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This talk was given at a local TEDx event, produced independently of the TED Conferences. William Ury explains how listening is the essential, and often overlooked, half of communication. His stories of candid conversations with presidents and business leaders provide us with impactful lessons, such as understanding the power of a human mind opening up. He asks us to join a listening revolution, and promises that if we all just listen a little bit more, we can transform any relationship.
William Ury, cofounder of Harvard’s Program on Negotiation, is one of the world’s best-known and most influential experts on negotiation. He is the coauthor of Getting to Yes, the bestselling negotiation book in the world, and has taught negotiation to tens of thousands of people, has consulted for dozens of Fortune 500 companies, and has served as a consultant to the White House. An internationally sought-after speaker, he is also the author of seven other books, including two New York Times bestsellers, Getting Past No and The Power of a Positive No. His latest book is Getting to Yes with Yourself (and other worthy opponents).
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@cocoacoolness
@cocoacoolness 5 лет назад
I never realised how bad i was at listening until i actually tried to listen better. It's great because when people can see you're actually listening they open up more and trust you more.
@johnnyxhusbands4921
@johnnyxhusbands4921 3 года назад
How do you actively practice?
@samuelbigirimana6048
@samuelbigirimana6048 2 года назад
Hello William. Thank you for good presentation. Listening revolution. I am with you
@tarawalsh7045
@tarawalsh7045 2 года назад
Yes, it is one of the greatest gifts we can give one another. In therapy, therapists learn (good ones anyway) the powerful healing that simply allowing another person to speak and be heard has. That is really the core of our core connection with each other, a seed that slowly grows into the flower of friendship.
@asilikarainima3977
@asilikarainima3977 Год назад
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@abhishekbaswaraj6624
@abhishekbaswaraj6624 Год назад
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@NewMetallica
@NewMetallica 2 года назад
Stephen Covey really covered it all in one quote: "Listen with the intent to understand, not with the intent to reply"
@angelaluna4401
@angelaluna4401 2 года назад
Best Ted talk ever. Thanks
@tarawalsh7045
@tarawalsh7045 2 года назад
That is a great truth. Thanks for that!
@danadamn5931
@danadamn5931 8 месяцев назад
I am so happy that this is a part of my homework, this talk was impressively good, I actually never listened to somebody so intentionally. It was extremely interesting, thanks a lot to William Ury
@afgFreeform
@afgFreeform 2 года назад
The hardest part about empathic listening is the ability to leave your ego at the door. This guy seems to have mastered that one...
@rhondaspencer
@rhondaspencer 9 лет назад
When we LISTEN, we validate the worth of the other. Bill says it so well. If we could all learn to truly listen, I do believe the world would be a much more peaceful place.
@dometilavillafuerte5783
@dometilavillafuerte5783 9 лет назад
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@jayveeamolato9429
@jayveeamolato9429 6 лет назад
True!!
@tedbkd1
@tedbkd1 4 года назад
Rhonda Spencer NOT listening is the most overlooked cause of mental disorders
@madelynsuzuki5771
@madelynsuzuki5771 4 года назад
Rhonda Spencer sontrue
@SuperLammens
@SuperLammens 3 года назад
Rhonda, you listened well but didn't read well. His name is William, not Bill
@liemhuynhthanh7599
@liemhuynhthanh7599 6 лет назад
His English sound good. Because I am Vietnamese, and listen to TED Talks are so harddddd, this is the first video that I could listen every single word. Thank you
@sanailayasawa318
@sanailayasawa318 4 года назад
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@lindaturner9680
@lindaturner9680 4 года назад
I enjoyed his style of presenting. He speaks slowly so we can really understand him. When deciphering a second language, it's always difficult to understand when people speak rapidly. It is the same with visual communication. I can express myself in American sign language (ASL), but have a hard time understanding complicated messages from those for whom it is their first language. Sentences are not grouped as written or spoken English. Can be frustrating!
@lutherprater8243
@lutherprater8243 4 года назад
YES
@Shafiullah.S
@Shafiullah.S 4 года назад
I'm indian but his English easy to understand me as well
@vietmom-monannuocngoai7129
@vietmom-monannuocngoai7129 4 года назад
hi Thanh, I am Vietnamese too. it is nice to see my people who listen to the same person as me.
@dalehilltopfarm
@dalehilltopfarm 9 лет назад
Certainly one of the most effective Ted Talks I've listened to on RU-vid. Outstanding.
@hamdullahbayram1961
@hamdullahbayram1961 5 лет назад
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@letitiahill2982
@letitiahill2982 4 года назад
I absolutely agree with you...
@christianmcdonald7746
@christianmcdonald7746 3 года назад
i could not agree more!!!
@Thadalt
@Thadalt 2 года назад
i see what you did there
@honeysunday
@honeysunday 8 месяцев назад
This was assigned in my social work class and I thought this was brilliant
@VenDacheusa
@VenDacheusa 29 дней назад
What a great Professional Speaker sir! You modeled many more things like public speaking, listening, storytelling, how to open a speech, how to narrate, how to conclude, how to create content, how to deliver the content, how to compose anecdotes, and how to use anecdotes, and many more... thank you so much form the bottom of the heart
@KeiterMediationLLCOklahomaCity
@KeiterMediationLLCOklahomaCity 4 года назад
This 16 minute video is without a doubt the most powerful TEDx talk I've ever heard. William Ury shows what really listening to others looks like, why it's so hard to do, and the powerful benefits of listening!
@randiaz95
@randiaz95 7 лет назад
love they way he speaks, very calm and collected.
@jaskirat9042
@jaskirat9042 6 лет назад
After a lot of time of failure I finally figured out the problem with me. I want to speak not listen I'll try my best to start listening
@ROHITYADAV628
@ROHITYADAV628 5 лет назад
Best of Luck for new better start
@rosaroja4208
@rosaroja4208 4 года назад
I am the same way. I know I need to change. I never let people stop talking when I catch myself jumping in. I always feel like if I don't speak at the moment, I am gonna forget what I want to say 😩😟
@larix77
@larix77 3 года назад
Same
@lillady7900
@lillady7900 3 года назад
Me toooo i dont want too be this way anymore im really trying to connect with my man we've been tpgether for a few years and its gotten worse and worse between us . I guess im still not communicating my desires to truly know what he needs and wants from me ,mto him
@PursuitofPossibility
@PursuitofPossibility 4 года назад
You don’t talk your way to the top. You listen your way there. What a great talk!
@marlonyt7225
@marlonyt7225 Год назад
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@philomath67
@philomath67 5 лет назад
Some of the best national interviewers are those that let the interviewee talk. I saw a good example of that the other day with Piers Morgan being interviewed on Fox News. The interviewer didn't try to steal the show.
@tarawalsh7045
@tarawalsh7045 2 года назад
I was married to someone who always talked over me. I have never been considered at all meek or quiet but after awhile I realised I just gave up trying to talk. So, I then found that, over a time, several people described me as a 'good friend' and I think I was though I didn't think we were friends. Not one of them could have said two things about me beyond my name and the colour of my hair perhaps. They talked a lot and never listened or showed any interest in others. I knew every minute detail of their lives. But that was their major talent in a way: talking. At least they were both good storytellers but I knew I had to get my own voice back or feel alone and isolated forever, which is awful suffering, esp around people. I am a sociable person, care about people, I pay attention, I remember things and respond to what they are saying or feeling. But, of course, I also wanted to have a friend and as soon as I tried to speak to either of them they talked over me and I had to just leave and disconnect from them. For a long time I wondered if something I was doing was wrong since I had never had this issue before. One day it just struck me that I wasn't doing anything wrong but, in fact, listening and responding, paying attention is a valuable social skill. I think every one has to learn this in order to learn. From when we first start school we have to learn to be quiet and pay attention. I am so happy that there are others that value this skill and know that developing it is the key to genuine connection with one another.
@Anand-N
@Anand-N 3 года назад
Is it just me or William Ury's ears look different. Is this what is giving him Super human listening skills? This aside, thanks for this amazing Ted talk that stresses the importance of the most essential skill that we often take for granted - "Listening" If you see someone in depression or sad and that needs help...don't go and try to talk, but listen, listen to all what they have to say... It will take time before opening up, but wait and continue to listen
@aclasscali
@aclasscali 2 года назад
someone on youtube recommended a book called “the lost art of listening” that was the most eye opening sobering book i ever audiobooked. I was able to improve so many things in life related to listening. I dont give advice anymore unless something super urgent or i am being asked but if i can tell you thing please read the above book. It will change your life for good on so many levels.
@nasersuleiman9677
@nasersuleiman9677 7 месяцев назад
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:36 🗣️ Listening is essential for effective communication and often overlooked in the Age of Communication, which is filled with interruptions and distractions. 01:37 🦻 Successful negotiators listen more than they talk, understanding the importance of listening in negotiations. 03:02 🤝 Listening can lead to a breakthrough in difficult situations, as exemplified when William Ury's listening helped defuse a tense meeting with President Hugo Chavez. 04:28 🧠 Three important reasons for listening in negotiation: understanding the other side, building rapport, and making it more likely for the other person to listen to you. 05:59 🎧 Genuine listening goes beyond hearing words, focusing on the other person's perspective, emotions, feelings, and needs. 07:30 🤔 Discovering the unspoken desires and needs of the other party through deep listening can lead to successful resolutions in conflicts. 09:32 🧘 Clearing our minds and tuning in to our own thoughts and emotions before listening to others can significantly improve our ability to truly listen. 12:36 🌍 A listening revolution could prevent conflicts and lead to a world where listening is taught in schools, practiced in families, and valued in leadership. 14:42 🔄 Listening can be contagious and lead to a positive chain reaction in relationships, families, and the world, ultimately making it a better place. Made with HARPA AI
@victorderojas3816
@victorderojas3816 6 лет назад
I completely agree with William Ury's speech, the power to listen is even stronger than the ability to speak. Not only for the negotiations, as mentioned in the talk, but also for our daily lives. William mentions that negotiations consist mainly of listening, not speaking. Good negotiators are good listeners. We have two ears and one mouth for a reason. Listening help us to understand the other, it helps to connect with the other human being, it helps us build rapport, it build trust, it shows we care, and it helps us to get yes. We are accustomed to listen as we think of ourselves (we agree, we do not agree), (what am I going to answer?) We should listen by putting ourselves in the other person's place, and paying absolute attention.
@vedantgore1604
@vedantgore1604 10 месяцев назад
Thank you victor I got the summary from you🫡
@mspussthecat
@mspussthecat 7 лет назад
This should be taught in schools. Thank you, Mr. Ury - I'm all ears!
@Hugo411
@Hugo411 3 года назад
The best result of this Practice? Discovering and Uncovering who is the Narcissist in your Orbit. I now need a Ted Talk on how to communicate when one party dominates and is a full-on Narcissist .
@SarikaSharmaAgnihotri
@SarikaSharmaAgnihotri 3 месяца назад
Awesome speech by Mr. William ury ✌️
@RossCreations
@RossCreations 7 лет назад
I love this dude
@killercheff1148
@killercheff1148 5 лет назад
RossCreations I watched this after viewing your video... this has really helped me!!!
@patriciaoffer9585
@patriciaoffer9585 5 лет назад
RossCreations Your comment expresses your love for this video's speaker, William Ury....
@cobrapate
@cobrapate 3 года назад
AYOOO I came here from a homework assignment and found Ross.. wtf
@RydogLabs
@RydogLabs Год назад
im watching this in class right now and just randomly see a ross comment 😂that's hilarious
@dancarrison9354
@dancarrison9354 11 месяцев назад
Me, too!
@JuliusJLevy
@JuliusJLevy 2 года назад
This is one of the greatest truth ever spoken on this or any other platforms. I talked about this in my organisation for years and some think I’m mad. If we only listen some more. My primary school principal once told me “A good listener becomes a good learner” Thank you for this
@lesliecapalac5037
@lesliecapalac5037 2 года назад
The gift of being heard, that sounded nice when Ury shared that. I personally am guilty of not being so good at listening and have work to work on it. I love how he shares the good that comes from listening on how it builds trust, connection, and an easier way to get to yes between two people. *snaps
@leewhalley6161
@leewhalley6161 3 года назад
This is literally what they teach you in person centred counselling active listening it changes everything.
@miladj-zz3wr
@miladj-zz3wr 3 месяца назад
great, listening leads to understanding each other better and more intimacy...
@amangill1273
@amangill1273 21 день назад
That’s where the complex reflections come into play
@alexandrepalermosimoes
@alexandrepalermosimoes 9 лет назад
Only when we engage in genuine or active listening, we permitt ourselves to cacth what the other is really trying to talk about and also some important things that the other believe in, even if not expressely said in his or her own speech. We listen to the sometimes hidden interests or needs, we give a chance to understand the other and to create common ground for more understanding. It is always wonderful to listen Bill Ury!
@yadanarkyaw284
@yadanarkyaw284 2 года назад
Thanks for your talk show. We forget the listening of power. Anywhere people encourage talking than listening. This video gives me about listening. Not only learning English but also gives thinking.
@janellwagner7008
@janellwagner7008 7 лет назад
My son listened to this and had to take notes on it for homework and it is helping him to listen more!
@paulbrucker3345
@paulbrucker3345 3 года назад
He's a great talker and not just a great listener. Comes across as extremely likeable.
@pavelrahman4314
@pavelrahman4314 4 года назад
''Listen to the human being behind the words'', superb! Of course, I myself will try to apply all of the points in my daily life.
@hiteshlamba8535
@hiteshlamba8535 6 лет назад
One of the best talks on Listening. My teacher Guru Nanak said, if you can master art of listening, you can even trick death :)
@Ten-ol7nc
@Ten-ol7nc 4 года назад
How it can trick death? Please elaborate
@anneboyle2951
@anneboyle2951 3 года назад
There's no tricking death
@voidisyinyangvoidisyinyang885
@voidisyinyangvoidisyinyang885 3 года назад
yes a good book on the secret of listening is "Taoist Yoga: alchemy and immortality" - it's free online
@shannonnolan7002
@shannonnolan7002 2 года назад
👍 Like he said, to be a really good listener we first have to listen to our bodies. And if we listen to our bodies, maybe we will discover inconsistencies and prevent illnesses?
@JackSaturday
@JackSaturday 9 лет назад
I hear you, Mr. Ury.
@patriciaoffer9585
@patriciaoffer9585 5 лет назад
Jack Saturday You're so close. Don't tell me ---- show me.
@PatrickMemoli
@PatrickMemoli 5 лет назад
This guy did rise communication's standards at his very top level!
@samofficial15
@samofficial15 3 года назад
It is the 1st time for me who listen to the whole ted talks without skip or pause...
@Haydjay
@Haydjay 7 месяцев назад
William i believe what you wanting to communicate is this....I Am Listening and You are why. Am i correct in my Assumption of that? If that IS infact what you are saying, then i also believe that what you are wanting to communicate at the actual core of the message is that we are already Listening and speaking to eachother and we already have a system to learn to do teach this to our kids and this ted talks is a god example of it. You are the speaker that is communicating a message and all of us are listening. Its 2 different perspectives of the same thing. I like the simplicity of your message and how easy it was to understand. Well done. Thank you. I also have been listening to as many points of view as possible to attempt to get to the "root" of so many major conflicts i see in society in order to help mediate and resolve things and help people be happier in life. As of right now it is my belief that this is So important and watching your talk Molly helped me to finally find a huge part of the cause of things but also helped me to realize Solutions enjoy vacation and also that it's something that we're already doing naturally on our own into each other. Just the active me watching this video and listening to you helps me to understand your point of view, and my response here is in return giving you my point of view. Of course that's probably way over complicated version of saying to you that I agree
@GRACIELOU21
@GRACIELOU21 7 лет назад
This is very informative and thought provoking. If you haven't watched this yet.....put it on 1.25x for the speed. Itll help :)
@sleepyinsomniac0
@sleepyinsomniac0 7 лет назад
Thank you for telling me this! I had to watch it for school as homework and this makes it so much better! :D
@GRACIELOU21
@GRACIELOU21 7 лет назад
Glad I could help!
@GRACIELOU21
@GRACIELOU21 7 лет назад
Not the case for me. For a speed of 1x, waiting for the next word to come is distracting. 1.25x was a good pace and I comprehended the message.
@Peacemakerblue
@Peacemakerblue 7 лет назад
LOL he was a boring talker though but good information
@matchhunter6055
@matchhunter6055 7 лет назад
because he is a good listener...
@alimurtaza7821
@alimurtaza7821 3 года назад
I have never learnt this much by any ted talk.
@taydatay8571
@taydatay8571 5 лет назад
Exactly how I build most of my relationships with people just listening it gets me a long way I promise
@wayward03
@wayward03 2 года назад
I wish I had noticed earlier that I am not doing a good job at this. Probably going to take a lot of practice and work to get good at it.
@user-ge4lf1qc1d
@user-ge4lf1qc1d 4 месяца назад
This person spoke understanable when i watch this i can comperhand without subtitle
@wajihaahmed3470
@wajihaahmed3470 2 месяца назад
Outstanding. I usually struggle listening to people and I am actually trying to become a better listener, so glad that I came across this.
@prembyrne6550
@prembyrne6550 6 месяцев назад
As well as Peace Talks, Peace Listens--yes please, now more than ever
@rora8503
@rora8503 4 года назад
The listening is so true. When I really pay attention and listen, I feel like my mind connects with the others on a completely different level. It's like all ideas and thoughts I have fit perfectly like puzzle pieces together.
@ronjones96
@ronjones96 3 года назад
I honestly can say this is one of the best Ted Talks I've listened to on RU-vid. Absolutely Brilliant.
@ansariazeez1327
@ansariazeez1327 3 года назад
Urry, explains the value of being heard and listen to ourselves and others ... Listening is all about how we treat people 👍 One of the biggest gift to human being is to be heard. ..❤️
@positivelife3729
@positivelife3729 2 года назад
Wait ,let me clear the message here 😅 if you going to open the lock door Make sure key you are carrying , another option may have to open the door without key ... might be done by a machine or a iron so on ...😄 .... When you gonna talk with any participate in your communication , Don't forget to take the key /listening skill with you 😄 otherwise your door/communication will be broken without the key also ... 4 tips to master in listings - ask questions whatever you have listened consciously - use the words "I see" , I got it , yeah, that cool. - don't forget praising section 😎 whether it is tiny or big For instance - wow man you nailed it 👏👏how did you do that ?😄 - keep in mind your expression while listening 👊 - final point is your final result after listening, just wait for the compliments of participate 😄😄👊 Thank you for being attentive here All the best...
@user-dm2ij1hk4b
@user-dm2ij1hk4b 3 месяца назад
Listening is the key to open the door of our relationship.. It is the best line of this video..
@user-pu5ce4ig5e
@user-pu5ce4ig5e 2 года назад
My teacher showed us this in class to discuss and it was honestly life changing
@maureenschloskey8320
@maureenschloskey8320 9 лет назад
Thank you for carrying the torch and being a staunch advocate to the power of Listening. It's a truly human language that we speak, and I will walk side-by-side with you in this listening revolution. I'm honored to know you and to follow you.
@theexplorers5968
@theexplorers5968 Год назад
Grandioso William Iry. Saludes desde Ránquil, 🇨🇱
@blairaasmith
@blairaasmith 2 месяца назад
Finally a video on RU-vid worth listening to...
@pacoaranha
@pacoaranha 9 лет назад
William Ury is a great human being before being an expert in any other area.
@sarahbull9884
@sarahbull9884 7 лет назад
I hear you. Thank you for helping me to appreciate the power of listening.
@user-mu9ox6ll7n
@user-mu9ox6ll7n 4 месяца назад
I love not only the content but also the way he delivered his speech. He really knew how to make others listen to him, and I can listen to him for hours 😊 Such a powerful TED talk!
@shravanir9522
@shravanir9522 3 месяца назад
This video is such a good wake-up call for every individual to reconnect with the fundamental aspects of life.
@mohammedkhabori7832
@mohammedkhabori7832 7 лет назад
he is right in every single way.
@ParitimeSchool
@ParitimeSchool 6 лет назад
🌹🌹🌹🌹 He who can do this... Has the whole world with him
@Julius_Paul
@Julius_Paul 3 года назад
I purchased GETTING TO YES many years ago. William Ury is second to none regarding negotiation tactics. His personality is an added bonus - calm, straight forward, minimal emotion. Most speakers use varying degrees of passion to "convince" the audience into believing their theory, to "sell" their theory, but not William. Speakers that rely on heavy underlying passion are doing so because they feel the "need" to sell their concept . They are worried the concept cannot sell itself. They lack confidence in the concept (regardless of how confident they "appear"), hence their underlying "passionate" requirement. Intellectuals to best learn from are people like William Ury - people who speak in a 'matter of fact' tone, efficiently, without meandering into tangents, and without having to convince with a passionate emotional voice or over-emotional gestures.
@hannewulp
@hannewulp 3 года назад
Oooh, I love to hear this. Plus, he says it himself: quiet your own mind first when you notice you have a lot going on internally. Those highly emotional (passionate) talks are just not always necessary, especially in Ury's case. If it's true that we don't remember what ppl said, but we remember how they made us feel, then for me this is exactly how you describe him: calm and straight forward.
@cynthiafriedman2534
@cynthiafriedman2534 10 месяцев назад
With those who are powerful with listening (& patience)nothing changes. Even though, i.n my small world I will still continue to listen w/o expectations or an agenda. Thank you for this important TED talk.
@rahulthakare9782
@rahulthakare9782 Год назад
There should be one TED listen show!
@jumblemaksotov3910
@jumblemaksotov3910 Год назад
As a deaf person, I agree
@bnavya14
@bnavya14 2 месяца назад
Why to listen: 1. to understand what other thinks 2. To connect with other and they feel they are heard 3. They will listen to your point also 4. When someone is listened truly, we can listen their unspoken words and feelings 4. To understand the word unsaid, to understand the feeling unspoken How to listen Focus/spot light should be on the other person than us while listening Listen to self,Before any talk, take few deep breathe, you will go in awareness mode You will not react as you are aware of your emotions You should give full focus to that person No distraction thing that time Don’t speak until required Give full attention to other person They should feel they are heard Be a true listener
@selfelements8037
@selfelements8037 7 лет назад
4:22 - 5:39 - 10:08 - 12:12 - 14:51 "Listen to the human being behind the words."
@xavierg2234
@xavierg2234 7 лет назад
Jesus Christ puh leez
@ademolakamar3968
@ademolakamar3968 3 месяца назад
This is great. It can't be said better. Thank you Will.
@thebestsongstorelax4810
@thebestsongstorelax4810 11 месяцев назад
Mr. Ury your speech made a big difference in my life. Thank you a million.
@kcd7836
@kcd7836 Год назад
Listening should be mutual. We all talk because sometimes we were not heard as kids with authoritarian parents, at work etc. But yes being more present and opening up a space for dialogue to take place. Mutual listening
@robsonserenlinhares9224
@robsonserenlinhares9224 4 года назад
Ótimo. Ótimo livro. Ótima palestra👏
@AhmedGamal-np1yr
@AhmedGamal-np1yr Год назад
It is not just a great TEDx Talk; it has one of the most significant introductions ever, which hooks you up to the video during the first minute.
@saifulcrisl
@saifulcrisl 4 года назад
imagine a world where everybody emphatically listens to each other to understand the need of each others...
@cleanindiereadsreviews4144
@cleanindiereadsreviews4144 7 лет назад
I absolutely loved this! SO timely!
@fikaimu
@fikaimu 4 года назад
Listening is without the double most important skill in communication skills. Many of us know that but still find it difficult to put in in practice enough actually. The part that he mentioned we have to truly listen to ourselves first for the better listening was eye-opening for me.
@alancox2347
@alancox2347 5 лет назад
This is one of the absolute best TED talks you can every listen to. But, if you just listen to Ury nothing will change. Fo forth and listen. :)
@cindyhalpern3187
@cindyhalpern3187 7 дней назад
This was a good talk about listening!
@inspiredgummybear8951
@inspiredgummybear8951 7 лет назад
wish my family would do all this. blasting this when I get home while they are home maybe they will LISTEN
@Jan_Kat
@Jan_Kat Год назад
This guy is incredible! This is an eye opener to me.
@kansasvmax94
@kansasvmax94 9 лет назад
My god finally somebody else that sees the true disconnect of the "connected" era we claim to be in. The skill of listening has proven to be one of the most powerful tools in my career and life that I could ever use. Great TED talk to LISTEN too.
@shengkae2182
@shengkae2182 6 лет назад
He is amazing and i truly enjoy his speech. Thank you!
@thamizhi6819
@thamizhi6819 3 года назад
I really clapped. Listening to his speech will really have positive impact in all aspects of my life
@paristhefoxx
@paristhefoxx 9 лет назад
What an outstanding message.. The power of listening 😁
@manjunathtiwari63
@manjunathtiwari63 4 месяца назад
Very true, listening the short cut to study, in the most ecnomical and accurate
@lialukman6475
@lialukman6475 8 лет назад
Thank you, Mr. Ury. Very inspiring.
@aledecsouza
@aledecsouza 4 года назад
Sensacional, parabéns e obrigado por compartilhar esse belo conhecimento.
@IsaacJuniorL
@IsaacJuniorL 6 лет назад
Outstanding! We really need to listen more, I think that by this way we can figure out what someone is really needing, just by the power of listening.
@preranakc4196
@preranakc4196 7 лет назад
Amazing!! Great talk with such a smiling face. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@sukhdeepsran3588
@sukhdeepsran3588 4 года назад
When you're listening your focus comes to you, your ears and when you speak your focus needs to be on the person you talking to..
@MySoulSessions
@MySoulSessions 3 года назад
So good! Beautiful delivery and a powerful message. The subtle art of listenning has the power to change the world. Thanks Ury!
@JesusBelieverDiane
@JesusBelieverDiane 4 года назад
I have shared this video at my agency. I also shared it on facebook. Right now with all the conflict going on in America all we are dong is defending our side of the issues. We need to share this everywhere
@vishwaparikh9281
@vishwaparikh9281 4 года назад
One of the best tedtalk i have ever listened. Absolutely enlightening.
@diptigbhadra7265
@diptigbhadra7265 2 года назад
Thank you for SUCH a wonderful, enlightening talk.. one of the best TED talks ever in my opinion! I have been looking for how to improve my listening, and listening to you is such a good start!
@meghanadharne7438
@meghanadharne7438 5 месяцев назад
Thank you sir for this session
@krishnadaiya2788
@krishnadaiya2788 Год назад
The talk reminds us that listening is as important as speaking. Very effective!
@user-eq6to1rg7c
@user-eq6to1rg7c 3 месяца назад
Thank you for sharing 🙏🏽
@mirmohsin4673
@mirmohsin4673 5 месяцев назад
Listening will change the world 🎉❤
@HollywoodFan21
@HollywoodFan21 6 лет назад
This an amazing lecture !
@MouridEnglish
@MouridEnglish 2 года назад
Thank you so much. One of the best videos I have ever seen. I'll definitely share it with my students.
@arslannazir23
@arslannazir23 3 года назад
I listened this with full attention... it’s great to listen actively
@minhtho3
@minhtho3 2 года назад
I feel like I have a problem with listening, because I only feel energetic when I am talking in a communication.when I am silent to listen, it’s really difficult for me because there are many questions and thoughts on my head. I am really disappointed about myself. But this video gives me motivation and knowledge for a change, for the clearness of my weaknesses. Thank you Ted and the speaker for such a life treasure lesion
@quanhovan7443
@quanhovan7443 2 года назад
i love his voice. it is really friendly. thanks you
@musahassan7963
@musahassan7963 2 года назад
Amazing talks we have given two ears to listen more than speak .
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