The Realest Hopecore 

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It's funny, none of us can really describe this feeling that we all have. All we know is that it's there and it's the same for all of us.

I think we’re starting to see a shift in mentality. I think it’d be a good thing if the group mentality turned towards hope

"working jobs we hate to buy shit we don't need" I will always remember that line.

As a reformed doomer, hopers are where it’s at

Stay strong kings, If you’re going thru hell.. keep going.

"Man cannot remake himself without suffering for he is both The marble And the sculptor." -Alexis Carrel

Jesus christ... I bursted into tears when policeman asked what do you need and he said a hug and started crying I felt him. Today I feel really horribly bad so much negative emotions and thought I just wanted to end it. I`m struggling with my depression and looks like it`s going worse again. I don`t have anyone to shear my feeling and this video just helped me. Thank you all and try to survive those horrible days.

“I came into this world by myself, and when I die I’ll be the only one in that coffin” That hit hard 😢

This gave me a good cry. I’ve been working full time and taking night classes in the evening. Homework on the weekends. No time to take care of myself or spend time with those I love. I have to remind myself that it’s temporary and I’m doing it for a better life for my family. Whatever you’re going through, you deserve to know that people are proud of you. So if you’re reading this, keep going. You’re doing such a good job

I love all you guys. For real, I wish u sunshine in ur darkness. Kindness when u feel at ur upmost alone and breaking point. At the strength it takes to hope, and keep on going and walking towards the person u wanna be. Cause I’d like to meet that person. So keep going till you are him. Till you are them. It’ll be worth it. I truly believe that “It can’t all be rain clouds ponyboy. The law of averages says the suns gotta shine eventually on us too. Just keep breathing, please”

I thought I was doing okay, but then Theo said "I'm proud of you", I started to cry.

Damn. I’ve lived my whole life up to this point in almost complete sadness. I said I hated the world but truly I just hated myself. I’m only 14 but I’ve gone through some really tough things, from my parents divorce, bullying, extreme racism, to the newest endeavor, which was being diagnosed with cancer. I think watching this video made me realize that I CAN do this, I am CAPABLE of doing the things that will put me on track for my dreams. And whatever life throws my way, I’ll keep going. Because in the end, it’ll be worth it.

After 7 years of marriage and 2 children, my wife is leaving me. I got to a place of complacency and depression and my marriage suffered. Thankfully, my wife wants to keep things amicable with the children and our relationship, but I need videos/comments likes these to give me the fuel to effect change in my life and wake up from the life I've been living. It's so hard taking care of ourselves, I feel that.

16 minutes of frisson and tears welling up. I recognized pretty much every clip and when they're put together and contextualized like this it just hits like a truck.

That clip of the guy asking the cop for a hug absolutely reduced me to tears. I wish I could give everyone who needs one a hug.

I found out today that a friend who I hadn't talked to in 5 years had died. This video feels really on point. Don't know if we can chalk that up to the algorithm or cosmic harmony. I really needed this.

Been reading many of your comments, all very relatable. A small part of my life I'd like to share if you don't mind. I'm 32, 0 friends & I truly mean that. My mum is the only person who listens and talks to me, my only joy is seeing my dog. It took my 14 years to go back and continue my education in fitness (I got my level 2 in 2010, had to stop to bring Income into my house to provide for my family, its just me and my mum). I no have no kids & no girls is interested in me & I'm absolutely broke, 7k in debt tbh due to having a mental collapse in 2016. Everyday I go through mixed emotions of wanting to try my best to literally throwing in the towel. I'm extremely lost in this world, I know my purpose but I don't know how to get there. All i really want is simple things in life, yet these seem to be impossible to achieve. Il keep trying fellas, 1 day at a time, hope you do too. See you at the finish line fellas, kind regards, phil.

I woke up today with tears down my face because I didn't want to see the sun come up today. For some reason, this video was the first on my recommendations. It helped me get out of bed today. Im afraid of being alone

I don't wanna be based anymore, I just wanna be peaceful

"Believe it or not you've survived 100% of every bad day in your life so far... keep going."

"Treat yourself as if you are someone you are responsible for taking care of" - J.B Peterson

7:09 this hits really hard, it made me cry. My parents were two really fucked up and traumatized people, they were to busy coping with distractions on top of having marital issues to give me the help and attention I needed as a child. It makes it really hard to ask for help from others, even though I could really use it sometimes. I can't express how hard it is to not really have parents as a kid. I won't lose hope though. Keep fighting everyone.

I'm so sorry to all men who feel this way. My boyfriend has gone through a lot in life too and feels like he is not successful enough. It hurts me when he thinks he is worthless coz to me he is such an amazing man, hardworking and determined. I can't make him think like me, but I just trust that my love and support make his every day a less difficult one.

When I was 18 I failed an army medial test and I thought it was the end of my life my one dream was gone. 5 years down the line, I’m just about to start university as a paramedic, if you would have told me that then I would have laughed in your face. Don’t ever ever give up, roll with the punches, fuck if people don’t believe in you, you got yourself one quote that has always stuck with me. “Once you learn to love yourself, you can begin to love others.” Keep strong you beautiful human being, we are still in this fight, let’s make some people smile today!

You know, there is something about when you take a well-deserved break from working to watch this video and you fullscreen it, and with an unbothered mind listen to it fully, it just hits differently. It's beautiful, made me cry. I am happy and grateful I was able to see this. If you are going through tough times just know that tough times never lasts only tough people last. Cheers

I remember as a young teen going through depression. I found hope in ‘faith in humanity’ videos and compilations. It was a wholesome way to restore my hope in this world for myself and for others. Hope continues to ripple through the waves of despair. Sometimes those small ripples are powerful enough to rip through the depths of destruction that surround us. No matter what I will always keep hope in my heart and spread it to others who need it.

For the david goggins one at the VFW to his mother, he said "For not picking me up when I fell. She taught me how to get up when I was knocked down." This, is a lesson we are all learning more and more everyday.

To all the boys in the void, we are here, and we are with you.

Thank you for compiling another perfect example of what it feels like to be a man when no one is there for you but yourself. I appreciate you for this. Salutations from Florida.

You've no idea how bad I needed some of this hope man, I just want to believe it isn't over.

I’m gobsmacked by the timing of this video entering my life. Lately I’ve been feeling anxious with a feeling that it is all over and that the best thing for me to do is end it all for good. I’m 41 unemployed and soon to be homeless. Been single for 7 years. After 41 years of breathing I feel like I am disposable. As I watch the video the pain and frustration exuding from frame to frame hits me. Suddenly I don’t feel so alone. However I wish the pain I feel needn’t be shared. I don’t wish it on anyone. If only my choices mattered. Instead I will go to sleep tonight preying that it will end soon enough

this made me cry a lot, its 1030am before work and i needed this. Thank you, hope the men that keep everything pent up get something from this

To whoever reading this I wish you the very best in life, you deserve it. I'm proud of you and how far you've come, I mean that with my whole heart. No matter what tomorrow brings go out into the world and spread peace and love, for it will come back tenfold. You got this, I believe in you

I can do it. We can do this.

"i could use a hug" gets me everytime.❤

The first real hopecore out there that is not a TikTok mash up. Thanks.

I love that we're starting to see more good men supporting good men. It can be really lonely and hard out here, but if we accept and understand that we've all been in a dark place at one point or another, we can begin to accept ourselves. Mens weakness isn't feeling and sharing their emotions. It's denying you're having those emotions so you become unable to improve yourself. Stay strong guys, and keep focused on your goals. Things will be better than you could ever imagine.

When you discover what they put in our water and food. You become more mad.

Great messages here. Females need to hear this too. Life can be difficult for everyone. Honestly we need to support each other a bit more. Doesn't have to be a massive undertaking to be nice and respectable. A bit of expressing of humanity is fair

"I should say, love is wise, hatred is foolish. In this world, which is getting more and more closely interconnected, we have to learn to tolerate each other, we have to learn to put up with the fact that some people say things that we don’t like. We can only live together in that way-and if we are to live together and not die together-we must learn a kind of charity and a kind of tolerance, which is absolutely vital to the continuation of human life on this planet." - Bertrand Russell 1959

Broke down in the middle of the gym listening to this 😂😢🙏🏽

8:43 is the realest thing I have heard in a while

This video made me cry a lot. I will forever thank all this inspiring people to drag me out of my shithole . Reject weakness, embrace masculinity. I love you all.

damn that cop hugging that guy got me ❤

Gave me the greatest cry I've ever had. I've been feeling like life has just been going on and on and running past me. I'm not depressed or suicidal, there's just that feeling that I can't describe that takes me out of every moment, that voice. I have to tell myself each time that I have so much to live for but this video really helped me take my words in. I hope for everybody watching and reading that your life and potential gets fulfilled to it's best.

Ten years ago when I was at my lowest, I attempted to do it. Somehow survived. I still remember the hopeless feeling, the inability to see myself in the future, an hour from that moment, a day from that moment. In my head, I had already ended it all. The body moved on its own, with no thought in mind. Worst feeling that I never want to feel again. Not fully out of it yet, but I've come far.

I don't know why but I love this stuff it's kind of like going head on into the darkness into your deepest darkest fears just so you can overcome it.

This has honestly been the most positive thing I’ve seen in a while. It made me smile, it relaxed me, and it made my day. Thank you stranger.

I wish I had the mentality and positivity of the guy that was carving wood. He looks content and happy with what he was doing. He seems genuinely happy, I wish him the very best. It kinda makes me happy that he's happy, you know.... Because internally I'm so, so, sooooo fucking miserable....

Something serious is going on in todays men’s mental health and in the youth, there’s been a big shift. Including myself…

Had a really tough day today, watching this video puts things in perspective. Oftentimes I have suicidal ideation. I haven't had it recently but I almost did it again. This definitely helped curb that. Thanks for all that you do and continue to do for all those that subscribe to you. Myself included. Appreciate you bro 🔥 👊

To all my brothers and sisters feeling down you all got this ! You’re loved and you mean something to someone out there carry on💙

As someone who just went through a very traumatic experience with my health. It's really puts things into perspective once you truly understand just how feeble and fleeting life is.

“Man was made a rebel; can rebels be happy?” “For the mystery in man’s being is not only in living but in what one lives for. Without a firm idea of what he lives for a man will not consent to live and will sooner destroy himself than remain on earth even if there is bread all around him.” “I tell you that man has no more tormenting care than to find someone to whom he can hand over as quickly as possible that gift of freedom with which the miserable creature is born.”

My heart goes out to that man that was carving wood, truly a pure soul

These are the videos that make a difference. A lot of these clips I relate to, thank you for taking the time to make this, it's helpful to a lot of people in need.

This is one of the most beutifully edited videos i've ever seen, it's been a while since i came this close from crying. Amazing work i hope everyone can see this video.

Take these 16 minutes to feel your pain and sadness but after work towards getting out of this rut. Limit social media consumption. Don’t feed the sadness, no sad music. No sad movies, RU-vid videos. When you feel down go for the opposite. Walks, motivational videos, music. Work out! They all help out and speak to someone, once you speak about your troubles you take their power away. You owe it for to YOURSELF! Then to everyone else. I hope we all reach a place where we are comfortable with who we are and don’t care about what others think. In the end it’s all on you. What was given to you you had no say in it but NOW you do. Carry the load, share it with others and change your life. Accept everything!

Your videos have had such a big impact on my mindset and I’d wanna thank you for that dawg

To the brothers out there, don’t give up. I believe it’s in the Lord’s hands and good wins, but regardless keep fighting. Do something good.

I needed this brother. Thank you.

made me cry 2 tears, thanks for helping me achieve this by gathering these artworks

2:10 that whole bit made me ball my eyes out

this made me cry...

I was at my lowest point after my wife left me. Went into a downward spiral. Drugs, parties, girls, guys, whatever. I didnt care. I just wanted to escape the pain I was in. It took years. I will never be the same. But I dont want to be that same person I was before anymore. I love who I am and what I have become. I love everyone I meet now. I'm still very jaded. My humour is dark and very inappropriate. But its who I am now. Be yourself. That's all you can be. Peace yall.

The Robert Downey Jr. clip was what made me cry. I related too much to a grown man asking his father to tell him that he loves him, even if it was a lie. My parents got divorced when I was 10 and I've lived with my mother ever since. I don't see my father often, but even if I did, it wouldn't repair the damage that has been done both by life and my older brother who abused me physically and psychologically for years until I garnered the bravery to start fighting back. I've never had anyone to tell me that they're proud of me, to teach me discipline and how to be a man. Now here I am. Twenty years old, still in high-school, way behind in life, no drive or motivation or purpose. My mother is still there for me, but I feel she supports me only partially. She doesn't support my dream of being a soldier, and when I told her of the abuse I'd suffered by the hand of my own brother, she just told me to get over it. I'm alone. I have no one. I do know that I won't let my past and my circumstances define me. Staying in this state isn't an option and I have to fight, I _will_ fight for what I'm willing to suffer for.

I love seeing that we are all in this state, i hope that i can live to see the day that we all join up together and actually do something that would change the way we have been living

i am so proud of us.

I am glad I came across this video; I needed it. Thank you

Got this recommended to me randomly and watched it. I needed it. It’s good to remember your emotions and keep going, you deserve it.

this video has really made an impact on me, i hope you continue to produce more like it, thank you for your hard work!

Keep going dude, you’re changing & saving lives 💖

I woke up the other day and decided to change my life. Im running a half marathon in march and got a new job. I’m dedicated to being the best person I can be now. Good luck to all you x

“Is there anything I can do to help?” “Can I get a hug.” Made me tear up.

Whoever put this together paints with a very keen broad stroke and the kind of insight we need right now.

You're just enough and doing a great job being here with us all. I love you man

This hurt me in the best way possible. I needed this. Thank you.

“You have made us for yourself, O Lord, and our heart is restless until it rests in you.”

I needed this and I didn’t even know it. Thank you. Stay safe guys. Stay strong.

This video hits hard, I wish all of you men who are struggling nothing but success. Never remove this video!

"All three of us were drowning, and we didn't know how to save each other, but there was an understanding that we were all drowning together"

I didn't know I needed this...Thank you. Subscribed. Take care and God bless. ✝️

This is the REALITY of life guys, you should spend just a bit of time of your life so the rest of your life can be better. You don’t have to go psycho but invest in your life for a while, you wanted to be a brave, intelligent, strong, confident, successful, hardworking, persistent, and you’re being given those challenges every moment. We got this.

This was fucking amazing. So many emotions, so much hope, so much inspiration. All wrapped in a short video. Tears of joy and sadness. Did not expect that at all. Thank you.

Thank you. From the bottom of my heart- thank you. This showed on my homepage when I needed to hear some wise words of hope, because of how much stress and pressure I'm going through rn, and this was it. Once again, thank you (this vid made me cry... Like a lot lol)

When a man breaks down.... you know he's been through some real shit

Hey fellas, remember that you can be and will be the light for someone in their darkest times.

I hope you're doing alright, whoever you are, continue confronting your fears, overcome and get stronger in whatever way is important to you. keep at it king.

I hope you know that these videos are helping countless people, including myself. You are truly helping the most broken people 💕

Just so you know you did it bro. I truly hope you realize that. Life sucks a lot and you aren't alone. Don't give up. It isn't all downhill. You can do it again tomorrow. You aren't alone, you only feel alone

It’s astonishing to realize how unique, yet similar all of our experiences are. Makes ya feel a lil less alone in all of this. Cheers ladies n gentlemen, never stop aiming up! 🎉

Stay strong guys! Love you all!

These videos have meant everything to me right now thanks for compiling them I really appreciate it you’ve helped me so much

I’ve been fighting a long time y’all. The dark spots are fewer with God and the longer you go. Don’t lose hope.

I can’t really put into words why but when that police officer asked that man if he could help him in any way and the man responded, in a voice clearly enveloped by pain and desperation: “I could use a hug” That hit me very hard. Something just so human about the interaction from the man simply needing the embrace of another human at such a tortured state to the officer not skipping a beat in taking him up on it because he, through the shared human experience, could empathize with that pain and wanted to do anything he could to ease his even if only for the moment.

This video made me realize how cold and intentionally isolated ive become. I have hope, i have a veil of security but i also know this veil has a clock on it and its ticking down. As a man, ive watched my life take swings, blows, made recoveries, fell down again, held myself back up, kept my hopes high, feared i was being narcassistic for wanting my own preservation and than tore myself down again to keep the narcassism i feared in check. I also realized just how cut off ive become from my emotions, i spent my entire youth without visible emotions, feeling different and alien, i spent years learning from others about how to act and express emotions, to emulate, to fake. Im at a point in my life again where ive regressed back towards an emotion-defecit. As i dont count emotions i feel for myself in pity or fear, thats not how it should work. Its wrong to have just that. But im stuck in this bind, im stuck in this world. I chose my path i continue to choose my path, even when others are making me choose which direction i go, i have to have some kind of self compass. But im still lost on my own path set about by others. In order to regain my direction i need to completely detach, tear away and become raw and lowly and use that to build pride back. Because as it is right now im living off my success years ago right now and its the only thibg sustaining me. Thats a currency that will fade with time and its value will depreciate to nothing and moreso when you spend it. And ive hade to spend it greatly these past months. As vain as that is. To spend money that isnt real to feel important to have a moments repreive. Its destroying my essence and soul but i see this is the only way. My career is, laughably called, but one none the less, is basically gone, removed of any forward momentum, taken away by lies and deceipt, by malice and held in absence to the high standards of caring, teamwork and ethics i had before and i hope i still have in me. This next month will decide the next 10 years im sure, until the next crisis. This next month, i decide my future.

I needed this... life's just been a never-ending hustle from working overtime for a bullshit pay to them trying to find the time to even exist properly, it's been a huge struggle. Those dark thoughts start creeping up and that despair keeps growing and growing... Thank you for this. I hope everyone sheds these dark moments off of them and I hope to make you all proud one day. Even if I don't know you... Love you guys.

Thanks man. I really needed a good cry. Lots of love from Vancouver

My man at the end of the video oozes genuine happiness. You can feel his aura, even through the interwebs. Humble is a trait we could all use a little more of.