The most authentic, unapologetic lecture on modern-day feminism!!! Includes the misconceptions that Muslims have about this issue, along with refutations against pro-feminist Western practices.
Assalamualaikum ww. I am a Muslim sister from South Africa and I think this talk is, subhanallah just brilliant. I appreciate that it's to the point. MashaAllah Sheikh may Allah ta'ala reward you tremendously
Jazzak Allahu khayran brother. This lecture is indeed important, and as a woman myself I do understand why some might get offended, but if we take a step back we will somehow see the wisdom in it bi’thnillah. May Allah grant us understanding of our deen, ameen. By the way. If you haven’t done one yet, then could you do a lecture on how brothers should treat women? There are sadly some brothers out there who take advantages of their rights and barely fullfill any of the wife’s rights, such as treat her good and spend on her financially.
Subhanallah, mixing between the two genders is common place in the west, I didn't even realise it was wrong till a few months back. I'm a medical student and I'm afraid I'm not observing hijab properly. I cover myself from head to toe in loose clothes but I'm wearing pants (we have to wear scrubs). And we mix all the time, we have tutorials in small rooms huddled together, men and women. Subhanallah, I try to keep interactions with men to a minimum but I still feel regret. I hope Allah forgives me if I slip up or fail. And you're absolutely right, most of the males always display some kind of attraction to our female teachers, it's natural. Anyways... Don't live in the west if you want to really want to protect your iman and be obedient to Allah. Edit: also sisters... plucking of the eyebrows is haram 👀
@@slaveofallahkarpuz It is not obligatory upon a woman to work, but it is obligatory upon a women to guard her chastity, cover herself, avoid mixing with non-mahram men, etc. So when a woman chooses to work, she must weigh the pros and cons. If she must be in a uniform that does not adhere to the Islamic dress code, or if she must closely interact with non-mahram men or be in seclusion with non-mahram men, etc., then it is not permissible for her to work there because you can not prioritize the optional above the obligatory. However, if a woman is able to work within the guidelines of Islam, then there is no harm in it In Shah Allah. For example, a Muslim woman can not be a police officer because her job requires her to wear a uniform which includes clothing that is not permissible for a Muslim woman to wear outside. She might even be required to share a car alone with a male coworker or physically handle male suspects. But a woman can, for example, work as a teacher at a children's school or a teacher at a girl's school, or maybe as a shopkeeper because she can wear her own clothes and she doesn't have to interact closely with non-mahram men. I hope this helps, and Allah knows best.
Why not be a muslim brother. So you can be a part of puur family and Allah can you give light alin your life and can guide you to Paradise. You can see its the truth
🔰The Male Is Unlike the Female 0:00- Introduction 0:50- A portion from Surah aal-e-Imran 3/36 and a sad reality [we are forced to discuss these issues] 2:45- Men are being demonized for trying to implement the correct guidance for women that came from Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala 3:10- *Unless one is equipped with knowledge of the book of Allah, one can't encounter this particular topic properly and may fall into the trap of shaytan easily* 3:35- A funny speech of a Mawlana[fake ofcourse] 5:55- Before we were to defend the women and now we are to defend the men 6:20- A painful end result 7:10- Following the Western version of Islam, that is ofcourse not al-Islam, may not always be their fault. Because real Islam might not reach them properly 9:00- We have to go back to the Quran and Sunnah to understand the correct position 10:30- *A man has no control over his instinct, so proper guidance from Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala must be followed to avoid misconduct* 11:50- A Hadith 13:58- The male are unlike the female 14:50- They are not the same doesn’t mean that one is superior to the other 15:40- *The discussions and debates are unnecessary and not needed when Allah 'ajja wa zalla laid these foundations for us* 17:30- Were the mother of the belivers A'isha(adhyillahu anha) a Shyakha like the modern ones? 19:10- *The modern propagators might not even know the Arabic* 20:05- How can we explain her going out on the camel? [it can be understood easily] 22:00- Another false evidence 24:40- A new Fitnah in America 26:20- Another Hadith 26:45- Sisters working outside without necessity - is it normal in Islam? 28:40- Getting the curse of Allah while trying to please Him [a scary deception] 29:00- It is not about memorising the Quran and Sunnah, rather it is about understanding them according to the understanding of the rich predecessors 29:40- A command of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala from Surah al-Ahzab 33/33 31:37- This is a matter that is clear cut in Islam 31:50- Other Ahadith regarding this topic [31:50, 36:50, 37:45] 38:30- Some principles for the sisters to follow when going to the Masjid 40:40- Wake up! *Do not follow the way of the Christians snd the Jews* 41:10- A gay Imam! Subhanallah! What is this? 42:20- What should the Shaykhas do then? 43:50- *We are not befooling anyone except ourselves* 45:40- Advice from Ustadh 46:30- Everyone claims that they adhere to the Quran and Sunnah *So what to do* ?
I am originally from Bangladesh. Majority of the imams are people who studied under Deobandi schools. They do a lot of bidah, but those Barelvis are on a whole other level.
Alhamdulilah, Great lecture and advice. We need more scholars like you Shaykh. We have ustaz in my country teachung the truth about the Quran and the sunnah but he was arrested and then released but under closed scrutiny 24/7 and he is banned from holding any religious class. One of the reasons because we are prohibited from saying the word "kafir" towards the non Muslim. Another incident, the imam was giving the Friday sermons, just by mentioning the word kafir and he been called by the authority and sadly to say, the one who made the report is from one of the jamaah that attended the congregation. So now we are more careful about what we do, to uphold the sunnah is not that easy, the consequences are always there. Jazakallah khairon.
Been watching all of your lectures since the beginning but I have no Idea how I missed this gem. Maa Shaa ALLAH you look so handsome and may ALLAH increase you more. ALLAH'humma Baarik. May ALLAH accept this from you and make us those who walk the knowledge we acquire and not just listen to it as an entertainment. Ameen
@@oinmqwsr2451 Amr ibn al-Ahwas reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said during his final pilgrimage, “Surely, I enjoin you to treat women well, for they are like your captives. You do not have any right to treat them otherwise, unless they commit a clear obscenity. If they do so, you may forsake their beds and then strike them without violence, but if they obey you then you may not do so. You have rights over your wives and they have rights over you. Among your rights over them is that they do not give their beds to anyone but you and they do not let anyone you dislike enter your homes. Among their rights over you is that you treat them well, clothe them, and feed them.” Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhī 1163 Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Tirmidhi عَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ الْأَحْوَصِ أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ فِي حَجَّةِ الْوَدَاعِ أَلَا وَاسْتَوْصُوا بِالنِّسَاءِ خَيْرًا فَإِنَّمَا هُنَّ عَوَانٌ عِنْدَكُمْ لَيْسَ تَمْلِكُونَ مِنْهُنَّ شَيْئًا غَيْرَ ذَلِكَ إِلَّا أَنْ يَأْتِينَ بِفَاحِشَةٍ مُبَيِّنَةٍ فَإِنْ فَعَلْنَ فَاهْجُرُوهُنَّ فِي الْمَضَاجِعِ وَاضْرِبُوهُنَّ ضَرْبًا غَيْرَ مُبَرِّحٍ فَإِنْ أَطَعْنَكُمْ فَلَا تَبْغُوا عَلَيْهِنَّ سَبِيلًا أَلَا إِنَّ لَكُمْ عَلَى نِسَائِكُمْ حَقًّا وَلِنِسَائِكُمْ عَلَيْكُمْ حَقًّا فَأَمَّا حَقُّكُمْ عَلَى نِسَائِكُمْ فَلَا يُوطِئْنَ فُرُشَكُمْ مَنْ تَكْرَهُونَ وَلَا يَأْذَنَّ فِي بُيُوتِكُمْ لِمَنْ تَكْرَهُونَ أَلَا وَحَقُّهُنَّ عَلَيْكُمْ أَنْ تُحْسِنُوا إِلَيْهِنَّ فِي كِسْوَتِهِنَّ وَطَعَامِهِنَّ 1163 سنن الترمذي كتاب الرضاع باب ما جاء في حق المرأة على زوجها 1163 المحدث الترمذي خلاصة حكم المحدث حسن صحيح في سنن الترمذي
Men and Women are not the same and that's ok. Our differences don't make us as women inferior or men superior. As a sister I appreciated this lecture ( Ok the part about thousands of things women can do and hundreds of thousands things men can do was a bit exaggerated lol but hey - humour is important). Jazakallah Khayr Brother . if we can be advised like this then it makes the guidelines clear and we get to improve. A lot of women want to benefit themselves and others but don't always know the guidelines so learning and improving is refreshing. Shukran Katheeran.
I'm a new Muslim. I've been Muslim for one year. Please help me understand this topic regarding women speaking publicly to a mixed male/female crowd. The first university in the world was started by a Muslim woman. How could she have started a university without addressing men? Is that even possible? Also, we hear stories of our mother Aisha (ra) and how intelligent she was on so many topics, including medical treatments. Could Aisha (ra) have been so influential without addressing the men of that time? I am seeking knowledge, please don't take my questions as doubting the rulings of our scholars. Thank you in advance.
Welcome to Islaam my brother or sister. I explained all this in the lecture. Aisha would address men from behind a veil as clearly stated in the Quraan. She would not hold public lectures where men are right there looking at her like the women of today do. As for the first university being started by women, then this is not considered an evidence in our religion. We base the allowed and disallowed on the Quraan and Sunnah as understood and applied by the first 3 generations of Muslims. As for history, all types of violations are there and they do not change the ruling.
@@OneWayToParadise I very much appreciate your response, and I will rewatch the video to get a better understanding. Thank you for shining the noor of Islam on so many new converts such as myself. This topic was asked by my daughter-in-law's so I'll direct them to watch your videos. Alhamdulillah, all 5 of my sons, their wives, and all 17 grandchildren also converted to Islam in the past six months. As you can imagine, they have many questions that haven't been answered thoroughly. Now that we're on the straight path (siratul mustaqin), we want to make sure we don't derail our progress or be led astray by people that place their culture before the deen. Your Brother in Islam, ~Wallace
@@thewallcometh1444 Please visit islamqa.info/en for your questions. Brother have made a mention of this website in this lecture as well. Reliable source to learn your Deen. May ALLAH make you and your family steadfast on this Deen. Welcome to the Biggest Family.
Thank you brother, you speak the truth ...BUT I wish could discuss a point you spoke about. ..I am older. women just so you know who Iam..Iam revert... I was more traditional than my Mom. Too difficult to write. Hopefully Allah will give some insight or give me insight to your interpretation on what you said. Because this is the life journey our experiences as well as Allah giving us blessings of insight on situations. You know that is why we need to be exposed to older generation...to improve ourselves as best as we can, so we please Allah and please people around us. Just want to say I view my husband as part Of me..want to spoil him and make him less stress yes , when my husband complains I say stop we are slave to each other. As well we are slave to children it is all about Submission. WHEN A MAN GOES OUT TO WORK HE IS NOT SLAVE AS WELL. THIS IS LIFE GOD put us tohether and had us have families so we would be less selfish nothing wrong with husband spoiling wife but she has to also work hard to spoil husband...make him feel special . THAN THAT IS A HAPPY MARRIAGE. Not a boss situation... Yes I want my husband stronger than me . I do not know but culture plays a role .....some men are way too authoritative Okay some women need that they are to bossy. BUT NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT. COULD SAY MORE..GOT TO GO. Jazakallahu Khair
Can someone please provide the reference of the hadith about a women being like a slave to a man. I tried searching for it online but I couldn't find it.
I think he meant captive not slave bc the word prophet Mohammad صلى الله عليه وسلم awan عوان the singular al aani means war captive of course they are slaves in a sense
This lecture gv me panic attack haha anyways on serious note I just wish that if our society was not treated women so brutally then there's no need of these reminders Ahhh its lose lose situation for women May Allah make it easy for us to follow our beautiful deen and the main thing that our asian men start treating their females as ordered by Allah Aameen
May Allah bless you and guide us both sister. It is not a lose lose situation because if we are patient we get jannah. Allah rewards us for our good deeds, obedience, and patience. This world isn't the only world. This dunya isn't the end. If we obey Allah in this world we get barakah in this world and jannah in the next. That's a win win
May Allah SWT guide us all inshAllah. For as long as the intentions are good too, so that materials are not presented for the purpose of over empowering one gender over the other since we already have that issue in the muslim communities and countries, then inshAllah khair. Allah SWT did not reveal and His prophet SAW did not teach anything to belittle either gender or hurt and harm anyone, it was done for the purpose of guidance and helping all of humanity. Allhumdullilah and inshAllah khair.
I have a genuine question ya ikhwani wa ikhwati. Abu mussab speaks about the woman who gave lectures in front of men saying that this is against the islamic shariah and I completely agree. However I have a gap in my knowledge in this regard. The same way Abu mussab and other sheikhs give dawah and lectures across different platforms that include male and female audiences, can a female do the same? If not, why?
Assalamu'alykum, I have a question. Why did you say in 17:12 that if women were to gather amongst themselves for dawah purposes, it's preferable not to be in the masjid?
Walaykumussalam warahmatullah wabarakaatuh. This is because the Masjid is a public place and people shouldn't be restricted from entering it. So if women are discussing which shouldn't be amongst men and then a man enters the masjid, what happens? Should they stop their discussion and leave or they send the man out which is against the rights of the Masjid.
Wa Alaykum Assalaam. As long as there is no attraction or Fitnah, she may watch. If there is then she must lower her gaze. Watch my lecture "The Poisoned Arrow" I explained there in detail.
Assalamoualeikoum,the muslimah even if she's working in a (halal environment of course),she has to pray at time and obviously , praying at home is better than the Masjid for her,except the eid prayers.
Assalam Alaikum I know it's 6months late still if you want you can copy the link of the video and then search on google RU-vid video downloader and then paste the link in the suggested websites. You can download similarly other videos in future.
Bro wajdi, any thoughts on Dr.Shabir Ally, in general. I was especially shocked to hear him say that the hijab is not mandatory and one who doesnt wear hijab is not sinful. Only khimar is mentioned in the Quran and that's to cover the bosom and doesn't talk about covering the hair. Is there any authentic ahadeeth to deny this claim.?
Watch my lecture "Is This Sister Going to Jannah?" to get the answers about the Hijaab issue. As for Shabir, i sadly say that he is not someone from whom you can learn our Deen. We ask Allaah to guide him and us.
Dear sid may Allah open your chest to the right knowledge and the right path and give you understanding of the Deen.. I have watched extensively the lectures of Shabbir Ally. Wallahi I won't speak a word of injustice against him.. He's from those scholar who water down the Deen of Allah subhan wa ta'ala soo much that he makes things halal which Rasulullah sallahualaihiwasallam clearly said not allowed.. Apart from what you have mentioned...I'll briefly describe his misguidance here you can go and verify from his video. 1. First, he doesn't find any issue in women shaking hand with men in work environment 2. Second, speaking about masturbation he made it so that it appears it's from among the allowed thing and not very sinful.. but Allah said in His book ..that those who take sexual pleasure other than wives and what their right hand posses (slave women from war) are wrong doers. 3. Third, Shabbir Ally says having a picture at home or having a pet dog is not that sinful or maybe allowed.. but Rasulullah sallahualaihiwasallam informed us that angels don't enter a house where there's dog or animate pictures 4. Fourth he implies that if for a small deed there's a big reward and similarly for a small mistake there's big punishment it is misunderstanding of hadith... But we find in the hadith of Rasulullah sallahualaihiwasallam that Allah forgave a fornicating women cause she fed water to a dog... And that a woman from previous nation is in hellfire cause she caught a cat and didn't feed her to death.. 5. Fifth, he generalised and legalises loans So from knowing all this from him and the way he starts answering ... I'm doubtful he's not going good with the authentic narrations of Rasulullah sallahualaihiwasallam... And mostly you'll find him starting his answers as "there is nothing prohibiting this issue in the Qur'an"... He appears to be from the quraniyoon and mostly he debates Christian scholars...using logic ...therefore it is unlikely from him that he'll take the hadith of Rasulullah sallahualaihiwasallam which appear illogical...but wallahi Islam has no place for logic about an affair that Rasulullah sallahualaihiwasallam informed us about. He's dangerous ..and YQ shares same point of view about women shaking hand with men... Let not this happen that you plant love for him in your heart and this blinds you from rejecting his misguidance... Insha Allah when I get to my computer I will put links to every youtube video of his clearing my claim
1) Ya sheikh what is exclusively masculine and exclusively feminine ultimately comes down to "العرف", there are pants designed EXCLUSIVELY for women. 2) By the opinion of the majority, A woman's voice is not 'Aura' (though she doesn't correct the imam as you rightly pointed out), and it's reasonably deductible from the hadith you quoted about Ayesha (may Allah be pleased with her) teaching some of the companions. However, A woman giving a public lecture is not favourable and should not be the case, I'm a guy, that is very understandable.
Did the mothers of the believers address them men by giving lectures? No, they would speak to them (behind a veil) only when necessary...like giving fatwa etc
If I cant to work because I would act like a man, than why the f you want a female doctor for your wife/daughter man? And he is making fun of it like it's a joke.
I am with you completely. A lot of this is new to me because I thought Aisha RA had a more visible role. Regarding making a living, what of Kadhija RA? Did she stop working completely after the ayats were sent down? Personally, I'm working and so is my husband. Work is Ibadah and I hope to do it with the adab and aqeeda and of course hijab. Please advise. Another issue, what of the digital world, like here. No profile pic, seeking ilm, commenting? Completely no interaction with men 100%? This is so important. Looking forward to hearing from you. No one is talking about this clearly.
@@amalmohamed5480 yes Many points are there for this Too long to write here But the same thing is found here in a post: Go to the Muslim Skeptic on RU-vid, go to community, Scroll down to 4 weeks ago, you will find a post listing the points on how khadija worked
@@OneWayToParadise well..what are the rulings regarding to them. Medicine is an extremely demanding profession. They have to work nights,leave their toddlers at home, they don't have time to cook and clean and take care of the house in general and if they are working in emergency branches then its very likely that they won't be able to talk to their husbands for whole days. Their existence is the opposite of everything that most unapologetic muslims advocate for women. Forgive me brother if i am bothering you with these questions but as a newly enlightened muslim who had finally let go of western ideologies, i am struggling to see where exactly i fut in Islam. I would have loved to share these with females but There aren't any female scholars that i can look upto. I feel like any women who doesn't cover her face on social media is going to give me a diluted version. I donot want that anymore but unfortunately most lectures that i hear from brothers are extremely male centric and are not able to erase this questions.
@Asim Ayyubi doesn't that undermine the position that brother abu mussab is taking regarding the place of women in islam. Because its not just one field,there are many fields where women are a necessity,if we are allowing women to work ( with proper hijab) then its going to be a totally different society than whats being advocated here.
No, it doesn't undermine the main point of the discussion. If you listen to the lecture sincerely and closely, you would see that necessity could prompt women to do somethings which is generally restricted, so it is not a general case as you think and necessity as you've clearly stated about women going into the profession in other to solve the necessity of a male treating a woman allows them but still they should maintain the general guidelines of Islam. Wallahu Musta'an
When you guys spend so much time in rhetoric, and in criticism, when you guys guide people to the path that leads to paradise. Are you scared 😱 of comments that you turn off on your videos. Are you from ME or where, so much anger reflects that you need to spend more time in peace and tranquillity.
Scared? lol. Who would be scared of comments. Let me be blunt, we are actually tired of reading stupid comments (yours is a good example) by stupid people who only gain sin when leaving their comments and waste everyone's time. The video is there, you like it, watch. You do not like it, leave. No one cares what you think. At least, we don't.
OneWayToParadise You can do the same, ignore the comment. Public videos get all sorts of comments. We know how wise you are, instead of calling viewers, stupid, review and revisit your own assertions.
Ignoring is easy. But since it is out platform, we reserve the right to not allow some "stupid" viewers share their nonsense here. They can do it on their platform. And i will repeat, there are stupid people out there and not everyone is. I have the right to call them so based on their comments just like they have the right to think I am one for speaking against their Sheikh. Can you please let us be. Wallah you people drain us.
OneWayToParadise You are draining yourself, continue in doing so. Your spewing is enough for you. This is your so called “way” لکم دینکم, your choice. The people you are jealous with are way ahead of you. If you starting hopping today to pace with them, you will never be at par with them.
We have been giving Dawah for 15 years. Jealous? Really silly and foolish to think a Muslim is jealous. If being at par with them means we will stop taking heed and go astray, then we beg Allaah that we never become at par with such people. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-yOtLRN8yh8E.html
@@OneWayToParadise Very original comeback response, but not sure what you mean about our channel guess you not open to blunt comments. So your Islamic teaching is only select for a certain audience who don't question your methods.
@@flapjax3590 Our channel is open to every Muslim. That said, when you play stupid games, you win stupid prizes. You can be blunt and we let you leave your idiotic comment. This does not mean that we will turn the other cheek for you. We will stump you and move on. If you want to be treated better, start with yourself funny bunny.
