The Reality of a Woman’s Biological Clock 

The war of the sexes is ridiculous. We were made to compliment each other not tear each other down. Women need men and men need women.

I married my wife at 21 she was 20, had our first child two years later. Our other children came along over the next 8 years. We were happily married for 42 years when I lost her to cancer. The best years of my life.

I was a total MORON in my 20s - married a cheater who I refused to have a family with, left him and found my current husband in my 30s decided to try to have ONE baby, Had my 1st at 37, 2nd at 43 and 3rd at 45. Turns out I was really fertile and blessed!!!!! Three incredibly smart, healthy children with NO health or mental issues or developmental issues. All boys. All strong and All being raised in a tight knit family by both a mother and father on a homestead and home schooled. I was given a GIFT by being allowed to be a mother.

I was married at 20, and tried to start a family with my husband when I turned 23. Throughout my 20's & 30's we tried to conceive, we even turned to science, but it didn't work. Finally we gave up, then I got pregnant at 41 & gave birth 5 days after my 42nd birthday. 🎂 I had a natural birth with no epidural and everything went smoothly. My healthy little girl will turn 3 this fall. ❤

My aunt just turned 37 and she’s trying to convince everyone that she looks younger than me I’m 17 😂

I feel so seen in this. I'm a single 25 year old Conservative Christian woman who is really struggling to find someone out there who shares my values and my mission. I think it's easy for older conservatives to tell young conservatives that they should get married as soon as possible, but it's really difficult out here and tempting to compromise on what you really want at times.

I found my husband when I was 34. Had our first baby at 39 and second at 43. While this worked out for me, I don't recommend waiting this long! Getting pregnant at 42 was not easy, and I'm also sad to realize we can never have another child, not because we don't want one, but because I'm just too old now. Love my kids, grateful for my life, just wish I had met my husband sooner.

The sad truth is, women have to constantly choose between two lives, if they have any ambitions at all beyond being a mom. (Men don't because they can always find a young enough woman, so they get some extra years on us to get their career established.) Part of me wishes I started having kids at 25 so I could have more of them and be a full-time mom. But I would never have become as successful in my career if I'd chosen that. So I had kids in my 30s and run a successful company, and still feel like I'm doing two full-time jobs and neither of them well, because there's no shortcuts in parenting. (I guess if you're rich you could hire nannies but then you're not really parenting.) There is no easy answer for women when a society demands the kind of job pace that ours does 😢

Had my first child at 39. No promotion, job title or successful project felt better than when my little girl smiles and says she loves me. Watching her grow and become her own person is more satisfying than anything I've done at work.

The problem is as a society we've lost the purpose of dating. Instead of using the dating process to find a compatible spouse, it's used as a good time until someone 'better' comes along to start the process all over again.

As 29 year old, shaming women for not having a kid by 30 is really not helpful. It just stresses me out. I haven’t found the right person and I’m not sure what I should do about that…. It sucks and makes me very depressed. The constant reminder that I failed, does not help.

I’m 35, almost 36 with my first baby. He’s 6 months old. I had unexplained infertility until I MIRACULOUSLY got pregnant with my husband/soulmate. Of course I wanted babies in my very early twenties but God had different plans for me and that is also okay. I tried for soooo many years to have a baby and regardless of when it happened, I’m just forever thankful that it did.

I’m a man. I married at 24. I was courting, actively looking for a wife. My wife is three years older. We have two, sons and four granddaughters. Our fiftieth anniversary was last June. If I hadn’t been looking for a wife, I doubt I would have found her.

When you attack a person directly instead of attacking their points..... you admit they're right, but you're just upset.

I was told as a teen to wait until I was in my 30s to settle down. Now that I’m 30 this same person is telling me I need to hurry up with the baby making cause I’m practically infertile…. Thanks a lot sis! I’m already married and about to buy a home so crossing my fingers I will have my first baby by 31.

I'm in my mid-thirties. I wanted to be married in my mid twenties. Problem: There is no one out there that worked out so far. I don't want to marry someone that I know will end up in divorce. There are people who don't want children and marriage early on, which is fine. And then they are the unfortunate ones...

Didn’t find my husband until we were 33; I waited for him. Married at 34 and after struggling with recurrent pregnancy loss, we will have our rainbow baby at 37. Don’t lose hope.

I'm a labor and delivery nurse going on 11 years now, and I can tell you that medically when a woman reaches the age of 35 she is at statistically much higher risk of complications relating to pregnancy. Doesn't mean it happens to everyone, but biologically it is still true. So sad that objective facts are shouted down as "misogyny" or "bigotry."

I think another issue is also to afford a child around your 20s. Especially with prices increasing.

Biological clock also depends on genetics, lifestyle, geographical location, and food supply. My moms cousin just had a healthy, happy, beautiful baby and she is 48. My mom had a pregnancy scare at 50 and still hasn’t hit menopause despite being 53 now. I know friends of mine in their early 20s struggling to get pregnant or keep miscarrying. I also have friends who have healthy, happy, beautiful babies in their early 20s. But what I don’t see people talking about enough is men’s sperm count/health and how it contributes to miscarriages and deformities in children.

Why is there always the assumption that women who don't get married/have kids at a younger age is due to climbing a corporate ladder. Maybe they aren't able to find someone. Maybe they never find anyone. I know corporate climbers who are married and those who are not climbing any ladder and remain single/childless.

I graduated college at 22, met my husband at 23 and got married at 28 and then proceeded to have 5 kids. I’m 37. We knew we wanted at least 3 kids and we knew we’d better have them before I turned 35. Are our kids close in age? Yes. Is our house loud? Yes. But we are very happy and love how life turned out.

As a man I think that economy and the system should adjust to the realities of human biology. I see no problem with a woman getting her bachelors by 35 and starting a career at that age. Spending another 20-30 years in the workforce. Her 20's when she is in her biological prime she should have and raise children. Should still be able to start a career, if she so wishes, later in life once the kids are old enough.

I’ve got many women in my church who married in their mid 30’s and have 3-4 healthy children also popping child after child. I go to a church of around 500 people and this is the case for most of them. Yes biology is a reality I agree but God also does miracles period. If you have a desire to be married and you are a God fearing woman with good values, it will happen for you. Just wait, pray, trust God, put yourself out there and trust that God is faithful.

55% of women between the ages of 25-35 are on SSRIs? WTF?!?! That's absolutely insane.

Not everyone who has delayed marriage and kids is a career-driven feminist. I spent a decade curing myself of a severe eating disorder in order to get mentally and physically healthy enough to enjoy life. This is NOT easy to do, especially without the benefit of professional help. It required all my extra energy, making marriage and family an impossibility during this time. Then suddenly I “wake up” feeling that I am 10 years younger than my peers in terms of life experience. I wouldn’t do it differently because otherwise I wouldn’t be here.

Great episode Brett. Glad you took this middle stance, as i do think the common right stance of "You're 24, you better hurry or else," is so harmful. First they rush the young impressionable people into marrying from panic. Then when things in marriage aren't looking so good, they tell them to repair the marriages because "divorce is not an option." Then things keep going down hill, kids come along. Maybe there's abuse or cheating. Finally the marriage ends, and what they hear, often from the same people is, "What took you so long to get out?" Followed by, "Men don't want to date single mothers, FYI." It can be a big mess. Everyone, take your time, but always be working on it.

Brett thank you so much for this balanced take! I am single 24-year old Christian woman (basically a spinster where I'm from) and it's hard to constantly hear about how people need to get married young and start having kids when I deeply desire to be married. I was worried when I saw this title, but I was super encouraged by this video!

Those statistics are terrifying, but not surprising in the least. I’m glad I’ve already found my partner for life.

Let me tell you, the whole “wall” thing got to me. I have one daughter age 1 1/2, and have been trying with my husband for number two. I’m 34, and I was panicking. Luckily I just found out I’m pregnant with baby number 2 😊 just needed a good vitamin and to track my cycle effectively.

As a woman who has wanted to get married and be a sahm since I was 18, I agree with what you said at the beginning. A lot of men have left the dating pool, and now that I'm 25, I'm still waiting. Interestingly, many women from my church who were feminists before they found faith are now married or dating. I don't believe men want what they say they want. Look at all these women stepping down from OF or p**n and already in Christian marriages. If I turn 30 and I'm still single, and I hear men talking about wanting more traditional women, I'll end up in a mental hospital. 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

As a young girl I only heard about bad experiences with men from my female family members.. I did not know that worthy men exist and what's more I can have one of those. It took me a long time to believe that I deserve and there are good men in this world. I had to stop listening to unhappy people even if they are my relatives and think for myself. Later I found many good examples of happy couples and I also became one of them together with my partner. Fingers crossed for all still searching.god bless you

My wife (from the beginning of dating till after we got married) was CONSTANTLY talking about her biological clock. And how we need to start having kids now before her chances go down. She’s only 27, I thought that was plenty young. Up until very recently I had no idea how true it was, and glad we started when we did.

Congrats on the marriage, Brett! Love the work as always!! 🫶🏻

I’m 30 and gen z makes fun of me when I meet them. A lot of the young people are so incredibly immature it surprises me

My wife is 5 years older than me, we met when she was 33. When I seriously began considering marrying her, we had a frank conversation about when to start trying for kids because of all of the science surrounding this issue. Of course, this also meant I had to step up, not only to be a husband and provide in all the ways I ought to, but to prepare to be a father immediately. For a late-20's perpetually single bachelor, that's a pretty hard corner to make. Examining how men play into this discussion, let's remember that men are generally, statistically more immature than women of the same age (let alone older women). Therefore, there's an angle where not only women need to be realistic about what they want and can do, but where men also need to understand and take on the role that's required of them. So absolutely, these topics need to be talked about if there's any hope for serious, healthy romantic relationships that begin at later ages. To anyone wondering, it all worked out great for us; we were both on the same page, she became pregnant after we had been married for a few months (again, that was the reality we were preparing ourselves for, folks), and we now have 2 beautiful kids.

The second best title I have had, well beyond company titles up to & including CEO is when late teen adoptive daughter called me Dad was after grandson who called me 'Ampa came up to me, pulled on my pant leg - motioned me to bend over to his height. Throwing both arm back he yelled out - GRANDPA! When daughter came home he was playing singing Grandpa,Grandpa,Grandpa...Grandpa,Grandpa,Grandpa,Grandpa...Grandpa,Grandpa,Grandpa. She asked- isn't that driving you nuts? No. He has tried for longest time to say that. He is proud of himself 🥰

My dad was 41 and mom was 38 when they had me. I'm the youngest out of 5. They were married over 50 years before my dad passed away.

When my husband and I started dating, we were both liberal. Me, moreso. Now, I'm very conservative and he's center-right. Our values align, and we have two incredible children. Planning on at least one more. God can change our hearts to ensure our folly gets flipped upside-down to allow us to grow the next generation. People can change, thankfully!

I met my husband at 22, we married at 25 and started our family at 30. We have four kids, completely naturally in my 30s and our last at 38. Home births, zero issues or complications.

The problem with trying to avoid red flags is that nowadays EVERYTHING is a red flag. At least, according to TikTok and various youtube videos.

Something that is critical is don’t waste your time in a relationship that will never result in a marriage. It is easy to move in and live with someone who is pleasant but not a spouse.

I agree people need to be better informed on this. Percentage of egg cells stats are a bit misleading - I mean if we include fetal development, a girl has already lost over half of her egg cells *at birth*. The 10% left at 30 is still around 100,000-200,000 for most women, 200-400x more than will develop into eggs and be released. It isn't actually number of egg cells that is the concern for most women, but the hormones that control development and release which tend to be inconsistent and not in full swing until around 20 (so eggs that develop often aren't the best quality compared to what develops at 25) and start becoming inconsistent and not working as well in the mid-to-late 30s, depending on some nutrition, genetic, and other factors. You can have thousands of potential eggs, but without the hormones to develop well and release them, they can't do much. Different factors of women's reproduction 'peak' at different ages and have some variability between individuals and many other health factors including nutrition so there is no one perfect age; however, all other things being equal, the 'prime years' -- defined as with the highest likelihood of of quality wellbeing for mother and child during and after pregnancy, and lowest likelihood for mother and child of pregnancy or childbirth related injuries, disability, or death is 24-34. More important for both - particularly for those who want large families, is waiting 18-24 months between a birth and starting to try for the next child - the more difficult the previous pregnancy, the longer the recommendations. The risks to the mother of having not fully regained the nutritional and physical tax of pregnancy are often ignored. They can be mitigated to an extent for those who want them closer through nutritional blood panels to monitor any potential deficiencies and women's physiotherapists who can monitor for early signs of weakening of core muscles and injuries that can be treated with exercises before they become lifetime disabilities. This is something I wish had been better understood when I was younger when it was just treated as if you're period has returned, everything is okay... it's more complicated than that if we value health of mother and child.

Congratulations on your wedding Brett🎉

I can relax now, because I’ve come to terms with the fact, that I’ll be alone for the rest of my life.

I'm 25 and still single, living in Europe. Conservatives aren't really a thing here, and even my conservative friends aren't big on religion. They're consider themselves conservative because they agree on the right’s immigration policy, but they're not all about traditional values. When I'm upfront with guys about being a Christian and wanting to wait until marriage for intimacy, they often think I'm nuts and disappear. It's scary because I'm not getting any younger, and being a mom is all I've ever wanted. But my friends just don't get it; they act like I have all the time in the world to settle down and start a family. They don't seem to realize the whole ticking biological clock thing. It's frustrating that getting married young and living that whole family life isn't cool anymore.

Four people in my family got married in their early twenties. One has now been divorced twice. One divorced and then came out as gay. The third moved to another city, away from the family for a few years before getting divorced. The fourth is in a horrible, miserable relationship that they don’t know how to get out of due the children involved and the woman having no education or job skills. Those who got married later have successful marriages.

So glad I took the "family" life arc. I didn't find my hubby until I was 25, but we got our 2 kids into the world in the next 5 years. I still had a fulfilling career up to my retirement from the military.

14 year old me wanted to be married and have kids by 21 ~ 18 year old me had been brainwashed into the selfishness of the girl boss era and whiplashed by the “boy crazy” label of people around me into the fear of ever getting into a relationship. I am now almost 30 have never gone on a date and fear I will never find someone. It’s regrettable but I have to live with my decisions and pray that the right man comes along soon.

Ladies, at 25 - 30 you are still highly desirable.

I'm 33, childless, & unmarried. My severe depression has caused me to lose 7 years of the most important years of my life which therefore makes me even more depressed. The 5 years before, I lost as well to drug addiction which is what my depression is linked to. I never wanted kids & it wouldn't have been smart for me to have kids during my addiction or depression but the older I get I do think about what life would be like if I did get married & had kids. I know marriage & kids isn't for everyone but that's what us women are hardwired for.

Something I've been struggling with is the fact that I have a 9 month old baby and when people find oit I'm 21 they always make the comment "oh your just a baby yourself" I feel like this is so discouraging especially for women my age who havnt had their babies yet but are trying or planning on having babies young and that is the response they get.

People need to learn to live with ageing

Sometimes USA sounds weird knowing it's a 1st world country. Here in México all the girls know this info ever since biology in school, all the way to the last semester of their classes before college. It truly feels weird seeing how many people inside the States don't address this as much as it needs to.

Pleasantly surprised- I always expect these videos to lean toward the "Stop being too feminist to settle down! You don't have any eggs left!" side, which is always depressing for those of us ladies who are 30-something and unmarried, but not on purpose out of some selfish ambition or something. Thanks, Brett!

I just don’t understand the point of these videos. Best case scenario it makes people feel bad about where they’re at.

I've told young people that it's better to be lonely because of what you don't have than to be miserable because of what you do have. Choose wisely.

I think your final summary was spot on. Well said! 👏

Had my daughter in December at age 34 and plan on having a large family if we are so lucky! I am SO happy my husband and I waited when we did because we were both absolutely self-absorbed and unprepared in our twenties. I wish we had the chance to start earlier (just wasn't in the cards then) but I certainly hope women don't think they are "too old" to have kids just because they aren't in their twenties. Software engineer and chef turned stay-at-home mom here and I'm the happiest I've ever been!

I had my first at 32, my 2nd at 36. Then I had a "surprise" pregnancy at 45 that ended in miscarriage and another miscarriage at 47.

My husband and I started trying to get pregnant when I was 26 - everyone thought we were too young. I was shocked and terrified when my doctor told me that there was only about 1 12 hour window per month that I could get pregnant and that during that 12 hr window I only had a 33% chance of getting pregnant. When we started trying for our second child at age 29 this reduced to 17%!

I married my husband when I just turned 25... it took over 9 years to finally fall pregnant. I was told that I would never have children and it was a lost cause. It would've been so much easier in my 20s, however... we are so blessed to have 2 beautiful little boys now (2.5yr and 6m), and I couldn't be happier. My body struggled, I will be 37 in June... but it was totally worth it ❤

I feel like so many ppl not dating because everyone is selfish asf! It’s all about me, me , me , me.

Actually, in the past 4 years, there has been a dramatic increase in women in their late 30s, early 40s having children. Doctors are finding out that 35 is no longer the scary age but their mid-40s. It has a lot more to do with the health of the woman than just her age. A 37 year old who takes care of her body is going to have an easier time with pregnancy than a 22 year old who does not take care of her body. I also know a lot of women that struggled with fertility in their 20s and got pregnant really easily in their 30s. I think the chemicals in our food and our air have done more to negatively impact fertility than anything else. I am very concerned about that. I do agree, though, that it is important to focus on finding the right person, not the first person.

My great gran had a baby naturally in her mid 40s. My sister had a very healthy baby at 36. She's senior in her career, married, owns a house and can afford to give him a nice lifestyle. At 38 I don't feel old or care about hitting some misogynistic 'wall'. I have a high paying career, own my own house, have a partner and had no issue finding a date in my mid-late 30s.

Bret I really think you’re such a great catalyst for our generation and the conversations you start up with your video topics are spot on

Ladies, it's called compromise, not settling. Guys do it all the time.

honestly, I give up. Im pushing 30 and I've recently been told my fertility is compromised. I realized too late how much I wanted to be a mom, and even now, it brings me to tears Maybe I can find joy and fulfillment elsewhere in life

Thank you for this content. I’m starting to send these topics to my mother when she asks me why I’m not married. It’s tough to explain that it’s complicated and not from a lack of trying. Needless to say I’m very patient and truly believe in becoming a better person so that when the time comes I’m informed and prepared.

This was the best one I’ve ever seen you do and not just because of the topic but the application and insight was amazing as well as the balancing of the two extremes

Brett: twenties are your child bearing years. Me: 27, struggling to survive and finish college and felling with zero energy to deal with anything more than college, work and church. Ps: God help me, because I don't know what I'm gonna do Edit: I finished the video, thanks for no shaming us single women I was getting scared at the beginning of the video.

When I look at pictures of my mom in her thirties, she looked great. Even after she had me and my brother she looked great. She had me and my brother in her late thirties. She doesn't recommend it, but she met my dad late. Even now in my mom's late fifities, she doesn't look too bad.

I'm 22. At my current age I would never date a man above 30, when there are men in their 20s around me. Sperm quality begins to decline at 30 and at 45, semen value reduces greatly. I don't want to have issues conceiving because I chose a guy over his prime.

My husband found me at 28, got married at 29. Of course, I wish I met him sooner but this was how it was meant to be. I got pregnant right away and I wouldn’t have been as fertile at 20-26 as I am now because in my early twenties I was vegan and underweight. I’m way healthier now. I’m not arguing with the stats but I think fertility is so nuanced. Don’t write a gal off because she’s in her late twenties.

As a man that’s 35 I find women in their 30s very attractive the fact that supposedly they are less fertile doesn’t matter as long as I find someone that love me of course I want to be a dad but if you find that one person that completes you it doesn’t matter to most men

I’m in my 30s and single. I’ve actually been engaged twice. I went on dates and I thought I found my first guy. But, he had been cheating on me the entire time we were together, so I broke it off. He and that girl are still together, unmarried, over 10 years later (I only know because he’s kind of famous on the social media haha) and then the second one, who I genuinely thought was 100% “the one” turned out to be abusive and lied about his actual marital status. So, I just didn’t date at all for a long time. And then when I try to date, it’s impossible and exhausting. Everyone just wants to hook up or just wants to date forever because they don’t want to commit and I have just basically given up. I have VERY limited time left for child bearing, and it just makes me sad. I feel like I let those bad experiences ruin things for me and shut down for so long, that now it’s too late. I wasn’t ever a party girl or anything, but I feel like every man sees me as the same as everyone else- like I’m a whore or something or that there must be something majorly wrong with me. I don’t even know how to online date, and it’s so hard to do things normally because I live in a rural town and I have to go SO far just to try to meet people. But then even if I do, they don’t want to go on dates because I live so far away- even if I offer to meet or whatever. It’s exhausting. And the people pushing the kind of stuff you’re talking about make it so hard for those of us actually trying.

I got married at 24 and had my first baby at 26. We spent five years trying for the second baby and had multiple losses despite no indications of infertility. I am thankful every day that we had kids younger because otherwise I’m not sure I’d be a mom! It is heartbreaking to watch women who want children put their career first because that’s what we’re told to do, only to find out later that they wasted their fertile years working and they can no longer conceive.

I’m a 28 year old guy. After a few relationships that didn’t work out, I’m still trying to find a good woman to share life with. I am trying to trust God and I’ll always prefer to date someone close to my age. If that means I don’t have kids until I’m 35, I’m ok with that. It would mean a lot to me to be with someone with some shared life experience and maturity.

Wow gee thanks for this Brett. I feel so much better not being able to find anyone at my age despite my efforts to approach the guy first and starting a small chat trying to know them 🤷‍♀️

People should have kids earlier than they do now. In addition to the physical difficulties and risks, there is a societal reason. We have a generation of kids that never saw their parents’ struggle. They expect their parents’ middle age lifestyle at 20.

What about the issue of our economy and not being able to afford starting a family. Not everyone wants to raise a baby with government help. That is also why women aren't having families before 30.

I didn't meet my wife until I was 29 and a half. I'm three years older than she is. We didn't marry until just before my 31st birthday. We didn't have kids for seven years. In all we were eventually blessed with four healthy wonderful kids. I am fully aware how atypical it is to have kids that late and just how almost unbelievably fortunate we are. I've told all of them don't wait as long as we did it likely won't go as well for you.

Its just common sense. Men are not in their primes after 30 as well. Peak male fertility is around 25-29 years old. Sperm quality begins to decline at 30.

I’m 36 I’ve been married 18 years and have 5 kids, absolutely no regrets and the great thing is by the time our youngest is an adult we’ll still be young enough to do really fun stuff with our kids and grandkids like an overseas vacation or something like that 🎉

The amount of people in the comment section who thinks the only value a woman has is youth and eggs is sad... we are way more than that...

I took ages to feel ready for a baby, nothing to do with career or anything and I was 34 in 2020 when we decided to try….then the world fell apart and as I’d been on the pill since I was 18 which was masking PCOS I had to get on the list for fertility treatment which took A VERY LONG TIME! I finally got my medication in April 2023 and immediately got pregnant and my daughter is now 4 months old but I’m sad that I lost so much time as I would like a second baby but I’m nearly 38 now so kind of have to rush.

Human women can have children well into their 50s and anybody that says differently obviously doesn’t know what the hell they are talking about.

It's too late- men with anything to lose are avoiding the women desperate for marriage

Coop! This topic you've been covering is fire 🔥

My mother had me when she was 40; my grandmother had her first biological child at 39 (they had previously adopted 2 children because they thought they were unable to have biological kids) & her youngest child at 43; my aunt also had her oldest at 39 & her youngest at 43.

I keep hearing about all these girlbosses that work corporate jobs because they were manipulated into them. Although all the women I know work in restaurants and retail, maybe some are teachers or nurses.

Ok Brett. Time to build your own dating site. We believe in you.

I'm 29 (almost 30) and my boyfriend just broke up with me. While I'm still sad and heartbroken over the breakup, I think it was for the best. He wanted kids, but he never felt the "rush" I did to have them because his mother had him when she was almost 40. So, I would have had to push back my timeline to accommodate his timeline. I'm upset that I'm back at square one when it comes to relationships, but I'm hoping that when I find my future husband, he will want to have kids shortly after getting married (I don't want to wait until I'm 36/37 to have my first child if I can help it).

I had no idea that you loose eggs the older you get. I got married at 33 was totally ready by 25 but I didn’t meet my future spouse and start dating them until I was 31. I agree with this video. Not everyone gets married in their 20s, but I wouldn’t wait just for no reason because you want a girl boss or travel the world or do whatever.

Just want to say thank you Brett. You have helped me so much to find my voice and not be afraid to share my opinions.

I'm 34. Virgin. I don't have a husband yet, but I pray to God I find someone. My dream my entire life is to be a wife and mother. I really hope one day I can have that. I struggle from severe anxiety and depression. I'm working my hardest to be better. I put my faith in God that I will find a man and have the family I've dreamed about. 🙏

Prime meaning most attractive, meaning peak.... How can anyone say that occurs after 30 for women on average.

Im 33. I have a 2.5 year old and an 11 month old and my 3rd baby due in August. Before kids i was a veterinary anaesthetist. I loved my career but honestly being a stay at home mum is the best thing I've ever done

It's a harsh truth that having a baby at 35 is considered a geriatric pregnancy. I feel like if more women knew the reality of their fertility window, they would avoid putting off having a family. It seems like nowadays women are told having a family should be their last priority.

After years of failures, misadventures, and waiting, I’m finally on track to marry a lovely lady this year. On our wedding day I’ll be 38 and she’ll be 33. Hoping and praying we can start having kids right away, cuz we got some serious catching up to do 😅