The Personalities Of People With Histories Of Trauma

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@l.shalev2851 Год назад

I worked with a Somatic Experiencing Therapist and she told me that everything I was going through fitted into the diagnosis of PTSD: Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder and I needed to not let anyone else call me by other labels. This was very encouraging, so I wouldn't think of myself as crazy.

@nancywutzke5392 3 года назад

So many people get tragically misdiagnosed by uninformed Professionals with Bi-polar or Borderline because of these cycles when in fact they have C-ptsd or Ptsd causing EVEN more trauma. It happened to me. Here's a question for you Dr Aimie: What are they teaching in colleges?? I don't GET IT!

@manywayswellbeing Год назад

See this comment Ella 🍄 xx

@pibkaveronica7622 11 месяцев назад

They don’t teach trauma That’s for sure

@kimlec3592 2 года назад

This woman is young but understands the subject thoroughly. Thank you.

@lcrust5910 Год назад

Thanks for this, Aimie. You just explained the last 43 years of my life!

@DrAimieApigian Год назад

You're so welcome!

@ledacedar6253 9 месяцев назад

It’s my life story as a conscientious adult. Bingo every one of those points, though therapies including an eight week Dr.Gabor Mate course & 6 Empathic Inquiry treatments, plus EMDR, plus Resourcing plus plus…I’ve limited the guilt-shame pattern but the dam isolation is more comfy at 71 than sitting uncomfortably in a Woman’s Full Moon circle trying to find a friend, knowing my idea is not likely to succeed in the end. Wow just realizing I’m setting myself up to not achieve my goals of meeting a partner! 😮❤

@tamirsammydiab5773 5 лет назад

VERY informative! Thank you.. What do we do at the nervous system level to regulate this?

@elliothughes8020 4 года назад

Thank you for this explanation. Spent a lifetime wondering why I am like this!

5 лет назад

Thank you very much for explaining this, it helps for understanding the experience of someone going through these extreme ups and downs. How frustrating and discouraging it feels, I suppose, to see the unwanted consequences of one's behavior, and yet find oneself repeating the same behavior time after time...

@jennifersouth2382 9 месяцев назад

Thank you, Dr Aimie! I love what you are teaching. Over the past 20 years, I have used a technique on myself to overcome my ACEs and now feel relieved of most of these symptoms that you describe. I would have never healed to the degree that I have without this technique. No amount of talking therapy would have healed me of my past.

@Allanwify 5 лет назад

This is a very important video, I can really relate. Thank you very much!

@Marisol.M Год назад

Thank you for this information, has been eye opening, thank you!

@aliciatahmisian9445 3 года назад

I can't believe how well you have described me!

@nesrine2566 5 лет назад

This sounds like me but sometimes instead of crazy I would say that I'm weird because I feel weird.

@karo1564 6 лет назад

Wow... I discovered all the traits in my ex boyfriend. I diagnosed him (in my mind) with BPD NPD and ASPD, even Psychopathy. I watch and suffered from his behaviour for 1,5 years. From clues what he mentioned and what I understand now from you, that this was caused by a severe traumatic childhood. I had to leave to save myself, fighting with cptsd for almost 2 years and feeling better now. I couldn't help him, with my love. He became extremly abusive and dominating and I was in constant pain and disappointment and confusion. But it's very validating what you say, I sensed all his underlying issues. Very sad. He adressed his issues with lots of alcohol, weed and cocaine. I am traumatized now.

@DrAimieApigian 6 лет назад

Thank you for sharing, Karen. I'm glad you were able to detach with love. It is possible lot see the underlying pain and trauma as the reason for another person's hurtful actions and words, love them dearly, and yet need to maintain an emotional and physical distance to maintain our own physical and mental health. It does not mean we love them any less!

@ElenaElena-Elena 6 лет назад

cool list! accurate (for me) in so many points!

@DrAimieApigian 6 лет назад

Hi Elena~ thank you for your reply and sharing that you can relate! All the best in your journey to healing!

@suzannehansen4930 3 года назад

Loved this!

@GodiscomingBhappy Год назад

i thought for a long time i was nuts....then i opened my eyes and realized i live in a crazy world... then i just stopped caring because whether sane or mad such us life and i owe NO apologies but to the Creator. Great video. thx for posting

@faithoghale927 Месяц назад

Lol it true, but I can't every one sees me as different human being

@annettesecogarden 3 года назад

Fits me very much, find myself here.

@c.9850 5 лет назад

Can you give us an example of how to treat the nervous system for recovery.

@debbiewilder4738 4 года назад

So what do you do about the nervous system problems?

@DaveE99 4 года назад

Didn’t realize we get critical of our partners being all or nothing- she reminded me of the emotion concept I created for my self that I feel at times “f**k you” as a sort of rebellious emotion concept in terms of the being fiercely independent.

@DaveE99 4 года назад

Though granted I totally woke up in a N family for sure so perhaps the f you feeling wasn’t a surprise in that context

@OddinaryOne 4 года назад

How do I heal my nervous system then? I recognize most of it, but I don't know the solution?

@Smokillo 5 лет назад

Ok this sounds terribly like people with "NPD" which I know is usually caused by trauma, but the thing is these people are nevertheless abusive !! Also they usually don't want to change are not helped with traditional therapy. I hope new ways of treatment are found to lead to real change. Is there a distinction though..? Many ppl with NPD seem to know their behaviors are hurtful but they "can't stop" or its the only way they can be.

@ip3043 6 лет назад

It's either one extreme or another and makes me think of a nervous system that's dysregulated and doesn't have a healthy baseline. It's been very informative listening to this video and helped to fill in the blanks, thank you I'm understanding even more about CPTSD..What would you recommend to unfreeze the nervous system? Am thinking of either having CranioSacral therapy or dance movement with sensorimotor therapy but not sure.

@gabrieltdu5780 6 лет назад

I P i intuitively learned to unstuck myself with repetition.I try to imagine situations that would put me into an high alert mode.I do this all the time 24/7 for me its the only cure.im doing this for over a year and i dont feel the same urge to dissociate and numb out. i can be more assertive now because im only in fight flight stance now so i can build enough awareness to have boundaries ...it may sound detrimental but try it out...don t dwelve into trauma memories,just think about stuff that will turn you to be allert.After a few months i started to invest less energy to think about life in this way. and my symptoms started to be less demanding of attention.

@ip3043 6 лет назад

That's very interesting, thanks for sharing your experience

@kimlec3592 2 года назад

anxious & so low at the same time.

@DaveE99 4 года назад

I thought the all or nothing part patterns where just adhd. Though supposedly that’s a mask for trauma.

@margaretpetersen9275 Год назад

Good info

@DrAimieApigian Год назад

Glad it was helpful!

@DaveE99 4 года назад

The crazy part at first reminded me of the “crazy vs hot matrix” video. Lol

@dianaboughner7977 5 лет назад

Nail on the head 👍👍💞

@kimlec3592 2 года назад

usually it means struggling with uncomfortable emotions.

@jasongentile7098 3 года назад

I do not feel crazy...however this is me...

@elinbirgis 5 лет назад

I don’t say crazy I say high maintenance 😂

@kingaberlakovich5585 7 месяцев назад

That’s me.

@derrick9635 3 года назад

Hi ,I just heard your great interview with irene lyon ,,a calab I personally think would be great is yourself and Dr ben lynch of strategene . Peace.

@DrAimieApigian 3 года назад

I expect there will be one in the future! Thank you Derrick

@kingaberlakovich5585 7 месяцев назад

How to heal????

@srmillard 5 лет назад

the list of traits (behavioral patterns, tendencies) sound a lot like someone with a disorganized attachment style and/or someone with BPD.

@Elya08 Год назад

Can also be someone who has CPTSD. Speaking from experience. My behaviors and reactions have all had to do with trauma and flashbacks, and not being able to consciously remember most of my traumas because of a head injury as a kid, and the combination of dissociation. So I was reacting to things that my body and brain recognized as relating to traumatic memories, without the context of knowing why the heck I was even reacting. I genuinely felt crazy for a while. Not fun. It’s taken 3 years of trauma therapy and working with my nervous system in various ways to mostly calm myself the crap down.

@srmillard Год назад

@@Elya08 100% agree BPD is caused/developed by CPTSD, typically 1+ parents with a Cluster B PD