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@snake1mi
@snake1mi 2 года назад
She wants the best from feminism and Islam, and expects a simp.
@deaniedean248
@deaniedean248 2 года назад
😉
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 2 года назад
Imgina a guy says you work and come home and obey me and cook and clean...
@snake1mi
@snake1mi 2 года назад
@Rahat Zaman Yeah it's not required from women to work. Even if the man demands it.
@emuschemre
@emuschemre 2 года назад
They want traditionalism and modernism at the same time for their own advantages.
@snake1mi
@snake1mi 2 года назад
@Rahat Zaman He has free will to do so. But he has no right to demand his wife to work. In my opinion it's equal to being a daiooth.
@z.3hra908
@z.3hra908 2 года назад
As a sister myself, that tiktok video was a shame. I want to have a good islamic marriage, i want to stay at home cook and clean and have childern inshallah, while my husband goes out and work and protects. Inshallah i can find someone.
@romaiseb
@romaiseb 2 года назад
Honestly, I don't get why sisters have that mentality. The man is labouring all day to make ends meet for his family, he deserves to come home to a nice home cooked meal and a clean house. The way she speaks about not wanting to be a 'maid' is ridiculous. You should be taking care of the house out of your love and support for him, so he comes back to a peaceful sanctuary after a day of grinding outside
@bluecheese3896
@bluecheese3896 2 года назад
@@romaiseb nowadays a man's income is simply not enough to make ends meet. Especially with the cost of living crises we are in. In which case household duties have to be split. I agree that if he is the sole earner than he should come home to a nice mean etc. But it also depends on the family...if you have 6 kids then you definitely are not the only one who is grinding, and the wife rightfully deserves appreciation, a break and the help of her husband when it comes to cooking and cleaning. I mean even if you just have one kid, is it awful to help out your wife? Not saying she should not also do things for his pleasure like cook and clean etc. But a lot of the comments are just so black and white and narrow minded, day to day life is not the same...sometimes we need to help each other out to show we care.
@muhammadedwards8425
@muhammadedwards8425 2 года назад
@@bluecheese3896 That's different to what we're talking about. In that case responsibilities would be split, but then they should be split equally. This women wanted her responsibilities split while her husband still retains his, which is unfair and disrespectful. If both are taking stress off of each other then mashallah
@odst431
@odst431 Год назад
Wallahi I was about to lose all hope in women. Alhamdullilah I read that sisters like this still exist.
@Amarah4600
@Amarah4600 Год назад
It's the so called feminist movement which is destroying all women. I'm not a feminist because you don't need it. You ask any so called feminist and she won't know what it means. They talk about empowering women but don't know why. Now it's destroying muslim girls and women. It's embracing frankly to see these sisters posting this stuff because I just want to say all of us don't think like this. And I agree that once you get married it not about me me me. I do not mind staying at home after marriage. And I feel like these days saying that you're housewife is looked down upon so much. But if you won't be there for your husband and children then who will? It's your responsibility. But women are selfish more than ever and don't want to make sacrifices
@ahmedalmahdi9254
@ahmedalmahdi9254 3 года назад
Girls love to casually throw around the 'your money is my money, my money is my money' line, but when a man reminds a woman that she's Islamically required to be intimate on demand, tables are flipped, he's a misogynist, an incel, an abuser and a manipulator. It do be like that
@sayeeed1303
@sayeeed1303 3 года назад
That's a false statement. His money is not her money. She can't take it without his permission.
@ahmedalmahdi9254
@ahmedalmahdi9254 3 года назад
@@sayeeed1303 Logistically speaking yes, it's not her money and she doesn't get to spend it without his consent, but the point still stands. A man is expected to provide for his wife, but women want to give nothing in return, even cooking for your husband is considered oppressive or controlling. Honestly these videos just put me off of marriage for a good while, I don't even feel like I want to get married anymore
@sayeeed1303
@sayeeed1303 3 года назад
@@ahmedalmahdi9254 no it doesn't. If he is providing food, clothes and shelter, she has no right to take his money without his permission. It is her money if he gives it to her. For example if you give your wife 50 dollars to spend, you cant take it back.
@ahmedalmahdi9254
@ahmedalmahdi9254 3 года назад
@@sayeeed1303 Where did I say she can take his money lmao, I'm just pointing out the double standard of expecting your husband to provide Islamically, but he can't expect anything back or else it's controlling. These women want to live rent free without providing any kind of value in return
@aminata7857
@aminata7857 2 года назад
Sex on demand... What if she doesn't feel like it at the moment?
@sg9525
@sg9525 2 года назад
I was talking to a woman and her Wali about marriage. I also flew in to meet her in the presence of the Wali. She wanted to split responsibilities 50/50 like cooking, cleaning, taking care of children. Initially she agreed to split financial responsibilities 50/50. We both make about $75,000 per year. She wants to work full time after marriage and after we have children. Then she changed her mind a couple weeks before the engagement. She said Islamically “my money is my money, and your money is our money.” She wanted to go on vacation twice a year and dine out twice a week. She won’t pay for that either. She won’t pay for the nanny. Her job will need her to relocate for two years. Initially she agreed to do a long distance relationship for those two years and then she said she wants me to quit my job and find a new job near her. I almost forgot. The wedding expenses are going to cost me around $200,000. I dropped this gold digger like the pile of crap she is. Sad what’s happening to our ummah. On to the next candidate.
@MrJazmine87
@MrJazmine87 2 года назад
Wow she must have been very beautiful!
@slicker1260
@slicker1260 2 года назад
@@ahmedalmahdi9254 what u do for a living ?
@evergreen2475
@evergreen2475 2 года назад
Go to Afghanistan, India, Pakistan, Bangladesh, Central Asian countries. Plenty of decent muslim families and women. Leave the gold-diggers to enjoy their future filled with bitterness and cats.
@Ystrly
@Ystrly 2 года назад
My man
@sigmusician
@sigmusician 2 года назад
Go to syria, turk, or russia. There are many feminine women out there. Syria is a risk though.
@moneylineparlay105
@moneylineparlay105 2 года назад
Notice how they never dispute men paying bills and having financial responsibilities. But always debate polygyny, obedience, and sex
@moeissa2341
@moeissa2341 2 года назад
they want plow horses
@adnan2030
@adnan2030 2 года назад
Yes they do. You just aren't looking
@Blaze72sH
@Blaze72sH 2 года назад
Men, if your wife debates those things then divorce her. She is not attracted to you.
@shadowstorm5261
@shadowstorm5261 2 года назад
@@Blaze72sH I would be questioning her Islam.
@bilalkhares9337
@bilalkhares9337 2 года назад
as well as cooking and cleaning
@evergreen2475
@evergreen2475 2 года назад
1:06 - we are equals. 1:07 - your money is our money. my money is mine. It took her literally 1 second to exhibit her gynocentric cognitive dissonance and entitlement. LOL.
@DemoBallisticsCar
@DemoBallisticsCar 2 года назад
Bc alot of men hord the womens money
@moeissa2341
@moeissa2341 2 года назад
@@DemoBallisticsCar na they don't horde. they make their own
@Rorschach1998
@Rorschach1998 2 года назад
IT'S NOT YOUR MONEY, IT'S OUR MONEY COMRADE
@fardeenmahmud8866
@fardeenmahmud8866 2 года назад
@@Rorschach1998 Well, communism and feminism both have their origins in left-wing politics, so…
@maxhatush5918
@maxhatush5918 Год назад
@@DemoBallisticsCar no they don’t
@hamzahmenshawi5991
@hamzahmenshawi5991 3 года назад
Cooking and cleaning is done together because a husband and wife are equals. Money and bills, your money is our money and my money is my money?? What happened to being equals?!
@equityjustice2695
@equityjustice2695 3 года назад
Good question.🤣😩🤕them fe.fails got their own logic😂😂😂💃🤮
@EzziiG
@EzziiG 3 года назад
Wallah she sounded like my ex wife 10000% 😂
@mukalal2160
@mukalal2160 3 года назад
She is so self-absorbed that she’s lost sight of reality and reason. She a feminazi after all. She cherrypicks from Islam only what suits her and her idiotic demands, and disposes of the rest-like the virtues of a good wife as described by Allah in the Quran and the Prophet ﷺ.
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 2 года назад
Imagine a guy says you work and come home and obey me and cook and clean... my money is the wifes? well her body is mine & includes her obedience & not working if not needed and doing housework as sunna say... owned!
@hereweare9096
@hereweare9096 2 года назад
Isn’t that the Islamic way? Men make money for the family? And any money she makes is for herself?
@Jenone83
@Jenone83 3 года назад
so basically a modern muslim feminist shouldn't even get a Mahr, if they believe in equality rights. I cringe at the sound of this sentence your money is mine but my money is mine. cringe cringe cringe.
@sayeeed1303
@sayeeed1303 3 года назад
The husband money is not the wifes unless he gives it to here. If he gives you 50 dollar to spend, he can't take that back. But you have no right to take his money without his permission if he is providing food, clothes and shelter
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 2 года назад
the wifes body is the mans... and the mans body is his, meaning he is to be obeyed, even by other wives.
@emuschemre
@emuschemre 2 года назад
They want traditionalism and modernism at the same time for their own advantages.
@xixizizi6970
@xixizizi6970 2 года назад
as a Muslim woman, this "feminism" has been creeping into an already elevated religion and is polluting the basic ideology. If you want your money to stay your money and then say his money is also your money, then you are obviously wrong about them as a man he has to take care of you but as a women respect that and give him respect and love you can not belittle him like he is useless. if you want your money and his money then you better wise up and contribute to your lifestyle as well, He is doing his end of the job. Also if the man is not helping you in the kitchen then talk to him and bond over tell him that you need help he will help. Give him space give him time and give him his freedom to talk his friends and such .
@farahwork2552
@farahwork2552 Год назад
there’s nothing wrong with feminism. its much better than misogyny
@arashshukran8788
@arashshukran8788 Год назад
@@farahwork2552 says a kafir feminist
@antisocialbarbie1587
@antisocialbarbie1587 Год назад
@@farahwork2552 as a women I absolutely think feminism is a cult they don't want equal rights they have already gotten it but rather they want to look down on man they want more than a man gets. God has already blessed women in Islam. However, feminism is absolutely different and disgusting they are toxic who wants masculinity in them. What are you bringing misogyny here for to play the victim card ? Nobody's talking about that here that's absolutely a different topic which is not based upon this. Every women dislikes that so no worries.
@saacidcabdiweli
@saacidcabdiweli Год назад
​@@farahwork2552 misogyny=feminism
@jcl9034
@jcl9034 Год назад
@@farahwork2552 Feminism is against Islam. You cant choose both, choose if u want to be a feminist or a pious muslim.
@68739
@68739 2 года назад
wife’s job: - becoming a good mother raising children and use her god given feminine energy to nurture. -Turning house into a home -Cooking cleaning doing the laundry -Taking care of her looks and stay fit and beautiful 24/7 - be intimate with her husband - be feminine with calm demeanor - happily receive gifts and compliments -appreciate your husband - be positive and no heated arguments Husbands job: Provide and protect. That’s the islamic way. That what Allah wants marriages to be. That’s the right way. No 50/50 no splitting bills and roles that feminists talk about . Man and woman compliment each other each gender has their own roles. That Allah has ordered . Be a king for her she becomes a queen for you. And if woman wants to work just for career fulfillment or financial security in case something in future happens. She can but one one condition that she she should fulfill her husbands and house duties.
@certifiedhustler966
@certifiedhustler966 2 года назад
Sister are you single if yes what’s ur Instagram
@shadowstorm5261
@shadowstorm5261 2 года назад
"And if woman wants to work just for career fulfillment or financial security in case something in future happens. She can but one one condition that she she should fulfill her husbands and house duties." And that she seeks permission from her husband. The place of work must have no freemixing also
@ishahess8194
@ishahess8194 2 года назад
Raising kids after the age of breastfeeding is father job, because he is responsible to Allah SWT for their manners and religious knowledge. Also Prophet SAWS help in household chores. Are you married sister? You made a list for women that is so long, but both men and women has only 24 hours a day. I agree that women has to do majority of things at home if she is not working and obey husband, but try to clean and do all of that while taking care of kids and you will see how challenging it is. It is nothing compared to 8 hours office job. Why don't husband and wife just be kind and supportive to each other, still remembering their duties, but even tho helping one another?
@mariaherndo
@mariaherndo 2 года назад
Well said.
@ummqudamah
@ummqudamah 2 года назад
AllahummaBarik. You pointed the wives duty very beutifully, but to say that the husbands job is only to prtect and provide is a pretty shallow look on things. Yes the wife should beutify herself for her husband but the husband is expected to do the exact same, just as he wants his wife to be. The prophet SAW used to use the siwaak when he entered the house of his wives to not make her uncomftable. The man should be fit ans not sit around with an airbag 24/7. Same thing with intimacy, and he should also be kind to her and show respect. One can provide and protect but whether he treats his wife right is not guarenteed.
@HMD1986-
@HMD1986- 3 года назад
Hijabi niqabi feminist really make me sick in my stomach. I was so fool before. I thought these niqabi are very good and pious who keep hijab and Islam in west . After living more in western countries and met those niqabi for marriage. Wow I realized how fool I was .
@karimtemri1664
@karimtemri1664 2 года назад
In Morocco there are niqabi women who use niqab to cover their identity when they commit prostitution. In the west they use niqab to attract men for marriage. Many however do it out of imaan@
@HMD1986-
@HMD1986- 2 года назад
@@karimtemri1664 you are right brother. There are some doing it for ALLAH.( whoever among them you can feel some feminist ideology going on) . But hypocrisy among us is lot .
@hussainali1752
@hussainali1752 2 года назад
The only truth you should know is no such thing as a good woman and only a woman who be good for a specific man …
@saanik284
@saanik284 2 года назад
Wow bro me too
@ahmadfared1204
@ahmadfared1204 2 года назад
Well women/girls are not angels or sinless . But I don't blame you . Nowdays, there is agenda behind this thinking because of media
@somayyamughal8313
@somayyamughal8313 2 года назад
righteous women for righteous man ! simple
@d.bcooper2271
@d.bcooper2271 2 года назад
True, and feminist women for simp men! Simple
@copainspammeur404
@copainspammeur404 2 года назад
Where they at tho
@somayyamughal8313
@somayyamughal8313 2 года назад
@@copainspammeur404 🤔🤷‍♀️
@Gggh691
@Gggh691 5 месяцев назад
Nowhere
@Ak-qj1lf
@Ak-qj1lf 3 года назад
I am a woman I literally couldn’t understand her mentality yes correct she’s a charity. As if a man will die for these women
@FA9082
@FA9082 3 года назад
Forget dying, I wouldnt even open a pickle jar for her
@Ak-qj1lf
@Ak-qj1lf 2 года назад
@@FA9082 lol now that’s an alpha
@freddybob807
@freddybob807 2 года назад
Seems to have a lot of masculine traits. Maybe she needs a wife and not a husband. If any man follows this nutcase, their relationship will be doomed.
@Ak-qj1lf
@Ak-qj1lf 2 года назад
@@freddybob807 no, when there’s a real man in her life who can lead those traits will be gone. The only reason a women can have masculine traits is when they see a man who is not alpha and not leading right way with confidence.
@freddybob807
@freddybob807 2 года назад
@@Ak-qj1lf So it appears that you are blaming men for this woman's behavior. And I do disagree with you because there are many masculine women out there and when paired with a masculine man, they start competing for the masculine roles in the relationship, and don't magically become feminine. Speaking from experience. Maybe I should start acting feminine and only when I get a real feminine woman then I will change and become more masculine. Makes no logical sense.
@deedeee6271
@deedeee6271 2 года назад
The most important question both should ask is, "How I can serve Allah with you in my life?"
@juxtapositionMS
@juxtapositionMS 2 года назад
Answer to your question is by divorcing each other after a few years. Speak from practicality, not from fantasy.
@Saeroye
@Saeroye 2 года назад
It’s a mentality dear to submit and serve for sake allah not codswallop femnzi are spouting. Me my self and it has no place in Islamic marriage!
@hsundercover9234
@hsundercover9234 2 года назад
"How I can serve Allah with you in my life?" this is not the right question to ask for a woman. even if we are talking about serving Allah, the question the woman should be asking is "How can I serve you?" why? because for a woman, she CANNOT SERVE ALLAH UNTIL SHE serves her husband. The Prophet S.A.W said: No woman can fulfill her duty towards Allah until she fulfills her duty towards her husband. Grade: Hasan (Darussalam) Reference : Sunan Ibn Majah 1853 as for a man, he can serve Allah WITHOUT SERVING HIS WIFE. The Prophet S.A.W said: “Whoever is a slave to his wife is ruined.” Source: Kitāb ʾadāb al-nikāḥ (in Iḥyāʾ ʿulūm al-dīn) by Imam Ghazali
@hsundercover9234
@hsundercover9234 2 года назад
@It doesn't Matters I've said it before and I will say it again. find me one comment I posted without backing from hadith. if evidences count as bullying, then I hope she is bullied more with hadith.
@Saeroye
@Saeroye 2 года назад
@Rahat Zaman my dad cooks he started learning when she had twins. He took care of her and no he is better cook lool he discover he has knack for it. Nothing wrong with helping your wife here and there part of sunnah. But no house husbands please this is new trend!
@daisybee5943
@daisybee5943 2 года назад
That woman and her rules were cringing. I felt embarrassed for her.
@mkr1390
@mkr1390 2 года назад
Why you feel embarrassed for her? When she got no shame in her self!
@AMiah-jz8uu
@AMiah-jz8uu Год назад
@@mkr1390 haha
@ridwan_z
@ridwan_z 3 года назад
Muslim sisters today: He should be 6 ft. He should have 6 figure salary, 6 pack abs. He should be able to control time, manupulate dimension and lift my 96 kg overweight ugly a$$.
@ridwan_z
@ridwan_z 3 года назад
@It doesn't Matters 🔥🔥🔥
@Ystrly
@Ystrly 2 года назад
I feel sorry for the naive brother that might marry her 😂
@syedz9072
@syedz9072 2 года назад
I hold the "Ustadas" (Many of them not all) to be largely responsible for pushing this mindset into these ignorants.
@d.bcooper2271
@d.bcooper2271 2 года назад
Mufti Menk?
@zenkahnz3859
@zenkahnz3859 2 года назад
@@d.bcooper2271 Mufti Menk, Yasir Qadhi, Nouman Ali Khan, Omar Suleiman, etc
@arashshukran8788
@arashshukran8788 Год назад
Being a beta cuck moves the economy alot more than following the example of our nabi kareem pbuh
@shaimazaher9342
@shaimazaher9342 Год назад
what about Dowry in pakistan and india ? isnt that ignorant mindset
@QashMaz
@QashMaz 2 года назад
That first one is just another Muslim woman that'll most likely never get married until maybe 30s or 40s when she realises that's not gonna work in the real world and changes her ways. Lol
@mohamedadan6678
@mohamedadan6678 2 года назад
yes! also she'll 100% end up committing adultery during that time.
@arashshukran8788
@arashshukran8788 Год назад
By them most them eggs gone so if you want some deformed kids then 30 yos waiting
@alperen7247
@alperen7247 2 года назад
Mohammed Hijab was on fire MashAllah
@Hasan9t
@Hasan9t Год назад
This kind of woman is driving us to become “passport bros.” I know I’ve given up on looking in the US for a wife… I’m on the 5 pillars, own a 7-figure business, in good shape, but couldn’t even get through the door since I’m average height, and just ok looking. These girls in their 20s all feel entitled to 6’ and perfect looks, lock the age parameter to +/- 4 years, but fail to get the commitment from that guy, and think they can then rush to the finish line to find guys like me and make us their provider when they hit their 30s… To that, I can speak for all of us brothers who built ourselves up, NO, we don’t want you, and we’re leaving you behind to stay single (or choose form guys either 15-20 years older, or similar age guy as you who are broke, because that’s all you’ll have left). The guys who made something out of themselves who you overlooked and are single, high value and your age consider **you** invisible now.
@hasaico9661
@hasaico9661 Год назад
O brother, The Messenger of Allah said that to immigrate for the sake of marrying a woman is for the sake of that. It is not for the sake of Allah. Narrated `Umar bin Al-Khattab: The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "The rewards (of deeds) are according to the intention, and everybody will get the reward for what he has intended. So whoever emigrated for Allah's and His Apostle's sake, his emigration was for Allah and His Apostle; and whoever emigrated for worldly benefits, or to marry a woman, then his emigration was for the thing for what he emigrated for."
@ren.8137
@ren.8137 Год назад
Its partly your fault bro. Youre probably looking for a hot muslim woman around your age, what do you expect?
@arashshukran8788
@arashshukran8788 Год назад
Look dude as a dude whos 6'4 most of them arent worth my time women in other countries way more comely feminine and is willing to serve me than these feminist kafirs who want to be men
@arashshukran8788
@arashshukran8788 Год назад
@@ren.8137 so a man works hard his whole life to only settle down with some average chick who still wants a dude as tall as me
@unuesokami8736
@unuesokami8736 Год назад
understand you bro but where the hell are you from that girls will actually reject you, what was your height/weight?
@1slamExplained
@1slamExplained 2 года назад
Modern Muslims are rather disappointing, where are the Muhammad Ali's and modern-day Malcolm X's? Now we all got people who are on about "me" and "I". May Allah save all men from women who think like the above in the video. Marriage is about building the Ummah not about getting your husband to do the dishes after he puts in the grind. If your wife does 12-hour shifts and you sit at home playing Xbox then fair enough go do the dishes, bro!
@muhamed36
@muhamed36 2 года назад
@Biancia Kenya What??? Where's your proof?
@AC-mp7cx
@AC-mp7cx 2 года назад
@@muhamed36 what did Bianca say
@muhamed36
@muhamed36 2 года назад
@@AC-mp7cx I can't remember lol
@sahbie010
@sahbie010 3 года назад
Can not say it enough my akh, love your video's
@Professor4555
@Professor4555 2 года назад
Thanks brother for bringing attention to how some of our community members have lost their ways , and their confusion is breaking up a lot of families 😔
@1slamExplained
@1slamExplained 2 года назад
Hijab sums it up beautifully, put out that hand sister.
@Sweeti924
@Sweeti924 2 года назад
She is not even Muslim if you’re you can’t feminist because you’re communicating to that Allah didn’t give me enough right so I go to human who can give my rights therefore you’re out of Islam
@arashshukran8788
@arashshukran8788 Год назад
@@Sweeti924 thank you someone else said it
@farisbeg8108
@farisbeg8108 2 года назад
I can't stop laughing how freaking hell can someone be so honest
@Joel-pg4yi
@Joel-pg4yi Год назад
Muslims for ya. Get one.
@harvestingseason2725
@harvestingseason2725 Год назад
​@@Joel-pg4yiJoel is also one of my favorite characters of all time xD
@joshuaaaaaaaaa
@joshuaaaaaaaaa 3 года назад
Steer way clear when they start with the 'Whats yours is mine and whats mine is mine' nonsense.
@joshuaaaaaaaaa
@joshuaaaaaaaaa 3 года назад
@It doesn't Matters yah
@joshuaaaaaaaaa
@joshuaaaaaaaaa 3 года назад
@It doesn't Matters whats that gotta do with the price of tea in China? Not the topic of this video
@joshuaaaaaaaaa
@joshuaaaaaaaaa 3 года назад
@Anisah Yes. How about yourself?
@karimtemri1664
@karimtemri1664 2 года назад
Nouman ali khan taught them this
@hsundercover9234
@hsundercover9234 2 года назад
@@karimtemri1664 fax
@onur-a-k
@onur-a-k 2 года назад
Guys, be disagreeable with women if you know what's good for you
@monkmodemalik8225
@monkmodemalik8225 2 года назад
Consult women and then disagree with them, best way.
@onur-a-k
@onur-a-k 2 года назад
@@monkmodemalik8225 That's good too 😁
@ahmedalmahdi9254
@ahmedalmahdi9254 2 года назад
@@monkmodemalik8225 Stellar advice masha'Allah
@Ystrly
@Ystrly 2 года назад
I don't see why "it's good for you"? 😕
@onur-a-k
@onur-a-k 2 года назад
@@Ystrly don't be a simp by trying to please them without merit
@calie42
@calie42 2 года назад
3rd wave Feminism is everywhere...
@rebeccaburke5404
@rebeccaburke5404 Год назад
This is why women who have an ill will towards men should not have children because the stupidity rubs off on their children, and you get this product. I, too, had this way of thinking because of a couple of bad past relationships, but then I grew conscience. I realized that if I continued to think this way in a future relationship, I would be better off staying single Cause there is no difference between having this mindset while being in a relationship or being single😂😂😂😂. If you want to Chase a Men away, this is how you do it.
@EV-EV-EV
@EV-EV-EV Год назад
Yes
@ivetabombalova3933
@ivetabombalova3933 Год назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-munu08wPpjw.html
@AnonymousPerson-hr6qd
@AnonymousPerson-hr6qd Год назад
That's why Khadijah is one of the best 4 women ever, she was one of the few that was successful and yet didn't leave the Prophet (pbuh) and supported the Prophet (pbuh).
@sabriya7647
@sabriya7647 2 года назад
Thats why she will marry a bus driver when she is 39
@headinthekloudz
@headinthekloudz 2 года назад
🤣😭🤣😭🤣😭🤦🏾‍♂️
@mohamedadan6678
@mohamedadan6678 2 года назад
a simp bus driver who she'll resent and emasculate 😬
@عبدالكريم-م6ن4ض
@عبدالكريم-م6ن4ض 6 месяцев назад
😂😂😂😂😂
@rosekay7090
@rosekay7090 10 месяцев назад
My brother, I pray every day for you. Taught me so much!
@wat6625
@wat6625 Год назад
Brother Hijab got it right in the point. I go to a nurce uni, and i met so many muslim girls, with that mindset, at the same time i met many brothers who said, yes we want 50/50, i was ashamed (by my brothers). Im just very traditional and like to do my work as islam tells me and i want my Wife to do what islam tells her too.
@adama.3178
@adama.3178 11 месяцев назад
Word reminds me of my ex wife, she was working as well, I paid all the bills, vacations, dates, etc. after 3 years I divorced her due to her being unappreciative and disrespectful, when I did divorce her she mentioned how stupid I was for paying for everything and how she’s got way more money in the bank. Fast forward Alhamdulillah I got married to a woman from the Middle East, much better woman Alhamdulillah, fellas if you can, marry from oversees and/or marry a girl from a conservative family and a girl with traditional values, save your life and the stress !
@Gggh691
@Gggh691 5 месяцев назад
Was the previous wife a pakistani by chance?
@adama.3178
@adama.3178 5 месяцев назад
@@Gggh691 No
@Gggh691
@Gggh691 5 месяцев назад
@@adama.3178 I fear I’m becoming misogynistic 🙁 I just can’t help it. I give up.
@adama.3178
@adama.3178 5 месяцев назад
@@Gggh691 misogynistic ? No brother that’s unislamic. It’s about roles and responsibilities and having a wife that agrees with the same form of family roles that you believe in.
@adama.3178
@adama.3178 5 месяцев назад
@@Gggh691 🤣
@muhamed36
@muhamed36 2 года назад
Ya Allah what do we men have to choose from for a wife?! Unfortunately, this is the average muslimah. May Allah protect all my muslim brothers from such women.
@Saeroye
@Saeroye 3 года назад
This was such a good video. Makes total sense!
@abukhalid7447
@abukhalid7447 3 года назад
It's all about who Allah guides. If the wife has submitted fully to her husband the more closer to she is to Allah and being a woman who will enter jannah through any gate she wants. There are many ahadith that enchorages the wife to be submissive to the husband. The husband is the wife's paradise or fire,as narrated in the hadith. The pleasure of Allah is in the pleasure of the husband. There seems to be real lack of understanding of the religion which these women have chosen. But ultimately guidance is from Allah and he gives the correct understanding to whom he wills. A women having an arrogant attitude will stop her humbling herself to the truth. May Allah guide us Ameen
@abukhalid7447
@abukhalid7447 2 года назад
@@theblackswordsmanmikael1238 Are you OK? You seem to be very uptight . There's ways to talk/debate without having to resort to being obnoxious. Maybe it's the way you bought up or you having issues in your life.
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 2 года назад
@It doesn't Matters really, his avatar seems funny...
@farahwork2552
@farahwork2552 Год назад
and this is why people are leaving islam. its misogynistic bullshit
@abukhalid7447
@abukhalid7447 Год назад
@@farahwork2552 if you look at the statistics of which religion is growing the fastest you'll no doubt see it is Islam and if you look further you'll see that the majority of those who revert to Islam are women. And the rate ain't slowing down. If you don't want to belive that's fine as there's no compulsion in accepting Islam but it WILL be your eternal loss when you die.
@easyeastallstar
@easyeastallstar 2 года назад
"Your money is our money. My money is my money. " lol
@aar8808
@aar8808 2 года назад
I pointed this out on a Romani stream regarding that Muslim women in the West are on par with non-Muslim women in the West these days. At least many of the latter are not inconsistent.
@aar8808
@aar8808 2 года назад
@It doesn't Matters There's crime in all countries, some have more of it though.
@taym2720
@taym2720 2 года назад
@It doesn't Matters Find pockets of conservative and ultra conservative societies in eastern countries.
@shaimazaher9342
@shaimazaher9342 Год назад
The reason why women became so bitter is because men mistreated women for so many years. Children have seen moms getting beaten up by their fathers, they had to cook clean and do everything and yet look good and fit compared or the husband marrying another wife. Women had to take care of inlaws, beg their husband and inlaws to get permission to meet t her Mom and dad. In laws and husband never appreciated. Women in the process of childbirth, home responsibilities were so exhaused that their whole joiurney was serving others and not themselves. 80% of women still dont get their Mahr in South Asia and are expected dowry including, furniture, seasonal fruits, dinner set, cows during eid al adha, expensive gifts etc. Now some of you will say this is culture but not hate all this oppression but hate a confident an educated liberal women more than the culture. If you see west they have no religion, hence no culture no one is using religion as weapon to control, but women are constantly blackmailed with religion to say they are not good enough. Most men wants a lady doctor and female teachers for their daughters but these same men dont want their daughter to be educated and become doctor engineer to fulfil their domestic needs. Women are stuck in loop so out of anger they become bitter feminist. Women could never breathe happily, When they were not feminists they were bashed at homes and neglected from basic rights When women became feminists they are still bashed for raising their voices So ultimayrly they got frustrated that they became A Feminutsy!
@abdallahelgendy7354
@abdallahelgendy7354 2 года назад
12:55 I burst out laughing when he said "the average Abdullah" 😂😂😂😂🤦‍♂️
@ibnnawar4288
@ibnnawar4288 3 года назад
00:31 this happens if you as a Father or Mother do not educate your child to think the right way, and your daughter gets now hallucinations.
@Amarah4600
@Amarah4600 Год назад
From what I've seen, parents are clueless themselves so what will they teach they're children. My mum used to teach Qura'an in the local community and children ages 7 or 8 couldn't even read the Kalimah. It's shocking
@AM-dn1iq
@AM-dn1iq Год назад
@@Amarah4600 A lot of parents aren't knowledgeable
@MOTHUG786
@MOTHUG786 2 года назад
I quite enjoy single life, now that I've been trying to get married to a Muslimah for the past 5-6 years and I've seen low numbers of quality women, I genuinely see they have nothing to offer in a marriage, half of them can't cook, they have bad attitudes, very controversial, I believe marrying a Muslimah from the west will make my life harder than it already is. So I enjoy the single life. Stay single lads, learn some control and patience; it won't kill you. Salaam.
@Blaze72sH
@Blaze72sH 2 года назад
Let's meet in Jannah (inshallah) and see who gets more hoor-al-ayn. 🤝
@ahmedalmahdi9254
@ahmedalmahdi9254 2 года назад
I agree that western muslimah's are almost a lost cause, my plan is to find a good girl in my home country and marry her there
@Donotcare6
@Donotcare6 2 года назад
Well said. Mashaa'Allah. Every young man need to read this advice
@unrealAna
@unrealAna Год назад
Are u as well hugh quality muslim men? Are u lowering your gaze etc. Or like many muslim men who look or even date white girls for sex and then suddenly want an obedient virgin muslim girl?
@CodnGta
@CodnGta Год назад
Idk man there are good women out there. From what i have noticed there are more decent women than men. I say that as a man. Even in the West there, the hijabi Muslimah is still very decent. The women back home may be better but its not as bad as you guys make it seem
@salmasaleh6833
@salmasaleh6833 Год назад
You know as a female I do agree with most of what you said but the problem with the men that I've seen is that when they elevate they don't appreciate their women who supported them and served them and provided them with their own hearts and capabilities, and just as soon as they got wealthy they ran to marry another wife and break their first wives hearts who supported them and struggled with them and never complained.
@Biekoe
@Biekoe Год назад
Its their right to marry again. Nothing wrong with that
@salmasaleh6833
@salmasaleh6833 Год назад
@@Biekoe I didn't say it's not their right. I'm saying that it's not fair to not appreciate the support and patience of your first wife, and as soon as you become wealthy, you forget all her sacrifices for you and just think about yourself and break her heart after all that she did for you.
@mari_000
@mari_000 4 месяца назад
As a following women, sis we cant control our husbands allah give men the right to marry up to 4 wifes and so who are we to think that we know better then allah just because of our feelings. If he is a good men he will talk with you before doing this ( even tho he doesn't have to) and maybe even ask you to search a second wife for him. We women have to understand that men and women are biological different, if we women love someone and he provides for us we women would biologically only want him but men are not like that from a biological standpoint, when giving the opportunity ALL men (muslim or non muslim) would want other women, because allah created them like this. Thats why so many Western men cheat or have mistresses on the side. As soon when we women realize that all men think the same in this regard, then we can accept it more because atleast when a men marrys more women Islamically he has to trait them all fair and provide for all of them the same, which is better then what men in the west do with having a multiple gfs or secret mistresses and not giving them any provision/ taking responsibility for them or give them the title of wife...
@mkr1390
@mkr1390 2 года назад
Thank you for making this video, hope all those sisters get THIS message in their HEAD! If they have a little SHAME in their self's!
@j.n.1336
@j.n.1336 7 месяцев назад
Ya Rabbi you bring the hearts together. Ameen.
@Aura04_
@Aura04_ 4 месяца назад
Ameen
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 2 года назад
Hadith say women obey hubsands and look after the homes, if you think being a maid is being a wife then be a maid and a wife and if you think you know better then the hadith then you don't have din... my money is your but your obedience and body is mine... including you working if there is no need, at least she said she would help if she could... women are very hypergasmmous but nature for them in iman is to serve.
@X4XP11
@X4XP11 2 года назад
Your money is not hers. You are obliged to provide her food, shelter and clothing. Any excess money you give her is a favour and charity from you which you will be rewarded for.
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543
@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 2 года назад
@@X4XP11 Jazak Allahu khayr. Yea I think that is from hadith of wife of abu sufyan and hadith Muawiyah.
@SativaSeanLasVegas
@SativaSeanLasVegas 2 года назад
You're a good Muslim brother. Never change
@mohammed96011
@mohammed96011 3 года назад
What's mine is mine and what's yours is mine. We got that figured out but you wont be a maid How about this....a great big SLAP! I'm glad we got that figured out
@ItachiAli1993
@ItachiAli1993 3 года назад
🤣
@nidaeshaque
@nidaeshaque 2 года назад
😂😂😂😂😂
@unrealAna
@unrealAna Год назад
Thats exactly why islam needs feminism thanks God muslim women avoid guys like you who could hit them
@mohammed96011
@mohammed96011 Год назад
@@unrealAna screw your feminism. I never hit women. I was playing around. Fool
@unrealAna
@unrealAna Год назад
@@mohammed96011 okay i thought u genuinely thought that its ok to hit someone. But screw u as well ;)
@Falasteen7urra
@Falasteen7urra Год назад
She's not wrong in stating that though. If that weren't the case then we should inherit the same amount of money. The only reason men get double the amount is because they're meant to be financially responsible. If both spouses work then both should contribute to house chores and bills. If one spouse works then the other should take care of the home. I personally like to work because I want to be able to buy what I want and help my family out however I want. I don't feel right asking my husband for unnecessary things even though he's generous and willing but I just prefer to do it myself. I deprive myself of alot when I don't work because of this guilt. I also don't think my husband is responsible for my needy relatives as he has a duty to help out his parents/family with that money. I have always encouraged him in helping his family as generously as possible and remind him his parents needs come before mine. Not all women just want to work for selfish reasons. It seems most men here don't know what it's like to have a decent equal partner with mutual respect and trust.
@youllmakeit4546
@youllmakeit4546 2 года назад
Women, you don't lead a man. You come to him and ask him what are your rules (as long as he follows the Deen), I will do what you will ask. You are not the leader, you're the main support system. You advice, you help build. You follow. There's no buts and ifs.
@equityjustice2695
@equityjustice2695 3 года назад
Phillip was titled As consort to the 👑 queen 😂😂😂😂
@kimranahmed
@kimranahmed 2 года назад
brother you doing some God's work for the community and especially for men in the West to rescue the falling society and family structure
@mamba1384
@mamba1384 2 года назад
„Gods work“ - Astagfirullah, don’t say this
@saacidcabdiweli
@saacidcabdiweli Год назад
​@@mamba1384 ofc he's doing good work which is God's work
@Mybackisbr0ken
@Mybackisbr0ken 2 года назад
So these people are all about supporting and encouraging people to be what they want to be no matter how stupid it is, but a housewife is too much for them to handle. Don't worry akh, your daughter will get a noble husband In Shaa Allah while these people are possiblly going to regret they're uni degrees if they continue on their manly little tantrum
@urwashahid9210
@urwashahid9210 Год назад
Was Muhammad Hijab's response to this tiktoker? Because it didn't align. The sister did say it's not her responsibility to contribute but she will if there is a need. She said nothing outside of Islam. She is also willing to give birth to children and looking after them. What did she say that so bad and islamically wrong? Nothing. What she said was what Islam entails. Her money (savings, gifts from parents, jewelry, and even her earned money are all hers) and husband's money is hers too because husband earns for his wife and kids. That's a true statement, according to Shariah. Also she is not islamically obligated to cook and clean and getting a maid is totally fine as Ali Ibn Abi Talib suggested Fatima his wife to get servants from her dad when she did the chores. Prophet ص himself did the chores for his family. Islam is not 50 50 and women actually are quite entitled but men cannot swallow it lol. Please consider that a Muslim woman is precious and not like a non Muslim feminist. You have to earn her from her dad who was her protector and now you're the new protector who needs to do a better job than her dad. That is how Islam is, father is her Wali (protective care taker of her physical, mental, emotional well being) and then after nikah the same role is transferred to the husband. She will most like cook and clean for you too but cleaning is everyone's responsibility, as a basic attequate. Decent people don't like to leave a mess around them for someone else to pick up.
@bethere7862
@bethere7862 Год назад
blah blah blah, many Muslim women are run through, plus she gotta obey her husband whether u like it or not lol, so keep burning h0ejabi feminist
@Biekoe
@Biekoe Год назад
His money is not hers. Give me one source that says so. He only needs to provide food, shelter and clothes. Nothing more. But that doesnt mean his money is hers. She cant take a penny without his permission. And also the men is not obliged to help 50/50 in the household as she wants. So all she said was islamically wrong. Feminist like u need some proper education
@mohammedshibily7424
@mohammedshibily7424 5 месяцев назад
Shaykh Ibn Jibreen said: the custom of the Muslims has always been that the wife should serve her husband in the customary manner, by preparing food, washing his clothes and vessels, cleaning the house, etc., according to what is appropriate. This was the custom at the time of the Prophet and has remained so until the present day, and no one has objected to it. But the wife should not be burdened in a manner that causes her hardship or difficulty, rather it should be in accordance with her ability and what is customary.
@urwashahid9210
@urwashahid9210 5 месяцев назад
@mohammedshibily7424 this might be customary and scholars might comment on it but husband's responsibilities are Quranic and cannot be equated to customary values.
@mohammedshibily7424
@mohammedshibily7424 5 месяцев назад
@@urwashahid9210 who disagree with you on husband's responsibilities? all am trying to convey is that women should do house chores in best of her ability and majority will not able to provide maids for their wives..
@equityjustice2695
@equityjustice2695 3 года назад
I want to vomit 🤢😭😭😭😭. Seeing these types of.💃
@JustMansur
@JustMansur 2 года назад
Assalamu aleykum akhi , I’ve watched your video’s for a while now and applied alot of knowledge that you shared with us. It’s very beneficial , JazaakAllah khayr.
@Aura04_
@Aura04_ 4 месяца назад
“Do you know how many women have a problem with smiling?… YESS FLIPPING SMILING!! we like it when you smile, you look nice & pleasant, as if you’re pleasant to be around. Women like men who don’t smile a lot… men like women who do smile a lot. NEWS FLASH when you’re not smiling you’re coming across like a Bloat to us with your masculine energy!!! SMILE!!” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@manik_abdallah
@manik_abdallah 2 года назад
Wow! Music to my ears!
@themadakh3229
@themadakh3229 2 года назад
Lol i feel sorry this girl, i dont know one brother that after seeing this they should be so inclined to marry her. What a foul way of thinking, like men will die for her or something.
@youllmakeit4546
@youllmakeit4546 2 года назад
Even the top Rishta aunties are gonna be like Farhana I can't save your daughter 😂😂😂
@juxtapositionMS
@juxtapositionMS 3 года назад
Is this a sarcasm or what?
@aymanus04
@aymanus04 3 года назад
🤣🤣🤣
@juxtapositionMS
@juxtapositionMS 3 года назад
@@aymanus04 I mean the girl at the beginning. Looks like she was being sarcastic.
@aymanus04
@aymanus04 3 года назад
@@juxtapositionMS nah she wasnt bro, tiktok girl brother, she has alot of the content,
@juxtapositionMS
@juxtapositionMS 3 года назад
@@aymanus04 I see. She is doing it so extrinsically that no one will take her seriously
@aymanus04
@aymanus04 3 года назад
@@juxtapositionMS she or ppl like her may not even recognise, the one who is going against his own fitrah and againsg the real order isnt serious, snd actually Deosnt take himself/herself seriously
@aymanus04
@aymanus04 3 года назад
Masha Allah brother, u really took it in
@deshonculbreath1704
@deshonculbreath1704 Год назад
You Said Some Good Stuff 💪🏾💪🏾 .. Alhamdulilah Brother 🙏🏽
@ojofars1442
@ojofars1442 2 года назад
They always want a traditional men but they don't want to be traditional themselves? Huh 🤔
@Abrock730
@Abrock730 2 года назад
1 foot in the 7th Century! The other in the 21st! No good!
@ahmedalmahdi9254
@ahmedalmahdi9254 2 года назад
Funniest comment on this joint
@jacksonroad9263
@jacksonroad9263 Год назад
man where in the deepest and darkest sewers do you find these tiktok videos 😂😂
@TZ-zf1lp
@TZ-zf1lp Год назад
A narcissistic women can ruin a high value man
@benlife5944
@benlife5944 Год назад
The solution is marry a woman who have a Deen and religious. That's s woman i will invest in provide for and protect. May Allah guide US All
@thegirl30
@thegirl30 2 года назад
He's right about the smiling 😂 I struggle to smile all the time, since I was a child I couldn't smile..... But I'll start practicing now. Jazak'Allah brother 😂😂😂
@BigBoss-cc2mh
@BigBoss-cc2mh 2 года назад
How do you struggle with smiling ? O_o
@thegirl30
@thegirl30 2 года назад
@@BigBoss-cc2mh it doesn't come naturally
@md.shahadathossain8880
@md.shahadathossain8880 2 года назад
May Allah help you
@thegirl30
@thegirl30 2 года назад
@@md.shahadathossain8880 ameen
@thegirl30
@thegirl30 2 года назад
@Gyxu Euehr yes, you're right✨
@dianaadinin3759
@dianaadinin3759 Год назад
I agreed 💯 with you..most women especially my sisters in-laws always had said those words you money is my money..my money is mine..but I prefer more on 50-50..as long he fulfill his responsibility as a husband it would be fine for me .here what I wanna say..most womens based on what I had seen.. women with these mind set you money is mine money ..these women mostly never fulfill their responsibility as a wife to their husband but too much demanding..their mostly act like a king while their husband turn into her maid .. making husband do this n that ...she can't even clean her own house .. secondly these kinds of women mostly lazy n making their mother in-law as a slave cause their know a mother could not say no to her son while a husband just followed his wife order asking her to cook to do this to do that but still disrespect n ungrateful to her in-laws..lazy like hell kept blaming her husband Infront of his mother.. making her husband feed his kids washing changing diapers while she busy eating all the times..but still demanding, annoying,n too much attitude..their never shows respect to their husband..I really don't understand..for me it good enough to have a partner who responsibility, respect, kinda, patient, loyalty, religious, trusted, loving n manhood..money it come n go rezqi everywhere..a good wife can bring good fortune to her husband life ..
@introspectivex8346
@introspectivex8346 Год назад
Seen a few of your comments. You’ve got the right kind of mindset 👌🏻 can I get your or your Dad’s number or email if you’re interested in looking for a partner?
@ironmoe77
@ironmoe77 2 года назад
Anyone who disagrees with what brother Mahdi just said, is too far gone to be saved. Only Allah can save them.
@rambocomando8151
@rambocomando8151 Год назад
The second she said these are my rules for my future husband.. my brain said X not wife material…next.
@sumayaraise
@sumayaraise Год назад
I would love love love to stay at home with my little kids to take care of them and teach them about Islam it’s my real duty I can’t go out and work and give my kids sit on iPad bcoz I’m tired to be with them when I come back from work 🥹 I pray tahajud to stay at home like before
@ericpowell4350
@ericpowell4350 Год назад
She is possessed by the Jezebel spirit.
@theepicologist8811
@theepicologist8811 2 года назад
I’d much rather marry a brick wall than to even consider the quintessential- Yas-queen Hijabi tiktokker like the first one lol
@saabje82
@saabje82 Год назад
I dont really see the big problem of what she said. What if she works fulltime aswell in that case u cant expect her to do more in the household for example... It depends on the situation. Better invite that lady on the program and let her explain herself more i think. What about the prophet pbuh, he helped around the house being the human being with the biggest and most important mission in the whole world... She also said that financialy she would be helpfull if he needs it. Please let her explain herself instead of demonising the video.
@Biekoe
@Biekoe Год назад
If she works fulltime then why doesnt she pay the bills also 50/50 just like how she wants to do the chores 50/50. She only wants to do 50/50 when it suits her. Thats the point. And the prohet helped yeah, key word: helped. It was the main job of his wives and he just helped. Not 50/50. Help implies the women does 90 and the men helps 10
@kjy05
@kjy05 Год назад
This video is amazing I already subscribed
@mohammadhussain8090
@mohammadhussain8090 Год назад
I don't think husband helping wife with household cleaning but her attitude and self entitlement is disgusting
@mathisnotforthefaintofheart
Is it a surprise that more men don't get married? That leady in the beginning does have a point about Islamic rules and what a man can demand and not. BUT there is much more to the story that she does not reveal. Bottom line is, instead of being adversaries you can also be partners: Throw the money on a pile, give each other an allowance for personal stuff and make a budget together and plan together. This is how my parents have done it. My dad never interfered in my mom's income yet my mom always contributed to the household because she said "it was for the greater good of the family". My mom made most financial decisions anyway except for the cars which my dad took upon him. "You money is mine and my money is mine" is not a good way to start a relation.
@Biekoe
@Biekoe Год назад
Islamically she is totally incorrect. His money is not her money and she cannot take a penny without his permission. He only needs to provide food, shelter and clothes. Nothing more. But his money is still his
@rukiyod871
@rukiyod871 2 года назад
Women smile whit there freinds. If she is unhappy with her man and her marriage she will be bitter, depressed and wont SMILE offcorse for that reason! The men should put a SMILE on there wifes..if sge doesnt SMILE it says more about him then her. Ie he is a bad man and making his wife miserable...
@romaiseb
@romaiseb 2 года назад
that's true - the state of a wife is a reflection of her husband's capability to look after her
@shafinrahman2199
@shafinrahman2199 2 года назад
A group is hard at work at turning men against women. Beware of them first and foremost brothers and sisters.
@khabibnurmagomedov3486
@khabibnurmagomedov3486 5 месяцев назад
We are equals. immediately next point your money is our money my money is my money.
@pythregius
@pythregius 6 месяцев назад
Equality is not about deeds, it's how you treat the on partner you love, for the love of your kids, for the love of your family, for the love of your self and mostly for the love of god. Love yourself, be humble, and look into your heart and your heart will teach you to learn how to love all I named above.
@kuberry3105
@kuberry3105 Год назад
I've a question: if a wife is considered a good wife but she works just because she likes it and at the same time she takes care 100% of her man and her family, is still considered a good wife or it's better that she doesn't work?
@cryptiik9311
@cryptiik9311 Год назад
Yes good wife as long as she has husbands permission and fulfills the rest of her duties.
@flowergirl-o9d
@flowergirl-o9d Год назад
If she’s doing her duties as a wife then I’d say yes 🤷‍♀️
@mathisnotforthefaintofheart
Of course she can work then. You think wives that stay in a room with four walls are the only good wives? What hogwash! Point is her job should be within the framework of Islam. So she should not work in a bar, if you get the point
@bisvizstudio1242
@bisvizstudio1242 2 года назад
It's very ironic she mentioned Deen as the first criteria, because if there's a Sheikh who has deen knowledge way better than her wants to be her husband, he will still tell her to cook and clean 🤣
@helentme838
@helentme838 11 месяцев назад
I’m so disgusted with these muslim feninists. Dumb fish swallowing the lies presented to them bait, hook, line and sinker and all the while thinking they are enlightened. I like my husband smiling at me but not so much when he is in crazy joker mode.
@SuperServentofAllah
@SuperServentofAllah 2 года назад
Marriage in the west hardly last nowadays because the woman is trained to be something she is not. I. E. A equal of a man. Our grand mothers and mothers aswell served our fathers grandfather and knew full well there role and the husband knew fully well too. And they both were happy to fulfill that. They are a million times more happier than a Liberal, feminist woman who is in the club somewhere in her 40's who is unmarried but have been a toilet paper for about 10's of men. May Allah swt allow us to submit to Islam. Before we are misguided due to our insisting on haram and evil non Islamic practises and beliefs
@amatulfulani6390
@amatulfulani6390 5 месяцев назад
Not accurate. Who do you think the daughters listened to? The mothers and grandmothers were the ones who told their daughters NOT to be like them and focus on their education. Bc a lot of them were trapped in miserable behind marriages. Y’all sound very delusional. The coked up housewife was a stereotype in the 50’s. And the wives poisoning their abusive husbands… but you go ahead and romanticize the past as if it was some hunky dory paradise. You couldn’t be more wrong.
@nathanjohnston1176
@nathanjohnston1176 Год назад
if my money is our money and your money is your money, then its only fair that you cook and clean for me, just saying that would technically be equal
@rambocomando8151
@rambocomando8151 Год назад
It is comical for these women to think that they get to set rules lol. The men set the rules sweetheart not you. If you don’t obey goodbye back to the streets.
@islamic_diplomat
@islamic_diplomat 2 года назад
A smashing into
@fe...doua.
@fe...doua. 2 года назад
I am completely against the daiyouth man and against dividing anything 50/50 because it drops the role of the man and of the woman..... But, my brother, what I notice is that no matter how much a woman works in her home and raises her children, they do not appreciate her as if this thing is not tiring and she must look beautiful all the time and she shouldn't complain, and if her husband drinks alchool, they tell her to be patient for the sake of her children.....this is psychologically and physically tiring, and after this he marries another women or beats her and orders her to blindly obey. Therefore, women tended to rely on themselves because they stopped feeling appreciated but still this is NOT a cause for feminism.. But, there is no problem for a man to help his wife in taking care of the children or in some work when she's tired, the Prophet pboh used to help his family, this is not a projection of manhood, but I understand what you are talking about because I noticed a lot of Muslim feminists on Instagram and it's soooo against fitrah.
@user-hy3ee7rn6h
@user-hy3ee7rn6h Год назад
May Allah guide a man like and fear Allah in her
@farahwork2552
@farahwork2552 Год назад
sounds like fmeinism is exactly what someone who is going through that needs
@Based_Thinker
@Based_Thinker Год назад
This man you described is sinning and being ungrateful. It's not a problem of gender roles but a lack of deen on his side.
@furiousfurious6460
@furiousfurious6460 Год назад
She mentioned Deen first does she know that she can't show her face in public and anyone who is not her Mahram.
@amatulfulani6390
@amatulfulani6390 5 месяцев назад
Not accurate. Niqab is optional.
@OnderHassan
@OnderHassan 2 года назад
If you remain true to your deen, to Allah and change yourself to be better, you will spot these types of toxic women from a mile away and avoid them. You attract what you are brothers and sisters.
@agentbananax6225
@agentbananax6225 Год назад
Keep up the good work
@zahidaharunani7169
@zahidaharunani7169 Год назад
Subhanallah, did Khadija RA not elevate Rasulullah S.A.W? If it were not for her beautiful character and the love she had for Allah and Rasulullah S.A.W, would Islam even have spread?your point is totally futile here, if you think a woman cannot elevate a man. The humble woman definitely can. The success of any relationship, is to have the love of Allah at the centre of our heart. For both, men and women. Both have rights in Islam and as long as we understand the rights of one over the other, there would not be a problem. The problem these days is everyone is selfish....everyone thinking of their own gains....people don't want to put in the effort! Yes there are materialistic sisters and yes there are abusive and arrogant brothers too. There's a reason why Our Prophet SAW said, chose a spouse based on their taqwa.....but do people care? They want perfection as the brother said, pleasing to the eyes...look for someone who will b pleasing to your soul....looks change, the soul dsnt. May Allah guide us all.
@imaknexus
@imaknexus 2 года назад
Real talk bro. My second marriage fits this narrative
@TheShariasKnowledge
@TheShariasKnowledge 7 месяцев назад
The first vid - The deen I understood, then when she talked about the friends, I lost it.
@shannonpickens7695
@shannonpickens7695 Год назад
This is true- I am in a marriage with that subordinate man. I have tried to get him to stop drinking and take better care of himself. He listens sometimes but not all. Women do look for superior men.. why? Because it makes us feel more feminine being with a leader. That’s why.
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