The Only 3 Ways to Meet The One God Has For You 

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Dear future husband, I'm patiently waiting for you.. Someday we will meet in God's perfect timing. Take good care of yourself!

Trust me on this guys. Marriage is a wonderful gift from God and is a beautiful thing. BUT, a lot of marriages are bad and totally disappointment and even pure torment. I have been married 2 times and divorced 2 times. I have spent several years alone when I wanted a wife so bad. The best thing is to be content in the situation you are in . Wait on God. Pray about it and be nice to people Do NOT even DATE a non Christian . Don't do it! It is a HUGE mistake if you are a believer and you date and or marry and unbeliever. Do not have sex before marriage. Its a sin and it brings heartache. I know because I did it. Being married will not make you happy. Only the Lord can give you peace.

I'm 23, 2 days ago the one girl I thought God had sent me, broke up with me. She did it over the phone but it kinda felt like she just stabbed me in the chest. After she hung up, I went to my room, closed the door and asked God why this happened. Soon after I felt a soft sudden shift of emotion in my heart. It was a feeling of reassurance; I knew I had to stop trying and let God take control. I realized that he has everything planned. So now I've moved on, I go to work everyday and just continue living the life God wants me to live. But I have peace in my heart knowing that somewhere out there is a girl that God made just for me! And I sure can't wait to meet her! 😊

Our God is a matchmaker and just pray will lead you to meet your soulmate.

I can assure you that if Gods wants two people to be together HE will make it happen. I can completely testify to this.

All I know is, I'm 22 and have never dated anyone or even kissed anyone and it breaks my heart when people ask me who I'm dating or where my girlfriend is at. I really and truly cannot wait to meet the woman God has for me because this long-awaited relationship is going to be that much more special! If anyone out there feels like they aren't having any luck, just hang in there. God will reveal him/her at the perfect moment. No timing is more perfect than God's timing!

*Trust the Lord with all thine heart and lean not to your own understanding* *Enough said!*

I believe Gods timing is perfect.

Reflection: Continue to pray for a future spouse and not lean on your own understanding.

Met my future bride at the gym. Waiting on her now. God is good and has used this season to grow me spiritually and learn to trust Him more. Pray for her, and me. 😉🙏🏻

Serve God with everything you got.. He’ll bring the person when the time is right.. if your more worried about you gettin a spouse than you are about servin God than your heart ain’t right.. #Godstimin #righttimin

I think 🤔 God will bring you your spouse when He thinks your ready. Just like He gave me my job , I just waited and God had someone call me 🤙 and give me an offer . All I did was pray 😏

Dear future wife, I'm 61, never been married, and looking for unconditional love. Don't judge me by bad choices from over 20 years ago. Love me for the the man i am today who walks with the Lord, in the mighty name of Jesus, amen.

God's timing is always perfect. Seek first the kingdom of God!

God knows the desires of our hearts. Marriage isnt for every1 tho. All i want is for God's will to be done in my life. He knows whats best

I’m definitely not going out looking for someone. Because I did it before and now we are separated and working on a divorce. So I suggest that everyone pray before making a decision to date and marry.

Number ☝️ put God first, second put God first and third trust God !!!

Believe it or not. I stopped the dating apps because I was discouraged by hearing the voice of God say NO to each one of them. But the last guy I saw in an app I was using, God confirmed to meet him. I was discouraged but he insisted to meet this guy. So when we met, we had so much Supernatural confirmation that we decided to continue dating. We're crazy about each other. So just let the Holy Spirit lead you.

Once, when one of my uncles heard the family women at the kitchen table discussing what some of the single girls in the family were doing to find a husband, he pointed them to Isaac and Rebekah, and said that when Rebekah found a good husband, it was when she was watering a lot of camels for a weary and very unlikely looking man, in an act of kindness that was without any selfish or ulterior motive. His last word on the subject was "She had to water a lot of camels (find out how many gallons it takes to water one camel and remember that Rebekah had to walk down steps to the water, and carry full large jars on her head or shoulders back up the steps - that particular well had NO hoist system, and Rebekah thoroughly watered EACH camel), when God picked out a good-looking rich man for her. She didn't go looking for him, she was just busy doing what she was supposed to be doing. God sent His Servant out looking for her."

Dear Future Husband, I love you so much and am patiently waiting for you. Until that day, I pray for you, your safety, and your heart to be healthy and happy. In Jesus name, where ever you are, I love you 💕 Amen 🙏🏻

“Behind every great man, there is a greater woman”. That’s who I’m looking for. Someone who can make me a better person, and make me want to do good things for her too. Someone who can comfort me and help me know who to do the same for her. Someone who I can laugh with and open up to. Someone I can be intimate with and touch. Someone who can show me how to do things I’ve never done before. Adventurous. Someone who I can cry with when we express our love together.

I don't believe in luck... All things happen for a reason. God knows the end before the beginning. He knew I'd meet my bf and He knew what I'd change about myself and learn etc. Make mistakes and learn from them to shape me

As someone who has done all of these approaches and had nothing come of it. I sought the Lord during this whole period about it and he ended up saying it wasn’t the season yet, so guys 4th approach the Lord has you working on yourself first until the season is right.

From personal experience: God will “RANDOMLY” bring us/ show us his will for us if we are being obedient to him & loving him. It’s not that complicated. But I don’t think there is a such thing as “random” in God’s eyes... God works “ALL things together for the good of those who love him and are called according to his purpose” Romans 8:28 & He is sovereign over everything & His will will happen in HIS TIMING. If you are taking the “NATURAL APPROACH” you need to make sure you’re checking your heart and your MOTIVES that you are not going to church MAINLY to meet a spouse but going to church out of your love for God! Pray for God to help you be content with Him. He will not give you something that you are going to make an idol out of.

Needed this after struggling recently with singleness. Thank you as always, Mark!

i pray God bless me with a God fearing man.

I just pray GOD will send me a wife that will love him like i love him who will share my beliefs and we can grow and learn together

I found my man of God through the Intentional approach, Yes I tried 1 & 2, but he found me through a Christian online dating group, not through a dating site....We been dating God's way through the entire process. Our joy is that God will get the glory out of this bc we both had faith God brought this together..

I've read several articles that say "You'll find the right person when you're not looking !" or "You'll find the right person when you love being single !" . If you want your groceries, they're not going to deliver themselves to your front door, you have to go to the grocery store . If you want dinner, it's not going to make itself, you have to cook it . If you want a spouse, you have to go looking for one and pull out all the stops . If a woman says "I'm not looking for a husband !", she won't like being married, and I won't take her away from the single life she loves so much . If you don't look for a spouse, you can't ever find one ! I need a woman who wants to get married and who's really seriously looking for a husband !

Yes I'm still single and want a godly relationship...

God always provides one day I’ll meet her! 🙏🏼

Beware, Jezebel hunts in the assembly!

Agree, i believe GOD has prepare someone for me .yes i want to married

You have to be led by the Spirit: when Abraham servant found Rebecca he prayed and was led , Hosea same... If God says go online go but He won't have you dating around and leaving a trail of broken hearts intended or unintended

God I pray for my future husband to come his way to be his future wife

I've tried the natural approach with taking classes at church, volunteering, and the online thing was nothing but fake accounts with people just wanting money. I've been divorced for over 8 years and would love to be married again one day. It's just heartbreaking not making a connection. I pray for my future wife and am continuing to grow myself to be who she can trust and be open with.

This has made my guilt and shame flee in Jesus name by far the best video you have made.. May God and the Holy Spirit continue to teach you what to say and bless your marriage amen!

Yeah I recommend the natural approach....intentional approach just seems like you're not trusting God. To each their own I guess. God bless brother.

Dear father lord, you are control this universe and I never forget that you love me so much! I’m praying for that person who you have prepared for me have started to fix himself and willing to compromises and show his love out as you love us. Praying that I could be the same. In Jesus name I pray, amen!

I appreciate your viewpoint. But, I think it's always important to keep our perspectives in light of God's Word. While I do believe people can take things to the extreme and operate out of fear to not pursue relationships, Proverbs 19:14 says that "Houses and wealth are inherited from parents, but a prudent wife is from the LORD." Believers need to seek God first and everything else will be added. It's sounds cliche because people say it so often yet without really grabbing hold of its truth. It's easy to lose our patience when things are not happening, but I believe that if God has someone for you He will create a way for both to meet. Ephesians 2:10 shows us that we are God's workmanship, therefore He has everything good concerning us planned already.

I hardly ever leave my apartment. I'm a bit of a recluse. Unless the FedX guy or the UPS guy is going to be my future husband. I think it will be impossible for me to meet someone. Never the less with God all things are possible.

There are times I get afraid and pressured because I'm not getting any younger anymore. But I always thought as well that God always has a perfect time for everything. And I know He will give you the best of more than you could wish for. I will pray for that man every single day. Because man will pursue you, he will be willing to change for better... for you.

i disagree with everything. when God decides we are ready He’ll bring Him or Her. we don’t have to do any of these “approaches.” His timing is perfect.

How true as i feel the same way myself. And how beautiful. Whateveer you eat drink or do do all for the glory of God. And this includes seeking a loving christian marriage to glorify God as i agree with you completely. Thank you brother Mark this is so helpful and you speak Gods word beautifully. 💖💖

Great video. Too many Christian singles are relying too much on the random approach! Thanks for sharing

What a bless this channel is. God bless you ✌

We used to have a saying in the military; "'Hope' is not a principle of war." Note that we, as Christians, have a similar statement; "The Lord helps those who help themselves."

I’m feeling like he’s working right now

Thank you so much for this video God bless!😍💓

Sorry, but you are wrong Mark. Think about this: I’ve prayed and looked for job and didn’t got any , I have prayed and went to the doctor and haven’t been cured, I have prayed and searched for a wife and haven’t find it. God has a plan on everything whether we like it or not, whether we understand it or not. Nevertheless, I am without job, kind of Ill, and without a wife, AND I AM HAPPY AND CONTENT because God gives me, in everything he does, the fulfillment I need to live, builds my character and strengthens my faith. He’s got a perfect plan based not on my desires but in His perfect plan making me grow on these virtues. Now I know I could be with a job, perfectly healthy and with a wife beside me, but that not necessarily means I am happy with my life. (Wouldn’t I know..) Psalm 127:1 Unless the Lord builds the house the builders labor in vain. Unless the Lord watches over the city the guards stand watch in vain. Remember marriage is not heaven, it’s a difficult task, it’s just a tough test to believe in God and learn to forgive. Ask around. If you’re looking for a spouse, check your faith, maybe there’s still a void God needs to fill. Maybe you haven’t learned to appreciate what you’ve got, God knows you’ll be the same being married. If He has a spouse for you, he will bring this test of love and faith like any other test he has been bringing.

I love it Biblically consistent in every area of our lives! All glory to God!

For all of us praying for our godly spouse I reccomend you all listen to this song it is like the perfect song, "Prayed for you Matt Stell" hope you guys love it!

This was really informative! Thanks for sharing. I'm a Muslim so I hold similar values & now am more clear-headed on the first steps that can be taken. x

#1 kinda tho. i never hoped for anything and i didnt expect anything coming. one day a guy replied to my insta story. we're both christians and have mutual friends. we started talking and everything went so well its like we fell in love. we fasted for 2 days to see if this is from God. I feel it in my heart that he is the man of my prayers. literally every box was checked. when we started talking, we told eachother what our intentions were. we have a lot in common and agree on a lot of things. cant wait to meet him :)

Great Video! Blessings

Focusing on my relationship with God and serving with Him to help others and grow is the most important. I do hope to have a loving, God-fearing husband someday. . . But, His timing is ALWAYS right. Never too late or too early. As Mr. Interpreter says in the book, "Pilgrim's Progress," "It's sooner than you think, but longer than you wish." And, it would be nice if people would stop asking me if I'm married, or if I have children, or other questions relating to such things. . . I guess being my age it is somehow expected for me to be in a relationship with a gentleman. But, my Heavenly Father knows my heart and my mind needs and hopes and wants. I just need to not loose hope I guess. . .Blessings everyone! =] 1 Samuel 12:24 Ephesians 3:13

I’ve been doing the random approach 😅 good tips 👍🏽 God bless

This is definitely oversimplified. I’ll never do the random approach. I tried the natural approach for years only to get friend zoned by the Godly women I liked. I gave the intentional approach a try for a while via online dating but it turned out to be a joke. I had a few friends try to hook me up but they weren’t great matchmakers. I eventually just felt discouraged and took a step back and focused more on my spiritual walk. I pray for this desire daily and keep my eyes open for who’s out there at church and other Christian activities. However this will have to be God’s provision because nothing I do works. I’m not a geek. I dress nicely and confidently, and I treat women with respect. It’s all about walking by faith. Right now that’s all I have.

Awesome, very practical 😎

Thank you for a nice video blessings

I just want to serve God and live a life He desires me to live. I want to be on fire 🔥 for God. I use to think that having a man in my life is the main thing, but no. Now I know the one I need is Jesus Christ. Jesus now, Jesus tomorrow and Jesus everyday and forever. God will bring my husband when the time comes. I will just be nice and loving to those I come across.

I am still waiting for God to being me that Christian man, I will be waiting for him, God timing is not mine. I will wait.

8:15 I absolutely needed that

Wooooiii bro thanks very much I have learn a lot

Hi Mark. Thanks for the video. Great content. The Bible says Faith without Works is dead. I believe that when a single Christian gets to the place of maturity which has nothing to do with age because some attain maturity at 40yrs while some attain maturity at 25yrs. This also has alot to do with divine purpose and God's timing for that purpose. If they are ready with the right mindset, heart and integrity and pray for a spouse, and position themselves in the right Christian single groups, there is a high chance that they will meet the one God has ordained for them. You have to be the one to meet the one. Thanks.

Trusting God for a God fearing man🙏🙏

Well Said! Great video. :-)

Very informative video on Christian singles! The best I’ve seen in a while. Thank you! You rlly break this down, easily! Thanks a lot 🙏💕💭🙌🏼

Great video!!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

I've been divorced for 19 yrs, raised my kids but working at home for 28 yrs does not favor me in meeting a one good godly man. He'll never find me on the couch but it's fine. Well, I'm not sure what God's will is for me. I want to be in his will always.

Good advice, thanks

This is very good advice. Thanks

Thank you for this, i needed this.

Wow this is really rich! Thank you Mark hopefully I will be able to enroll in your school one day!

It's great to be intentional however your opinion puts more pressure and focus on the individual and not on God. Praying for a good spouse and following the leading of the Holy Spirit cannot be said to be the least successful approach when God assured us in His Word that when we pray, we know He hears and will answer. Faith and preparation are key in my opinion and not necessarily on the approach because I've heard lots of testimonies even in church where a man or woman met their spouses while running daily errands like shopping at the grocery store for example. I believe God is the master of time, arrangement and serendipity. He is the master matchmaker. So your teaching is a bit misaligned with the word of God and based more on worldly perspectives. I'd say to those who would jump to No. 3 without prayer - prayer is the foundation of it all. Better pray before you step out.

In everything we prayed let God be God to our prayer..

Praise the Lord ! Amen.

Praise God.... Amen.... Hallelujah

Thanks alot mark.. this has been a very great insight to try out.. you're a true leader in relationship matters

Interesting topic ✨💜✨❤️✨💜✨❤️

thanks mark, like this one video.. really did.

such a great video! you gave a clear description as to how to find the right person. Would definitely like to borrow your description of the three approaches if possible. I have not had anyone yet in my life, but I have known some people who went on a mission trip or a Christian assignment (YoungLife summer staff, where a group of young people work together for 3 or 4 wks at camp and serving among high school campers).

My name is Edna, I like watching your vlog.

I tried the first two approaches and doesn't work for me. I went to the third approach, I'm ended up married and find a good husband with the qualities that I searched. I thank you to explained these approaches. For many years, I believed that the way I meet my husband was wrong.

I have listen 42 sec good to know I am not alone 😇🙏🏻

Great vid

Dear God, I'll try to be patient. Put my heart at ease so I can wait for that special person to come along. Please give me more patience. Bring me someone who knows about You and loves You with all their heart. Let that person be kind, patient, and understanding. You know who is right for me, and I trust that You'll bring someone who will love me like I need to be loved. Please God, make me more patient. Thank you Lord for all you've done in my life. Amen ❤

GOD'S WILL BE DONE --> this is CERTAIN!

Thanks , And God bless you

Have you laid your life in God's hand and is praying for a spouse and if it's God's will for you to marry I dont think you need to go a course or anything like that. Listen to God what his will is and just trust God and he will put you in the right place at the right time. I think stuff like this makes us worried

Wow thank you! This is the best advice about this topic I have ever heard so far 🎉

As an example of the Intentional Approach, I'll leave this here on the off chance something happens. I'm Zack, 29, and looking for the one God has in store for me! I'd love to chat about interests (common or no), our testimonies, hobbies, goals, etc!

I believe that God has reasons for everything that happens in our life concerning our relationship. But I personally believe that God is going to gift me with a God fearing and lovely young man because he already knows the desires of my heart

I certainly do agree with you on that last part....I've been very guilty of thinking that if it doesn't happen completely randomly, then it wouldn't seem like God is ordaining it. I've been recently coming to grips that this is not exactly the case, but it's taken its toll on me in the past. There are so many theories of what to do about this, and I've heard so many different opinions, some people have said....don't look for it, then others say be proactive. It's just extremely confusing for me.

Submit yourself to God and be obedient to God and be faithful to God and be loyal to God. God will bring you and the person He has chosen for you together

I been praying for a relationship with a specific girl from church. I've tried to let it go several times, but my thoughts and prayers always return to her. Wondering if God is letting me know she is the one.

wow. this is inspiring

I think it is different for each person. Every time I try to put feet to my faith, God tells me very clearly to not take things into my own hands. I should not force his hand but have faith in Him and His plan. I even thought I found my earthly love, even for the right reasons, however, God clearly told me she is not the one. I protested, but you guessed, God won. Some may be called to use active methods of dating, there is nothing wrong with online dating if applied in a Biblical way, but follow the leading of the Spirit. I think this is the fine line between random and natural pastor Mark is speaking of. The Spirit will prompt you and lead you to do The Father's will. Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying, "This is the way; walk in it." -Isaiah 30:21

Woah bro i will like to learn more from u