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The REAL Reason She Isn't Into YOU (5 Of The BIGGEST Attraction Killers) | Courtney Ryan 

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@rockmyworldmusic
@rockmyworldmusic 3 года назад
1. Needy/ Clingy 1:00 2. Jealousy/ Possessive/ Controlling 3:27 3. Being Too Passive 4:52 4. Not Setting Boundaries 6:00 5. You're Lazy 7:20
@te9591
@te9591 3 года назад
Sounds solid.
@nnnmmmable
@nnnmmmable 3 года назад
Wait being ugly to her wasn't on the list, so this is bullshit.
@b-0220
@b-0220 3 года назад
@@nnnmmmable Also, literally none of these are inherently bad. Having these as turn-offs just goes to show how entitled women are nowadays. Obviously, these things to an extreme are bad. ANYTHING to an extreme is bad. If a partner is anywhere from mild to moderately clingy, jealous, passive, unbounded, or lazy, those are not bad to have. It just means they have a degree of stake and comfort in the relationship. But nah, ALWAYS BE HUSTLING!!! Maaaaaybe a half hour break, because anymore would diminish work flow and quality. What the f*ck is this, a full time career?! Yes! Relationships are work. PARTLY!!!! If a relationship is 80:20 work:play, you ain't doing it right. And the way I see it, at least men, in your ideal relationship, are doing 80:20 work:play. You, Courtney, may think yourself different from the tik tokkers and insta-heaux's, but literally the ONE and ONLY difference is that they're honest about their standards. You sugar coat and put on a mask like this is a f*cking pageant with a masquerade section.
@JayJay-ft9zu
@JayJay-ft9zu 3 года назад
@@b-0220 well said 👍👍👍💯
@JayJay-ft9zu
@JayJay-ft9zu 3 года назад
@@b-0220 I agree 👍
@Novaximus
@Novaximus 3 года назад
"you're gf/bf/ should compliment you....not complete you" Best thing I've heard in a long time. Favorite info from this whole video.
@KriterionBD
@KriterionBD 3 года назад
she didn't mean "compliment" but "complement" with an E. :D
@DankoHidalgo
@DankoHidalgo 3 года назад
Is this person 5 years old? What's up with the spelling?
@Novaximus
@Novaximus 3 года назад
@@DankoHidalgo 45, sue me I'm not a writer
@Novaximus
@Novaximus 3 года назад
and stop exaggerating. There were only two grammar mistakes. Do you have OCD? Stop being such a Nazi.
@SirMysticRob
@SirMysticRob 2 года назад
Tom Cruise is going to be sad his line is nullified now...lol
@sebswede9005
@sebswede9005 3 года назад
5 reasons why she isn't attracted to you: 1. You're not 6'0 tall. 2. You don't make a 6 figure salary. 3. You don't have a 6 pack. 4. You don't have a square jawline. 5. All of the above.
@gregorygant4242
@gregorygant4242 3 года назад
And that makes , 666, get the picture?
@sameerpatel5092
@sameerpatel5092 3 года назад
Sounds like a black pill doomer, try work on and improve yourself bro
@StumpfForFreedom
@StumpfForFreedom 3 года назад
3 Is achievable for everyone. Abs are made in the kitchen.
@briancartwright3255
@briancartwright3255 3 года назад
@@StumpfForFreedom ..abs are made in the gym. EVERY muscle is revealed by 'the kitchen' (how you re-fuel).
@zonacrs
@zonacrs 3 года назад
And she is short, out of shape, crappy job and 3 kids from 3 different dads. At the same time thinks her "list" is perfectly reasonable.
@waynerandles6126
@waynerandles6126 3 года назад
A turn off is a woman bringing up past boy friends, comparing you to them not good for moral, a man has got to lead the way and a good woman will be by your side encouraging each other.
@rickterrance4981
@rickterrance4981 3 года назад
Idk I like hearing about their past relationships. If you know how to sift through their lies and bullshit and figure out what actually went down you can learn a lot about her.
@lietuviserikas
@lietuviserikas 3 года назад
Maybe it’s a turn off for you because you fucked around too much with wrong people Edit: if a girl had a good past she wouldn’t mind speaking about it, but if she has a body count of 50 than it makes sense why you don’t wanna talk about it
@aodh5966
@aodh5966 3 года назад
@@lietuviserikas agreed, I certainly want to know the past of my woman. I know she'll lie and dress it up but I'll be doing the same as well, it's human nature to give the best impression
@johnnythekid4601
@johnnythekid4601 3 года назад
Of course sending even 1 hello text after a date when she doesnt find you attractive will be seen as clingy and needy. Anything an unattractive man says or does will be seen as Clingy and needy. or overcompensating. Let a woman walk all over you if your unattractive your seen as a whimp. Saying no to her when she wants you to do something makes you seem like a big asshole. Its a no win situation for guys who aren't attractive.
@danjenkins21
@danjenkins21 3 года назад
I can relate to that.
@aj2065
@aj2065 3 года назад
You are 5000% correct. Everything this woman spews is all about her thinking of her perfect attractive man over 6 feet tall. Not short unattractive men.
@vklnew9824
@vklnew9824 3 года назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-VNjoc1aOGK4.html
@b-0220
@b-0220 3 года назад
@Mr. Bob Easy, as I agree with everyone here except you, Bob. I live my life. That's how. Volatile, demanding women? Walk away. I work for bare necessities and a leisurely life. Neither of these are much. If a woman demands more work than that. I say "f*ck you, leave." Hypothetically, of course. I'm not tall, buff, or wealthy and sociable enough to garner attention, so I don't really have to deal with all the drama.
@myrkflinn4331
@myrkflinn4331 3 года назад
I know why this happens. Most women grow with prejudice cos of these things. Trigger warning. I have asked some women I'm friends with etc and it's not nothing why they reject: long term goals, fear of getting abused again ( like domestic , etc), women have had too many idiots in their life and they gave up on dating for a long while or would only date guys they met in school cos of trust and easiness.
@AnNguyen-vn4sy
@AnNguyen-vn4sy 3 года назад
Absolutely nuts if you're taking a girl out to a fancy dinner if it's the first date. Guys need to realize that we come together as equal and not to put women on a pedestal. The same way men view women as a PRIZE, we are also a PRIZE to women. Always remember that. Keep killing it Courtney... FIRE! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@cedricvulliez1170
@cedricvulliez1170 3 года назад
Except anything on this list here, is subjective, as well as your comment. A normal restaurant for me will maybe be a fancy one for you or a woman.
@The_Real_Mr._Aziz
@The_Real_Mr._Aziz 3 года назад
Especially if you don't have lots of money cause on the next date she is gonna expect to be taken out to a better and expensive place
@hans9438
@hans9438 3 года назад
@@cedricvulliez1170 Well i get you, but by the “normal” restaurant most people know, what kind of place youre talking about, so its not a big deal. My best dates were always just walks or grabing a drink or two at the end. Theres no need trying too hard to impress, better stay yourself and just go out and to get to know each other and have some fun conversations…Always worked the best for me, natural way.
@cbrown6848
@cbrown6848 3 года назад
Women will purposely make you jealous then say they hate it 😅🤣😅🤣
@ernestturner915
@ernestturner915 3 года назад
Amen
@mujtabaalam5907
@mujtabaalam5907 3 года назад
Take responsibility for your emotions. If she's doing something outside your boundaries, respectfully call it out. Don't get passive-agressive.
@ehrro
@ehrro 3 года назад
Exactly they will play with your emotions just for fun.
@Angelique-m8l
@Angelique-m8l 3 года назад
*Be conventionally unattractive *Be below average "Down there" *Be low on income *Be a loner/outcast/misfit in any social setting *Be passive,shy AKA [DOORMAT] I'm telling it like it is
@MasculineDevelopment
@MasculineDevelopment 3 года назад
#3 is a big one. Being able to recognize opportunities to lead or be dominant is a great skill to have. If you're with a feminine woman she'll naturally present these opportunities to you whether she's conscious of it or not. It's your job to recognize and capitalize on these situations to maintain the polarizing attraction between the masculine and the feminine.
@FF-bj4nq
@FF-bj4nq 3 года назад
However modern feminism tells you not to be dominant and you never know if the woman you are interested in is a feminist
@nathanpoirier7200
@nathanpoirier7200 3 года назад
Don’t you guys ever get tired of the nonsense of relationships everyone should be able to just be themselves and authentic and be able to find someone who loves them it shouldn’t be this complicated
@christopherfaulkner5821
@christopherfaulkner5821 3 года назад
I mean, it isn’t really that complicated. All the things she mentioned should be common sense, but for one reason or another, for a lot of people, they aren’t. You also have to remember dating is like a job interview, you shouldn’t lie about yourself, but should naturally be able to present your best self and best qualities. You should be able to give them the idea that you’d be a great candidate. If it feels like you have to be someone else, or lie about your “qualifications”, than you either need to improve on certain areas, or realize maybe this job isn’t for you. At the end of the day, it is a dating “market”. Good women have options and so they are going to take the best one they can find...as should you.
@vklnew9824
@vklnew9824 3 года назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-VNjoc1aOGK4.html
@nesalonso76
@nesalonso76 3 года назад
You are absolutely right
@1gregmoreira
@1gregmoreira 3 года назад
Well that would certainly depend on who you are and what your authentic self is.... If your authentic self has poor hygiene, isn’t very motivated, can’t particularly provide any sense of security, isnt particularly assertive, doesn’t take care of yourself, and you don’t seem to have the ambition to change any of these things, then no You can’t expect anyone to be attractive to that. It would actually be nonsense to assume that you shouldn’t consider making changes You can’t just expect someone to love you for who you are, if who you are is a mess. I’m certainly not going to love someone for “who they are” if they don’t possess any of the basic qualities that I expect from a partner I’m going to find someone who has what I’m looking for. The majority of women will do the same. Lastly. You can’t have expectations of others if you have no expectations for yourself. So unless you are willing to date absolutely anyone that comes your way, regardless of who they are ..... it’s kind of important that you make an effort to meet the criteria that others would look for in you
@charliedallachie3539
@charliedallachie3539 3 года назад
@@1gregmoreira yea even if you’re a mess or in a rut. It’s ok. Just not a good idea to actively date before fixing that. For most people those are phases especially if going through a period of depression and shouldn’t be permanent.
@MessageInABottle869
@MessageInABottle869 3 года назад
I dated a girl long time ago who asked me to be jealous because she didn’t think I cared at all. Which was far from the truth, i’m just not the jealous type.
@angellondian7628
@angellondian7628 3 года назад
Toxic
@FGj-xj7rd
@FGj-xj7rd 3 года назад
Dude what the fuck...
@legendbtv
@legendbtv 3 года назад
@@FGj-xj7rd 😂😂😂😂 IKR
@josephstevens9888
@josephstevens9888 3 года назад
I dated a very emotionally needy woman - it was exhausting. I ended that relationship and moved on to a more mature person. Good video Courtney - very wise content!
@franciscocolin2008
@franciscocolin2008 3 года назад
Yup I broke up with a girl like that on a Sunday morning. She called me at 5:30am to invite me for Sunday Brunch and I was like you could call me at 10am and I still show up. Ugh! She did it a few times.
@brock3010
@brock3010 3 года назад
Some of my #1 attraction killers is a girl who turns out to be fake, dishonest and has a history of cheating...
@DTraiN5795
@DTraiN5795 3 года назад
Yeah according to most that never happens at all
@GEORGIOARCADE
@GEORGIOARCADE 3 года назад
Just great, now when I'm with a girl and getting to know her; imma be wondering did Courtney warn about this Haha 😄 I'll be honest with you, i was very clingy in my younger years of dating/relationships because of past relationship. It's something i had slowly worked through as i became older (im 31) and became more confident and accomplished in my life. I was afraid I'll lose the girl if i didn't do certain things right away. So i prayed about it and now i don't care if i lose her because im not gonna worry about someone who isn't worried about me. I'm gonna make sure I'm happy with or without her. I don't mind a lil neediness from a girl but she has to bring peace to my life too to balance it out. I think guys doing too much too soon can hurt their chances. If a girl ignores you; don't double text or call to chase her. Anyways thanks for helping me becoming a better me each video Courtney 😊🙌♥️ Be blessed
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 года назад
A lot of us go through that so you’re definitely not alone! 😂 thank you for being here, Georgio! Always love your comments! ❤️
@jleano609
@jleano609 3 года назад
Yep, all men have to learn this. I cringe now at how needy and over-giving I was in early relationships. Largely it came from a scarcity mindset and blue-pill conditioning, as well as just youthful naivety. When those relationships ended I took the loss and LEARNT.
@GEORGIOARCADE
@GEORGIOARCADE 3 года назад
@@jleano609 Aye that's what's up! I'm glad you was able to snap out of that evil matrix and become a better you. For it was definitely not knowing my self worth.
@jleano609
@jleano609 3 года назад
@@christopherfaulkner8514 100%. Never bitch and moan about women. Accept the realities of dating and take charge.
@ryantucker2166
@ryantucker2166 3 года назад
@@CourtneyRyan Remember this: the less F**** you give the more F**** you get. (Me, Today)
@MafiaMTGA
@MafiaMTGA 3 года назад
Doesn't matter how confident I am or not clingy, cannot even get a women to go out anywhere these days lol.
@WhiteLivesMatterPL
@WhiteLivesMatterPL 3 года назад
Win a lottery. That will change.
@MafiaMTGA
@MafiaMTGA 3 года назад
@@WhiteLivesMatterPL Money not an issue, i just live broke :D
@eversunnyguy
@eversunnyguy 3 года назад
I was clingy in the last relationship and it backfired. What you say is absolutely true!. Neediness translates to Jealousy. The key to let go out of neediness and allow others to have their own responses.
@PRdude
@PRdude 3 года назад
A few attraction killers that stand out in my mind right now: -pretty much everything is a race or gender issue with her -women who chronically make comments to the effect of "men ain't crap" -women who trivialize men's issues and think women's issues are more important. I'm not saying women's issues aren't valid though, because I believe they are, and I think men should keep them in mind too. -underestimating men by thinking that all we care about is having our sexual needs fulfilled to be content and happy. That's it for now. I don't know how many others can relate, but these are things I've personally seen.
@TheJpyne518
@TheJpyne518 3 года назад
yep, liberal women. waste of time
@hiedinichols3310
@hiedinichols3310 3 года назад
@@TheJpyne518 your generalizations/assumptions are a turn-off
@slightlyfavored4528
@slightlyfavored4528 3 года назад
it's great we don't have any of that race/gender bs in Russia
@slightlyfavored4528
@slightlyfavored4528 3 года назад
@@hiedinichols3310 Are you a liberal woman? Or a white knight?
@sinistergrinch
@sinistergrinch 3 года назад
@@hiedinichols3310 lol nah, statistics make it more likely for certain things to be true. So generalizations can fairly accurately be made that are representative of reality. Most good men don’t want a liberal woman.
@geoffreytester3815
@geoffreytester3815 3 года назад
Thought I’d be the hero and take initiative 😉 FYI 1. Needy or clingy behaviour 2. Jealous and possessive 3. Being too passive 4. Not setting boundaries 5. Your lazy
@rlp4028
@rlp4028 3 года назад
Let's see..... attraction killers 1) When she notices you don't use a skin care routine 2) When she notices you don't wear a watch 3) Checking out her sister 4) Checking out her brother 5) Your cargo shorts 6) Not being subscribed to the Courtney Ryan channel
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 года назад
#6 🥳
@manyirons
@manyirons 3 года назад
@@CourtneyRyan What is the replacement for cargo shorts?
@7860092
@7860092 3 года назад
Lol watch is that important?
@notreallydavid
@notreallydavid 3 года назад
@@manyirons a lilac thong, m
@timothyrobinson2387
@timothyrobinson2387 3 года назад
@@7860092 because if she don't find you attractive, she's thinking, "its time to for you to get the f-ck out her face", I bet.
@trumpetplyr21
@trumpetplyr21 3 года назад
So much wisdom in this video, Courtney! My last girlfriend was quite needy. Spent every day of her spring break with me. It was cool at first, but got old really quick and I lost attraction for her. I told her I needed some space for a few weeks and she did not take it well. We met up two weeks later and I told her we needed to break up. Not two months later, she got together with another guy and got engaged shortly after. That told me she is not comfortable being alone. I think I dodged a bullet 😅
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 года назад
Thank you for sharing this, Sean! Seriously, that always happens! It seems great in the beginning and then it gets realllll old hahaha it’s important to have a life outside of your partner for this very reason. I’d say you dodged a bullet for sure! 😂
@SteinerSE
@SteinerSE 3 года назад
My cousin dated a polish girl that was SUPER jealous and quite toxic. I tried being supportive but also kept telling him to step away and he clearly wasn't happy and had endless fights with her because she thought he was cheating on her. In the end he did step away and met a much nice girl that he's been with ever since.
@stephanea5364
@stephanea5364 3 года назад
So you acted like a girl? «I need some space.» «I told her we need to break up.»
@vklnew9824
@vklnew9824 3 года назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-VNjoc1aOGK4.html
@renemontenegro6143
@renemontenegro6143 3 года назад
Stay with your purpose and women will drop when least expected it happen to me , Ryan
@chrisrobinson8040
@chrisrobinson8040 3 года назад
I feel like Courtney is personally attacking me lol 😅
@simosavustaja9420
@simosavustaja9420 3 года назад
You shouldn't need anything from her If you need her attention, she leaves. If you are jealous, it's turn off If you are not jealous at all, you don't care. If you are too passive, she gets bored If you are not passive at all, your needy. If you don't set boundaries, she doesn't respect you If you set too much boundaries, you are aggressive. If you are too lazy, she leaves If your not lazy at all, she can't keep up with you. Now that you know how to be this ultra masculine leader, you shouldn't settle for a woman who isn't at the same line. So search these traits. -Huge tits, atleast DD -Tiny waist, 15 inches -Face like a supermodel, without makeup -Feminine all the time, doesn't try to lead -Butt and legs no sellulite, tight but not manly tight. -Doesn't want to arque, follows what you say. -Age between 20-25 Now you are equal. Love for you all
@chrisrobinson8040
@chrisrobinson8040 3 года назад
@@simosavustaja9420 my man lol 😂
@DTraiN5795
@DTraiN5795 3 года назад
@@simosavustaja9420 lmao this is the comment of the century
@nobodysperfect06
@nobodysperfect06 3 года назад
Being too passive, that fills me with resentment because it feels like the man has to do everything, whether in terms of starting the relationship or even maintaining the relationship.
@jleano609
@jleano609 3 года назад
Lead the relationship Yes, but do you have to do everything, No. The right woman will match your masculine energy with her feminine energy, which while "softer" is not passive.
@te9591
@te9591 3 года назад
I understand where you're coming from. But try and speak and take more initiative. Be assertive but not an asshole.
@nobodysperfect06
@nobodysperfect06 3 года назад
@@jleano609 it still feels like the man has to do everything because the man is expected to make the first move or Court women or do the asking out, planning and setting up all the dates or going in for the first kiss, be the one to initiate sex
@jleano609
@jleano609 3 года назад
@@nobodysperfect06 yes, that’s what it is to be a leader. But the right woman will make it easy for you, and that dynamic leads to natural dominance of the man and submissiveness of the woman, which is by far the best way for the relationship to proceed. It’s much better and more natural that way, as that’s how both sexes are hard-wired.
@nobodysperfect06
@nobodysperfect06 3 года назад
@@jleano609 a lot of men of you leading as a chore or a burden and I'm no exception but sadly there's no other way unfortunately, yet us guys are supposed to embrace that
@jacobsolliday8017
@jacobsolliday8017 3 года назад
Honestly, weight is a turnoff. To me it speaks to your self control, and character. Next, or sometimes even more, is if she curses a lot. Huge turnoff for me.
@paulbradshaw8878
@paulbradshaw8878 3 года назад
So the moral to the story of true happiness in life’s relationships is balance, moderation, understanding, and compassion, ideal qualities of a confident, self assured successful male. Thank you for bringing this to my attention I believe that is the best way to live your life in the pursuit of happiness. Today I live my life in pursuit of the above reasons , not to be attractive to a female , but to feel good about myself, and be a better person in society. To get outside of myself, and to be of service to another is happiness and inner peace to me, l do not do it to impress anyone, or for the almighty dollar. You have a nice day.
@DanielEarl
@DanielEarl 3 года назад
Tom Cruise saying "you complete me" is one of the most cringe lines ever in my opinion.
@richardw3347
@richardw3347 3 года назад
But u do complete me. 😝
@stoytrivia1126
@stoytrivia1126 3 года назад
and he didn't even need to say it because he had her at hello....even the script itself acknowledges how dumb that line is.
@gregorygant4242
@gregorygant4242 3 года назад
She completes his slow death!!!
@Eyelash85
@Eyelash85 2 года назад
About the "lazy" one, it is kind of annoying when a girl in your life complains you like to spend a full Saturday off, after a hard week of work. Sometimes her response is create problems and task for you to do when you are resting just because she does not like to see you doing nothing for a whole day, when she has being doing less than you for the whole week.
@AlexTrainsChest
@AlexTrainsChest 3 года назад
Agree that extreme jealousy is a turn off for women & men to a certain extent, but disagree that any amount of jealousy or possessiveness is a bad thing. If someone really cares about another person and wants the relationship to be successful, they are going to care about potential opportunities for cheating.
@johnwysocki2445
@johnwysocki2445 3 года назад
If you’re worried about the other person cheating, then that’s a big problem.
@sunhawk1751
@sunhawk1751 3 года назад
Jealousy is the result of feeling that your partner, or your partner's capacity for intimacy, is your property. That doesn't seem healthy to me, even if it's understandable.
@riyanshbiswas
@riyanshbiswas 3 года назад
@@sunhawk1751 Then there will never be a concept of 'partnership' or family, yes intimacy IS your property. Othewise why be together at all? Just fuck and sleep around.
@sunhawk1751
@sunhawk1751 3 года назад
@@riyanshbiswas Partnership does not require ownership or exclusive rights, but you won't know that until you see it, I guess.
@barbarasimoes7403
@barbarasimoes7403 3 года назад
Someone that is with you wants to be with you…you don’t need to be jealous. From both parts, jealousy is a killer for sure, and if you think your partner can cheat on you…than there is a red flag and if they do…they character is failed and it is not your fault.
@bevolkisch4628
@bevolkisch4628 3 года назад
Dude this is TERRIBLE advice, I will tell you one thing if you are a guy and you don't get jealous, that just means you do not even love your girlfriend, dump her. And if she doesn't get jealous of you that is because she is cheating on you behind your back ALREADY! Girls say they don't want you to get jealous because they want keep dating you until she meets a better guy, and if you get jealous that makes it difficult for her to do that. If a girl says you are too clingy it's because she wants to date you for free dinners and gifts, and talk to other guys to try to meet a better guy behind your back, and she can't talk to or meet other guys if you are always around scaring guys from approaching her!
@gregorygant4242
@gregorygant4242 3 года назад
That's easy to answer. But I'm not a loaded top 20% guy , and just an average Joe that's why ! Major attraction killer for modern women , average guys !
@ericv5435
@ericv5435 3 года назад
Exactly! 80-90% of women only go for the top 10% of men. The rest of us are screwed.
@stephanea5364
@stephanea5364 3 года назад
So happy I found my unicorn 20 years ago. All this seems so complicated to me. It was just so natural with her and still is. No superficiality, no complications, just laughs and fun.
@notreallydavid
@notreallydavid 3 года назад
Congratulations, S. Everyone's different, but I'd never sign up for a relationship that was Hard Work - no matter what other things the girl had going for her. Better to be unattached than in a setup like that. All best.
@inline6-b586
@inline6-b586 2 года назад
Lucky bastard! Happy for you🙃
@aj2065
@aj2065 3 года назад
Pay attention closely, she did NOT state WHY her “bf” was jealous. She didn’t state what she was doing to cause this. Pay attention. Do not ever take dating advice from a woman. You will lose every time. ✅✔️☑️💯
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 года назад
He was jealous and insecure because he was cheating on me and lying to me which made him feel guilty and paranoid. There ya go 😇 I said in the video I had given him no reason to be jealous lol
@aj2065
@aj2065 3 года назад
@@CourtneyRyan unsatisfactory answer. None of us can prove that. It’s hear say. You could just be making that up because I made another excellent point. My point still stands firm.
@bito4643
@bito4643 Год назад
I love your videos, but I disagree with your definitions of jealousy and insecurity.
@teddychalgren
@teddychalgren 3 года назад
1. Needy or clingy behavior. Stop that $### now! 2. Jealous and possessive. 3. Being passive. Be dominant (not controlling or aggressive), be a leader. 4. Not setting boundaries. Say NO to things you don't want to do. There is compromise in relationships, there is give and take. 5. Lazy, no effort. ANYTHING worth having takes work.
@kerryjgee
@kerryjgee 2 года назад
This is very very subjective. What I see is, you have either a woman who loves you matter what or one who loves your money.
@danadane2501
@danadane2501 3 года назад
I'm going to have to concur with a good 90 percent of this especially 3 and 4 . Fortunately being dominant and setting boundaries drives a lot of the worst women away .
@lalalolo2611
@lalalolo2611 3 года назад
Could you expand in another video #3 BEING TOO PASSIVE, maybe provide some examples too? I think this gets a lot of "nice guys" out there who are in the "talking" phase with a chick(if that is even a phase at all). But are too scare of creating sexual tension because they don't want to come off as creepy or who "just want 🐱"
@jleano609
@jleano609 3 года назад
Examples? The guy who messages a girl for 2 months without ever asking her on a date or escalating in any other way. Demonstrates Lack of confidence Lack of decisiveness Fear of rejection Fear of sexuality Scarcity mindset I could go on, but basically a whole bunch of low SMV indicators. If a guy is scared of creating sexual tension if nothing else he’s basically being dishonest because guess what, he does want 😺. You might be shocked to learn, she may well want 🍆 and if he doesn’t escalate she’s going to go cold on him.
@davidj.espino2435
@davidj.espino2435 3 года назад
Courtney, do you believe that there's a boring partner, or boy/girlfriend? Is it just that your not compatible? Or is it really a thing? Please do make a video about this, it will really be a big help to a lot of guys, thank you🇵🇭
@Neos4500
@Neos4500 3 года назад
I literally don't know what being dominant even means. The only example from my life that might count as that was when a bunch of my friends were arguing about something, went completely off topic and I cut them all off and not only brought them back on track but also provided a solution.
@jleano609
@jleano609 3 года назад
It means taking leadership in the relationship. It’s a mindset demonstrated through behaviors that show you and not her is your mental point of original. Simple example - asking a girl out 1. I’d like to take you out on Friday night to a restaurant I like. 2. Are you free Friday night? Where would you like to go? Which is the more dominant statement? It’s 1 isn’t it. You are not asking a question, you are stating your position and proposing a concrete plan. She still has to say a simple yes or no but it’s your plan and she knows where she stands. Why is this better? You get what you want. You control the interaction. You have the power. You test her attraction. This is attractive to women. If they like you they want you to take charge, be led by you ultimately submit to you. It’s the root of most women’s sexual attraction to a man. It’s the polarity, male dominance and female submission. If you need more understanding in this matter look up “mynonleatherlife” on RU-vid. Victoria is a great girl who gives a lot of insight into women’s sexual nature. Listen to her talk about female fantasies. Most are rooted in male dominance. Fifty Shades of Grey wasn’t a worldwide phenomenon accidentally. Learn why it was so successful.
@jleano609
@jleano609 3 года назад
@Ksjsjsjs Vshshshshh I can spell though
@kevmacs807
@kevmacs807 3 года назад
Please stop putting “music” in the background of your videos. It’s distracting and annoying. :/. Your channel is great. What you have to say is interesting. Don’t distract from that. :) Thanks
@ryanutley8172
@ryanutley8172 3 года назад
I absolutely admire how she wants whats best for us. Total strangers who come together as a family is something that’s priceless. She’s great role model
@vklnew9824
@vklnew9824 3 года назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-VNjoc1aOGK4.html
@gardengrower7633
@gardengrower7633 3 года назад
Yes and also getting hundreds of thousands of subscribers in the meantime doing it - making revenue. lol.
@solice8844
@solice8844 3 года назад
These types of videos that lists reasons one person doesn’t like another are a waste of time because there are an infinite amount of causes on both sides of the fence. Just strive to be the best person you can be to yourself and others and let everything else fall where they do.
@PlaAwa
@PlaAwa 3 года назад
this is why i prefer staying single. but great content
@fankullah
@fankullah 2 года назад
Biggest attraction killer? One word: Birkenstocks
@good_to_be_gold8
@good_to_be_gold8 3 года назад
If I'm caring shes saids I'm being annoying.. If I don't care and text her then I don't care... I'm in a really confusing relationship lol.
@cbrown6848
@cbrown6848 3 года назад
Good luck finding a female that is never jealous or insecure... good luck with that fantasy 😅🤣😅🤣
@ericv5435
@ericv5435 3 года назад
They always want drama and chaos in their lives.
@b-0220
@b-0220 3 года назад
Hey man, have you seen their standards for men? LOL! An even higher class of fantasy. Full-blown Mary Sue level fantasy.
@neboyshanicolich761
@neboyshanicolich761 3 года назад
What to do if I have endless options with high quality women who orbit around me constantly?
@jleano609
@jleano609 3 года назад
Errr, exercise those options I’m guessing….
@simonyu8838
@simonyu8838 3 года назад
Being dominant/taking the lead is a hard one for a lot of people, especially introverted ones, but it's an important one. At some point you need to come up with date ideas beyond coffee, drinks, or dinner which requires keeping an eye out for opportunities in the form of interesting events or activities going on. It's also important for a social life as someone needs to suggest things to do to hang out with friends. It's also important for your career in many cases as companies tend to value people who spot needs and find a solution for them and instances of doing so are great on a resume. It's not just something for dating, pretty much everyone values this ability
@rizaanjappie
@rizaanjappie 3 года назад
Men. The world does not owe you a thing. You need to be focused on your goal. But it does not mean constant pleasure seeking. Find a higher purpose
@romangoykhman6127
@romangoykhman6127 3 года назад
She's so normal, so rare! Do you have to go to Cleaveland for girls like that?
@tomistenqvist1311
@tomistenqvist1311 3 года назад
I saw this girl.a couple of times and she seemed super interested and then did a quick 180. Now looking back on it i think i'm guilty of #3. Should've went in more boldly but live and learn i won't make that mistake again.
@roberthagedorn290
@roberthagedorn290 3 года назад
#1, #2, #4, and #5 involve the elimination of negative traits. This will require work, but it's work that can be successful with some effort. #3 is different. Leadership in a relationship with a woman does not require eliminating anything. It's inherent and positive. Either a man has it or he doesn't. If he has it, great for him. If he doesn't, he needs to concentrate on his purpose. BTW, Adam does not show leadership with Eve in the Bible story--he just takes the forbidden fruit from her and eats it (Genesis 3:6).
@t.c252
@t.c252 3 года назад
1) Niceness (genuine) 2) Vulnerability 3) Kindness 4) Chivalry-ness 5) And faithful Basically being a genuinely good guy. * some girls are more than happy with the above 5 traits, but bizarrely most women are turned off by what you would think are great qualities in any person, man or woman.
@PlaDyl
@PlaDyl Год назад
You’re pure in heart, Courtney. Thanks for being real and authentic. Keep it up!
@JoeMercersWay
@JoeMercersWay 3 года назад
The girl I used to have a thing has been out of the office for 15 months due to the pandemic. We were emptying our pedestals underneath our desks for an office refurb and I opened hers, found half a dozen open packets of mouldy biscuits and a see-through bottle of water which has grown things inside the bottle that you wouldn't be surprised to find escaping from a Chinese lab. Safe to say it helped me get over her even quicker. There's no point putting a woman on a pedestal when you realise what they leave in theirs!
@ericv5435
@ericv5435 3 года назад
Women just naturally lose attraction for the guy she's with for no reason.
@socrattt
@socrattt 3 года назад
She probably didn't have a strong attraction in the first place.
@jleano609
@jleano609 3 года назад
@@socrattt Exactly, learn how to gauge a woman's attraction in you and be willing to walk if it's not high. Why waste your time otherwise. And if she loses attraction, it's either something you did or something wrong in her underlying character that you should of been screening for and ready for reject her for anyway.
@7860092
@7860092 3 года назад
@Richard Schiffman wht.. i talked to this girl for 2 months and its to gross and weird that girls just can say “im not feeling it anymore” from one day to another
@jleano609
@jleano609 3 года назад
@@7860092 Why would you talk to a girl for 2 months? No dates? Nothing physical?
@ericv5435
@ericv5435 3 года назад
@Richard Schiffman they just respond to emotion rather than logic. They will choose whoever feels right in that moment rather than a longtime boyfriend/husband
@aryanmehtani7032
@aryanmehtani7032 3 года назад
Put time stamps
@simosavustaja9420
@simosavustaja9420 3 года назад
You shouldn't need anything from her If you need her attention, she leaves. If you are jealous, it's turn off If you are not jealous at all, you don't care. If you are too passive, she gets bored If you are not passive at all, your needy. If you don't set boundaries, she doesn't respect you If you set too much boundaries, you are aggressive. If you are too lazy, she leaves If your not lazy at all, she can't keep up with you. Now that you know how to be this ultra masculine leader, you shouldn't settle for a woman who isn't at the same line. So search these traits. -Huge tits, atleast DD -Tiny waist, 15 inches -Face like a supermodel, without makeup -Feminine all the time, doesn't try to lead -Butt and legs no sellulite, tight but not manly tight. -Doesn't want to arque, follows what you say. Now you are equal. Love for you all
@cbrown6848
@cbrown6848 3 года назад
Yeah be yourself but dont tell if yourself has feelings and wants a compliment now and then 😅🤣😅🤣
@thethesaxman23
@thethesaxman23 3 года назад
A HUGE one for me is negativity You could be the most attractive person in the world but if you’re constantly consumed by negativity, it’s a huge turn off! It’s incredibly draining having to always be the positive one in a relationship
@loveoverhate7503
@loveoverhate7503 3 года назад
In the opposite direction the expectation to always be positive.... i get it the world bends for women but its not always cup cakes and unicorns for men. Women need to hear men out sometimes not just have a passive aggressive expectation to throw all the pain in their life under a rug.
@thethesaxman23
@thethesaxman23 3 года назад
@@loveoverhate7503 Absolutely! There needs to be a natural balance of the two, and if it’s not authentic, it really shows
@loveoverhate7503
@loveoverhate7503 3 года назад
@@thethesaxman23 correct appreciate the feed back.
@BrittPearceWatches
@BrittPearceWatches 3 года назад
Courtney babes! You are just GLOOOOWING today! Freaking loved this video!
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 года назад
Thank you love!!! 🥰
@m.c.martin
@m.c.martin 3 года назад
What if you’re shy and don’t talk much in general? Someone who is used to guys talking would think I don’t care. So how do I fix that?
@ernestturner915
@ernestturner915 3 года назад
Start talking..I found that being reserved isn't always the best policy..An intelligent woman will want to hear what you have to say... That's my experience..
@seanautilis
@seanautilis 3 года назад
oh for the love of God....like women are NOT JEALOUS!!!!!!!!!!! THEY ARE INSANELY Jealous so just look to yourself, women...just look to yourself
@nassirmreyoud4415
@nassirmreyoud4415 3 года назад
Generally speaking, if you have enough money, these suddenly no longer apply. But then you're in danger of ending up with a gold digging parasite instead of a partner....
@espoirespoir3710
@espoirespoir3710 3 года назад
I hope the god save you and makes your life happy. You always help the men to improve their self to be real man rather than spend their lifes crying on girls refusing ..
@EvolverWellness
@EvolverWellness 2 года назад
big attraction killers for me: 1) she drinks (alcohol) as a main hobby, 2) she always wears dark colours (like who died??), 3) she’s REALLY into astrology, knows my sign so now she assumes she knows me, 4) nose rings. Ladies, they do that to bulls…5) I HAVE to pay for her meal, 6) lots of tattoos (why ladies, why?? You’re already beautiful!), 7) isn’t disciplined w her diet at all 8) She has a dog. So she’s already partly tied up, her time, her energy, and it’s to… an animal. 9) really vain (lots of posting selfies on social media
@garychildress5242
@garychildress5242 10 месяцев назад
I understand what she's saying about not being needy or clingy, and not needing words of validation and that a man should be confident within himself without outside confirmation. However, how are you supposed to have confidence as a man when all you've heard all your life is "No"? I am current at the tender age of 57 and I have never dated because all I've ever heard from women is no. It's hard to believe in yourself and have confidence when all you've seen and heard from women is rejection! My younger brother (who's had more success with women than any guy I've ever known) is horribly insecure. I have absolutely no idea why he feels this way considering his track record. However, he was still able to get the girls despite all the negativity and self doubt he was putting out there. Lack of confidence has always been my biggest weakness!
@shoto520
@shoto520 3 года назад
1. Under 6ft 2. No muscles 3. Don’t make 6 figures 4. No square jaw 5. Clingy simp attitude
@PRdude
@PRdude 3 года назад
I recently started following you here. Thanks for all you do.
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 года назад
It’s my pleasure! Thanks for being here 🥰
@aw_shucks17
@aw_shucks17 3 года назад
1. Dancing 1:00 2. Slapboxing 3:27 3. Handstands 4:52 4. Cant tie shoes 6:00 5. Dancing 7:20
@timbarnett3898
@timbarnett3898 3 года назад
Morning after our honeymoon night brand new wife writing at table. I think she answering gift cards, etc, but she's not! She listing her body parts that she's making off limited for me to never touch! Looking back I should have gotten annulment right then an there! She lied throughout our courtship about Not liking to be touched! Can you trust women up to marriage, then can you trust them after married? My personal experiences says, "No"!
@JohnSmith-kn4zd
@JohnSmith-kn4zd 3 года назад
I only do coffee dates (or smaller things along those lines, ex walking through the park or a museum) for the first few dates. Especially if you meet online. Reason being, you don't even know them IRL. There's a high risk it won't work out and you will be ghosted. So something small / cheap, than can last as short or long as you want it too, and you two are entirely focused on eachother (not eating or anything else) is perfect. Other types of dates only come down the road when you two have gotten past all of the stuff at the beginning.
@ky5797
@ky5797 3 года назад
I'm a girl and there's this one guy. He has amazing personallity, is good looking and i vibe with him very much but i just don't think i like him? He doesn't have any of the reasons in the video but i just can't seem to like him? Could i be asexual? i have been in love before tho so idk. I'm 15 btw and I've always been around boys and usually doesn't have a crush on any of my guy friends but i think this guy likes me so it would make sense for me to like him back? but i don't, not in that way?
@MikhailFederov
@MikhailFederov 3 года назад
True reason #1, you’re not a tall white guy
@stormblazt90
@stormblazt90 3 года назад
Women apparently don't understand that guys get jealous because we know guy's mentality and we know nearly every dude she talks to, specially "friends" and coworkers, are literally waiting like wolves on their chance to fuck them. Most guys do not respect other's relationships, even if they're married. And we know, from past experiences, that those friends and coworkers they told us to not worry about, are literally the first ones they are going to cheat on you with or fuck as soon as the relationship is over.
@zonacrs
@zonacrs 3 года назад
This just in, a LOT of us just don't care anymore. Love is not supposed to be a list of needs and demands. What about our needs? Modern western women have lost the ability to accurately assess what they bring to the table and temper their lists/expectations accordingly. Western women have shown their hand at the poker table of life, and a lot of us men are cashing out and walking away from the table to protect ourselves financially and emotionally.
@ggangpae4520
@ggangpae4520 3 года назад
courtney doesn't bullshit AT ALL and exposes all of the "wannabe masculine feminists" out there. Good for her!
@joseschwartz1830
@joseschwartz1830 Год назад
Yep, Courtney, women need to have their yang on the inside and their yin on the outside; the man, just the opposite. The man's yang is the leader, confident, calm, caring, centered, in control (of himself), and connected. The woman in his life is the only one who can bring his yin to the surface where he becomes one with her; soft and kind dominate his character. That's a brief overview of fifty pages on those two characteristics alone.
@raulmejia2066
@raulmejia2066 2 года назад
Courtney, Hi . Thank U. raul mejia O'regel. City of Surprise, State of Arizona...
@damonestephens8722
@damonestephens8722 3 года назад
Never understood why women have masculine energy in the first place. It’s weird for people to say for me to be feminine my guy has to do this. And it’s crazy how a lot of women are needy or clingy and guys deal with it but a have a guy be clingy it’s a turn off lol. It’s interesting learning about how girls work.
@nothingbettertodo2295
@nothingbettertodo2295 3 года назад
You just need to be born with a chissled jawline guys. It's all about luck of the birth draw. There's not shit you can do to attract a woman without that. Unless you want gold diggers
@S1MPLECAVEMAN
@S1MPLECAVEMAN 3 года назад
So I guess I shouldn't have showed her the shrine I created out of candles,doll parts and barbed wire for her?
@ernestturner915
@ernestturner915 3 года назад
Weird Science??? Lol
@giantproof
@giantproof 3 года назад
Think a lot of guys don't realize that this applies to women as well. The difference is that most quality women won't allow themselves to deteriorate personally to the detriment of their relationships and will maintain themselves as a result. The difference, in other words, is a shifting of priorities (and a lack thereof) as the relationship progresses.
@qnick2345
@qnick2345 3 года назад
Isn't jealousy rooted in the person's sense that the other person may not care enough. And they knkw that means they're unequally invested which leaves them vulnerable to getting hurt. That very same girl who gets annoyed by clingy is clingy herself when she's the one heavily invested and attracted.
@alldayeveryday20able
@alldayeveryday20able 2 года назад
My issue with one dude was that he always had a booger in his nose and his breath stank. I couldn't tell him, so I just broke it off. Please always make sure your breath is fresh and no gold is hanging in your nose.
@honeybadger892
@honeybadger892 3 года назад
Not having a watch
@rickb.341
@rickb.341 3 года назад
bottom line if a guy likes a girl.. he will put in effort... if he doesn't or she's a random off the internet... he won't and girls will think that's lazy etc.
@TheDollarsign180
@TheDollarsign180 3 года назад
Can you please check out “thefearlessman” RU-vid channel he teaches how to connect with women the best and has changed my life dramatically to the point where girls in relationships often want me
@robbyalbrght9226
@robbyalbrght9226 3 года назад
I thought of something with these type of videos, is be okay with still doin some of these things in the video otherwise you’ll probably never act, but be aware and catch when your doing them and aim to do less and over time cut them out completely if you see there a problem
@PimpSolja49
@PimpSolja49 3 года назад
What are some text messages to send to girls to make them chase you sort of speak. I don't mean "playing games", but to make them more interested and want to text you back more??
@Chomper_Womper
@Chomper_Womper 3 года назад
Maybe....just maybe, it's uhhh, personality and/or looks.
@tomasintexas
@tomasintexas 3 года назад
Good stuff but gosh I hated her voice. It was painful to go through the whole video. Then I found out somebody below listed the five items
@sergejstojanovic2518
@sergejstojanovic2518 3 года назад
What do You think about smart watches, are they ok to wear like normal watches ?
@brenthewitt758
@brenthewitt758 3 года назад
I think the bottom line is respect on both sides of the aisle and if the attraction is there then go for it and stop the Jedi mind games
@johnnythekid4601
@johnnythekid4601 3 года назад
Unattractive or disabled men aren't allowed to have opinions on anything either. Any opinion they have will be seen as wrong and bitter. Wrong if its a positive opinion on something and bitter if its a negative opinion on something.
@IbrahimHassan-by8tr
@IbrahimHassan-by8tr 3 года назад
Well done courtney, you always know what you're talking about, but I think you were alittle bit nervous.
@jimtart4271
@jimtart4271 3 года назад
Reason 6# you don't have a Visa platinum card. Disregard the rest, when this is at hand.
@user-do3ss3kn7e
@user-do3ss3kn7e 3 года назад
Are you confusing jealousy and protective, or what's going on here?
@o0oStillWeRiseo0o
@o0oStillWeRiseo0o 3 года назад
2. Jealousy/ Possessive/ Controlling @ 3. Being Too Passive @ WTF? so which one is it? lol
@ArturoGarzaID
@ArturoGarzaID 3 года назад
The number one attraction killer. NO MONEY!!!! lol.
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