The Psychology of Divorce: What Happens When a Marriage Unravels | Quint Fit 

All men should stand up and give thank to quint at least one men you covered in your report.

Separated divorced widowed .... Singles Let's party .... You are saved

Incompatability in arranged marriages must be so hard when arranged marriage itself is tough in and of itself... I truly feel for that gentleman

Divorcee lena jitna difficult hai use jada divorce k bad Indian society mai rehna..facing this problem.

Great to see men also given the platform to express themselves.

OMG ........ These womens have the same feelings through which many women are going through like she said .......... feeling of loneliness ..... that the woman doesnt have children .. nobody cares ... husband doesn't care ......... I CAN REALLY UNDERSTAND THIS FEELING .

Very well said: when you meet yourself then you are never alone👌

People are not able for getting for 2nd marriage......and I m not even able to trust anyone else for 2nd time......I was in a relationship but he cheated me don't know why.... people say I m too innocent....but it's 5 year and I m not able to talk boys.....and I don't want to get married.. it gives me a cringy types of feeling

Seeking marriage counseling was so helpful to us to get perspective. It exposed the real truth and lies. We divorced after he abandoned me while pregnant, and I raised our daughter alone, it was heartbreaking and she suffered his loss. No easy answers.

For women usually parents are also reluctant to listen to their own daughter. For them she is suppose to adjust in whatever situation. They only accept thing as wrong when they see visible wounds on her face or when she commits suicide

I'm 21,but i can say, marriage is not a joke, think 100 times before marrying. I'm not fit to be husband so i decided not to marry

Divorce should become normal. It's better to divorce than to stay in a toxic relationship.

So touching stories. I salute these brave people who took the right decision.

Suffering from depression due to my marriage

after having gone through a very bad divorce myself, I can vouch for the tears that man put in between the interview, it is indeed heart wrenching, I can imagine myself in that position, It still haunts me

My dad and my mom were very happy until she ran away with some other huh when I was 4 and after that,I've never seen her,my dad and my grandparents both had took care of me and my sister,my mother(who really isn't my mother) calls us for money and I was very fed up of the guilt because I've always thought it was because of me. It's painful looking at everyone and their moms. My father wanted a divorce but he didn't do it because #1 he didn't want us,his children to get affected and #2 she would deny getting a divorce. At this point I'm very fed up of this and I'd choose death anyday rather than living with this thought everyday.

Problem with all of us is we want life to go in a particular way that we expect. We have created certain rules and try to fit life into those rules. If it goes the other way, we would think that our life is a disaster. We have created certain barriers to our freedom of life. Try to break those barriers. Start expecting the unexpected. Train your mind to stay calm, peaceful and strong for the worst situations. No matter what turbulence a river faces during its journey, it would ultimately mix into the Ocean and now, forget about turbulence but its existence itself would disappear. Similarly, we all have a gift called death one day. It can be any day, it can be the next moment. So whatever problems you may face today, ultimately your existence itself would disappear one day. Let the time heal our past and decide our future. All we need to do is to look at the present without any prejudices and expectations.

5:13 I wanted to give him a hug 😢 So sorry you all had to go through so much turmoil, but so happy you saved yourselves 🙏🏽

I pray that all these gentlemen and ladies find peace, wisdom, contentment and happiness in their next love if that's what they really want or else in other ways... God bless them

In laws are the biggest problem

In my cases divorce is the best turning point in my life .

I need to see this..after 11 years of marriage I finally have to accept the fact me and my wife can no longer stay married. True my heart has a giant hole in it right now, but there's just nothing there anymore. Most of the time I feel useless to my wife, almost as if just being there pisses her off. I don't want anyone to feel sorry for me or anything, I just want to feel Peace and joy for once in my life. "IS THAT TOO HARD FOR A MAN TO ASK????"

This was really honest n for me n after listening to this i felt better cause m not alone😓

I m very depressed, i m not able to do what should I do. Last year I got arranged marriage but next day of marriage nothing was good, this marriage was a big scam, my heart was broken. Now I took divorce but now feeling like it's ending of my life.

What ever it is.! Divorce always makes a person depressed.! And if one gets into the phase of depression then its really hard to get back into normal life.! Or normal psychological state.!

I am also having some dark faces about marriage life.... I was marry that guy who was completely madly in love with me...n just to seeing his love for me that is y i got married... But aftr 6 months of my marriage.... He abused me... He shouted at me without any reason... He also try to make my feel worthless.... M so really feel confused about his personality bcoz he nvr told me that he is a short temper person... N now my life has completely destroyed

Thanks for sharing experiences.. Stay blessed always..

Atleast one men covered in this 👍

maybe same professional and career brings more pressure in personal life. People become prejudice about each other

Tragic but at no point was the guy shown saying anything about her wife, what happened in the relationship but only the after effects while the ladies recounted the complete tale.

Thank you. This was honest

Lets be honest to society, partner and to oneself. That implies divorce if there is a toxic relationship in the closed walls, rarher than propogating an idea of fake happy marriage.

5:14 that breakdown of man😪😐

Divorce is a blessing!

My father want me to marry another girl. I know that girl right before marriage. She is a spinster. This is embracing but true. I love my wife and want a chance to change.

All i do is hide my pain inside other pain, and pretend that everything happens for good , no relation in this world will work unless we fear god , only a person who fears can be loyal and kind , but since the world has changed , and sins makes no one feel guilty as they try to justify everything , uh its better to stay away from any relationship

Thank you for sharing experience.

At first we ladies are to love and respect ourselves. I just worship myself, i just worship my own womanhood. Being a single mother of a teenager boy i simply care for nobody . I have to take care of my boy only, i don't care for the surrounding.

What to do in case of false 498A + all other false cases? Men and their families suffer extensively.

Blaming each other's and making each other's bad through words and actions both side have love and caring each other's

மறக்கக்‌ கூடாத விதிகள்‌. 1) மூளை தான்‌ உண்மையான பாலுறுப்பு. 2) மூளையை மயக்காத வரை பெண்ணின்‌ உடலில்‌ இன்பம்‌ நிகழாது. 3) மனைவிக்கு எது பிடித்திருக்கிறது என்பதைக்‌ கேட்டுத்‌ தெரிந்து கொண்டு செயலாற்றவும்‌. 4) மனைவிக்குப்‌ பிடிக்காத எந்த வழி முறையிலும்‌, உச்ச கட்ட இன்பத்தை நிகழ்த்த முடியாது. 5) கணவனின்‌ செயல்‌ மனைவிக்குப்‌ பிடிக்கவில்லையென்றால்‌, முன்‌ விளையாட்டுக்கள்‌ போதவில்லை என்று பொருள்‌. 6) இங்கே சொல்லியுள்ள படி, தந்த்ரா பூஜைகளைச்‌ செய்தால்‌ எப்படிப்‌ பட்ட பெண்ணின்‌ மனமும்‌ இக்கணத்திற்கு வந்து விடும்‌. 7) ஆகவே, தந்த்ரா பூஜைகளைச்‌ செய்ய சிக்கனம்‌ கூடாது. 8) மனைவியின்‌ உடல்‌ எவ்வாறு எதிர்வினை ஆற்றுகிறது என்பதை விழிப்புடன்‌ கவனித்த படியே செயலாற்றவும்‌. 9) குறிப்பாக மனைவியின்‌ சுவாசத்தைக்‌ கவனித்த படியே செயல்‌ படவும்‌. 10) செயல்படும்‌ விதத்தை மாற்றிக்‌ கொண்டேயிருக்கக்‌ கூடாது. 11) வேகம்‌ என்பது வியாதி. எனினும்‌, உச்ச கட்ட இன்பம்‌ நெருங்கும்‌ வேளையில்‌ வேகத்தைச்‌ சற்றே அதிகரிக்கலாம்‌. 12) வேக மாற்றத்தை மனைவியின்‌ மூளை அறிந்து விடக்‌ கூடாது. 13) மனைவிக்குரிய இன்பம்‌ நிகழும்‌ முன்பாக கணவன்‌ தன்னுடைய இன்பத்தைப்‌ பற்றி எண்ணிக்‌ கூடப்‌ பார்க்கக்‌ கூடாது. 14) பகலிலேயே ஒரு குறிப்புச்‌ செயலின்‌ மூலம்‌ தெரிவித்து, மனைவியின்‌ மூளையில்‌ ஒரு எதிர்பார்ப்பை உருவாக்கி விட வேண்டும்‌. 15) இன்பத்துய்ப்பு ஒரு தவம்‌. ஆகவே, நேர அளவுகளை நிர்ணயித்துச்‌ செயல்‌ படக்‌ கூடாது. 16) எடுத்தவுடன்‌ முக்கிய பகுதிகளைத்‌ தொடக்‌ கூடாது. அதே போல, எடுத்தவுடன்‌ லிங்கத்தைப்‌ பயன்படுத்தக்‌ கூடாது. தனியொரு லிங்கத்தால்‌, மனைவிக்குரிய எந்த இன்பத்தையும்‌ வழங்க முடியாது. மனைவியை வற்புறுத்தி இன்பம்‌ துய்க்கக்‌ கூடாது. 18) நாவையும்‌, விரலையும்‌ பயன்படுத்த ஒரு போதும்‌ தயங்கக்‌ கூடாது. 19) இன்பத்‌ துய்ப்பின்‌ போது, ஆணாதிக்கவாதியாகச்‌ செயல்‌ படக்‌ கூடாது. 20) துய்ப்பு முடிந்தவுடனே கழிவறை நோக்கி ஒட்டம்‌ பிடிக்கக்‌ கூடாது. 21) மாதாமாதம்‌ ஈடுபடும்‌ முறைகளை மாற்றிக்‌ கொண்டே இருக்கவும்‌. 22) படுக்கையறையில்‌ ஐந்து வயதிற்கு மேலான குழந்தை இருக்கக்‌ கூடாது. 23) அரவம்‌ கேட்டால்‌ ஆணுக்கு இன்பம்‌ நிகழ்ந்து விடும்‌. மனைவியின்‌ இன்பம்‌ நழுவிப்‌ போய்‌ விடும்‌. 24) நல்லுறவு இல்லாத போது தான்‌, பாலுறவு முக்கியம்‌. உச்ச கட்டப்‌ பாலின்பம்‌ உருவாக்கும்‌ அன்பையும்‌, அதிசயத்தையும்‌ வேறெந்த மந்திரத்தாலும்‌ இல்லற வாழ்வில்‌ ஏற்படுத்த முடியாது. அன்பை உருவாக்குவதில்‌ இன்பத்‌ துய்ப்பிற்கு இணை எதுவுமே இல்லை. 27) வறண்ட பாலுறவு பகையை உருவாக்கும்‌, உயவுப்‌ பசையோடு நடை பெறும்‌ பாலுறவே அன்பை உருவாக்கும்‌. 28) வாய்‌ துர்நாற்றம்‌ ஆகவே ஆகாது. 29) படுக்கையறை பூஜையறையைப்‌ போலச்‌ சுத்தமாக இருக்க வேண்டும்‌. 30) முன்‌ தூங்கிப்‌ பின்னெழுவதை வழக்கமாக்கிக்‌ கொள்ளக்‌ கூடாது. 31) எண்பது வயதிலும்‌ பெண்ணுக்குரிய மதனபீட இன்பம்‌ நிகழும்‌. 32) கணவனால்‌ எந்த வயதிலும்‌ தன்‌ மனைவியைப்‌ பால்‌ ரீதியாகத்‌ திருப்திப்‌ படுத்த முடியும்‌. 33) தன்னம்பிக்கை உள்ள வரை லிங்கம்‌ சாயாது. லிங்கம்‌ சாயாத வரை ஆண்‌ எடுத்த காரியத்தில்‌ தோற்க மாட்டான்‌. 34) காதற்‌ தசை நார்ப்‌ பயிற்சியை இருவரும்‌ தினம்‌ தவறாமல்‌ செய்யவும்‌. 35) ஆழமான, நீண்ட, ஆசுவாசமான சுவாசம்‌ மிகவும்‌ முக்கியம்‌. 36) துரித ஸ்கலிதம்‌, விந்து முந்துதல்‌ ஆகிய இரண்டின்‌ விரோதி ஆழ்ந்த சுவாசம்‌. 36) மந்திரச்‌ சொல்லைப்‌ பயன்படுத்திய படியே இயங்கப்‌ பழகவும்‌. 37) ஒன்றுக்கு இரண்டு முறை நுணுக்கங்களைப்‌ படித்துக்‌ கொள்ளவும்‌. 38) பெண்ணின்‌ பால்‌ மண்டல படங்களை மனதில்‌ பதித்துக்‌ கொள்ளவும்‌. 39) மது, புகையிலை போன்ற போதைப்‌ பழக்கங்களை விட்டு விட வேண்டும்‌. 40) அதற்குச்‌ செலவளிக்கும்‌ பணத்தை, ஊட்டச்சத்து மிக்க உணவை உட்கொள்ளப்‌ பயன்‌ படுத்த வேண்டும்‌. அதன்‌ மூலம்‌ பாலாற்றலை வளர்த்துக்‌ கொள்வதோடு, கொலைகார நோய்களிருந்தும்‌ தப்பிக்கலாம்‌. ஆயுளையும்‌ அதிகரித்துக்‌ கொள்ளலாம்‌. 41) இன்பத்‌ துய்ப்பு என்பதை ஒரு மணி நேரத்திற்கும்‌ குறைவாக முடித்துக்‌ கொள்ளக்‌ கூடாது. 42) பாலுறவைப்‌ பற்றிக்‌ கீழ்த்தரமாகக்‌ கருதக்‌ கூடாது. 43) பூஜைகளின்‌ போது, வாக்குவாதங்களுக்கு இடமளிக்கக்‌ கூடாது. My WhatsApp number 9944558815

I was seperated an year back I feel like I should get marry soon.. looking for suitable partner and fresh start.

6:43, absolutely right.

Divorce should be normalised. Specially system should be more welcoming towards divorce - it should be more of an individual choice rather than systems pressure to stay together. If two adult person want to stay together they should stay together, also if they don't want to continue further they should have the right to immediately set apart... Why do they need to follow years of processes just to get divorced

Simple formula is that single hand never clap....so stop blaming each other...it is fully mine game .....either by men or by women .. Arrogant , money, society, extramarital and many more.

I was so sad about the man There's no point in staying in a relationship with out compatibility. It just sucks.

going through a divorce after 14 years of a dead marriage…she earns equally well as me but demanding 90 lakhs in the name of my son- pure blackmail !!!

My marriage was on the toss. It was because of her mother-in-law .her mother-in-law i.e. my mother tried to manipulate my life and my wife. My wife was always good but my mother used to back bitch about me to my wife.

I am cheated.Now I am divorced.I have done a great mistake.I cannot stop blaming myself.

Is there a book from which we learn how to become a councillors of the particular type that is mentioned in the video?? I just want to keep it i my shelf.

Quint I'm glad you made this video.

I m also face this face my husband alcoholic and never try to change his behaviors , I m 8 month pregnant and suffer a lot now decided to separate it is very painfull and depressed

PlZ bataye ki jada padhi likhi ladki na ho to divorce ke baad kese bache ke satha rahe.

Why are girls' mothers pushing their daughters to take divorce? Are they better know the boy than his wife (in my case). Ladke pe teeno case dalo, sale ka baap bhi lega talak.

It's difficult for me my mum walked out in Feb 2020. Did not get any support from my family.... my son Imis been manipulated by his father.... not seen my mum for 3 years now. She stays 15 min down the road. Demands for my dad's money etc became a lot.... had me talk issue which was not easy....

How can I connect with them ?

Meri bhi shadi hue, aur nanand, saas ne roj zagade chalu kiye, bad me sasur bhi gali dene laga. Sab log gali dete, marpeet karte, gharse bahar nikal dete. Fir husband bhi unke side hone lage, wo bhi marpeet karne lage, galigaloch karne lage, ghar se bahar nikal dete the. abhi mai divorce ke apply kar rahi hu.

Could u tell me ? If i marry a richman but i loved someone esle. Then i will happy with richman??

Thank you

Thank you you are great

M 30 m married fr 8 years seriously married life is pathetic...u die every single day

Thank you quint fit....

Salt and pepper Hairstyle 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Kese start kare or bache ki padhai likhai kese kare.or wo lady kese eke achha job kare ki apne or apne bache ko thik se rakh sake.pllzzzzzz help.

Please add hindi captions I would like to forward a friend who is also going to through same n it will be good for her to feel she is not alone. But she doesn't know english.

Simply brilliant one.

Divorced people in india are like second hand cars everyone wants to test drive them... But none will bring the car home.. Advocate sanjay punjabi

How can d lady in specs be contacted for counselling?

i did not see a single woman talking on alimony whereas in reality they all must have barked like dogs wept like cats in the court to snatch as much alimony from the guy, oh the tyranny, i really wish these woman stopped lying and pretending, you can see none took responsibility whatsoever.

How is life when you decide not to get married???

No one talked about the extortion of alimony that women do theough divorce proceedings.. all empowerment in that situation goes down the drain and they project a picture of typical abala naari.. complete BS of a video.. too cushy and not realistic..

😭😭😭😭its really hurt

I was never steady in career in terms stability or growth.

I think I am street smart and can sell any idea or explain any thing like a teacher or sales man. My wife loves me and wants me to change. But my mother and wife heart to heart talk will change it. I am not a responsible husband.

Interesting woman were pointing fingers and blaming the man, while the only man just talked introspective without blaming his woman.

Woow they were together for years my brother got divorced in 10 days.... She blamed him for not having sex with her.... Then they demanded an alimony of 65 lakhs rupees...... They went to the police station and gave a complaint stating they gave a dowry of 1 crore rupees.... Luckily our uncle is dgp of police and then the whole scenario has changed.... Their lawyer said he has nothing to do with this case.... So they got scared but still we had to pay them 15 lakh rupees.... I think my brother is the only person who got a divorce without even completing the marriage registration process.... Later after 2 years we took our brother to Thailand and he had sex with Manny girls.... We even recorded him having sex with prostitutes....

Toxic relationship for me... Planning to sign as per her request

I think it should normalise divorce sepration than consider as computation with other marrige actually it is like compjtation and pull down other on divorce

Women ki mrzi hoti h jb chahe divorce mil jata I request everybody agr ldka kisi rishte me nhi rehna chahta to uske pas bhi choice honi chahiye ki wo divorce le ske

Hare krsna.. Divorce ke bad bhi pyar krte hai hum ...aur yhi reason hai ki hum kisi aur ko vo jagah nhi de pate ..vishvas hi ni bachta kisi aur par krne ko

This is just a complaining, cribbing video - very commonplace. Just about everyone talks like this. I am yet to see a video where a divorced person admits they did some wrong things, took some wrong decisions that ended in divorce, and gives advice how not to act/behave in certain situations. Women esp. never give any good advice to their fellow women, just crib, crib, crib...

The old women looks like sanjay leela bansali wearing a wig to me, lol

I'm facing hell in my marriage. I came to see if marriages are the same for everyone these days! I want to die, living only for my child. Living with him only for my child

Well said, other than marriage there r many other stuffs to do in ur life.

There are things unsaid.

Hi all…seeing this vedio..i felt like….i am not actually going through a happy life…nd the reasons and aclly silly…my husband dont like my famly….he dont like me working…i got married 6 mnths ago…nd im just 23 ..everyday im waking up..going to the kitchen…cooking food…nthing special happing ..every day same things are happening…nd im missing that old me….he dont like my family…nd he is an introvert…an extreme introvert…bt he loves me..he cares me…bt nd not going through the life that i dream for….life feels so boring…i kno that im very young…so what should i do??should i divorce or..?when i think of divorce all what comes to my mind is my parents…sibiling…he is a nyc man aclly…bt…i have no much freedm😐😐😐plz hlp me out some one..what decition should i take…

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Really I can feel their pain

Thank you for this ❤️

No psychological, it's only money.

Thank you ❤️

Where there is a "Will", there is a way

Alimony is inhumane and wrong

Nobody should have rights to inflict trauma on You

Would be better if dragging the case for only financial gains leading to bankruptcy of man is also covered

That woman at 3:50 paise ka ghamand

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Jo Bhi Ho Bhai Ka Hairstyle ekdum OP

Never stay in an abusive marriage because the consequences r very bad later children suffer So divorce don't stay with an alcoholic womaniser cheater

Divorced boys' concern nowadays 0:09