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The ONE DIFFERENCE in FILIPINO CULTURE That Makes ALL the Difference 

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@rap3208
@rap3208 Год назад
Americans say respect is earned , not given. In the Philippines it's the other way around - it is automatically given and it's for you to lose it.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
It's a better way. Thank you for sharing
@matador6842
@matador6842 11 месяцев назад
You nailed it. 😁😂 Very well said
@igie888
@igie888 10 месяцев назад
Let me also add that here in the Philippines respect is given to everyone particularly to the elderlies simply because we are inculcated with the notion that we respect people because we are respectable people. And to be disrespectful means disgracing your parents, your family, the people who nurtured you.
@nenabunena
@nenabunena 10 месяцев назад
Yes! I always say this to foreigners. Everyone deserves respect, but if you expect to be treated like a king and I have to earn your respect, you automatically lose it. Bec respect can be lost through no one's fault but your own
@lzu2860
@lzu2860 Год назад
The day a CR attendant at the NAIA opened a Handicapped stall for me, sanitized the seat, went on all fours to mop the floor and turned on a fan to dry it to prevent falls, I felt emotional, taken care of. I have not been home for over 20 years and I felt welcomed by this kind act and respect. I can’t imagine this happening for me in America. I have tears right now.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Thank you for sharing this story
@loretasevilla9233
@loretasevilla9233 Год назад
Hahaha, may be they say........bahala ka sa buhay mo
@SBH779
@SBH779 Год назад
Pinoys are nice grp just dont mix govt and poltics in us or we will turn us into (mostly) power tripping, lazy, corrupt etc.
@carmenjudilla6546
@carmenjudilla6546 Год назад
I agree John. I live in California. Life in the US is fast paced, too much emphasis on materialism, and people easily complain. There's no family values. People are proud, forgetting to care for others. But as a Fil-Am, I've instilled Filpino values to my children, esp respect to elders & family. As well as humility. Somehow, I'm still grateful. It's my wish to retire in the Philippines.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
I appreciate you sharing. There are so many Filipinos leaving to other countries everyday from the Philippines, and I get the promise of more money is alluring, but there's so much more to life than material things. Perhaps that's easy for me to say because of my situation, though I think it's worth thinking through what really matters in life.
@inf4mousvloglife1572
@inf4mousvloglife1572 Год назад
@@WatchCaliforniaExpat off course there are lots of comparison between this two countries obviously U, S is bigger and the better would say infrastructure or Something in medical facilities, But why you coming here in the 3 world if your not like the country, you just go and pack your bags.
@Cons2911
@Cons2911 Год назад
If the family is mixed, get the best of both worlds, that would be very very nice
@emersongarcia2179
@emersongarcia2179 Год назад
@@WatchCaliforniaExpatFilipinos can live without toilet paper
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
​@@emersongarcia2179Tabo rules in the Philippines 🇵🇭
@emsscha777
@emsscha777 Год назад
3 Words that strikes my mind when I heard Philippines ~ Faith, Family and their sense of gratefulness..
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Yes I agree 👍
@levitabacug3377
@levitabacug3377 Год назад
Maybe this is a little different because as a Filipino living in Australia carries with me some degree of traditional respect for the elderly. At one time I offered my seat to an elderly lady in a train ride and she yelled at me like she’s not that old. So I just backed off and smiled. 😂 I think she not ready yet but one day she might. I still think I did the right thing.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
That's a crazy experience 😂 I offered an elderly woman my seat today traveling in the Philippines and she simply thanked me 😊
@rodolfolee4462
@rodolfolee4462 Год назад
​@@WatchCaliforniaExpatto😊
@cynthiagonzalez658
@cynthiagonzalez658 Год назад
That's some Australian loony there. Anyone offers me a seat, I take it and say thanks. Sometimes, I ask young people for the seat they are occupying which is labeled for disabled and older people, when my arthritis is acting up.
@FouSurLaColline
@FouSurLaColline Год назад
I had a similar experience in the US. Offered my seat to a lady who was standing in the train. She gave me a dagger look.
@cynthiagonzalez658
@cynthiagonzalez658 Год назад
@@FouSurLaColline WOKE idjits. If someone is trying to be nice,ya should not be nasty to them. Say thanks and take it. Or smile and say no thanks. Women want respect but then they turn down the respect and then wonder why no one respects them . 😑Not even Jesus Christ can figure them out.
@mikesossamon318
@mikesossamon318 Год назад
The 3 things I really notice are kindness, peace, and respect. To me the number one thing is peace! I just can't put a high enough value on the amount of peace I feel when in the Philippines which is what draws me back.
@angelogumnad8206
@angelogumnad8206 Год назад
We have this trait of giving respect to the position if the person does not deserve respect. It goes a long way in keeping social relationships calm but on the flipside, resentment can build up. Good thing everyone has friends and family to keep us sane.😂
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
I understand what you mean 💯
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
I see that too lol
@renatzkigab2616
@renatzkigab2616 11 месяцев назад
Thanks for appreciating our culture.
@MarkGray-u4i
@MarkGray-u4i Год назад
The word that came to my mind was kindness. There is so much pure hatred in America... it is truly sad what America has become. Hopefully another six months and I'll be on my way to Cebu/ Dumaguete. The truth is, America has removed God from society. The Philippines still has a strong respect for the Creator. Christmas beginning in September going strong through December is proof of this. I love your Channel, John. Thanks for all you do! Mark, in Dallas.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Thank you you Mark, I appreciate your kind words and kindness is also definitely something that permeates Filipino society too.
@PSCA1988
@PSCA1988 Год назад
The problem is that God in America has been used as a mechanism to hate others, and faith has been politicized.
@MarkGray-u4i
@MarkGray-u4i Год назад
@@PSCA1988 100% correct. Thanks for your comment.
@eduardochavacano
@eduardochavacano Год назад
Actually, America is religious that is why it is drenched in hate and fragmentation. The Americans in Dumaguete are vloggers and they fight each other online. Because they brought their culture and attutude in a small very religious town.
@eduardochavacano
@eduardochavacano Год назад
@@PSCA1988 You are being naive to think that religion is only like that in America, a more sophisticated society with western logic and great pizza.
@shinhaakatsuki2516
@shinhaakatsuki2516 Год назад
Human compassion and kindness that is what Phils is full of...
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Yes I agree
@avegailguia6922
@avegailguia6922 Год назад
So true. I had a culture shock when i moved to canada. I went to highschool and kids would come to classes late with food eating in front of teachers. We would never dream of doing that in the ph as a highschool student. We treat our teachers like authority/ 2nd parents.
@kaeyabedilucsbrotherpls
@kaeyabedilucsbrotherpls 11 месяцев назад
I’m straight-up scared of the teachers 😅
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 11 месяцев назад
I can imagine the culture shock!
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 11 месяцев назад
I wonder if people are still afraid of teh teachers here or if that has changed?
@arvinbalboa5810
@arvinbalboa5810 Год назад
i can say it in two words … “big thanks” for appreciating the Philippines the people and the culture. Me as a filipino live here in the US im so happy to hear that from american who’s one of the happy living right now in the Philippines. God bless you sir!
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Thank you Arvin! I'm grateful to live here.
@kuyaIhor
@kuyaIhor Год назад
Thanks John As always, a very interesting topic. I am also trying to study the history and customs of the Filipino, since I live on the island of Mindanao, I am studying the language a little, as well as their traditions, Now, as a Ukrainian refugee, I have the opportunity to go to America, but after reading and talking on the forums of bloggers living in the Philippines, I don’t really want to go to America
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Where do you live in Mindanao if you don't mind me asking? I'm in Davao City for business sometimes. I think it helps to have a US passport and opportunity to go there when you want, but for everyday living I'm grateful to live in the Philippines
@kuyaIhor
@kuyaIhor Год назад
@@WatchCaliforniaExpat of course Let's meet I live on the island of Samal, it's two hours away from Davao America won't give me a passport, just for 3 years I can work there and I think that's all
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
@@kuyaIhor Sounds great.
@blade65dagger
@blade65dagger Год назад
if able. still do try to get a US visa. if denied multiple times, pretend a sour grape mind set and try canada. else try to travel OZ or NZ or neighboring asean
@lourdesduke9977
@lourdesduke9977 Год назад
Filipinos as a family unit is pretty much stronger compared to the US. Family values are pass on from generation to generation. Respect is always the first lesson to learn as a kid so mutual respect is always practice in every household. We carry that value wherever, whenever we are either inside or outside our home as we grow old.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
As a family unit and society in general I believe that. The one exception is in work culture, there's many challenges.
@rosariocalosur7802
@rosariocalosur7802 Год назад
Everything starts in the home. Filipinos are very strict disciplinarians elders do not tolerate children yelling, throwing tantrums, talking back, and yes, that "mano po" culture all that instill respect and orderly behavior. 🇵🇭❤️
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 7 месяцев назад
I see that, though at the same time I've seen kids running around or young kids even hitting their parents without the parent doing anything. Do you think this is changing with younger parents?
@Gaspar314
@Gaspar314 Год назад
This makes sense. From an outsider, I feel like the culture in the US is all about gaining respect, that respect is something that is earned either through financial wealth, dominant personality, dominant race, etc. It is romanticized in your Western dramas, wherein protagonists are praised for violent acts. In the Philippines, you inherently deserves respect until you do something to lose that respect. That’s why it’s rude to raise your voice in public, or to be mean to people below your stature. It happens in dramas, but rarely happens in real life. That’s also the reason why we’re not very direct people. We’re afraid of offending people, of appearing rude - being rude means being uncultured.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 11 месяцев назад
Appreciate you sharing.
@garytulie8567
@garytulie8567 5 месяцев назад
That's interesting. I spent some time in Denmark, and there are some similarities and some differences of attitude. In Denmark, people generally act with respect - taking care to be kind regardless of a person's social status. There, respect is also something given to everybody until you lose it. The difference is in how respect is shown. In Denmark, there is no deference. Children are taught to use the first name of their teacher in the classroom, and nobody is considered better than another because of their position or age. Danes are also very direct in ways that can seem rude for people who come from less direct cultures. There is a reason they are so direct - they regard indirectness as rude, it wastes a person's time so is considered disrespectful. They also see it as a kind of lie. For them it is more polite to say to a friend - "you stink, go and take a shower" than to waste their time hinting about the wonderful antiperspirant you bought last week - "would you like to try it?"
@Zee_1003
@Zee_1003 Год назад
no casual crimes in subways, no streets filthy with human poop and drug and paraphernalia, no rampart car theft and break ins, almost no hate crimes, not many karens (Karens in the US are on another level, it's stupid), no mob robbery of luxury stores, no thieves having "shopping sprees" in grocery stores
@zzzzzsleeping
@zzzzzsleeping Год назад
In California, there is a law that if you steal less than $1000 it's just a misdemeanor charge not a felony. So, people are going inside the department store and loot the store.
@SelwynClydeAlojipan
@SelwynClydeAlojipan Год назад
If a Karen was dumb enough to raise her voice and scold ordinary people in the Philippines, there would be guerrilla warfare that would blindside her and make her want to go back home where people would rather confront her face to face. She wouldn't know how to handle people making ugly remarks behind her back that she just wastes time and never gets things done as she wanted. She wouldn't know why she just has no traction unless somebody will take the time to educate her on how the country won against Spain, the Americans, and the Japanese invaders.
@joviejanea7977
@joviejanea7977 Год назад
True. The Philippines maybe considered a poor country. But we have the human decency to be kind, respectful and considerate. We have a genuine faith in God. Which I think is lacking in Western countries
@acw2237
@acw2237 Год назад
@joviejanea7977 genuine? Yes, those god loving mistress keepers and mistresses.. 😆 fake beliefs
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Appreciate all of your thoughts
@titodongplaylist2076
@titodongplaylist2076 Год назад
John, I would add more of what you say about Respect? Here in the Philippines, you can't hear small children calling to older people by their names but we address that with Kuya, Ate, Nanay, Tatay, Lolo, or Lola...Not like in Western countries where even the small kid only calls your names even if you're very old enough..Hehehe...
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
True Tito, thank you for sharing more.
@myendlesslove5120
@myendlesslove5120 Год назад
Tumpak. Ang nakakatawa pg ang bata sumagot ng walang paggalang sasabihan, wala kayong asin sa bahay niyo😂
@loretasevilla9233
@loretasevilla9233 Год назад
At ang tingin ng nakakatanda sa iyo,Lord para ka ng lulubog sa kinatatayuan mo
@myendlesslove5120
@myendlesslove5120 Год назад
But here in Ifugao, yung tribong Ifugao, mga bata di din sil ng aaddress ng uncle, auntie kuya or ate, lolo lola, sasagot sila pg tinanong mo, makikipag usap sila but without address kaya mga elders nlng nag aadjust tuturuan nalang sila.
@titodongplaylist2076
@titodongplaylist2076 Год назад
May kumpare akong taga Ifugao hindi naman ganon ang pagka kwento n'ya sa akin...Actually may tawag nga s'ya sa ate n'ya di ko na lang matandaan..Sabi nga n'ya nong nasa Tesda pa kami bilang mga testing officer, na natatawa s'ya sa salita nila kasi para daw silang mga ibon may halo din daw na Ilokano pero konti lang...Hehe...
@manuelbaldava1401
@manuelbaldava1401 Год назад
Such a heart warming opinion for us Filipino's, thanks!! The virtue of RESPECT is instill in us Filipinos as we opened our eyes to the world. Thanks for highlighting one of our common traits, I never knew it gives a big impact to foreigners.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Thank you Manuel!
@loretasevilla9233
@loretasevilla9233 Год назад
Yes....thank you and God bless you
@Aqualastic
@Aqualastic Год назад
Those things that you said, are sadly the things a lot of Filipino kids nowadays are trying to get rid of from their DNA as a consequence of bad influence from social media or radical groups. Some even sees it as a sign of weakness or intimidation, so to shake off the stereotype, they show no respect. However, finding the right balance between politeness, respect and assertiveness is what parents should teach to their children.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
It is sad anyone would want to get rid of these things, but you mention a great balance.
@lonniejohnsoniii
@lonniejohnsoniii Год назад
Agree 100% !! I can't wait to get back to Cebu... The respectful polite culture and people are my #1 reason !!
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Hurry back! 😊
@madonnahernandez483
@madonnahernandez483 Год назад
Youre so right down to it sir. Also a prominent pastor who used to live in the Phils.said that the real talent of Filipinos is not singing. Aside from resilience they are very hardworking people. Family is second God being first too.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Thank you for sharing!
@junlab2612
@junlab2612 Год назад
phil teaches kindergarten, elementary and highschool first hour morning subject everyday is GMRC.. (Good Manners and Right Conduct) 😊
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Amazing 😊👍👏
@jztv19
@jztv19 Год назад
I love that GMRC isa back! ❤
@loretasevilla9233
@loretasevilla9233 Год назад
Yes thats true ,hahaha
@tvnatinto
@tvnatinto 11 месяцев назад
thank you, Lord Jesus
@RedBaron-kg3wk
@RedBaron-kg3wk Год назад
I remember My Mom ( bless her soul ) upon arriving from America for our younger Sister's wedding, embracing my young daughters tightly and said.. " ohh how l Miss you all !!.. I DON'T WANT YOU TO EVER GROW UP IN AMERICA!! ".. THIS was during the 1980's.. One can imagine what America now is 😮😢
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 7 месяцев назад
Your mother was wise. I can really understand her feeling.
@lifeover40withangie
@lifeover40withangie Год назад
what i missed about my country that dont have here in japan is that in the philippines, neighbors are like your family❤ when you see each other outside you greet each other, you talk a lot, you laugh a lot , we help each other a lot, and for some reason you know them on personal level, while here in japan we are living in the same house for 10years and know nothing about our neighbors aside from their face😅 we dont even know their names. just family names because its in their gate.
@marilynmoriones5056
@marilynmoriones5056 Год назад
Korek ka nagbibigayan ng ulam sa kapitbahay pag may nangyayari ayon to the rescue ang kapit bahay
@lifeover40withangie
@lifeover40withangie Год назад
@@marilynmoriones5056 diba. nakakamiss yun. kahit na sabihin mong nagkakaroon ng away kung minsan eventually magbabati rin. parang magkakapatid na lalo na kung natagal na kayong magkakapitbahay.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Maganda talaga kung paano nagtutulungan ang mga kapitbahay sa Pilipinas.
@shun0825
@shun0825 Год назад
what you said was one of the reasons why a Japanese like mana has move to the Philippines
@mfa525
@mfa525 11 месяцев назад
Your kapitbahay are also mga chismosa. 😂
@1966bluemax
@1966bluemax Год назад
The biggest issue is individualism, which is euphemism for selfishness.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Yes, I hear you on that
@shawn2380
@shawn2380 3 месяца назад
Nailed it!
@jmm3688
@jmm3688 Год назад
I lived in a few countries, Philippines is definitely the place I love living in the best. For me , people ( culture) makes a place. The people are great here!!
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Well said! I agree completely
@gregdixon5848
@gregdixon5848 Год назад
I love this video. Thank you John. RESPECT, its what everyone should give and crave.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Really appreciate that Greg. Thank you for your encouragement.
@beng0327
@beng0327 Год назад
Humility, respect for elders, and self-respect plus the social ramification of acting stupid in public are the reasons Filipinos treat others with kindness and compassion. Add to that our religious upbringing, where parents actually follow what they preach to their children. And so, there's this ever-present feeling, even as adults, that we do not want our family to be embarrassed of how we behaved with others. Family reputation is so valued, and family pride is a shared responsibility. At sixty, I still think when I'm tempted to cuss others when they are being rude to me -- "oh my God, my parents will be so ashamed of me if they learn I did about what I'm about to do." Or, "my siblings will disown me."
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 7 месяцев назад
That's a wonderful positive influence for good in your life.
@beng0327
@beng0327 7 месяцев назад
@@WatchCaliforniaExpat: it starts with family culture. If you are generous and tender with your family, you bring the same attitude to others, including to foreigners.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 7 месяцев назад
​@@beng0327Thank you for sharing
@ErinOBrien2000
@ErinOBrien2000 Год назад
Great content John. Thank you. Another interesting factor with the US is the prevalence and style of divorce and how much it tears families apart. I think if you look at that factor it has a lot to do with the deterioration of the American family unit since roughly half American marriages go through this.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Yes been there
@ayietan8223
@ayietan8223 Год назад
Sadly, now Divorce is already on the 1st reading here in the Senate. The evils of the Western world had trickled down to us.
@soulmistress1980
@soulmistress1980 Год назад
What you said about the US about having more to offer, consumerism at its finest and unfortunately, that's also the root of the unhappiness and anxiety. So many choices, so many things you need to get or own or achieve..in PH, it is all about valuingvwhat's more important and going back to the basics - this is also the reason why we are resilient and welcoming and happier in spite of all the limitations. People strive here to have a comfortable life - not necessarily to be rich or be millionaires. You can ask Filipinos what they want to own..they'd tell you house, business, etc..anything connected to family but I doubt hardworking Filipinos have signature handbags or sports car as their top goals - almost everyone like something that can also make their family and friends happy or share/benefit from that success. The difference, I think, is more on the values. In PH we are more family oriented values vs individualistic values in the US. That is why it is ingrained to Filipinos to be respectful - the way we treat our elders, the way we treat our friends, customers, guests..it all roots fron that affinity to being family oriented - valuing the sense of belonging, embracing and making one a part of that family/society - until you prove that you dont deserve it. That' s where the respect roots from because otherwise, we wont care. However, it isn't always perfect and this has some toxic effects too..but nonetheless, I think that sense of valuing connections and compassion makes it easier for us to be happy in spite of the things we lack because at the end of the day, when you think of it..which is more priceless and can make you happier? Your relationships/connections/family or your mansion, your status, etc? I think we can pretty much can find the answer to that in our societies.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Thank you for sharing
@MJFUYT
@MJFUYT Год назад
I really enjoy your videos. I think the Philippines is so connected to faith. It's very refreshing. Thx for sharing this.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Thank you for your support
@lucyacac5903
@lucyacac5903 Год назад
Thank you very much and Godbless you🙏
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Thank you Lucy. God bless you too
@Uwel-n1w
@Uwel-n1w Год назад
The most obvious is RESPECT to each other especially for seniors.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Yes for sure
@kevinbuckley4507
@kevinbuckley4507 Год назад
Yeah I am from California to and I cant wait to get back to the Philippines Yeah sure we have a lot to offer here But all of the crime and too many shootings The philippines reminds me of what the US use to be back in the 50s People in the Philippines are a lot more friendly then here in California they will say GOOD MORNING back to you Not In calif LOL they just walk right past you like you never said a word
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
I agree completely. I hope the US wakes up and recovers. We can be so much better than this
@dustybluemoon
@dustybluemoon 11 месяцев назад
Life is about living and loving and sharing with people. Without experiencing people, we are no different from a plant. In philippines, that is what we do best, live, love, share
@grimmronin3386
@grimmronin3386 Год назад
Respect, humility and kindness and apply to everything in your life but filipino was so resilient and thats what make us different from other plus the culture of giving,kindness,fun loving etc adds up to the sauce.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 11 месяцев назад
It's a good sauce. Thanks for commenting!
@wisemanlucky630
@wisemanlucky630 10 месяцев назад
Thank you. God bless
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 10 месяцев назад
God bless you too
@sinamartv3276
@sinamartv3276 Год назад
Thta's TRUE. They give you RESPECT outright as a human being.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Yes ☺️👍
@itruck1
@itruck1 Год назад
Wait a minute at the 4:00 mark you said you don't hear anyone raising their voice. Have you ever been around 5 or 6 Filipina women cooking and getting ready for a party. Good grief you can hear them from a mile away 😂😅.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
That made me lol. I stand corrected 😂😂😂
@jztv19
@jztv19 Год назад
Ahahaha 😂
@pemcortes9467
@pemcortes9467 Год назад
We are a noisy people. When we meet, we say hi loudly, laugh loudly, talk loudly. We go to parties and we party loud. Our fiestas are loud. Even our wakes and funerals are loud. Thats when you know there are filipinos in airports and other countries. We are just so happy to be together, see someone familiar, even when we meet for the first time and will soon part.
@tvnatinto
@tvnatinto 11 месяцев назад
that's okay, that means food is coming :D
@meoct-ow7tu
@meoct-ow7tu Год назад
My cousin who is married to an American they used to live in Thailand because of work now they're back in the states but her husband don't feel secure everytime she goes out alone because what's been happening over there
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
It's sad to see
@MakaiIELTS
@MakaiIELTS Год назад
Because why would we disrespect the elders or other people? Being respectful is a basic manner and being rude reflects on the way our parents raised us. Kindness is always better and more convenient than being Karen.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Kindness is better than Karen. Classic 😂
@floyd920
@floyd920 Год назад
Your video has caused me to think a lot about my Filipino wife and me making a visit back home to America in the near future. We were married for 12 years now. I am 77 years old and living here steadily for the last 18 years. My wife is 62 and would like to see what America is like. Respect is something your article brought out. She has a Filipino friend who is inviting us to join her and her husband in California for a visit. My family came from Wisconsin and I would like to fly to Wisconsin while in the US. The Problem is that my brother, Niece, or son can't or won't help us in any way to make our visit pleasant. They show little interest in helping us. After being away for so long, I no longer have a car or a driver's license there. Public transportation in the states is very poor at best. Not like the Philippines. I could just go to California and skip Wisconsin. This would mean that I could die here without having said goodbye to my family there. I can see what you are saying with respect when they have very little in their own families. I am only living off my Social Security income so I have no saved up savings. Is this added expense worth it in the long term?
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
I feel for you. I think your experience is common. Filipinos do everything to help their family, even being OFW or not going to college to provide for younger siblings to be able to. It's really different in the US. You could go to California and invite family to visit you there since you are traveling so far from the Philippines. I know even plane tickets to the US are expensive these days. Where do you guys live here if you don't mind me asking?
@truthtalkinternational
@truthtalkinternational 10 месяцев назад
The US is going to disappoint you Sir. The cultural difference is significant from 18 years ago. Politics and the pandemic have polarized the country. We have a generation of narcissists', superficial and apathetic toward others. The high cost of housing and drug addiction resulting in mental health issues have created mass homelessness in every major city in the country. If family, showing your wife the hometown or visiting your parents gravesite is of sentimental value for you, perhaps a couple of days in Wisconsin may be doable using a modest hotel and Uber (US version of Grab). It's heart wrenching that your own Son won't assist you. Best wishes and safe journey.
@antoniobenamer8681
@antoniobenamer8681 Год назад
I was in line at departure area in NAIA , maybe around 100 people Befoe me waiting for ticketing When a guy pulled me over and Directed me to a station to hasten My ticketing. I was suprised anf Ask him why? Your a senior. . you Dont need to stand that long.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 11 месяцев назад
Love that
@tvnatinto
@tvnatinto 11 месяцев назад
my age also attracts people to direct me to the front of the line. at one queue, between five to ten people spoke with me to do that, a couple of security guards, maybe three of those in the queue with me, they would make a beeline straight toward me because the line was long and they were just worried about me, it's really wonderfully ingrained in the culture, thank You, Lord Jesus
@radagast25a
@radagast25a 11 месяцев назад
For me its the love in the Philippines. I do realize from listening to other channels that I was extremely lucky to find the partner I did. But I absolutely see what you are talking about. He has now been approved by USCIS and I've already been warning him that here (this will sound bizarre to some I think) we have to be more careful. In Cebu and in Carcar and in Sibonga - we could be and were totally ourselves. We held hands in public, we went to Seaside mall with some of his family to buy his engagement ring. His priest even said he would perform our wedding if he were permitted to. His mother hosted a big engagement party to which everyone anywhere near his home came. NO ONE CARED. Here, most would not care, but those who did might very well become violent. I didn't put that down to respect, but to historic culture - but I do realize listening to you, that it is a manifestation of respect. Thank you for opening my eyes to that. To be honest, if we could have gotten married there, and if the medical care on average had been a bit better, we would have stayed there, my retirement and passive income would have given us the best of all lives - but it was not to be, and we want to be married, so he will be here in a few months (we were together there for half a year). I have never been happier, but I do worry about what America might do to him. He is so shy and quiet and gentle (well educated too). Thank you for the channel.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 11 месяцев назад
I'm happy to hear your story. This is how it should be. It is about respect.
@cinemaveritae
@cinemaveritae 11 месяцев назад
In addition to respect for elders (and other people) and obedience to lawful authority, one other trait that I instilled in my 3 children from the time that they were toddlers is COMPASSION, especially for the poor and under-privileged, for the natural environment and for animals. We carried out for 22 straight years an annual sharing caravan every Christmas eve that brought food and other basic necessities to dirt poor homeless folks around Manila. This was the only kind of Christmas Eve activity, not the traditional lavish Noche Buena feasts, that my children grew up with until their 20s for I believed that the only way for them to become compassionate to others is to actually see the squalor, poverty, hunger and homelessness that envelopes many people, many eating out of garbage bins and trash piles. From one sleigh (car), we grew to as many as 20 sleighs at one point with other parents tagging along their kids to be exposed. An Augustinian priest from India who joined one of our runs confessed to me (not the other way around huh?) that while he had seen much poverty in his own country, this was the first time that he came so close to the really destitute ones. We were not the only ones doing this, there were many others we saw doing the same. We'd cap the usually 4-hour caravan before sunrise with an early Christmas day breakfast of hot choco, bibingka and puto bumbong at Aristocrat Restaurant, Roxas Boulevard along Manila Bay.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 10 месяцев назад
I admire your care and can relate. My grandfather took me to Skid Row in Los Angeles when I was young to expose me to true poverty, and I took my kids to feed the homeless and bring presents to kids whose parents couldn't afford to give them Christmas presents to have a sense of how many struggle.
@janicadamiles
@janicadamiles 11 месяцев назад
That's one thing I noticed about the US... small things or misunderstandings will almost always blow up instantly. I believe the Philippines is hotter than the US but the heads of many Americans are hotter 😅
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 11 месяцев назад
Hahaha I know what you mean exactly
@paulabergstrom6802
@paulabergstrom6802 Год назад
Yes sir I agreed with you. I am a Filipino. Most of my life spent in the Philippines but when I get married my husband brought me here in the USA. When I came here I had no problem adjusting, I felt like similar to the culture I grew up back home very welcoming but after 10 years in here I noticed the changes. There are more don’t care kind of people which I am sad. In my own opinion I think the respect is still there but they don’t want to show it because of lack of love for each other. As a Filipino people we believe that love is the most important thing because of love you cares ❤
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
I understand it's changed in the US especially last 5 years. I'm hoping it will change back. I think you'll find things have changed in the Philippines especially post pandemic in ways that are challenging. But still a great place to live.
@paulabergstrom6802
@paulabergstrom6802 Год назад
Actually I am from Bohol, I come visit once a year, bought a new house in panglao! And I like it there.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
@@paulabergstrom6802 That's a beautiful place go live in Bohol 😊🏖
@deleonrikkie
@deleonrikkie Год назад
This "respect" comes from the Filipino people's humility. More Pride means more "disrespect" : of parents, of teachers, of elders, of people in authority, of people who disagree with one's ideas. Pride is the #1 root of all conflict: between individuals, between groups of people, even between entire races, nations, and religions. Greed is only #2.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 7 месяцев назад
Appreciate your thoughts. Selfishness does so much harm too.
@yivelihumekaa9523
@yivelihumekaa9523 Год назад
In spite of the Philippines' hot humid temperature, Filipinos are still patient, always smiling 😄😁. The barometer Filipinos' patience is so high.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Haha yes that is very true.
@gohan3243
@gohan3243 Год назад
Despite
@amyvs8838
@amyvs8838 11 месяцев назад
Thank you for appreciating our culture. 😊♥
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 11 месяцев назад
My pleasure. Thank you for allowing me to be a guest in your country
@elainedeguzman6818
@elainedeguzman6818 Год назад
I can proudly say that paying respect is a major rule every Filipino parents sets to their child because in that way parents were not afraid that their child will not get harm when their not around or when they were outside our home basic recpect and kindness is something that thought inside every Filipino home and also caring to each other is one also...
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
It is something to be proud of. Thank you for watching and commenting
@larry1541
@larry1541 Год назад
People that are sensitive need to grow thick skin when someone disrespects them; stand your ground respectfully that usually diffuses the situation and make the conversation transactional.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
It's a tiring way to live but that's not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about living in a culture where having a thick skin with these things isn't necessary to begin with. Something is broken if it's needed
@xhereel6516
@xhereel6516 Год назад
OH GOD BLESS YOU❣️
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Thank you God bless you too 😊
@rolmags100
@rolmags100 Год назад
Are you still leavin in 90s you still see Philippines that way wow 2023 our hospitals have modern technology all ready
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
They do, and as I mentioned there's a lot of great doctors and nurses here. Though most hospitals don't have comparable technology compared to US hospitals. I'm not saying that to be rude, but I believe it's true.
@christmasparedes3132
@christmasparedes3132 Год назад
Thank you for appreciating our country and culture, Sir. I wish you more success. God bless you.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
So nice of you. Thank you
@janetceniza8091
@janetceniza8091 Год назад
husband speaking age 80 - John, my Filipino wife and I are starting our 47th year of marriage. We were pen pals for 5 1/2 years, this being in the early 70's. My first trip to Cebu was 1979 with a new wife. So much has changed since that first visit. Friendly, kind and very helpful as well as respect for anyone older than you are. My wife is of the Ceniza Clan, she was a teacher in Mandaue ( until I gave her early retirement ) We currently have a home on Mactan Island, Vistamar Resort where currently we spend 5 months a year. We still have a home in Everett, Wash. ( 30 miles North of Seattle ) Heading back this Nov. 15th. 2023.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Wow, congratulations on 47 years together. Thank you for telling me more of your story. I would love to interview you and/or your wife if you were willing.
@janetceniza8091
@janetceniza8091 Год назад
Where are you located in the PH?@@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
@@janetceniza8091 I'm in Davao City currently for business but typically live in Cebu City. You guys are in Mactan Island I believe from previous comment?
@janetceniza8091
@janetceniza8091 Год назад
Yes - we are on Mactan Island, Vistamar Resort , just up the side road from Mactan New Town. We will be there the middle of Nov. thru the end of March 2024.@@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
@@janetceniza8091 Nice area, hope to meet you guys when you are here.
@gregoriopuro
@gregoriopuro 10 месяцев назад
Yes . The US has 100X of everything... But after living in Latin America and the Philippines the past 20 years, all I got to say is who needs all that shit.. too many unnecessary choices, at the end of the day most material things in life are pretty much the same.. minimalism is liberating
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 10 месяцев назад
You speak 100% for me too. Minimalism is liberating, being around people whose first priorities aren't material, where kindness and respect is the norm is healing
@kittyschnauzer7304
@kittyschnauzer7304 Год назад
What I watched from the movies of US and Philippines..simply like this: Philippines:..Mom ,Dad stay with us ,,we will take good care of both of you when you aged ..😊 US:..I'm 18 we are going out of here ...find a job. Mom ,Dad We can't take care of you...we will take you to the home of the aged😢
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 11 месяцев назад
Sadly often true
@kcinplatinumgaming2598
@kcinplatinumgaming2598 10 месяцев назад
Im an expat from UK ...moved to Philippines after marriage in 2018 and been here ever since, there is a certain love and respect you feel for this country and culture... unlike where I was from where I would usually not feel safe just going to a shop at night because of the hoodie culture in UK, in PH everyone is your tita tito , lolo or even lola even if you only met them once .. they always give you respect you dont find elsewhere ... it can be exspensive in PH compared to other countries but you learn to adapt... good video ... My life is a lot better here but there is also the requirement to take your spouse to cexperience where you come from ... in my case ... one day i do dread lol but ill take her ..
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 10 месяцев назад
I appreciate you watching and sharing. I understand the dreading part haha. Sounds like we are both very content here in the Philippines
@lalamode91
@lalamode91 Год назад
Thank you so much for the kind words for us Filipinos,our culture,and Country.. You're welcome here in Philippines Sir😊🙏.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Thank you! 😃
@MazingerZ3001
@MazingerZ3001 Год назад
I’m a Filipino currently living in the US, your initial comparison imho is akin to apples and oranges. Remember that the Philippines is a developing country so in terms of the amenities, conveniences, efficiencies in several sectors will not be on par with a developed country in the West like the US for example. So foreigners, esp from developed countries, who come to my country shouldn’t really expect the same level of economic and social services they have in their own countries. Sure there are pockets of seeming economic prosperity and conveniences in urban areas like BGC or Makati or Davao City or Cebu City but there are still more places that are in a state of poverty and in need of economic advancements and social services. But I agree with your thoughts on Filipino respect. In general, we are a respectful people and we are non confrontational. But let me share my opinion as to why we have this trait. It all boils down to family values and religious beliefs. That respect comes from valuing the teachings of our parents. After God, family is the most important foundation of every Filipino’s life. It’s what makes us respectful and resilient. Of course, there are also dysfunctional Filipino families but you’ll find that no matter how dysfunctional a family is, when it comes to tribulations i.e. financial loss, illness, death, they come together as a family, to help out or pay their respects. It may sound cliché, but for most Filipinos, blood remains thicker than water, not necessarily out of loyalty but more about respecting our roots. And as a Filipino living here in the US for a long time, these strong family ties and filial bonds are the stark differences I see and experience. I remember having quite a culture shock when I first got here and at learning one co worker friend hasn’t talked to his brother for more than a decade and I asked if they had a fight and he said no, it’s just that they live different lives and don’t pry into each other’s affairs. And that’s okay, he added. As the eldest brother in my family, I couldn’t imagine not talking to all my siblings for that long and not respectfully pry into their lives. Lol. But kidding aside, I also value and respect American individualism and independence. And I think Filipinos can learn a lot and be more confident from having a bit of these traits without sacrificing our family ties. Lastly, I think materialism plays quite a role in why Americans tend to be disrespectful of each other as well as the recent divisive political climate. That’s unfortunately getting worse. This is why I’m making plans to go back to the Philippines for good. Anyway, I’m sorry if my comment is quite long. Your video and views encouraged me to share my opinion about your topic. Thank you for sharing your insights about my country.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Thank you for your insightful thoughts about your culture and mine. I appreciate you taking the time to share.
@jeromebuenoval7476
@jeromebuenoval7476 Год назад
We go further than to say Yes Ma'm/Sir by uttering from the bottom of our hearts, from the young and to the adults, elders (eg. followed by KUYA or ATE), co-employees to employers, neighbors, strangers, first acquaintances, regardless of tacit authorities, positions or ranks observed, color or race, perhaps we are colonially subservient or odedient to tradition, we always say more to answer an inquiry or question with utmost respect, we say Yes "po", Ma'm/Sir _____ (name of the person shown respect) or "Opo" Kuya/Ate_____ (double politeness expressed) Automatically followed by Salamat po ng marami! Sir John with emphasis on the "very much" for being grateful, the follow through of politeness with matching island smile, a tap, a shake of hand or a warm hug
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 11 месяцев назад
Marami salamat Sir Jerome! Appreciate you sharing more and I appreciate your culture.
@zenaidarubiano5209
@zenaidarubiano5209 Год назад
We Filipinos are thought from early age to respect and love the elderly, so when we reach their age we will be respected too..
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Good insurance plan 😊
@wavemaker2077
@wavemaker2077 Год назад
taught.
@loretasevilla9233
@loretasevilla9233 Год назад
Kung ano nakikita ng bata yun ang gagawin pagtanda,right?
@shaimashirleysapico2168
@shaimashirleysapico2168 Год назад
Thank you John. I truly appreciate the good words. I live abroad for 40 years now but Philippines is where my heart is. Soon I will go back home and live the simple life. More power to you and your family. God bless😊
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
You are very welcome. I'm sure you will be happy to come back home.
@EnochBrown-s5j
@EnochBrown-s5j 10 месяцев назад
RESPECT
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 10 месяцев назад
Yes!
@Goodman849
@Goodman849 Год назад
Also a lack of respect in the netherlands from my experience. The us sounds like the Netherlands in that respect. Currently in boracay left manila yesterday. The Philippines is simalar to my birth country that people do respect each other on the isle of man
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
I think a lot of western countries are suffering from the same problem. How did you like Manila and Boracay?
@Goodman849
@Goodman849 Год назад
@@WatchCaliforniaExpat I agree the west has major social spiritual and economic problems resource problems. People are atomised in the west. Addicted to short term relationships and consumerism. Short term share payments and short term governments. Woke madness. Climate vanity. Philiponos are still making babies! No demographic collapse here. my bais is toward the provinces as I'm a hill billy. Less traffic and pollution. Slower pace. Iloilo is ok not as intense as cebu or manila. Not a fan of pollution and intense traffic. Broacay is laid back super friendly clean and beautiful. I like Philippines it's none confrontational laid-backck reserved. When the world gets rid of oil and gas Philippines will be heaven on earth ✌️ Filipinos love tootin their horns😅
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
@@Goodman849 Great response. Thank you for sharing 😊
@francisgracejimenez
@francisgracejimenez Год назад
One peculiar thing about Phils is the "marites ' character.Its about our quite nosy neighbor,workmate or even a relative.A marites can be very toxic but it also has its advantages as they act as CCTV..in the neighborhood so if bad things happen like burgary or something ..you don't have to worry coz our marites neighbors will always be there to the rescue.Theyre also news gatherers and. Reporters so I guess aside from tv and social media..it's the cheaper ways to get information 😂😂😂
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
This made me laugh! That makes a lot of sense thank you for sharing
@francisgracejimenez
@francisgracejimenez Год назад
@@WatchCaliforniaExpat yeah😂
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
@@francisgracejimenez 😁
@pemcortes9467
@pemcortes9467 Год назад
Well its true. Its the reason why the ISIS bomber got caught in the Philippines, the neighbor was suspicious of the activities and told the police. Our police relies on them.Tolits too.
@mochamuch8057
@mochamuch8057 Год назад
wish the video was a bit longer but nevertheless i enjoyed it
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
That's my favorite complaint ever about a video hehe 😁👍
@norlymagbanua8817
@norlymagbanua8817 Год назад
Convenience comes with money..Most people in highly urbanized cities are getting like robots, living for money payimg bills and forgetting they are human. People only taking care of themselves.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Yes its true, there's little interdependance.
@northernbohemianrealist
@northernbohemianrealist Год назад
I'll be in Chicago tomorrow, where this is still true. Twin cities, too. Milwaukee not so much. Calling people by their first names kept in about ten years ago, and I find that grating.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Hoping the US gets back to how it was with these things.
@helennacua5495
@helennacua5495 11 месяцев назад
It is not only the act of respect (that of bringing one of your hand to th forehead). It is predominant in Tagalog speaking Filipinos to end their sentence with the word "po" which signifies respect particularly parents, to those older and or to people in authority.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 11 месяцев назад
Yes, it's very meaningful. In Davao City where I am currently, I'm interested to see po is used too even if most people speak Bisaya.
@JMgmkh
@JMgmkh Год назад
The roads "a BIT better".......you're funny John😂
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
You know I'm working on my comedy tour 🤣
@NeilBaker722
@NeilBaker722 Год назад
Difficult to understand why a single man with a pension would remain in California.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Except for the great Mexican food, I can't think of a single reason lol
@NeilBaker722
@NeilBaker722 Год назад
Mexican food restaurant. Maybe a good business idea. @@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@patrickshepherd4664
@patrickshepherd4664 Год назад
Two thumbs 👍👍 up that's my #1 pet pet anywhere respect
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
I'm with you
@maalat
@maalat 7 месяцев назад
FilipinonAmerican here, naturalized citizen in the US. If we can just transfer the American standards when it comes to infrastructures like garbage collection, access to good water, monitoring of air pollution, freeways, cemented and wider streets, consistent sidewalks, health services especially for Medicare people, etc. Access to public transport, trains, buses, etc. ❤️ that about the U. S. Overall, Americans are friendly on a level that’s comfortable. Corruption among public elected officials, officers, workers, contractors, subcontractors is deep in the Philippines. For example, a road is newly built, but next, week, it’s pulverized. The budget for that project has already be stolen. That’s all I can say… told to me by a relative. That’s why the Philippines people need more courage to expose this… minimize stealing, and effectively discipline those who steal from the government. There are young elected politicians that are honest. Hats off to them. The Filipinos need more of them. 😊
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 6 месяцев назад
Thank you for sharing your thoughts
@HumbleTravels
@HumbleTravels Год назад
Reverse "But" Keeping it 100, I hate the phony stock video footage, really detracts more than it adds....BUT I enjoyed listening to your perspective. You have a nice friendly upbeat demeanor. (Music is bad too...like something from an educational, corporate training or insurance video, ugh)
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 11 месяцев назад
Appreciate your feedback
@jedongbaguio8845
@jedongbaguio8845 Год назад
The U.S. runs on a different philosophy than the PH... PH are family and community oriented... trust me, this is both a good thing and a bad thing (guilt-tripping and forced conformity anyone?)... The US runs on the individualism, but this might shock people, but that's not a bad thing (you are more free to express as an individual and find your own path rather than being told what to do by your parents or elders), but it's also all not good (sense of loss in community and family belongingness)... If you find a good balance between these two factors, IMO you'll be fine... Unfortunately, some people have pushed the "individualism" to the extreme that they are now isolated. For adults, with good mental training, this doable... but i dont think children should grow up in such an environment...as a result, it's more common to find dysfunctional people growing up here in the US... The same could be said in the PH if you push the extreme of family or community oriented - you will lose your sense of self, and you will feel as if you are a slave to opinion or directions of the family or community... IMO, find a good balance between the two...
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 11 месяцев назад
I agree with you completely--balance between the two is the best way to go.
@heavymetalinmygenes
@heavymetalinmygenes Год назад
Living in the US and working in a hospital, for me healthcare is better in the Philippines compared to US. A patient will not be stifled by insurance coverage/policy. There will be no gap in providing services as long as a person has a means of paying. Best institutions are of course within city limits so lower your expectations if you live in provinces. But technology is not far behind compared to America’s. Cost is definitely lower even in Metro Manila’s big name hospitals.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 11 месяцев назад
Hospitals in the Philippines will let people die on the hospital steps if they don't have money to pay a lot up front at times though, so there is definitely problems here too
@noemichanviloria6572
@noemichanviloria6572 Год назад
True respectfulness is not well observed in US especially to young generation including FilAm children. Don’t use the word “po”. When invited to houses they don’t acknowledge the host but they do it on the pets. It’s all on the parents training I say.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 11 месяцев назад
Culture makes a big impact for better or worse
@joekahno
@joekahno Год назад
The country is changing both rapidly and drastically by social science standards but it will probably remain livable for what remains of my life. What you need to understand is how it got the way it is. Like most poor countries, your primary safety net is friends and extended family. As such, much of your behavior is governed by the principle that, "the toes you step on today may be attached to the butt you have to kiss tomorrow." Housing is expensive in terms of local wages so it isn't unusual to have three generations living under one roof. Any job worth having gets filled long before there is a need to advertise so you need good social connections to get the job in the first place and if your coworkers don't like you you're not going to hold it very long. It adds up to a country full of people who are quick to smile, slow to anger and willing to bend over backwards for anyone who will try to meet them half way. The down side is foreigners don't really have a defined place in that social structure. You have to build it on a case by case basis and if you botch things so bad the situation turns violent you better get on the next plane going anywhere.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 7 месяцев назад
I appreciate your thoughtful comment. By the way, my name is also Joe Kahno :)
@dmen6810
@dmen6810 Год назад
american culture where individual freedom is overemphasized. it creates a culture where an individuals rights trumps another persons individual rights... its social culture its ohana heheheh nobody gets left behind...kidding aside...social responisbility, social freedom, social accountability...but not socialism....we have what we call a cooerative and the so called bayanihan system these two concepts that exist in the filipino culture can help explain part of what the culture is. its not exclusive but mostly and often ingrained
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 7 месяцев назад
Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
@simonkendall4824
@simonkendall4824 Год назад
Your one of my fav Phils vlogger because of having the experience of living in Australia plus your got a great vibe and attitude
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Really appreciate that Simon. Appreciate your encouragement and support.
@s.t.santos5928
@s.t.santos5928 9 месяцев назад
Empathy is huge among us, Filipinos, too. Maybe it's an extension or another form of respect. Whatever, it's a very rare trait that I hope stays with us forever.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 9 месяцев назад
I hope it does too
@dans78
@dans78 Год назад
As from western europe, can agree. The biggest assets in Philippines is the people
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Absolutely. Thank you for watching.
@lyndonfring6421
@lyndonfring6421 11 месяцев назад
Here in the Philippines our sons and daughters do not have to leave the nest until they want to. And when they do, we make sure that they are strong enough to make it on their own no matter if they are 18, 30 or whatever... and they are welcome to come home anytime. Having been given this care by our parents we in turn see to it that we are there for them in their sunset years. This is so in most of Asia.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 11 месяцев назад
Yep, quite different cultures in this regard that seems to impact how people also are at work and other areas of life.
@aprilguyguyon107
@aprilguyguyon107 11 месяцев назад
You know why family is everything to pinoys ? We are not afraid to confront each other , past ways of culture is instilled even in changes like religion , criminals are always caught and punished though we're not perfect as some easily commoit suicide , but we never ever had permanent establishmentsb for old elders where they are put at if not one family member can not take care of them or him/her , im the provinces we tend to take care of them until they naturally die no abandonement .
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 10 месяцев назад
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and watching!
@franzdelrio6891
@franzdelrio6891 11 месяцев назад
Asian culture plays a great difference in the PH, Korea, Japan where you find respect is a dominant trait for the elderly you rarely find in the west. Respect start in the family tradition and handed down through generation a person carry with it wherever he go.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 10 месяцев назад
Very true. Appreciate you watching
@markashworth1705
@markashworth1705 Год назад
🙂👍👍
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 11 месяцев назад
Thank you!
@rogeliobuce8855
@rogeliobuce8855 Год назад
Dapat ang gawin ng AMERICA ay,,, maglagay Ang AMERICA ng maraming battle ship dyan sa west Philippine sea,,,pag yan ay ginawa ng America ay magPAPasalamat ako sa AMERICA,,,,
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Yes America needs to help more. We donated two new ships yesterday to the Philippines 🛳
@arielramos785
@arielramos785 Год назад
Thanks a lot on your evaluation about the Philippines. May your thoughts open the eyes of others.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Thank you too!
@wayne8939
@wayne8939 11 месяцев назад
You also have outrages prices you cannot afford anything in the us I live very well in the Philippines with money left over
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 11 месяцев назад
Yes its true
@ocence-v6i
@ocence-v6i 9 месяцев назад
This is refreshing.. such enlightenment to everybody. God blese you sir.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 9 месяцев назад
So nice of you
@josecorazon.bautista
@josecorazon.bautista Год назад
Filipinos have the ability to live simple life perhaps owing to admission of dignity, but they can be merciful, despite that, and stay focus.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
I understand, thank you!
@LawrenceWeber-z5o
@LawrenceWeber-z5o Год назад
All true but like in the USA and many other countries these values are on the decline especially in the major metropolitan areas.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 11 месяцев назад
Sad but true
@jeraldine_JhieOicer
@jeraldine_JhieOicer Год назад
Thank you for the nice remarks about Filipinos and our culture 🙂👌💜
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
Thank you Jhie! My pleasure.
@daniii_1018
@daniii_1018 Год назад
Thank you so much for this🥰🥰🥰Much love from the Philippines❤️🇵🇭
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
You are so welcome!
@genejordan9983
@genejordan9983 Год назад
Seems every expat that is replying feels the same. I’ve lived here a year and a half. Hard to find one word to describe the difference. Respect fits the best. The one word for the US is entitled. Everyone thinks they are entitled just because. Not here. Sure you have levels of income but respect is even. Kind of reminds me of America in the late 50s and early 60s. I wouldn’t trade this life I have now.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 7 месяцев назад
I'm with you on both words. Appreciate your support!
@stephenatherton1623
@stephenatherton1623 Год назад
So ! Wherever you come from , if your heart is in the Philippines , then home is where the Heart is . If you are of the age that you feel comfy around the City , don’t bother with the provinces . Hospitals in Manila , Cebu , and I guess Davao , are modern . No problems . Banking and nightlife are great . They speak English wherever you go , with only a few small exceptions where older people can’t . I am waiting to return as I write , can’t wait to get out of the UK .
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat Год назад
I really understand that and hope you can make it here soon!
@noelbinayas1730
@noelbinayas1730 11 месяцев назад
I think I agree... In general we Pinoys like to make other people comfortable and at ease in our own place. We know we make do with a lot of things that other people especially foreigners may not necessarily be comfortable with... so we try to help them adjust, adapt and blend in easily... that's all!! Yes... Its kindness redounding to respect...
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 11 месяцев назад
Its a very good part of the culture
@otaku1524
@otaku1524 10 месяцев назад
Having visited P.I 5 times when I was in the Navy, then returning to marry my girlfriend in '95, then one final time when I had to return for her funeral (was waiting for her visa to be approved when she died), every Filipino I met was kind and respectful. They don't yell or cuss or anything like an American would. Great folks. I would like to go back there again some day, perhaps to retire. Going to look into it.
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 10 месяцев назад
yes, that's how I feel here. Hope you have the opportunity to come back
@otaku1524
@otaku1524 10 месяцев назад
Filipinos are great people. Would like to emigrate. I am cash-challenged for now, but things will break loose someday. Just in the last 30 days, I am thinking more and more about Phlllipines and Filipinas, . After years of well, nothing, all my plans cratering, I went thru several dark nights of the Soul, it just seem like things are pointing me back here for some odd reason. We'll see what happens.
@estercalwitan5074
@estercalwitan5074 Год назад
Thank you for your video Sir. It is always our prayer that we Filipinos continue to uphold the Word of God. It is our declaration from generation to generation because I believe that the love of God will bind every family and it is manifested in our community, church, neighborhood, schools and as a nation. Today, it is a big challenge to live like Christ but it is always our choice to do so.. Basically if God is absent in the family, chaos is expected. May the good Filipino traits, character and attitude continue to impact people wherever each one goes local or abroad. God bless everyone.
@tvnatinto
@tvnatinto 11 месяцев назад
yes in the days of my grandparents, their generation would speak a blessing to all the children, pagpalain ka nawa ng Panginoon
@WatchCaliforniaExpat
@WatchCaliforniaExpat 7 месяцев назад
Thank you for your support!
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