personalpc7439 4 года назад
Really???? how do you know him?
@contiflex
@contiflex 4 года назад
The husband is very arrogant and full of his own self importance. He's scary.
@sandragruhle6288
@sandragruhle6288 4 года назад
contiflex Does he remind you of anyone in particular?
@merncat3384
@merncat3384 3 года назад
@26:00 - the truth comes out.. That reaction told me everything!!! The son is telling the truth and he is NOT crazy.
@barbaras8562
@barbaras8562 Год назад
This program was so informative. I wonder how many elderly victims like Heli exist with no guardian angel brother to rescue them.
@ninja1antelope
@ninja1antelope 4 года назад
His daily calls are a form of “remote” control.
@Cat_herders
@Cat_herders 4 года назад
Ninja antelope There can be only 1 Yet he wouldn’t let her call home because it was too expensive...
@stephaniek1076
@stephaniek1076 4 года назад
Great comment! Plus, I enjoyed the pun!!
@tarajh
@tarajh 4 года назад
Perfect analogy.
@janesmith9024
@janesmith9024 4 года назад
Yes, I found them very objectionable. If I had been abused bya bullying husband for 40 years the last thing I would want once I had escaped was to have to listen to him on the phone every day but hopefully she isn't aware of what is going on.
@linanicolia1363
@linanicolia1363 4 года назад
He is documenting his " efforts". He is pure evil.
@ck2503
@ck2503 4 года назад
He is obviously a piece of work. Not sure how he thought this interview was going to help his case....
@Bishka100
@Bishka100 4 года назад
He thought this interview would help because he is a self-opinionated creep... i know, I was marred to one!
@Bishka100
@Bishka100 4 года назад
@Klik Day Unfortunately, there is little, if anything, you can do for people like him. They deflect and obfuscate like there is no tomorrow. If ever you find yourself tangled with such a person, cut your losses and RUN ! I'm glad she got away from him.
@christinamueller5680
@christinamueller5680 4 года назад
Bishka100 Unfortunately she ran away too late. I could swear this poor woman would have lived a less dramatic end if she had escaped decades earlier. He drove her nuts.
@carolynm9638
@carolynm9638 4 года назад
Yes, he is extremely out of touch with reality and has no idea how transparent he is.
@raysmetaltracks6782
@raysmetaltracks6782 3 года назад
My mother was in a very abusive relationship when I was young. When Sandy was in the room with Heli, constantly talking, singing, etc., my skin was crawling, and I couldn't understand why. Then I remembered how my mom told me how her husband used to do the same to her - continuous praise, singing, and going on about how "great" things used to be... "It was a form of control", she would tell me. She said she would withdraw and shut-down the more he would talk, and he knew it. I was around 12 at the time, and I can remember how uncomfortable I felt in the room, and I can remember my moms blank stare. That interaction between Sandy and Heli felt very similar.
@cynthialazo1273
@cynthialazo1273 2 года назад
This man never changed his tone on every conversation he had.
@sirismart9541
@sirismart9541 4 года назад
The wife wasn't kidnapped. She left her control freak narcissist husband intentionally. He's just mad & playing the victim because he can't use her for her money after 40 years of it! Edit: He kept her Passport locked up & out of her reach!
@BellaLeoLicorice
@BellaLeoLicorice 4 года назад
and wouldn't let her phone her family when she had paid all the bills and supported him financially! I believe that if she had been made to return not only would he have got the money he wanted but also he would have got what he thought he was entitled to in the "marital bed"
@BigBoogookie
@BigBoogookie 4 года назад
"She wanted to be isolated from her friends and family with me."
@chutzpah5603
@chutzpah5603 4 года назад
@@BigBoogookie 😌🙄🙄🙄.... and you are just the kind of a guy any woman would choose to be isolated with.... come on Sandy..... 😩😭😭😭😭 Cry me a river... JUST STOP IT!!! 🙉
@BellaLeoLicorice
@BellaLeoLicorice 4 года назад
@@BigBoogookie Yeah sure she did - that struck me as total bs
@kathrynwitte3398
@kathrynwitte3398 4 года назад
He would certainly be eligible to half her property and ongoing support from her as she was the breadwinner.
@emiliekennedy2489
@emiliekennedy2489 4 года назад
She was his bread and butter ticket for their whole marriage.
@linanicolia1363
@linanicolia1363 4 года назад
Monsters like him zero on insecure and weak women, they can control and use. The fact he abused their son, while he was in his care, when she was traveling for her job , is another issue. Unfortunately the statute of limitation is gone. Cannot prosecute now.
@Mandi298
@Mandi298 2 года назад
If you were too look up condescending and narcissistic in a dictionary, there would be a picture of this man. I can’t even imagine the life this poor woman lived. The son moved away and changed his name..that says A LOT about where he came from and not wanting to be associated. Good for him for finding his path and escaping that nightmare. If only he could have convinced his mom to run too. 😔 What a cold cold condescending little man.
@djrigmarole7077
@djrigmarole7077 2 года назад
This is heart wrenching ! That poor lady. Bless her heart 💜
@ColorfulMusiicNotes
@ColorfulMusiicNotes 4 года назад
When he said “she was almost as smart as me, a very inteligente woman” 🙄 I knew he had problems of superiority
@ggurks
@ggurks 4 года назад
He actually said "she was at least as intelligent as me", which is the opposite of "almost". But anyway, he is a creep and it looked like it cost him quite an effort to say she's smarter
@marysisak2359
@marysisak2359 4 года назад
He is a psycho. So is his brother.
@olivegrove2615
@olivegrove2615 4 года назад
Classic domestic violence case.
@andragreene2952
@andragreene2952 4 года назад
I agree
@H_A_L_7
@H_A_L_7 4 года назад
@@andragreene2952 Oh I thought that was her brother....the man singing with him in her bedroom.....it felt like an assault on someone vulnerable frankly. I had to look away.
@marygoff3332
@marygoff3332 2 года назад
"She was at least as intelligent as I was..." holy moly. All I needed to hear to figure out this man's personality.
@leanderrowe2800
@leanderrowe2800 3 года назад
"He dragged her home ! " If that's not abusive, what is ? The neighbour has no reason to lie.
@carolynm9638
@carolynm9638 4 года назад
The fact that he almost choked admitting she was intellectually his better, was enough to tell the whole story for me.
@debbielavigne1154
@debbielavigne1154 4 года назад
I absolutely thought the same.
@richebronsonify
@richebronsonify 4 года назад
It was enough for me that he let the sleazy journalists in to see her at her worst moments, crawling around on the floor while he sang to her, and when she specifically told him she had prided herself on her intellect and accomplishments and was planning to lock herself away from everyone to die. HE said she said that!! Disgusting the sleazy journalists did it- absolutely appalling that her husband allowed it!! That said all I needed to know about him and his claims that she wanted to be there! I just hope she never realized they did it. Zero integrity from ANY of them- all exploiting her for their own gain!!
@carolynm9638
@carolynm9638 4 года назад
High Quality Opinions And that, HQO, pretty much sums it up. Well said.
@aewtx
@aewtx 4 года назад
@@richebronsonify Yeah, didn't care much for the interviewer earlier. Abrasive. And when she told Sandy they found the son and he got up, told her he was so upset he didn't know if he could continue, she's all like, "Oh, well, try, and if you can't handle it, then we'll take a break." Uh, that's what he just told you! He's not very likeable, but that doesn't mean she can't do her job properly.
@crazycrackinchick
@crazycrackinchick 4 года назад
RORY if you ever read this... I'm so proud of you. As someone struggling with personal issues, it makes me so happy to see you being so perspective and mature and loving. Your children are so lucky to have you.
@jennifersierzant2152
@jennifersierzant2152 4 года назад
Morgi Taylor here here! Rory is awesome
@Scorch428
@Scorch428 4 года назад
Rory looks like he used to use drugs heavily.
@janetsides901
@janetsides901 4 года назад
Rory!! Great job blowing his cover!! His reaction was classic
@michaeldavies051185
@michaeldavies051185 4 года назад
@@janetsides901 YESSS my thoughts exactly. That reaction was like MasterCard - priceless
@joannakarlsson3423
@joannakarlsson3423 4 года назад
@@Scorch428 And what is your point? If we judge you by your comment -since we can't judge you by your looks you are defenetly not making your momma proud.
@audreyorissapaley-omelchuk6919
@audreyorissapaley-omelchuk6919 2 года назад
I was shocked at how fearful she was of him. She seemed to want to get as far from him as possible, but didn’t know how. I expect she has passed on by now, (2021). If this is the case, I am pleased she is finally safe.
@ebonypenguin2899
@ebonypenguin2899 3 года назад
Forty years of suffering domestic violence.....her only escape while alive was into "insanity".
@freedpeeb
@freedpeeb 4 года назад
A man who would pursue this woman's removal from a facility where she is well cared for and comfortable, is a cruel man.
@jenniferlawrence9473
@jenniferlawrence9473 4 года назад
I think he's a psychopath. He could barely contain his rage at the interviewer. I can only imagine how he was with his own wife.
@beths3288
@beths3288 4 года назад
@@jenniferlawrence9473 I don't think he's a psychopath. He's melo-dramatic and afraid, which is typical of spousal abusers, actually. I also think the main reason why he wants his wife back is because he has to be "right". If he got her back, then he could continue to deny his ill-treatment of her and his son, he can negate what his brother-in-law did, and frankly, was justified to do. Thankfully, it's highly likely that Heli is dead now, so her pain is done.
@debbielarsen4831
@debbielarsen4831 4 года назад
@@mariaritajane6825 I agree. She does not want him there. Even in her state of mind, she knows he's evil.
@sunavanbekkum
@sunavanbekkum 4 года назад
Thank god for taking her away from this man.
@Tealeafs1
@Tealeafs1 4 года назад
It was her brother.. Not god
@patriciabennett-siciliap802
@patriciabennett-siciliap802 4 года назад
I agree!, animal
@dellahicks7231
@dellahicks7231 3 года назад
It appears Heli passed in 2009, her ashes sent back to her husband here in Canada. May her soul be at peace now.
@BlackorcaOZ
@BlackorcaOZ 3 года назад
There's no way his son is mentally ill, he said that and asked them not to get in touch with him because he wouldn't agree with him.
@diatonix2
@diatonix2 4 года назад
His horrible "singing" is reason enough to keep her away from him.
@Ladypeace12312
@Ladypeace12312 4 года назад
She's definitely better off where she is. This dude looks fishy
@danielleanderson3926
@danielleanderson3926 4 года назад
this dude is bScaryyyyy
@linanicolia1363
@linanicolia1363 4 года назад
fishy ? he is a monster who has abused his wife and son, all their live I expect. His son is still in therapy, trying to overcome the treatment from his father. What horrors did he do to him ? We would like to know.
@patriciabennett-siciliap802
@patriciabennett-siciliap802 4 года назад
Fishy idiot...no brains at all!
@princesstamika
@princesstamika 4 года назад
he's the definition of "mealy mouthed".
@rheax6472
@rheax6472 4 года назад
There was no way on earth, he could have ever got her back and looked after her, not just saying this because he was good to her but you could see how much care she really needed, sadly She passed away in 2009, he got her ashes,...
@susanberg5817
@susanberg5817 3 года назад
Seeing him with his wife, I get the feeling, he is playing for the camera. No genuine emotions of love for her, is my feeling. And she looks uncomfortable and scared to me. We must protect those, who suffer from dementia. A discussion like this is important.
@teresaparis5063
@teresaparis5063 2 года назад
How sad it is that she doesn't even know how she wants to position herself for comfort, why would he want her not to be taken care of by medical personell
@samsmom400
@samsmom400 4 года назад
The sanest one of all is the "permanently mentally ill son".
@NickyM_0
@NickyM_0 4 года назад
LOL ... 😂 Love how you put that! FACTS!😂
@merncat3384
@merncat3384 3 года назад
100% !!!!
@merncat3384
@merncat3384 3 года назад
@Moriya C. I don't disagree with ANYTHING you said here but the point of the post proves the exact same point you are trying to make.. regardless of whether he has a mental illness or not, regardless of if he's on medication or not, they (the dad) are trying to make him sound "crazy" or "unreliable" because he supposedly has a "mental illness" (even though we all know most doctors misdiagnose anyway) but none of that matters here.. the fact still remains : the son is the most sane, the most logical and the most realistic out of all of them.
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