The Real Spirit Of Narcissism & Narcissistic Abuse

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The Royal We has helped Millions to escape the grip of narcissistic abuse. Here’s a deeper look into what narcissistic abuse looks like and steps to heal from it:
Narcissistic abuse looks like:
Lack of Empathy: Narcissists often show little to no empathy for others, making it easy for them to manipulate and exploit. Narcissists use various tactics such as gaslighting, love bombing, and devaluation to control and dominate their victims.
Common Tactics Used in Narcissistic Abuse:
Gaslighting: Making the victim doubt their own reality and sanity.
Love Bombing: Showering the victim with excessive attention and affection to gain control.
Devaluation: Undermining the victim’s self-worth through criticism, belittling, and emotional neglect.
Isolation: Cutting the victim off from their support systems to increase dependency on the abuser.
Triangulation: Using others to create jealousy or competition, keeping the victim feeling insecure.
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@mioara8169 Год назад

We don't HATE the narcissist. WE HATE HIS/HER BEHAVIOUR.

@abundantlyclear Год назад

I pray that my ex finds Jesus Christ, as his Savior, almost every night. God said to love your enemies. I don't FEEL love for them, so, I pray for them.

@kittydigins4943 10 месяцев назад

When I was a little girl I would worry myself sick that my mom was going to hell I still do but it made me sick as a child because even though she went to church and told everybody what a great Christian woman she was I could tell their was something very very wrong with her.

@DN-wy3ud Год назад

I suspect there's some kind of spirit. The fact that all narcissists behave in a similar predictable fashion, it's almost like they're all somehow related 🤔

@rooster555555 Год назад

Family of Satan 🙂

@H1tman13 Год назад

Truth

@reesedaniel5835 Год назад

Because they ARE all somehow related....GENEsis 3:15/Psalm 58:3-5 KJV.

@damianlopez7630 Год назад

The Devil was the first narcissist.

@truthofthematter4095 Год назад

Theres a curse that comes with this behavior/action which is the very reason why I will never be involved with a narc

@Foxy21919 Год назад

Murdering spirit! It makes sense, narcissists kill people with words.

@hugmc 11 месяцев назад

Narcissistic people kill with a thousand cuts

@madguruJ Год назад

Narcissists turn that around too and try and make you feel rejected for mistakes or let downs, it’s gaslighting, and they project their shame, maybe in a way we do reject them too because they’re so repulsive

@cml2492 Год назад

I have never thought or heard any pastor preach about Cain this way. But you are just spot on with these phases linked to a narc. Great job, Kevin. Thanks 🙏

@jameslynch8738 Год назад

It's a part, but this is a story that plays many times over the ages. Please pray from all who May become lost in the storm, please pray for us. I will remain among them as long as I am able. Please don't give up.

@christineribone9351 Год назад

@@jameslynch8738 don't pray. You for know what cult god will respond.

@truthfreed7 Год назад

💯

@AbigailJael-tm9of Год назад

Pastors....99.9% are narcs themselves. Their congregations being their narcissistic supply😰. Matthew 23: 8-12But you, do not be called 'Rabbi';(Pastor, Reverend, priest etc etc) for One is your Teacher, the Christ, and you are all brethren. 9 Do not call anyone on earth your father; for One is your Father, He who is in heaven. 10 And do not be called teachers; for One is your Teacher, the Christ. 11 But he who is greatest among you shall be your servant. 12 And whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted. JESUS CHRIST MUST BE OUR ONLY PASTOR!!!

@rwdchannel2901 Год назад

Jesus Christ said the greatest in the kingdom of heaven will live as servant, not as one who's a leader over the group. Most pastors do the opposite of what Jesus Christ said to do. I'm even wondering if Church is supposed to be set up the way it is since it's clearly set up to put the narcissist above Christians and mislead them. I don't think it was meant to be set up where one man stands at a pulpit on Sunday and every Christian just sits way down below the pastor listening. Looking at early accounts of the Church they would have many people in the Church give a speech about something in front of other Christians.

@LeahIsHereNow Год назад

Kevin, it’s Leah from the phone appointment a month or so ago. Just wanted you to know I GOT AWAY and am safe with family. Thanks so much for your support and God bless you! ☮️💟☯️

@MH-en9qc Год назад

Congratulations 🎊

@YtubeUserr Год назад

Well done! But do not let your guard down. They will try their best to get back into your life. Avoid them. Go fully no contact, but be on guard always.

@LuxyFairy Год назад

Yasssss… their memory of your “rejection” is like that of an elephant, never goes away, but they have amnesia when it’s something good you did/said🙄

@damianlopez7630 Год назад

Yasssss rhymes with Jazzzzz. Don't you mean...Yesssss???

@damianlopez7630 Год назад

@@megboesch6297 Yes. That is True. Narcs refuse to take accountability.

@s.shumway3104 Год назад

They are definitely good at keeping score of your wrongdoings even if they are perceived and not real. I could let things go or give my specific person the benefit of the doubt, but they used to literally write down everything to keep track of every time they felt rejected.

@damianlopez7630 Год назад

@@s.shumway3104 I record everything. So the Narcissist is screwed. Lol.

@nataliaturner4845 Год назад

@Meg Boesch sounds like Cain is a chip off the old testament god himself lol

@StillAwakeAwareDiscerning Год назад

Excellent break down, Kevin. I love how the Bible tells what we need to know about narcissism. There is nothing new under the sun.

@toniaparker3543 Год назад

Amen, you better tell it so very true!

@mandycote5662 Год назад

Yes and ALL things are common to man

@lyndagruenwald1949 Год назад

I agree you are right - i listen to everyhing you post and have thanks to the info you put out there ive been no contact with my narcissist since the last half of 2021 - presently i cant afford your sessions but will continue to watch all you videos

@sirena9167 Год назад

Exactly it started with Cain, and the whole world had grown wicked like it is today and is getting worse. That’s why Jesus it would be like the days of Noah. And that’s why they Bible tells us what people will be like lovers of selfs, it is nothing new only difference we have more technology. The Bible was warning us this would come many just don’t see how the two relate until you have experienced narcissistic abuse then things slowly start to come together in understanding. Thanks so much, Kevin because this unlike I’ve heard too even listening to Shaneen Madji.

@PrettyIndependent1 Год назад

@@sirena9167 yes! Him and Shaneen are my two favorites. It makes so much more sense when it’s explained biblically. I started seeing narcissism in the Bible and I got such validation when others did too.

@sirena9167 Год назад

It’s just like when you don’t agree with something a person said and they take it personally and are not able to separate the two.

@Sezfluffy Год назад

Theyre basically a child having a tantrum that the other child got more presents than they did , at which point the mum sits them down and explains different values in the gifts and that noone is more valuable than the other. Then said child doesn't grow out of this and it becomes a monster wanting bigger and better all their lives..they grow a mask to hide the internal hissy fit but as an empath that's what I sense.

@lydiaanderson824 Год назад

This is one of the most profoundly insightful and clear descriptions of narcissism that I have ever encountered. As a survivor of over 30 years of narcissistic abuse in my marriage and a lifetime of it with my family, I have explored narcissism for decades. Thank you for this video.

@rdh53 Год назад

Yes it is!

@johnpoynton4193 Год назад

Yes❤

@saturdayschild8535 Год назад

I agree with you. I’ve always felt Cain embodied “envy is as cruel as the grave.” Then, he took absolutely no responsibility for what he did. He demanded accommodations for his life when God could’ve just taken him out! The arrogance. But God isn’t willing that any should perish…so Cain is left to teach us lessons to live.

@tinalettieri Год назад

"Am I my brother's keeper?" pretty well sums it up.

@OliveWeitzel Год назад

This is my third year of recovery! Mainly I am o.k., BUT sometimes are very sad days inbetween! It feels like crawling out of a dirty filthy pit ...

@remix2die4 Год назад

The more I think about, the more I feel sorry for narcissists. They will spend their whole lives in darkness, angry. I am kind of glad to have gone through it in my teenage years. Now, with this knowledge, I can structure the rest of my life (adult life) accordingly and protect myself against demons. I can and will protect my sanity. I don't even care if other people understand me or not. I don't care if I stand alone in truth. But I'm sure, those nars will meet their match one day and it will hurt. There cannot go 200 km/h in the wrong lane and not get hit.

@reesedaniel5835 Год назад

They will meet their match in the Pit (tormenting demons and eternal fire) for all eternity.

@kiv_daniels Год назад

Please I need help. I’ve been the scapegoat in my family for as long as I can remember. My Aunt especially doesn’t respect in any way and I managed to go no contact for 2 years. In the country where I live the job opportunities are very limited and we’ve been asked to leave in 4 months and now these people who have always shown me disrespect are now claiming they want to help me but I don’t trust them. This is just an opportunity for them to draw me back. My Auntie has a son abroad who she claims wants to come here for me because the job opportunities abroad are vast it has been 5 years since she told me that. Please I need help, anyone that can help me, I need your help. If you can help me get to America, so I can get a good job you’d change my life.

@abundantlyclear Год назад

Just hop on a plane to Mexico, and cross illegally, saying you want asylum. Millions have done it. Then, when you get here, they will treat you better than they treat the Veterans, and the poor here! I am being sarcastic, but, it is true. They give those people free housing, free healthcare, free food, clothing, shoes, smart phones, and more, for breaking the law. Bad guys, here, can commit murder, and get away with it, if you claim to be of a certain political persuasion.

@jogriffiths5766 4 месяца назад

@@reesedaniel5835 No. Surely that's just vengeance?

@SuperBlakes2 Год назад

Yeah. Am And in true narc style, Cain's offering was intentionally sub standard. Abel's offering was the best if his Produce, Abel brought fat portions from some of the firstborn of his stock. Cain already knew his offering wasn't his best or first fruit. So typical. They do something out of pride, then when they feel shame, they blame their brother, who is righteous.

@louisew7697 Год назад

WOW! What an eye opener. So the root is PRIDE.

@Steve197201 Год назад

There's a narcissist in my family tree who has had many falling outs with old friends, and now, he badmouths them behind their back every chance he gets. I guarantee you they most likely told him something he didn't want to hear, and instead of taking the advice, he took it personally, triggering the vindictive element within his personality. He's also the most insecure person I know. You can't tell this guy anything without him getting triggered.

@chrismarley3536 Год назад

The narcissist I've had the misfortune of getting to know a bit both attempted to assassinate my character to ANYONE with a nearby ear to hear their lies, fabrications &/or half-truths. Of course there were things I might've said or done differently that might or might not have lessened the vindictiveness.

@walkingwithheather Год назад

There is most likely more than one, in your family. The one you mentioned, was the obvious one, maybe an overt narc. Probably some Covert floating around too.

@walkingwithheather Год назад

@@megboesch6297 Living that myself right now. Strange how they all stand out when you are educated on them.

@moscowcowboy_13 Год назад

@@megboesch6297 you are not alone

@reesedaniel5835 Год назад

@@user-ie2kh7ng7l Your daughter is the problem. She is projecting her own faults onto you. See Matthew 10:37

@happyhermit7460 Год назад

I've just lost my mother and my older sisters stole all her money , they literally took her to her bank to hand over all her cash and they said there was nothing left . They wouldn't allow me to have a single hat that she wore . I believe they have no guilt because they decided to believe I wasn't blood .

@MrAtomicBulldog Год назад

My sincere condolences for your loss. You are blessed to now know the truth of who your sisters are and can take steps to avoid becoming their victim. Seek the Lord.

@dawnpokemontrainer Год назад

That's tragic on so many levels. I'm so sorry for the loss of your mother. May happy memories of her be plentiful as your mourn, celebrate her life, or whenever you think of her.

@mday3821 Год назад

I once heard a Bishop say, "The first dysfunctional family was Adam & Eve." I agree that was the first of Narcissistism. It makes perfect sense. Thanks, Kevin.

@reesedaniel5835 Год назад

@@Sky-sd2kv Eve was seduced by the Serpent. She agreed to it, he didn't force her. The Serpent was Cain's bio father. Then Adam also "partook of the fruit" (sex with Eve) right after seeing how it was done and produced Abel (heteropaternal twin of Cain).

@user-ht2tc5uj7w 8 месяцев назад

Wow! I've never heard of that. 💜 @@reesedaniel5835

@seeingtheinvisible7439 Год назад

Wow what a great message! i don't feel alone on this anymore !! i have made my research about narcissism in the scriptures! and came to realize that from the beginning there are only two types of people in this world ! there is a Cain or there is an Able.. two seeds.. God did not make things complicated! Amen'!

@seeingtheinvisible7439 Год назад

@@Sky-sd2kv i did !! he is no longer in my life ! thanks to God!

@reesedaniel5835 Год назад

Yes Cain or Abel. The two (GENEtic) seedlines was written about and summed up specifically in GENEsis 3:15 and Psalm 58:3-5 see KJV or NKJV. Cain's offspring are also referred to as "serpents" and "vipers".....because the Serpent was Cain's father.

@suzannetidei9450 Год назад

@@reesedaniel5835 I don't think one can conclude that Cain was the serpent's son from the Bible, since Genesis 4:1 clearly states that Cain was conceived through Adam having relations with Eve. That might be part of extra-Biblical material, but doesn't seem to mesh satisfactorily enough with the Genesis account. How do you reconcile the two? While "eating" can be a euphemism for sexual relations, it isn't always, otherwise we would all starve to death.

@maryam-rx2hu Год назад

Very interesting. A Persian poet Hafez Shiraz says,if you can accept to lose what God wants you to lose ,then you can reach to the point that God wants a real human to reach . I believe these people use anything even evil side so they should be winning person. They should always be the winner,no matter what happens to others. They don't care about honesty and others rights. They can not lose and they should be winner. Thank you Kevin. These lessons from Bible is really interesting and helpful to me.

@AnitaD28 11 месяцев назад

I recently went no contact with a narcissist family group . All I received from them was contempt, blame shifting, constant resentment, devaluation, rivalry and gossip. I’m grateful for your channel. I’m actually beginning to feel happy and free again. God help them all I can say.

@aniabrandt7 Год назад

Lovely explanation. Everything we need we can always find in a Bible

@karenkennedy6331 Год назад

This pattern has continued centuries in dysfunctional families, and these traits ( getting ahead no matter what the cost, thinking of only self, ) are valued in society.The young child of narcissistic has their little beautiful self squashed., not validated for just who you are, have to be in their image or ideal of who you should be.

@terrim9885 Год назад

I had one "friend" who - I'm quite sure - was upset that I didn't put her as the #1 person in my life. I would have done almost anything for her. I had a network of friends before I met her and didn't feel the desire to cut ties with them. She was/has been part of a smear campaign, along with a troubled relative of mine, that could make one's head explode. Very difficult to accept what the blaring sirens and red flags were screaming for many years. I have FINALLY done this. I admit much of the problem has been my own for not acting on what my gut/the Holy Spirit was trying to pound into me.. Oh my! Thank you, Kevin!

@-gordon3817 Год назад

Like most people, I am at a loss for words at the depth of evil that exists in our world today. As a Christian living in the U.S, the only things that give my husband & me hope are: our faith in Jesus Christ & the Bible. John 14:1-8, Jesus says, "Do not let your heart be troubled... Trust in God and also trust in me...." I encourage everyone who is reading this to put your full TRUST in Jesus Christ. He ALONE is our REFUGE & STRENGTH NOT a pastor, politicians, & the like. We are living in the last days and Jesus is coming back soon. Jesus told us that we'll recognize His followers by their fruits. The people that are pastors, leaders, or anyone who claim to follow Christ, can you see Christ in the way they live and speak? Remember that a person can say they believe in Christ and even recite scriptures, but they are worshipping Satan in plain sight and/or behind closed doors. Sometimes the best thing to do with people who are willingly doing evil is to cut off contact or show care for them from a distance. People who are truly repentant & sorry for their actions, it will be evident in the way they speak/treat you & others. And it will be consistent. You shouldn't have to question if someone means you well. If you have to question it, that is usually a sign that they are deceiving you. Matthew 7:15-16 says, "Watch out for false prophets. They come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ferocious wolves. By their fruit, you will know them." Read the Bible for yourselves, so that you will be able to have a deeper relationship with Christ and know His will for your life. Reading the Bible, even if you only know a few things, God will teach you through His Holy Spirit to discern who the false teachers/Christians are and those who are true followers of Christ. 1 Peter 5:8 says, "Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaming lion looking for whom he may devour." We need Christ to help us during these dark times, as He ALONE is ALL POWERFUL🙏 Cry out to Jesus, seek Him, & read the Bible, as all of the darkness that exists today were predicted in the Bible. Matthew 24. Jesus said that during the last days, evil will increase, people will betray one another, hate everything that is good, & more. When Jesus returns, will you be ready to meet Him? Matthew 23:42-44 says, "Therefore keep watch, because you do not know on what day your Lord will return... So you must be ready, because the son of man will come like a thief in the night."

@-gordon3817 Год назад

@terrim9885 Год назад

@@-gordon3817 Yes, Yes, and AMEN, Sister! Yes, I love and pray, and even fast, for these folks, and for others - but mostly behind bomb-proof walls. I don't know if it is doing anything for them, but I know it helps me not to harbor bitterness towards them. Always hopeful! God bless you both!!!

@gailrosenberg48 Год назад

Thank you Kevin! Just sent this video to a friend. You really did put a brand new light on this story of the roots of narcissistic behavior. Everyone has childhood trauma to deal with, but not everyone becomes a narcissist. It is truly a protective mechanism gone wrong and then it seeks to punish others. When God was correcting Cain, as any loving parent will do from time to time, Cain did not receive the correction and change, but went in the opposite direction---he rejected the correction because he felt rejected and then every other bad thing followed. The Lord corrects all whom He loves. That is a word for all of us, to take God's correction as an act of love and then to change our behavior.

@donnafoley2167 Год назад

I just had the displeasure of being in the presence of a narc sociopath.

@jacqepapara7898 Год назад

You are on point ☝️ wow The Lord's Holy Bible 📖 is truly the book of Life and everything we need to know to live peacefully..... is in there xXx We all need to study the Bible, hardout ♥️🌼

@susanmillsaps5826 Год назад

Good word! My observation of this account in scripture as well as those I have dealt with is a lack of humility to be corrected. A lack of submission to the One greater than themselves. If someone is greater or better than them they look at it as a rejection. When in fact, they cannot accept their place and what they were created to be and their role in life. Satan was the same way .. he wanted to be like the Most High instead of doing what He was created to do. Thank you so much for all that you do for this community. You are so appreciated.

@frankmurray222 Год назад

I tend to disagree that Cain is the father of narcissism. Maybe the human father but I'd have to argue that Lucifer is probably the father of, and probably the biggest narcissist to have ever existed.

@reesedaniel5835 Год назад

@@Sky-sd2kv "Consider also that our Lord’s patience brings salvation, just as our beloved brother Paul also wrote you with the wisdom God gave him. He writes this way in all his letters, speaking in them about such matters. Some parts of his letters are hard to understand, which ignorant and unstable people distort, as they do the rest of the Scriptures, to their own destruction.…" 2 Peter 3:15-16

@msliberated3899 Год назад

💯💯This is straight from the Heavenly Father! Keep up the good work. Evil behavior that’s ready to destroy you more so psychologically today

@bettycarmella1127 Год назад

I got out!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽Saturday night I went overnight and cleared my stuff and blocked him. He was beginning to show signs of violence. He’s on sooo many drugs (lsd, ectsacy, etc,etc)😳 I realized this is nothing to play with Before I blocked him I said “As I the Lord live, every knee will bow and every tongue confess to God “ then “I hope you heal”. I pray that he will find Christ, in the meantime I’m so thankful to be free❤ Appreciate your content brother. It’s helping so much 🙏🏽

@teresadvorak6145 Год назад

U are smart Girl! U just saved yourself from a whole lot of crap. Sending good vibes to your new life. Now u can have some fun 😉😏 ❤💙💜

@Maria-cd5bz Год назад

Brilliant explanation👏 💯🎯 Mask, destruction, denial and victimhood. Envy is a form of hatred and there is where the destruction stems from.... people devoid of love...love to self and others...

@balanced4harvest552 Год назад

Maria, Yes, envy, victimhood, and lot's of anger! I escaped 34 year's of that and got entangled with what I thought was a heaven sent partner, now 12 year's later and 4 year's apart, it was always obvious they both thought the planet rotates around their being! You could perform standing on your head, and it's never good enough, because they want to crush your head, cause it to implode with the verbal abuse, that I could never fathom or even think of saying to a being we allegedly love! They are definitely agents of the demonic realm!

@annamariaricci2146 Год назад

They absolutely deserve to go through to what they did to others!! 👍👍👍

@reesedaniel5835 Год назад

They probably never will in this life, but one second after they die, they will get it WAY worse than any of us ever did and it will be ETERNAL.❤‍🔥🔥😈❤‍🔥🔥👹

@annamariaricci2146 Год назад

@@reesedaniel5835 Yes but for the victims it would be far more better to see them pay in this life!! Don t get me wrong I m not talking about revenge but seeing them live their life and get away with everything they do or even mocking the victims is not easy!!! 🤔

@enduringhope6859 Год назад

God's word says..."Whatsoever (good or bad) you mete (give) out will be meted (given) back to you." It's a spiritual law of 'what goes around comes around'.

@legacybuilders5557 Год назад

Excellent example! Thanks for the video❤

@rajmars Год назад

Beautiful explanation. Complex Narcissism made simple..

@ruthstolz7127 Год назад

This describes my sister perfectly. She held a grudge against my late husband for close to 30 years. She masked herself and refused to visit him right before he died. She finally admitted it then said she didn't say that! I'm no contact with her and the other toxic "family".

@reesedaniel5835 Год назад

@@Sky-sd2kv The narc usually won't go through that dark night of the soul until they are weeping and gnashing their teeth on the way to hell. They just kick the bucket down the road their entire lives by projecting their junk onto others and abusing others.

@MadammeStyLish Год назад

When I tell you this was the single most POWERFUL video on Narcissism I have HAVE EVER had the pleasure to see? My GOD!!!!!!! This is soooooooo accurate and gives me such relief to know what to pray!!!! “We fight NOT against flesh and blood, BUT AGAINST PRINCIPALITIES!” Sheeeeeeesh!!! Started up a whole praise session!!! Thank you Most High for clarity!

@kellywalsh4596 Год назад

Thank you for explaining this through the bible. In my experience jealousy has been very prevalent in a narcissistic friendship. It’s too bad but better to find out the earliest possible

@carolcastellaw6633 Год назад

I also believe that that spirit feeds off th power of watching and producing th pain in their choosen victim s ..th more power you consume.. th more you want.. 😔that's why you have to walk away

@Jane88818 Год назад

This is amazing that this vid was in my recommended this morning! I woke up with a strong urge to look up the royal we after I’d been going through trying to understand why my twin had been abusive towards me all my life, causing me chronic illness and even trying to murder me ... thank you so much

@Linda-ki5xh Год назад

Jane888.. we grow up thinking wouldn't it be lovely having a twin. This is a wakeup, and can't imagine what you went through as must be near impossible escaping a twin. Talk about the floor disappearing under your feet! I do hope you are on the healing path, that you are feeling comfort from Kevin and the royalwe family. Thank you for sharing

@iopakayalo3459 Год назад

Stay strong. Sending you love and prayers. 🙏💕

@-gordon3817 Год назад

Like most people, I am at a loss for words at the depth of evil that exists in our world today. As a Christian living in the U.S, the only things that give my husband & me hope are: our faith in Jesus Christ & the Bible. John 14:1-8, Jesus says, "Do not let your heart be troubled... Trust in God and also trust in me...." I encourage everyone who is reading this to put your full TRUST in Jesus Christ. He ALONE is our REFUGE & STRENGTH NOT a pastor, politicians, & the like. We are living in the last days and Jesus is coming back soon. Jesus told us that we'll recognize His followers by their fruits. The people that are pastors, relatives, leaders, doctors, or anyone who claim to follow Christ, can you see Christ in the way they live and speak? Remember that a person can say they believe in Christ and even recite scriptures, but they are worshipping Satan in plain sight/behind closed doors. Sometimes the best thing to do with people who are willingly doing evil is to cut off contact or show care for them from a distance. People who are truly repentant & sorry for their actions, it will be evident in the way they speak/treat you & others. And it will be consistent. You shouldn't have to question if someone means you well. If you have to question it, that is usually a sign that they are deceiving you. Matthew 7:15-16 says, "Watch out for false prophets. They come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ferocious wolves. By their fruit, you will know them." Read the Bible for yourselves, so that you will be able to have a deeper relationship with Christ and know His will for your life. Reading the Bible, even if you only know a few things, God will teach you through His Holy Spirit to discern who the false teachers/Christians are and those who are true followers of Christ. 1 Peter 5:8 says, "Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaming lion looking for whom he may devour." We need Christ to help us during these dark times, as He ALONE is ALL POWERFUL🙏 Cry out to Jesus, seek Him, & read the Bible, as all of the darkness that exists today were predicted in the Bible. Matthew 24. Jesus said that during the last days, evil will increase, people will betray one another, hate everything that is good, & more. When Jesus returns, will you be ready to meet Him? Matthew 23:42-44 says, "Therefore keep watch, because you do not know on what day your Lord will return... So you must be ready, because the son of man will come like a thief in the night."

@MH-en9qc Год назад

Oh geez your twin, I can’t imagine the pain. I get the sister/brother, but a twin that’s a whole different level!! Sorry.

@user-jq8qw1mp6u Год назад

🌹💔❤️ They all have said the same as I would have said.. 😢I’m SO sorry.. its Horrible to be treated this way.. and even when they try to kill you.. PLS, take care of yourself.. Lots of love from scandinavia ❤️

@k.c.sunshine1934 Год назад

I wonder often what it was that set her against me; my first recollection of the beginning of the devalue stage was that I admitted one of my vulnerabilities to her. It's interesting that she managed to turn my vulnerability against me in front of others while, at the same time, she put on the mask of self righteousness.

@MeAwesome Год назад

Wow such a great video, it was very thoughtful thought 👌 you are so right it’s the same behavior.. narcissist never accepts her/his fault, makes more stories and thoughts which not even related to what they have done wrong.. stories makers.. God bless you Sir, great work 👌😊

@sharonclarke1876 Год назад

That was one of the best explanation of narcissistic behavior. My sisters are the narcissists in my life and you described their behavior exactly. Thank you 😊 💓

@jeansantoro3014 Год назад

Same here....everyone needs a scapegoat in society ...we get blamed for the dysfunctions

@MH-en9qc Год назад

I’ve got a mother, brother, sister and sadly my only child.

@abundantlyclear Год назад

I cut ties with my sisters. They are toxic to me. I am alone, but, I have my Bible, and Jesus! It took five mini strokes, diabetes, and porphyria, and much more, to make me realize, I had to get those toxic people, out of my life.

@missblink4611 Год назад

Thank you so much for this! I’m new to the bible..but have been in this relationship with narcissist for 10 years ..still can’t see the light at the end of tunnel. Gives me hope

@aniabrandt7 Год назад

I do agree with other comment. Best thing to do is to leave the narcissist but is hard as u've been to long u get attached or thinking that u won't find anyone. God is greater than our hearts and your person is looking for u right now but as long us u with the wrong person, u busy not available for right men. And this narcissist that u with is shaking off and trying to get off your crown 👑 off your head. Remember u r Queen and u strong, u can do anything

@abundantlyclear Год назад

You have to go cold turkey. Even if it means moving, changing you phone number, your name, and getting off social media!

@fitrunner1317 Год назад

I will say though, not everyone who faces rejection is a narcissist. Many like myself became a people pleaser and times I felt rejected if “my offering” was rejected. I did take it personally because I was so insecure. I didn’t want to confront in fear of being rejected. I wanted to be loved and accepted. I would never hurt nor make anyone feel bad. So, just because a person feels rejected because their offering was rejected doesn’t make them a narcissist. Right? But I see how many are narcissists and become jealous. My sister was always jealous of me because I got all the attention. And she became a narcissist and for years bullied me - I didn’t know how to stand up for myself and when I did she shut me down. I’m healed now and love her. But I don’t have a close relationship with her and I’ve accepted that and I’m healthy now, we’ll work in progress! So much healthier than I’ve ever been.

@chartydurrant744 Год назад

Fantastic post! I worked for over two decades hi level fashion - i was ALWAYS having fantastic photo shoots 'dropped' (rejected) it was the BEST spiritual education i had - as i knew my shoots were great. Published or not published i knew it was ok....Grundge barers = Narks.

@msliberated3899 Год назад

This is exactly who they are and how they operate step by step! I never really accepted the Jezebel spirit too much but I definitely seen it in Cain but not in as much depth you have discovered! Once again thank you and excellent excellent knowledgeable video.

@dawnpokemontrainer Год назад

Kevin, you nailed it! Wonderful lesson and something my younger self needed to hear years ago. This pattern of behavior and verbal abuse followed by a smear campaign is frightening to experience. And then to be told by the Narc after scorching the earth via a rage rant, “you aren’t the victim here, I am.” It’s toxic and crazy making. Thank you for validating reality and putting it into a Biblical perspective. Bless you and yours.

@Linda-ki5xh Год назад

Dawn Pokémon Trainer. You absolutely nailed it too, in everything you said.

@LeahIsHereNow Год назад

Exactly. The narc I just left ran the gamut from telling me he loved me and showering me with gifts to screaming at me to get out of his house if he got the teeniest bit of resistance (which he said was me being a “smart ass”) to telling me I’d never make anything of myself without him. We’ll see about that as he begged me to stay when I was mid-escape and I know his ego/false self is unraveling like a ball of string now. So glad I got away! Freedom! ☮️💟☯️

@yosmeryjimenez4729 Год назад

I was married to a covert narcissist and I totally agree with everything you said. That’s exactly what I learned and experienced from my situation which by praying and asking God to deliver me from this situation, in his mercy he did. I will always be so thankful 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️

@altaenslin7130 Год назад

AND they don't take responsibility.... NEVER !!!!! EVER.. "IF I killed Abel... it is somebody else fault " .....

@LD__2416 Год назад

Agree 100%. I would also add that the rejection is also seen as a relinquishment of their control over the offering and you taking it. Refusing an offer signifies individual choice/individuality separate from just seeing you as an extension of someone in their orbit. We all know they cannot handle loss of control or a person exhibiting individuality. So in this instance the refusal means they lost both the "control" and the "supply" they needed.

@jamesmcallister9645 Год назад

You 100% nailed it brother. Before my dad passed away 13 years ago he warned me my mother is a control freak ,that was an understatement as my mother is a full blown narcissist, the abuse, manipulation, lies, the list is endless. My mother is now 83 years old has grown more manipulative with the narcissism. As I became born again 27 years ago i couldn't live with the guilt of putting my mother into a nursing home. I moved out several times but was manipulated into coming back. But when all is said and done i learned a lot like putting a stop to arguments as the scriptures declare in James 5:12 Let your 'Yes" be yes ,and your "No " no . ( I can testify to the fact that will stop an argument starting with a narcissist, it starves the narcissist and leaves them stumped. ) Brilliant teaching and video brother, liked, subscribed and shared. Blessings from Ireland in the name of Jesus Christ. ( Sorry I almost forgot to give Glory and praise to God for giving me the strength through the power of the Holy Spirit and know i have become a more mature christain through this living nightmare of a narcissistic relationship, look what Joseph had to endure before God brought him from the prison to the palace, i ain't expecting to end up in a palace but knowing one day i will be set free is enough to fight the good fight and keep the faith through prayer and not give up. Hallelujah)

@enduringhope6859 Год назад

Amen!

@HamletsMill1969 Год назад

Wisdom from the light! So eloquently spoken!! This video is for daily wisdom and wearing the armor of wisdom!

@bfbflower222 Год назад

First of all, there are multiple spirits on a narcissist!! But this is a great comparison!

@evelyncintron7801 Год назад

That's exactly it. How cpmmon it has become that it's blended into society as if it were normal even I've recognized it growing up in hostile emviroment of drinkers. And beared witness even in people with differnt beliefs or different perspectives on politics or religion.

@CrumblyTriscuits Год назад

10:33 you just explained the projection they do to perfection. 👌 It's so enlightening Kevin, thank you. 💜

@gloriacoleman7012 Год назад

One of the main attitudes is entitlement, men think you should go out with them because that's what they want, and when you make it clear you are not interested they get nasty.

@nanaman Год назад

Very powerful message the correlation with narcissistic behavior that Cain used against Able in Genesis 4 of the Bible is a great example! I look forward to hearing more from you thank you so much!

@terrim9885 Год назад

I appreciate your no-nonsense and unique approach to your messages. Thank you, Kevin!

@shamarmiller1281 Год назад

Man this was deep bro. I definitely agree. When you think about crimes where people were lured to their death and blood spilled in the soil ...it's too real

@reesedaniel5835 Год назад

I often find myself wishing that God had destroyed Cain for murdering Abel. That would have ended the seedline of narcissists instantly. I guess he let Cain live and reproduce to teach His own people lessons that we would never have learned otherwise. But still, all the horrific suffering caused by these sub humans makes my skin crawl.

@sherrialford6038 Год назад

Why was kane's ordering rejected? So Narcissists are cowards, liar's, thieves. And it was the offering that was rejected not Kane?! Okay, did you realize that your friend was a Narcissist? I didn't know that my twin was a narcissist until we were 48 yrs old, because I just chocked it up to " That's just Terri" but it's so messed up when you realize you've been surrounded by Narcissists all my life, and I've lost my happiness, True Love, stability, everything because I was to ignorant to know that the people around me really don't care, or love me the way I loved them. Now 63 and I have no one in my life because they just wanted what they could get, they got it and shut the door in my face. I don't understand how family can do that so easily. I have no friends, and I don't want any either. When I was younger I thought it would be sad to die alone, so I made sure that no one would be alone as long as I was there. Lololol and now I'm next in line to go and I'm going to die alone. How sad.

@sloth6247 Год назад

Because he was insincere with bad motives and intentions.

@ComeOut.BeYeSeparate. Год назад

Sherri ~ Your back story sounds exactly like mine... I'm 68, have no family or friends because they were ALL Abusive Narcissists that I Allowed in my life! Kevin has said this many times... "We have been hanging out with people and in places that we did not have any business with" They were not of the same ethical character as in what we as followers of Christ have & value. I believe that our childhood programming from the Abusive Narcissistic environment is what has caused us to stay in toxic situations with family and the "friends" we allowed in to our circle. The devil wanted to Destroy us through them... but... God! Our Heavenly Father has said Enough! And he opened our eyes! And now... we cannot Not see it! We know that we can never return to it even though the loss has been painful... We have to let them go and move forward on the Path our Father, who Loves us so Deeply, has chosen for us. 💕💕💕

@dawnpokemontrainer Год назад

Another 60+ here. I’m so sorry you experienced this and feel alone. It’s a gift to have our eyes opened and to remove those who have abused the s with bad behavior. May you find friends that are wonderful and become your chosen family. May you find joy and peace.

@daynapeterson9033 Год назад

@@megboesch6297 Sounds like my story. 60 here. Family scapegoat. I was the independent kid. Termed difficult because I couldn't be controlled. I walked away 8 mos ago. My narc mom and brother were all I had, but they were always bullies. I learned more about them while my hubby was in the hospital for a long time. These cats were of no support. It often takes a crisis to truly see. their

@Lyrielonwind Год назад

Read the concept of scapegoat and you will understand it. A narcissistic family works like a cult. It's related to human sacrifices. A group doesn't work when there are problems among the members so they project their faults on someone, the innocent one to destroy or be left alone in the dessert. That way, the members of the group get together again. This happens in families, groups, societies, countries. The figure of the scapegoat is what gives sense to History and why it repeats itself since, eventually, there will be more unrest among the members and they will need another scapegoat.

@privateprivate8366 Год назад

I don’t qualify as a narcissist. But, I do understand that people may have the inability to separate rejection of self and the offering, because the idea is that the offering comes from the self. You may also have a recipient, who is intentionally working to triangulate. It can be a lot to ask of the gifter, to separate self and offering, when the recipient is masking their own intentions, especially if they’re a parent and if it is on a continual basis. This may describe my sister’s plight, although she was switched into the golden child role, only recently in life. Where my mother was concerned, perhaps, she was triangulated by life, for lack of a better phrase. Late and I’m sleepy. But, my mother was a Baby Boomer. They, very much, believed that, as long as you put in the work, you were going to get what you wanted in life. Maybe even more. That, if you didn’t get there, that was simply on you. For my mother, there was no accounting for things like social, political, global or other events. After all, from her perspective, as a black woman, she went through the 1960s and came out of it pretty badass. Beautiful (she modeled), smart, talented. As her eldest child, anything I could do, she could do better - until she found out that wasn’t quite true. I’ll note that I’m not as pretty, I’m overweight and I’m not as talented either. But, what she did as a hobby, I did as a career and she became dependent upon my skills. I won’t go any further with that but, in the end, the offering that was all she was, became clobbered by marriage and redirection into that which led to her downfall. Personally, I feel that, other than choosing what ended up to be a wrong path for her, she offered all she could, of herself, in life. What she received, in return, was a complete smack down. She didn’t know where to channel her rage and I looked like the most stable recipient of it. That, too, failed as I left her. This is why I have always felt that, while people speak of there being a god, one things for certain. That there is not fairness. Because we all know of people, who’ve done quite little and, even if by their low bar standards, they are not tortured. They’re quite comfortable. This alone, makes the separation between offering and self, quite murky and unfair to the human race. Because some do quite well and offer neither.

@jordanferguson2254 Год назад

Yeah, one thing life taught me was that it doesn't pay to be good. All the people who I would consider selfish, careless, wicked, they seem to be quite happy and behave as if nothing happened. I stopped believing in karma for this reason. It was just me suffering at the end and having to rebuild, lol. I still don't want to be like them, but I know I'm getting nothing in return for that, as I never have. I'll be okay, though.

@woodhullchick Год назад

Indeed.

@privateprivate8366 Год назад

@@jordanferguson2254 yeah, I don’t believe in karma either. People just keep getting away with things and carry on with their lives, while some enabler whispers in your ear that God’s got this and vengeance isn’t yours. Heck, you won’t even have a nosebleed seat to vengeance, because it probably won’t happen, even once you’re dead and gone. The only “vengeance” I’ve gotten, is that my mother passed, in miserable conditions, before me and that my sister is suffering now. But, I, too, am suffering, because of what my mother began, in the first place. I am so sick of everything that I’m not only an introvert, but have become a misanthropist. I’m also working to leave everything behind to animal charities. Most would openly say, “That’s a waste!” Well, I can think of better ways to waste it…” Animals have been the best, most consistent contributors to my life, while humans have generally been a nightmare, intended or otherwise, in one form or another. Even people I know, who know that I, now, really have no family to leave anything to, because I’ve gone no contact with most, the others I don’t even know and the one I do is likely to pass before me, quite casually offer that I can leave everything to them. Yeah, don’t wait for it.

@reesedaniel5835 Год назад

@@jordanferguson2254 Because sentence against an evil work is not executed speedily, therefore the heart of the sons of men is fully set in them to do evil. Ecclesiastes 8:11

@perciousmatter7001 Год назад

@@jordanferguson2254 you reap what you sow. Karma is real because i have experienced it. When i was younger i wanted to be known and have meaningful connections to others i try to be a good friend to others because i wanted friends. But i was insecure so it was like not my authentic self i tried to show and be an upliftment to others but i wasnt really helping myself and really asking them about their day because i wanted to mean something to them but it wasnt really sincere and was manipulative because i also alot wanted people to look up to me and have followers. So i was trying to be a good person to get others to like me but it was very manipulative and i lied alot. The thing that saved me was when i just oneday decided to just be real and open up and it wasnt easy because i wanted to impress others and get validation and also wanted a friend because i never felt i fitted in school with others and just express myself and talk about how i feel to specific people in my life who gave me the space to do that. And im really thankful for them. I had deep and meaningful conversations i never had with anyone. They werent judging me or criticizing about what i say but were listening and adding their input. And it all started to grow because i wanted to be real and just wanted to be truthful. But like anything i had ups and down with them. But it was easier to tell the truth to them because i felt i had a real friend who cares about what i think and feel and would talk to me and be so open minded and i felt loved and so i was able to trust them and i never really had someone i can trust and talk to. They were also the first ones that let me be opened to the idea of god and jesus christ and i believe he is real and he saved me and i felt that my friends saved me too. They were the friends i met in middleschool. But the others that i tried to manipulate were online when i was trying to make friends. But i eventually stopped talking to all of them. But i recieved my karma in ways like just meeting alot of mean nasty people. I learned that i can actually be in my truth and i dont need to be afraid and that their are people that are for me and im not alone. And that im loved and wanted and appreciated even though i suffered alot from my parents and abuse from bullying that goes in school. And that i have a loving god jesus christ who died for my sins and my angels. But im still learning to take care of myself and believe in myself and have faith. So i wish that anyone who reads this will find something that i say helpful for them. And i dont want them to give up. You are all loved. Dont be afraid to make the first move and be honest and real with others, because its worth it. You are ALWAYS worthy of a loving truthful and meaningful and honest connection with yourself and others. Dont let the few people bring you down. You just need to take a chance and dont let the fear of rejection stop you with that someone you want a deeper connection with or to have a good friend. If you can be honest with you and learn to be okay with being real, you will find others who are like you and you will find those who want to be real with you. Be brave and be truthful. Love truth. Love jesus. And jesus loves you. Dont let society or anyone drain you or put you down with their lies and unreasonable expectations and their abuse. Think positively and believe in you. Try and have good thoughts only! Block out or disregard the negative thoughts. Dont let the devil and demons win. Dont talk down to yourself. I hope you all be healed in jesus name and do the work you need to do to bring yourself out of any negative situation or circumstances. I know you guys are so strong. I love you and i wish you the best always. And i wish you to be the best you can be always. 🙏❤🙂😊😘 You are not a failure or a loser, you are here for a reason, you matter so choose to see it that way. Dont say you dont. Thats a lie. Nothing is random. I dont care if school or others or society based on their expectations tell you your not worth it. Im here to tell you and i hope you listen because YOU ARE WORTH IT. Jesus definitely does. Your angels do too. Dont be scared. Explore and expand your mind. Feel your feelings dont suppress them and experience them. Its gonna be great and beautiful. You will be more than okay 😁. I definitely recommend reading the bible. Especially using the original texts with greek like the greek and english interlinear bible that i recently bought. I trust this version. I dont trust hebrew translation or any other bible. Just greek and english interlinear.

@karenkuske5567 Год назад

Thank you Kevin. You're on fire!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

@trinasandress Год назад

I stopped going to Church after being disappointed with Sunday school. Studying the Bible after so many years without a preacher helps. Cai was definitely the prime example of a narcissist. Thank you Brightest Blessings Trina

@terrim9885 Год назад

I love the way some of these people love to have "a secret" as to why some things are happening in your life - smear campaigns, for example - and tell you things like. "there are just some things we may never understand in life" when you try to bring up some of the nasty things you know they did. These people are like quicksand mixed with tar. Even when you get out of it, it takes a little while to scrape off the sticky residue. (: But it is possible.

@MajinSayon Год назад

These people are more like 💩, and it takes time to wash away the smell once you've touched that.

@dawnpokemontrainer Год назад

"These people are like quicksand mixed with tar..." wrote Terri M. Terri, that's a wonderful analogy.

@21sparrow7 Год назад

Classically taking things personally, having an entitlement mindset, rage from envy, deflection of responsibility, hypocrisy, fear, catastrophizing acting as if one was betrayed when really a routine interaction or routine refusal was done. Very well done correlation of Cain and narcissism here.

@salomierathbone2925 9 месяцев назад

Spot on! She has tried very hard especially these last 30 months! All is true she is at the stage to refuse food, although I keep her house clean because I lost my job and income and the place where I used to stayed.

@mehmettolgataner8878 Год назад

Thank you for this lecture

@mamabear71234 Год назад

Agree 100%. Jealous people will murder.

@blessed7927 Год назад

Kevin, that part you said about fear and projecting is spot on! Love your channel & vids.

@rocketdog7135 Год назад

You are absolutely on point with the Cain / narcissism comparison. I haven't heard it in that context before but you connected all the dots and it makes total sense. Thank you for sharing your insights and helping with healing process through biblical references.

@marymorris6897 Год назад

Kevin, thanks for this great analysis. Something I've been thinking about is that the Bible doesn't use the word "narcissist;" it uses "wicked." A description of wickedness can be found in Genesis 6:5, "every intent of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually."

@kre8504 Год назад

Kevin, have you considered this thought: Narcissism started when Satan was kicked out of Heaven (rejected of God) & Satan took a 1/3 of the angels out of heaven with him. I was going to say it started in the Garden of Eden, where the serpent turned Gods words around through continued lies to cause eve to take of the fruit of Knowledge. It certainly grew & as the saying the fruit doesn’t fall far from the tree: went down to the children of Adam & Eve who denied their sins.

@totorro5859 Год назад

I love how you explained that story! Thank you so much, it never sat right with me the teachings that go around saying that Jezebel and Ahab spirit are behind narcissistic spirit This really reasonated with my spirit

@Corinna_Schuett_GER Год назад

Yes Sure. Jezebel Spirit murders the believer by violating boundaries (her husband), Ahab Spirit the whining toddler getting a temper tantrum, victimizing. Jezebel the malignant, Ahab the covert narcissist.

@reesedaniel5835 Год назад

@@Corinna_Schuett_GER Jezebel and Ahab were spiritual/biological descendants of Cain the father of narcissists..aka also narcissisits. These are just sub types of same category.

@lobsterbisque7567 Год назад

Thank You, Kevin! That was very insightful on a Bible story most christians(Myself included) that think: I've heard this story so many times, what else can I take away from it?' I'm so glad to be proven wrong! I will definitely need to study scripture & reflect on Your lesson, and work harder to apply it to myself from now on! It gives valuable insight into my own outlook and mentality that has plagued me since childhood, which I'm trying to change and grow past so I walk more closely with The Lord. I'm just so tired of being stuck in this cycle of emotional reaction and decision making. IMHO, It's gone on for far too long in my life. And I know I've hurt too many ppl around me thinking and interpreting this way. Thank You again for the valuable insight Kevin, I know The Lord was speaking through You in this video! Praise The Lord for convicting my wicked heart through this video!

@1111lizzard Год назад

Lobster. I am so impressed by your comment and your ability to see that the people who are being described in this video are you!! I believe only God can change a narcissist's thinking. As only God can take addicts out of their addiction. We cannot do this on our own. So amazing to see you admit that you are a narcissist. You are obviously on the road to recovery as admitting this fact is almost impossible for a narc to do. God bless you Lobster. Your heart is being changed by our sweet Lord. He is good!

@kjsfl386 Год назад

That’s exactly what happened to me. He punished me for over two years by filling for divorce in secret two times giving me no reasons then he finally divorced me. Now he calls and texts at least twice a day😮. Playing nice. Paying my bills besides generous alimony a real suck up Hoover, it’s my fault. I need to let it go Thank you Kevin.

@mariasantos317 Год назад

What a wonderful explanation. I seem to be a magnet for narcissists! Will keep educating myself! Thank you so much for this video!!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

@BrujsHauz1979 Год назад

I wrote something about it being connected to Cain 2 years ago thank you for this confirmation

@bwe2272 Год назад

Agreed! Spot on! So can I then conclude that once the rejection of the self's offering(s) is faced and separated from the rejection of self (and this dealt with as well), a narcissist can be healed and transformed into a healthy individual?

@jimmeylelo4694 Год назад

I have not met a pastor speaking so much truth the church need to hear for decades. Such truth, such realities and precision. We praise master Jesus Christ for His work in your life

@kimthomas689 Год назад

I am going through this exact situation with my soon to be ex husband...am at the stage of punishment. He is trying to destroy my life.

@bigdeneen Год назад

Wow! Never thought about Cain in the narcissist aspect. Good insight.

@frau_ic Год назад

If there was such a spirit, for me it could be some kind of female spirit, too. In fact, it kept reminding me of an old female figure who tries to manipulate the more dominant, mostly male figures in her tribe to achieve her satisfaction because she has no other means at hand. ..

@gwendolynwehage6336 Год назад

Most people interpret the actions of others the way they think not the way the other person thinks. The narcissist thinks you are being mean when you do a kind act because if they were doing a kind act it would be to manipulate you.

@lisaart7766 Год назад

I'm under this right now.. This is great that it can be explained through Jesus.. As I'm back in a great relationship with my Lord Jesus Christ again.. Just came accross this by chance.. Great Stuff.. God Bless all. Love from Australia. 🙏🏻💙

@luizamotz6546 Год назад

I agree with everything you said Kevin but I think that the feeling of rejection of self was fueled by on offence of not being good enough, or not offering the right offering, which for a narcissist is a statement that they did something wrong and therefore they are less capable than others.

@MyO-hg9ws 9 месяцев назад

You are the best and have a clear accurate description of narcissism. Your style of communication will help many people. Thank you 💛

@TheRoyalWe 9 месяцев назад

Wow, thank you!

@jatins4966 Год назад

I had been spending some time understanding the spirit behind NPD. Came across many explaining it as the Jezebel spirit. Though no doubt that they carry some traits common to the character of Jezebel, but meditating ( and praying) one night, I felt the dots were not connecting without extrapolation. You hit the nail right on head, Kevin. It is way inline to what you've explained. Keep it up bro!

@tibo5828 Год назад

Whatever "spirit" Jezebel and Cain had driving them, it originated with Lucifer.

@reesedaniel5835 Год назад

Jezebel was plainly a spiritual/genetic descendant of Cain so the "spirit of Jezebel" is just a sub category of narcissism. Cain is the father of all narcissists but their are sub categories and types, Jezebel is one of them.

@mirnamisevic1993 Год назад

I agree! Great explanation!

@davidyeager4617 Год назад

I had to cancel a date with a woman due to work. She was all "understanding" about it. Next day she was rude and hostile. I knew exactly what was going on. I said bye bye baby to her.

@jewishbride5010 Год назад

In accordance with this word and genesis 4, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 I bind to hell every spirit of Cain in my life, the lives of my family, friends, colleagues, neighbours, acquitances, opponents and the body of Christ while binding to hell every lack of freedom from the spirit of Cain, binding to hell being unequally yoked and having any common share with those carrying or causing a spirit of Cainnwhile lacking freedom from the spirit of Cain, in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah!

@heatherpratt1551 Год назад

The only thing I would add is that they are predatory in nature. They seek out potential victims that will be blind to their initial charm, take advantage of them, and then of course destroy, deny, and play the victim.

@mimimerah748 Год назад

Spot on in their inability to separate rejection and self and need for vengeance , jelousy and hatred. The traits been describe right at the begining. The mask caused great confusion and distraction.These toxic spirits come in often attractive packages or real Sweet talkers.

@carolsun5785 Год назад

Secret parnishment is very true. Just leave them if you feel unhappy, coldness, rudeness, distance and lying. You deserve better treatment.

@jans724 Год назад

Interesting talk! Never heard this take on the story, but it's good.

@H1tman13 Год назад

As you get closer to GOD, the demonic narcissist appears. When the demonic narcissist disappears, stay with GOD and they will never reappear. God will never abandon you. #faith

@reesedaniel5835 Год назад

Yeah all the narcs disappeared and then a few years later, horrible colon problems (diverticulitis) took their place. I almost think the narc abuse was better.

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