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I listen to your videos every morning. Right when i start working out. It really helps me get my day started. Im in a new manager role at work and your videos really helps me step into that leadership role!!
I just want to congratulate you on your new position! 🎉 this was me three years ago. You will have some rough patches but muscle through them. You got this! I can tell you will be ok since you are already looking into ways to be better.
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Robert Greene stands out in the crowd for a reason. His research and work into the books are based on what he has studied. I have started reading some books that are over 100 years old. They were much more forward about topics we avoid today. What we avoid does not go away. It shows up somewhere different, usually much less directly and very unpleasantly. law 48 is extremely useful.
@@mr.goodbass9445 48 laws of Power by Robert Greene.. list of laws to live by, gives historical reasons/examples why you should practice said law and what happened to someone who did not follow the law.. its a really good read
Greene promotes Manipulative, Deceptive ways to achieve success. Why would you adopt All the red flags you'd avoid in another person ? Just cause you can't eradicate evil, Doesn't mean you gotta join them.... Beware that, when fighting monsters, you yourself do not become a monster... for when you gaze long into the abyss. The abyss gazes also into you. - Friedrich W. Nietzsche
I hope this helps whoever reads it. These are Action Steps: I followed this for 30 days. My goal was to change my self image and it worked. This is what I did. 1. Write out a statement of your Short Term Goal AND your Chief Aim/Main Goal... on a "goal card" or paper. 2. Write it out 50 times a day for 30 days preferably around the same time each day. After the 30 days, you go back and write it out ONCE a day. This is your compass in life. 3. Set your phone alarm to go off every 3 hours (to disrupt your daily routine) and when it goes off write down your statement and then close your eyes and see yourself with your goal for 2 mins. 4. Record your statement in your voice on a voice recorder on your phone, and play it back to yourself on loop while you sleep and as often as you can daily, example... in the shower or when you are using the rest room. 5. Find an accountability partner. If you cannot find someone, then you MUST write out your statement DAILY. By doing this you make yourself accountable to YOURSELF. 6. Find a community or FB group/group chat, etc and from that community form a Mastermind with one or two people who have studied from REAL Mentors and are giving VALUE. There is a "Law of Giving" and many people are using it. Andrew Carnegie told Napoleon Hill this back in the early 1900s. Its a LAW and it works. Its what I am doing with this post. 7. Auto-Suggest (Think and Grow Rich Chapter 4) to yourself in front of the mirror in the bathroom at least twice a day. Look directly INTO your eyes OR one eye and recite your WRITTEN statement. Then splash cold water on your face. This sudden shock seals the thought into the subconscious due to emotional and physical shock from the cold water. 8. Write out ten "I AM" statements a day. example. I AM happy, I AM more confident. Use the word MORE; implying you already have it, but want more. You trick the brain. 9. Write out 5 things you HAVE that you are grateful for and 5 things that you are grateful for that are coming to you. Mix up the list one after the other. 10. When in public tell people you see that you love them in your mind. Simply say "I LOVE YOU" to them as you pass them, especially when driving, because their subconscious hears and FEELS the intention. Say it to about 10 to 15 people daily. This increases your Good Karma. I hope this helps at least two people. It might seem like a lot. But it took me less than two weeks to incorporate the list into my life and 32 days later I started getting massive results. Thank you for reading.
I definitely agree that understanding people is one of the most important aspects needed to make it in life. The more you understand people, the more you get why people (ourselves included) act the way they act. I wish I had read this book many years ago. Understanding the reality of human nature has changed my life in many ways!
Being sabotaged in work can literally drive you crazy, because you don't want to seem crazy, or somehow get things twisted. Things are also impossible to prove, when you have nobody on your side (in a new job for example).
I’m 17 I’ve been putting away deliveries and organizing stock rooms for 5 years now just recently someone started disorganizing my work I literally had to reorganize the same shelves 2 weeks in a row by the third week they gave up because even disorganizing my organized work was too much for them😂 just out work the people who envy your work ethic
This is invaluable content!! 👍 Should be required for young people, as it will help fine-tune their people skills while attending school; not only in regards to their peers but in studying the personalities of their teachers, counselors and heck, even parents!! If perceptive, these findings become realized upon observation but these coping pointers take this knowledge about human nature to another level. * I am so used to seeing gazillions of vlogs about manifesting wealth & happiness and being positive but this is different. Looking forward to delving deeper!! 💙💙 Edit - You might want to adjust the playback settings to a slower speed. It may allow you think and absorb the rapid fire information a bit better.
Haven't seen ranveer this much involved with someone; one of the best podcast with mixture of laugh, tears, love and a touch of reality and mirroring the the facts. I can't imagine this could have gone this deep. Loved it ❤ it's first time I have this much plentiful of words of appreciation and still there are more popping up.
I've never felt envy in a negative way. Like when I see someone driving a Ferrari I think, "damn, I want that car," and then admire the car and look at the person driving with a well done expression like telling them to enjoy on my behalf. I don't get people that are hateful towards others because of their achievements or possessions. Actions are much more important imo
I am a health and life coach and I, personally, like to think of envy as someone wanting what you have directly as you have it whereas jealousy is someone wanting what you have, indirectly, in their own lives. EX: A woman sees a man and woman happy together. Kissing, holding hands in public, he tucks her hair behind her ear, no care who's watching. This woman looking on suddenly feels that feeling of envy in her stomach. Her attention is now focused on the man and she thinks to herself about how maybe if she has that specific man, he will do these things with her and she will also have that kind of love. HOWEVER, if that were jealousy, she would be both jealous and admiring what she sees. A healthy and happy couple - and may think to herself, "I want what they have." And will now start looking for someone who matches those qualities RATHER than going straight for the "source". Envy is seeing what someone has and wanting it for yourself even if that means taking it from another (the lack of admiration/respect). Jealousy is wanting what someone has as your own, for yourself, while admiring/appreciating that they have it for them. Jealousy is healthy and shows you care about the evolution and upgrading of yourself and others - envy is unhealthy and shows you are unbalanced in your own mind/heart/finances/life/etc.
Wow my opinion on Gayton and the P.A has truly changed , what a great interview this has been , so knowledgeable it remindes me of the Youngsta CPT interview . Gayton has a plan and I think he also deserves a chance to prove himself.
Law of covetousness, tip # 3. become an elusive object of desire at 10:00. "Focus on other peoples fantasies and unfulfilled desires and become what they desire". AKA manipulate others. Great tip. Also, the law of role playing and the law of repression contradict one another.
i'm a sensitive person in general, i think subconsciously i firstly relate everything to myself in some type of way, although this was a toxic type on here, I think everyone is probably a little of one of those. Even so, I believe if you dedicate yourself to keeping yourself open minded instead of shutting down or closing off when your feelings get hurt, it can take you miles in all types of relationships.
Little bit better: This is really great! The most practical helpful definitions reality based I have found. Will have to listen over and over, for at 57, I'm a lot of the things I have
1:09: 💡 The video summarizes Robert Greene's book 'The Laws of Human Nature' which explores the dark side of human nature and provides insights on understanding and dealing with people. 6:18: 💡 Tips for using knowledge about the character to improve relationships and personal growth. 13:28: 🔑 The law of irrationality and short-sightedness can hinder our rational thinking and long-term success. 19:57: 🔑 The key to becoming a master persuader is to validate people's beliefs, listen deeply, inspire safety, allay insecurities, and use resistance and stubbornness to your advantage. 26:03: 💡 Tips for achieving work goals and personal growth, embracing both masculine and feminine qualities, finding purpose, and dealing with conformity. 32:18: 💡 Strategies for effective leadership and dealing with aggression, generational influences, and death denial. 38:47: ⏳ Life is short, and we only have 15 productive years to do what we want before death. Recap by Tammy AI with useful time stamps =)
@chetsenior7253Or tips to help navigate as successfully as possible a society full of imperfect people. Even if we don’t like it other peoples opinions, attitudes and actions affect us, especially at work as was mentioned.
This is some of the most valuable content I’ve ever seen online Thank you so much for these videos, the beautiful graphics and your gorgeous voice ! You so deserve so much more views
too much empathy to people can also be used by others to manipulate an empath person. narcissism and empathy should be applied and balanced depending on situations
Whoever is reading this, I pray for you: a heart free of sorrow, a mind free of worries, a life filled with joy, an abundant source of financial wealth, a body free of disease disability and a day filled with God's blessings
I've been exploring the psychology of human behavior recently in my content, and your video aligns perfectly with my interests. Your analysis of Robert Greene's book is insightful and well-presented. Great work!!
Wow, I realize I've known all of these from watching so many psychology related videos, being a natural intuitive empath (infj personality), and dealing with most of these types in personal and work life lol Alot of people don't have self and outer awareness around them so this stuff seems like new info but good that this is teaching those who are trying to become aware :)
I was surprised about how much of this you can really figure out on your own with just a little bit of rational honest reflection. I was constantly finding myself thinking “hey I came up with something similar” and then try to deny the reality of it again lol. Although that first half had a few in their that never even crossed my mind and some I’m pretty skeptical about. The envy one surprised me because I didn’t see any of the examples as someone being envious but you convinced me in the end. Personally idk about this business about trying to look for peoples true nature, I find no one has a true nature that should seen by others. It’s better to judge others on how the choose to act and not little signs that could mean a million things. To me a true judge of good character is in one’s ability to discipline themselves to NOT act on their nature and to behave as someone you can respect. Though I am pretty cynical towards the nature of humans, beings that can hold their child so tenderly and lovingly with the same hands that cut down an entire family in a neighboring village.
Thank you for creating this awesome video. Yes it was longer, that said, it needed to be. Your editing/storytelling is outstanding, you are an inspiration to people like me. When watching your videos, I take notes because they are that good. This video has so many gems in it that it took me close to 3 hrs to watch this video. If you get any haters it will be because they are envious/jealous.
Sometimes people react hostile because they are on some medicines or struggling themself and just carrying on with life. They need support actually. Sharing because once my medicines were driving me crazy, and people hated me that time. I understood I should get off those medicines, excercise regularly, eat good and practice yoga, live naturally, be positive, have simple thinking, trust god or divine force. And now I am better version and person.
This is the 5th time I watched all the way through I don't have the blessings of people skills I have anti-personality disorder I like the cartoons that explains how it works I read the book 48 laws of power their some words hard to understand you make it eazy thanks I watch it overs and overs so I can get it
Your mind as an octogenarian is part of your journey my friend xwho is 78 can still climb trees because he still has the ability and mindset to do be a freethinkiing individual and make great memories work and play in equal quantities
Our personalities were shaped during our childhood. It was shaped by beliefs and experiences. So it can be reshaped again at any time. Just requires reprogramming. We seem to think personality is static but it's not. It's difficult to reprogram though
@@Scott-got-caughtSo this is what I say and bear witness to in the Lord, that you should no longer go on walking just as the nations also walk,+ in the futility of their minds.+ 18 They are in darkness mentally and alienated from the life that belongs to God, because of the ignorance that is in them, because of the insensitivity of their hearts. 19 Having gone past all moral sense, they gave themselves over to brazen conduct+ to practice every sort of uncleanness with greediness.+ 20 But you did not learn the Christ to be like this, 21 if, indeed, you heard him and were taught by means of him, just as truth is in Jesus. 22 You were taught to put away the old personality+ that conforms to your former course of conduct and that is being corrupted according to its deceptive desires.+ 23 And you should continue to be made new in your dominant mental attitude,+ 24 and should put on the new personality+ that was created according to God’s will in true righteousness and loyalty. 25 Therefore, now that you have put away deceit, each one of you speak truth with his neighbor,+ because we are members belonging to one another.+ 26 Be wrathful, but do not sin;+ do not let the sun set while you are still angry;+ 27 do not give the Devil an opportunity.+ 28 Let the one who steals steal no more;+ rather, let him do hard work, doing good work with his hands,+ so that he may have something to share with someone in need.+ 29 Let a rotten word not come out of your mouth,+ but only what is good for building up as the need may be, to impart what is beneficial to the hearers.+ 30 Also, do not be grieving God’s holy spirit,+ with which you have been sealed+ for a day of releasing by ransom.+ 31 Put away from yourselves every kind of malicious bitterness,+ anger, wrath, screaming, and abusive speech,+ as well as everything injurious.+ 32 But become kind to one another, tenderly compassionate,+ freely forgiving one another just as God also by Christ freely forgave you.+
Great summary!.. Many of these concepts are observable, relatable and revealing (such as comparing to others, envy, "shadow" [per Jung's archetype]. masks, narcissism, empathy, irrationality and group think). A few of these are not as obvious (such as "always" avoiding pain or change). The statement that humans automatically lose passion and power after age 60 is very subjective and limited.
Saw just quote and can say it's absolutely true from my experience - as INTJ I often find people so irrational and impossible to understand.... really complicates my professional life. In personal relationships I cope better, perhaps because I choose people I interact with.There's so much to learn from Robert Green.
People have different sides because they are highly complex and social animals. You are not wearing a mask nor role-playing, you are simply showing that side of you that is appropriate for the social situation you are currently engaged in -- for example, at work, on a date, with your best friend, with your family, or alone. There is not necessarily anything fake about this, nor are you necessarily hiding your real self. In fact, there is no real self independent of the various sides of your personality.
I learned something about myself, thank you. Looks like I am close to a Savior type 7:50 Helpful, friendly, fulfilling favors, listening, giving them what they need in life, but always leaving the impressions that favors are to be returned someday. so thank you, I could never name this trait of mine.
You didn't change the situation; you changed the perspective you had of your situation. The situation is still there. Two people have a crash. One is angry about their car being totaled. The other is grateful that he still alive. If the person that is angry in the wrong? What if the person that was grateful to still alive was the one that caused the accident and has no insurance. Would you still believe the person that is angry is in the wrong? Perspectives do not change reality. It just changes YOUR PERCEPTION of reality.
May peace be upon upon, this was really amazing. Well done summary, i have become a subscriber for life. The visualizations you provide, even the mere drawing of the humans, helps impress the concepts deeper into my head. This work you are doing is important and very helpful. I hope to keep learning from you inshaAllah!
i use to work as a hotel staff, and my fellow staff were envious cos i use to spill my seeds on all the bedsheets and manager would never get rid of me. they wished they wud be like me.
12:46pm Hey now. I am astonished, at how accurate and relevant this information is. And grateful for Mr. Robert Greene. Brilliant insight, into certain aspects of human behavior. I also appreciate and like the outstanding narration from the woman speaking.on this video 👍
This clip reminds me of RU-vid podcasts describing perfectly the characteristics of Narcissists. And anybody into quantum physics will understand the electron law that states sometimes they work and sometimes don't law. We are often stunned and shocked with something we expected to work on someone that didn't work.
I love your thoughts about psychology and human behavior. I would concur with Most of your videos but the Idea that we are heading towards a society that's moving away from logical thought, study and ultimately discovery and instead moving more towards psychological inquiry is hard for me to wrap my head around. Two reasons being. We can explain the psychologically inquiry and how our own minds essentially use tricks to alter reality to benefit ourselves and make it easier for us to navigate the world we live in. And secondly I don't believe it's possible for anyone to know how much or what we don't know, however I may be just as biased as you. LOL
Your YT channel is awesome. Something about your voice i find extremely soothing and positive, not to mention the positive nature of the content. I want to become best friends with my subconscious
The one thing a leader/manager does that can destroy moral is to put up with subordinates that are unproductive, not punctual, toxic, needy, sensitive etc. It shows the good workers that the boss will put up with a bad employee and is too lazy or gutless to fix or remove the bad employee.
#9 , strategy 5, the law of defensiveness. That works when it works but what if they try for a while and end up failing. Then I've only supported the "supposed opinion" and made the situation. Would you please provide anther strategy should this back fire? Thank you for the video, I've watched it twice now back to back, probably watch it more.
Envy is overplayed here, it's not that big of a deal. Yes, there are envious people in the world. But most people are not envious of other people to any degree that is problematic for others or themselves. Most envy, to the extent it actually exists, is harmless.
To watch later, there must be a "SAVE" option on your video, but this video does not. It only has a "SHARE" button and a "LIKE" and "DISLIKE" button. It is unusual to not have an option to save to playlist, but I wanted to save it. It's too bad I can't. Maybe you can look into it and fix it since you suggested saving it till later cuzi it's so long.
