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In this deeply personal video, I open up about a life-changing experience that made me completely rethink my priorities and how I was living. It all started when I found myself lying in the ER, staring at the ceiling, reflecting on my life. At that moment, none of my career milestones, failed investments, or missed opportunities in business crossed my mind. Instead, one thought weighed heavily on my heart: I hadn’t been present for my family, particularly my daughter.
For years, I had been caught up in the hustle of work, constantly striving to achieve success and financial security. I was pushing myself physically, mentally, and emotionally, believing that providing for my family meant working harder and longer. But as I lay there, vulnerable and confronted with the fragility of life, I realized something crucial - I had been missing out on the moments that truly matter.
Running had become a big part of my life over the past six months, and it taught me a lot about discipline, persistence, and the importance of mental and physical health. But more than that, it gave me space to reflect. As I trained for my first marathon, I started to piece together the things that I had pushed aside for so long - the regrets I had buried under my relentless work schedule. And the biggest one? Not spending enough time with my loved ones, especially my daughter.
Looking back, I remember the days when she would crawl up to my office door, tapping to get my attention. Often, I’d send her away, telling her to go play with her mom or the nanny because I was too busy working or preparing for the next big thing. I thought I was doing the right thing by focusing on my career, but in reality, I was sacrificing the most important moments of her childhood.
Now, she’s growing up so fast. She’s in kindergarten, and every time I drop her off at school or watch her play, I’m reminded of how quickly time passes. There are so many moments I missed while I was stuck in the grind, and I can’t get them back. The first words, the first steps, the first time she called me “Dada” - those are memories that I should’ve been more present for, but instead, I let work consume me.
I’ve realized that kids don’t care about the fancy cars, the expensive vacations, or the luxurious houses. All they really want is your time and attention. They want you to be there - to listen, to play, to simply hang out. And that’s what I’m focusing on now. I’m learning, day by day, to prioritize what truly matters.
Balancing work and life is a constant struggle, especially when you’re in a demanding career. But if I’ve learned one thing, it’s that no amount of success is worth the regret of missing out on family moments. I’m still working on finding that balance, but I’m more mindful now. I make time for morning runs, meditation, and spending quality time with my family. It’s a journey, and it’s not perfect, but it’s worth every effort.
In this video, I hope to share this journey with you. Whether you’re a parent, a professional, or just someone trying to navigate the chaos of life, I hope my story resonates with you. We all have regrets, but it’s never too late to make a change. So join me as I reflect on my regrets, learn from them, and strive to be more present for the moments that truly matter.
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19 сен 2024
